Forgiving a Betrayal, Driving Anxiety, & More | Interview with Dr. Doug Lisle & Dr. Jen Howk

[@mehobbs82]

Brilliant! “You don’t see a magazine called Groom do you?!” Way to draw a picture Dr.Lisle !!! I love the way you and Jen teach...thank you so much. Thank you, Chef AJ for providing a platform that opens our minds and helps us grow as humans ❤️

[@CHEFAJ]

Thank you so much!

[@gosiakonstanty3456]

I love these 2 doctors, they are amazing. That's the best guests Chef AJ, I absolutely love it! What a pleasure to listen to their wisdom. Thank you, bring them more often please, these interviews are my favorites.

[@susandurandstone4278]

I could listen to the 2 everyday! I always learn something!

[@jazzbirdbecky]

Hi AJ I just want to add something to this discussion primarily your first question to the doctors. I am a leader in a group called recovery international and what I would tell folks on betrayal and unforgiveness is ~ you learn this language “no person place or thing is worth my mental health.“ “I need to excuse rather than accuse for my own mental health“ get this language in your head and when the thoughts come up with resentment and victimhood say “no no no I am not going to work this up I am going to work this down.“. . Love you AJ

[@MrDcc1234]

... Or- if you can easily enough, just leave!

[@heatherpeters4071]

A very timely discussion for 2 important relationships in my life. Thank you.

[@catherinebrooks9351]

My favourites too. They strengthen my understandings and resolve, and also teach me that I don't have to hold up a shield. So beautiful. ❤️

[@wellnessgirl2806]

Wow that initial explanation of betrayal - as enlightening us as to the extent of the other person's CB - was the single most helpful piece of info I've heard regarding relationships. I've been listening to Dr Lisle for several years, but that was pure gold ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Thank you for your dedication and commitment AJ 😍

[@marigoldcarter5995]

Betrayal is enlightenment. I have been such a wimp 😂😭. Thank you Doctor!

[@CHEFAJ]

Happy to help!

[@rebeccak4523]

I also love listening to Drs Jen and Doug... but when there are too many ads, I find other alternatives to watch.

[@CHEFAJ]

Sorry about the ads--I have no control over them, unfortunately

[@bitfinesse]

“You can take anything you want out of this fridge but you can’t put anything in.” Dr. Doug Lyle is an assassin 👊🏼

[@smoothiedrinker1297]

Absolutely wonderful, thank you so much Chef AJ, these talks with Drs Doug Lisle and Jen Howk are simply brilliant : )

[@CHEFAJ]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@lilianagriseldaszachury1843]

Thank you, I really appreciate you bring the best guest ever for me 🌈👍🌹

[@seanman22001]

They do your show more than theirs!

[@calengr1]

31:41 controlling and mastering our environment/fridge; 34:50 embrace the conflict

[@shaunatatum6978]

I love you both and of Chef AJ, too!!!

[@christinemarie2264]

I'm currently dealing with a betrayal. I don't know what to think about this. Having trouble deciding if I should forgive or move on. This is an interesting way of analyzing this. I need to decide if my spouse's value to me is worth the knowledge that my value to him is less than I thought.

[@MrDcc1234]

Females vary in how forgiving they may be for this not so uncommon male behavior.

[@dimif2351]

1 year later… have you decided to forgive and move on? If yes, what approach did you take. Please ignore my question if you find it intrusive. Thank you

[@nazokashii]

Excellent as always. Very insightful, and while a lot of the "lessons" can be difficult to hear, also so freeing in a way.

[@jilll934]

This is amazing like always.

[@pixelated.peachyangel]

Jen's background is the best ahahah

[@juliegillies6688]

Wow, learning so much about life. Thank you Chef AJ, love these two so much xx

[@CHEFAJ]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@kimdavis5631]

Stop eating crap. Love it!

[@MrDcc1234]

Good stuff, as usual!

[@calengr1]

53:55 Garcia was anticipating evolutionary psychology.

[@ibolyamolnar3211]

Tapping solution/EFT may be useful for desensitization. Can you invite the Ortners to talk about tapping?

[@JustJamey]

Love the Tee!

[@calengr1]

what makes us /forms character 49:00, and we are not the sum of our experience.51:00 Garcia experiment re taste...effects of shock versus nausea induced 24 hrs later.......

[@calengr1]

21:20 why easier to forgive an enemy than a friend

[@patriciagriffin1505]

I wonder then about antibuse working

[@calengr1]

01:04:00 final q on B-Day cards

[@Chester6209]

Hypnotherapy is very effective for fear of driving

[@charlotteward4863]

Just realising Jen’s choice of background 🤣🤣🤣

[@apekoolenlariekoek4391]

Well spotted, in tune with the 1st subject.

[@demesrvl6761]

I just scrolled thru comments to see if anyone else noticed!!

[@VintagePrincess27]

25 years is no joke ....it happens to some people. You just betrayed a mate ??? You said that like it’s no big deal .....Sorry that’s wrong ....giving a man a free pass is totally ridiculous!!! A Marital Vow is a life commitment....otherwise why get married.

[@jeanne553]

Imagine limiting your entire life because of one thing mentioned by an EMT?!

[@strawberriedc]

It seems like it was the trauma of the accident in entirety that did it!

[@kimdavis5631]

If these speakers wear orange robes, get an ashram and become swamis in India, they can become billionaires.