16 Personalities Breaking Up With Someone

[@FrankJames]

treat yo self

[@Carol_65]

ENFP dumping her in a back alley. Forget the Ben and Jerry's; get her a taxi.

[@jenzryn9751]

Yass I could see myself doin’ that (I am an enfp)

[@XxShadowCookie]

Your channel is the biggest treat in my whole life

[@drbrainbrews]

Nice Frank. Hate INFJs for doing that to INTJs though😂(bold of INFJs to assume that we won't get what they are doing) 😏

[@TheKatyc]

I’m an enfp, that would be me haha -caring 🤣. (If I actually wanted a relationship but most humans are dumb or is it just the ones I come into contact with lol)

[@ceilinh6004]

"You make me feel like an astronaut. All I want is space." I choked. I've never broken up with anyone, but this definitely seems like a valid reason. -INTP

[@sarah52292]

Yes, after trying to date an INTP, I can confirm that this is a valid reason. He needed a lot of space and I need company. Lol

[@kuiperbeIt]

As an INTJ I agree with this lol I would say that-

[@r0bin_thund3r44]

I laughed because he had on the NASA shirt while he said that

[@isabellarose6514]

I wanna get with someone just to use that line to breakup😂

[@greatwavefan397]

↑These bottom two comments up here. XD

[@aptthedoctor2703]

No one: INFPs: "sorry but you failed the vibe check, its over"

[@CaveyMoth]

When it reaches that moment, there's no going back. It can come out of nowhere, too. And they say that INFJs slam the door hard.

[@purplemind93]

this is true for me as ISFP as well. When I broke up with my bf, I was pretty much thinking like the INFP. I wouldn't break up with someone over a band lol, give me a break Frank James. ISFPs are more than just obsessed with music and art ya know;) Also, imagine how fun it would be to encourage that weird person who doesn't know the beatles to loose their "beatles virginity" and just be around for that, also knowing that you've helped make that person better ! (hopefully they don't end up disliking the beatles or *insert other medium*)

[@morgancezanne1055]

Spot on! 🤣

[@shells9063]

😂😂

[@elodiepollock7326]

My forever problem

[@simplysaifskits3847]

" do you have a walkie talkie ? Because it's over, over " Ok that one killed me 😂

[@CaveyMoth]

I kinda prefer the original execution of the joke. Woman: "We're over." Man: "We're what? Over."

[@angelbear_og]

It's like a reverse pick up line, haha!

[@louisejoel]

Does anyone in this comment thread own a set of walkie-talkies? Just curious.

[@louisejoel]

@@angelbear_og It's cute

[@LILLYENTITY]

@@louisejoel I do lol

[@sashaa7701]

Me: I have to go to a funeral Him: Who died? Me: My feelings for you.

[@emmajo3974]

😂😂😂

[@ricardolopez5505]

Savage

[@quarantinelife.]

Good one 😂😂😂

[@dariobarboni9276]

Now that's a line I would use.

[@jueedhar5449]

Burrrnnn

[@cobracoder6123]

As an INTJ, he got INTJ so accurately that I have to stop watching this channel because he knows too much about me

[@greatwavefan397]

i see what you did there

[@Marilyn2401]

It's not you, It's not him either.. It's the cat (he writes the scripts) 😅

[@qblute7278]

good one

[@amanda4884]

same

[@Mihili_2008]

I don't know I ignored my friend cuz she is being annoying Last words I said to her was "I didn't need you anyways, you are useless" Ummm now I don't have any friends I am lucky :)

[@breathingbutnotthatgreat]

0:00 ISTJ 0:06 ENTP 0:11 ISFJ 0:26 INTP 0:31 ISFP 0:43 ESTP 0:47 ESTJ 0:58 ESFP 1:03 ISTP 1:07 ENFP 1:16 ESFJ 1:23 ENFJ 1:32 INFP 1:43 INTJ 1:48 ENTJ 1:55 INFJ I've been looking for it, but no one posted it yet? How is it possible!!!

[@kritikajaishriradhey]

Thank you :)

[@Maryam-forbia]

Thx

[@ahmusg8054]

here you dropped this 👑

[@nurfarzana9802]

You super fast 😂

[@mellowjello6638]

i actually posted one 10 minutes before this lol

[@TheIrony-s]

"You make me feel like an astronaut Every time we're together, all I want is space. -INTP

[@ashinjoy9368]

What you know about Rollin down in the deep

[@dipsydoodle7988]

Harsh. 😂

[@marcwemtrust1480]

But don't introverts feel kinda overwhelmed by E Types in general?

[@CaveyMoth]

Uranus does not impress upon my astronomical pursuits.

[@njules6428]

They like using puns too😂

[@brauliozt8754]

Then the INFP proceeds to completely regret his decision, he won't try to go back with her, but will spend the next few weeks feeling empty and miserable.

[@ARandomAccountYT]

true

[@nobodynowhere21]

**Hugs**. You deserve to feel complete, with or without her! I hope you do.

[@grandefrppc]

and randomly cry about it after 2-3years, thinking of what he could've done differently and all the possible outcome of every choice!

[@DivineLightPaladin]

What heck does ZT stand for I keep seeing it 😂

[@iwanttobeakpopstarlikebaek1839]

True

[@indigo_rozes3196]

INTJ’s be like: *”Cut people out like tags on my clothing,* *I end up all alone, but I still keep hoping”*

[@johnnysfashionevaluation5104]

As an INTJ I love conan gray and I listen to that song religiously

[@indigo_rozes3196]

@@johnnysfashionevaluation5104 YES you got the reference! I’m not the only one who absolutely LOVES Conan Gray! 🤣 I see that even opposite types (well actually I’ve recently tested as ESTP twice) can enjoy the same quality music

[@johnnysfashionevaluation5104]

@@indigo_rozes3196 yes. Conan gray is one of my favorite artists and I love the vibe surrounding him and his music

[@indigo_rozes3196]

@@johnnysfashionevaluation5104 couldn’t help but notice your pfp and pic on your channel page too. 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

[@johnnysfashionevaluation5104]

@@indigo_rozes3196 do you listen to kpop too?

[@peli8luca]

Infj: not even starting a relationship just imagine it (Edit: omg thanks for the likes and comments)

[@adilbek.ermekov]

Yeah...

[@adilbek.ermekov]

Ehh...

[@Alexandra-uk4vr]

Usually, but I'm guilty of agreeing to one when the other person seems nice enough that I don't want to break their heart... But then my plans are ruined by them NOT getting bored, soo... time to do exactly what I was trying to avoid 😭

[@user-or3lb9py8w]

I mean.... i have a crush on this guy for a while now and although I know I do have some chance of dating him, i wouldn't bother asking him out. Now idk what to do.....

[@Alexandra-uk4vr]

@@user-or3lb9py8w What do you think is stopping you? Is there something you're afraid of?

[@sunnnyjelly]

Hmmm... as an ENFP, last time I broke up with someone I felt really bad and told them I was determined to help them find their soulmate. He ended up getting back with an ex. I was there supporting the whole thing. So yes... treat yo self. LOL

[@cheesecakeandthediabetes]

OH MY GOD SAME I actively led this guy TO her

[@ConciousCinema]

Same here , I didn't do it but i offered help lol I also thought about buying her food/ a present but she didn't want anything from me ☹️

[@gotmilk9843]

No, I once set the guy I was dating up with my friend so they’d be happy together

[@BiNy26]

INFJ spot on as always, lol. Never have I broken up with somebody, no matter how horrible the relationship was, I always kept trying and trying, and when I just gave up realising it has no sense anymore... I waited for them to dump me instead. Yea, we stupid. :D :D

[@Nina21_]

Hey Marina ! I know this skit is supposed to make us laugh but as a fellow INFJ i wanted to say that if you're not happy and your needs aren't being met, don't hesitate to end things ! We INFJs are too nice and everyone takes advantage of it ! Don't be afraid to set boundaries & be assertive 😉❤

[@Alexandra0309]

I'm also an infj and I also made him break up with me

[@sassylittleprophet]

INFJ here. I've only ever been in toxic relationships which I've had to escape from and cut off contact with them (as much as possible)...when I finally realised I couldn't have that toxicity in my life anymore. I think the only thing worse than emotionally doorslamming is physically doorslamming before you're emotionally ready. (Seriously though, those abusive relationships are so addicting, I'd imagine being on drugs doesn't feel too different. It literally feels like going through withdrawals: yeah this person might make me feel like shit, but I just can't wait for that next high.)

[@marcwemtrust1480]

Wow, so you never dumped someone or did the door slam? I think that maybe ENFJ and ENFP also are like you told there.

[@sassylittleprophet]

@@marcwemtrust1480 I'm not sure what you mean exactly. Most of the relationships I'm talking about were friendships, I probably should've clarified that. The only romantic relationship I've been in ended in my leaving and divorcing him. I'm still learning to not tolerate abuse. Also, by now I've doorslammed a lot of people out of necessity that I didn't really want to doorslam (abusive parents, toxic siblings, toxic friends, my ex-husband). My first time doorslamming I didn't know what was going on. I felt the emotional doorslam deep within my soul. This relationship was so damaged and damaging that I literally felt like the emotional cord between us, to make me care about and love this person, was severed as if it had been cut with scissors (clean, precise, sudden, over). To this day, I cognitively wish him the best, but I couldn't make myself emotionally care about this person even if I tried (and I did try). Like if I heard anything good about his life, it's whatever; if I heard anything bad about his life, I couldn't care if I wanted to. The first doorslamming wasn't my ex-husband by the way, although his doorslamming was similar. It didn't feel as emotionally violent though, with my ex it was like a switch flipped in my head and heart (married to unmarried). Just like that, simple. My most recent doorslam was the case of when you physically doorslam before you're emotionally ready. I knew I had to leave because she was abusive (story of my life). I didn't want to leave, but knew I needed to, and my survival instinct kicked in hardcore and took over. She was really fun to be around and I still consider it one of the best and funnest times of my life, even if it was also one of the most toxic. To this day, I still really, REALLY miss hanging out with her, and I can't tell you how many times I've been tempted to go right back to her place...but I know I can't. Things wouldn't be the same, and things were never entirely okay either -- she was manipulative and grooming me the entire time, from the very beginning. She wanted us to be together, but I never saw her that way. And in spite of everything, I still miss her: it's been almost 6 months at this point, and we were only friends for 4 months. And then there's most of my siblings. I feel like I'm doorslamming them temporarily, they're still living with my abusive parents and so they're toxic by default. With them, I can't really be around them anymore without being triggered by something, and they remind me of my parents so much I hate it. Any interaction I have with my family ends with my mental health spiralling REALLY badly. My two most recent interactions with my family was a well-meaning but homophobic letter from my cousin (she's a prime example of a good person who believes awful things, she really is one of the most loving people I know). Right before that, I didn't go to my Opa's funeral because I knew meeting up with all my family again would end extremely badly for my mental health. When I bailed, my brother sent me a text basically saying that I wasn't the sibling he knew and loved, I had changed and he hated it. He technically texted me a link to the song "Who" by Lauv and BTS, which was also a dick move because BTS is one of my favourite bands, and now I'll never be able to hear that song without having painful memories attached to it. My mental health spiralled: I had a really rough next 2 weeks of depression, barely (if at all) able to get out of bed, almost zero energy...it was horrible. And I didn't even GO to the funeral. I wouldn't be surprised if, had I gone, I would've become suicidal after returning from the funeral. There's no winning when it comes to my family. Also, I realised this is really detailed and super long. I'm sorry if you actually read all that, I didn't mean to get longwinded.

[@feyjii4329]

INTJs are definitely accurate 🤣 it feels kinda scary or weird if a person knows us too well, because we're having a hard time knowing ourselves too 🤣🤣

[@SaturdayParker]

Yeah, you can't have the upper hand in this relationship!

[@cmargaretpalacios7257]

I kind of disagree. Don't you think we're more likely to just ghost?

[@feyjii4329]

@@cmargaretpalacios7257 yeah, could be one of the ways to avoid familiarity 🤣

[@greatwavefan397]

I agree with all of you. I've never been in a relationship before, but I can understand how failing to keep cover under the death stare is dangerous.

[@nakhorosualehe1543]

LOL INTJ are pretty scarry

[@paulmatson661]

I love how the Ti-doms both incorporate wordplay into their breakups. The ISTP using hand gestures and the INTP using a metaphor was just *chef's kiss*

[@TheSimpisReal]

As a single INFP, I can say that the only breakups I’ve dealt with, are the ones that I make up in my mind, and cry myself to sleep to... because I went too deep.... :’)

[@anishb.r705]

Yes ikr, glad I'm not the only one doing this 😌

[@doreenkalolela2195]

I feel called out 😂😂😂

[@TheNintendoGamer8]

Same. I cannot go through a breakup without tearing up 😭

[@christineherrmann205]

I call shenanigans on the ENFJ; we never leave. We just hang in there and ignore red flags until someone breaks up with us, just like INFJ.

[@EmTreasure88]

Too true

[@jueedhar5449]

Nah girl, I did it (okay it still crushes me that I broke someone's heart and he had a hard time dealing with it)... But I did it. (Yes, it still is a huge accomplishment, that I let go of my toxic trait(a tad bit too late, but still))

[@ginargentum]

You need to talk to your INFJ friend they’ll convince you 🤣🤣

[@marcwemtrust1480]

Is this happening to all NF types? Cause accurate on ENFPs

[@LauM]

@@marcwemtrust1480 indeed

[@beanieful204]

As an ENFJ who hATES seeming or being rude and hurting someone, that was too accurate! Edit: Ty for likes + replies holy moly :)

[@johnny_roots]

Hahaha right!?

[@NekoNyanNyanNyanNyanNyan]

TRUE!!! TOT

[@whitneyd6827]

I hate to admit it but it's true x( sometimes it sucks to be hyper aware of how everyone is feeling

[@raissacaba9826]

As a fellow ENFJ I agree. Sadly we could really be coming out of an abusive relationship and still hope to not come across as rude

[@jueedhar5449]

High five ✋

[@chaoticbreeze6262]

When the INFJ wants breakup, the other person doesn't initiate and when the INFJ doesn't want, he or she does. Sad.

[@Ace_Maus]

So true... :,(

[@DiscoveryWonders]

that's the evil dance

[@moonlightrini1414]

(._.)

[@Carol_65]

I’m a little concerned about INFP’s breaking up in a cemetery. Does he have a back-up plan? As a matter of fact, this isn’t the first time one of the types took a girl to this place. I think it was also INFP.🤔 Next video: Crimes most likely to be committed by each type.

[@argyrous_p]

That's an awesome idea! Although, I already know what INTPs most likely will do , besides plotting with ENTPs and INTJs on how to make idiots extinct and take over the world at the same time.

[@elises8825]

hahahaha!!

[@snail5742]

INFPs would probably stalk someone

[@nikolaiquack8548]

Maybe it's cause INFP is one of the more likely types to be a bit of a goth.

[@elises8825]

@@nikolaiquack8548 I miss going to punk and goth nights @ local dive bars :'(

[@KaryssaGillman]

As an INTJ yes that is accurate Edit: thanks everyone for the likes also yes this has happened to me don’t worry I’m getting help and if you still do this I advise you to do the same etc…

[@Dream_Mind]

The quote: accurate The Background: inaccurate! (its RED!)

[@C-SD]

🤣 painfully so. I don't even like keeping a job that long. Co workers get to know you too well. We have a tensancy to like to push buttons, so we hide ours. 😂

[@lunaromance2243]

How come I don't understand this at all

[@cmargaretpalacios7257]

I thought it wasn't so accurate. Don't you think we're more likely to ghost?

[@greatwavefan397]

I thought it'd be INFJ.

[@cameron4715]

ESTJ: For those reasons, I’m out. Me: Shark Tank is that you?

[@SymphonyOphelia]

Ayy Shark Tank reference 🦈

[@the.ivy_trio]

As an INTP, I so relate. The only relationships I like are fictional ones.

[@Lea-ov8vq]

Same

[@tomasdelcampo2]

Yep

[@MsWill813]

I have been in a relationship with intp over then years now. Feels like a fictional relationship. Except the computer clicking is real

[@alisaadler6494]

Yessssss

[@DeborahxJeong]

To my INFP gang out there, if you're in a toxic relationship, it's OK to let go. Most times we think that we can change a person with our love like they do in books and movies, but in reality? RUN. People only change if they love you. Don't worry about hurting them when you leave the r/s; they will probably cope better than you do. - from another INFP

[@marcwemtrust1480]

Hi deborah, me ENFP-Turbulent, thank you for telling us. I thin If a beiing really loves you in a unconditional way, than they try their best to make the relationship shining and making both feeling well and trying to learn and changing and avoiding mistakes and hurting, draining actions, words, whatever. But what I learned is, that honesty and clear communication really is basic for all relationships, no matter if family, job, love, whatever...therefore selfawareness, communication, reflection and understanding self and others becomes more important. Thanks for your honest words.

[@violax3735]

INFP; I had a different problem - I was in a relationship with a great guy, kind, gentle, understanding, good person - and I really liked him but it somehow shifted into a best friend/sibling/motherly love rather than romantic love. And I really wanted to love him the "right way", spent almost a year trying to rekindle the chemistry but it was just dead. I wish we had ended things sooner; maybe then we still could have remained friends.

[@khush7779]

Lol I'm an INFJ and my favourite song goes 'And i wish you had hurt me harder than i hurt you,I've been hoping, someone will love you let me go '

[@lilyy.503]

you have good taste in music!

[@khush7779]

@@lilyy.503 aww thanks!

[@quack8295]

omg that song is so nice

[@sarahw8568]

Infp here and same

[@khush7779]

@@sarahw8568 and @quack yeah Hailee Steinfeld is awesome

[@annakarolinamaximiano3654]

The INFJ's one is just... Real. Nothing to put on, nothing to take out. It's just completely accurate.

[@mercytalks8762]

"Girl is it hot in here... OR IS THIS RELATIONSHIP JUST SUFFOCATING ME?!" is the best line I've ever heard for a break up. Like I live. Also yes. ENFP giving you money for Ben & Jerry's after breaking up seems 100%accurate

[@TheFren]

I paid my ex a whole year 😬😬😬

[@mercytalks8762]

@@TheFren in Ben & Jerry's?

[@rayfraytz8574]

Omg! That ISFP one is so relatable for me. Everytime when I want to talk about a band with one of my friends, and when they say they didn't know who the band is, I actually died inside

[@serendinkity]

OMG INFJ IS SO ACCURATE story time : I did just that and it actually worked and now I’m happily single 😌

[@user-or3lb9py8w]

Welcome to the single's party.

[@emmagdn]

SAMEEEE

[@Lopaloos]

Same bro, same

[@danielsullivan2983]

This is definitely our move. The relationship is always over for us ... before it's over for us. (Another happy single INFJ)

[@amusingintonations]

@@danielsullivan2983 So damn true. Happened to me before back when I was dating....it's always over before we say so.

[@blush106]

The forest background for INFP makes it look like he's in a fairytale and that makes me think INFP Frank's girlfriend just failed some kind of test

[@SwedishTourist]

He has an INFP girlfriend?

[@blush106]

@@SwedishTourist No he doesn't have an INFP girlfriend, in the skit Frank was an INFP and he was breaking up with someone 1:33

[@SwedishTourist]

@@blush106 ohhh hahahah thanks I didn’t pay attention 🤦‍♀️ 😂

[@hotkoolaid_1651]

"you know me so well and it's freaking me out-" ok personally i dont appreciate being called out like this

[@SeanWainwright24]

INTJ: You know all my secrets and weaknesses…it’s time to introduce you to my shark pool before I try it on those pesky protagonists. Can’t have you potentially ruining my world domination plans.

[@greatwavefan397]

_"He-he punched my shark!"_

[@peacefulleopard8016]

No an INTJ would never share any real secrets or weaknesses...if their partner asked them, they’d just say AN answer, not the real answer. For example, the question “what’s your biggest fear?” They’d say their 3rd or 4th fear, and pretend that’s their biggest.

[@angkim3111]

@@peacefulleopard8016 thisssssssssssssssss 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@user-js4mt1nr2y]

Damn that was hurtfull.. 😅 I guess soon I will loose my INTJ friend cause I am getting real close and personal. And also my dad apparently. 🤷‍♀️ 🤣 - ENFJ

[@martamkrtchyan9368]

@@peacefulleopard8016 that's soooooo truee😂 I've been doing that my whole life

[@khushkhan4343]

And here we have found the luckiest INFJ who "had" a Relationship.😂😂

[@anushka3528]

Lmfaooo you roasted infjs so well Your comment is highly underrated lol

[@aiswaryau4797]

I don't know if I'm an INFJ or INTP. The personality tests told me that I'm an INFJ and most of it was correct especially how I can read people to the point that my friends and family think I have a sixth sense or something. But I also relate to INTPs a lot. I broke up with my ex like an INTP but I also tried to make him breakup with me first. I'm so confused about my personality, can someone help me?

[@moonlightrini1414]

100th like from an INFJ LMAO

[@kaboomgaming4255]

@@aiswaryau4797 take these videos with a grain of salt; try looking at fj's videos about cognitive functions to see which ones you relate to the most and then figure out your functions from there. It'll make sense eventually.

[@sweetea6550]

STAHPPPP

[@i_wanna_be_somewhere_else]

We love the ad featuring you in it right before the video- But also that INTP was so very accurate (lmao). I feel like a lot of people complain about being single, but I really don’t mind, the loneliness is comforting sometimes.

[@sweethomemars5583]

I was thinking about getting myself a brand new boyfriend...but I really just don't want one..it kinda makes me feel like What will I do with him...I don't wanna talk with anyone...🗿So now everytime I think of getting one It feels like I am forcing myself to be in a relationship

[@greatwavefan397]

I have so much to do before I even consider a relationship: I need an individual bank account I can manage, a car, a place to live, some furniture and other items, some friendships to make, some hobbies to get into, some schoolwork to manage, a job closer to my career goals, and-most importantly-some space to self-actualize. I know there may be girls who like me how I am, but how will I pour from an empty cup? Especially since I need plenty of introvert time? - INTJ

[@delll372]

@@sweethomemars5583 another INTP female here, I totally agree!! however not long after I broke up I found a guy online and we talked about our hobbies, meme, play games together, talk extensively about issues, hypothetical questions, and 3 years later we become couples 😂 who knows accidentally finding a friend to talk about hobbies turns out to be my perfect partner 😂

[@greatwavefan397]

@@delll372 That's exactly the approach I've considered.

[@RisaBeesa]

I once helped someone break up with me... he seemed to be having a hard time finding the words so I walked him through it. I think I might’ve even thrown in a “good job” and “I’m so sorry... I know that was hard for you to do”. 💚INFP-T🐝

[@StephanieJeanne]

😂 Wow! Good for you! ✌️💜

[@C-SD]

That's def an infp way to handle it. 😁 I helped my ex ask a girl out on v day before we broke up. (It was a weird convoluted situation, and logically that happened to be the best way for me to move forward. (Intj lol)

[@RisaBeesa]

@@StephanieJeanne kind of funny to console him as he assumed I would need consoling... ha! Pfft.

[@RisaBeesa]

@@C-SD okay that also sounds like something I’d do. Haha. Hey, it works. And it worked out for all parties involved it seems. 💚✌🏽

[@StephanieJeanne]

@@RisaBeesa 😆 was kinda sorta like that with you know who. 🤪

[@invisibleninja86]

As an ENTP I feel like this is a totally valid reason to break up with someone, but I would never say it out loud! Am I still a bad person? 😅

[@wisteria1739]

So,like it does not mean you do not like or love them anymore,just the relationship holding you back? Will you still continue caring for them anyway?

[@jamielynn9853]

I’m an ENTP and have declined dates for this exact reason. Didn’t say it out loud, but sure thought it 😅

[@JXM1994]

Another ENTP here - Or...orrrrr you know your worth. I practically told an ex they were pathetic because he was spineless, now that im older I realize I should've been more sensitive to the topic.

[@jennyneon]

Breaking up with Personalities is in the literal sense, their personalities are breaking.

[@ClubENTP]

-ENTP "It’s Not You, It’s Me." Was My Go To, But Next Time I'll Buy Her Some Ben And Jerry’s.

[@ClubENTP]

@@turquoisetranquility lol

[@yurishaa.9337]

Ah, I see you got class in there.

[@JosieAndTheFurbs]

As an ENFJ, I’m always worried that if I wanna break up with a partner I’m gonna come across as a big jerk.

[@Chigger]

I never broke up with anyone (my ex-girlfriend broke up with me, that's different), but there was someone I was interested in earlier this year. We were talking, and I hoped we could go steady, but then she dropped all communication with the world, including with me. Next time I saw her (months later), I let her know that we couldn't be together if she won't talk to me. I shook her hand and wished her the best in life. Yeah, we ENFPs still try to lift people up, even if it's not best for us to be _with_ them.

[@user-or3lb9py8w]

I feel you. It's hard taking all the responsibilities on our shoulder. Next time, remember to share how you feel about the situation to the other person so that they atleast acknowledge the fact that you are trying your best with good intentions.

[@omomo202]

How did she act when you saw her again ? I once saw an ISTP I “dated” for a month before he went AWOL on me and he acted like nothing happened. That didn’t sit well with me. So I didn’t talk to him again. I felt bad but I have my limits.

[@Chigger]

@@user-or3lb9py8w I tried to call her, text her, and use Messenger. I didn't receive any response of any kind for three and a half months.

[@Chigger]

@@omomo202 She acted guilty, like she knew I'd be hurt about her absence. She (INFP) said she just felt like she needed to withdraw from the world for a while. I then told her that I was worried about her sudden unannounced disappearance, and while I wasn't mad, she still should've at least let me know that she'd be disconnected for some time. It was then that we knew a romantic relationship between us wouldn't work. I haven't seen her since.

[@Marilyn2401]

Ghosting is horrible, I'm glad you take the healthy way

[@shayelisa]

Interesting. I am an INTJ and I like that my spouse knows me so well. I don't have to talk anywhere near as much this way. Plus, it means I never have to worry about surprise parties or any of that shit. He knows better.

[@alsatusmd1A13]

Plot twist: ISFJ had that partner in the first place because their cats liked each other.

[@angkim3111]

Omg 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@tanushreesingh1999]

And hence the only option INFJ is left with after people do not break up with them is to *ghost them* cause we hate confrontation

[@marcwemtrust1480]

But this to me sounds really more like an INFP thing, because most INFJ are honest souls, straight in communication and care much about others, but I have known this kind of ghosting for the infp-people. No clear communication, but only ghosting, was kinda terrible infp treatment.

[@cheyennemcginniss6164]

@@marcwemtrust1480 INFPs don’t ghost. We’ll tell you exactly what’s up & why, because we hate it when people play games with us.

[@marcwemtrust1480]

@@cheyennemcginniss6164 Uh Sounds best, maybe I have known unhealthy INFP and ESTP people. :) Good to hear you are quite honest and direct. Thanx.

[@evolili4245]

As an ENFP, I actually wanted to get my ex flowers when I was going to break up with him. A friend stopped me though😅

[@marcwemtrust1480]

XD so nice enfp. XD

[@hannahsonnenburg7718]

I really thought he’d do something very douchey for ENTJ but that was surprisingly accurate.

[@carry-on-my-legacy]

Me, an intp who has never been in a relationship... "yes, this is accurate" *Excessive nodding*

[@greatwavefan397]

Me, an INTJ: laughs at the intj joke for an unknown reason

[@lilibalint3038]

The infp one was scarily accurate, help

[@toomuch5484]

This is so accurate! as an infp, the standard I put for my dream relationship is so high even I know there ain't no way I'm going to find anyone fulfilling that with me but I still keep that standard. I'm miserable.

[@nerysghemor5781]

ESTJ: "So for those reasons, I'm out." That kinda sounded like a call-out to Shark Tank!!! XD

[@autumn8538]

I seriously rejected someone with almost those exact words last week, crazy how accurate that was -ENTP

[@kimzachris5340]

I’ve broken up with people in all the IN ways, and the only one I can recommend is the INFP. ”Space” makes hopeful people think it’s a break rather than a breakup, ”you know me too well” has people trying to hold on to you ”for your own good”, and waiting for the other person to break up can take a very very long time and is a waste. Though if you run out of patience and actually spit out a ”I want to break up!” and manage neither to take it back nor soften it in any way, I guess it is quite as straightforward as ”I do not have romantic feelings for you”.

[@whitneyd6827]

Jokes aside when I first went to my ISFJ ex's apartment and met his cat he was overjoyed that it liked me lol. He said the little guy doesn't like many people and he took that as a good sign. We did not break up for any cat-related reasons though haha

[@ladyducatnip]

Mr. Meow-gi say… hiss on, hiss off… 😹🙌✌️

[@qu0thraven]

Or in the case of a break-up, just hiss-off. ;P

[@ladyducatnip]

@@qu0thraven You read between the lines! Fantastic! 🤩🙌

[@argyrous_p]

INTPs -->Masters of Plutonic relationships 💫💥 P.S I was 15 when I met the first person that did not know the Beatles. Up until then, I honestly thought all houses come by default with a vinyl collection of the Beatles, The Doors, Pink Floyd, Deep Purple and Elvis(!). Apparently I was just born into a weird family with equally weird family friends. That or my dad forced everyone into his music... Not sure 😂😂😂

[@Carol_65]

Nothing weird about that album collection.👍

[@argyrous_p]

@bon herr Nope..Plutonic....as in....we need as much space as there is between Earth and Pluto 🤓 (Pun intended)

[@delll372]

@@argyrous_p i love your jokes. INTP approved 👍✨

[@AniWho268]

Lol plutonic. I get it, maybe a bit of a corny joke(for lack of a better word), but I appreciate it all the same.

[@cmargaretpalacios7257]

@@argyrous_p OK, that was awesome. It went over my head...heh...

[@elemonade8830]

Ok, I will NEVER have the guts or be drunk enough to announce the break up with a joke/pun. But I couldn't, for anything in the world, stay in a relationship with someone that doesn't respect my personal space.

[@AwkwardMelody]

I'm an INFP but feels liks the INFJ one was the more relatable. My ex secretly cheated on me and when I realised that, I didn't confront her about that. Instead I made her break up with me and it took like, 3 months.

[@cmargaretpalacios7257]

My son is an infp. Because I'm an old lady and an intj, let me tell you how you should have handled that. You should have broken it off with her for no reason. That would have left her wondering why. It's petty, but she deserved it.

[@AwkwardMelody]

@@cmargaretpalacios7257 That's exactly how I made her break up with me. I ghosted her so long and that eventually made her break up with me herself

[@unlockyoursoulmemory4199]

@@AwkwardMelody gues ghosting is a bit typical for INFPs?

[@user-or3lb9py8w]

@@unlockyoursoulmemory4199 it's also for infjs

[@goosesatan]

INTJs have a special breakup method it’s called ghosting

[@greatwavefan397]

So do INFJs apparently.

[@kheshirekat9623]

ENFP still giving even when the relationship is over 💀 Will I never escape my giving ways

[@marcwemtrust1480]

So true, but this is natural....

[@mayadere]

No, I think this is just what we do 😭

[@angkim3111]

Why ENFPs like this 😭

[@barbaricstrike5814]

You can learn to give to yourself.

[@hestikleynhans4926]

As an INFP I must say that is half true for me. I can’t really maintain a relationship if I do not feel the fairytale kind of spark. But usually I just ghost them until they just stop trying

[@lightbluedays3278]

🤣 as an INFP too I totally feel the ghosting part. I honestly don't always mean to and I kinda feel bad at times, but at the same time it's just like.. ehh... they will get the hint eventually.

[@shells9063]

Its kinda just like..you want them to get the hint without having to actually..yk say it? Cauz if you'd have to actually tell them you'd feel like a mean person

[@ibr6193]

Not cool, sis

[@maya-2583]

That's not cool. Be direct. Ghosting is modern day ostracism and having been on the receiving end I will never do it again.

[@brokeneggshell5041]

Don't ghost them, being ghosted feels horrible and even if it's easier for you it's very inconsiderate and nasty to them.

[@GladysAmelia]

Thanks!

[@ginocastillo8272]

ENFJ is 100% accurate. I have to fight the urge to say stuff like that after delivering hard news. Sadly it's often out of self-preservation than good will 😅

[@iheartgirls16]

I’m nervous to watch this 😬 Edit: yep, as an INFJ that sounds about right or it’s the total , “f you … you are dead to me” door slam

[@joaostcgomes]

Or saying "Wait, I don't know you, bye!", letting other people confused seems cool too

[@marcwemtrust1480]

So are you an INFJ? Trying to learn about INFJs ESTJs ENFP ENFJ.

[@marcwemtrust1480]

@@joaostcgomes Hm, so you would not have any problems leaving your mind open with no reason ghosting you, if you have known each other for long time?

[@joaostcgomes]

@@marcwemtrust1480 I would ghost someone like that if that person betrays my trust, even if I have known him/her for a long time. INFJs can be trusted 100% because we will try everything we can to not hurt people. Being trusted is easy but trusting is hard for us, we are always thinking "What if that person isn't trustable?", so when we are betrayed it isn't so hard to ghost someone because we are already prepared for it.

[@marcwemtrust1480]

@@joaostcgomes ​ Thank you deeply for your clear honest discription. But I can understand and relate...your infj trust is something so profounded and valued, but therefore also vulnurable. Giving trust, is about the honesty of soul, like opening up, and if the soul of yours get hurt...too many times, sure you might give them time to learn and be patient, but if you have the feeling of that they do not care about you, you really might ghost them.

[@GiadTheShyCat]

My INFJ boyfriend left me a month ago, I thought I was finally okay, why are you doing this to me...

[@01031999sweet]

My sister is an ENTJ and that was ACCURATE AF for her!

[@faithg5250]

I am not ISFP but I relate to this so much it made my chest squeeze 0:31 (He'll be playing Srgt Pepper a lot more now that they're broken up lol)

[@katieblake3023]

INFJ: Tries to break up. person: *cries and pleads* INFJ: Ahh shit..... Feels bad/empathy, comforts them, while feeling kinda pissed & uncomfortably compromised/burdened inside. Tells themselves to give a shot for this person's sake trying to convince themselves out of guilt for it to work out but back mind/deep down 'I'll nurse them back and wait till they're more emotionally stable, and then break up with them when they can better handle it.' Tries to break up for months. INFJ: Gives Ultimatum after giving generous (many) chances & benefit of doubt. person keeps breaching INFJ's boundaries. INFJ: Enough, That's IT! I'm done with you. *Doorslam*

[@CommodoreVic20]

As an INFJ I can try for months not weeks and still have difficulty doing it!

[@StephanieJeanne]

Took me 20 years to end a platonic relationship. 🙀 I feel ya.😊

[@divishatewari7612]

@@StephanieJeanne damn thats scary 💀 I've also been into a toxic platonic relationship for about half a year now... I want to end it... but I'm just unable to do it.... 😭

[@StephanieJeanne]

@@divishatewari7612 Aww, gosh! I'm sorry to hear. Without prying, I would say if you live with them and have any other place to go that's safe, end it as soon as you can. It drains your spirit. You deserve better.🤗💜

[@marcwemtrust1480]

@@StephanieJeanne Hm, so which type are you Stephanie, I am still learning about mbti, sorry. XD Was the relationship no good for you?

[@StephanieJeanne]

@@marcwemtrust1480 INFJ. Correct. Was toxic.

[@SamiaJamal]

As an entj, I would be like "sorry, this is just not aligning with my goals and visions in life"

[@Water-iv7cx]

As an Infj, I have done exactly that lmao, I ignored the person for two months until he couldn't take it anymore. Then I finally had to tell him, and I couldn't have come across more unfeeling than while doing that. I can be such a bitch, sometimes.

[@wisteria1739]

I can totally relate to that.Once I made up my mind,nothing is capable of changing it,and yeah I immediately switch off my feelings too...

[@pacificcastaway9972]

Ok, I think this is one of the best ones yet. And ISTJ is spot on. We don't presume to know what your reaction is going to be, but we prepare for the top 10 we can think of.

[@XandriethXs]

INFJ: So if I date an INTJ, I won't have to be worried about how to end the relationship as I don't want to get married...? Me taking notes....

[@martamkrtchyan9368]

I'm an INTJ and I don't like marriages. For me they are unnecessary. As if you can't live together with your s/o and be happy without getting married. Becides without being officially married ending the relationship is easier

[@XandriethXs]

@@martamkrtchyan9368 plus the world is very overpopulated anyway. The social norm of getting married and having kids is not doing any good....

[@martamkrtchyan9368]

@@XandriethXs true! That norm is so problematic! Sometimes I wonder why it still exists, why is it still a thing?

[@XandriethXs]

@@martamkrtchyan9368 "social comfort".... :)

[@martamkrtchyan9368]

@@XandriethXs 💀💀😂

[@JimmyThaJam]

Loving the reverse pick-up lines approach here.

[@greatwavefan397]

break-up lines

[@marcwemtrust1480]

Hm...ok, did not realize that...really? But thinking about it further...

[@TEAMHYBRID007]

I love the fact that you actually have KZbin commercials now it's pretty interesting and I actually followed them all the way until the end cuz I know you tried so hard to get commercials to show up on your channel but they never did

[@marcwemtrust1480]

And it really is cool having own commercial and bringing it up into your relatet content videos. :)

[@jiabing7592]

Dear E N F P, Keep being your cute and funny self. Sincerely INFP

[@squarrot9355]

Entp: I was literally just two hours ago walking through the hallway just casually thinking as you do if I broke up with someone I'd probably be like: It's not you it's me, actually that was a lie, uh I found a better option

[@LailasCookieshop]

The INFJ was just me with my last relationship even tho I didn't told him that xD I literally thought about more ways to get him break up with me but it took too long, so I did it in the end...

[@whatiftherewerejust100peop8]

"You know me so well and it's freaking me out. We gotta break up" - INTJ. Translation: There is a foreign object in Personal space. Warning, Danger. Too close, too close. Burn all the bridges NOW. Sitting on a toilet random thoughts...

[@angkim3111]

IT SHOULD BE QUOTES OF THE YEAR 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Gio-sx7kt]

INFJ still in a perpetual relationship with ENTP because they break it off every week giving the semi-reassurance that they will take charge in breaking it off, but by the end of the week ENTP is back with the line, "There is no one better, I need you.🌹" And so continues in perpetuity.

[@DragonriderEpona]

Is Mr. Meowgi a reference to Mr. Miagi of the original Karate Kid movies?

[@wilbeugre]

I thought the same 😃

[@neonchild]

INFJ IS SOOOO ON POINT. I literally hate hate breaking up with someone and hurting their feelings so I try really hard to somehow make them wanna leave me, but then it never works, and just gotta tell it to them. Then I end up in worse pain than them probably. |:

[@wisteria1739]

Yesss...and just the thought of the pain they would go through hurts me even more,even if they are toxic for me.It's just so addicting ya know,I am still lingering around the fence,trying not to just disappear right away,because if I made up my mind to put both of my feet out the door,there is no chance that I am ever going back.

[@neonchild]

Ahh, same, when we leave we really leave. 😪 I totally get ya.

[@Art_and_Soul_Studio]

When the other person tries to decline my attempt to break up. Infp(turns from a sweet dream into a complete nightmare )

[@C-SD]

I've had people try to do that. You can't "decline" a break up. This isn't a negotiation, ffs.

[@TheGhastlybaker]

Hi FJ, I've been following your channel for a year or so, love the thought and effort that goes into the 16 types skits. Lately, gotten into some of your older videos of long chats. I'm so glad I found your channel. As an infj, it feels so good to know there's a whole community out there like me. I like how you always try to bring in a balanced view of things. It helps me learn more about myself and handle life better. Your KZbin channel is a safe space and pretty important for people who identify as infjs or introverts. It can be frustrating when people don't get you or when you don't understand yourself sometimes. I'm so glad you've found an outlet to communicate. It can be hard sometimes when all I want to do is talk but nobody around can go deeper than the surface and at least getting a chance to comment and bounce off ideas in the comments section helps. Thanks again. Peace 🙂

[@elises8825]

[@ikasugami]

If I ever get a male cat, I am totally naming him "Mr. Meowgi" 😂

[@ericwedin4154]

Will use the ENTP one if/when needed. Brilliant!😎😂👍

[@jessishirley2434]

As an INTJ this one hit too close to home😂

[@hamtoriz1084]

lmao why is this so accurate it's hilarious! you're so on point! as always! the ISFP i knew it was ISFP the moment he talked about his fave band/music lmao as an ISFP i can confirm it's 1000% accurate lol i'd be all polite and stuff but in my mind i'd already be like "you don't know my fav band? sorry we can't be friends"

[@Kai-qo1nx]

Okay but as an ENFP I related too much to the way we break up in the video?? My love language is definitely gift-giving, and when I want to cheer someone up I will always buy a small gift. I don't know if that's the case for other ENFPs as well?? But that's definitely how I would try to break up with someone 😂

[@natassiatavares4568]

I'm ENFP and I completely hate gift-giving. Don't know what to get and I show affection other ways.

[@dianatorralbo7690]

As ENFP my main love languaje is words of affirmation. When I break up I'm honest, I say what I feel.

[@addiewinfrey6858]

Yeah as an ENFP my love language tends to be gift giving, words of affirmation, and hugs. Lots and LOTS of hugs ( not even in a romantic way I just give my friends and family hugs when I see them. That was a tough habit to break during Covid). I've never broke up with anyone but I've been turned down before and I'm usually super nice and understanding and "no problem we good" to the person's face and then I go home and cry myself to sleep for 2 weeks

[@sree9563]

I'm an ENFP too but quality time and Words of affirmation is my language. I love talking soo much and having an emotional conversation is all I can do from my side. I'm not a terrible gift giver and I do relate to the part where I feel guilty and wanna make them feel better but definitely not with a gift. Then again, I have been single all my life to ever have broken up. 😅😂

[@marcwemtrust1480]

No, giving gifts is love language, but for break up I give the gift of clear language to make them learn for the next relationship, because a gift of mind and awareness is more helpful on the long run.

[@yashivuvbolshomdomenakholm8274]

As an INFJ: I would say this is accurate 😂😂😂 I still don't understand how people don't get those clues... They aren't *that* subtle 😂😂😂

[@danielsullivan2983]

Right? Sometimes you have to spell out every letter for people when getting them to breakup first doesn't work. "Y-e-s w-e a-r-e o-v-e-r (period) I a-c-t-u-a-l-l-y w-a-s-n-'-t o-k w-i-t-h y-o-u t-r-e-a-t-i-n-g m-e l-i-k-e c-r-ap."

[@natasagajic1061]

Us, the INFPs: Being in love in an idea of a relationship, but not the reality of it 😅

[@marcwemtrust1480]

Love can be "hard" work sometimes...working on relationships, on ourselves, but we all decide "Is this person worth that work?" I kinda like the dynamics in relationships and the growth, if there people try to go for that too...

[@ninagajic7702]

ENFP's reaction seems valid, but we would probably leave more than 10 $, we are not stingy...

[@jenniferbiyinzika4668]

Very true. It makes us feel better for causing pain in the other person. Here's a million bucks. Please buy ice cream and have a good life.

[@773_halla]

ESFJ here, I’d actually break up because my kitty doesn’t like my partner, just like ISFJ! (or maybe just make that as an excuse to break up.😆)

[@jueedhar5449]

That is an extremely valid reason 😂

[@dontsettle4243]

0:42 That ending was giving me Adam Levine Vibes.

[@lydiahertzog5669]

16 Personalities: Doing an escape room Doing a haunted house At Hogwarts

[@greatwavefan397]

16 personalities: - As elderly people - At church - Watching a horror movie - Hunting for treasure - When they hear the EAS alarm - Playing Dungeons and Dragons - -In their emo phase- as emos - When their alarm clock goes off - In a laser tag match/an arcade - On Reddit - As bus drivers - Watching the news - When they see their sleep paralysis hallucination - At a coffee shop (not dating)

[@divishatewari7612]

not just romantic relationship... this is exactly how I try to end any relationship ... try to get on their bad side so they would walk away... and it really upsets me when it doesn't work (well it never really works😭) -INFJ

[@user-or3lb9py8w]

Omg we infjs are so bad at ending relationship. Like mine with my ex- best friend was so rough and hard. 😭😭 She still troubles me even after 2 year of our break up.

[@HeliNoir]

Instead of pick up lines, FJ be treating us with breakup lines in 16 clever ways

[@__roaa]

I really liked this video, like it's not just a act video but FACTS video. Especially INTJ :) .

[@VenomStickTVC15]

0:30 time to commit a crime

[@BeckyPhelps]

ISTP - Like...over over? 🥺 Or Clarence Oveur? 😏👨‍✈️🛩😂

[@StephanieJeanne]

Do we have clearance Clarence?😂🙌

[@BeckyPhelps]

@@StephanieJeanne 👏😂

[@kaydenbreak4283]

1:44 Lmao 🤣 INTJ tho so accurate😑

[@GTAVictor9128]

1:55 - season 3 of "You" in a nutshell...