Rejecting Divorce and Choosing to Stay (Part 1) - Carey & Toni Nieuwhof

[@fifthof9501]

I have studied relationships for many years. I recently remarried a widow. She and I have come to the conclusion that ALL conflict comes through selfishness. We must put aside the "self" and become selfless when we are in any relationship, especially with a spouse/family. Deny thy self.

[@helentruocchio1034]

Yes so true....but we can't change others.....

[@leslieannking]

What about conflicting parenting styles

[@laurenshannon2703]

One of the best revelations in marriage is that I don't actually know how my husband thinks or processes life. He really is totally different than me. I love it more and more. I laugh and lighten up more now instead of simmering offence and resentment. I love that we're not the same.

[@Nicki06214Life]

Were against the d word. We're permanently disabled him mental illnes me legally blind, married, & homeless in our vehicle. Pray for us that God has his way in all aspects. Most important We're saved.

[@georgeverghese1970]

My current situation mirrors their story. Professionally on a high but relationally at an all time low.

[@georgeverghese1970]

Can't wait to hear part 2 of the story.

[@walnutrd]

Truly appreciate the authenticity of your testimony. I'm deeply touched that I am not alone in this. Your story is giving me hope and courage to press on.

[@blanchehanstein3450]

Looking forward to Part 2!

[@carlageday9222]

Oh man now we have to wait till part two??? Wooiwow this is really helpful

[@focusonthefamily]

Carl, we're glad you found today's broadcast helpful. You will definitely enjoy part two tomorrow.

[@tersiavandermerwe22]

can’t wait for the next one🙏

[@lloydlee5905]

Hey guys, I simply love focus on the family it's my favorite radio cast for many years and I admire the kindness and love you guys offer, GOD BLESS YOU ❤

[@purposebydesign5511]

Thanks to the both of them for sharing their story. It will strengthen many. Like me. It helps us understand that struggles are not ours alone. God is with us thru them. He never fails. And in the end victory will be sweetest because of the deepest struggles. Marriages are tried very hard by the enemy and A lot rests in them. Leys keep the faith. "Fight a good fight". There's always a great reward for endurance. I wish you both nothing but the best. And thank you for choosing to stay your children will thank you on day.

[@focusonthefamily]

We're glad you were encouraged by the Nieuwhofs, they have such an awesome testimony.

[@RayRom1797]

Thank you for this episode. Thanks for your honesty and candidness. Relationship is so hard. But your story gives me some hope.

[@brandywilson7314]

Hallelujah Praise the Lord

[@frehema]

O my...it ended on a very high note. When is the next one?😊

[@eternalperspective4136]

I wonder how often perimenopause and menopause contributes to marital struggles. I am 47, and perimenopausal. It's hard. It affects my mothering and parenting, though I try for it not to, but there are times I am being completely irrational and angry at the smallest triggers.. It's super frustrating. Thankfully, my husband and family have had grace with me, but I can see how it could definitely affect marriages.

[@tersiavandermerwe22]

wow so glad I came to listen to you.

[@betzaidadurkin2694]

All I heard was me, pride, myself, narcissistic, and I, arrogance....Lord Jesus may we learn to die ourselves by the power of your blood, married or not married.😮

[@belindawolbling1896]

I don't know whether our marriage is going to make it. I cannot see the light at the end of this dark and lonely tunnel but I take it day by day and am determined not to do what my Father hates...

[@focusonthefamily]

Belinda, we understand your pain, and we're so very sorry. We pray that the Lord will do a mighty work of restoration and healing in your marriage. If we can help you on this journey, please don't hesitate to call us at 800-232-6459. We have counselors and resources that have helped many others. May God bless you and uplift you (Psalm 3:3).

[@ColleenKleinschmidt-yi9fk]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽God is so Faithful 🤍🤍

[@ntrelis]

Interesting ❤

[@stephaniethompson7995]

"vicious cycle of conflict"

[@chandachilongoshi8813]

Unfortunately they are speaking for the audience. They can't give the details that destroyed their marriage.

[@robrob7346]

would be nice with all of your broadcasts u had closed caption included. frustrating to listen to a show and can't understand what is being said all the time due to hearing loss and it becomes a futile effort and eventually i just quit listening. one reason why i don't watch a lot of your broadcasts

[@viviekwu]

how do we attend? we are in Nigeria. we would love to attend

[@focusonthefamily]

Hi Vivian! We apologize for the delayed response! We would love for you to attend an intensive. It would require coming to the United States for an intensive. We offer a 4-day group intensive and a 3- and 5-day private intensive. We conduct these sessions in Branson, MO; Greenville, MI; Cave Creek, AZ, and Rome, GA (not all intensives are available at all locations). If you'd like more information, please visit our website at HopeRestored.com. You can email us from our website, or if you are able, please call us at 866/875-2915. We'd love to see how we can help!

[@daniellemoss7746]

How can Toni as Christian choose to be a divorce attorney of things? And contribute to a dissolution of a marriage

[@donajohanna]

Anneagram????

[@donajohanna]

@@LivininHisLight a biggie!!! (deception)

[@laurenshannon2703]

"Impacting millions of leaders a year" is that real or a bit of an overstatment?

[@jessyjonas4988]

I am not understanding Are they Christians They are ATTORNEYS yes we get it But are they Christians 20 min in what is their relationship with JESUS CHRIST

[@focusonthefamily]

We hope you were able to to listen to the whole interview to hear about their relationships with the Lord, jessy!