Foul Play in Dating: Is He Breadcrumbing You?

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

HELLLOOOOO Angels!!!!! WHO IS HERE FROM THE NOTIFICATION SQUAD???? ROAD TO 200K HERE WE COMEEE !!!!! COMMENT DOWN BELOW FOR A CHANCE TO BE THE QUALITY QUEEN COMMENT OF THE DAY!!!

[@petronillahpyt1511]

From the notification squad from Kenya with love.❤❤😍😍 the growth is very evident.🙌🙌

[@wascallywabbit3372]

Me yes girl but I left and came back bc of a long phone call! So pretty fr.

[@OriginalCuukee]

Sis, guys are just horrible I had been with this guy for a while and later he stopped talking to me for two weeks but was viewing my story and everything, I deleted his number just a few days after he stopped talking to me and he then had the nerve to call me after two weeks asking if am okay...and he also said I can talk to him whenever....what do these guys take people for???? I just said wow all through the phone call cause it's really a WOW situation

[@OriginalCuukee]

I got all the knowledge from who else? My big sis Asha from another Mama😍

[@successsnacks7095]

You are LIFE for me!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💙💙💙🔥🔥🔥🇨🇦

[@samanthacadorniga8572]

mannnn sometimes i get angry at myself when i watch your vids cuz of the stuff i've tolerated. but better late than never. thank you, Queen

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Exactly babe ! It’s okay ! Every single thing happens for a reason ! It brought to this realization right here, and right now ! ♥️

[@alexabee2562]

Likewise!!

[@Jkl306]

Same girl same

[@sophiecamp966]

Same girl! We can’t continue to beat ourselves up though. You’re not alone.

[@wutyeewin4412]

Lol same....

[@Angibbabee]

We only cook with breadcrumbs. We don’t entertain them.

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Periodddddd!

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Angie I love you I just realized YOU wrote this !!!! This is my next QQCOTD!!!!

[@Angibbabee]

Asha Christina *beyonce voice* ITS ME

[@MontemorA-eb1ypy]

Yassssss

[@Kiki32131]

Women don't even owe men any reasons why they no longer want to be a part of anything. Men are fully aware of the nonsense they are doing. It doesn't have to be nasty but men aren't mature enough to even have those kinds of conversations without playing the victim. Block and enjoy the rest of your summer sis❤

[@bglorified4069]

I'm just waiting on the lord, if he doesn't say it's a YES then its a NO! PERIOD !!!

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Period !!!!

[@921cottoncandy]

Yessss

[@r.e45]

Perrrrriod ❗

[@seeyanuhhs.7372]

Yes ma’am

[@bikadroid6265]

AMEN!!

[@lalalalaaAa123]

I was breadcrumbed after a break-up! He wanted to keep me thinking of him so that I’d stay an option- he wanted a good girl like me AFTER college. And guess what girl, he was so upset when he found out I’d moved on and started seeing someone else 😂 I’m gonna need more than breadcrumbs to stay this thicc. Next!!

[@MatthewCoast]

“No matter where you are on your journey, that’s exactly where you need to be. The next road is always ahead.” - Oprah Winfrey

[@savpal1757]

“MAKE IT HAPPEN MARK” 😭😂😂 especially with this quarantine they’ll use this as an excuse now more than ever. this guy hit me up for an ego boost🖐🏻 boy byeee

[@yajairacruz-guardo1255]

One of my favorite quotes "Settling for crumbs doesn't keep you fed, it keeps you starving."

[@myasweetcandy6150]

Sorry I'm neither Hansel or Gretel, I don't need no bread crumbs 💁🏾‍♀️

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Period !!!!😂😂😂😂

[@myasweetcandy6150]

Asha Christina Your videos are so amazing! Love from Italy ♥️

[@humbleheart2650]

Asha you peeped this fool. These guys all they want is the cookie and they are not classy enough to think the thing all the way through. They want things easy and that where they get caught. A man not willing to work hard for my affection is automatically cut off.

[@anakachiamaka]

I'm a quality Queen. I gave myself a special name recently and that is "SPECIAL". No one treats Special wrongly, she deserves the very best. Well let me quietly listen to what Asha is saying so I don't miss anything

[@NydiaTwitty]

When you sprayed me it took me back to the girl’s restroom in high school 😭 good times

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Omg yesss 😂

[@Vanessa-ev6qe]

Omg when you said 'Mark' at 15:46 I was shook, I was seeing a guy called Mark who would literally say he wanted to see me and never make any effort, that was DEFINITELY a sign I made the right choice off leaving his ass.

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Omg it’s a sigggnnnnnnnnn !!!!!!! You made the right choice for sure babe !!!!!

[@belitr5915]

Me too 😂😂😂

[@Little_baby_99]

i had to learn all of these the hard way. Learned it fast and early and now i have my vision and goals clear so i know where to look and what to accept. ALWAYS remember girls. If they confuse you and you are here and there thinking and making lots of questions in your head.. SIS it ain't the one. MOVE ON.

[@catchcourtcourt]

I just learned about this after I was breadcrumbed. It starts with “love bombing” where they plow you with texts, DMs and beautiful messages. Usually lasts about 6-12 weeks. Then they breadcrumb, devalue then discard. I wish I knew this before I met a man who did this to me last week

[@Daniii27]

crazy how much I related to this video. last summer I was dealing with a breadcrumber. wanted to see me but always at his house, never wanted to plan an actual date. thank god Im done dealing with those types of bums

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Period ! ♥️

[@daniella3286]

Same sis, we can not be entertaining those types of men anymore!

[@Daniii27]

@@daniella3286 right! hey name twin lol

[@elianaflores9318]

I’ve learned so much from your channel throughout the past year. Recently, some guy I used to talk to texted me late at night saying to go over his house and I said no. He said he wished he was worth me getting up. Hahahahaha hahahaha hahahah. Men🥴🥴??

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Awww 🥰 I’m happy I could help !!!! And ugh smh

[@Beautiful_Jay]

Asha C: We have a problem... Me: AND IT’S NOT IN HOUSTON!!!🗣🗣🗣🗣 periodttt

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Periodtttt

[@linas8841]

Happy someone like you is exposing us young ladies to the truth! You are an inspiration sis keep going!

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Awww thank you Angel 😇

[@mans_a_he]

I'm a guy and I've always struggled with dating. I've been ghosted, breadcrumbed, accepted less and gave more. Today I came across your channel at the perfect moment and I'm definitely becoming an angel! I have a lot to learn in dating.❤❤❤

[@coolgirl1170]

welcome 🤗samuel

[@kristabistaify]

Hey!!:)

[@harmony7565]

I just love how Asha Christina always has dialogue in the male perspective, it’s hilarious 😂😂 sis is a whole actress

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

😂😂😂 thank you angel

[@harmony7565]

Ahhh 😱😅 you’re welcome!!

[@RealTalkRelationshipTherapy]

Yess we love to try to make sense of mixed signals I.e breadcrumbs but truth it mixed signals don’t exist they either like you or they don’t

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Right it’s just that cut and dry !

[@hirau3145]

You know you have a problem when you’re low key attracted to Asha when she acts like an Fboy 😂 like “Fboy Asha” can holla at me... wait hold on, not the point of the video, snap out of it, focus!! 🤣 jk!!

[@ct9490]

You are really helping me ! I’ve tolerated crap all of my dating years and I’m 36 now. No more !! I take so much weak effort lol . No no no .

[@virtualrealitystudy7114]

I must admit, that when I can be bothered, I take a great deal of pleasure in bullish!tting them just as much as they think they are b.s-ing me LOL because I really don't care and have zero interest and totally emotionally detached.....when they try to confuse me, I return the favour and I have a talent for that.

[@nadine8847]

Haven’t even watched the whole thing, but it already made my day 💕

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

awwww thank you angel !!!

[@katarinakovrlija3372]

Asha exposing the games being played once again, true quality queen style! Btw, love the favourite color, animal and body of water strategy, I'll be using it from now on. 💋

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Yess they are major questions to ask !!! I honestly will implement this forever 😂

[@preshylyon427]

Girl 1st you look amazing😍, I must say that your videos rejuvenated me . I was hurt , broken and lost out here ,but after binge watching your videos.. ain’t no guy can play me nor tell me what to do . Thank you 😊

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Awww babe this is so sweeet !!!♥️♥️♥️

[@NatteringwithNat]

Great video! One would think that when these type of men reach over 30 some of those behaviours would change, it doesn’t.

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Thank you babe ♥️

[@n.mathena7487]

The worst ones are the 40-50+ year olds still running around playing games.

[@pinkbabydoll6769]

Guys the free guide is better than some of the paid guides I bought!

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Awwwww thank you SO MUCH !!!!!!!!!

[@tionnajohnson8430]

I just found your channel and girl I got a whole notebook to write down notes no more chasing and being played!! 😩

[@ginalienn1112]

I love those three questions! My favorite color is pink because it’s feminine, beautiful, youthful, and can be either innocent (blush pink) or fiery (hot pink). My favorite animal is a dolphin because they are free spirited, kind, energetic, brave and loyal creatures. My favorite body of water is a lagoon because they always look clear and crisp and it looks like lots of fun too. Plus it’s not too large and overwhelming like the ocean.

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Awww Gina !!! That’s beautiful ♥️

[@anajapara]

"Make it happen, Mark." LOL!

[@jenniferrodriguez1550]

I love your videos! I used to have low self esteem when it came to dating. Sometimes I still struggle with it but I’m learning to accept that things may not always work out, tell them how I feel respectfully and keep it moving. Sometimes it is what it is and it’s no ones fault.

[@kayleighwall7401]

Iv only just discovered ur channel like a week ago. . 🙄 Iv been single an trying to date about two yrs now. . After coming out of a 12 yr relationship. . Iv never found anything more draining. . Guys r super confusing. So I keep going bk to self work an making myself strong 💪🏻. . So nothing these guys do can rock me. . . Thank u for all ur advise. . Love it 😊👌🏻

[@rheabianchijohnwatre7610]

I had already planned to be single for the rest of my life.. And when I did , He suddenly popped out of nowhere!! Like come on! When I've finally my life , that's when you decide to come ruin my life 🙄🙄🙄 and peace of mind

[@nanasophy]

So relatable

[@aeriellllll]

Exactly 😑

[@princessnaaofeibeaquarcoo3091]

@@aeriellllll 😂😂

[@Evettecord]

I just block everywhere and that minimizes that. And if you run into them in person, be cool & keep it moving very quickly

[@anakachiamaka]

I'm feeling this vibe

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Thank you ☺️

[@Elminx2]

The having a point of reference thing is huge & also realizing when something psychologically bigger is going on like you said 😂

[@OwolabbyAzeez]

Friendly reminder to cook and not eat out today. Save y’all coins. Did y’all know it’s impossible to breathe while smiling? Kidding just wanted y’all to smile 😊. If you’re reading this bruv (or bruvette), understand that you are amazing bro, have a blessed week and don’t let nobody ruin your day bro. Stack and act broke. Get ya bread and all the crumbs too 🤧💰💯

[@simplyamih9861]

Owolabby Azeez period

[@nanasophy]

Tnx

[@kenniefae]

Fell for that 😅😂😁

[@pynki08]

Okay I’m goofy cuz I smiled 😂

[@meanttobe5161]

Got my ass lol 😄

[@allisongomez2429]

GIRL... I LUV EVERY BIT OF YOUR ENERGY, ATTITUDE AND MIND!! 🔥🔥🔥

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Thank youuuuu 😂😂😂😂

[@mellyjelly3331]

The level of accuracy: Sky is the limit!

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

😂 yes !

[@emilaramusic]

You made such an amazing point when you said its easier when you have a point of reference.. and that’s exactly why narcissists will target girls they know haven’t had a serious relationship. It’s easier to manipulate them into believing that it’s normal that you have to fight soooo much for it to work

[@leslie9235]

I appreciate your acting skills, it make everything evident ahaha 😂😂🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Awww thank you !!!!☺️☺️☺️

[@karoliendw]

FACTS! I see clearness in my past now, Thanks to share this girl👌🏼👌🏼

[@stellatheawesome]

Too much truth in one video. I needed to pause and collect myself for a few minutes before continuing

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

😂😂😂💕

[@ofentsemohapi7338]

Saaaame

[@liltia970]

I used to deal with a libra man and this described him to a T!

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Yes Libra’s are lovers but they detach easily because they are air signs

[@shanbellaa9385]

Omg me tooo!

[@kayleehiatte7325]

You should do a video on how to tell a man your Standards 😌

[@ProudToBeVeggie]

Crazy timing with this... my ex’s best friend has been bread-crumbing the shit outta me. He’ll just pop up like clockwork out of nowhere, after months of silence. At first id answer his texts because i missed my ex and i thought he was lowkey checking in on me, but im ignoring his texts now. Thank you girl. This was what i needed.

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

you're so welcome ❤️

[@evelyneamasi]

Asha you are soooo animated and I LOOOVE IT 🤣🤣

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Thank you !!!!♥️

[@effy6920]

girl... your looks in this video... YOU LOOK LIKE AN ANGEL!!! :'( hairline on point, silkiest hair, eyebrows like a goddess, gloss popping, 4K QUALITY i'm shoked...

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Awww thank you so muchhhhhhhhhh☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️

[@MusicLover2Eternity]

Well MAKE IT HAPPEN MARK!

[@sareehernandez6479]

MAKE IT HAPPEN!! Girl I love you content.

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Thank you so much ☺️

[@JasAlana]

You had me at “make it happen mark” 🤣🤣💖

[@esmeeruis4871]

Your highlight/eyeshadow gives me life

[@theholistichunny]

triggered when you talked about anxiety 😂😂

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

I think I triggered myself too😂

[@Kamo27944]

Same 😔

[@talie8563]

yooo the way Asha makes her voice sound like a man and having a serious conversation with herself have me dead!!! lollll i loooove you girl

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

I love you tooooo!

[@tonip6382]

I cant with your intro😂😂 what body spray was that?

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

It’s a tommy Bahama body spray called “st barts” ❤️

[@maybelinev5726]

The way your uploads are in tune with the current energy 🎯

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Yessssss aghhh love comments like this !!!❤️

[@sophiacylle]

I FUCKING LOVE..... "We have a problem, and its not in Houston!" ---- I'm glad i found you!

[@timesha4782]

You never disappoint us these videos. Amazing as always I am excited I am obsessed with you. I love you so much.

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Awwww I love you so much right back !!!!!❤️❤️❤️

[@ems4202]

The way I moved my neck forward to get my spray of perfume 🙊😂♥️ my fav KZbin sis x

[@drealeigh2640]

I can't believe I just discovered your channel. Love love love everything about this. Dropping truth bombs all over the place. I subscribed immediately and can't wait to watch all your videos. Keep the amazing content up. Your energy is infectious ♡

[@livinggood6876]

Thank you for your videos. I get late night Lance alot. I am an attractive older woman. The last one was a real charmer who I had 5 actual dates with and he was not a kid. He had issues. I dumped him needless to say.

[@theresehartnett5498]

liked as soon as she sprayed us with perfume and said we smell the same !! lol !!

[@theresannoli5120]

Just joined the A-list!!

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Welcome to the A team Angel 😇

[@kylaann8734]

"So for me I want someone who is going to be the king of the jungle baby aha.... wassup" I KNOW THAT'S RIGHT ASHA💋💋🤪😝 we only do Mufasa over here

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

😂😂😂😂 yesssssss

[@nicolette3477]

I am so happy you are posting more, I love watching your videos.

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Awww 🥰 me too and thank you for your support !

[@marilynbradley8487]

My Barber actually thought that it would be okay for him to stand me up twice in a row. I don't use his services anymore.

[@kenniefae]

Those 3 questions are so cool! My favorite color is hot pink because it's so unique, confident, brilliant, and unashamed of how much attention it gets(I want to be like that!!). My favorite animal is a cheetah because it's quick-witted, fast, intelligent, and a carnivor. My favorite body of water is the ocean, because it is so sensual and gorgeous. I fell in love with the ocean when I was in Florida, and I was out late, just sitting on the beach with my younger brother. We were just sitting there; the clouds were dark grey, the air smelled of cool rain and salt, and we could hear the sound of the gently crashing waves(fwssh!). It was mesmerizing.

[@cindypeters1211]

I felt this is one of your BESSST Video and I love all of your other videos. It was Sheek , Polished and on POINT,. You nailed it! You are definitely going places. Much love and Respect!

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Awww thank you so much babe I really appreciate it !!!

[@cindypeters1211]

Asha Christina you are most welcome!♥️🙏🏽

[@nicolekate1379]

I appreciate your channel so so much. Listening to you calms my anxiety while making me laugh my a** off like a big sister giving much needed advice. Thank you so much. 💕👑

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Awwwww this is so sweet!!!! Thank you so much ☺️ love youuu

[@KeonaWilliams]

We need a get ready with Asha wig and lashes tutorial yup 👍

[@gracegracegraceee]

Omg girlll, I've been in a couple of situations like that and I had this feeling that something was wrong, but now I see the whole picture 😭 All of those signs you said in this video are there. THANK YOU SO MUCH 😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@yamiii.kawaiii]

He hit me up on June 18th and by June 25 I found out he had a girlfriend! incredible

[@payalpatel3163]

Nothing more toxic than an emotionally unavailable narcissistic that breadcrumbs you!!!

[@kimpancham7639]

U r AN. ANGEL. Keep doing what ur doing

[@melissadiaz1361]

ugh. i love her. the content, but also the impressions, gestures, facial expressions. all of it

[@linara7704]

Asha please do a video on guys who pick fights because sometimes we don't even realise they lookin for an argument

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

That’s like gaslighting and playing Victim I have a video on gaslighting!♥️

[@NatureLove_-fy3fk]

This hit the nail on the head. I've been through too many of these 😭😭😭😫thank you for opening my eyes sis!

[@pippipcheerio9331]

17:50 literally reminded me of SZA - The Weekend lol

[@Curlytashh]

" WELL MAKE IT HAPPEN MARK " 😭😂

[@linara7704]

Asha are you reading my mind like what the hell?!?!? This is perfff 🙌🏾

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Ahhhh this makes me happy !!!!!

[@ninaato3681]

Not going to lie I think I’m a breadcrumb 🥴😭😩 some of the things she was saying I was like erm I kinda do that myself 🙈😂

[@ShawnaHill83]

Just what I needed to hear!! You never let us down sis❤🔥

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Awww thank you for your support !!!♥️

[@salomeyul]

You are like a big sister to me! It's funny cause I'm older than you lol Thank you for your wisdom! ♥

[@toyinviola]

soo grateful you're back to uploading consistently!! hope you're doing good 💛

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

I am doing better than ever I’m happy to be consistent too a lot of great changes! Make sure your post notifications are turned on !!! ;)

[@toyinviola]

@@AshaChristinaFoster oh my gosh your reply just made my day 😭😭 they've been on since last summer babe!

[@kristabistaify]

Honestly ladies, I think the "SEEK HELP" QUOTE is the best thing we all can do for ourselves. We wanna figure the man out or make him figure himself out. But he ain't gonna.

[@princesseesaw9428]

I love the whole animal concept makes sense

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Omg right !!!?

[@Whiteboard7]

'Say your peace' - Key and Peele breaking up with Meagan hahaha

[@zoeamerica4675]

GIRL! You are ON POINT!! I have never been breadcrumbed until recent! What? All these points and I was like whaaat??? #8 “I miss you / when can I see you?” Then I’d say when and we’d plan but then he goes missing the day we are suppose to meet - ? And yup always “during the week, I’m free” lol but couldn’t set a a concrete date! And no plans. He would cancel so much! So frustrating. I told him “communication and consistency are integral to me and clearly, you lack it.” I told him kindly that I’d need to block him and that energy that’s but for me. Sooo... next.

[@niknak24]

Needed this thank you so much!!💕

[@Borique13]

🗣 WELL MAKE IT HAPPEN MARK ! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 yo you’re funny as hell

[@ibtihalc4406]

Love the newsletter, love the regular uploads, love how the channel's sophistication has improved!

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Ahhhh thank you so much !!!!!

[@missyT1987]

Brilliant dialogue and message Sis 🤩💯🔥

[@hannahk.summerville5908]

Ohhhh babe! I thought you might follow Teal. So fucking cool😍 Also just found your channel like two days ago and I love the bitchslaps of truth. THANK YOU😊 So important!

[@successsnacks7095]

I love you!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Just found you and Im binge watching!! Yaaaasssss girl!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💙💙💙

[@lunarosa321]

I swear when you launch your merch please have ample stock of the "make it make sense🙄" tshirts.

[@annies7030]

Love her imitation of the talking dude! ASHA you’re great!! 😆

[@se9731]

I always plan dates during the weekdays with guys that I'm not that interested so I can be free on the weekend to go somewhere and do something fun 😁 and when a guy starts messaging me on Instagram I put him immediately in the group of people that doesn't see my Instagram story so he doesn't know what am I doing and to avoid that knowing what am I doing but not putting the effort of calling and asking me about it