Fixing Unfixable Problems with Sky Williams [Interview]

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@wonfii4776
@wonfii4776 4 жыл бұрын
These interviews are some of my favorite things you do
@robbytheyogi990
@robbytheyogi990 4 жыл бұрын
Same here. Thank you so much Dr K!
@jcnot9712
@jcnot9712 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t let this distract you from the fact that dunkey beat sky in smash
@jcnot9712
@jcnot9712 4 жыл бұрын
H H why what happened?
@abdurog1122a
@abdurog1122a 4 жыл бұрын
@@jcnot9712 1:03:14 onward
@Blessedup69
@Blessedup69 4 жыл бұрын
It’s because sky was a leach on DUNKEY. He was always negative and DUNKEY decided he didn’t want to deal with his 24/7 drama
@lazarusst.2743
@lazarusst.2743 4 жыл бұрын
@@Blessedup69 "dunkey decided" do you even have proof or any source of what you're saying? Did dunkey say anything about their friendship and why they don't talk anymore? If so, please let me know.
@affinity601
@affinity601 4 жыл бұрын
@@Blessedup69 what you are saying is purely conjecture lol
@FlutterSwag
@FlutterSwag 4 жыл бұрын
What the hell, this guy is 5000% better than any therapist I've ever had
@Methylglyoxal
@Methylglyoxal 4 жыл бұрын
well most therapists arent this good
@isaac10231
@isaac10231 4 жыл бұрын
@Eromasin I think it's also because he specializes in gaming. Most therapists are in their 50s and have a very outdated understanding of gaming and how it transforms lives.
@MrThend
@MrThend 4 жыл бұрын
same
@araneaeonline2644
@araneaeonline2644 4 жыл бұрын
yo same
@BarbaraMerryGeng
@BarbaraMerryGeng 2 жыл бұрын
Yep / I had several bursts of awareness just from listening to these interviews -
@gg12345ification
@gg12345ification 4 жыл бұрын
never seen a phyciastrist being this good wtf? talked to numerous in my life and not one as even been close to this good.
@Akajeyjey
@Akajeyjey 4 жыл бұрын
He is just paying attention and trying to understand. That is what average mental health professional looks like. I guess you met a lots of them far below average. There is plenty of advice on the internet about what to look for in mental health professional. You'll eventualy come across someone who is just like Dr. K if you keep looking.
@arielledore8868
@arielledore8868 4 жыл бұрын
@@Akajeyjey It's because he also has been a video game addict. So by beeing a gamer himself, he's way more qualified to get into a gamer's mind than a normal psychiatrist.
@Akajeyjey
@Akajeyjey 4 жыл бұрын
@@arielledore8868 My intention isn't to belittle Dr. K. He is very brave and the way he targeted audience that really needs help is very impressive. And I do believe he really cares. I'm only concerned about people thinking he is the only one who can help and understand them. Which would limit that person's options quite lot. There is a lots of other mental health professionals who can understand you just as well.. Being a former gamer seems to serve mostly as an icebreaker and a light house. But we gamers are basically addicts (at least that is my belief) and there is a lots of people in the field of addiction..
@arielledore8868
@arielledore8868 4 жыл бұрын
@@AkajeyjeyYou are right, qualified isn't really the word I was looking for.
@arielledore8868
@arielledore8868 4 жыл бұрын
@@Akajeyjey I was mostly trying to say that he has a gaming background so it is easier for him to reach gamers by using gaming analogies and examples.
@blarblablarblar
@blarblablarblar 4 жыл бұрын
It's always so wholesome to watch someone bare their soul and then be told that they're alright
@stevenm22
@stevenm22 4 жыл бұрын
Just finished watching you're reckful and Destiny talks...watching you be so understanding is refreshing. The way you clearly talk and question the individuals is amazing. It's easy to hear what you say and reflect to my own life and struggles. Keep helping this looked down on outcasted community.
@rickenbacker40011
@rickenbacker40011 4 жыл бұрын
“Never blew up” is so emblematic of the fact that he has the power to bring in so many people on an individual level; no bandwaggoning, no KZbin help. Just a great person
@bestechannel6907
@bestechannel6907 4 жыл бұрын
incredible work you do, i wish i would have gotten into streaming to be able to talk to someone like you.
@HessSR
@HessSR 4 жыл бұрын
he talks to people who aren't streamers aswell, you can sign up on his website
@CostasProductions
@CostasProductions 4 жыл бұрын
@@HessSR I think you'd have to go down the route of his personal practice (if you dont identify as a gamer), the healthygamer.gg concept seems to be focused on 'gamers'
@donbeton6567
@donbeton6567 4 жыл бұрын
​@Fee Nok just stream, chat will correct every sentence(if not tell them too :D) and you will speak fluid english in weeks, no? :)
@CostasProductions
@CostasProductions 4 жыл бұрын
@@jonmacdonald2193 yep i realise that - I was just saying he can help people who aren't gamers also. Thanks for your comment
@burnhitsforlove3317
@burnhitsforlove3317 4 жыл бұрын
@@jonmacdonald2193 I think the person is concerned they're not fluent enough in English to conduct the conversation.
@rekojehtmai
@rekojehtmai 4 жыл бұрын
i appreciate sky being open. i hope he gained some important insights here to improve his view of himself and to get ready to make some important changes in his life. Would be great if he can find a therapist to work with him through all of this. I appreciate you sharing your knowledge with so many people of protective nature of our brains. It controls a lot of unhealthy thought processes and behaviors. Its the vital root that so many of us are missing sight of.
@Ataraxia95
@Ataraxia95 4 жыл бұрын
I have been subscribed to Sky since he was at couple thousands and I have never regretted it a day Sky. Whatever you need to work through man just know that I will always wait for that next video if that is what you want to continue doing, if not that is fine, I will support you in any other direction you go.
@MokuTom
@MokuTom 4 жыл бұрын
hey man, pretty terrible news thats came out huh.. 2020 is just so shit man
@bojeboje842
@bojeboje842 3 жыл бұрын
@Ataraxia95- Regardless of the news that came out about him, I think your comment was still really wholesome. Good people do fucked up things. I won’t try and speak on whether Sky is good or not, but I will say the people talking about him like he’s Hitler are probably missing a lot of nuance to the situation.
@Adam-iw3lc
@Adam-iw3lc 3 жыл бұрын
You guys should watch technicals video. Sky took a lot of unnecessary blame
@persephone9360
@persephone9360 4 жыл бұрын
really miss sky. for many years weve all been telling him he can just make any video of him playing games or doing whatever and it would be great content because hes so naturally funny and likable. but he just has these mental roadblocks i guess that cant let him accept that. feelstrulyawfulman. his streams were the shit when i was a college freshman staying up way too late. hope he returns one day, for real.
@Septurez
@Septurez 4 жыл бұрын
There are very clear moments of realizations in every single one of these interviews and when the interviewee realizes these foundational issues they have i shed a tear everytime because of how much I can relate.
@brathambright
@brathambright 4 жыл бұрын
I didnt even know he streamed!!! This honestly explains so much and I'm so happy you did this. I've been watching him for so long and it really does bring a tear to my eye to see him grow. Keep goin, man. Love you, Sky :)))
@DreamingConcepts
@DreamingConcepts 4 жыл бұрын
No other youtuber made me laugh so hard like Sky did. Thank you for you two having this conversation.
@ChristopherSideris1117
@ChristopherSideris1117 4 жыл бұрын
He is a great guy. His ultimate message I think is to remind everyone that the mind is not the soul. That is why he is focusing on mediation, to remind everyone of that fact. The mind is a wild dog that never runs out of energy, and to keep it in line it takes 100% focus all the time. The constant fight between mind and soul does get easier but it is work. If you guys meditate long enough you will become enlightened. Enlightened is a mysterious way of saying you now completely understand that the mind and the individual are two different things. If you look at the mind as the enemy it is a quick way to find just that. When your mind wants to do something, it is just an opportunity for you to tame your mind and say no to it. Good luck all, peace and love.
@frizzman1991
@frizzman1991 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Dr. K! I'm a gamer who's been struggling with mental health for a while. All I really want to say is thanks for doing this! You've found a great niche, kind of like the Dr. Phil for gamers (but with less sensationalism and more practicality). Keep at it, brother.
@huckmart2017
@huckmart2017 4 жыл бұрын
I used to be similar but with stealing. I would steal something, tell myself in the moment "this is the last time, and I'll pay them back before they know its gone." "Its not enough for them to notice anyway. But this is the last time." Then I'd proceed to use up whatever I stole, and immediately go back to the feeling of needing it, feel guilty for stealing, rinse repeat. The problem was that my thought process didn't stop at the guilt. I would tell myself a story to protect myself from it. That being: "I'll pay them back" or "this is the last time". Once i stopped lying to myself, and really allowed myself to process the guilt, it became apparent that I needed to stop. that I didn't need the things I was stealing badly enough to live with the guilt. It was easier to stop after that.
@hecatrice2064
@hecatrice2064 4 жыл бұрын
''I'm about to get bodied'' ''What does that mean?'' lmao
@ashens0ul
@ashens0ul 4 жыл бұрын
​@@fourlitre3213 It's not really that he's being a boomer but more that when different people use somewhat general phrases like that they can mean somewhat different things without the listener realizing exactly what they mean so he likes to clarify to make sure he's not misunderstanding.
@gamer-gc2pi
@gamer-gc2pi 4 жыл бұрын
I Watch this video and my heart hangs, I'm imagining that he'd talk to Etika and it'd make a lot of lives feel better. Respect for a lot of these talks Dr. K
@philippegauvin4127
@philippegauvin4127 4 жыл бұрын
Oh noooo he came too late...
@ripsy
@ripsy 4 жыл бұрын
This is my replacement to JRE right now
@wearejungians
@wearejungians 4 жыл бұрын
This is much more actionable imo
@damagedmentally
@damagedmentally 4 жыл бұрын
@@wearejungians And many times more enticing and interesting
@MMOInformers
@MMOInformers 4 жыл бұрын
who is JRE
@ripsy
@ripsy 4 жыл бұрын
@@MMOInformers JRE is the Joe Rogan Experience
@MMOInformers
@MMOInformers 4 жыл бұрын
@@ripsy o ok. This is like 10x better imo tbh xD cause its an actual trained high IQ expert.
@SenoritasEverywhere
@SenoritasEverywhere 4 жыл бұрын
I used to watch Sky playing league like 6-7 years ago and it was the best time of my life. Then he suddenly disappear. But he is one of the most genuine, funny and adorable person I've ever witnessed.
@ivodHD
@ivodHD 4 жыл бұрын
I love this. There aren't a lot of channels like these (if any). It's great to see how your subscriber count is going up rapidly. I've watched quite a few video's and it feels great to understand how some core views in our mind or about ourselves are false or based on inadequate conclusions. I have no idea if watching these videos can truely help people who identify with the people in these videos, but I think you're doing a great job and I wanted to thank you for it. I hope you are and will continue to take good care of yourself, even if (and I don't doubt that there's a chance that it will happen) your youtube channel and your healthygamer program will continue to rise to high ammounts of people. It's great to see how you're fulfilling your dharma, I just hope you'll not lose your self-care with it. But hey I don't know you and all that, so you can take that with a grain of salt. Either way, thanks, oh and your facial expressions are great (especially when for example at 6:18 when you give a big smile when you realise that the other person gets to the conclusion/thought that you thought he would be having. I see this in other video's as well but it's just a great moment in interviews and I really enjoy that haha)
@joelchavez8534
@joelchavez8534 4 жыл бұрын
Check out Kati Morton
@Youwish187
@Youwish187 4 жыл бұрын
This is the most amazing organization ive ever found and i hope i can do a lot to help one day. Thank you Dr. K
@simplesplayground7871
@simplesplayground7871 4 жыл бұрын
100% love your content my guy, you're doing strides for the community and its good that you're working with streamers. people tend to gravitate towards people that they connect with so you may be helping countless people by proxy. you deserve a streamer award at twitch con or some shit.
@thebutler2525
@thebutler2525 4 жыл бұрын
God damn, I forgot about Sky williams. I must of stopped watching him after Dunkey quit LoL. glad to know that he's still around.
@chrispgaffney
@chrispgaffney 4 жыл бұрын
Wow. Can’t imagine he would make more publicizing this session than charging for it in private. Talk about someone making a difference. Inspirational.
@bryangomez1887
@bryangomez1887 4 жыл бұрын
This is free content that will bring more views to his stream which will certainly make him more money than the cost of one theory session. Not saying it's his intention, but it's certainly a win for everyone.
@VonniXfiles
@VonniXfiles 4 жыл бұрын
@@bryangomez1887 I wouldn't underestimate how much you can make as a Harvard psychiatrist. Pretty sure he can charge easy over $400 an hour. I doubt he makes that doing this on Twitch.
@Csanti10
@Csanti10 4 жыл бұрын
You're killing it really heartwarming to see you talk and help so many of my favorite content creator and people I've looked up to and consider my friends
@tsmwukong5302
@tsmwukong5302 4 жыл бұрын
I hope we will see Gross Gore on here soon.
@mouseman1234555
@mouseman1234555 4 жыл бұрын
TSM Wukong ur finally back we need a new tsm death compilation
@MMOInformers
@MMOInformers 4 жыл бұрын
Nah, gross gore will make him cry!
@philippegauvin4127
@philippegauvin4127 4 жыл бұрын
That needs to happen. Legit gross gore was looking for exactly this to fix his career
@ht9157
@ht9157 4 жыл бұрын
he has had one too many chances he's an idiot.
@Scarlettvoid
@Scarlettvoid 4 жыл бұрын
oi mate gross gore mate
@imadust
@imadust 4 жыл бұрын
"I care what everyone thinks, i don't care who you are, you can be an infant, if you don't like me it hurts". Dam thats so true lol i feel him there
@MrIcenice44
@MrIcenice44 4 жыл бұрын
I was very emotional hearing them process this together. Respect!
@kartongh77
@kartongh77 4 жыл бұрын
i think theres something else wrong with sky
@MokuTom
@MokuTom 4 жыл бұрын
you checked the news last few days? o-o
@lissie3669
@lissie3669 4 жыл бұрын
@@MokuTom Do y'all think he directly abused anyone? esp minors? I've never watched him before so idk about this whole mess.
@its9333
@its9333 4 жыл бұрын
@@lissie3669 well when he as a rape victim, decided not to have any empathy for a 15 y/o being assaulted...he may as well have
@dark-lord-vinay
@dark-lord-vinay 4 жыл бұрын
I'm from the future its all true
@themanthemyththeloser2615
@themanthemyththeloser2615 3 жыл бұрын
nah you’ve got to watch techninals new video
@Maliross
@Maliross 4 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for doing this... all these are such beautiful conversations... and isnt easy to do... so its great to see... especially someone u have been watching since a teen...
@JoeyTen
@JoeyTen 4 жыл бұрын
15:30 "yeah that's what I knew I was a semen demon" lmao that shocked a laugh out of me 🤣💀
@michaelroyston719
@michaelroyston719 4 жыл бұрын
These are very helpful as a gamer and psychology student pursuing a PhD. Thanks Doc.
@liampett1313
@liampett1313 4 жыл бұрын
This man buys pink wards
@stevensasy12345
@stevensasy12345 4 жыл бұрын
Liam Pett I think they red wards now bro
@FirebladeXXL
@FirebladeXXL 4 жыл бұрын
@@stevensasy12345 they are called control wards.
@MrBezazel
@MrBezazel 4 жыл бұрын
@@FirebladeXXL God it's really been that long, I still thought they were called pink wards too...
@TerkanTyr
@TerkanTyr 4 жыл бұрын
17:25 that smile was so endearing, and what he's saying is so true. I really hope Sky realizes how good so much of what he says and does is.
@DinsFlame
@DinsFlame 4 жыл бұрын
I finished up my bachelors in psych a few months ago and now work on the research side of it. I'm nerding out on this so fucking hard because it's like art to me. This is so well done and so tangible in this ugly mess of umbrella content targeted at people who need help that just gets it so wrong so often. I really enjoy what you're doing here Dr. K
@tonthax
@tonthax 4 жыл бұрын
I hope sky and dunkey can repair their friendship
@wishi6616
@wishi6616 4 жыл бұрын
what happened? I wasn't aware they weren't friends
@tonthax
@tonthax 4 жыл бұрын
yourmom watch the video lol
@limetitan
@limetitan 4 жыл бұрын
going to be hard after dunkey beat sky in smash...
@Dakotaidk
@Dakotaidk 4 жыл бұрын
@@wishi6616 dude c'mon man, dunkey beat sky in smash, dude
@AriasinPL
@AriasinPL 4 жыл бұрын
Keep saying it
@philipplorke3386
@philipplorke3386 4 жыл бұрын
this dude is legit one of the most charismatic persons ive ever seen, these videos are so good
@smam7667
@smam7667 4 жыл бұрын
Holy shit that story about his brother was fucking heartbreaking. Man Sky has seen some terrible shit. The moment where he said how bad he felt when for 2 brief seconds he actually liked it that gave me shivers cause i could picture that so well.
@deskdest7152
@deskdest7152 4 жыл бұрын
Sky I love you no matter what. If your habits make you feel like shit, don't sweat it, don't beat yourself up, because plenty of people in the world are gonna do that for you! It is hard work, but every time you find yourself in the same place it means you haven't learned what you needed to learn from that experience. If you find yourself back in the same place after making a mistake, just imagine what your absolute best self would do. Who is the person you absolutely want to be? Imagine what the best version of you would do whenever you're faced with a challenge or whenever you feel like shit. It takes a long time before you start to see a change, but I know from experience that anyone can change things that they're unhappy with ESPECIALLY if they're in full control of themselves! You only have to do 1 thing everyday that your best self would do and choose to challenge yourself more and more everyday (2 things, 3 things) until they become your new habits! I related to you so heavy years ago when you'd upload league vids, I used to watch your streams all the time until life hit me hard. You made me laugh and forget about my problems! You have to believe in yourself more Sky!--Don't call yourself trash. Keep lifting yourself up! Being nice to yourself doesn't mean you're condoning or enabling your own toxic behaviors! It means you don't define who you are by your mistakes! It means you believe that you can do better and you have the power to be better, because it makes you feel better instead of like shit! You can get better, but you absolutely MUST believe you're more than trash! You ARE NOT trash! Love up on yourself Sky no matter what! And also extend the love you give yourself to others no matter what! --Judge others less harshly, because that will help you treat yourself better too! Choose to define yourself by your intentions and try your best in intending to do right by others, because clearly doing the opposite and hurting people who love you and care about you makes you feel bad. Choose to do what makes you feel good--You can do it! You gave me the best laughs I ever had in this community--I'm literally gonna binge watch all your videos again, because I missed the fuck outta you, dude (I started a family and lost sight of my hobbies, so I fell off anything gaming related for a brick!) You helped me enjoy the League community more, you helped me connect with my friends in ways I couldn't before! You helped me understand what the world can be like for gay, black men! You are my favorite League of Legends personality and and with this interview, you've helped me remember the importance of self love and willpower! I hope to god you understand just how amazing you are--that even with toxic habits you have complete power over yourself, and that YOU are not your mistakes. With a vision for who you want to be and the will to act on that vision, You can change anything about yourself! I know this is a mouthful--I feel a lot and this video really resonates... I come from a place of ALL love when I type this, and I wish you the absolute best! I love you so much Sky.
@TroyMcElveny1
@TroyMcElveny1 4 жыл бұрын
Intersting chat. hope yall have another one. Sky is a good guy in my mind and I hope he can get the self understanding he needs
@FirebladeXXL
@FirebladeXXL 4 жыл бұрын
remember kids, this is not therapy. except it kinda really is, because dr. k. asks all the right questions.
@frizzman1991
@frizzman1991 4 жыл бұрын
This aged way better than expected, and not for the reasons I expected. I hope for his sake and everyone else's that he can get the help he needs.
@its9333
@its9333 4 жыл бұрын
This was foreshadowing....
@DaKrakenRule
@DaKrakenRule 4 жыл бұрын
This was great to watch. It’s clear you’re really good at what you do and I appreciated Sky’s openness and honesty. Do you ever worry that the format can lead to some ethically-dubious situations? Like Sky was able to recount that traumatic situation without actively feeling the pain of it but I wonder what would have happened if him telling his story opened things up even more. Is there an ethical duty to be mindful of what you get into considering the time constraints and the fact that you aren’t seeing him in a strictly therapeutic context? Genuinely curious. Thanks for the upload
@longbordbonglord
@longbordbonglord 4 жыл бұрын
Sky has always been one of my favorite content creators and I relate to the ups and downs of life. I just really hope to see him flourish and feel good about himself. Hopefully we can get some fresh and amazing content soon!!
@idkman2633
@idkman2633 4 жыл бұрын
Apathy is really common in ppl who struggle to live up to their own expectations. You have to hit rock bottom of loneliness before your brain forces you to be actively and constructively empathetic.
@themanwiththebeard4632
@themanwiththebeard4632 4 жыл бұрын
I can relate to that, im currently very apathetic
@idkman2633
@idkman2633 4 жыл бұрын
@@themanwiththebeard4632 Yeah idk what to tell you. Open up to someone about anything really, meditate on psychological issues... take a walk with your worst self and try not to burry what makes you most uncomfortable
@thyduck7542
@thyduck7542 4 жыл бұрын
I love this trend of interviewing KZbinrs/Streamers, it's going to open up a lot of people to therapy/mental health.
@kouseiryu7517
@kouseiryu7517 4 жыл бұрын
I personally think that many people can benefit from "just chatting on twitch". No matter who they are and how they feel.
@Polyvalent
@Polyvalent 4 жыл бұрын
Man this reminds me of that time Dunkey beat Sky in Smash
@40rods
@40rods 4 жыл бұрын
Sky's honestly incredibly lucky it took so long for him to get cancelled -- I remember seeing him comment on just about EVERY piece of internet drama over the past decade. Always smugly inserting his two cents or laughing about someone getting their career taken away. Let it be a lesson to people who think it's cool to self-insert into everyone else's business. The bell eventually tolls for thee.
@GrimslyRyuzaki
@GrimslyRyuzaki 4 жыл бұрын
CANCEL CULTURE IS RETARDED but fuck sky
@GeeGe.
@GeeGe. 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly I have to agree. I used to really like his videos but there was always something off about him for me. Self centered, but in a negative way, too intensely. But ultimately there was nothing explicit going on and he was just a guy I watched on youtube and twitch occasionally. Now, I'm still not trying to impair absolute judgment or anything, but I'm not surprised at all that there's this much dirt behind his past. Without speaking of morality and good and bad, I had always thought Sky was a very troubled, emotionally unstable person. Now that strong impression is confirmed. I wish anyone involved in the "Sky Houses" drama, including him, well.
@HighTierHuman
@HighTierHuman 4 жыл бұрын
Watching this NOW is a mood.
@Drawfill
@Drawfill 4 жыл бұрын
Lets just be honest here, Dr K is the best therapist yall ever witnessed and we're all blessed to witness this in our lifetime.
@seles1991
@seles1991 4 жыл бұрын
I wish Etika could have spoken with you brother. Keep up the fantastic work. Very entertaining and enlightening
@Yojimbo711
@Yojimbo711 4 жыл бұрын
Prime example of what kind of a sentimental world view mentally abusive parents mold their kids to hold. Infinite props to Sky for what an awesome figure he's become after all this shit man.
@sierra328
@sierra328 4 жыл бұрын
Oh man, I have followed Sky for so long. I still watch a message to the depressed all the time. I wish I could tell him how much he impacted my life when I was in a dark place and inspired me to keep going even when I was failing so hard. Even when he leaves for a long time I'm always happy to see him come back.
@marianoelijah4228
@marianoelijah4228 4 жыл бұрын
Oof
@MokuTom
@MokuTom 4 жыл бұрын
there's a lesson to be learnt here somewhere... not quite sure what it is tho
@ruthtrentwood3374
@ruthtrentwood3374 4 жыл бұрын
this comment didn't age well AT ALL.
@strawbeechoca791
@strawbeechoca791 4 жыл бұрын
I related to this a lot. Still watch Sky's videos every night before bed. I hope everyone feeling any of the things discussed in this video becomes the best person they can be.
@GandziaxBG
@GandziaxBG 4 жыл бұрын
Thank You Sky Williams, that somehow given me hope, cuz im like 25 and i already think its "too late".
@dcort100
@dcort100 4 жыл бұрын
Sirgan S too late? You’ll always be critiqued/ critized no matter what you do! So go do things that you want to do :)
@hirschy1103
@hirschy1103 4 жыл бұрын
it's never too late. always a way forward. but sometimes it means letting go of things in the past
@jeanvu
@jeanvu 4 жыл бұрын
These Dr. K Interviews are hands down, THE BEST videos on KZbin. God bless you, Dr. K.
@ImLehwz
@ImLehwz 4 жыл бұрын
I loved this one because it's the only thing I found that resonates with me. 3 years in totally unexplained depression. I feel like I'm unfixable too but I'm unable to find my root while I am trying so hard with therapy, started with college, exercise, medication and meditating. The only thing I can do is cope, barely. @HealthyGamerGG Any chance I can book a session with you? I'm more than happy to pay for a chance to become better. If not, no hard feelings. I'm really thankful for what you're doing!
@mvp9066
@mvp9066 4 жыл бұрын
I read in the comments above that you can apply to have an interview on his site.
@MrJpreezy17
@MrJpreezy17 4 жыл бұрын
I've loved Sky for a a long time now and I'm really happy that he's working through some of the issues he's had in his life. I just wanna see him happy!
@ashtonduda9971
@ashtonduda9971 4 жыл бұрын
Who is sky
@DeadJuicebox
@DeadJuicebox 4 жыл бұрын
@@ashtonduda9971 the second guy in the video
@mikeysmonarchs
@mikeysmonarchs 4 жыл бұрын
I needed this so bad today Dr K. I was on the brink of hurting myself and this helped me make a small shift. Does it solve everything? no. Am i still susceptible to hurting myself... yes. I'm going to see if i can get a week off of work and get a therapist that works remotely. Thank you thank you thank you
@MokuTom
@MokuTom 4 жыл бұрын
good luck to you brother. 2 months later i hope you're in a better place or still fighting the fight to get better! im with you man, keep going!
@bobhong2379
@bobhong2379 4 жыл бұрын
Does the way that you talk to these content creator in any way resemble the way your father spoke to you when he sent you to India? In your interview with Reckful i remember you said that you and your father "problem-solving conversation" and these interviews kinda give me that vibe.
@Alan-wj5zc
@Alan-wj5zc 4 жыл бұрын
Don't be trying to psycho-analyze a psycho-analyzer xd
@GutsmanLoL
@GutsmanLoL 4 жыл бұрын
Imagine downvoting something like this. You probably need to talk to dr k
@Adam-jn7nc
@Adam-jn7nc 4 жыл бұрын
for me is too hard to hear sky for too long he can say millions words and actually not say anything meaningful
@hecatrice2064
@hecatrice2064 4 жыл бұрын
@@Adam-jn7nc That's not a vlaid reason to dislike.This isn't supposed to be an audiobook.It's not easy to put how u feel into words.
@feinted
@feinted 4 жыл бұрын
I cannot even fathom what this man went through and the pain it's caused.
@somedrunkjunkie1748
@somedrunkjunkie1748 4 жыл бұрын
I might get addicted to these interviews *__*
@Plu7ology
@Plu7ology 4 жыл бұрын
I find so much in common with these interviews. Im going to try and do some meditation.
@dahalofreeek
@dahalofreeek 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, I totally get why Sky is so negative towards his brother. That story was fucking heartbreaking man.
@BarbaraMerryGeng
@BarbaraMerryGeng 2 жыл бұрын
> I was in various businesses in NYC, and the fact of the matter is- everybody wants to get to know you if you have connections. This is the way business works. > In my case, people offered me various gifts & tokens & what appeared to be warm friendship.. > It is only when I left the business/s and the gifts & ‘friends’ fell away - that I woke up out of the dream world. 👀 > At first, I was very ashamed & disillusioned… But then, I realize that this happens everywhere/,All over the world 👋🏼/ It’s like you tip the door man at a club, or you give an envelope to the concierge at a hotel, etc. etc. - This is a standard in all business - nothing to be shocked or ashamed about. It’s part of the deal …
@alucarder100
@alucarder100 4 жыл бұрын
i would love to see a podcast between you and jordan peterson
@GameMaster00744
@GameMaster00744 4 жыл бұрын
hearing sky talk about all this stuff totally makes sense. I've definitely been able to pin point each thing he talked about and can remember him talking about it. Also when he talked about Leah and Dunkey it broke my damn heart, especially when Doc described "repair" as grieve and move on because I know Sky would do anything to be on good terms with her. Just... I'm really sad that Sky has always been aware of every issue he has, but hasn't been able to put it all together and start mending everything. I will be at Sky's side until he gives up. But I know he won't. I just wish there was a better way for us to let him know the genuine feelings we have for him and his situation. Like damn man we been hearing about this stuff for years and we are invested into whatever he bring to us, content or life. I'll stop rambling. That Leah moment got me emotional Edit: Also the moment that really jumped out to me was when Sky heard that he couldn't just laugh everything off anymore/ not everything can be made into a joke and forgotten. That was one of the few times that I have ever seen Sky just genuinely shook.
@strangebrew1231
@strangebrew1231 4 жыл бұрын
When does he talk about dunkey and Leah?
@Tyler711
@Tyler711 4 жыл бұрын
This is a great video. Subbed. I genuinely appreciate the level of psychology in this video.
@bladetoto94
@bladetoto94 4 жыл бұрын
You're slowly shaping yourself as the Jesus Christ for Gamers. (at least in my eyes)
@CAKESLAPPA
@CAKESLAPPA 4 жыл бұрын
I agree, but what's funny is that their passion stems from Hinduism
@shyvanatop4777
@shyvanatop4777 4 жыл бұрын
He is much more of a Hindu practicer, and Jesus is God and came back to life. He didnt bring information that was emotionally helping or supportive but healed people as God. His Doctrine was of Heaven and said all are sinners deserving of hell.
@Methylglyoxal
@Methylglyoxal 4 жыл бұрын
except for the difference that jesus never existed.
@roehanostornsyn3367
@roehanostornsyn3367 4 жыл бұрын
@@CAKESLAPPA there's also a temple in Asia somewhere where it's theorized religious prophets all went to, and the documents held within are completely secret I.e Religions around the world have overarching themes of positivity that seem to be trying to reach different peoples in similar ways
@TheTpointer
@TheTpointer 4 жыл бұрын
@@roehanostornsyn3367 Some people were abducted by aliens. The pyramids where build buy aliens and are acctually space ships. Donald Trump is a lizard skin walker. The earth is flat. Shall I continue listing stuff where there is no good reason to believe that it's true.
@alltimelowinreverse
@alltimelowinreverse 4 жыл бұрын
CUBS in 2019, we love you Shy guy!!!!
@mushmak
@mushmak 4 жыл бұрын
That's crazy how a brother can do something like that
@rickenbacker40011
@rickenbacker40011 4 жыл бұрын
This man is not an interviewer, he’s a councillor
@middleofnowhere1313
@middleofnowhere1313 Жыл бұрын
Never keep a diary, ppl. Unless you live alone and even so, lock it up in a safe if you must have one. Someone will read it just like happened to this guy's sister.
@qwerty1233787
@qwerty1233787 4 жыл бұрын
Single handedly saving the twitch platform
@buredabby
@buredabby 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Doc. I sense that the shadow in his mind is that he doesn't want to be like his brother and he is slowly becoming like him through all the repeated disappointments. He mentioned how they were inseparable and partners in crime and has come to this fundamental realisation that because he has no empathy and is okay with his toxicity, that his brother would be too. Sky is a different person and far kinder. I do hope he tackles his demons and becomes the best he can be.
@in1minute90
@in1minute90 4 жыл бұрын
Great work again! I would love to hear you talking to Destiny. I think that would be really interesting! EDIT: Also great job Sky, really brave!
@LOLSebastian
@LOLSebastian 4 жыл бұрын
A talk with Destiny could get pretty frustrating, if he tries to argue about everything
@in1minute90
@in1minute90 4 жыл бұрын
@@LOLSebastian well, i think they would have a calm conversation
@saihac7759
@saihac7759 4 жыл бұрын
@@in1minute90 they did today :) calm collective conversation
@Plu7ology
@Plu7ology 4 жыл бұрын
@@saihac7759 oh God I can't wait for that
@doktorkosmos7238
@doktorkosmos7238 4 жыл бұрын
@@Plu7ology kzbin.info/www/bejne/hWiQaZeneLR9g7s
@beebeehay
@beebeehay 4 жыл бұрын
That whole pink ward analogy is fucking genius, i love it, like that hit me so clear.
@HarrisonHUMAN
@HarrisonHUMAN 4 жыл бұрын
Man I clicked on this thinking it said "Fixing unfixable problems with No Mans Sky". I was so confused
@bq1104
@bq1104 4 жыл бұрын
lol
@kaidongnie2389
@kaidongnie2389 4 жыл бұрын
Holy fuck his description of what his brother did to him boils my blood
@Marthyboy88
@Marthyboy88 4 жыл бұрын
30:07 I laughed so hard at this...
@Eunos_FD3S
@Eunos_FD3S 4 жыл бұрын
There are several lessons that could be taught to children with pick-up-sticks
@BrianKouhi
@BrianKouhi 4 жыл бұрын
Wow his example of getting to 900k by uploading weekly and thinking he was just mediocre hurt lol. I been uploading weekly for a year, and I'm more than happy with my current subs and the steady grow.. perspective is huge when it comes to mental health I feel..
@lillegitimate
@lillegitimate 3 жыл бұрын
I don't believe this aged that well...
@Jules-vf1zq
@Jules-vf1zq 4 жыл бұрын
Getting large as you deserve. Keep doing your great work
@LUIOFFICIALLY
@LUIOFFICIALLY 4 жыл бұрын
41:25
@endar2401
@endar2401 Жыл бұрын
Wow, this one was incredible. Sky is an interesting person for sure.
@philippegauvin4127
@philippegauvin4127 4 жыл бұрын
I so needed to say: well some of them know at 23:45
@tasman655
@tasman655 4 жыл бұрын
Y.I.K.E.S
@idisagree5897
@idisagree5897 4 жыл бұрын
Ohhhh. Makes sense now.
@ostrol1590
@ostrol1590 4 жыл бұрын
owing 500k is a bit of a problem, yes
@rewsterfewd1226
@rewsterfewd1226 11 ай бұрын
When Sky is talking about his therapist and the sticks and Dr. K is just “wtf is that?” 😂
@satsivinarsharab5343
@satsivinarsharab5343 4 жыл бұрын
I relate to him and his mindset so much. Really interesting talk
@Starklar
@Starklar 4 жыл бұрын
man, having no prior knowledge about Sky this conversation really throws some curveballs. interesting parralel between sky paying his roommates to live with him and seeing this as a negative stagnating thing for them, and skys viewers paying him (to do a negative stagnating thing? or just to petetuate a cycle that leaves enough viewers dissapointed to sustain skys initial narrative). its strange to me that those relationships are viewed like that - supporting somebody is a positive action, being supported is a positive experience. sure - in both cases there are room for improvement - more consistent content and greater personal growth, but i would disagree with viewing the experiences as wholly negative just because they are not perfect. its all too easy to pick flaws, people want perfection and usually any perceived perfection is a result of lacking information.
@Akajeyjey
@Akajeyjey 4 жыл бұрын
5:24 Lol! Every therapist that I went to reacted like this when I spoke to them about certain stuff at some point :D It's almost as if they were annoyed or frustrated with me..
@Matlesylc
@Matlesylc 4 жыл бұрын
Nah, to me that gesture feels like, "Oh I have your number now, I SEE whats wrong and i know how to fix it, let me just gather my thoughts so i can present it in a way that is understandable to you and we can build up from." I feel you should bring up the annoyed and disappointing part with your therapist because that could be a sign of how you were treated or you generally feel like a nuisance to other people( or your self image), so now you project the same feeling when you see someone expressing that particular body language.
@PeachFps
@PeachFps 4 жыл бұрын
I'm not finished watching yet but i still don't get WHY sky doesn't understand why all of us fans believe in him. Dude is funny as fuck when he's just being regular. I like him as an entertainer. He has his flaws like everyone else. Been watching him for years and people always love the goofy shit he posts (Besides all the twitter drama but that's just what he likes do participate in so /shrug.) I just want this man to bounce back mentally. We'll support the man until he gets his shit together just like these other content creators who are struggling. 1.6k viewers on twitch is PHENOMENAL for a streamer who goes live like twice a month. I wish he could just be more consistent and grow his shit again. He definitely can. GTA RP maybe? Also Idc that he's supporting his friends, we just want him to reach a happier place in life. (I discovered this content from the reckful btw. It's very helpful)
@marcusjonsson3653
@marcusjonsson3653 4 жыл бұрын
Sort of reminds of the time dunkey beat sky in smash
@ChrisStolba
@ChrisStolba 4 жыл бұрын
Get him to interview Idra... LOL
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