FRENCH HABITS I HAVE NOT PICKED UP (AFTER 10 YEARS IN FRANCE!)

Let's talk about French habits.... specifically the ones I have not picked up over the years living in France. There are plenty of French customs and cultural norms that I've embraced but there are some French habits that I just haven't adapted to as a foreigner in France. Being married to a French guy and all, you’d think that some of his Frenchness would rub off on me. Maybe some of it has but let’s be real. I lived most of my life in the USA, so there are plenty of French things I just don’t understand or do - probably a good and bad thing.
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[@a.humphries8678]

I just came back from France. I found the french people warm and amazing. Loved the no small talk, but there was a genuine warmth. We got into some sticky situations and people were so helpful and hospitable.

[@OuiInFrance]

So glad you had a great trip!

[@martinrivermoore9545]

I would say French go out of their way to be helpful as they are very kind usually...

[@a.humphries8678]

@@martinrivermoore9545 very kind and hospitable. :)

[@maxinqc]

As a French person, I always bought my daily baguette at the bakery. I grew up with that, and couldn't think of removing this habit 😍

[@hufflepuffjoh]

I lived in sweden for a year and only had blinds. As a French guy I found that horrible being awoken by sunlight at 5 a.m. in summer

[@LOLOVAL-os3pq]

the shutters are also used to limit the temperature in the house, the sun's rays are prohibited from heating the windows and transforming the rooms into a greenhouse!!

[@valdir7426]

opaque curtains are a good solution if you don't have shutters

[@SharonCullenArt]

Black out blinds or curtains also insulate and block light. Personally I use a sleep mask.

[@cyanidebass6519]

The curtain thing, beyond enjoying sunlight, is related to the same reason french got garden fences where americans often don t, and for the relationship closeness thing, or even the "don t take a photo of my or my property" and so on .... We enjoy our "privacy" in such way. It feels subjectively comfortable. By night we expose our private space to the outer world. For the meals, the cheese is a way to close a meal hence it used to come later on. For the breakfast, you got it, people eating late at night can t be really hungry early morning, but i agree i ll rather go for a strong salty and protein based breakfast, carbs free or nearly, and a light dinner. As for the bakery habits, well lazyness ultimately reached us too, a full set of bread once a week to feed our freezer is way more convinient.

[@semilvr]

Love how you keep it real, Diane! I don’t even adapt 100% to my native culture so it’s only normal to not do everything the French way as a foreigner. Keep up the fun videos!

[@OuiInFrance]

Thank you!

[@anapoda3081]

shutters are important when you live in the south of France. The heat is no joke here

[@Raphanne]

I would add à function to the list of benefits for volets: it keeps out the light coming from the streets. For optimal sleep, you should sleep in a place as dark as possible, without any artificial light disrupting you.

[@raymondjean1195]

Like explanation. Merci

[@joanbroadus3200]

I am Franco-American. My mother from FRANCE my father from Alabama USA. So I was born speaking French until I was 7. I lived between France & States since my father was in Air Force. I understand both American and French habits, characteristics, etc. I could fill a book on my 63 years of experiences and my parents’ experiences…I live both homes, foods, people, languages….. I’m not well right now just out if a 3 month stay at Hospital but maybe later I could ask questions. And elaborate. Merci/thanks

[@ommsterlitz1805]

Good reestablishment Monsieur/Sir

[@shradheyagaikwad289]

Sweet home alabama

[@Dahu_7]

Omg same, dad from Montgomery mom from the French alps

[@lenal71100]

bon rétablissement à vous!

[@cedo3333]

Get well sir (that's how you say french friends ;) ) You translated literally the sentence ^^

[@helenlevens6278]

As a Australian/English person living in France for 8 years, I can relate to all this. Diane, I really liked how you said about trying to hard to embrace all things in the French way making you feel as if you are losing the "real" you. So I let myself be French where it's really expected of me , but at home I do me! 😉 One thing I have really embraced though is the main meal in the middle of the day, but it doesn't HAVE to be 3 courses, or be served at exactly 12 midday. 😂

[@OuiInFrance]

Hi Helen, glad you understand where I'm coming from! I think it's only normal to do what we want in our own homes. And yes, love the big lunch, light dinner thing.

[@moniquehuchet3646]

Thank you for reminding me how French I still am after 60 years living in North America. My meals have retained the patterns I grew up with and even in restaurants I push the salad aside to be eaten after the main course, it usually means some explanation for the waitress. I gave up asking for the salad to be brought at the end of the meal because it was forgotten every time.

[@maureen1938]

I too have been living in France over sixty years but my roots remain in the UK where I was born and brought up. I love France and find people can be kind so I understand kindness comes naturally where ever you are.. I love French food but I have so many English foods I was brought up on. My children laugh at my cupboards full of Heinz Baked Beans; HP Sauce. Sandwhich Spread Heinz, Salad Cream of course. ginger biscuits and I could go on and on. I'v'e always kept breakfast English style not too much but I don't like sweet and no protein to start the day. I also keep to English timing for my meals and have an early dinner and drink tea very often during the day.

[@JosetteThompson]

I lived 30 years in the US and still maintain all my French way of living, no problem ! I still hate the small talk and usually try to do the minimum ! When in US you nearly know the people’s whole life in 5 minutes ! It’s funny ! In France it takes time to make friends. But I love this country so much too !

[@janetmaceachern1810]

I don't live in France 😞 but when I'm there I LOVE the "no small talk" thing. As a shy introvert, just going to the grocery store in the US can be exhausting. I have French friends and of course we'll chat, but it's so nice to be out and about and not have to come up with things to say to total strangers all the time!

[@BB-un2ts]

I do like to open the volets when it's cold. I like to know how does the weather feels like before getting dressed. It's also perfect for being well awake. I even let the window open for like 5 minutes so my room is well-ventilated.

[@beauthestdane]

One of the things I loved was going to the boulangerie every morning.

[@idontknowpreston3673]

As someone moving to Lille, if someone feels they have to erase themself to move to any counrty....they should reevaluate their reasons for moving. Moving should be an embellishment of your life. ✌🙏

[@OuiInFrance]

Exactly!

[@Rachel-rs7jn]

Lille is definitely a city where you can feel comfortable being yourself! At least, that's my experience as compared to Paris and other areas.

[@BitCuration]

Life is short, everyone ought to try everything they're ever enticed.

[@thedavidguy01]

When I’ve rented an appartement in France I have always closed and opened the “volets” and a few times it’s taken me forever to figure out how to do it. There are several different mechanisms. I always felt stupid after I figured it out.

[@hervedupont6955]

Proverbe français mieux vaut tard que jamais.

[@thedavidguy01]

@@hervedupont6955 Mais est-ce que le jeu en vaut la chandelle ?

[@hervedupont6955]

@@thedavidguy01 Au moins vous ne mourrez pas idiot.

[@philippem5695]

@@thedavidguy01 oui car pierre qui roule n'amasse pas mousse

[@christianc9894]

Je pense que les habitudes alimentaires, qui nous viennent de notre enfance, sont le plus difficile, voire impossible à changer. Je ne me vois pas me passer de pain et ingurgiter une omelette le matin. Une omelette pour moi, ça se mange avec des champignons et une salade verte, avec un verre de vin rouge, une vraie vinaigrette (pas une bouteille remplie de conservateur, colorant, exhausteur de goût...), des noix, de l'ail. Et ça, le matin au réveil, je ne peux pas. Je comprends tout à fait que malgré votre parfaite adaptation à le France, vous continuiez à prendre un petit avec déjeuner comme vous le faisiez aux USA et que vous n'ayez pas renié tout votre passé. Pour le tabac, vous seriez venue il y a quarante ans, qu'auriez-vous dit !!!!!!!!!

[@LauraMorland]

You've got me drooling over the image of a lovely omelette with 🍄 and a 🥗 with a homemade vinaigrette... accompanied by a glass of 🍷. As for 🚬 , Diane didn't even live here before the interdiction of January 1, 2008! Indeed, what would she have said to that? 😧

[@christianc9894]

@@LauraMorland "What would you have said" This is an expression which means "if you had seen, because it was worse at that time".

[@LauraMorland]

@@christianc9894 I'm puzzled by your message. It seems that you didn't grasp my meaning above. I wrote, *"Indeed, what would she have said to that?"* which was *agreeing with you* that if she had experienced the smoking situation prior to January 1, 2008 -- not even having to go back 40 years -- her reaction would have been much worse! Of course, "qu'auriez-vous dit" = "what would you have said". Maybe my use of *indeed* caused you confusion?

[@christianc9894]

@@LauraMorland So we agree, it's a misunderstanding. In summary, Diane would not have liked this era at all. Cordially.

[@sarahnd]

I was going to say something similar about smoking in France! It was so much worse even 20 years ago and I have been amazed, actually, at how quickly the ban in restaurants took over here. It used to be nearly impossible to eat at a restaurant without the good flavors of the food getting overtaken by the smell of smoke.

[@juliannetrinh1999]

I agree with you about the late dinner. I can’t do dinner after 8pm.

[@Jodorow_]

For french people, you cannot have a good dinner by daylight... 7 pm is ok in winter, but in summer, dinner should not start before 9.30pm ;-)

[@ForeverNeverwhere1]

I have lived in France 20 of the last 30 years, breakfast is an omelette or basic corn flakes, I have done the croissant thing for breakfast for much of that time, but only when I lived next door to a great bakery. It gets a bit expensive. I do open and close shutters, but usually in summer for solar control or if a storm is brewing, I have no neighbours to hide from. The french windows are electric. I do buy lots of fresh bread. Every market day or time I go to town. I drink mugs of filter coffee at home, a grand noir when out and about, a very rare noisette. I eat a lot of duck, goose, grilled duck organs, fois gras, goats cheese, salad du gesiers, tartiflette, but tripes or tete du veau type dishes never. I eat in proper french order, and at lunch time like a proper french person. I have never found the french cold or standoffish and small talk is easy, then I am fluent in French and a chatterbox. I disagree about no pressure to quit smoking in France, there is huge social pressure to quit, I think you have confused tolerance with acceptance. People smoke a heck of a lot less than they did in the 90s. You will always be a foreigner in France, they have zero expectations that you will fit in. Celebrate that difference.

[@orelliaorellia142]

I would change a bit your last sentence : in France you will always be able to be a foreigner and French at the same time. Because we all have weird habits from ou region that differs from the others. But if you got the citizenship, speaks welll the language and picked up some habits (like complaining or liking cheese XD) then your are part of the family :)

[@mlomarechal6877]

@@orelliaorellia142 Je suis tout à fait d'accord avec vous.

[@Peggy-Kay]

I have spent a lot of time in France as my mother was born in France, and I would give anything for a sandwich jambon beurre on 🥖 or one with butter and jam. Yummmmmm.

[@erikhp35c95]

One thing on French bread I learned from a LA Boulanger is that the American flour has added protéines which make bread difficult to digest for French stomachs. This is why most French bakeries in the us import their Flour, often organic if available.

[@n0rmal953]

I never thought about that but it’s true that the American one is enriched while in France flour must not have anything else in it. I never had problem with the flour but the only American thing My body couldn’t tolerate is the fake Kraft parmesan. That shit is vile and stinky !!! It smells like old socks 🥲

[@sodabob7867]

Yeah i think it would be a great idee to make a french floor fabrication in the us to limit the importation

[@calvacoca]

It is now normal in France that smokers should only smoke outside. Since 1991, it is forbidden to smoke indoors in public places, such as stations, cafes, restaurants, discotheques etc. And this habit has carried over into the houses. And it's perfectly normal for guests to go out into the garden to smoke, without being asked. Awareness of the impact of tobacco on health has taken place, and the number of smokers is decreasing very significantly and continuously, and smoking is no longer fashionable among young people.

[@michealrosen]

Number 8 was very relatable, I'm a new Zealander living in France and when I was working at the American Embassy as a chef, I was asked to serve the counter since we were low on staff that day, all the Americans were lovely, when a french person came by she told me stop smiling and not to do small talk people don't like that attitude in France.

[@rushdialrashed9627]

😮

[@luv2travel2000]

As a Canadian with a New Zealand parent (who has visited France) I have always been used to friendliness, warmth to stangers and small talk. Nothing wrong with that! That kind of reaction towards you goes beyond French customs imo. Some people are just not nice people.

[@n0rmal953]

Bro that lady was uptight. I think French people may be surprised but not in a bad ways. I certainly was when some American complimented my clothes randomly. And no French person working at an US embassy should be like that.

[@judym414]

Absolutely love your channel! Am looking forward to my first trip to France and you are helping so much with the planning and the expectations. Thank you so much.

[@OuiInFrance]

You're very welcome!

[@blandinemartinoli2974]

It is green salad with cheese after main meal. But we eat often “crudités” as starter at the beginning of the meal. 😊

[@jml4774]

I am so happy to hear that you are able to maintain your unique American personality traits while adapting to French culture. I have traveled to France many times and love so much about the culture, but then got to know a couple (ironically, she is an American) who were judgemental and downright mean. Sadly, it started to turn me off to France. But I have ditched the "frenemies" and have other friends (including a former exchange student from 12 years ago) and we are respectful and tolerant of one another's differences, seeing them as cultural and not an affront or something that needs to be "judged and then corrected." We get so much pleasure and joy from each other, we learn from each other and our lives are enriched through the experience. I have learned to be quieter in general, I have learned to always say Bonjour and I eat much later when in France ;)

[@marcoprolo7318]

Loads of idiot in France, like every where else. Just in France they don't hide. Which is good because you can weed them out quick. No hypocrisy here.

[@cedo3333]

You know here we have a lot of culture, african for the most part and asian too. That's why people are quite tolerant in general. They are bad people everywhere... But for the language that's for sure something we can't....deny there is a problem. Most time people try to be "good" to help you learn but that's a reflex lool. I do too and with french people too. I'm sorry if that can be hurtful that's not our intent.

[@kellieliacopoulos8005]

Hi Diane, FUN video!! You truly always do such a nice job with your videos! I will be traveling to France this summer and plan on getting your 75 tips, soon! Take care!

[@OuiInFrance]

Really appreciate that, thank you, Kellie! I hope you have a wonderful trip!

[@janinawaz4596]

When I lived there I never picked up the enthusiasm for weeks long group summer holidays, and spending all day together with friends. I like to vacation with friends, sometimes. And I love being included and invited. But I also like spending time alone or with my spouse. It seems like my French friends took it personally when I took off or wanted some vacation days alone. Maybe it was an introvert/extrovert thing? But it seemed more complicated than that, and one I never quite understood.

[@jchow5966]

Great episode!!

[@sandrad3346]

I was surprised on my last tour of France that eggs, potatoes, bacon and sausage were included on all the hotel breakfast buffets. When I first started taking French tours many years ago, the breakfast buffets were all "continental breakfast items" such as cereal, bread, jam, etc. Even the Air France lounge at CDG had a breakfast buffet with eggs and bacon!

[@OuiInFrance]

Yes, so interesting how things change over time!

[@dev5963]

There is even a BBQ restaurant in Paris now. DH was craving American food after 2 weeks in Paris so we went there. The place was packed and we were shocked to find that we were the only Americans there.

[@alyria76]

We were so excited on a recent trip to Paris to find a brasserie serving omelettes for breakfast! They had a their chalk sign advertising it, so they knew their target market lol

[@ybreton6593]

@@alyria76 Chère Madame , contrairement aux dirent des anglais et étatsuniens , la France est un pays développé 🤨nous n'avons rien à leurs envier . la seul chose qui me fais honte en tant que français et soi-disant plus belle ville du monde , c'est la saleté de la capitale de notre Pays : Paris . je vous souhaites une très belle journée

[@gordonspicer]

both Lidl & Aldi for the last few years sell British style rashers of streaky bacon and its pretty good too and reasonably priced. . So there must be a demand apart from little me sometimes as a nostalgic treat !

[@jackiec1175]

This is so refreshing. Your honesty is like a breath of fresh air, especially considering the culture you live in. Kudos to North Anerican (brutal?) authenticity.

[@helendale7668]

I'm English, lived in France for nearly 40 years. I agree with you for breakfast (and my french husband goes for a more savoury breakfast now). I love certain french specialities such as snails , oysters and stinky cheese. Got used to doing the shutters as it's good insulation for cold or very hot days. I will never give up my strong black tea with milk !

[@niniison]

Love this video Diane ! As someone who also will not ever be 100% French and don’t want to be, I relate so much to your experience.

[@OuiInFrance]

So glad to hear you can relate, Maux. Thank you!

[@gg6956]

Love your mindset! 😺

[@numanuma20]

The same thing with coffee happens in Italy. If you ask for a cafe, you get a double shot espresso. If you want something bigger, ask for an americano, a drink invented for American tourists who where use to have giant cups of coffee.

[@amayastrata4629]

In France you tend not to get americanos unless in tourist places. I have always asked for café allongé. You get a bigger cup with milk. My husband is extremely fussy about coffee so I have the embarrassment of asking for café allongé but with the milk in a jug. We get variations of this with hot milk, a lot of milk, etc. I just do simple allongé or even an espresso. My lunch in France usually consists of some baguette, Camembert and tomatoes. Delicious. I sometimes eat out but I’m content with just that usually. I’m getting the need for getting back to France again soon. Now that January is out of the way I feel like I’m coming alive again so I want to be back to where I feel comfortable and better mentally.

[@marcoprolo7318]

That's because of the heat climate. You can't drink a double americano by 35 degrees without air conditioning.

[@giniemery8022]

The urban myth says that it was the GIs during WWII adding hot water to their coffee because they find it too strong. Who knows where the truth lies. Thing is in France we call it Café allongé, not Americain or Americano. Except in Starbucks or tourists places waiters won't usually know what you're asking for. Many french people drink Café allongé, it's not an "american thing only" anymore.

[@AnneMB955]

I’ve asked for Americano in France (and the UK) and it ends up watery. I think I might try ‘un cafe alonge’ that someone said in the comments. Or just endure the espressos. Thx for your thoughts. 🇦🇺🇫🇷

[@michellebrooks1060]

I grew up eating sweets for breakfast, coffee cakes, pastries, donuts, to this day I prefer a sweet breakfast. My “healthy version” is a yogurt bowl with granola and fruit. Bacon and eggs is better for an occasional dinner. My paternal grandfather was French Canadian and first generation American, maybe it was his influence?

[@BlitzOfTheReich]

0:57 haha I am the same. I just can't do bread with jam and butter. I go for bread and butter with some cereal. I do like the shutter system as it massively helps when you have no A/C. I can drink straight coffee but I also prefer coffee with milk like in Spain. In the Southwest, people often eat at 7 or 730 pm and eat salad before the main meal.

[@WilliamToll]

Great perspective. No doubt time in country provides the insights and clarity to deeply understand the differences.

[@lonelyjesse85]

I'm French and my whole life I've eaten salad as an entrée. I wasn't even aware we were supposed to eat it after a meal.

[@OuiInFrance]

I've noticed that different regions do it differently

[@anniejolu7641]

D' où tu sors ?

[@BitCuration]

Watching your video allowed me to never miss my duolingo francais daily, didn't expect that. You're amazing, bravo and love it.

[@OuiInFrance]

Thank you! 😃

[@chamallow989]

I’m French and never lived anywhere else but I agree with pretty much everything you said, except for the sweet breakfast. I eat both sweet or savory breakfast depending on the day, usually I go for a sweet breakfast on the weekends when I don’t have to go through classes all morning, but I enjoy both.

[@valeriewyndham1381]

Bonjour Diane, ah ah, too funny!! I am french, I have been living in america for almost 24 years and it is hard to change your habits, it's the same for me. I don't like savory breakfast, I like sweet french simple one and for that reason I don't enjoy going out for American breakfast. I love shutters for privacy, to sleep in the dark or to keep the house cool in the summer. I ❤️ ❤️ a daily fresh baguette, ❤️ french specialty food, french meals with a correct dish order and I ❤️❤️ espresso!! I can't eat at 5:30 pm, way too early, I prefer 7 or 8pm. Agree, french smoke too much. I like American small talks, it's friendly, some french people would think you are crazy, too curious or low class if you "small talk"😄. Nice video, merci.

[@janinawaz4596]

I install exterior shutters or exterior shade blinds every where I live in the US. US people usually find it weird. But they curtail solar gain in the hot months and keep interiors so much cooler. They're frankly brilliant and so much nicer than air conditioning. I wish more people worldwide understood.

[@OuiInFrance]

Thank you for watching!!

[@kobe.martins]

You're Amazing ! I like how neutral and positive you are talking about this topic...And don't worry, if you live in France you are definetly French like everyone of us, even if you don't have to conform to some "cultural norms". I think we can all do things the way we like !

[@cafiend]

Funny thing: my father was born in Paris and lived there for the first 12 years of his life. WW II was just starting when his parents - who were American - took him to the US in 1939. He enlisted in the service in 1944, so whatever sunset habits he had from France were reinforced by military blackout regulations in wartime. For my entire childhood we had to “make sunset:” close all curtains and blinds.

[@rushdialrashed9627]

Hello from Dubai, Diane. I miss ur videos and since I’ve started receiving ur videos once every couple of months, happy belated holidays! I am sorry.

[@beauthestdane]

Back in the 70s it was quite common for teens to be out smoking behind the school and such.

[@user-dq9ho7vn8p]

Yep. In the " lycée" , was still authorize to smoke inside when I was there back in 2001! That was cool

[@mariametz592]

When I moved to Germany 31 years ago to marry my German husband, I told him, "The things that I HAVE to do the German way, I will, but where I have a choice, I will try the German way, then decide what works best for me and do it that way."

[@yvettefukuda95]

Well the shutters keep the cold out, or the light when you sleep, and particulary allows for privacy...

[@classicaloracle]

Interesting! Being British but wanting to live in France I have quickly grown to love the 'shutter dance'. My big concern is finding the standard of bakeries seems to have gone down. I spent 3 weeks in France during the summer including a week in Paris (admittedly August in the 11th) then 3 weeks over new Year into January - I have yet to eat a decent croissant compared to years ago. The texture and even the shape seems to have changed. Too many bakery chains all saying they are 'Artisanal' when they are most definitely not! Similarly with patisseries - not so good now.

[@mlomarechal6877]

Watch the vlogs of "Jay Swanson" and "Les frenchies"

[@veroniquelauzon2801]

I agree. From Montreal where we had an excellent bakery next door and cannot find even a baguette as good here. Been here in France for more than two years now and when I went back to Mtl, last summer, first thing I did was to go back to my bakery. I also recall a time where the bread was better in France from when I travelled one or two decades ago

[@korozif4140]

Shutter dance is quite optionnal, last person to have done this in my family was my grandmother. For Bakery, you have to think as a French embiterred guy, hate modern design, you will see some French used to go there, even if you have the worst bakery beside of the best. btw it is not so rare to see a bakery affilied with school, and that's always nice spot

[@faguopingguo4254]

@@veroniquelauzon2801 Entièrement d’accord avec vous en ce qui concerne les croissants, ils n’ont plus ni le goût ni la consistance qu’ils avaient autrefois. Ils sont trop secs, et pas assez gras, et ressemblent plus à de la brioche qu’à des croissants. Impossible de retrouver le goût de mon enfance.

[@cedo3333]

You know there's a lot of bakery in France without trying out, the standard is not what it was decades ago. It's okay by me, as if you really like "le bon pain" you do your work and then you are good for some time. Those establishment never close really they are transmitted to new generation and the way of thing changes generally never. But about the "Artisanal" that's a word not protected correctly people do stuff with it i despise. But you never can't go wrong with a "Meilleur ouvrier de France" next time guys seek those bakery when you visit our country that's a guarantee of sucess and knowledge.

[@BillMcQ18]

Hi Diane. I lived in France for 17 years and had a lot of habits which made me uniquely me and hadn't thought much about it. I'll admit that I miss France and the way of life compared to here in Arizona. Oh well, life goes on. I enjoy your videos.....well done!

[@OuiInFrance]

Thanks very much, William!

[@octopigirl7]

Diane, enjoyed this content! I had taken a photo of our recent charcuterie board, but can't seem to see how to attach it! ha. Brie, baguette and saucisse..yum. We were aghast when you said you don't eat baguettes every day!!! But agree there are other French breads that are also very good. Keep up the great work!

[@themetalslayer2260]

in french bars if you want a less stronger coffee ask them : "un allongé" or "un ralongé" depending on the regions , they will serve you an expresso with more water in a bigger cup

[@karmacounselor]

Thank you for starting with the breakfast. I refused the last two times I spent time in France, and because I saved some protein from supper to start the day, I had smoother energy than my fellow teachers who ran to the vending machine by 10am because they were so depleted. The sugar caffeine breakfast (breaking of the fast, de jeuner)...causes sugar spikes and crashes...during a crash a person sometimes uses anger for energy so I asked an MD I met in Angers and he backed me up and told his friend there that all he is doing is carbs and caffeine with no solid food...I wish the French would adopt a Turk breakfast with eggs etc. That said, prayers for the people affected by that earthquake yesterday.

[@karmacounselor]

I was in a French high school in 71 for a few months. They always had smoking breaks out on the balcony. In school. They also ALL changed clothes in one locker room for Phy Ed. Yup. Later in 2000 I saw teens smoking marl boros outside. I told them, don't you know you are the target market because in the states they are being sued for marketing to teens. Tout a fait.

[@elliegem8501]

I live in the States since 1982 and I miss my volets...

[@Patrice11300]

Although I’ve unfortunately never lived in France, my mother who was French did things in our American upbringing that were French habits. We only had decorative shutters on our ranch house but my mom was always making sure the draperies were closed at night and opened first thing in the morning. We also learned to dunk. Meaning dunking anything like toast or a pastry in our coffee. I started drinking coffee at 4 years old and my usual breakfast before school was coffee with milk and sugar and 2 pieces of toast with butter and jelly. One time a few years ago, I was dunking something in my coffee at work in the break room and a fellow nurse was completely dumbfounded by what I was doing. I told her and when she heard I learned it from my French mother she thought it was sweet and a bit endearing but still curious.

[@ericdurville6306]

About smokers and As a Frenchman, I am also surprised to see that many young people smoke (they often stop when they become adults...): It should be noted that it is forbidden to smoke in restaurants, cafes, in shops, in offices and in all closed public places. it is only allowed outside. Contrary to what you say, People who smoke are not well accepted. You are right about young people.🙂

[@fuzzylon]

Hello, and thank you for another excellent video. It's great to hear you talk about the things that you experience and choices that you make that resonate for me. I want to fit in and 'become French', but I'll probably always be l'excentrique Britannique - hopefully a likeable and respectful one, though. By the way, your book about blogging is really good!

[@OuiInFrance]

So glad you can relate! And thank you for picking up my book!! Much appreciated ;-)

[@katherinekempton]

When I taught English in France, my students asked me what I ate for breakfast, and they thought it was SUPER weird that I liked eggs or putting avocado on a piece of baguette for breakfast. With a couple exceptions (occasional waffles or peanut butter and jelly whole wheat pita pockets), I prefer a savory breakfast. That said, I miss the baguettes. I ate three baguettes a week by myself (some for breakfast and some with the curry or stew I would batch cook)

[@luv2travel2000]

Yes! Savoury all the way for me for breakfast. Eggs, avocado & sometimes keto bread with coffee is what I have most mornings. But, in France having the multicourse midday bigger meal I loved. It was great to have the choices of 3 courses set menu when I was there. ❤👍🇫🇷 ❤ P.S. It's great you were able to live & work there!!!

[@cedo3333]

3 is a little low but you had a good habit ^^

[@catholiccowboy8545]

Of course it's weird to eat eggs + bacon + toast + everything else for breakfast. I can't start the day with a full stomach, I feel bad. I used to have two pieces of toast + a coffee in the morning, today I cut back on the butter to just have a croissant (sometimes two) and that's more than enough. I feel much lighter. (I'm Canadian)

[@joannesmith2484]

@@catholiccowboy8545 For me, and for most Americans I believe, the large bacon/eggs/toast breakfast is usually reserved for weekends and is more of a brunch. For everyday, most people will just have cereal (hot or cold), toast, or a muffin or something similar like a toaster waffle that's quick and easy to digest. People who eat eggs daily for breakfast will usually just have one or two with a piece of toast perhaps, not a big meal. I made a big "breakfast" today of eggs, bacon, home-fried potatoes and tea at noon. That was it for the entire day until dinner in the evening. On weekdays, it's toast with butter, jam, or peanut butter and tea (I hate coffee). Or a muffin if I have any. Of course, I'm a suburban office worker. If I were a farmer or bricklayer or did some other strenuous physical labor, that big, heavy breakfast might be more necessary as fuel.

[@BReihle]

I moved to France a little over a year ago and I still do things my way (I did that in Germany, why should I stop it here?). Maybe in Paris people are a little more strict about their habits and adhering to their standards. Here in the south I feel that people are relaxed and take me as what I am. A lover of french food and culture, but also a German who lived her way in Germany for 60 years and won't change all her habits. Most of them ask for the reasons when I do something differently and find it interesting when I talk about what I love here and happily get used to and what other things I prefer to leave the way they are in our house. Oh, by the way, we never smoked and no one smokes in my house, but I always have an ashtray on my terrace for my guests. One thing I love is the fact that the word "Liberté" comes first in the french motto.

[@n0rmal953]

I had a bad experience with cigarettes when I went to my german Austauschpartner’s house. They smoked a lot and inside the house! I’d say smoking in France is very common but it’s practically outside only since the 2000s. I’d never thought that I’d be shocked by cigarettes as a Frenchie lol.

[@gerafinali4384]

I'm French and lived in the UK from the age of 19 til 46. I can relate to everything you say: I can't be bothered with the shutters ( even though I was more or less in charge of them as a kid), order of food, having bred every day etc... The only thing I've never got used to from foreigners about French culture: eating saucisson with Mayo or eating foie gras as a standard pâté. Sacrilege!! And I still love the fact that French people take forever to say goodbye and leave someone house after a dinner together! ( I'm sure you still hate that one!).

[@marieledidier8898]

🙄 eating saucisson with mayo? I"m going to faint 😂

[@lynnferry291]

Oh, I HATE that it takes forever to say goodbye! That’s a good one!

[@eyrthren]

@@lynnferry291 that’s when you clap your hands and rub them together while saying « well it’s starting to get late haha ». Then proceed to chat at the entrance for another 30 min

[@lynnferry291]

@@eyrthren Exactly! I’ve never understood why French people do that. Why not just stay seated until you REALLY want to go? What’s the point of getting up to go and then standing around the door for another 30-45 minutes chitchatting?

[@orelliaorellia142]

@@lynnferry291 The trick is : you have to go because you need to get home and prepare for tomorrow and such. But you don't really want to. Hence the stick around XD

[@CallieMasters5000]

One time I was reading a London newspaper article about the most popular things in the UK, and it made an interesting checklist to see how many things were true. Everything from the most common brand of sports shoes to pop culture to restaurants and foods, to social norms, you could see how far up the scale of national habits you were. If you could find out this info for France, you could rate yourself (and your French family) as to how French you are. So, check levels for smoking, divorce, education, foods, wealth, car ownership, religion, media consumption, housing, kids, etc. and see if you're just like everybody else or not.

[@ybreton6593]

Oups ! bien sur , vous êtes britannique je suppose et tout est merveilleux sur cette île par ailleurs très belle , mais habiter par des homos- sapiens bizarres 🤔et indécis . quand aux tabloïds anglais ils vantent leurs gloires passés la guerre de cents ans qu'ils ont perdu , Wateloo ou il étaient battues par les troupes napoléoniennes , et la victoire de Waterloo reviennent en réalité aux armées de la coalition Prussiennes Autrichienne et Russes commander par le Maréchal Blücher . Wellington s'approprie une victoire qu'il n'a jamais gagner . Blücher proposait : la Victoire de l'entente . refus de Wellington ? et la plus grande débandade anglaise : Dunkerque ; le pire est que les anglais ont fait croire au monde entier que les soldats français étaient des lâches ce qui a justifier la fuite des anglais comme ils en ont l'habitude ils se donnent un passer glorieux qu'ils n'ont jamais eu .par contre les tabloïds anglais , ne parlent jamais D'Isandhlwana contre les Zoulous ; contre les Moa-Moa au Kenya, et contre l'inde , aucunes place ou rues de Londres ne portent c'est noms . Questions : De la marque de chaussures de sport la plus courante à la culture pop en passant par les restaurants et les aliments, en passant par les normes sociales, vous pouviez voir à quel point vous étiez dans l'échelle des habitudes nationales. la restauration anglais n'est pas fameuse , la culture pop ? Bof !!! les norme sociales alors là il y a beaucoup a dire . le divorce ? il n'y a pas plus de divorces en France qu'en chez les anglais , l'éducation est la mêmes encore que ??? alimentation zéro pour les anglais , question religieux les français s'en fichent complètement , les médias sont comme les tabloïds anglais la plus par du temps ils racontent des conneries et question vacherie entre français et anglais nous sommes égaux🤔😡😠😈

[@ybreton6593]

@@Fkrksw Oui ! a Kidlington une petite ville au nord d'oxford. ma voiture de marque française immatriculée en France a été rayé, côté gauche du véhicule : dirty french shit du coté !!! coté droit : the French are all assholes , sur le capot avant : you are big shit , le pare-brise fêlé et les deux roues avant percées !!! totalité des frais de réparations 4670 euros dont 1970 euros payés par l'assurance et 2700 de franchises . il y avait bien les haines des anglais envers tous les français qui étaient écrits sûr ma voiture et en même tant j'ai dû payer cette haine en faisant les réparations . quand nous avons embarqués sûr le Ferry à Portsmouth pour Saint Malo les marins français faisaient la grimace , surtout qu'il y avait un autobus français avec des collégiens ou était peint : frog eaters et dirty pigs , Bon c'était peu avant le : Brexit mais quand mêmes . quand les anglais font des conneries ils s'en prennent aux français . une consolation pour nous français est le fait que nous avons fichu plusieurs pâtés aux anglais

[@fredericpayan6708]

Closing down the shutters for the night make a heat difference of about 3C.

[@bazoo513]

Another interesting difference: here in Croatia (and most of Central Europe, I guess) we usually eat salad _with_ the main dish (unless it _is_ the main dish itself, an option becoming increasingly popular in recent years.) And we (still) don't normally view cheese as desert.

[@lynnesookdawar3979]

Something I find very different from Uk is that the French tend to finish one type of food on the plate before starting on another. Even kids do this, like they’ll eat the chips (fries) before starting on the meat. In Uk we tend to take a bit of everything at the same time

[@n0rmal953]

I don’t know about others but sometimes I do that when I don’t like something on the plate, I keep the best for the last bites.

[@dev5963]

Thanks for the advice and general tips (which aren't rules, they've just observations). We all have regional and cultural habits whether it's coffee or how we eat. I don't care for some blends/roasts of coffee even when drip (or pod). We have styles of dining within the US. If one would use a knife and fork to eat fried chicken at my grandmother's table, she would have been appalled. It's only natural to have cultural differences between countries when we have vastly different ways within one country. As you said, flexibility and tolerance is the key - within reason. No one smokes in my house even if I was living in France. BTW, I was raised on a tobacco farm in rural southside VA. Even my parents thought smoking was a nasty habit.

[@jazmindevitt4361]

Hi Diane, I agree with you we can not denied our own identity it’s also good to embrace a new culture and learn from different ways of living. I like the good manners but the warm of small talk not talking too far. I moved to the US many years ago and I have learn and implement into my live a lot of good trades of the American culture. In some occasions the informality can border into the impolite.

[@feleciawallace8420]

So much fun to learn about French culture, you're a lucky girl to live in France....

[@carolinelvsewe]

Love France, love the language, would love to go back. Merci, Diane

[@OuiInFrance]

Hope you make your way back one day soon!

[@andreajones7023]

I've adapted to the shutter dance and enjoy the blast of morning cold. Due to digestive issues I can't eat after 6 pm so when we moved here we brought the main meal to 2pm with a light teatime snack at 6. And we eat out at lunch rather than evening time. Also good fat oats are really hard to find, I agree. Esp out in the rural shops.

[@adriangarry659]

A Napolionic law, shutters must be folded back so as not to interfere with his marching soldiers. A large percentage of the cafe/resteraunt meals in paris are factory produced, you can tell in house cooked meals by eating at those displaying a saucepan with a roof on under a new ish law.

[@davidmusset3435]

Haha! Please keep smiling, we need that positivity :)

[@russcattell955i]

In my 20 years in France my appetite has not changed for timing. I can eat dinner as early as 6pm when hungry, though 7-8pm is norm. By 9pm I am finished eating. I have been to friends homes where they start late and stretch courses to past midnight. I have a sandwich or snack before leaving home and refuse any food offered past 9pm ish.

[@armitagehux8190]

I'm French and I eat dinner just as early. I feel like I'm on a different time zone than everyone else.

[@faguopingguo4254]

@@armitagehux8190 Moi par contre je suis à l’heure espagnole, même en France ! Aussi ça m’embête beaucoup quand je suis invitée pour un café à 14 heures !

[@viridianacarreon7203]

Good for you! I live in the USA, but visited Paris 24 years ago. Im contemplating going back one day. Thank you for this video, which I found very informative. Cheers to you with a large mug of fresh brewed Folgers😉

[@michaelmedlinger6399]

Thanks, Diane. Always interesting to hear about your experiences in France. I agree; we will always retain something of that US upbringing. And why not?

[@TMD3453]

Absolutely. Being in Germany made me realize how American I am. I appreciate the honesty. It seems like making the best of both cultures is the way to go.

[@mgparis]

Nice having you back Diane, I always enjoy your content so much. Bisous from Paris :) I'm French and I lived in the US for 9 years 20 years ago, but I never though I "had'" to adapt to the American way of life, I just picked up the parts that I liked :) PS - Love your glasses too, très chic

[@OuiInFrance]

Thanks so much! And that's exactly it, pick up the parts that you like (while still being respectful of course) and that's really the best way!

[@ringsaphire]

americano would be called "café allongé" if you want to order one at a french café. a latte would be "café au lait" the expressos would come in many forms: expresso, ristretto (stronger), noisette (with milk), crème (with cream), machiato... but as much as we love them, expresso is better in italy imo :p

[@LauraMorland]

OMG, Diane -- I'm totally with you on no. 2 as well -- *I do not care about the shutters!* My American husband and I never touch our shutters here in Paris, except in the summer, to keep the apartment from turning into in a steaming hot cauldron.

[@TheGabygael]

Up here in Belgium, if we have shutters, it's purely decorative and blinds and curtains do the job, I would consider using them if I'm feeling particularly fancy or if it's not dark enough in a room (if I have a lamp right in front of my bedroom or during a heat wave)

[@mattyj198]

I agree. I don't enjoy anything sweet in the morning. I do however buy a baguette almost every day. We don't usually eat bread with a meal but it makes for an easy snack during the day. I am pretty easy going when it comes to coffee. When I am in Canada I usually drink drip coffee but when I am at our place in France I use a french press or I will get "un cafe" if I am at a cafe somewhere. I feel the same about the shutters. I love our shutters because they make the house look so pretty! Classic white made of wood. I even put some decorative black hardware on so you can see it while they are open. We however do not shut them. I think the neighbours must talk about us as we are the only ones who don't shut them. At night our indoor lights light up the town. 😛

[@hannahk1306]

I stopped off in Paris recently and I really enjoyed having ham, cheese, bread and fruit (amongst a few other options) for breakfast in the hotel. It's interesting what you said about not liking sweet breakfasts (I don't either), because I always think of a typical American breakfast to be very sweet!

[@annirish7098]

Love steel cut oats. I have it with some sliced almond or pumpkin seeds w/local honey, or berries.

[@instantlocal3657]

My favorite all time breakfast experience was at the Ritz Paris. It was a Sunday morning and I walked over from Hotel de la Place du Louvre. I ordered champagne and they brought a bread basket with the perfect croissant and an assortment of breads with a pot of French butter. I savored scrambled eggs with spinach. It was heaven!

[@OuiInFrance]

Yummm!! Sounds delicious!

[@VelvetandToads]

So spot on 😂. In terms of restaurants, I would add that after years of waiting politely if begrudgingly until AFTER desert to order coffee, I now ask for coffee WITH dessert. I’ve even got my husband doing it now.

[@marcoprolo7318]

You've always been understood for asking coffee along with desserts. Nothing not French there.

[@jetaboveclouds]

I had to laugh, Diane. I love your terms...the dance of the volets...so true. When I am in France, I get a phone call around 10am from my family asking if I bought my bread. Every Day!!!! Oh, le boudin noir....my love...childhood memories as well. I hate eating at 9pm too. The cigarette packs have death warnings all over them and they are very skinny cigarettes now but still people smoke. I've become so American. You've nailed it all.

[@HubrisMaximus]

I’m glad to hear I’m not the only one missing steel cut oats! Seriously, do you know where to find them? I’ve sporadically ordered them from Amazon or beg friends visiting the US to put some in their suitcase if they have room.

[@cheriem432]

Excellent vid, Diane. In looking at your photos, it seems you have a black and tan Cavalier? I love the breed and have had them for years!

[@OuiInFrance]

She sadly passed away March 5, 2022 (a few months after I lost my mom). Dagny was the love of our life. We miss her every day. It's been very.... hard.

[@bdwon]

Gosh, all the talk about food has got me starving! Thanks for the appetizer!

[@OuiInFrance]

Yum yum, hope you had a good meal!

[@rickpittington9152]

I am really looking forward to coming to france. Should come soon

[@OuiInFrance]

Have a wonderful trip!

[@jaklg7905]

I never understood how people can eat a main meal so late in the day. Maybe I am getting old, but that messes my stomach up to eat so close to bed time. I wake up with heartburn and just feel gross. We follow the old school method of having the largest main meal in the middle of the day. The whole smoking thing is crazy to me. I grew up with parents that smoked and it gave my mom lung cancer and she died at 62. It they created something now that had the same negative side affects that cigarettes have, people would flip their lids. There is no way that it would be accepted now, so I don't know how there can be anyone that still smokes knowing what we know about it now.

[@OuiInFrance]

I'm sorry about your mom. ;-(

[@carolinelvsewe]

Agree. If its popular among young people, they become addicted and carry the habit in to adulthood.

[@AnneMB955]

Coffee is such an individual taste and that’s okay. Hoping I find coffee to my taste when I’m there soon. Love listening to all your thoughts. Cheers from 🇦🇺

[@LauraMorland]

No. 4 (filtered drip coffee -- with no. 4 filters!) is all my husband wants. One of the first phrases he learned in French was *"un café allongé, s'il vous plaît".* (My first [late] husband was Irish, and I picked up the tea-drinking habit from him. Tea is *definitely* not a French thing, although tisanes are.) No. 5 -- also *No* on the blood saussage and tripes! And *No* on snails and frog's legs as well. On the other hand, oysters are not only a French thing; I learned to eat them in Charleston, South Carolina. (I understand it's an acquired taste, but one I enjoy, particularly at this time of year.) Funnily enough, my husband and I *have* become French in that we now normally eat our salads after the main dish. (And we're both night owls, so late dinners work for us.) But we do plenty of things meal-wise that the French don't do, such as eating corn on the cob and chicken drumsticks with our hands. (The horror! ;-) And sometimes when my husband goes to a café in the late afternoon and orders a coffee along his meal (he wants it before the food arrives) he won't get it, because they cannot imagine that anyone would drink coffee until *after* the dessert! No. 6. Politesse -- LIke you, I'm also at around 90% - 95% ... I sometimes still have to remind myself to say "Bonjour" and "s'il vous plaît"; it's definitely a learned habit. (But I like it.). No. 7 Smoking. One of the happiest days of my life was January 1, 2008, when it became illegal to smoke inside restaurants and cafés in France. (Although the restaurant where we rang in the New Year's definitely didn't stop people from lighting up when the clock chimed 12! ;-) GREAT VIDEO!

[@gordonspicer]

I disagree with with you about tea in France. In fact the selection in the supermarkets exceeds the British. Like Whisky the French are often connoisseurs of tea and consume, I believe, nearly as much as the British now. You are right, however, about Tissanes. I must admit before arriving here I was rather ignorant of them as most British are. The difference between the regular everyday tea sold in France is in the blending. It is blended for the taste & market here. That's why I try and have a decent reserve of Typhoo or Tetleys from the old country

[@LauraMorland]

@@gordonspicer Well, have you ever ordered tea at à restaurant or café in France ? They bring you a cup of hot (no longer boiling) water with the teabag in its wrapper on the side. I'm always furiously tearing open the wrapper to plunk the teabag into the cup before the water becomes useless. That would *never* happen in the UK or Ireland! Moreover, on several occasions I've never been able to order tea at all, because they only have Earl Gray available. Earl Gray is adulterated with bergamote; it's not pure Black tea. Finally, I don't know know how many French friends you've made yet, but if you’re invited to their homes, the same situation will likely obtain: No Black tea, or only Earl Gray. If they should have black tea, I'll normally be the only person drinking it. P.S. Of course there's Mariage Frères, but one cannot go there every day (And while their teas are splendid, their idea of a scone is risible!)

[@LauraMorland]

@@gordonspicer I just checked, and whoever gave you that statistic was *way off* : France is far, far, down the list on per capita consumption of tea. The UK is #3, Irlande is #2, and France is ... 39th in the world. en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_tea_consumption_per_capita

[@gordonspicer]

@@LauraMorland Have you not noticed the speciality shops selling teas and accessories in most major cities (and sometimes in the richer towns) in France? I find their selection & expertise very impressive. For your tea shop experience of being served tea I cannot comment, but it does not sound to good. I was obviously wrong about the tea consumption, but I repeat the supermarket shopping aisles are packed with all sorts of teas

[@LauraMorland]

@@gordonspicer I agree that the people who like teas in France have a choice. (And that Mariage Freres is a tea shop that would rival the best in any tea-drinking country.) I don't know how many French friends you have, but I've lived in France for 23 years, and since I've managed to speak the language fluently (albeit not perfectly), I have a ton of French friends, and not one of them drinks tea, nor do any of their friends when I'm invited for a meal. Next time I go to Monoprix I'll look at the "tea shelves." I could be wrong, but I would guess that a lot of what's on those shelves are actually tisanes. The French *are* very big on tisanes. Gordon Spicer, I love your name, by the way; it sounds so delightfully English! (My ancestors are English, going back 400 years -- thus my surname -- but an English friend complained to me some years ago that my first name is *not* English, and so he had a hard time remembering it.)

[@RB-zr9jt]

So spot on about the shutters. My French partner insists on closing them every night. I think its partly a security thing for her. But I would prefer to wake up to the sun in the morning. Also not a big bread person, although I do enjoy a crusty bagette.

[@claudinejames7731]

I've really enjoyed shutters. I like the insulation from rain, cold and noise they provide. Nice to hear your experiences and views. I agree 'un cafe' is such a very short experience! Tripe looks so scary.😁 we live in an apartment and all my neighbors smoke.👎🏻 I really don't like it especially in summer where it wafts in through the windows. I love your advice about being ourselves yet respecting where we live now and adjusting well. Au revoir for now!

[@jfrancobelge]

I'm French but I hate oysters, boudin (bloos sausage) and tripes. But I do enjoy my piece of baguette at almost every meal 😉. Like most of my compatriots I'm addicted to the sweet breakfast with "real" coffee, nevertheless one of my highlights when visiting the U.S was having a couple of brunches with the hash brown potatoes, bacon, eggs, pancakes (loved it)... then skipped lunch. But it was really weird for me to adapt to the late afternoon dinner time; at 5 or 6 PM I'm definitely not hungry yet (regular dinner time at home is around 7:30 PM). And, as a strict non-smoker the thing I probably hate most about my fellow French people is the smoking culture; at home it's definitely non-smoking, and the occasional smokers that may come visit me know it, if they do want to smoke it's in the garden or in the street, regardless of the weather. As far as coffees goes, well... I'm French...

[@rabbit_scribe]

5:00 or 6:00 p.m.? Most people I know aren't even home from work yet at that hour.

[@marcoprolo7318]

T'es pas francais toi. Ou un francais rate alors.

[@RRReyes999]

As an American having lived in France for the past 7 years I would say I pretty much agree with all 7 of your points! As much as I love my life here, I would be beyond thrilled to be able to go out for a proper American breakfast! Also kids smoking is just tragic. It’s the same in Spain…great job on the video!

[@OuiInFrance]

If you're ever in Paris, Breakfast in America would be right up your alley. It's a diner-style place that features a lot of American breakfast items. Super popular with the French too, always a line out the door. And the owner's book is fab too! I reviewed it on my blog: www.ouiinfrance.com/book-review-pancakes-paris-craig-carlson/ Thank you for watching!

[@cedo3333]

AHAHAHA this video made my day :D About the "volets" it's about intimacy principally. That's my french take on this. Personnally i'm like you i don't bother most of the time but the olds... outch my mother is very focused about them lol. A good day to all ;)

[@cedricserieys9768]

Cigarettes... thanks to Marlboro who distributed free cigarettes in the night clubs... in the 80s/90s. Today it is totally forbidden in France.

[@andycarter4888]

Always interesting, your videos, I'm becoming a regular even though I'm not American! On the social politeness, my experience is different perhaps because I live in the south, near Pézenas. I don't have the smiling at people issue you mentioned and as to small talk at things like supermarket checkouts, people chat away quite easily, even if you don't know each other. I'm guessing that this could be a regional difference within France, or even a big town / small villages difference. You're so right about shutters, though. 15 years on, I'm not converted to waking up in the dark all year round! Oh, and my tip for enjoying a drink on a terrace is only do it if you can be upwind of the smokers!

[@raymondmiller5098]

Great vid, Diane! A couple questions: What should one request when wanting an American-sized large cup of coffee that's not as strong as motor oil? Outside of Paris and other tourist areas, do you think there are more non-smoking sections inside restaurants since 2012? Thanks!

[@n0rmal953]

There’s no smoking inside in France since 2008. In Paris you find many terrasses that are semi closed but still on the street or the front of the business that’s where people still smoke. You should be completely safe inside. For the coffee you could go for « Un Americano or un café américain » You would get an expresso diluted in hot water. My grandparents like to ask for some hot water on the side to dilute their expresso if there’s no option. To be honest it’s quite rare to find big cups of coffee outside of coffee shops/tea shops.

[@IllyaKonakov]

That was very interesting to watch and to compare with my own habits after some years living in France. 1. Breakfast. Not a French one for me, as I usually have something like eggs or a sandwitch with ham first and a pastry or a yougurt afterwards. 2. Shutters. Yeah, that's something I'm still not used to even after 20 years in France. In fact I like to wake up and see the sunlight rather than to feel like I'm in a coffin. And even if I acidentally wake up during the night I prefer to see the Moon and stars in my window. So usually I don't close shutters, only if it's very hot outside during the daytime or when it's really windy. 3. Baguettes. We don't eat much bread for last years, so we buy bread just a couple of times per week. But I enjoy a good baguette from the boulangerie (especially une baguette tradition) and I hate those defrozen ones from the supermarket. 4. Coffee. I prefer a strong coffee. So I pour even less water than they have in a usual French espresso. I'm leaning more to the Italian way to do it. If I want a realtively big cup of coffee, I would rather make 3-4 of my "normal" portions in one mug. And no sugar in my coffee, no way! Maybe a drop of milk sometimes. 5. Order and time of meals. I'm not French at all here (except for cheese, maybe). I can (and I do) eat a salad together with a main course, the same goes for a dessert and a coffee - I prefer them together. And as for the time of meal, we had to adapt to local customs (because of restaurants, but as well because after work I'm at home later than at 7pm in most cases). But still from time to time I prefer to have a late lunch or an early dinner if I can. 6. Social politeness. I may be even worse than French in this area. :) Yes, I say "Bonjour", "Merci", "S'il vous plâit", etc. But I don't like small talks at all. Even with someone I know already, not only with stragners. 7. Smoking. I don't care much about it. For me it's a personal choice of everyone. And I think it is an educational problem. Parents and teachers have to explain it better to kids. I try to do the best for my children. The same goes for drinking alcohol.

[@melodiousramblings8470]

Nespreso has france in a chokehold like I’ve never seen before 😂😂

[@martinrivermoore9545]

Even if you personally start the day with savory rather than sweet It is a very AMERICAN thing to start the day with coffee and donuts..lots of my friends do...

[@edthenomadtrucker8321]

Wow! You just explained why my French relatives in Toulouse hate me😂 So I picked a grape off a cluster of grapes and my French cousin went ballistic on me! Evidently, unbeknownst to me, there is a correct systematic way to eat grapes off the cluster. Seriously? Are you kidding me!

[@sarahrosen4985]

😵‍💫 wow, just wow. 😯

[@marjorieorveau6707]

It's a case of leaving the food 'intact' for the next person, just like cutting a slice off cheese to leave it's original shape. I learned many French habits by just watching.

[@edthenomadtrucker8321]

@@marjorieorveau6707 so do you start at the bottom of the cluster and work your way up or vice versa? 🙈

[@marjorieorveau6707]

@@edthenomadtrucker8321You cut a small bunch near to the main stem; what's to avoid is a branch with some grapes missing...