What do you do when someone offers you free stuff?
@ginamarie5575 Жыл бұрын
If I don’t want it I sell it or give it away . Hate too much stuff in my space ….. just pass it on . Keep it moving if it does not suit you 😊
@emilyhimbeerchen4550 Жыл бұрын
Avoid eyecontact and run away
@kraykray4118 Жыл бұрын
@@emilyhimbeerchen4550😂😂😂
@kraykray4118 Жыл бұрын
I now politely say no thank you I'm all set on that front 👍
@pjasmine Жыл бұрын
my problem is I love to receive them. 😞
@giselecrevier3967 Жыл бұрын
I love the quote: "If the product is free, YOU are the product."
@drewo6388 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. That's what I think of when I think of social media platforms like Facebook, TikTok, or X/Twitter.
@Heavens-Humanaterian-Army Жыл бұрын
@@drewo6388your absolutely spot on...I know facebook was set up by cia to track criminals conveniently and do data mining.. i can't belive so many put important sensitive info online.
@rainwarren1219 Жыл бұрын
I love TK's voice!
@christinawynkoop4027 Жыл бұрын
Another way I have decluttered, I fasted from Facebook for 5 months. I took it one day at a time. I found that I was reading more. I found that I was talking to my daughter more. I found I was more productive at work. I found I was more productive in managing my home. I found out that I could put my iPhone down and not want to pick it back up. I decided to shut down my Facebook permanently. I now see I'm not comparing my life to others. I manage my time better. I no longer have Instagram, twitter, etc. I know this isn't for everyone but this has changed my life!!!! I have time for my love ones!! I'm so grateful I chose to take the first step.
@franmcdonald4702 Жыл бұрын
Companies are proud of what they do. Company I worked for gave me a shirt every year. I just passed them on.Donated them.
@LourdesCruz-nj4xx Жыл бұрын
I lost everything during Hurricane Maria and also personal relationships disappeared as soon as I had nothing “to offer “. I changed work to the one I used to fantasize, I have a minimalist house and a new relationship. I jumped into the idea of new canvas to live with less and experience more. Every two or three weeks I go to one room and verify if there is something that I no longer like, use or want and donate or get rid of it. I love my current life and the hurricane removed a lifestyle and possessions that were dragging me down.
@Wee_ones_Xolito Жыл бұрын
❤ x
@WickedJinx Жыл бұрын
“I already have everything I need” is such an elegant way to decline
@7drunkenmermaids43128 күн бұрын
Yes, and non judgmental. They can't argue it.
@heatherburch7697 Жыл бұрын
The environmental cost of “free” things is astronomical. They are usually low value items, often plastic which end up in the land fill.
@jonglee319411 ай бұрын
important point
@free2roam492 Жыл бұрын
I love watching your videos. I learn and reaffirm so much of my life.
@phillipsnichole2857 Жыл бұрын
Hahaha 😂 I used to go to industry conventions just to pick up the free loot!! I worked jobs hoping to score free stuff from the event!
@carolgeorge6409 Жыл бұрын
People are trying to clean out their stuff! I started saying no thank you . Cleaning out my own stuff!!!!
@miguelvalenzuela6691 Жыл бұрын
Great episode! As someone who works as a regional manager for a retailer, sometimes we have events where we get and give away stuff. I struggle with the fact that most of the thigs we give away are just trash to me. When stuff is given to me I try to pass it so someone else that can get joy out of it.
@paullajackson4482 Жыл бұрын
I think it's all about how you ask someone if they would like something for free. It would be nice if someone said, "Would you enjoy having this in your life?" instead of saying, "Here, take this free stuff." or "Do you want this?"
@lc5542 Жыл бұрын
You guys are amazing. Thanks, been following you since the beginning.
@mjsmith9889 Жыл бұрын
I just have to add that my ENTIRE life I have been chastised for my HEARTY LAUGH. MALABAMA is a close second to me!! Love it!! Keep laughing MALABAMA!!! Not many jobs where you can have that good of a time!! LAUGH ON SISTER!
@kentanderson8575 Жыл бұрын
I love that you have been to our city. To all the listeners, please come visit or move here.
@Heavens-Humanaterian-Army Жыл бұрын
Absolutley love it your totaly right..and recently I got rid off a big chunky toy my kids found on the side of the road..it was here for a year and woo hoo now its gone plus more items as well...yay my loungeroom just got bigger woo hoo.such a good feeling.
@RED_VAR Жыл бұрын
What a joy it is to be an atheist and a minimalist!
@catmandoo3735 Жыл бұрын
If it's truly free with no strings attached and it's something I know I can use it or pass it on to some charity that may be able to use it, then yes I will accept it.
@Jordan-4-Him-NM Жыл бұрын
To Jake: yes, you are a minimalist, but think of it this way. The items are already there so it's not like you're ordering something from scratch that is going to take up resources to make and add to the landfill. Take the item-pass it on. People who do not want clutter or are minimalists are not the norm. I don't think they are trying to make you feel bad-I think they don't have a clue because they are stuck inside their consumerism.
@skelatonman Жыл бұрын
32:05 YES YES YES YES YES YES YES
@MoveApts Жыл бұрын
Big thumbs up! Great episode...
@susandaw144 Жыл бұрын
I would take these free products, especially the t-shirts and donate them to homeless shelters. Someone would be happy to have them. I’m not judging the person who doesn’t want the freebies.
@LoneWolf32927 Жыл бұрын
Anytime i get anything free I will take it home and put it my donation box right away and it goes straight to the church or thrift store
@lauriecampbell1378 Жыл бұрын
Great content, wow!
@carolgeorge6409 Жыл бұрын
Just say no!
@Halff_elf9 ай бұрын
Columbus, IN: I would just take the shirt, and give it to Goodwill. ;)
@dreylane Жыл бұрын
The company I worked for gave t-shirts and wanted the employees to wear them during a visit from Corporate.
@CarolenGrayToday7 ай бұрын
also for Jake you can take the free thing with total permission to donate it or throw it away
@giselarominaquillin8038 Жыл бұрын
I have a silver utensils case from my husband’s grandmother, I don’t know how to get rid of it, if not body from the families want it, why should I do?? Help!!!
@Heavens-Humanaterian-Army Жыл бұрын
Give it away to someone or sell it...someone would love to give it a new lease on life and appreciate it...probably more than a family member that wouldn't honner it.
@dreylane Жыл бұрын
Take the freebies but, get rid of it off the employer's property. Give to Goodwill or Salvation Army on your way home.
@nas6315 Жыл бұрын
Free, the other f word
@cathypritchard4306 Жыл бұрын
I do not take free stuff!
@nancybrody5896 Жыл бұрын
I always say NO to free stuff. If it’s free it’s usually junk.
@mr.bnatural3700 Жыл бұрын
Isn't minimalism the same as hoarding empty space? Hoarding air?
@Heavens-Humanaterian-Army Жыл бұрын
No not at all..minimlyst is about simplifying your life to save time so you time to work relax be with family ext...its about quality of life..and not tending your belongs that end up owning you.
@eandrgoodwin Жыл бұрын
So you told her “I have everything I need,” but isn’t the simple fact that you are in a grocery store a contradiction of what you told her? Why would you be in a store if you truly had everything you need? (Or want?)
@dream.darlene9 ай бұрын
Pink Floyd I'm black 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Yes love it!
@rosamariaortizpino1238 Жыл бұрын
Capitalism is based on the idea of needing material stuff
@sharonhosler2395 Жыл бұрын
Alisha, you might want to Google the book “The Four Tendencies” by Gretchen Rubin. I struggle similarly also and the Obliger section helps me understand ways to not.