Former Sex Worker interview-Amber

Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Amber, a former sex worker in Patterson, New Jersey/
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[@CraftyCuriosity]

Former Sex Traffic Victim saves herself by loving herself despite all odds. Glad the FBI was involved but it was ultimately all up to Amber to be strong and not accept a life of prostitution. She is someone her kids can be proud of. To have gone through these experiences and not have been broken into pieces that could not be put together. She is able to know she deserves to live a better life and is doing the work to have a better future for herself and her children. I hope her partner knows how special she is and supplements her self love with nothing but respect and admiration.

[@amberk1724]

Thank you so much for your kind words

[@mama.ashley]

YOU ARE SO RIGHT!!!!!

[@lisasheridan5482]

Amber would make a wonderful motivational speaker. Her previous life was harrowing. But her inner light burns bright. Wishing you the best of every good thing Amber 💖

[@CraftyCuriosity]

@@amberk1724 my bio mother gave birth to 8 kids while being mentally ill, homeless and drug addicted. I never met her and grew up in an abusive foster home that also took advantage of my lack of protection. I know a STRONG woman when I see one. I know you will have many hard days ahead of you because that is life but you really do have a special power that few have. You said it .. SELF LOVE … if only people knew how powerful that can be. You know and thank you for sharing your story.

[@Hintedbymarina]

such a beautiful comment!

[@amberk1724]

Thank you all for your kind and not so kind words. I was nervous about doing this interview because my life will be on display..but the support I received is unbelievable. Truly thank you. I went through hell and back to help the next female who was never told these things. You are important and I see you. Thank you

[@zyrosqrd2552]

Amber- of all interviews Mark has posted on this channel, you are one of the most articulate and straightforward speakers, sharing your trauma and struggles to create a healthy future (which is an everyday challenge to stay on track and get up when you fall). As messed up as your childhood was, those experiences inform the person you've grown into, to have empathy for people facing troubles and help them make their lives better, as others gave you guidance and resources to build yourself into an adult in control of your future.

[@PAwader]

You are very brave. I wish the best for you and your family.

[@ryanistooconceited]

Big ups

[@H-Bomb_DaDonDaDa]

It’s unconscionable and heartbreaking that you had your innocence stripped from you, especially at such early age. I’m well aware of the lasting effects of sexual and drug abuse. So, I empathize; and hope and pray you the best in your recovery. God bless. ❤

[@sonyaharding8196]

Amber,you’re such a beautiful young lady.Thank God you had the loving adoption mom which showed you love even tho you experience such bad things in your childhood.Continue to LOVE ON YOUR CHILDREN AND KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT ALONE.Peace and blessings to you and your family❤️

[@ferninthehouse]

please rename this to human trafficking victim. this was clearly not voluntary.

[@kndli67]

You don’t think you can leave? Always a better option

[@Vistacraft82]

Human trafficking victim/Sex worker

[@sdnoorr]

I was just going to comment this! I am very saddened mark chose this title when it is not encompassing of what this young woman really went through.

[@roxierootsxx]

No prostituted woman does this voluntarily. All studies show the commonality between childhood abuse and neglect in prostituted womens lives. Once you learn that you don’t have bodily autonomy and boundaries it’s hard to get out, this is psychological, emotional and physical abuse that happens to a woman in this “trade”.

[@benjamies4136]

@@kndli67 did you watch the episode? She clearly explains what happened when she wanted to leave

[@joanofarcxxi]

5 minutes into it and I already feel like crying. She was a victim of abuse and traffiking, not a sex worker. She was a slave, sold to men like an appliance. Sad messed up world we live in. Amber, you are a beautiful and brave person. Thank you for sharing your unfathomable experience. I am so glad you got your freedom back, you did it all yourself with your beautiful heart and strong spirit, so young and so full of wisdom. Bless you and your children, and your partner.

[@Samantha0221]

This was a trafficking situation not former sex worker. Come on. I'm so happy she has made it out and with time to thrive!

[@kayem9909]

Exactly!!!!

[@genevabecker8441]

Amen, sister...

[@LKCLifer]

So true.

[@amberk1724]

Thank you! Agreed. Hopefully he’ll change it

[@CraftyCuriosity]

Agreed

[@edwy101]

The fact that she is only 26 with the maturity and being able to still smile despite being trafficked and abused multiple times is unreal. I have no doubts that her kids will be so proud of their mom and that she will show them all the love she never got to experience herself. Bless you and may you only move up from here 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@jmarrocco]

This beautiful woman is not a “former sex worker”. She is a sex trafficking survivor. Praise God for protecting her. Love and respect. Very brave woman. Thankful that we have some safe houses and good therapy available for victims. And thank you to the FBI!

[@jjbinx]

f the FBI! they no longer pursue child trafficking cases

[@YoungJoone]

Jesus Christ. She's BOTH. Lol. Savior complex in full effect.

[@projectmayhem6769]

Why would you use an euphemism like "sex worker" for a woman who was trafficked into forced prostitution? Mad shit

[@dmd7472]

When exactly did god protect her? As an 8 year old forced touch give oral sex to random men? As a raped 13 year old? When she was at high school being raped by a security guard or maybe later as a victim of sex trafficking. It seems to me that after 2 decades of torture she helped herself. The FBI seemed to have been influential. It’s almost as if you said what you without thinking. I mean being omnipotent couldn’t god have just “inspired” her to not want to get into contact with her mum. I mean that’s what all powerful means. But maybe god in his wisdom knew she needed to learn a lesson via child rape. After all he would have know being omniscient what would happen. Go on report me because the truth. Real truth hurts

[@come_on_barbie_123]

@@projectmayhem6769 that's what's in the title. Smh. He does this often

[@CaitlynHug]

This person has done so much serious work. I can’t imagine how long and how hard they had to work to get here!!! Absolutely incredible interview with a survivor of the worst form of abuse.

[@tereseday4060]

She's been through a lot for her age. Dr Drew said, perpetrators can see sexual abuse survivors like deer in the headlights. I'm happy for her that she's doing better. My favorite interview so far.

[@jasonolinger7585]

Thats is wild, i wonder if they have the ability to see this or if it is just learned.

[@ncjxbshj]

She looks so happy and confident! Just glowing. I really really wish all the best for her. It takes a strong person to survive this kind of evil.

[@amberk1724]

Thank you!

[@maddybaby989]

I wish nothing but the best for Amber. She is so aware of her trauma and how she wants better for herself and children. She would do so well as a public speaker!

[@amberk1724]

I always wanted to get into it but held myself back as I speak of at the end

[@lisamariealaniz7538]

U should u are a amazing brave and strong warrior woman 💪💯 so very brave God bless 🙏😇 u

[@maddybaby989]

@@amberk1724 Girl, you totally should!! You have such positivity despite it all. You would be able to touch so many women and young girls with your experiences and even help others that may be or have been in a similar situation. Hope you are doing well!

[@CJ_BBUA]

Please rename this video this is heartbreaking she was groomed and trafficked she's a victim and a strong woman who had to face a lot of life on her own

[@matemahe]

Sadly yes

[@christahewitt2758]

Way to go Amber! You’re breaking generational cycles! I’m so dang proud of how far you’ve come.

[@bbstar12345]

I knew her from church and highschool and never knew that she went throught all this over the years. I haven't seen her in while, I'm glad she's doing better and safe.

[@curiousmind6472]

This young women is amazing. She deserves all the blessings god has prepared for her future. I hope she will share her story with other kids in a more formal setting in future. She’s so strong it’s like she was meant to help other children of abuse. Maybe through the FBI or some other program.

[@EBlueTX]

She was se* trafficked sounds like she was in a trafficking ring unwillingly and unfortunately the abuse in her childhood was a blueprint for what she went through . If the FBI helped her get out and she had to go to a safe house she’s really brave to come on here and show her face . I pray she’s in a safe place now with a safe partner 💜

[@Boss2164]

It wasn’t unwillingly something about her story don’t add up.

[@amberk1724]

@MakeUFumble I didn’t share my life for validation…I shared my life to help others who’ve felt their voice didn’t matter. You are obligated to your opinions but I know my truth. Good day sir 😊

[@LoneWulf278]

@@amberk1724 Thank you for speaking on this experience! God bless you! 🙏

[@potato1084]

@@Boss2164 So a ten year old being forced to commit those acts then a fourteen year old targeted by grown school staff isn’t “unwillingly”?? Do I need to call the police on *you* you absolute pedo. Do you know what basic consent is and how children can’t give consent?

[@thomasandersson5275]

Wow I admire this woman! Becoming such a great person in spite of what she has experienced. She is so wise,calm and smart. Her boys are so lucky growing up with her as a mum. Thank you for another interview. Thomas

[@elenabaaaby]

She has a sweet soul. Glad she’s getting help through therapy and moving forward from a bad situation 🖤

[@MrsJoeD31]

I definitely got that from just listening to her speak as well. She seems to be a very sweet young woman with big heart that was dealt a harsh life. God bless her and her family in the current and future endeavors! 🙏🏾

[@johns.777]

🎯 ❤❤❤❤❤

[@TheMilkomania]

I adopted my niece and nephew when I was 23. My sister was neglectful af. Stories like this break my heart. I've never heard of adoptions with visitations. Shame on the judge for allowing that shit in the fist place.

[@nessal4078]

Probably a non official adoption

[@summervibes2847]

Never comment, but this story left me speachless...what a strengt to turn your life and break the circle. ✊️ you go girl💪

[@MunchkinsMotivation]

She seems like an amazing person! She's been through so much and still has such a positive attitude

[@genevabecker8441]

"Do you feel like you were coerced, manipulated, forced into anything?" "Yes." OK, that is a victim...not a sex worker. I have so much trouble with this terminology...

[@MizzTrinieFyre]

She's a baby, 26 God Bless her. I can tell she's very strong and has found better and brighter days, being free. She also has a lot of wisdom and is very poise and highly intelligent.. You go girl!!!❤️❤️

[@FohawkZombie22]

This woman right here. This is a woman of virtue. You can just tell she has a good, honest and kind soul and after listening to this I just wanted to shake her hand and give her a hug. This is by far my favorite interview I’ve seen on this channel as far as sex work goes. Amber says it straight up on what the industry really is. Some of the women on the sex work interviews I’ve seen on here almost seem like they’re promoting it or something, and it gives me bad vibes. I know it all has to do with backgrounds though. What we are almost solely depends on how we’re raised. And yet, Amber has not let her unfortunate upbringing decide who she is or what she can be. I wish you all the luck Amber, truly.

[@kathyglass2922]

Adverse childhood events/ACES the research shows the relationship between ACES and lifestyle outcomes. I, too, struggle with the interviewees and pimps that attempt to normalize "sex work." Situations surrounding "sex work" are all about the ACES.

[@LoneWulf278]

@@kathyglass2922 EXACTLY!

[@kathyglass2922]

@@LoneWulf278 good to hear I am not the only one who understands that.

[@LoneWulf278]

@@kathyglass2922 🙏

[@queengoblin]

Yes, I'm a former "voluntary" sex worker, had an ACE of 5. I told myself it was empowering, I chose it, blah blah. Not one girl I worked with was "healthy", every single one had issues. I had friends try to do the work, friends who were healthy, they didn't last more than 2 hours. My friends who had ACEs and got into it could do the work. Because of course. I healed, and realized, "oh fuck. I marginalized myself because I had low self esteem." really humbling. it's not a choice, when your trauma is making the choice for you.

[@RTJames-gq9xg]

Listened to her story and my heart was sad. When my own offspring had left for college, I knew I could love and have a child (5th grade onward) to foster, love and if they wished, adopt. I was turned down by the state, and two private agencies. Why? Was a single woman. Salary was good; stable employment for over 12 years with same company, an honorably discharged veteran. Because at that time, being a single woman and wanting to parent - and it was a no. So sad. I believe there are homes which could offer so much-but non-traditional, so not selected or even considered. Wishing her all my best-healing from those painful times and being strong to raise her own children-better and stronger.

[@sherryd.3425]

I'm sorry. Single women and men are often viewed as undesirable parents even when they have a proven history of excellent parenting. I don't understand the formula for how those decisions are made. I just know that after 35 years of experience with teens with deeply challenging behaviors and developmental disabilities, a single loving solid parent who provides structure, heart, and consistency can save a life. I am deeply sorry that you did not have the opportunity to pass on your love and skills to a person in need. Times are changing...out of necessity. Love to you and yours and all the children you have helped and raised in your life.

[@ileanajames934]

I was wondering if she was in therapy and I’m glad to hear that she is. I wish her nothing but healing and blessings along with her boys.

[@helenaneumann1872]

It is wonderful to look at the portrait of a woman who has managed to escape from prostitution, modern slavery and the drug addiction that goes with it. I wish Amber and her little family all the best from the bottom of my heart. It's great that Amber has found and nurtured love for herself. What this brief portrait shows again is that early sexual abuse is a fast track into prostitution. It is all the more important to educate children in such a way that they know that nobody is allowed to do anything with their bodies and that they can always confide in their parents in particular. Everyone who has to do with children and young people should be made aware of the dangers. The teacher failed in Amber's case. I think it's a scandal that Amber's biological mother had visitation rights despite severe drug addiction. I know that many drug addicts see it differently. But they made drugs their priority over their kids.

[@amberk1724]

Thank you 🤍

[@LoneWulf278]

Thank you!

[@dr.andmrs.phibes7454]

This is immediately my favorite Soft White Underbelly episode. I pray and hope that this young woman embraces her real mom's faith, also that she continues her education.

[@clear21light87]

This lady is such a survivor and all round amazing person, and there's one special person in her background who gave her enough love and enough strength so that later she was able to get through all the terrible things done to her, that is her adoptive mother.

[@BelleTolles]

Not necessarily. It could be her own character. Having all the church stuff shoved down your throat isn't always the most helpful

[@clear21light87]

@@BelleTolles getting anyone's views shoved down your throat isn't the most helpful, however I watched the interview carefully and drew the conclusion from what Amber herself said.

[@annarodgers3385]

She is so beautiful…inside and out. Amber, I’m from Kentucky and I promise you that we are not all like what you experienced. I am so very sorry for the horrible experience you had in this state. I wish I could have rescued you and protected you. You are a beautiful person and I pray the rest of your life blows your mind with goodness and blessing! Prayers for you, your children and your significant other. TFS your story and God bless you! Heart❤

[@917mary]

The kindness in her being is beyond measure. I hope she continues to be an amazing mother and instills that in her boys. Beautiful soul❤🙏🏽

[@lisadee1623]

What an impressive young lady to overcome a terrible early life. All the best to you and you sons, Amber!

[@juliem1674]

The teacher who she told the 1st time....shouldn't be a teacher🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ That was a serious safeguarding issue. she failed to protect her student.

[@robm8067]

🤔😮I don’t get easily upset and I’ve heard a lot of terrible situations on SWU, but it’s something about a woman of color talking about being sold like I sell something on eBay that is very disturbing. I’m so glad she made it out.

[@HK-ve1wg]

Woman of color!? 🤨 bro your parents really haven't taught you anything.

[@mrs.hancock4124]

How is it less disturbing to hear about a white child being sold as a sexual object to satisfy sick minded individuals? This is a crime against humanity regardless ethnicity, creed, gender, nationality, socioeconomic status, or otherwise.

[@carllennen3520]

Oh? So it hits "differently", than if it was a white girl? The racism today is out of control.

[@bbe3034]

Such a sad story but also, I’m so proud she was able to turn her life around. She mentioned her mom had 8 children by 8 different fathers, all the while using drugs. I can’t imagine how those babies suffered from withdrawals and neglect! 😡😡. I really think women like her mom, should have a tubal ligation.

[@pambeforethestorm9784]

Totally agree. Hearing that made me stomach hurt, I'm so very glad she has turned things around thru therapy and is breaking the cycle with her own children. I wish nothing but the absolute Best for her going forward, she certainly deserves it ❤

[@nataliecoco4203]

Everyone you meet in person in this society seems to be disgusted by what happened to this girl yet things like this are happening every day. These interviews show that predators live amongst us and we don’t even know it. People are so sick. Keep pushing 🫶🏻

[@LKCLifer]

I just want to give this woman a huge hug. Much respect for her to turn things around and make a "normal" life for herself and family. Thank God for the good people she has had in her life. I pray that life gives you more happier times then bad.

[@tiffanyc223]

Damn, she has had predators on her neck her entire life. 😔

[@amberk1724]

I say this all the time in therapy. Thank you for understanding what I went through majority of my life

[@tiffanyc223]

@@amberk1724 I'm sorry you have had to endure this. It's not right. It makes me think about that ignorant notion many adults have about "fast young girls." Young children aren't fast. They are prey to predators who don't even have the right mind or the wherewithal to consent to such acts. I'm so sorry.

[@Aqua_Holic_Fishing]

Her calm demeanor is almost chilling. A true story of going hell and back, a true survivor. Wowza

[@diamondstarling4849]

I don’t know her but I am so proud of her!!!! She is the epitome of strength!!! She went through the most and still was able to have children, be a great mom, and break the generational cycle!!! Not once did she use her child hood as an excuse to be who she is destined to be. May God continue to bless her and her family. Praying for continuous healing and prosperity 🙏🏾✨

[@pointpleasant6708]

Her adoptive mother instilled a sense of “can do” spirit in Amber. I wonder why she never told her adoptive mother of the years of sexual abuse.

[@diamondstarling4849]

@@pointpleasant6708 that’s a good question but often times the abuser makes threats so that could be the reason and it was happening for so long she just didn’t know how. It’s so sad but I admire her healing her childhood trauma . That’s one of many things that makes her a wonderful mother.💜

[@hongng3963]

I love the way she says “Love yourself”. That’s very positive thinking and I wish her the very very best

[@Divinerae555]

So happy for her mind set now. She’s a strong woman, and deserves so many blessings.

[@amandag3778]

So refreshing to finally watch someone that was able to get out of an unfortunate situation and lifestyle. Amber has a very intelligent and sweet disposition about her and I feel like she has a bright future ahead of her.

[@Mummysaurusfurbabies]

Gorgeous girl! So articulate, smart, soooo calm, and happy. It’s like she has an old soul who lived for an eternity. She definitely had to grow up fast. God Bless her and her family! She deserves all the happiness the world has to offer

[@WeSayFunny]

Can we stop saying everyone is “an old soul.”

[@amberk1724]

Thank you so much

[@SpeedyGFM]

Finally a interview from someone from Paterson, Nj . There are 1000s of people with stories out here in Paterson . Mark should come around in this city more often .

[@amberk1724]

Had to meet in NY but yes I told him that

[@toddwilliams4493]

@@amberk1724 I’m from Paterson… I am a vice principal in the next town over… sickens me that nobody helped you… reach out if you need anything on young lady!❤

[@sweaters_and_harmony9525]

I am speechless - this young woman is SO WISE beyond her years. So proud of you, Amber!

[@mikelobue1431]

what a special girl, her scars are not so visible as most others who have been through similar stories. she presents as a healthy, stable person, almost innocent when she smiled not wanting to answer the question about what town in Kentucky she seemed like a little girl. It amazes me what people can go through. Still, I am shocked by the human ability to go through such hell and still come out and function. There is hope for anybody.

[@sherryd.3425]

There is hope for everybody. Thank you for making that point, Mike. I, too, feel it's amazing what the human spirit can survive and grow past. Truthfully, my life hasn't been pretty, but I've covered myself, raised my mother's kids, and managed not to die. Do they love me? They all say so...but I hear the hint of disgust in all of their voices...I had to fight for my survival and theirs, inch by inch while being shamed and humiliated and SAed. And we lived...I win. Now I am old, have cared for hundreds of children, and continue to care for the guilty and the greedy who still survive in my family. There is hope. Thank you, Mike, for reminding me that surviving hell (and helping others through it) matters. Love to you and yours. Love to Amber and all of hers.

[@mikelobue1431]

@@sherryd.3425 Sherry thank you for re wording that sentence for me. You are so right, it sounds better. "There is hope for everybody". It sounds like you have been through a lot as well. What do you believe was the biggest contributing factor to your wellness? I believe there is hope for everybody but I also believe some people have a little better internal guide than others. There seems to be a turn around point where people either die or become what is happening to them or they get well. I'm interested in this point. A deep core life or death place of awakening. Amber credits the FBI but many people would have gone right back. There is something else

[@sherryd.3425]

@@mikelobue1431 I believe that my saving grace was the fear I saw in the faces around me. At six years old, I had an infant sister, a self-centered mother, an older, genius of a brother, and a brilliant and gifted father who worked three jobs. They were all in their own way, extraordinary. They were also very overwhelmed, hypersensitive, and terrified of every grueling aspect of life. And then there was me. I was just normal and sturdy and loved each of them for their sheer frailty. I invented my own kind of ABA therapy just to survive. Act as if...practice it...and it will be so. Write Mom's college papers, get sister bathed and put to bed, go get brother out of the drug house, tell dad everyone's fine, fend off mom's boyfriend, fend off brother, clean, do homework, rock sister, give cough syrup, and doze until alarm rings. Repeat...It is the service to others that saved me and an almost military-like control. See the human, pick up the human, and move on...and always see the humor. I see that grace in Amber. She doesn't hate herself. She is humble. She didn't have great expectations. She took what she was given and survived. She never asked why her, but why not her. It's not that she deserved to be treated cruelly, but she was always looking forward to another time when she might be safe and she might have a life. She values life.

[@julianaroldao2124]

She was not a sex worker! It was human trafficking. Mark, please rename the video

[@Memphisnicole304]

Yea this def needs to be Renamed I'd be offended if I was her and he put anything other than trafficked

[@dedricklane4899]

I was touched at 5 and 7 years old. Although my situation isn’t anywhere near yours but I feel your pain. My gf had a similar childhood neglect by her mother led to so many unfortunate situations with older men taking advantage. She ran away at 15 right into her uncle and cousin molested her for years.

[@NetiNeti-gm5bz]

Our hypersexual culture needs to come to an end. It's due to this that so many children are affected. Not every conversation or situation has to be sexual in nature, just for the sake of impressing/ seeking validation outside of oneself. It is more vital that we respect each other than reduce something/ someone to sexual objects. Sexual conversation has its place but do it with respect

[@danielmeuler2877]

@@NetiNeti-gm5bz I agree. The fact that Sex talks are being forced on Kindergarten is BANANAS!! "Drag Time Story Hour"!?!? Little kids Dancing and Adults throwing money at them. How that doesn't enrage everyone is pretty sad.

[@amberk1724]

So sorry for that to happen to you. Survivors will all have a silver lining

[@dedricklane4899]

@@amberk1724 thank you, I’m sorry you didn’t have what you deserved as a child and young woman which is loving genuine people with your best interests in mind. But I’m overjoyed that your not in that same place in life anymore.

[@GeorgeJones247365]

The best one yet what a lovable soul she is we all fell hard for her story she gets much respect from me for her courage!!!

[@annaokie]

This woman is amazing for real. I know she still carries the pain but her mindset is incredible. Just wow. I am inspired.

[@msjudyb123]

Amber, I hope you read these comments and know that you are amazing. We, Mark’s community, all see the same thing, a strong, smart,resilient, forgiving person. I pray you have a joyful, peaceful and successful life.

[@sylwia3646]

It's so refreshing to see that someone actually leave that life style. I guess it's because she was a victim of human trafficking. Great woman!

[@ferninthehouse]

Your comment makes no sense

[@sylwia3646]

@@ferninthehouse that was the plan.

[@tedohenderson]

She summed up the entire aim of this channel with her answer to Mark’s final question. I loved that!

[@fannycrumplebuns538]

Her smile is SO beautiful!!! She's really an inspiration. So many of these stories are depressing but she is like a ray of sunshine. What a strong woman. All the best to her and her children!!!

[@aquagreen73s5]

Two minutes into the video and it's obvious this young lady is very articulate and well spoken.

[@davehowes5162]

She is a testament to strength of the human spirit and sobriety. Bloodied but unbowed. I sense no bitterness in her, shes a walking miracle.

[@aprylatoms]

Good for you Amber. You broke that cycle. Your sons are blessed to have you as their Mother. I wish you the very best, you are beautiful inside and out.

[@oddskies]

Amber is going to be a great mother. I can hear in her voice the love that she has for her children, and the honesty when she talks about her aspirations for them.

[@Alexandria250]

I'm left with so many questions...like how did the adoptive mom not pick up on the fact that her mom was clearly messed up? Did she drop her of for visits and not notice her mom wasn't right? It boggles my mind. Makes you realize people either have no instinct to pick up on something being wrong or they completely ignore it.

[@mariaager1924]

Those are my thoughts too. And was the mom not drug tested regularly? How did she still get visits?

[@abelmcguire1951]

@@mariaager1924 Fronts had to be put on in order for it to continue, happy for her but seems a few things missing from the whole naive and adoption visitation story. Doesn't matter she has a great future ahead of her, many Blessings!

[@katherinetreiman9480]

Amber is a strong young woman who has overcome so much. Her boys are fortunate to have her as their mom. What a story of hope and perseverance. Thank you for sharing your story Amber. Wish you well for your future!

[@mama_rey3640]

Such a sweet, intelligent young woman. I'm so happy that things turned around for her!

[@almabelhumeur6672]

I love your positive attitude and especially love the fact you didn't bash your adopted mother. I fostered kids for 8 years, did above and beyond for them and their family and was not appreciated. I know how home visits are not good for kids when they go back home for visits with no boundaries or structure. When they get into their teenage years they get out of control because they are confused. So hard. I am so proud of you for becoming the beautiful young lady you made a choice to become. Keep on track and you will succeed. Big hugs! You are a smart young lady, stay away from your biological mom. She will just drag you down. You owe her nothing. A single woman adopted 2 of you. You girls were so blessed to get adopted by a good woman.

[@Anaana-jl5kg]

Awww such a sweet heart! I’m soo sorry for all the pain and abuse you suffered through and wish you healing and GREAT happiness with your children💓

[@maggialbiez]

What a lovley and strong young lady and yes, she is/was a victim of sex trafficking not a sex worker. I wish her all the best ❤

[@ferninthehouse]

im proud of her though she seems like shes really putting in the effort to get better and make a better life for her kids.

[@kmblc3]

What an amazing woman! You are so strong and clearly very smart. To be able to come through this to give your boys a better life❤

[@nurknanker6105]

This young lady gets my vote for Mom of the year.

[@mtbiker4life918]

so ladies please take note. she's not "dating around " nor bragging about her career. she talks about keeping a man while being a great mother.

[@ThatHoosierKid17]

So sad what she’s been through. but this woman is unbelievably strong it’s incredible.

[@heidimoon1655]

I smiled so hard when she said “ Love yourself and everything will fall into place.” Absolutely 👏🏼♥️

[@domo_757]

Hearing about her experience and just the energy she gave off, I could tell that there was going to be some sort of happier ending. She has children and a relationship where they are both parenting and trying to be in a "normal" relationship despite everything that she has been through and the after effects that I'm sure she still deals with on a daily basis. I was really moved by her story. I wish you all the best Amber.

[@mikobrooks7376]

Its so sad so many grown men feel the need to sexually abuse young children the laws needs to change

[@jobutler2804]

Mumma bear - be that woman you admire - be the mother you wished for - be the Partner that you dreamed of….your doing this so beautifully.

[@thematriarchy2075]

And most of all.. just be a woman who is running with the wolves. All your points involve others, but we women are not someone because of children or a partner. Go and be a woman who is running with the wolves.

[@Kimberly-jz2ts]

She's been through some horrible things and overcome them. She does have self love, but she's also got self resilience! She's got a remarkable and admirable sense of resilience. That's something I noticed and I hope she always keeps that fighting spirit alive. When you know you're destined for better things in life, you keep fighting, and she sure has! A very sad and unfortunate story but she's a good example of "I may bend, but I won't break!!" I'm so happy she's doing so well and that she's experiencing joy! Amber, you are amazing! You're beautiful inside and out! Sending you so much love and positivity, from one survivor to the next! Your story really reminds me why even on our toughest days we must never give up or lose all hope. May God bless you always

[@sheilabrennan4481]

She says people could see people could see that I was an easy target. 100% true predators can see vulnerability in so many ways. They prey on it. And when we are children or even teenagers we are so incredibly vulnerable if we haven't been given the love and care we need by our family. So stay strong Thank you for sharing your story and your strength. All good things to you in the future

[@rbell3109]

She said "I`m nothing like my Mother was." I hear you loud and clear on that Sister!!!❤

[@fionaphilips6565]

What an amazing person - such a survivor! I think the love of her adopted mum had an impact, and the help from the FBI, but goodness me she is incredible. She's maybe been blessed by God too to overcome this stuff and find a loving partner.

[@boardbrown]

One of my favorite SWU interviews. Listening to her horror stories, presented in such a kind and loving demeanor, is a miraculous journey. And then her immediate answer to Mark's final question: "Love yourself!" What a strong and amazing young woman. She has a life full of greatness ahead of her!

[@soybean1989]

Her light still shines so bright, even after people tried to put out her fire! Wonderful woman. i can definitely relate. God bless!!!

[@liddlemountain7245]

Im the oldest bio kid in a family that fostered and I've had many foster siblings that Ive been raised with. Its 100% natural and common for kids to want to seek out a relationship with their bio parents. Every one of my siblings ran away at some point to find their mom... quite often it did not turn out well but it doesnt mean its the kids fault, they are just kids and they want their mom. Im so sorry that no one was there to protect you. You are aware of the things you want to change and you have already taken a very different path with your own children.

[@pambeforethestorm9784]

Amber, I am so proud of you breaking the cycle and making a better life for your children, and actually showing them what a loving relationship looks like after all you've been thru. I wish you all the success and happiness 😊 in the world, you deserve it after All you have been thru!! Keep thriving for yourself, your babies and family you have created with your partner, I see good things in your future ❤

[@amberk1724]

Thank you ☺️

[@alby693]

What a tough, mentally, level headed young woman. The ability to not be jaded and carry hate in her heart is admirable and a testimony to the human spirit. This is how you break the cycle. There is no excuse for others to blame their failures on systemic issues. You create your own barriers and you test your own faith to move forward.

[@carolinerocha5938]

Gorgeous girl. So happy to see such wisdom , she will reap goodness

[@MrCris487]

This is one episode I wish was longer

[@quinlozano1150]

there’s something so pure and sweet about her , I’m so happy for her that she got out of that and is in therapy

[@deejones3737]

A number of people requested a name change and being that Amber has already went through enough troubles I think it's best you edit the title. To Amber thank you for sharing your story, I pray that you get everything that you deserve and i'm sorry that you had to through these things.

[@jjarnold220]

Amber is a true inspiration and I am so glad she got out alive and is doing well ❤

[@potato1084]

I agree 🥰

[@FemmeSensei]

Amber, you're a miracle. Nothing short of a miracle. I wish all individuals who fall victim to what you've experienced could have your poise, strength, and clarity.

[@jennifermathieu1428]

She should be so proud of herself. What a remarkable young woman. As a teacher, I am so angry to hear that the teacher she reported the abuse to didn’t do anything! Teachers are mandated reporters. I hope that person lost their teaching license.

[@nicksterp2805]

well done amber. you seem genuinely happy and have a beautiful spirit. you seem like a great mom. make sure you have some job or education skills up your sleeve in case your relationship doesn't work out. god bless you and your family xx

[@jacksoncothren5831]

Her ability to still see the good in the world and know that the future can indeed be bright for her is something special. The world needs more people like her, she is the type of person that gives hope to those around her and makes them want to do better. It's sad that she had to endure the things she has, it truly is. Her spirit is so string that it didn't break her. I really like her, she's a bright shiny star in a dark sky. I wish her and her family a lifetime of happiness.

[@douglasmijangos3327]

Poor girl man .. she’s so calm after going through all that crazy bullshit .. God be with her ❤

[@tpirm2142]

She’s so well spoken

[@solidsnake4320]

She is a a wonderful soul. I pray she remains on her current trajectory. Great interview!

[@Spikeswift]

You've got this Amber. When things get hard just read these comments. I don't know you but would be so proud to call you my daughter, you are strength personified and your boys have such an inspirational mum to look up to. Sending positivity from the UK

[@amsfeeee575]

Holy shit this was inspirational. The best interview I’ve heard so far Marc Thankyou. Showing how this girl chose to rise above against the odds

[@jailasymone6869]

mark do better. rename it and apologize.

[@douglasmijangos3327]

For people saying that we do things and sell drugs .. prostitution.. Stripping.. because of the way we’re raised .. here’s the perfect example of how you can go through shit and end up being an amazing parent and loving your children and bettering your life .. not letting how your life was dictate how loving you’ll be ..

[@TCOB1974]

Bless this young woman for her strength and her ongoing commitment to bettering her situation for her and her kids ❤