Ladies...Dating for Potential is a Bad Idea!

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

HI ANGELSSSSSSS WELCOME back to my channelllll!!!!! Happy Sunday !!!!! thumbs up this video !!!! and let me know in the comments if you have ever fallen for potential ?

[@edenkayemba]

I got excited when you was talking about everything and I just turned 22 3 days ago and I am so happy this reminder not to date potential.

[@Naomi-em3pe]

Asha Christina please can you do a video for teenage girls.

[@karma-rz5vk]

Sis you’re SINGLE, sit down. You’re hella passionate for a lonely gold digger. Lol also blend your nose contour better shit looks crooked

[@Kemi116]

karma go away Karma. Your a nasty vile lame excuse for a human being. Asha is a beautiful woman, very confident who knows her worth and is catching her bag. I see why your mad, get lost loser!!!

[@maitrivlogs3060]

karma she is just trying to do her job helping people to not settle with people that are going to break ur trust in the future! That’s why I watch this intelligent lady!

[@dashaylalynn81111]

My aunt told me I need to lower my standards & go for someone with potential😂😂😂 I literally laughed in her face! Dating men with so called “potential” has gotten me nowhere literally🥴I don’t do potential, you either have it or you don’t🤷🏽‍♀️

[@mango7966]

Aphrodite You’re gorgeous girl

[@camiller958]

Aphrodite my mom’s therapist told her to lower her standards of her husband (my step dad). I always thought that advice was a little sketchy

[@Himynameiscamila]

Period

[@Sagefrakrobatik]

So if someone is starting law school, I guess you would tell them, dont talk to me until you become a successful lawyer? In that case the man has options now why would he settle down for you?

[@yougotgamesonyourphone6947]

@@Sagefrakrobatik what does law school have to do with anything in this video?

[@scarletta.w8721]

Dont save him he don't want to be saved

[@RealTalkRelationshipTherapy]

Potential is the worse idea because he may never become who you see him as. Then you’ll end up unhappy. And the thing is that you can’t help someone who doesn’t feel like they need it.

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

exactly!

[@dreamgirl1727]

Dealing with this at the moment.... It's been 10 yrs.... I'm 29 now, I'm so angry at myself 😭😭😭

[@georgec8210]

What if a guy has potential and gets his dream job but only spends money on himself. Not on women. When I made the most money on my life I never spend a lot on women.

[@stellakamau6994]

We all have potential. Some people choose not to maximize it. Go for men that show the results of their potential. Results are the name of the game. That's money period

[@oliviajonale]

Stella Kamau FACTS!!! Show me the results!

[@georgec8210]

They do it for themselves not for women. I know lots of successful people who spend mostly on themselves. They wouldn't give a women a penny.

[@ariah457]

George Chachati it’s not all about money like why would you want to be with someone who didn’t want for themselves anyway? It’s like ofc we went to be with men who have for themselves but a lot just do all the talking and there little action and that’s not attractive at all and vice versa.

[@faviolafikir2181]

Love this! ❤️

[@Maya.0114]

I'm surprised the video wasn't longer, you seem so passionate about this topic. The energy was to the max today

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Short Sweet and too the point haha ♥️

[@MultiJasonic]

I’m a gay guy, and trust me I can relate to this, even in a gay relationship. I need a part two of this, Asha! I need you to GO IN! HARD. Don’t filter out, we needed to hear this.

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Hiiiiii my angel !!!!!!! Thank you for your comment I love when I see comments like this ! ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@theholistichunny]

you were going iiiiinnnnnn loll I'm over it too sis

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

😂 ❤️

[@Bodisere]

I really needed this, i just broke up with my potential boyfriend and it kinda hurts but I want to come out of quarantine as an unattached quality queen. God help me not to go back😭

[@LateshaRenee]

You go girl!

[@lubnan08]

Me too.

[@TaiJuliana]

I died at the “potential motivational speakers” lmao you can just tell when a guy isn’t doing anything.

[@saliarae6120]

The male voice was so on point “don’t wish for it work for it”😂😂

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

😂😂😂

[@jenniferoseguera1430]

You just dropped gems!! Stop dating the potentially faithful men. Their past behavior shows a pattern and it’s hard for that to change. Great video! 💕

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Period !!!!! And thank you babe !!!!!

[@strawberrycheesecake7912]

I dated the potentially faithful man and guess what, he cheated he was so used to that lifestyle. Anyway I dropped him like a hot potato no more compromising from me.

[@jenniferoseguera1430]

Strawberry Cheesecake Good for you love! 💕

[@mysoulessense]

“I’m not arguing with you” lmfaooo I loved this video!! So on point, I’m 23 & I have my own business (digital marketing) and it’s growing really fast which is exciting and I was thinking how this will affect my dating life. You have to really be on point and refuse to date down or date potential no matter what you’re doing!! Definitely one of my new favorite videos Asha.

[@malwandemthethwa]

I so relate to this Courtney! I'm also 23. Also have been growing my own business and it has affected how I see dating. Like, my standards have gone up just because of how I now see my future... when you're ON POINT it's so hard to be happy now with a man who isn't on that level

[@vaunni]

That’s was up

[@nicolesmith7611]

I needed this, met a older guy that seemed established. Went to his home and it was a wreak, very unorganized. I couldnt believe it, he is a software developer making a great salary. All he wanted to display is what hes buying, sending pics to get my opinion on what hes going to purchase. I was like how am I bamboozled again lol.

[@waldoswife.4485]

Asha, you give a teenaged girl like me so much insight!

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Awww I’m so glad babe ♥️

[@empressgeorgena311]

5:41 I’ve actually dated a guy like this 💯😩 I’ve actually spent the last year healing from him because, I spent so long just trying to understand how his life became so broken and dismantled... All while he showed no effort to fix this brokenness. Never again, girl🚩 - The saying, “Know your worth & add tax” has been drummed into my head now, for my own sake!

[@nauj92]

Women gotta love ourselves more and not take BS

[@birninzananetwork]

Just understand lady's that those guys you see achieving there goals and are established. That does don't make him a high value. Its not what a man have on the outside but what he have in the inside. His principles his what makes him a high value man.

[@UchihaItachi-nm3vn]

Lol no. It’s a combination of both. A good personality with broke pockets is not HIGH VALUE. Although a fat pocket with a garbage personality is not high value either. It’s a combination of both.

[@nq3526]

@@UchihaItachi-nm3vn yes!!! A smart, motivated and a hardworking man will never be broke, he will always find ways to make money and be stable.

[@olivia4788]

Those glasses are bomb! That message though is on point "WE DON'T DO POTENTIAL".

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

We don’t !

[@selinayl6976]

It’s my birthday and I see this as a present

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

happy birthday babe!!!!!!

[@selinayl6976]

Asha Christina omg thank you I love youu

[@frenchiekiss2002]

"I'm not arguing with you"...I'm dying!!!!😭🤣😂😅

[@foreverone546]

lol @ "i know his heart..." smh. only God knows a man's heart. Ladies, actions over words.

[@lubnan08]

I really love the way you speak. Especially, I appreciate that you speak elegantly.

[@cynthiamadete7688]

A breath of Fresh air!! ..."Ladies Work on Urself first"

[@tkfordeful]

Lol, “save it for your book”, going to use this.

[@KrysStyle]

Sis needed this I was in conflict but this confirmed my decision

[@princesseesaw9428]

Asha I really wanna know how you were brought up because you seem very classy with a tad bit of gangster 😂

[@bd3966]

She's from New York :)

[@nitaaych1213]

Classy bougien ratchet

[@timesha4782]

Yessssss. Wow. Just wow. I am excited. Something to watch no longer bored. Yeah me lol. This way better than watching shows or movies on Netflix. 😘😘❤❤❤❤

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Yayyyy!!!!!! Awwww I am so flattered thank you !!!!!

[@toyinajewole8850]

This video hit so hard. Thank you for calling me out and setting me right ❤️❤️

[@maitrivlogs3060]

Asha omg I haven’t even started this video yet, but I just want to tell u how happy I am with so many uploads! since the pandemic! U came back strong like fire! Thank you for working so hard!! And fast!

[@tamco92]

I literally feel the disgust in your voice. Lol. I’ve been there 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@NydiaTwitty]

🤔Not sure why we randomly got ratchet in the beginning of this video, but I liked it 🤪

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@jenspire2458]

you came all the way through with this video, I loveeeeeeeeeee it

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Thank you babe !!!

[@LateshaRenee]

Just found u 4 minutes ago and im in loveee 😂😂💖💖

[@katarinakovrlija3372]

Your videos have always been super helpful and every video of yours I've watched I feel like I've learned something new and something clicked for me in a way it didn't before but these last couple of videos since you've come back from your hiatus are like on another level!!!! The growth is real girl 💕💕💕💕💕

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Thank you SO MUCH this means a lot to me !!!!!

[@katarinakovrlija3372]

@@AshaChristinaFoster just speaking the truth!!!! Keep shining queen ✨✨✨

[@veinswithglitter1937]

Lmaoo When she rolled her eyes at the Potentially faithful comment 😂😂so funny and true

[@mikoda92]

I'm dating a potential right now. He's paying off debt and lives in a home that needs a lot of work that's not getting done. He's so sweet, respectful, and he puts effort into making me smile, but he can't give me what I want: financial security, a home, and freedom to stay home and freelance my artwork. I'm reconsidering our relationship.

[@PinkLuvAce1542]

And at the end.. let the church say AMEN

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

😂

[@arielxx8771]

I’m loving this energy !

[@sheilaalvarez83]

We need an e book. This video is eye opening & you make it so easy to understand, no BS.

[@amyrah8172]

I'm so glad you're back! ☺️🌹

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Awww thank you for your support angel 😇

[@Sweetheart0189]

Can you make a video on the differences between dating a black guy versus dating a white guy or the difference between attracting White men versus black men? Thanks for considering 🙏🏽

[@sandrajames8451]

Man there is no way u are always on point like this wow! U have obviously been through some stuff .......love it !!!!!

[@ehizefuaedeh6]

Lady....you have wisdom beyond your years...

[@misunderstoodrayray]

Asha you’re amazing. God bless you!

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Thank you so much Angel!

[@cassiec1313]

Yes! I heard that, I got this! It's go time...babe!❤🙏🏽much love to you Asha so glad I found your channel!

[@jullierose]

You're the big sis I never had💛💛💛

[@moeshaj.6637]

Took everything down in my notes. 💕

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

That’s my girl ;)

[@Ms.Tamara_]

Moesha Jones I was definitely thinking about doing that. All these gems she’s dropping.... shoulda been a mandatory course for this in high school. I’ve been taking the lazy route n saving her videos to my downloads file.

[@Asiatic1]

“I’m not arguing with you” 🤣🤣

[@ehizefuaedeh6]

You are such a young lady but filled with so much wisdom. I love your swag and personality. Just earned another subscriber....Love you lady...

[@rerungirl]

I was dating a software engineer (a dev-op no less) and his room was filthy. He didn’t clean up even though he knew I was coming. He was sleeping on the floor with a blanket.

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

What in the ???? 🤣🤣🤣 see you never know!!!

[@rerungirl]

Asha Christina also thank you for replying my comment haha. I’m a big fan and your videos helped me put up with less shit from men every day. I think I would have stayed for “potential” with the devop because he is making bank now; he’s just not concerned with me and that’s far more important. Thank you for posting videos that help me see that.

[@misslili410]

My name is Malikka and my older sister name is Kadijah lol

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Omg whaaaaat 😂😂😂 thats so funny !

[@jalisapaylor-mcmillan5587]

I wish you could better my clapping through the screen🤣👏👏👏👏

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

😂

[@LC-cw2wx]

Please make a podcast!! I’d love that sm

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

It’s coming babe !!!!!

[@LC-cw2wx]

Asha Christina YAYYYY

[@zainajenkins]

@@AshaChristinaFoster If you're still looking for a program to use I've heard of anchor being good. I hope your podcast is available on Spotify ❤️

[@jennifermiranda8969]

We waiting for part 2 asha☺️

[@nickyshotz1083]

I dated a older woman who made more money than me and I was working in restaurant making minimum wage and I did everything for her. She made it seem like I wasn’t doing enough but I wasn’t making as much and going broke trying to give her the world.

[@tiffanybattle7576]

Date in your tax bracket that was the problem, you was reaching for something that you couldn’t sustain

[@misslili410]

Love you Asha! 💖 Keep snatching us girls into place! 😆

[@ddz3903]

Holy moly preach Asha.. goddd you becamse such an important part of mylife.. i litterally feel like youre my friend that only wants good in my life. Thank you so much for what you do

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Awwww 🥰 you’re so sweet !!!!

[@steffinnnn8133]

16:30 really needed to hear this. Thank you ❤

[@paplinahRordgeKhoza]

I love you so much Angel... Thank you for this wonderful video 💕

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

I love you more !!!!♥️♥️♥️

[@paplinahRordgeKhoza]

@@AshaChristinaFoster ❤️❤️😭❤️❤️

[@amarjotsingh8455]

You look beautiful 😍😍😍😍

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Thank you babe ☺️

[@je39981]

Lovely video and you're expressions are funny as always ! "I GOT THIS !"

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

😂😂😂❤️

[@LizNeptune]

6:10 GIRL I USED TO TALK TO THIS WELL KNOWN MODEL WHO'S HOME LOOKED LIKE THIS... Man. His place was disgusting... all what you.. just being in his place I was like no, I can't give him no kitty. NO!

[@annam8243]

So true. I like how u edit your videos that they the most minimal space between words where you might be just thinking about your next words. Love it. 👍 very efficient.

Giiiirl your video is literally a prayer confirmation🙌😅😂 Here I was thinking about that one guy and telling myself maybe I need to give him another chance, he has potential... Oh hell nah Imma stay in my peaceful corner🤣🤣🤣

[@reneehopkins8237]

What if they are genuinely in the process of becoming? Can we build together or should they already have it all worked out before I give him a chance?

[@soniaerhabor3592]

Thank you...loved this topic

[@codie.]

you kinda stepped on my toes 😂🤣

[@LizNeptune]

Watching the way you talk about guys and stuff I feel like we have been through and met a lot of similar guys lol SMH!!!

[@CandyLaLa25]

Oh I did not know bout the blue light glasses however ordered mines and got a few. Been using them a week now. 😍 Thanks for the dating advice as per usual hunny.💋💗

[@RavenUntamed]

Asha boo...we need a look book please

[@cryssycouture9895]

Lmao yes sis !!! You hit the nail on this one

[@blueboo22]

17 mins and 39 seconds of all truth

[@alinaanikina9673]

When Asha started to wave the pen it got serious 😂😂😂

[@pariscortez4190]

Off topic but you look stunning girl

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Awww thank you babe ♥️

[@jilladhiambo5057]

Love ur energy, , , , am a big fun of u, , , , its like ur speaking to me sis.😂was not born to suffer

[@ofavea2583]

Keep these videos coming Queen!!! I’m here to take in every single gems ❣️

[@alexisford1187]

I needed this I love you 💕

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

I love you too ♥️

[@socojaleesa]

Another gem. Thank you 🙏❤

[@chicken89ification]

I remember my first love said I had potential. But she end up being the reason we're not together. So I wouldn't disagree with you but dame.

[@shimonarashi6451]

You are literally my favourite women ❤️

[@nauj92]

Stop potential check credentials

[@MekaLaRae]

I love your energy!🤗

[@ellefelize1660]

Nothing but facts here 💯

[@flashylights]

Those glasses are bomb

[@makeupwithk617]

Hi I love your videos so much!! I am in college and would love to get dating advice. Could you do a video on dating in college?

[@adesolaamoo]

honestly i love you sis♥️

[@Cree_Gist]

I needed to hear this !!!

[@cinnamongirl7519]

You look amazing 💕 loved this vid!

[@rubystone849]

This is a BIG SIGN THANK YOU!

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

You are so welcome ☺️

[@fawndogd5520]

Ha ha the motivational speakers who like every picture you post on insta so you buy their program! 😂

[@StarBright_4007]

LMBO I cannot, too relatable 🤣

[@Mila0427]

LOLOL Asha went OFF. I'm living for this!

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

😂😂😂😂

[@wynoakiaw305]

You did not have to hit me that hard! It needed to be said though. 💕

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Tough love 😉 I love you ❤️

[@queennmo]

Yayyyyyyyyy♥️♥️♥️I love you from Namibia Africa

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

I love to moreeeee♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@clothe246]

Sharron “changed” in the moment for Rhonda but in real life they arnt together anymore and after a year they haven’t visited each other

[@Itsadivinething]

This video is hilarious 😂

[@somiarandall7684]

I. GOT. THIS.

[@queenjee8570]

One of my favs

[@flymetothemoon9541]

Yess I feel you! Its 2020 can we please stop doing this?!

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Yess amen !!!!