7 Signs an Introvert Likes You

[@FrankJames]

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[@giishaw92]

I forgot to say that this is one of the most accurate videos you've done on introverts. Your perspective is interesting to me as an INFP because we kinda think similarly, but also... We kinda don't.

[@anastasia.beaverhousen]

That story at the end 😂 you’re cute.. AIM was also great because of ‘away messages’...mine were either poetry or some emo lyrics haha, ahh..anyway the point of my comment is that yes, this is very, very accurate.

[@inesharahap4652]

Yeah! Don't overdo it. It's creepy, as much as when peeking at people's life from afar. Feels like they see u undress.

[@camillachristinenorveganus161]

Is yoir long neck from Mom?

[@camillachristinenorveganus161]

Omg Love, Leave me alone🥰

[@chaoticbreeze6262]

They either naturally talk more or stay quiet, totally depending on their crush's energy. Maybe only me, hehe.

[@diogocasstro]

yep yep, makes sense

[@Owlkisses88]

Same

[@chaoticbreeze6262]

@@cosasderu lol I've been like that too

[@angel_cat]

No. Not only you. That makes a lot of sense.

[@marleneestevez9730]

Yep. I've done both actually. I used to be really quiet but now I'm more talkative. In fact, what you said makes sense because it's something I've experienced myself. Every single thing he said what on point.

[@felipearenasbarr]

Introverts, looks like we have been "EXPOSED".

[@marleneestevez9730]

Totally. Well, at least now any crush I might have knkw that I like them. They just to watch closely.

[@felipearenasbarr]

@@marleneestevez9730 This scares me, if they find this, they Will have a Avengers threat level weapon

[@anthonyphil4743]

LOL! True!

[@merryberry1113]

anything so accurate. IT'S TERRIBLE. *feeling betrayed*

[@witheringleaf5021]

Awww shoot Felipe we gotta ZOOMMMmmMMmmM

[@jokidasxm5288]

SIGNS THAT I LIKE SOMEONE(INTROVERT) 1- Pretend i don't like them 2 - Analyzing them from afar 3 - Getting to know them when its too late(yay)😩

[@astoldbynickgerr]

😅 this feels familiar....

[@lyndarivera4655]

Too familiar 😂

[@kathrinnikitin]

Awfully familiar

[@orion5397]

Unluckily familiar😅

[@sdlyoons]

ok, then Surprisingly familiar

[@KAyLA_K]

Me liking someone, avoiding them at all costs and then wondering why they don’t notice me or have asked me out 😂😂

[@ruthachayo8038]

This is so me 😂 😂 😂 😂

[@KAyLA_K]

@@ruthachayo8038 😂😂😂

[@JesusisliterallyHim]

Bruh

[@mariekano9730]

Stop calling me out haha 😄

[@dyingicecream2785]

Soooo me.

[@Ancovg]

Introverts be like: Anything you say can and will be used against you.

[@ivybanks7936]

🤣🤣🤣

[@fazeelur888]

lmfao yep

[@Jo.3yy]

😂😂😂😭😭😭😭

[@You-Sarah]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tomkitty823]

Yea exactly.. Completely relatable😅

[@jaydenchan8240]

Most of the viewers are actually introverts with a crush, finding out what signs they do so they can stop doing them and become more mysterious 👀

[@berryamv2296]

Lmao yeah

[@Nix_Ulysses]

Yes sirrrr!

[@spkmzs2712]

hahahahah so accurate, didn't even think about it until now

[@Mastermind92102]

General Kenobi. You are a bold one.

[@Tom-zc9cv]

*is he talking to me*

[@pal8542]

I'm an INFJ and I just act like my crush doesn't exist while obsessively thinking about them the whole time.

[@uwekirschner187]

Count me in 😅

[@katlover7]

Why you calling me out like that

[@gabrielehibbitts9286]

Me too girl 😂

[@notur_cass]

Omg sameeeeee 💀😂

[@kimberlyhanson6152]

I would do the same thing 😂

[@amandacastelo6]

I avoid eye contact, otherwise I feel that my crush would read my soul 😅😅😅 So I usually look when no one is looking like a ninja... Collecting data in the shadows.

[@marleneestevez9730]

I do that as well. I feel like if I look at him too much, people will notice and tease me about it. The fact is that I want to look at him SO MUCH but I have to hold myself back.

[@Somperzu]

Until they all of a sudden turn their head because somehow they sensed that you were looking at them....

[@amandacastelo6]

@@Somperzu And you look them back like an owl caught in the act O.O

[@sadespain2339]

😆😆😆 That is SO me!! I thought I was so creepy doing that! Thank you for helping me know its okay!

[@amandacastelo6]

@@sadespain2339 Im happy to know, Im not the only one too 😂

[@rjaneellis]

I ended up marrying my crush, who is also an introvert. My coworker at the time actually ended up telling him that I liked him, which is a good thing because he had zero idea that I was throwing all these subtle, introverted hints at him 😂 we owe our whole relationship to her extrovertedness 👏

[@brumbybailey6599]

Aww, that's adorable!

[@MythicBeanProductions]

This gives me hope

[@polaris.0332]

...and then i woke up

[@bigpharma2705]

@@polaris.0332 😂😂

[@hollowtrappedinaelevator320]

@@polaris.0332 I can make you go back to sleep

[@itskinnari9442]

I am an introvert... And when i like someone, i freak out and try to ignore them and pretend like i don't care👀

[@ariesplaylist]

Me too😟

[@fazeelur888]

just make the move

[@ash3075]

@@fazeelur888 not as easy as it sounds! NOT. AS. EASY, AS IT SOUNDS!!!

[@c.hsaikumar6876]

Yes even it is hard to pretend like we don't care about them It's sometimes painful. I wish my partner could know telepathy 😁🙄🥺🥲😞

[@OMNI-Infinity]

@@fazeelur888 As a shy and introverted person, I'd rather not.

[@ice.v]

Introvert here🖐️. My crush thought I hated him

[@profile8475]

Wow same

[@jackieocean3511]

BAHAHAHA!!!! Like the introvert I dated for 8 months recently and he still barely spoke a word, although we had amazing sexual chemistry, but he would still sweat and be visibly nervous around me. It became unbearable. I finally had to cut ties bc it made me feel awkward and I rarely feel that way...if he would have just spoke then 2 hearts would not have been broken ~ 💖 ESFJ

[@rasha.n5748]

@@jackieocean3511 I think he also has social anxiety or low self esteem that caused all of this anxiety around you because after months of dating he should’ve gotten more comfortable around you especially since you’re an esfj that means naturally your energy is outwardly which makes you welcoming and inviting .. btw you have a lot of patience because I know esfjs HATE awkwardness.. I hope both of you find better matches because you sound like really nice people

[@jackieocean3511]

@@rasha.n5748 Awwww, thank you that was so sweet. He was very sweet as well, but he also had issues talking with ppl in general so yea, I believe he had social anxiety but it would intensify when we were alone together. I hope he is happy as well. Thank you for ur comment as it was a very painful break-up ~ 💖 ESFJ

[@rasha.n5748]

@@jackieocean3511 yeah it sounds like you really wanted and tried to make it work out 💔 I’m sorry you had to go through this and I hope you heal from it soon 💖

[@atenata2957]

I am, actually, the CEO of not even slipping a single word in front of my crush

[@diogocasstro]

well this is something I can talk to my crush but I become the flash everytime this happens

[@Gio-sx7kt]

I tend to have perfected this in my past too. I just decided that I wasn't going to date throughout highschool at all. Made it feel easier that I was so mute around most of my crushes. It became an achievement toward a specificied goal.

[@rasha.n5748]

High five 🙋‍♀️

[@diogocasstro]

@@Gio-sx7kt yeah, in my case I try to be friends with all of my crushes but not all of them worked, well it depended in where and when

[@fairy.of.shampoo3118]

Well I invented it 😌

[@giishaw92]

Like... like? Or _like_ like?

[@Selena.6.23]

Like ... like like (English is funny sometimes😂)

[@infiniteaaron]

Definitely LIKE LIKE!

[@jackieocean3511]

@@Selena.6.23 Best comment! Lmao 😂 💖

[@fairyfellermasterstroke]

Wait, what?!

[@laziness852]

_Like liiike_ like

[@jaleelasameer9631]

1- They try to be physically close to you 2- They talk more than usual 3- or They won't talk at all 4- They talk about their interests 5- They remember random stuff about you 6- They will find weird excuses to talk to you 7- Watch their eyes "watching you more than others"

[@pritismritidekaraja1497]

I remember a lot of random stuff of random people

[@unica0101]

Number 7 is legit

[@brooklyn5755]

5 and 2 are accurate for me

[@ravens_corner5334]

I do all these things… I’VE BEEN EXPOSED

[@winstonchurchill7822]

NOOOOOO

[@dragon297]

"There's a fine line between this being cute and creepy, so don't over-do it." Oh, so that's why I'm single lol

[@mistyxflowerr2734]

The worst thing about crushes is that they have full control over you. One compliment can make your day the best of your life, sure, but it can easily get ruined if they said the opposite, even as a joke. They don’t even KNOW they have that kind of power.

[@angryavocado__]

Right?! Everytime my crush even slightly smiles at me, it makes my day and I go on full smile-mode until I go to sleep in the evening lol..

[@yogidabear1005]

Yes yes indeed😐

[@supesulgi]

Geez I remember this one time when my crush told me I was good (we did a performance for school project) and it never left my mind for about 2 months or so. Crazy stuff.

[@lugabo5756]

@@supesulgi I would remember that for years lol

[@supesulgi]

@@lugabo5756 I still remember it and it's been 8 years now. The feeling I got when she said it is what stucked in me for months 😊

[@mlek1313]

Note to self: Make sure not to look at anyone when everyone is laughing.

[@keyperforever1942]

Exactly 😂😂😂

[@mondiramaji791]

I just close my eyes and laugh or look down XD

[@rustcohle9267]

@@mondiramaji791 I look to the person but to others as well

[@cuzumakemyearfquake]

I did that once when I was unaware I was in the wrong class. Until some guy looked directly at me and told me. Turns out they were all laughing at me the whole time, but I laughed it off 😅

[@roseagt5902]

No do, its a good indirect way to let someone know

[@bezoznaught5261]

signs an introvert likes you 1. they dont talk to you 2. they seem like they hate you 3. they avoid you at all cost 4. if they run into you they contort their head in every possible position so as not to look at you 5. ... ... ... well it's really just those 4

[@honoluluwampum]

Hilarious!

[@islanddolphin6878]

Also, signs when an extrovert hates you. LOL!

[@hajeongwoo1377]

yah

[@chadpowell1832]

As someone who is hoping an introvert returns my feelings . This is uplifting

[@reidt182]

Good lord, i feel called out. Sometimes i feel like a creep too ;-;

[@kalimbean4324]

As a SOCIAL introvert, I can say that I... 1.) Smile more, but try to cover it up 2.) Glance at them a LOT but get embarrassed when they look back at me. 3.) Laugh wayyyyyy more, like to the point where it's almost obnoxious. 4.) Doubt myself somehow even MORE 5.) Sit closer to them 6) Talk way more and share random stuff about me that was probably never needed 7.) Get really distracted, almost forgetting where I am 8.) All of my nervous habits come to the front where I'm suddenly sweating, rubbing my hands together, playing with my hair.. (My ADHD doesn't help with this either :'>) 9.) I will remember EVERYTHING about them and bring up every inside joke that ever existed between us in the history of ever 10.) Somehow, with all of that going on, also try to act like they annoy me when really they're the only person I want to be with in that moment If any of your friends that are generally quiet around you do this stuff, then maybe... ;))

[@claudiarivas8492]

I do all of this, too, with my extroverted crush!

[@deathshade64]

I do all of these

[@beeankha]

Sounds like me 😂❤

[@mvpmvp2980]

When two introverts collide, probably nothing will happen...

[@lunacele6276]

😂

[@winniecantonese]

🤣😅

[@raihohamid2626]

What does that mean

[@connorgrynol9021]

@@raihohamid2626 They are unlikely to enter a relationship because neither one of them want to take the initiative.

[@pritismritidekaraja1497]

I can confirm this from my personal experience

[@heathergrahame9647]

The problem with us introverts like-liking someone is that we don't communicate and find out the facts but, instead, fill in our knowledge gaps with fantasy, and then get disappointed and upset when the person is different to our imagined perception. It's a drama that can repeat itself for a whole lifetime.

[@Lea-tq9hm]

100%!!!!

[@SugarandSarcasm]

Had to call me out like this.

[@laurapastor399]

Tale as old as time...

[@DhrithionVocals]

i literally have this image of an imaginary gf in my head and i know its unhealthy but idk how to stop

[@delilahdahlia247]

"Create opprotunites for you to talk to them and initiate contact." That just made me think of aliens

[@Potato-yr2lw]

Other people are pretty alien

[@delilahdahlia247]

@@Potato-yr2lw very true

[@sadespain2339]

😂😂

[@flyorwalk1743]

Introverts are King and Queens of being self-'alienated'. Get it😉...forget it😥

[@brionbraziel7968]

Lol, funny funny...

[@mykey657]

Me, an introvert, thinking about my introverted crush: He really likes me! Also me: Nope. Nope. Stop assuming

[@elibv4411]

I hear you... Same here

[@rachelciel3330]

Ha. Ha. This brings me back to middle school. I like this guys because he had some charismatic moments, and I often caught him staring at me. But I denied it until my feelings cool off and then found out from his unsubtle friends that he liked me, but I have moved on... So let's make an awkward boundary so no one's hurt. I was so bad dealing with feelings.

[@jayneisobel6655]

yup. i always have to remind my self not to assume things like that bc i’ve had that conversation w myself to many times loll

[@winniecantonese]

😅🤣😅🤣

[@peacejoy3629]

@@rachelciel3330 oh my god it's like you write my story right now i'm happy bcuz I found my people but I'm Sad too bcuz I don't want to stay like thaaat I'm feeling he is a nice guy and I don't want it to END before it even start ! but how to change it for the good ? Any help advice please from your experience ? And did you find someone who understand you and you can fully trust to be your true self ??

[@ajankytoucan]

"What was I thinking" is a question I ask myself everytime a word leaves my mouth

[@godwintitus7966]

Ohh yeahh😂😂😂

[@pradnyamalavade9366]

Being an introvert I have done everything that he mentioned while being around my crush..And now my crush is converted into my husband..😍 Will be completing one year of our marriage this month...💕💕

[@pradnyamalavade9366]

@Lachlan Aulich Just give it a shot..I too was scared to ask him out..but then I thought that if I don't ask him, someone else might do and then I would be left regretting for my whole life. Seeing your crush/love with someone else is not a good feeling. So just go for it..Be true to your feelings for her and just let it out in the simplest way..Wish you all the very best..I hope you both get together and live together forever..👍😊

[@charmi839]

Awwww, that's so sweet and wholesome 🥺❤️💕.

[@angelineang2617]

Aww congratulations! 💖

[@pradnyamalavade9366]

@@angelineang2617 Thanks 😊

[@JewelBlueIbanez]

How did you finally get to the asking out stage? My friend seems to be stuck here. They’re both introverts and he gets very shy and is scared away easily, but then keeps coming back.

[@dubudaebak]

when someone says something funny and everyone in the room starts looking at everyone to see who's looking at whom

[@astoldbynickgerr]

😂😂😂😂👀😂😂😂👁👁

[@maejubros3600]

🤣🤣🤣🤪🤪

[@sophiasimmons9613]

Ha! I realized I did this to my crush like a week ago in class when the teacher told a joke and now I feel so obvious... they looked in my general direction at the same time but it's probably because they thought I was having an asthma attack (I have a very loud and weird laugh)

[@dubudaebak]

@@sophiasimmons9613 haha that's so funny :D good luck tho!!!

[@sorcha2892]

Hahahahahahha

[@vantzem4591]

Imagine how many people have felt called out watching his

[@marleneestevez9730]

Me 🙈

[@sophiasimmons9613]

Literally me I feel so painfully obvious

[@Chronosmaster002]

Yup, but we won't say so

[@mitchnobles9702]

Here here.

[@LEGOJediMaster]

I'm gonna say it, we all just got called out.

[@elennacruz9697]

The thing about being physically close to the other person is also just enjoying their presence. Nonverbal communication and all. _I don't know what to say, but I like to feel that you're there._

[@icicle_ai9748]

God this is so true. I'd rather just lay next to someone while I play/watch them play videogames

[@cheeseboogar]

My crush is eyecandy to me so I like it when he's around lol

[@Van-hb4gi]

Omg yes. I used to love just sitting next to him and soaking up his essence.

[@alexeysaranchev6118]

I used to visit a couple of annoying informal social gatherings at work just to be little more around her.

[@aestheticchild6414]

YESS I mostly only get close to my crush because I feel safe and I enjoy their presence

[@lorensims4846]

You missed one about the 'complete shutdown' thing. In high school, if there was a girl I was particularly interested in I would show her how much I respected her by ignoring her completely.

[@BeWaReJay]

2 years late and yep I recently went through exactly what you did. Both our friend groups sat at the same lunch table during a study hall period, and most days she would literally move from her usual table to sit next to me to talk to her friends. And what did I do? Completely ignored her because I knew I would break down if I started speaking to her. Too bad we graduated this June

[@mixcloud3292]

“I probably can google it myself but I wanted to ask you for some weird reason” that hit me so hard 🤣

[@xanthie413]

My favorite is when two introverts like each other and there’s a standstill and you never get together cause neither risked making a definitive move 😒

[@goodbye3771]

well shit

[@zs4573]

This is happening to me right now lol. We’ve “hung out” multiple times over the last month and said we had a good time and continue to hang out but neither one of us will make a move 😕

[@Tinyfurball]

🤣

[@wyn8753]

bruh I've been liking this guy for YEARS and Idk if imma bout to jump the guy or wait for the move HAHAHHAHH

[@kaylawaters2691]

Awww. Lol.

[@Selena.6.23]

I know nobody asked me but, I want to share about the time I dated an ENTJ, I liked him at first sight in college, we lived in front of each other (inside the campus), just by looking through the blinds I could already see him (yeah, I watched him a lot xd creepy) Luckily, we were in the same class so i got several excuses to talk to him. Since we were neighbors we ran into each other "accidentally" on the way. I remember the time that I "accidentally" brought so much tofu so I called him to share it (I already knew that he is a vegetarian). In simply words, I studied him a lot hahaha so that the situations happened "accidentally", so that we ended dating😂 (nowadays I think that it was manipulation😢) (Oh, I'm an INFP) Now I know that my actions were kind of creepy ☹️ ... unless? 😂

[@nvreymundi]

@Sofía Roura jajajajja yeah

[@KL-qt9zi]

That's not actual manipulation. That's just clever planning. 😆 When I first met my husband I liked him and wanted to invite him to a group event (to be AROUND him) but I had nothing to invite him to. So I invited him to a bookclub I was part of. And then I had to invent a bookclub. 💁‍♀️

[@Selena.6.23]

@@cosasderu Yup yup, we were happy for about 4 years

[@Selena.6.23]

@Sofía Roura Yeah, I told him about my planning 😆 and he said that it was really suspicious at first and he didnt imagine that the quite girl would thought all that so he just go with it. Then when he notices it the game started as _"Oh you want me to fall for you? No if I make you fall for me first"_ xdxd

[@MarkandMarie]

Randomly, are you turbulent or assertive INFP?

[@ayunurfatima1902]

When me and my crush both are introverts: 👁👄👁

[@phainafiligree7075]

That's when you have to make the first move

[@ayunurfatima1902]

@@phainafiligree7075 well, actually I'm trying to ask him out to accompany me to the bookstore next month... I just hope it will going well

[@hemilli6443]

@@ayunurfatima1902 i hope that he accepts

[@rasika.l4151]

Hey there...have you asked him out??

[@ayunurfatima1902]

@@rasika.l4151 I haven't 😭 My heart isn't prepared yet, and I still need to think about the plan too. Should I keep my cool or just be myself then?

[@IbnBattutaEG]

"They're collecting data on you!" Man, I just read every single Facebook and Instagram post she made during the past 10 years, and over-analyzed each of her photos on all mediums, so that doesn't count as collecting data... is it?

[@Kimmie_78]

I cant be the only one who is regretting every little thing I did in front of my crush right now!

[@aviralsinghal1274]

Only if others knew that we really really want to be their best friend or love. Only if. 🥺

[@jackieocean3511]

We're not mind readers. I can't stand it when someone can't be honest and direct with their feelings. A lot of disagreements and arguments could be avoided that way. If u get shot down by a crush? Oh well...there's plenty of fish in the sea...it would also save much time and energy of feelings that are not reciprocated ~ 💖 ESFJ

[@okaymarcel9273]

I have experience of people not liking me because me being so quiet makes them think I don't like them and then people watching gets them to think I'm judging them from a distance. At least so I've been told. Means that I'm difficult to approach. There's a girl at work who's complained about me not paying attention to her before then actively tries to talk to me only sometimes, but then gets offended when my talking skills are awkward. Not sure if we'd actually click with each other, so I still don't initiate much.

[@valdemar83]

If people knew, the majority would used it against you by taking advantage of your vulnerability. Too much credit has been given to the maturity of humanity. Can you imagine how much of unnecessary dramas and chaos that would create?

[@valdemar83]

@@jackieocean3511 Very bad ass statement. I agree on the energy efficiency. All undesirable actions should be discarded. Mission unsuccessful. Target will be annihilated in 3, 2, 1...😂

[@lillyputian5907]

It's ok, a lot of us can actually pick up on the fact that you like us through your actions, but not say anything to keep it going, lol -entp type

[@idnevergivefelixarawegg]

I got my first boyfriend like that. Staring, excuses to talk, a lot of staring, asking my other male friends about him, sitting near him, 6 months of this & I got him hehehe

[@aminaelo]

LUCKY

[@idnevergivefelixarawegg]

@@TwinkieReid and if they don't feel you staring at them then they ain't even worth it.

[@MrParkerman6]

You could have just rubbed up against his leg like a cat to save time!!!!!!

[@zhilaav]

JAJAJAJAJAJAJAJABSBSH a "staring" 😂

[@AnuelleCheng]

that's cool! I got mine with some staring, then eventually befriending him and talking to him as often as I could. (which is an awful lot for an introvert 😂)

[@panicat.the.fandom2218]

The problem comes when you, an introvert, like like another introvert, so you both stand super closely to each other, but wait for the other to start the conversation Help? I'm an INFP and he's INTP (in my opinion)

[@nour_tan7506]

Same problem 😭

[@Rainiers]

Try bring up some common likes/interests in conversation e.g. music/films/books/hobbies/current events/theories about the universe ect. Ask them about a book they're reading or an activity they enjoy doing. INTPs can be quite talkative when discussing their interests. Good luck! sincerly an INTP

[@Sunset553]

Continue by movement. For example, hand him an apple if you’re eating an apple (cup of coffee, whatever) and proceed to go for a walk. It might require a “C’mon” but if he’s that close, he might follow you without an explicit invitation.

[@marleneestevez9730]

Yeah, been there. One of my college crush was an intovert as well. So I was sitting next to him, figuring out how to start a conversation knowing it had to be me who started the conversation cause he won't do it. It was some love/hate situation there 😅

[@defiantaichi]

That's the whole plot of Kaguya sama

[@Tannyller]

The only problem is that liking someone doesn't necessarily mean he wants you as their partner.

[@adityadas6638]

What is this

[@peacejoy3629]

Humm.. wait.. What ! What you mean

[@maio0077]

Yeah, if you're an introvert and you're comfortable with that person, you like being with them, you want to be friends with them, but not necessarily date them. It's like a cat lol

[@aptthedoctor2703]

"Introverts will talk more than usual" Me: *spits drink out realizing that I do that and feel really stupid around my crush and wonder why I act like a crazy person around them"

[@ash3075]

Same.

[@triscardenas5382]

When I was in 10th also, my crush wished me a Happy birthday and I say "You too!" with absolute happiness. He teased me about it the rest of the day and I was the happiest girl alive 😌

[@binduprabhat3565]

😂😂

[@jackieocean3511]

Cutest story EVER awwww lol 💖

[@healingandgrowth-infp4677]

😊 aww

[@filastron]

Why am I watching this as if someone is crushing on me. IVE BEEN CONFINED IN MY HOUSE FOR 9 MONTHS Edit : it’s been officially a year (+some months due to massive exams )of confinement the world has forgotten about me and I’m coming to terms with it

[@lizziedoesthings1450]

as an introvert whose crush has persisted all these nine months, you'd be surprised

[@TrueLadyEvilChan]

I guess I'm watching because I'm lonely and have never had a relationship ever, as an introvert

[@emmjh]

Hmm...9 months is nothing, cause last time I saw them was maybe 6 years ago? Still appears in my dream every now and then, so... 😅

[@Monarchflies]

Haha me to I’m just bored

[@Lee-qy8zs]

ME TOO

[@triscardenas5382]

Me, an introvert trying to talk to my crush: ... Potatoes

[@antiday]

hope you didnt (or did) follow up with: "....do you like to mash em"

[@JesiWhyte]

Yasssss, I once told a guy if he was a bag of potato chips, he'd be the crispiest 🤦‍♀️😂...

[@joelcampos8795]

That would totally work on me. I love potatoes lol

[@marleneestevez9730]

@@joelcampos8795 So do I. It would be a fun way to start a conversation 😆

[@joelcampos8795]

@@marleneestevez9730 it would be unless it doesn't work. Then you'll just keep replaying that awkward moment in your head for the rest of your life lol

[@yugenashrestha119]

Introverts will talk more than usual infront of their crush, but only rubbish things will come out of their mouth and they endup embarrasing themselves and making their crush uncomfortable and ruin any chance they had. :(

[@adityadas6638]

Hmmm i see

[@Izabela-ek5nh]

My crush always tells me it is soo cute I do all the expressive talk to him and so cute half of it sounds soo childish. I'm never sure whether he likes it or it is a hidden critique... :(

[@A.N.26]

I’m an introvert and I wanted to see how true this is. It’s really accurate. I’m cringing remembering how I do this all the time :’)

[@hayasmom2720]

I've always preferred taking my crushes to my grave and pretend i didn't notice them when they're near than somehow letting them know, guess I'm the forever alone type

[@marleneestevez9730]

I used to be totally like that. But then I realized that if I want my crush to notice me, I needed to do something. But now, I'm so freaking obvious.

[@laella]

@@marleneestevez9730 same lmaooo Pretty sure they knew I liked them🙃

[@sophiasimmons9613]

Same! In theory I want to date and have my crush find out I like them and like me back but in reality I cannot imagine a more horrifying situation than them realizing and confronting me

[@ryolo9189]

I'm not here because an introvert likes me. I'm the introvert, I couldn't even figure out if I like someone so I'm looking for some signs.

[@Doudou25870]

I'm an INFP and I had a crush on an ENTP. When he told me he'd been attracted to me for three years but couldn't figure out if I liked him I think I nearly died. I'm trying to be more ~expressive~ now when I like someone because damn that's a lot of time to waste lol.

[@marleneestevez9730]

Been there. Doing that as well now.

[@emmagreen6120]

Aww that's so lucky! I'm happy for you! :)

[@Doudou25870]

@@emmagreen6120 thank you! Unfortunately my luck ran out when he broke my heart a few months later lol but I got better

[@Doudou25870]

@@marleneestevez9730 I believe in us! Hopefully we can move towards not being so painfully oblivious to our surroundings 😅

[@emmagreen6120]

@@Doudou25870 Aww I'm sorry! I'm glad you're doing better now

[@Crimson_Echo]

I'm the type of introvert that is quite around my crush because I'm worryed I will look like a total idiot but I do try to look for opportunitys to talk to them. And I think I'm giving them the impression that I hate them or I'm being totally obvious and WHY AM I LIKE THIS

[@jordizierz3395]

Unless I am unusual, if you do something embarrassing, extroverts will think it's hilarious and forget about it in 5 minutes, so no worries.

[@yasminsantiago3991]

Nah mate if I'm staring at my crush repetitively it's really just because they're gorgeous and I can't get enough of the sight of them

[@fatixa6792]

No offense but as an intovert I do NOT wanna be on a relationship with another introvert like,, at least ONE of us needs to be socially functional

[@biancabhardwaj8347]

Lol yeah

[@serhap5486]

lmao!

[@readmyabout3286]

How about social introverts

[@geensjc]

Same!!!!

[@RossLemon]

I consider myself an introvert but I can easily handle myself in social situations. I do get uncomfortable though when there's a lot of attention on me though whether it's good or bad.

[@grettyspaghetti]

Now what. about extroverts? I got you covered as I am one of them: 1: Putting more effort to talking to you then others. 2: Being SUPER talkative or SUPER quiet. I've done both. 3:Asks your opinion on something and then trusts it. EX: should I cut my hair? 4: Smiles or stares at you a lot, accidentally or purposely. 5: Asks to do things 1 on one or team up. 6: Compliments you a lot or acts silly or even cool to you. (More than normal or to others) 7:Usually its quite obvious because they give you more attention than others. All these could be signs and extrovert likes you or... they are just an ENFP.

[@elibv4411]

I confirm jajaja

[@yutassmilehealsme6572]

An extrovert ‘popular guy’ did all of this. Can confirm this list is accurate

[@ink_puke_]

as an ENFP myself, i actually do none of these things. i literally just go to them and say "y'know, i love you. have a good day"

[@artemtsarevskiy2785]

ENFP here, I just do nothing and watch them all get married. :(

[@chai_knees3554]

I will become more shy and timid because I fear doing something or saying something wrong, but at the same time I will make an effort to engage with that person in ways that I can

[@ichinikochiniseokjinie7361]

* They try to be close with you * Meanwhile, *Me, who runs like a freak just by the sight of my crush*

[@ArkMayukh11811]

I'm hoping my crush (she occasionally watches your videos) sees this video on her own and realize that I might be into her so that I don't have to confess directly. But, you know, chances are quite low.

[@pyrogreg8]

The problem is, we know some of our actions are creepy, but we don't know what else to do...

[@lrlpg2056]

Me talking to my crush: My crush: "Wwhat does that even meaan like, why? “ Me, sweating: I-I don't know.. Lol haha My crush:Sorry gotta go Me:oh me too, no, I mean sure, me neither, I mean ok, bye.. Bruh.

[@astoldbynickgerr]

😌💙

[@meganmartians8372]

Same.

[@sophiasimmons9613]

It's funny because it's TRUE and painfully so

[@protorhinocerator142]

Not all of us are as smooth as you are. Must be nice.

[@mjfanta4196]

Me: talks louder to everyone else but studiously ignores the person I like

[@angelbear_og]

Haha, been there and done that!

[@adityadas6638]

Been there done that

[@maseengmasitha6212]

Me.

[@averagedbeatenjoyer]

I'm an introvert but when I'm with my girlfriend it doesn't take "energy" or whatever. I usually just wanna be left alone(not talk) but I can talk for hours with my crush

[@kixwho]

Seriously this vid is sooo helpful. I needed help deciphering introverts. I don't need to see a funny sketch, just a practical guide to understand introverts better. Thank you Frank!

[@lilywang5069]

Frankly, that was great! Can you also make a video on how to tell if someone’s just being nice or if they’re interested?? Thx!!

[@FrankJames]

Great suggestion!

[@giishaw92]

Here's one: if you ask someone a question and they answer your question, that is not an indication that they are interested in you. 🙃

[@giishaw92]

Oh God, that's not a sassy response to what you said and the fact that Frank answered. Just an honest example I've had to explain to some before. I'll stop talking now.

[@jackieocean3511]

@@giishaw92 I liked ur response. The guy I dated was a massive introvert (also super ridiculously hot, 8 pack, the works) but literally was too nervous around me to give me answers to direct questions but somehow managed to know every detail of me. I got fed up. I felt like I was taking to a wall. I like ppl in general, but if u can't be comfortable in my presence, it's going to be a problem. It was a sad break-up 💔 ☹

[@giishaw92]

@@jackieocean3511 I'm sorry it was a sad breakup. But tbh, he sounds a bit odd... I don't like to judge, but when you know, you know 😂

[@AthenaIsabella]

Introverts are so thoughtful and confusing. We love that. Beautiful mysteries ahahahaha

[@chaoticbreeze6262]

What if that person introvert likes watches this video? Poor introvert will get exposed who was subtly hiding. Such an accurate video whoa.

[@antiday]

i think you'd want your crush to read it, tho.Especially if you're an introvert who leans more twds subtlety, you're definitely going to be worried that maybe you were too good at being sublime, and your crush would remain obliviously unaware. So technically, you'd want them to accidentally stumble upon random information on the internet that'll help them get a clue - cus stars know we're not dropping enough of those XD

[@fatixa6792]

That's.. That's the point of the video i-

[@chaoticbreeze6262]

@@antiday wow, this is so interesting. I just started imagining the scenario and daydreamed like how things could've been if this really happened, it made me giddy for a few seconds ^^ but there's no crush now, lol.

[@chaoticbreeze6262]

@@fatixa6792 basically more introverts see this to be cautious? 😂

[@antiday]

@@chaoticbreeze6262 haha..! Give it time, it'll happen. Sometimes even when I thought I had all my priorities figured out and nothing was going to distract me from my career, boom, suddenly someone comes nonchalantly along and plucks a string out of my heart, just like that XD

[@saraandstuartshannon2160]

My hubby is introvert, and yes, in start, he was all the time around, he still doesn’t stop talking to me, yes, his interests... he never stops, even when I don’t listen and he knows it, ok, he forgets everything, even some meaningful conversation that made him fall in love with me, yes, always looking at me...it’s fun to be married to introvert 😁

[@cyrilio]

OMG I’m collecting so much data with this video. Thanks for opening my eyes Frank.

[@ErezElene]

Pretty accurate. If I'm silent I'm either desperately trying not to show I like you, or I'm mentally conveying "approach me, and I will not be held accountable for your murder." Not confusing at all.

[@TR-wm3sg]

Ruminating on something you did in 10th Grade is *so* introvert...!

[@RCAnderson42]

Don't TELL them!! They'll stop giving us the signs and then we'll never know...

[@MrParkerman6]

Easiest way to let a guy know you like them is to TELL them. Guys can't take hints. We are very direct creatures. If you aren't flat out obvious with us, we Will not understand. We don't understand subtlety.

[@Delta_47]

@@MrParkerman6 And if we do get to understand we'll be unsure and mentally slap ourselves to "go back to reality"

[@00mokuyobi]

I remember soaking up every piece of information my crushes' behaviour would reveal and then being disappointed missing one opportunity to do so. I love being introverted!

[@marinthemood]

It's so cute when someone remember random stuff about you because usually it's something people don't pay attention

[@Laura-ql4mg]

When I first starting dating this guy, I was totally fine. He quickly realized he was going to have to carry the conversation though lol (I'm an introvert big time). Then I guess I started really liking him because suddenly I couldn't look at him and did the stereotypical giggle and blush. That lasted about a month. Thankfully he found it cute and endearing and I got over it.

[@whatsername6973]

It’s creepy how accurate this is

[@ceilinh6004]

These are true facts. My husband and I are both introverts, and before we started dating, we... did a lot of these things. We "randomly" sat next to each other on many occasions, stealthily learned many facts about each other, had a lot of accidental eye contact... Anyway, then he asked me out by email.

[@Gypsy1194]

🤣 I love it! Email was a great idea. I'm still laughing!

[@aaaaaaaaaa8227]

Im thinking about printing a HUGE qr code with mi instagram account like if I was kidnaped to make easier for her to talk to me, I'm not too introvert I just want her to be comfortable, she is a girl from "collegue"

[@marleyisms]

This is so helpful. I have an introvert who likes me. I want to be kind and respectful of his time and space. I'm an Extroverted-Introvert so I completely understand the need for space, but I also understand the loneliness piece too. All the things you've described my guy has done. I didn't know he liked me at first because for weeks he randomly messaged me small talk and I was really confused. Never rude, just confused because we've been friends for 3 decades. Eventually, I got tired of the small talk and asked if he wanted me to come visit him. It was like pulling teeth to get him to give me a straight answer. Fortunately I'm an intuitive empath and didn't let his lack of normal communication deter me. Each time we're together, he opens up a little more. I've decided to be patient and move at his pace. I know he's a good man and has always been a good friend. I never want to do anything to hurt him. Thank you for the great tips and thank you for all those who have commented sharing your experiences. I want to be a better person to all I come in contact with and I want to read your behavior properly.

[@kimyeontan148]

Lol I stare into my crushes soul and immediately regret all my life decisions when they come up to me

[@bbyun1949]

OH MY GOD, you just reminded me of some embarrassing things I did in the past, I used to have a crush on someone, and my dude, I like never spoke to him, but still I even knew his name and used to yell his name whenever I saw him and waved at him, like for a long time, and not only that, when I did got his email i sent him a message saying that I am that girl calling you and waving to you every morning on the way to school :') I wonder why he didn't call the police...

[@charmi839]

He liked you back but didn't have the courage to tell you 😌.

[@monicasales5972]

Hey, suggestion for your next video! It would be very cool to see the "perfect matchs" interacting. For example: INTP + ENTJ, INTJ + ENFP... Those couples interactions can come out in a really funny (and chaotic) way 😅

[@rhondaflesher8313]

I know if not careful someone who is an extreme introvert married to someone who is quite the opposite can be a disaster. I wanted and needed to be home a lot. He needed to be out socializing, hanging out with his friends a lot. We grew apart and he found someone else to run and socialize with.

[@monicasales5972]

@@rhondaflesher8313 I'm sorry to hear that! But yeah, opposites attract is bullshit.

[@Die-CastMetal]

Now that it’s over I am realizing I do all those things... in the creepy ways.

[@tronic2531]

Same

[@adityakoundal9629]

that awkward pause at the end after telling the story... that has been my whole life.

[@xanderrose7073]

As an introvert, I do like weirding people out and I do like this girl, and one of my goals is to weird her out, idk why, but that is my goal, somehow I haven't yet, she just says "your not weird, your just creative and persistent"

[@ashleyash5388]

I do the same unconsciously. I guess I just want to seem more interesting, and get a reaction out of them

[@xanderrose7073]

@@ashleyash5388 well, if you be yourself and people find you interesting, that's your crowd

[@detdu111]

Just a thought that came to mind.. What if you’re ”wierdness” is just a cover up for the fear of not opening up will make them leave you? So you just wierd them out to se how much you could potentially do ”wrong”, to se if they’ll still stay.

[@sabaalsayyed7059]

I once tried to approach someone, and they thought I was "observing and studying" them for my psychology class. I may have been studying them but for "emotional needs" apparently. -Intj

[@Kate98755]

as a new employee, as i always do, i say very little and observe more, later the staff said they thought i was a spy for HR, 😂😂😂😂and i shared that sounds better than this work i was hired to do😒.

[@tsfbaf303]

Kate D What are your coworkers doing that they are worried about HR spies? 😂

[@Kate98755]

@@tsfbaf303 that's what i thought....i learned later that a couple of them were into drugs, so that was probably their worry

[@agentredfox]

Ha!!! I feel these so hard-especially the bringing up stuff I know or remember-it really IS a hard line to walk between flattery & stalking, lol.

[@juanitajordan985]

As an INFJ I would switch from shy to bold if my crush was shy.

[@miwa297]

not am INFJ but same😂!

[@claudiarivas8492]

omG, I actually do that, too! INFJ as well. I remember I had a crush at work once, and he was the quietest person I knew about in the workplace. He also gave off a calm, cute vibe. He usually didn't approach anyone for conversation, though he'd been working there for 2 years -I only had months there-. He was so mysterious... So I decided and made it my purpose that I'd make him talk to me! 😂 Anytime I saw him, I'd shout his name in English at him, to get his attention, and then smile and leave. Eventually he started to approach for conversation and I was usually listened to rather than the listener. I was happy I made this new shy friend talk to me 🤣 More recently I met someone who I like, but he's an extrovert. Even though I don't avoid him, whenever we meet he's certainly the one talking and I do the listening while I try to remain as calm and composed as possible 😁

[@imjust8644]

Pls what's INFJ

[@juanitajordan985]

@@claudiarivas8492 lol as calm and composed as possible.

[@juanitajordan985]

@@imjust8644 one of the 16 personality types. Check out Frank James for more info

[@sionaofficial6006]

Got it. Now I'll be careful to not be suspicious around my crush😂🙃:')

[@moonishkalicheran3470]

Completely true! And about the fine line between cute and creepy in remembering random stuffs, i went through it lol!!!

[@madisonthedancer6192]

I feel quite called out lol😅😂 I literally do almost all of these

[@TestaRosssa_]

There's an introvert that when we hung out he wouldn't talk to me or barely look at me, just laugh or smile at things I said and answer my questions so short. I thought he thought I was annoying. Then a bit later he shows up at my house and gives me this super beautiful card and says nothing hahaha! He hands it to me, smiles, bows, and walks away! I was shocked! Still am shocked.

[@agentorange153]

Did you respond in any way? Because that's a sure sign he really liked you!

[@TestaRosssa_]

@@agentorange153 I didn't have his number or anything but I thanked him as he was walking away! 😅 but he didn't come around again. He showed up when my mom was being taken by the ambulance so it might've been a bit weird for him haha 🤣 Actually I did text his mom to thank him for me because I was friends with her, but didn't have his number. At first I even thought it was from his mom until she told me it was him when I texted her. She had no clue he had even done it!

[@kalyssayoude9706]

I hope you do a video on "Signs an Extrovert Likes You" sometime soon. As an INTJ, I have been told that I can be kind of oblivious when it comes to people flirting with me, so I'm sure that would be helpful. Thanks for the creative videos, I always look forward to watching them. 😉

[@agentorange153]

If you're an introvert, then why would you want to flirt with an EXTROVERT??? You know, when an introvert has a crush on an extrovert, this rarely ends well!

[@dickyStardust1921]

I've never been this relatable to something i've seen ever

[@ellebanning6990]

totally agree about looking at someone trying to understand the other person and figuring out if i really like the person or not so much.

[@hlimhlim_i1079]

I always feel more connected to a yt video when I watch the premier🥰🥰

[@FrankJames]

oh good!

[@Broukas]

I am hard of hearing and also an introvert. When I was a senior in high school there was this guy I had a crush on who was also an introvert. We hardly spoke to each other, we just both tried to hide the fact that we looked at each other frequently from afar. He approached me one day in the loud cafeteria and said something to me. I couldn’t make it out at all, so I said, “What?” He blushed and walked away. My friends started teasing me about how cruel I was. I was like, “seriously, what did he say?” They were like “You know!” It was sooooo frustrating. Then he was awkward around me and avoided looking at me at all. Later I found out that he had asked me to go to the Prom with him! I tried to talk to him once to explain that I’m just half DEAF but he didn’t want to talk to me. So I went to the prom with friends, he skipped it, and life as an introvert sucks. The end.

[@deborahhanna9126]

Feels. I am hearing impaired and no one believes that it is a real thing unless they can 'see' it. Too bad for not getting to prom with him but luckily the internet exists so you can at least look him up to explain. Relieving your conscience and at least letting him know that he was not the object of a joke in front of half the achool. It may become.... At least a feiendship.

[@azukib2230]

Sometimes I accidentally turn away when I would have eye contact with another person, then it's just awkward because I don't want them to think I have a crush on them when in reality I just have social anxiety. Then I would make the avoidance of eye contact overly obvious and it just seems like I have a major crush on them, then everything just gets ultra awkward because they start to avoid eye contact as well while paying attention to my reactions and I don't even like this person gwhaaaah.

[@healingandgrowth-infp4677]

Literally when reporting traumas done to me to police they had so many folk in inspecting me like psychotherapist I believe who believed my painful stories and told us I had CPTSD. But I have social anxiety too. And I could not look at the eyes at all I kept avoiding eye contact. Police took it to be a sign of lying. My support told me tho it is difficult to do so try look in the eyes of the person I'm speaking to. So I did try. I had bad vision too which also does not help I can not see to study faces n since leaving abuse did not have my glasses. But I found out faces being blurry made me more anxious and cautious around people. Police... They made comments of me looking to the left a lot etc and signs of making up stories. I couldn't believe what I was hearing. Discrediting my painful childhood experiences because of involuntarily memory eye movements and such. And the psychotherapist explained to police that I was remembering things n that is normal. Anyway. I did struggle with looking in eyes n social anxiety made things hard too. I just pretended I was alone then by looking st the window I had an escape or looking toward the wall and curling up toward it I felt safe to talk as it was the first time I ever spoke about the things that happened to me and so I can talk n they wanted me to talk about the details of vulnerable times which was even more awkward and hard to do. Anyway it was another traumatic event of my life. It had went on like that the interrogation treating me as if I was a criminal while I was victim for 22 years of horrific abuse it went on like that for 3 months. I learnt to never turn to police for any help. While in domestic violent abuse that was close to killing me I was fobbed off because the police guy rather get home early than have to deal with my paperwork report. My best friend was killed by her ex partner when the police failed to listen to her pleas for help.

[@goldenrequiem7533]

I do the exact thing so many times and I always find myself in a star of confusion praying they didn't get the wrong message 😂😑

[@jordizierz3395]

I look at people, but always switch who I look at a lot, so nobody thinks it's odd when I look at them. I find that easier than never looking at anyone. I also tend to look at whoever is speaking, because nobody finds that odd for obvious reasons.

[@wordnerd9991]

@@healingandgrowth-infp4677 :'( I'm sorry. It's so hard to look people in the eyes, especially after you've been beaten down (emotionally or physically) for years. It's so hard to trust them when they won't even give you a chance. I hope you're safe now. I'm sorry you lost your best friend. Please don't lose yourself.

[@matth7272]

Great your doing content on us introverts. I don't normally try to explain to others as it's hard to.

[@Mr54ford]

I enjoy being an introvert, it’s who I am, it’s you vs the world but you’ve connected with yourself on an much deeper lever, but it’s difficult to find people to talk to on an deeper level.

[@BagelTwist]

I’m glad I’m not the only one who sent awkward messages like that back in the day! I used to add the guys I liked on AIM or MySpace and nervously wait for the “online now” to appear. But I couldn’t wait too long or else I’d “tie up the phone line” 😂

[@fiorellalescano]

What's an AOL Instant Messenger? 🤔 Joking, haha. Your embarrassing story is also creepy and cute. It made me think about something I thought I'd forgotten. I remember I accidentally sent a nudge on MSN to the boy I liked. 😳 What a creepy way to start a conversation, huh?

[@giishaw92]

To be fair, I think we all used to be a little creepy in high school. Adults don't know how to human, let alone teenagers

[@jackieocean3511]

@@giishaw92 I believe the new term is called "adulting" lol. We gotta be PC right haha. Yea...I've been 'adulting' my whole life. Basically, just winging it 😩 PS: I like cats bc they exude so much confidence and don't give a damn and think quick on their feet. So to cats...should it be called 'humaning' ? 🤔 Naaahhh, they've had it figured out for centuries lol 😻

[@fiorellalescano]

@@smalltownvvitch nope, he didn't. That's when I knew he wasn't for me. Remember the boy with the water balloon on MSN? 😂

[@Laura-ql4mg]

I miss msn messenger!

[@skulldude101]

This dude nailed it. Sub earned

[@secretbaguette]

#5 addative tip. If you are the introvert trying to learn from this video, it is usually better to only reveal that you remember the little details on select ocdasions such as; your female crush tells you one day that she pulled an all nighter, a good next move would be texting her the next morning to ask if she slept. Just generally things that show you care are your best bets.