bachelorette to lesbian relationship with Gabby Windey

[@ClaireWedgeworth]

*I love the long intro’s hearing Shannon’s mental health update*

[@shilooh19]

me too❤

[@1SophieDEF1]

me too!!

[@elijahclements2513]

i love this episode omg, gabby seems so down to earth and lovely to listen to. I'm kinda actually dying for an episode with reneé rapp though...

[@brentmerlinhootboodangy8374]

Omg reneé yess

[@elijahclements2513]

@ville__ yes and i chose to be gay thank yew

[@brentmerlinhootboodangy8374]

@ville__ yeah and I’d choose to date women over men a million times over

[@elijahclements2513]

@@brentmerlinhootboodangy8374 PREACH

[@whitanderica]

WHAT. THE COLLAB I DIDN"T KNOW I NEEDED

[@MatthewArangatta]

We need a "I'm still dumb. I'm just gay" shirt!

[@beatrizdebia]

fr!!!

[@nikisnyder1111]

Gabby's laugh is so pure

[@kynicole]

“invite me next time” IM SCREAMINGGG SHANNON 😂

[@BFJ714]

had no idea who gabby was before this as not from the us but she was such a great guest so funny

[@daniescobarm]

This was like SO good. Truly some of the best chemistry ive seen in a podcast. You guys really should become friends and hang out like, this was too enjoyable it must’ve been such a great time lol

[@nowthisisliving]

I need Gabby to be my best friend!!

[@juliagonzales7704]

Shannon asking “are you having fun?” Killed me! So precious!

[@KellyGriffiths-ic7eq]

I love the long intros!

[@katherine160]

Please make more content together!! Y’all have such great chemistry. This episode is hilarious.

[@debbiebeveridge1883]

I agree. I like the intro.❤If someone doesn’t like it they can fast forward.

[@lesbethtacioni1733]

"Its 2024, who isnt a little bit gay." FR! Around every corner peeps a wlw team member

[@jynethdemesa5625]

gabby is so down to earth and funny she was my favorite in dancing with the stars even saw her live :)

[@jynethdemesa5625]

@ville__hmm funny then what are you doing on this side of youtube, guess you’re trying to decide what your choice will be?🤔

[@Dee-gq2vq]

@@jynethdemesa5625 LMAO

[@justagirl5519]

"I'm like an insurrectionist" Gabby kills me hahaha

[@Beaudehaas]

Also i would watch these even is they where 3 hours long. So don’t be scared if some are longer, I think most people would love the extra content.

[@Dawn_S0869]

This was my favorite episode…hands down! I watched it twice (and I just don’t do that). Gabby is hilarious and the dynamic between you two made me literally laugh out loud. Great interview!

[@NNNNNOo]

Okay she’s the funniest guest so far, thoroughly enjoyed this! It felt so natural and like you guys were just having a great time!

[@annav652]

Can u please do becca tilly and also a PANTS podcast exchange :) Really enjoying this podcast so far, thank you!

[@rockettt6722]

wtf, i love your intros, please, please, keep doing it long TT it's great to hear the mental check section because i can relate a lot with you, so, here we are the ones that want long intros, and i can assure you, we are mayority; love you Shannon, and love what you're doing with this pod!

[@brucefaith]

I had no idea I needed this episode. Thank you

[@OhhHeyGab]

She’s one of my favorite guests tysm

[@magaxcx]

this was so funny to watch!! also we need chappell roan on the podcast pleaseeeeeeee

[@Raddiebaddie]

I was sooooo happy to hear about gabby!!!

[@PeurToni]

Really enjoying the podcast, and happy to see that you had on Gabby Windey on. So if the next podcast is Becca Tilley from Bachelor Nation who came out officially in 2022 as having been in a 4 year relationship with Hayley Kiyoko. Could you ask her about how she felt when Kristian and Demi Burnett on Season 6 (2019) of Bachelor in Paradise were touted as being the first LGBTQ couple in Bachelor Nation, when we now know the Becca and Hayley had been in a relationship, that was private but not secret for at least 18 months before Demi and Kristian were public in Bachelor Nation. According to Jasmine Goode interview on Made It Out podcast , she said Bachelor Season 21 (2017) there were at least 1 other openly bi-women on her season. It just seems like there have been multiple LGBTQ participants in the Bachelor nation, but few that are promoted as such during their seasons. Keep up the great work Shannon.

[@MONAPER75]

I enjoyed this episode. I just love the stream of consciousness banter between the both of you. Good times!!

[@MC-uv3mo]

Shannon we love the long intros though 🥲🥲🥲🥲

[@justjaynanne]

I love a long intro. Keep it coming.

[@tandb5954]

Very disappointed by some of the things said. Especially the lesbian sex comments. And the virgin one? What the fuck???

[@alexgreene8824]

Same, honestly surprised more people aren’t saying this. Kind of painted both bi women and lesbians in a male centered, bad light throughout the episode.

[@nildinha28]

Yeah. I came to comment about she still using the term "gold star lesbian"

[@tenishamaistry7193]

Would really love to see Cammie soon on your podcast

[@leahstumm9662]

It’s your show sweetheart. Do what you want to.💜

[@icland27]

Thank you for sharing Shanon. I appreciate your conversations with these women. We need more of this.

[@Liz-r5l]

Intro length for the other pod eps is good.

[@zoetyyler]

Shannon you have opened my eyes and my heart in so many ways and I admire what you’re doing and how important it is for you to stay true to yourself 💜

[@kibblesbball]

Omg we need her on the podcast again! She is so damn funny! You guys are truly pure entertainment

[@k10kc]

Shannon, i enjoy the podcast and listen every week but there’s some kinda problematic stuff this week! The bi erasure! The idea that only guys can take your virginity?? I know some of it is “jokes” and your own opinions but I think a podcast about queer relationships and sex should be a bit more thoughtful on these topics. There’s also some misinformation about queer family building (coming from a queer parent whose been through fertility process). Also - would love to see more than white cis lesbians (loved the ep with Nicole). I think hearing more broad perspectives and experiences would push you as an interviewer and make the podcast more representative of queer experiences.

[@owesome2]

Why is this bi erasure? I can’t get an answer. I am genuinely confused

[@KayBassie]

@55:10 Were human beings. We are meant to be different from each other. Why would everyone have the same identity in a 'perfect world'? Everybody doesn't have to be pansexual if society was different. Some people are straight. Some people are gay. Some people are in between/fluid. Why does this always come up when talking to fluid people? Picturing this 'perfect society'. I knew I was gay since 11 years and society made me date boys through intense homophobia I was raised around. Then I had to fight so hard against that to accept myself from the inside and who I really was. I enjoyed this convo but when it got to that topic I was like OMG🙄 If I was on a deserted island with no culture/bigotry/societal expectations etc I would be gay the same way. I would just be living that life earlier. jeez louise I think what Shannon really means is more people would have the freedom to be their true self. I love this podcast😊 and on the intros, yeah Shannon I guess you can look at your Analytics to see if the majority of people skip ahead, then you can adjust how long/short your intros should be.

[@carmelav9840]

Bring Cammie on plz 😭🤞

[@sophiehanson1820]

I usually love these videos but the biphobia throughout this video was very uncomfortable.

[@goldbluetiger]

Speaking of concerts, and in the spirit of sharing music recommendations, ISOTA tour in Europe is an insane slay. Come see the show if you get the chance 🙌😊

[@marijapavlovic3681]

Cari, what are you doing here?

[@alexiatondello]

I loved the long intro! wednesday is always a good day thank you for making me laugh and feel understood xx

[@alexiatondello]

@ville__ is that why you’re immensely gay ?

[@saf715]

new gabby fan. this episode was so funny!

[@someonesomehow379]

NO I LOVE THE INTROS !!!

[@LaLaLaLaLa8237]

You need to buy some extra comfy chairs for your podcast.. also didnt like how she said we lesbians dont have sex.. we definitely have sex, mind blowing, intense, passionate, so incredibly in tune and feeding off eachothers energy, incredible chemistry, emotional, physical, soul connected sex, thst doesnt end like day long, weekend long sexcapades, where you may take a few breaks but cant stop touching and reconnecting, where you lose count of orgasms. And no thats not just new love, even year 8 of our second round together (meaning we were together for years in secret as teens, split then reunited ten years later over fb & instantly fell back in love) we cant keep our hands off eachother still. And we both have extremely high sex drives so... also scissoring is definitely a thing, or tribbing though i hate that word but yeah, just gotta find the proper angle and its bliss and incredibly intimate like the missionary position for women!

[@Beaudehaas]

Omg i love the intros!!!!

[@intrepid_astronaut]

Another most splendid episode, per the usual. Gabby is so wildly endearing, this was such a fun episode to watch! I think her girlfriend, Robby, would be a "hoot" to have on the show as well, she's hilarious. "Do you have a queer friend group?" Me, talking to my laptop: no, so, y'all taking applications or what? Asking for a friend, it's me, your friend from the future. 😜

[@hdubz]

I ordered one of the Ex’s and O’s shirts 2 weeks ago and I’m hoping it ships soon because I’m excited for it. I love this podcast!

[@me9818]

Love this episode

[@saralucas4292]

Loved it! Thanks Shannon

[@markoniko11]

the biphobia was weird...

[@owesome2]

Where is that? She is talking freely and expressing her perspective

[@melissaflora8450]

@@owesome2I know for me the part about bi girls that have only dating men should prove they’re bi.

[@owesome2]

@@melissaflora8450 I really don’t understand. I want to. I think I am missing something

[@margaretryan8551]

@@owesome2 Not believing bisexual men, calling them confused. Not believing bisexual women, not valid unless they are with a woman. Lots of really harmful strereotypes laughed under the rug.

[@heidicarter2701]

46:47 “Everyone’s gay here.” 😂 I need that friend group.

[@lexilou8949]

i would love to see jacqueline toboni as a guest!!!

[@dandalstraphotography]

aww, I love Gabby so much!! Thanks for having her on! Also, is that a Nikonos V underwater camera on your shelf??

[@kristinakristina4961]

Have a guest or a guest couple who did queer conception! Things like IUI, IVF, or at home insemination. That would be kewl to hear about!

[@bmo1317]

*You definitely don't have to do IVF! And if you're regular and fertile, IUI works fairly often! Same chances of IVF (or even hetero sex!). Also, much cheaper option and less invasive than IVF. Most insurance makes you start with IUI unless you're beyond a certain age. Just adding some context from someone who's been theough it!*

[@catherinemixer]

what a good ep I loved it

[@ajajajjakslajdks]

The only thing that bothers me about the podcast is the fact that you had toxic relationships with men. However, as a bi girl, I believe there are great intelligent, sensitive men who will care about you in every way, equally as a woman would do. I do have open communication in sex with men. Also, codependency is not a lesbian thing; it's toxic. You are not connecting with men because you are lesbians or didn't like the guy. As a bi girl, I can affirm that love and sex feels exactly the same. Please stop talking about experiences you haven't had in a wrong way. I feel like it feeds biphobia and misogyny. Despite a lot of men (and women) being shitty, there are great people out there regardless of their sexuality.

[@ajajajjakslajdks]

or gender*

[@inesfelici3406]

YES

[@lauragrace1938]

the bi erasure is real 🥲

[@ashleys8836]

Fr! I’m not even bi and I was offended

[@owesome2]

So confused by people saying this? What do you mean?

[@samgree.n]

Love this but wish gabby was asked more questions and had more time to talk about her past

[@raellis22]

this is everything i love gabby so much

[@Beaudehaas]

I was made with a “turkey baster” hahaha loved your way of phrasing it. My mom is not gay or anything she just wanted another kid and didn’t have a partner. And they actually didn’t take the egg out… so clearly it does sometimes.

[@NotAnotherKuromi]

Oh that's cool, I am glad the turkey baster approach worked for your mother!

[@Jknopick07]

I can’t wait to watch this she is my favorite she is so sweet

[@LAALVEZZ]

wtf was that biphobic talk

[@lauragrace1938]

agreed

[@bertieborough]

For the babies Shannon, at least you have the emotional and physical support of the Daughton's as well as the template. Go Frogs.

[@nvbdnj]

I love this episode ❤❤❤

[@poliwagswirlbetastar3769]

I had no idea goldstar lesbian was a term but now I know and now I know i am one 😅😂

[@ROCKONplaceboforever]

Another great episode ❤

[@leonorsantoscosta4501]

i think last week´s intro wasnt long we were just anxious to watch the rest hahahahha

[@audreebuono2551]

this felt like girl debrief time !

[@sophie2193]

please become friends now😭😭

[@yvonnel7777]

I’m in love 😍. Knew of Gabby just from headlines. Personality,laugh,humor,beautiful. Yes!! ❤️

[@pridetherapy]

Great interview.

[@Slaytron69]

this episode is toooooo good

[@SweetNAMese]

Saw preview on tiktok. Had to see the full ep now haha. Hi Shannon from Toronto! Hi Vanessa!

[@teambellavsteamalice]

I feel a bit old sticking to just KZbin. I even watch long episodes like this in parts, so used to 5-20 minute videos. Tiktok is just too short and seems like a rabbit hole. (I know it mainly from reactions to wlw thirst traps).

[@Raddiebaddie]

Same

[@MTTigre]

I’m fucking cackling😂 this is too funny

[@ireneirenex4596]

I love the long intro's

[@becominge]

Ok Gabby! I love you 💕 great epi guys! Lotsa laughs

[@whatnot6647]

You actually talked about sex at the end of the episode .Thank you for sharing your point of view!

[@CamilleRoseMaine]

LMAO I'm still dumb I'm just gay. The BEST

[@tina.bob.uh.lina_xo]

Idk... this conversation gave me icks. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@gerardway9459]

loved this episode!!

[@PodcastHighlightsss]

👇 "Yeah" counting

[@livewithintention1625]

Dying to know what the girl’s rude name was hahaha

[@MgMettle]

... I've never gotten butterflies before from watching somebody sip a diet coke

[@louisedewit5349]

I love the broadcast

[@apobo5351]

Hi from France ! ☺ Such a good podcast to hear while working from home😉 Keep doing it ! 💪 Also looking for queer friends too 🙋‍♀

[@YourFan80]

Shan I have a question did you change the mattress and I really don't blame U if you did not in fact I would have kept it too😊

[@meredithcarter2775]

I understand that the guest feels uneducated about the queer community so I don’t intend to harshly criticize them, but just as feedback for the show I felt uncomfortable most of the time with things that were said.

[@DHU11]

Get your sensitive ass out of here then

[@owesome2]

Love this ❤

[@noshameiguess]

IUI (intrauterine insemination)

[@ltrillium1000]

I love your videos

[@roinuj111]

We love intros

[@garciakim3922]

Gabby's KZbin link doesn't work

[@Amy-lo5pl]

❤️this 💯you were both soo Funny❣️ will Definitely listen to her pod & watch her tik toks💯❣️

[@ellouisebadger849]

Only just watching this one after seeing Shannon on Gabby's podcast 😂 Wrong way around oops 😂

[@Kim-nn8jo]

Love the topic of queer friendship. I need a full episode on that, please! Does anyone have tips on how to build a lesbian friend group? I have my gf, I have gay men as friends and I have straight friend but I don't manage to make friends with other wlw. There aren't any lesbian spaces where I live, even though it's a big city. It's all either gay places focused on men or straight spaces. And the saying, once you meet one lesbian, you meet plenty also doesn't hold true. Would appreciate any recommendations 😊

[@ck7506]

Start a lesbian place! Whatever your interests are, make it lesbian 😉 Lesbian hiking group Lesbian book club Lesbian brunch club ... Just promote it via WhatsApp / Insta / a facebook group If it's a big city, other queer women will be looking for a space like that!

[@ShelbyAlex]

"WE'RE. LESBIANS." - Shannon

[@LemonGreenism]

It was so gooooood

[@Raddiebaddie]

53:10 nooooooo you guys no!

[@naomi-art-stuff]

Yea what…. Lesbians don’t be biphobic challenge