He Doesn't Let Me Go But Does NOT Want a Relationship: What To Do?

[@zzzzz2120]

Just leave. A man who behaves like that isn’t going to change. He is toxic and doesn’t have the skillset to be in a relationship. I learned it the hard way. Now I’m with someone who cherishes me and doesn’t play games. He put a label on things right away, texts me every day and makes me feel special. I didn’t even have to ask for it.

[@rs5570]

Well done, sister! i stand with you & support you! 💪 you would like more support or validation let me know. 🙋‍♀️

[@JacintaLight]

Yes love it!! 💕

[@ak-47intelligence75]

Why is this so hard to comprehend? He is holding you HOSTAGE. It is selfish ! He doesn't want you but doesn't want any other man to have you either.

[@JacintaLight]

I know!!! It’s so selfish!!!!

[@elizabethdobos6259]

If a man takes a woman for granted or takes advantage of her, he will lose her -- permanently. That which is taken for granted is taken away.

[@badrujay9464]

I stopped playing his rules. Gave him my terms and my terms and he didn't want want to but he still wanted to be friends. I told him my rules or nothing not even friendship

[@basicinfo2022]

Take your power back ladies!! And remove yourself from the toxic situation. Go no-contact and tap into your goddess energy.

[@kimzlife5993]

I just decided that I was taking my control back and said nah I’m not interested in being friends so it all ends and I’m proud of myself

[@victoriacaropreso1506]

I hate playing stupid games, we either want to share time or we don’t 😅

[@audrey4150]

Did this for 8 months with a man who strung me on. Two months ago I left him on read and completely cut him off.

[@dragonfish888]

This is over. I am following my rules. 💪🏼

[@rs5570]

Well done. Tell us what is going on even if gave in. It helps us all & I will support u. ♥️

[@karenwood8037]

After 10 months of giving and waiting for him to commit he tells me he needs to be friends first before he is in a relationship. Though he wants girlfriend benefits and not just sex but my emotional support and there for him so he’s not lonely. Two weeks ago I told him to not contact me anymore. I walked out and put myself first and my wants and needs.

[@rs5570]

Well done. Don’t go back unless he puts a ring on it.

[@navpreetkaur3564]

Did he come back?

[@czbunnie]

Nailed it! Just had this recently. It was a situationship. Too old for inconsistencies and confusion.

[@Dekorah]

So basically is "let go & move on" and don't expect them to follow you. Any mix signals coming from them is a waste of time.

[@tzubaza2158]

Thank you sir. I am moving forward now. Its been 4months in no contact, and i think I am ok now. I am loving myself more now. Doing the things i want. Not thinking of him 24/7.

[@Mooncat222]

let him go and if he comes back in time and just maybe you might consider going back IF he changes and commits - people control coming from fear , fear of engulfment and fear of being hurt fear of not being enough and more -- say goodbye is best 😊

[@aliyaalqureshi549]

Wanted to get a sign and this video comes along! That’s Alex for your timings

[@Arysugar0]

I’m in agreement with you Alex. There’s really nothing to understand. Just let him go, because clearly he doesn’t want you, but is not man enough to say it to you. Women should know their value and always put themselves first. Men like that are inconsistent…complicated…inconsiderate…

[@jasmineflower6]

This is #Over! I promise you Alex!!! Being there it’s very stressed it can also let depression

[@kristellrybolt5981]

I will not make myself available anymore, only on my time. I will not give him the control anymore.

[@fayegoff1484]

My man does me exactly like this the same exact way I've been through it for 9 months now I am so feeling like a yoga

[@nickshahin9689]

👍👍✍️true... syndrome of committment phobia

[@georginajacobo4313]

He seems a little bothered, that I have plans with my friends every weekend. He , doesn't initiate plans but feels that I put him last, I make plans because I'm not going to wait around for him.! However, when we are together, he's so loving . If I don't text him back right away, he seems upset, it's like he's trying to get back at me. . I don't understand him.

[@marcelacasas2187]

Hi Alex. I enjoy your insights on relationships. It's been three years that my partner has not truly committed. He is indesive and gives me mixed signals. I've been faithful even when he stays away for days after a quarrel. It's been difficult for me to let go permanently so I started a plan . I decided to meet other men hoping to fall in love with someone better. So, I now have two options now and interested in one who is a Lutienet Police Officer. He expressed how he feels for me. I'd rather be with my BF but preparing myself thru another so that I can hopefully fall in love with this option. Wish me luck with love with someone else I deserve? Thank you for your teachings.

[@gabigirl416]

This is totally my situation and I need to make the decision even though I don’t want to I HAVE TO!

[@ce.379]

This is over, merci Alex ❤️🙏🏾

[@rp3741]

Do they not ever think this might backfire and they could lose out for good? I think only a man that doesn't care about you does this.

[@UnlimitedAspirations24]

@R P - wondering about that same thing !

[@Adelina24244]

Told him he seems distant and disinterested he just said we can talk and that time I wasn’t available but at work now I’m blocked and he’s the one that wants a relationship 😞😣 Thank you Alex

[@SHAMMALANADENDLAA]

Bless you Alex for guiding us ..It helps us so much.

[@fayegoff1484]

When I leave he calls and texts until I come back but he does the same thing over and over and he always cheats on me

[@eaglerhitzph8329]

Thank you Alex for another inspiring video! Much love and respect from Philippines - "Rhitz"❤

[@Peace-Love-25]

He has been acting like this for 9 months, he got sick n was in ICU n any time i try to let go. Something dramatic happens n i always fall for the trap. Its so hard to let go, bc we dated 5 yrs. We grew up together. I was 27 when we started dating. THIS IS OVER! I deserve mutual love n respect

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I'm so sorry to hear about what you're going through! I hope this video is able to help you!

[@WeRNthisToGetHer]

This is over! I'm not following his rules! Thank you for this!

[@datawad]

This is over. I will do what I want and what I like!

[@raereelee9845]

This is over! I will not play by his rule and I will play by my rule, thanks!

[@ravenkuyt1355]

funny today a week ago i dumped him and Alex comes with this video. Great thanks I did what you say in this video, out of my own feeling. He gave me little to no attention anymore. I've already mentioned it a few times. Well, I'm like "who doesn't want to listen, just have to feel". Still, something tells me he's coming back.

[@kelovickers3648]

Did he come back?

[@yafanasyev5876]

How I can find that link for the video he is talking about?

[@aprilbarker8572]

I love him so much....but he doesn't want me. Oh he does for sex and anything else he needs but when I wanna talk about feelings and when I ask him how he feels about me .. he just ignores the question completely. I cry EVERY DAMN DAY about it/him....and he DOES do sweet tiny things here and there...I do enormous things for him. Like bring him a meal I cooked or dropping absolutely every thing if he happens to need the smallest amount of my time .....he lives 3 blocks away...I love him so bad it hurts to even say his name cuz it bring IP SO many memories bad and good. 75% bad tho. Thos memories always have always did always will leave me in tears. This has been going on for almost 5 yrs. How do I let him go??!

[@mezlandia]

You deserve better. Don’t put anyone first, before yourself. ❤️‍🩹

[@raegambino9850]

Merci Alexandre☀️ letting go is difficult but a must to regain control.

[@PrashnaRaika]

Guys help me out He broke up and I bagged bagged and bagged every time he said ' No' I gave him no contact so that he be sure , after two months he posted story and I broke no contact thinking like his emotions had came back but everything was same Then I finally asked let's do a fresh start he said I support you but not for love then I finally decided to move on Then he posted blaming me for going what should I do 😭😭😭😭?

[@Village-g5w]

Indeed. This is over i promise👍

[@beefitmind]

Thank you, love to listen to your tips, support and challenge for results.

[@chikabolitaful]

I’m a lesbian and my wife has been doing this for at least 2 years. I asked for a divorce and she won’t leave admitted she doesn’t want to be with me but having trouble getting her to go. I take care of my mom next door or I would go

[@namdeedesta6711]

This is officially over 🙌🏾

[@patriciachipatela2937]

Wow, that is amazing. Thanks very much Alex for the video God bless you.

[@Indushreen]

Thank u so much.. You are doing a great job.. I appreciate n grateful for all ur efforts .. Many thanks for helping us to be strong n live with our standards ..

[@SHAMMALANADENDLAA]

Thank you Alex..

[@viproom3426]

This is over. I won't play by his rules anymore. I'll play by MY rules ❤

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Yes!

[@mileytoara9176]

Great advice ...thank you Alex

[@SerenaGomes95]

Hallo alex im in a long distance relationship with an older man,he says he love me but he doesn't make time for us to talk.he is always busy.

[@aleksandrape9240]

Hi! Is the video on challenging the man still available?

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Hi there! Yes! here's the link to the video: click.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/challenge-a-man-1-45589555

[@georginabuckley6268]

Thank you Alex. This is very helpful. I think I am in this situation right now! I will keep going 🤞

[@sheeba8334]

Love you Alex..I am your number one fun....much love from Nairobi Kenya East part of Africa

[@valerianotarnicola791]

you are the best coach ever ♥️🙏

[@nancybruney2202]

Great video.

[@amobikafilat9734]

Thanks for this video, I appreciate you.

[@sheila7909]

He always tells me to stop wearing makeup. Stop being so girly. Which confuses me because we're not a couple, only friends. So why does he care If I wear makeup?

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

This doesn't sound right...

[@pumiabroad]

This is over ❤❤❤🇿🇦 I will play by my rules now🙏

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching! I hope this video was able to help you!

[@rubysundae134]

Could you do a video on where 30+ year old women can meet nice men offline?

[@christinabaatz1204]

Dear Alex Cormont , when a man does NOT want to be in a relationship with woman , does it mean he does NOT want to be her boyfriend and soon to be husband ? Sincerely yours Christina 🇩🇪

[@tammylapenta621]

Does this approach apply if you were not very emotionally invested when you were in the relationship and are now trying to get him back

[@brigittebaker4411]

I do not play by his rules!

[@taniaschmitz631]

Perfect!!!! Thank you very much ❤️

[@eitelsabrina]

I already broke up 🎉 I gave him 5 months to get to know me and now I am out 🙏

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching and for sharing this with us!

[@tasha3556]

Very true Alex

[@seylanegrete4003]

Alex It is over

[@ittybitty2362]

I sent a guy this. I told him I wanted to something different and all he could talk about sex. I really like you, we had some great times together and I certainly hoped you would change your mind about us and see what a great chick I am 🙂. I am looking for a man who can make me feel alive and now we've fallen into a situation that prevents me from really letting go and that doesn't really suit me. I hope you find the right person but for now, I would prefer that we don't talk too much.

[@sheila7909]

I had a thing with this guy. We were bwf for 8 months but not anymore. I still want to be with him but he says he doesn't have feelings for me. He's extremely manipulating. And would text me all the time. Saying "ohh I need to have sex" Or I'm meeting up with my best friend, isn't she beautiful. He knows I still have deep feelings for me 😢😢 Obviously, this is extremely hurtful. Why is he doing this? I've told him numerous times to stop. He keeps telling me he doesn't want a relationship, but I think he does, just not with me 😢😢

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Hi there! I'm so sorry to hear this! You need to distance yourself from this person and focus on you. This is not a good person to have in your life.

[@sheila7909]

@@FrenchRelationshipExpert thanks for getting back to me. Yes my family keep telling me that. He makes me feel Worthless. But why is he doing it? He knows I'm in love with him.......Just to hurt me?

[@NamrataPandey-oq2vn]

How to challenge him in this condition???

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Here is a free video training all about how to challenge a man! click.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/challenge-a-man-1-45589555

[@sheila7909]

How do you make him commit? Please tell me, I'd love to know ❤

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Hi there! Thank you so much for your comment! I have a video on my channel that talks about how to make any guy commit to you! I hope you can find the time to check it out with this link: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pamTqmdvjc2Kisksi=qquyH-0zJmYoUAUv -FRE Team

[@karyna2824]

Thank you

[@kimedmond1533]

Where's the link

[@ceciliabruma3658]

This is over ❤️

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I"m so sorry to hear about this!

[@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes]

Thanks 🙏🏽

[@karolinah12]

He calls me 7 ttimes a day to get me answer. I dont answer because i dont trust him anymore

[@RRthee1]

Thank you 😢

[@alexisdiaz4780]

How can i challange him?

[@healthsecretsofthebible.7004]

this is over

[@angeliclight-h8h]

Hi alex my boyfriend is not inlove with me he said to me two years ago he never was really in love with any body but he cares about me but now lately he has pulled away from me i am 64 he is 72 i put hundred percent n this relationship he always said to me your my last kick of the can and he would say are you mine i say yes im yours but i let it go i should of paid attention now he doesnot come to my place but he would say come to my place for a change i find that he changed towards me he does not put effort in the relationship maybe he is seeing someone else its possible he likes to talk to woman i do not trust him but i still have strong feelings for him i have so much anxiety i feel abandon nw i just want you to know alex its not easy to move on and to meet aman i would like i do not fall in love that fast and also i live in montreal canada the men here they do not come up to talk to you in europe they seem to be more friendlier also i am 64 years old its not easy at my age to look for another man

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Hi there, I'm truly sorry to hear this! Coach Alex is eager to assist you, but to offer the most personalized advice, he'll need a bit more insight into your situation. I highly recommend booking a coaching session with him through this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/. This will allow him to fully understand your circumstances and provide you with the tailored guidance you need. -FRE Team

[@shrinidhipatil335]

And that pyscho didn't even let me talk to another guys and also he disrespected me in public because his ego was hurt... Bro I leftn

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

This is so toxic! I'm happy you left that situation.

[@shrinidhipatil335]

@@FrenchRelationshipExpert all because of your constant support and timely videos

[@lilianhaigwodadda8193]

My husband he toid me he loose intrest on me and he said he doesnt enjoy sex with me anymore

[@michellegrant1413]

This stops right now right here!!!

[@LoveFree333]

You are so sweet!

[@rebeccapoda2776]

This is over! I will not play by his rules.

[@chinuzi371]

This is Over

[@hawraaal-garawy9493]

Ok i will not play by his rules

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

It sounds like you're determined to take charge of your own path and not be bound by someone else's rules. That can be a powerful decision, especially if it aligns with your values and goals :)

[@indukumhar4504]

This type of man are narcissist or manipulators?

[@HM-ec5vi]

A man who’s does it is doing it to satisfy his ego. It’s cruel and selfish behavior.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@AnnieBwalya-i6b]

I will not play by his rules I'm done

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I hope this video was able to help you!

[@marcelacasas2187]

Find someone new dummy unless you are hooked on him.