Introverts vs Extroverts Around Their Crush

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Frank James

Frank James

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@FrankJames
@FrankJames 3 жыл бұрын
Hidey ✋
@winfried3208
@winfried3208 3 жыл бұрын
Hi
@utthitadebnath586
@utthitadebnath586 3 жыл бұрын
Early ✨
@sunshineyx5395
@sunshineyx5395 3 жыл бұрын
yo
@luvvlaufey
@luvvlaufey 3 жыл бұрын
ello
@jazztinbiba
@jazztinbiba 3 жыл бұрын
Hello im early
@oldsockpocket
@oldsockpocket 3 жыл бұрын
"she will only say the things I have imagined her saying" lmao this so true-
@ainzu4062
@ainzu4062 3 жыл бұрын
@Beluga Boi same dude lmao
@bethelliot7140
@bethelliot7140 3 жыл бұрын
@Beluga Boi same! 😅🤣
@alexeysaranchev6118
@alexeysaranchev6118 3 жыл бұрын
The key is to progressively delve deeper into different branches of conversation, prepairing a reply for every one of the possible replies. When I did that prepairing the dialogue with my crush I had prepaired a conversation tree suitable for an MSDOS text quest game.
@KartikaAika
@KartikaAika 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr 🤣
@BloomingRose438
@BloomingRose438 3 жыл бұрын
Hello fellow gacha fan
@Amanita._.Verosa._.
@Amanita._.Verosa._. 3 жыл бұрын
Extroverts: Intense talking. Introverts: intense stalking. I said what I said.
@bluelotusnefertoum2144
@bluelotusnefertoum2144 3 жыл бұрын
All facts!
@Chigger
@Chigger 3 жыл бұрын
Ambiverts: Intense balking.
@Amanita._.Verosa._.
@Amanita._.Verosa._. 3 жыл бұрын
@@Chigger lol, nicely played 😎
@Amanita._.Verosa._.
@Amanita._.Verosa._. 3 жыл бұрын
@@bluelotusnefertoum2144 🤜🤛
@TheWaterlily2012
@TheWaterlily2012 3 жыл бұрын
LOL, but it's not the bad kind of stalking, it's the only thing we can do most of the time. Admire from afar...
@drea4195
@drea4195 3 жыл бұрын
"I've gotta take a few hours out of my day and replay in my head, every awkward thing I just said to her, over, and over, and over." Dude. You are the soul of every introvert that has ever existed. Stay cool and attractive!
@uchiha-17-q3t
@uchiha-17-q3t 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah 💚💚
@ecaldwell9
@ecaldwell9 3 жыл бұрын
YUP! He hit it on the mark! Awesome job Frank James!
@Stealth_member
@Stealth_member 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@lisap2405
@lisap2405 Жыл бұрын
And that is exactly why I'm not sleeping enough. My head wants to do that right when I go to bed 😂
@S0ngsyngr
@S0ngsyngr Жыл бұрын
Ha!! This is 110% correct!!
@JasonMoir
@JasonMoir 3 жыл бұрын
Those imagined conversations always go so well. Not so much in real life, though.
@EasternDresses
@EasternDresses 3 жыл бұрын
true
@gurimuyoruka2165
@gurimuyoruka2165 3 жыл бұрын
INFP ig
@f_izzmo
@f_izzmo 3 жыл бұрын
sometimes they don't go well.. Am I the only one?
@JasonMoir
@JasonMoir 3 жыл бұрын
@@f_izzmo No, you're not the only one. 🤐
@williammckinney5213
@williammckinney5213 3 жыл бұрын
@@f_izzmo The imagined ones are always way worse for me.
@Chigger
@Chigger 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine Heidi's face when she finds out the introvert wasn't talking to her.
@pranjallpahuja
@pranjallpahuja 3 жыл бұрын
plot twist, heidi has a crush on the introvert
@josiahtaylor7967
@josiahtaylor7967 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@tinaperez7393
@tinaperez7393 3 жыл бұрын
I was thinking both some goofy version of "hi" AND that it sounded like "Heidi" too! 😂 Funny thing is, I would've understood it as a perfectly acceptable greeting! And, of course, it being FJ,🤪💕 I would've been all like, "well, hidy yourself, you talk glass of water, you!" 😁
@shevyshulman686
@shevyshulman686 3 жыл бұрын
Hhahahah
@AB-zr8pu
@AB-zr8pu 3 жыл бұрын
@@pranjallpahuja and heidi is the introvertest introvert so he has no idea.
@_yoshizzle_3134
@_yoshizzle_3134 3 жыл бұрын
Other introverts: she’s not following the script!!!!!!! INXJ: I planned for that
@Amanita._.Verosa._.
@Amanita._.Verosa._. 3 жыл бұрын
Contingency plans😎
@Sh00dy20
@Sh00dy20 3 жыл бұрын
😂❤️
@cosmo4288
@cosmo4288 3 жыл бұрын
That’s exactly accurate
@רפאל-ב
@רפאל-ב 3 жыл бұрын
That's why I don't plan stuff, at least not really detailed, it backfires in many cases, but in some it works
@5eT1130
@5eT1130 3 жыл бұрын
i was just gonna comment i don't think my INTJ bf was awkward at all, and then i saw this lol
@lost9050
@lost9050 3 жыл бұрын
Funny thing: as introverts we know how to act as extroverts, so while the person thinks "oh gosh, this person is so cool" actualy we are dying inside thinking about the first stupid thing we said after saying hello. Review of being an introvert: 7/10
@study2921
@study2921 3 жыл бұрын
Am I *unintentionally* stalking or is it something special about my eyes that they find you really easily I felt like I'm kinda entering your privacy this time loll ( cuz in YT we didn't expect someone who knows would read our comment )
@study2921
@study2921 3 жыл бұрын
@ROG you won't get it bruh!
@nairadoctor9040
@nairadoctor9040 3 жыл бұрын
So. True. 😩
@sarax7819
@sarax7819 3 жыл бұрын
I was an insecure extrovert back then, but this psychological trick (pretend to be confident) helped me a lot, so it's good to act like this. (Now I'm an annoying extrovert you don't want to meet, lol.) So pretend to be confident and you'll be (more) confident. :)
@lost9050
@lost9050 3 жыл бұрын
​@ROG she is my friend! We knew each other here on Frank's channel (two weeks ago I think? Maybe?) and since then we are talking like BFFs almost every single day, we turned Frank's comment sections into our chat moment hahaha I recommend it, it's really good ^^ But if it was a crazy person, I would appreciate it for sure ^=^
@BarkleyBrixton
@BarkleyBrixton 3 жыл бұрын
I relate with the Introvert •-• I'll probably never meet my crush again..but I always thinking about our marriage.
@morganholladay7433
@morganholladay7433 3 жыл бұрын
Being an ambivert with a crush is having the energy of the extrovert with all of the problems of the introvert
@NickChira
@NickChira 3 жыл бұрын
That's just called being a normal person
@WorriorXD
@WorriorXD 3 жыл бұрын
ME IN A NUTSHELL🤩😭😭😭
@juliarunn5009
@juliarunn5009 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@It_is_Okay_to_be_Sad
@It_is_Okay_to_be_Sad 3 жыл бұрын
So true... 🙂
@greatwavefan397
@greatwavefan397 3 жыл бұрын
Being an ambivert also means crushing on the bubbliness of an extrovert and the softness of an introvert.
@leenbasha
@leenbasha 3 жыл бұрын
Ngl I'm enjoying the fake scenarios in my head way more than any interaction lately
@fosskytheanswerer
@fosskytheanswerer 3 жыл бұрын
That is cute... and sad
@leenbasha
@leenbasha 3 жыл бұрын
@@fosskytheanswerer nah its just sad 😂😂😂
@fosskytheanswerer
@fosskytheanswerer 3 жыл бұрын
@@leenbasha :d (Maybe from your point of view )
@leenbasha
@leenbasha 3 жыл бұрын
@@fosskytheanswerer hahaha OK
@Hammerbruder99
@Hammerbruder99 3 жыл бұрын
My fake scenarios are often worst case scenarios... -_-
@zyad9587
@zyad9587 3 жыл бұрын
"That sounds like torture." "It is."
@crochetcatlady
@crochetcatlady 3 жыл бұрын
This is PAINFULLY accurate. It's almost scary 😂. The "Hidey" point reminded me of when someone said "Have a good night" and I started to say "You too" but then decided to switch to "Goodnight" and what came out was "You night" 💀😂.
@makaniwebb9358
@makaniwebb9358 3 жыл бұрын
Hopefully they didn't mishear that as 'you might' which sounds vaguely threatening.
@literallyjun2213
@literallyjun2213 3 жыл бұрын
@@makaniwebb9358 im ded 😂
@sufyb6432
@sufyb6432 3 жыл бұрын
I've actually learned to laugh after saying something like that, and it actually works to remove the awkwardness.
@DankerEagle-lr3qj
@DankerEagle-lr3qj 3 жыл бұрын
Going to say "water",my mind put "fire" = what comes out "frawer" *Awkward silence*
@profile8475
@profile8475 3 жыл бұрын
I once said "Thanks" after someone told me "see you next week!" 😂
@lost9050
@lost9050 3 жыл бұрын
So if two introverts can cross the first barrier of being too shy and anxiety, they can open a detective office. Two persons stallking other person like this to help another one for money? This sounds as a goal to me
@tinaperez7393
@tinaperez7393 3 жыл бұрын
Omg yes! FJ video idea! Extroverts and introverts as detectives! Or as a detective agency TEAM! 😂
@designkolamart8828
@designkolamart8828 3 жыл бұрын
Lol this comment should get an award 👻😆😝
@lost9050
@lost9050 3 жыл бұрын
@@designkolamart8828 thanks
@lost9050
@lost9050 3 жыл бұрын
@@tinaperez7393 my plot: this couple of introverts are hired by a young rich lady to find if her husband is cheating on her. They go in a mixture of True Detective, Mind Hunter, and Lie to Me, and they find out even that this guy stole a bicycle when he had 8 years old, read all of his micro facial expressions, and at the end, they see the man with another lady! So both of them scream ''OH I KNEW IT! YES OMG, WE ARE AMAZING BABY!!!'' woman: So now we need to get back and notice her and get our money man: yeah, let's do it! woman: ok, so you will talk with her and I will pick the evidence man: yeah... I was thinking about you talking with her, yk... woman: ...yeah... and I was hoping that you would talk ** awkward pause** woman: it's just that I don't wanna hurt her feelings telling her the truth, you know like I would break if I found it was you doing this to me man: me too, baby, me too. woman: uhhh... let's just go back and tell her we couldn't find anything and give her money back. And then we go home man: do you wanna pizza or Mexican tonight? *plays soft music for ending
@tinaperez7393
@tinaperez7393 3 жыл бұрын
@@lost9050 😂
@ArtistIntuiting
@ArtistIntuiting 3 жыл бұрын
I love how the extrovert doesn't want to mess up the opportunity by not talking to them, and the introvert is worried he might mess it up by saying anything at all 😆 so clever lol
@cosmo4288
@cosmo4288 3 жыл бұрын
“All i do is imagine coneversations with her”- if that ain’t true : )
@firstineedcoffee3060
@firstineedcoffee3060 3 жыл бұрын
As an introvert I can say this is so accurate.....he deserves more recognition for his videos
@dovahkiin3362
@dovahkiin3362 3 жыл бұрын
Could relate to every introvert scene
@sarax7819
@sarax7819 3 жыл бұрын
Being an introvert must be so hard. I can't even imagine that. Dear introverts, I admire you. ~ ENFJ
@blackbat121
@blackbat121 3 жыл бұрын
Why would u admire us ?? For what? :/
@CHCH-sx7ue
@CHCH-sx7ue 3 жыл бұрын
You are very nice, but admiring us so much that we stalking people is disturbing xD ~ INFJ
@sarax7819
@sarax7819 3 жыл бұрын
@@blackbat121 it must be hard for you in the world. Being in school, work etc. must be really exhausting mainly for introverts who are really shy and are insecure. I admire you that you handle it so well :)
@sarax7819
@sarax7819 3 жыл бұрын
Extroverts stalk people, too. My bestie's expert. xd
@CHCH-sx7ue
@CHCH-sx7ue 3 жыл бұрын
@@sarax7819 Och okay x"DD
@ti9erlilly
@ti9erlilly 3 жыл бұрын
I still replay all the awkward things I've said to my crush, over and over in my head. We've been together 10 years, married for 2, and have 2 kids... 😅
@Kimbonessness
@Kimbonessness 3 жыл бұрын
Oh no! But I'm glad you married your crush!! I wonder if they have any awkward things they said that they go over in their head too
@emp9413
@emp9413 3 жыл бұрын
You're one of the lucky ones lol
@ti9erlilly
@ti9erlilly 3 жыл бұрын
@@Kimbonessness He has plenty, seeing as we're both introverted. 😂 We discuss each other's awkwardness from time to time, and geek out over it. Lol
@ti9erlilly
@ti9erlilly 3 жыл бұрын
@@emp9413 indeed! It was quite a long road, but totally worth it. Lol I hope for all my fellow introverts to find their forever crush and discover how to connect with them! It's so great once it happens! 💜
@emp9413
@emp9413 3 жыл бұрын
@@ti9erlilly tbh I think I'll pass :) I like having a brain 🧠
@jennyneon
@jennyneon 3 жыл бұрын
Extroverts are *crushing* the conversion when it comes to their lover.
@Cherrycreamsoda1
@Cherrycreamsoda1 3 жыл бұрын
Let’s be honest, Sally isn’t the right girl for him if she wants him to go to a crowded bar 😐
@annataz7s436
@annataz7s436 3 жыл бұрын
She seems to be into him though
@teonabaraboiu2295
@teonabaraboiu2295 3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I thought too!
@Cherrycreamsoda1
@Cherrycreamsoda1 3 жыл бұрын
@Margrete most definitely
@Stealth_member
@Stealth_member 3 жыл бұрын
Yea, especially if he has nothing to prove.
@artixi3291
@artixi3291 3 жыл бұрын
To all the introverts out here who heavily relate to this, here's a tip: Just ask the questions, let them do the talking, and you can make it look like you actually know what you are doing ;) Most people LOVE to talk about themselves so if you can steer the conversation in a direction your more comfortable with through questions, you'd be amazed at how good of a façade you can put on.
@auroravortex9361
@auroravortex9361 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah but it doesn't work after saying Hidey for Hi ! XD
@whitehole4460
@whitehole4460 3 жыл бұрын
Are you an enfj?
@Kal-213
@Kal-213 3 жыл бұрын
I hate talking about myself so hopefully an introvert doesn't have a crush on me.
@naginiriddle7091
@naginiriddle7091 3 жыл бұрын
Well.....unless they are also introverted and respond to those questions with either no answer or one word answers. I have had my fair share of conversations where I try to keep it going with questions and the other person is not having it
@ktvx.94
@ktvx.94 3 жыл бұрын
Tbh putting a facade is never good, even if it "works". You're just setting yourself up for a trainwreck later. Just be yourself, if it works it works. Some people actually prefer introverts like that, target them instead.
@gypsybutterfly643
@gypsybutterfly643 3 жыл бұрын
I'm an ambivert. With friends & people I just met, I'm an extrovert. With someone I'm into, I might still be, but my feelings are guarded & I'm definitely more self conscious. Later replaying the conversation trying to decipher all of the nuances. There's only one time I made the first move. That relationship lasted 15 months. We're still friends. It works better that way. But I'm proud that I actually took the initiative.
@It_is_Okay_to_be_Sad
@It_is_Okay_to_be_Sad 3 жыл бұрын
😊
@hannemari4643
@hannemari4643 3 жыл бұрын
I made the first move once. We are now married. Also feeling more like an ambivert. Can't relate to the stereotypical introvert or extrovert.
@cheesecakeandthediabetes
@cheesecakeandthediabetes 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, this is so relatable!
@gypsybutterfly643
@gypsybutterfly643 3 жыл бұрын
@@hannemari4643 Glad it worked out for you. I was married. Have been divorced for a year. On my own for two. Quite happy. Frank has said that most of us will be somewhere in the middle. Which makes sense. The spectrum is wide & varied.
@gypsybutterfly643
@gypsybutterfly643 3 жыл бұрын
@@cheesecakeandthediabetes It's nice to find that there's others who can understand. I still, on occasion, think about something I could have said or done differently in jr high. Even though I'm many years past that, lol.
@LizzieinLace
@LizzieinLace 3 жыл бұрын
LOL! This is so accurate. Imaginary conversations, stalking, mental replays... I feel so called out 😂 This is one of those times when I envy extroverts.
@emp9413
@emp9413 3 жыл бұрын
'One of those times'
@Lexy2811
@Lexy2811 2 жыл бұрын
I'm enfj, I never create conversations in my head, I go with the flow. Sometimes it's better to think what to say, many times I said smth that I regretted and got embarrassed😅 Had no option but turned it into a joke quickly. It means that everything got to be balanced.
@beardedmagus4609
@beardedmagus4609 3 жыл бұрын
This is truly spot on. Sometimes I envy extroverts and how effortlessly it seems for them to be social. Then I realize how much I hate people/socializing and am perfectly happy being an introvert. INTJ here.
@nuharazia
@nuharazia 3 жыл бұрын
I still TO THIS DAY don't understand why FJ shows us a lemon at the end of all his videos, like "Thank you for watching! Here have a lemon!"
@nuharazia
@nuharazia 3 жыл бұрын
@@turquoisetranquility I've watched most of his videos tbh. Maybe I missed it? Could you tell me what video it was exactly?
@C.G.Gamer1210
@C.G.Gamer1210 Жыл бұрын
why did i not realize how weird that is until just now...
@נעמיבןיער
@נעמיבןיער 4 ай бұрын
I think he is trying to make a lemonade from the lemon 😊
@shrimp5239
@shrimp5239 3 жыл бұрын
Today i managed to speak to my crush only cuz my more extroverted friend went to talk to him and practically dragged me with her, otherwise i would still be sulking now on how i missed a chance. That's why i worship her now, she's a life saver
@christiskingforever2880
@christiskingforever2880 3 жыл бұрын
Been married for 14 years. My husband just told me, during an argument, how mysterious I still am to him. 💃INFJ😅
@beck_williams
@beck_williams 2 жыл бұрын
I’m an Ambivert. ANFJ!
@katmgorska
@katmgorska 3 жыл бұрын
Ed Sheeran proposing "Hey dude" as title instead of "Hey Jude" was the best line in the movie 'Yesterday' 😁 just fyi, he he
@juliemay9295
@juliemay9295 3 жыл бұрын
That point in the film I was quite offended! LOL
@christinkunze
@christinkunze 3 жыл бұрын
I did not know this was a movie reference so I was internally screaming at that moment. Might be shallow but I would have rejected the bowling date based on that already, haha.
@arianaalejandro4005
@arianaalejandro4005 3 жыл бұрын
This story completes the whole meaning hahaha thanks gurl
@MarcieNielsen
@MarcieNielsen 3 жыл бұрын
So good. My husband's an extrovert and I'm an introvert. We've been married 32 years and I still remember the awkward things I did on our first date...33 years ago. 😅
@beck_williams
@beck_williams 2 жыл бұрын
Together… Ambiverted!
@ry8880
@ry8880 3 жыл бұрын
Introvert: "I've got a crush, all I do is rehearse Imaginary conversation with her so hopefully one day if I ever actually talk to her, she will only say the things that I have imagined her saying." That's accurate but the problem is I'd never meet my crush in real life, He doesn't exist 🤣🤣 Only in my Imagination 😬
@PGOuma
@PGOuma 3 жыл бұрын
Same...they live in a fictional world...
@sarahl5213
@sarahl5213 3 жыл бұрын
You mean 2D anime characters that sets the bar up way too high that is just fictional at this point? Same.
@calmingme01
@calmingme01 2 жыл бұрын
@@sarahl5213 pfft same as me, plus I won't get heart break cause they are fictional 🤣🤣
@an_industrial_strength_toaster
@an_industrial_strength_toaster 3 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend and I are both introverts, we had crushes on each other since 2015. We stalked each other for 3 years before actually talking in 2017, we started dating in 2018
@Triisttan
@Triisttan 3 жыл бұрын
3 years after 2015 would be 2018 not 2017
@Jack1994hoo
@Jack1994hoo 2 жыл бұрын
@@Triisttan they could have been stalking each other before they got a crush for each other
@Triisttan
@Triisttan 2 жыл бұрын
@@Jack1994hoo that wouldn't make any sense lol. they stalked each other for a year and then developed feelings.. after a whole year of stalking each other. ?
@Sarah.R.Rabbit
@Sarah.R.Rabbit 3 жыл бұрын
I was thinking... and what about if an extrovert and a introvert had a crush on eachother?
@kaydee1721
@kaydee1721 3 жыл бұрын
I think in that scenario the E initiates basically every part of the relationship and does about 80% of the talking until, at some point, the two either part ways, friend-zone it, or get married. At least, that’s what my imaginary flow chart says.
@Sarah.R.Rabbit
@Sarah.R.Rabbit 3 жыл бұрын
@@kaydee1721 seems truthful
@laya1077_
@laya1077_ 3 жыл бұрын
@@kaydee1721 you seem like an ITJ or could be an INTJ too.
@kaydee1721
@kaydee1721 3 жыл бұрын
@@laya1077_ is that your MBTI type? I’m curious what makes you think that I am an INTJ / IxTJ?
@laya1077_
@laya1077_ 3 жыл бұрын
@@kaydee1721 I'm sorry I meant INFJ or INTJ, I honestly don't know tbh. You seem like the person who knows what they do. It was a guess
@marieindia8116
@marieindia8116 3 жыл бұрын
If I needed any more confirmation that I am an introvert, this was it. Not that I wasn't already highly aware of it from junior high onward.
@peters2928
@peters2928 3 жыл бұрын
I’m getting second hand embarrassment from this
@BurgundyandBlue1111
@BurgundyandBlue1111 3 жыл бұрын
That's why in life I have found myself being attracted to extroverts. Getting over the hump of all of the awkwardness with extreme introverts can be rough. They are amazing once they warm up to you though.🙂
@tinaperez7393
@tinaperez7393 3 жыл бұрын
Me too. I totally relate to all the INFJ stuff Frank does. It's pretty clear that's my default nature. But my boyfriends have been extroverts cuz they make life much more fun and social and adventurous and I level up and become more extroverted too when I'm with one. They can make great boyfriends (as long as they're also kind and we share similar values and even though they'll talk to anyone and everyone I still know and feel special to them - that they're loyal and I feel safe and respected and valued and all that other important stuff).
@designkolamart8828
@designkolamart8828 3 жыл бұрын
It depends, cz from my experiences it was too exhausting for me so many times. Not that m extremely introvert but still used to feel drained!! I think it varies or depends on understanding or how much gap is there between two person's introverted or extraverted nature.
@tinaperez7393
@tinaperez7393 3 жыл бұрын
@@designkolamart8828 True. That's very important. I highly suspect it works for me - that's my preferred combination - because I want to be an extrovert or have that in me somewhere, - I WANT to get out of my shell more than I do on my own. Although I will naturally avoid "people" at all costs, I do enjoy them when I DO mix and I'm energized and happy - my heart is "full" when I do spend time with people I like, love and enjoy. But I definitely feel drained when interacting is work and effort. I'll do it anyway when it's hard but needed, but still. And people I don't enjoy, negative and toxic people, energy vampires, etc? Well, maybe that's another topic entirely as people who aren't good for one are people one needs to try to distance themselves from. So the drained issue - for those that are drained by social interaction, much less any social interaction - that does need awareness of by both parties as a couple and how to best work / live with that. Introverts and extroverts can definitely make great couples because they can provide different strengths and balance each other out. But you definitely have to understand and respect - and LIKE - what makes the other tick and what doesn't. Social and emotional intelligence is needed by both people. Gotta know what each other needs and why, etc. And how each other is needs to work for both people in the couple, etc. And can't be TOO different, gotta complement each other, etc.
@PGOuma
@PGOuma 3 жыл бұрын
I'm an introvert but appear to be more like an extrovert around people who are introverted than me. Extroverts usually drain and i use them as acquaintances or friends you see every now and then. I think it's because my WHOLE family are a bunch of extroverts and outside family members are extroverts for the majority so I've just became drained around their constant energy 😅😅🤣🤣😂😂 so i look for introverts (or well balanced extroverts) within close friendships and relationships. I like mental stimulation and talking about various topics and deeper topics that makes me look like a looney 🤣🤣😂😂😅 Not a lot of extroverts that I have been around (even family) haven't liked this type of stimulation except for a select few but yeah :3
@tinaperez7393
@tinaperez7393 3 жыл бұрын
@@PGOuma omg. I felt drained just READING about your family! 😂😮 I forgot all about extreme extroverts or too many extroverts! 😮 Yeah. Balance. Quality one on one time. Rooms full of people zipping around like balloons getting the air let out of them is no good! And don't get me started on microscopic attention spans. Much less multiple ones. Omg! 😳😩
@talaomaluko6749
@talaomaluko6749 3 жыл бұрын
Someone get this man a verification seal!!
@Heisrisenindeed
@Heisrisenindeed Жыл бұрын
The part about replaying every awkward thing you said, so sad, and so true.
@affinity266
@affinity266 3 жыл бұрын
"Hey dude"!! did I hear that correctly ?! 😂
@chatyxd6078
@chatyxd6078 3 жыл бұрын
It's so weird how I, an extrovert, absolutely shut down whenever I'm near my crush. Like my brain just melts whenever I see her and I lose all of my social skills if I ever had any of them😂
@adamschank7703
@adamschank7703 3 жыл бұрын
As a fellow introvert, I can say that this is incredibly accurate. I remember an instance where I was waiting at the bus stop at the college I was attending and the only other person at the bus stop was this young woman that I thought was very attractive. There was a divider that had the schedules on display in the middle of the bus stop and I was on the other side of the divider with my attention focused on where the bus would be. I could not move from where I was standing. It felt like my feet had melded with the concrete. The entire time I am freaking out internally, trying to get myself to talk to her. In the end, I wasn't able to.
@crackerate
@crackerate 3 жыл бұрын
Woah I'm an introvert too but I can't seem to find someone whom I like tho. Even if it isn't my crush, I always stay still when a person comes near me coz it feels something and that something I cannot explain but every time i am near a human I feel so awkward I'm like ;-; If I move a inch I will die. Yeah let's go with that even tho I think it didn't make sense
@coffeeklara
@coffeeklara Жыл бұрын
"I know everything about her from stalking her on social media so any conversation we have is gonna be really awkward because I'm gonna be asking her questions I already know the answers to" NOW THIS😭
@The_Firevenus
@The_Firevenus 3 жыл бұрын
the extrovert having confidence and energy despite being very awkward and "try hard" is something i admire cuz i have social anxiety despite being extrovert weeee
@ceilinh6004
@ceilinh6004 3 жыл бұрын
Awe! The intoverts crush still wants to hang out with him after that. Maybe it's mutual. I ship it.
@333invitado
@333invitado 3 жыл бұрын
FJ plays extroverts soooo well. It's like there's really two different people in this video 😱😱😱🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
@jahfarihazelwood4499
@jahfarihazelwood4499 3 жыл бұрын
that introvert is showing a lot of confidence there.
@juliemay9295
@juliemay9295 3 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha so many times I've said, "HiLow!" when I've been unable to choose between Hi and Hello!
@shaina7913
@shaina7913 2 жыл бұрын
i love watching these types of videos because i was an introvert for several years, and it is still a weighty part of my personality. so when the introvert talks i’m like: “i feel that.” and when the extrovert talks, i’m like: “i feel that.” 😂
@angelineang2617
@angelineang2617 3 жыл бұрын
Andd that's what I like about introverts! Me as an ENTJ love opening up conversations to know more about them (the mysterious vibe really attracts me), and yes I find introverts cute when they feel nervous and stutter uwu that's so cutee! 💖
@wish_new
@wish_new 3 жыл бұрын
Introverts Assemble !!
@TheLuca2001
@TheLuca2001 3 жыл бұрын
Introverts unite quietly from your own homes.
@slugabug1
@slugabug1 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheLuca2001 🤣
@beck_williams
@beck_williams 2 жыл бұрын
AMBIVERTS ASSEMBLE!!! (crickets) well sh-
@Gintoki881
@Gintoki881 3 жыл бұрын
“Hey dude” - the best song of The Beatles indeed 🤣🤣🤣👌👌👌
@StephanieJeanne
@StephanieJeanne 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, love that song, "Hey Dude" too! 😂 Hilarious! The poor introvert...
@sunflowersyndrome
@sunflowersyndrome 3 жыл бұрын
Haha 😄 the introvert’s thought process was so spot on that I had flashbacks to my past awkward interactions with my former crushes. Now, though, I don’t overthink as much as I did before. I try to run more towards what I want-and it is satisfying to make something happen rather than not trying even if it doesn’t go the way I imagined in my head. I think my brain finally got tired of my overthinking because now when I start to overthink, I either get a headache or I feel hot 🧠🔥 and forget to breathe. I don’t like that feeling, so, now, when I catch myself heating up like that, I shake myself out of it, remember to breathe, and place my cold hands on my hot forehead and neck and stop thinking. Then, I push myself off the mental cliff I created and just dive into the situation. Gotta dive in and get what you want to quench the thirst ya know. 🙂
@autumnorozco9409
@autumnorozco9409 3 жыл бұрын
The introvert was so painfully accurate.
@TheWaterlily2012
@TheWaterlily2012 3 жыл бұрын
Ha ha ha, I definitely laughed all through this one. Have a great day Frank! :)
@Sam_995
@Sam_995 3 жыл бұрын
At least the introvert can a fresh start because she could forget who they are
@mr.nobody50
@mr.nobody50 3 жыл бұрын
"I know everything about her through Stalking on Social Media" This seems Lowkey Effective. 😂
@ellenh278
@ellenh278 3 жыл бұрын
'Hey Dude' 😂👏
@desislavapalikova4383
@desislavapalikova4383 3 жыл бұрын
My crush and I sit on the same desk in school so we have more opportunities to talk and honestly if we didn't I would be so nervous to just go to her and start a conversation... Good thing is that we're both introverted girls
@lanascribe
@lanascribe 3 жыл бұрын
"Hey Dude" had me wheezing like my throat was doing burnouts!
@Hello_Foxy
@Hello_Foxy 3 жыл бұрын
How introverted has my stamp of approval 😎👍
@koalaeucalyptus
@koalaeucalyptus 3 жыл бұрын
It's funny how we can know that FJ is a real introvert because of the way he plays extroverts x introverts -- the former are far more cartoonish than the latter, I can feel his effort to act extroverted. And I LOVE that vibe, cracks me up LOL
@Carol_65
@Carol_65 3 жыл бұрын
I know everything about her from stalking her on social media.😂😶
@greatwavefan397
@greatwavefan397 3 жыл бұрын
Are you sure about that?
@priscillapark46
@priscillapark46 3 жыл бұрын
The "hey dude" got me :')
@curiemuisaire6681
@curiemuisaire6681 3 жыл бұрын
hahaaa very accurate, Frank. I just don't know how you are so good at presenting different perspectives.. I loove your channel!
@sirbradfordofhousejones
@sirbradfordofhousejones 3 жыл бұрын
The Beatles’ rendition of Hey Dude is also one of my favorites. What a coincidence!
@rockinlt3958
@rockinlt3958 3 жыл бұрын
I've done PhD on my crush : His favourite colour red His favourite food chocolate cake His second favourite food cheese pizza His third favourite food chicken burger His favourite band bts His favourite singer Harry style His favorite movie avengers His second favourite movie avatar His third favourite movie the vigil His favourite movie genre horror action thriller suspense His favourite series vampire diaries His second favourite series teen wolf His third favourite series supernatural. and meanwhile , he doesn't even know my name
@nithyanarayanan3179
@nithyanarayanan3179 3 жыл бұрын
DAYUM 😂
@greatwavefan397
@greatwavefan397 3 жыл бұрын
Those are his tastes, though. What is he _really_ like? Personality traits, values, beliefs, aspirations, favorite clothing style?
@nithyanarayanan3179
@nithyanarayanan3179 3 жыл бұрын
@@greatwavefan397 I had a crush. But it wasn't love cuz I didn't know answer to any of the questions you've stated here.
@greatwavefan397
@greatwavefan397 3 жыл бұрын
@@nithyanarayanan3179 Excellent conclusion. ;-) - Your friendly neighborhood INTJ
@nithyanarayanan3179
@nithyanarayanan3179 3 жыл бұрын
@@greatwavefan397 Thanks lol, from an INFJ~
@anju5124
@anju5124 3 жыл бұрын
I always replay awkward moments in my head. Over and over and over...
@yams7800
@yams7800 3 жыл бұрын
WHY THIS IS SO REALLL LIKE BROO I keep thinking about what to say to my crush or how to start the conversation for hours and when I talk EVERYTHING disappears from my mind and I start laughing like an IDIOT 😭😭😭💔
@magnificatanimameadominum-
@magnificatanimameadominum- 3 жыл бұрын
As an introvert, this is 1000% accurate.
@hibaammar7954
@hibaammar7954 3 жыл бұрын
this is legit me , and my crush is also introverted, you can't imagine how awkward it is if we talk that's why most of the time we sit in silence and that is the best thing we could ever do .
@likitadevi
@likitadevi 3 жыл бұрын
I don't know if I'll ever turn my plans to actions if this situation ever arises because analysing all the possibilities might end me up too overwhelmed.
@rtms9092
@rtms9092 3 жыл бұрын
Introverts look very intelligent. I wish I was as intelligent as them
@high54me
@high54me 3 жыл бұрын
"Things are a little hazy cause I kind of blacked out at that point..." Relatable 🙄
@sacrilegiousboi978
@sacrilegiousboi978 3 жыл бұрын
My sober ass with social anxiety vs me after a few drinks lol
@jennyg157
@jennyg157 3 жыл бұрын
ISFP here, and my ENTJ husband literally asked me out on a casual bowling hang before he asked me out on a date. As we bowled he asked me what my 5 year plan was and grilled me on my personal goals (I had none besides getting him to ask me out on an actual date 🤣).
@il5702
@il5702 Жыл бұрын
this is beyond adorable!!! (almost) opposites do attract after all 😊
@annette2211
@annette2211 2 жыл бұрын
"I've gotta go take a few hours of the day and replay every awkward thing I just said to her over and over" that's accurate ✋💀
@rebecafermino1194
@rebecafermino1194 3 жыл бұрын
As an ENFJ I use to act excited and confident around my crush but, at the end of the day, I always start overthinking about how awkward I may have sounded.
@C.G.Gamer1210
@C.G.Gamer1210 Жыл бұрын
me too.
@luz-vo4nb
@luz-vo4nb 3 жыл бұрын
Rehearsed conversations is my super power 😅
@LimegreenSnowstorm
@LimegreenSnowstorm 3 жыл бұрын
As an extrovert, I wish it were that un-awkward XD the only part I related to was always thinking about when I’d see them next rather than watching from the sidelines. Luckily my introverted husband was brave and persistent :3
@nicoledyer6707
@nicoledyer6707 3 жыл бұрын
im actually an introverted person but i unintentionally i become so extroverted and crave attention so that the person i like can notice me, and as a result, i only regret it because the extroverted me is not cautious at all, i do untolerable things, i mean i say hello to people i don’t know and it gives me sleepless nights about why i did say hello in such a lousy way and i feel like the worst person ever hoping that he didn’t notice me and hopefully never will cause i am getting awkward
@thatguyreiji1045
@thatguyreiji1045 3 жыл бұрын
Im sure its obvious to a lot of introverts but we always over-analyse things...Sometimes a girl/guy will actually like us, but we end up obsessing on the negative so much that we become oblivious of the hints the person actually gives😂😂...They could be so into us but we end up sabotaging our own chances.😂
@woofnuggiez
@woofnuggiez 2 жыл бұрын
This is extremely true with the imaginary conversations and daydreaming thing lmao.
@QuotesArticles
@QuotesArticles 3 жыл бұрын
That was hilarious! 😂 Thanks Frank, love your videos! ✨🌟
@tugbagumustas
@tugbagumustas 3 жыл бұрын
Man, you're getting better and better, the video was great. As an introvert I can say, he was more bold and succesful than me ever, so congrats for him 😂
@nj5023
@nj5023 3 жыл бұрын
This explains why those cute introvert guys I actually like don’t ask me out even though they appear to want to. I just don’t think I can go Extrovert again… Signed, iNFP
@ElodieN_INTJ_Typology_Insights
@ElodieN_INTJ_Typology_Insights 3 жыл бұрын
"replay every awkward thing I just said to her/him over and over." Totally. And feel weird, stupid and shame, and seld sabotage by thinking to it again and again.
@kingcornelius865
@kingcornelius865 3 жыл бұрын
It's not something funny: it's something true ✨
@avamtippery5686
@avamtippery5686 2 жыл бұрын
Every once in a while I'll watch one of these skits and they will be so true I almost cry.
@djdarnall4593
@djdarnall4593 3 жыл бұрын
2022 goal: master the fine art of blacking out after saying something awkward! 😆
@Nicronomicon_The
@Nicronomicon_The 3 жыл бұрын
Painfully, painfully accurate
@micahroberts8383
@micahroberts8383 3 жыл бұрын
This is interesting to watch, because I'm definitely an introvert, but behaviorally I know that's not how to get people to like me. So, with a background in theater and psychology, what ends up happening is I fill all of the silence by blabbing away about nonsense and forget to ask her any questions. Ah, the life on an INTJ with just enough social skills to make everyone (including me) immensely uncomfortable, lol.
@evelynrowenadawn
@evelynrowenadawn 3 жыл бұрын
"Well, that just happened." *flashbacks to the hundreds of times I said that in my life* *countless awkward situations* *publicly embarrassing myself numerous times by failing misiserbly in P.E.* *dropping all my things while walking down the hallway again* *my bus got in another crash* *I got introvert on a test I took in school when everyone has always told my I'm an extrovert, and I'm still confused about my self more than a month later*
@JohnDoe-sq6zf
@JohnDoe-sq6zf 3 жыл бұрын
Watching this video makes me want to go stalk my crush's Instagram profile using my only account which is meant to stalk people
@erenawolfin5866
@erenawolfin5866 3 жыл бұрын
The imaginary conversations and stalking on social media is all true to me😂
@romancetag9313
@romancetag9313 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like the crush is an extrovert, it'll be okay... At least until they get to know each other better and the introvert realises how many social events he/she would need to attend 😅
@oldkitten8598
@oldkitten8598 3 жыл бұрын
The inner monologue of the introvert...sad, but true.
@harshitakarnam7236
@harshitakarnam7236 3 жыл бұрын
funny . I can't stop laughing
@notsogermanantolope6556
@notsogermanantolope6556 Жыл бұрын
So accurate as a introvert
@Fluwore
@Fluwore 3 жыл бұрын
It would be amazing if the extroverted guy's crush was the introverted guy. So actually they were talking to each other the whole time
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