Fridays with Tab & Chance: Who We Were VS Who We Are And what God is still working on us! 11/4/22

Welcome to Fridays with Tab and Chance! We are coming up on 25 years together and 20 married! Honey with that amount of time we have been thru many seasons of changes! Let’s talk about it!

[@stephaniewilliams8535]

After 34 years of marriage my husband and I don’t call it an argument, we call it a misunderstanding! Because now we know that we are permanently in Love with each other ❤️ NOTHING and I mean NOTHING can separate us from the Love of God and each other!

[@thatsseauxnish_]

This is lovely. 🤍

[@teresalove1548]

Amend

[@vanessafitzpatrick5635]

Now that's what I love to hear 😍

[@yvonnejohnson8963]

Wow this was great, we need more couples to be transparent. Hollywood is full of divorce couples some of it is petty not a good example of marriage and making it work. Keep up the good work with your choices of dress, what you eat, how yo love your mate, to the way you all raise your children's.

[@darcymachellebryant6833]

Love that Stephanie. NOTHING can separate us (Me and mine) from the God's Love💜💜💜💜💜💜🙏🏽👈🏾

[@thatsseauxnish_]

I also LOVE how Tab is America’s Auntie, but she’s free with her sexuality and loving her husband.

[@godfearing.jasira]

It is a great blessing in a marriage and a lot of couples do not talk about that follow God

[@five5jamaica]

That part!!

[@tamuholmes1st]

It's a beautiful thing! 😉

[@tara4563]

Thank you Chance and Tab for being transparent. People forget we are all real people at the end of the day.

[@Bsweet7]

"I ain't got time to be mad" and "It takes too much energy to be mad" wow! I am so proud of the two of you because ya learning this in your 40's. I learned this in my beginning 50's and It feels so good, ya'll I am free! No more chains holding me...Gods Grace is sufficient!

[@christschild818]

Amen.

[@umiiyabode]

My husband and I were high school sweethearts; we'll celebrate 49 years of marriage next week! God's grace is sufficient. Great show Tab and Chance!

[@theradiantroomwisdom4every777]

Whoa!!! 49 years high school sweethearts beautiful

[@tamuholmes1st]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 That's awesome!

[@tj103libra3]

And THIS is why we wanted “Friday’s with Tab & Chance” back! Thank you for your transparency ❤

[@bostonbaby6894]

Chance: "Don't be nasty" Tab: "Gimme them drawers "😝😆Love y'all!

[@justifiablyunique266]

😂😂

[@justifiablyunique266]

He knew it was coming😂

[@lisasmilez]

😂😂😂😂 he knows his wife

[@QueenofHearts02]

🤣🤣🤣...

[@kanitawhite2880]

Them meds definitely done kicked in Auntie, man we love the transparency

[@miznay30]

I literally smiled through this entire episode 😊

[@denisewalker4620]

Me to I love 😍 this couple

[@Jesus.SaVeS77]

Hey@@denisewalker4620, Me too, I even sing the Friday's song with Tab & Chance. Badoo doo doo! Lol 😀😂😂

[@Jesus.SaVeS77]

I be 🙂😊Smil'n, 😄😆😂 out loud too. This is another 1 of my favorite couples. They're so Real, transparent, fun n funny. I can tell they really ❤️😍 & Care for ea. other as Husband, Wife & good, close friends as well. 👍🏾 I ❤️ this & like the way they conversate about the begin'n of their marriage, ups, downs, in betwn & presently as well. Good job Tab & Chance. 👍🏾 If yall read the comments section together sometimes. May God continue bless'n yall & whomever else reads this. Whether married, separated, divorced, single & patiently wait'n & or engaged. ❤️😘

[@daijav9488]

Donna is so versatile and just keeps looking more and more amazing

[@candicewilliamsmurrell3714]

“You can be two really good people in a really tough season”. So true! Love you guys! So many great nuggets here❤

[@thatsseauxnish_]

So true.

[@pamelamorris4802]

I would love ya'll to write a couples book using the phases discussed as chapter's in a book. I am here for it!

[@livingwell21]

Or maybe a podcast for topics. ❤️😊

[@ltlbit75]

I love their dynamic!! It's great to see Chance talking and opening up more!!

[@buttahp]

Donna in a crown puff is my favorite. She looks like a queen! 🤩

[@Talishalo]

No Auntie Tab, you didn't 😂 BAN "Everyone should know they cannot go" this episode is gold! Thank you!

[@juiicespeaks]

Chance is a Sagittarius & we are candid, blunt, & brutally honest. So I get his perspective on boundaries, cutting ppl off & completely forgetting about you. You will absolutely become invisible to us.

[@phynomenalwoman29]

💯✔️🎤 #Sagittarius 😜

[@HolisticManifesting]

Yep!

[@jackiemarieadams7764]

Although, I am not into astrology, however, my birthday is 12/4. I can cut off when needed & keep it moving. Certain folks, 3 strikes, you're out! I DON'T have time. DONE.

[@lavonneribera6913]

I'm a Sagittarius and is my personality as well...I will cut folks off in a heartbeat like they never existed lol...

[@TheREALCUPCAKE03]

I never agreed with the birth signs (Astrology) but this describes me best! December 1st...I've cut my own brother off raised in the same home. It's been 7 years now If you go low I do the "Limbo"!

[@TheJessCasonBrand]

The episode I had no idea I needed to hear. I am in a healthy relationship but I am so used to harsh words and arguments, I struggle with how to communicate, and my partner gives me grace it's just like I wanna get it right the first time, but this helped me so much! Thanks yall

[@fdoctor79]

Love this! The vulnerability, humor, and transparency were EVERYTHING! Yes, God is still working on us! Tfs

[@bonniebridges1381]

I really enjoyed this Tab. I just remember a sweet, hard-working, and reliable 17 year old. I am so glad God has blessed you with your heart's desires and used the harder times for an amazing testimony now!

[@wishingonthemoon1]

I wish I had a marriage like this. Maybe it will be half as good as this someday. Y’all are a blessing

[@trishalachell]

It can be...more importantly keep God as that third cord in your marriage.

[@Faithwalk212]

That right there " The Road from Freedom to Obedience " Gift of discernment seeing and knowing how to give what God gave freely!

[@yvonnerichards9966]

“Because I couldn’t say it don’t mean I didn’t feel it. “ I know some men,and women too, in relationships sometimes have a hard time verbalizing their feelings. Let’s be patient with each other .🙏🏾😊 Thanks Tab and Chance for the reminders 😍

[@tara4563]

"Pull them drawls to the side", we love you FAM 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@dedra1204]

Not the disclaimer in the beginning 🤣🤣 love it!

[@markoushayes2233]

Wow I Love this video. I'm not in a marriage or relationship, but I get it. Thank you all and Blessings. If you all can see this message send a prayer up for me for understanding people more. Peace ✌️🕊️

[@PocoLoco21]

I love how your husband is nonchalant about everything. Raw and uncut Ms. Tab!

[@adriane1031]

YESSSSSS, I know what BAN or BAMF. We out grown it all. Thank you JESUS.

[@melindav00]

🤣🤣

[@luvnyaalwayz]

Every time I see them together it's all love, all the time... I love love love me some Tab & Chance ❤️❤️

[@MCarnegie66]

The DYNAMIC DUO!!! Love you two to life! Thanks for sharing ❤❤❤

[@vickiepatton7843]

Such a beautiful couple. I can truly see how Chance has come out of his shell now that he is walking in his purpose mentoring the kids. May God continue to keep your union in his hands. No weapon formed against you both will prosper.

[@Virtuouswomanproductions]

This was an amazing episode. I don't have any family and I will be married soon. I don't really have someone to teach me these things. Aunty Tab and Uncle Chance came through. Thank you for your transparency and humor. I appreciate how vulnerable you both are. I love yall so much and your sweaters are soooo fly

[@donnaadams3461]

As Tab was talking about how she would be cussing alot, I felt that. I remember growing up not being exposed to cussing. I soon after became real good at it. I remember the day I got a revelation and God allowed me to hear a conversation (full of curse words) that made me feel disgusted! God told me thats how people felt when I spoke like that, and that, that was me! From that day I changed the way I talked.Thanks for the reminder Tab! We are all human and fall from his grace daily. But God... We are a work in progress! I love you and Chance's relationship and how you continue to keep it real with every one! Lord I thank you for putting this family in the position to uplift, enspire, encourage and educate your people with transparency and love! Have a great day all! ❤🙌🏽

[@ICONICWEAR2022]

I love this segment! You can tell Chance is very firm and you are firm but with a tender heart. You guys balance each other.

[@nobodycares7233]

Yep, me & hubby were the same way when we started out at 19…. Now at almost 50 we have learned how to argue (no name calling, no trying to hurt each other’s feelings) but able to get our point across!! #757 #VAisforlovers

[@nikkiboone779]

"Get out of your own way." That is so true for all of us. Valuable life, relationship lessons. Thank you for sharing.

[@KenyaRWoods]

Oh my gosh! I needed to hear this tonight. Would you believe that tonight is my 22nd wedding anniversary. Hubby and I love each other very much but right now we just can’t even go out! We usually go someplace or do something, but there’s just nothing in the kitty right now for us to do that. I have a similar experience, my parents, who are actually still together, never argued in front of me, and my hubby, well, his mama’s cussin right now, too! Lol! We’ve been through so much stuff. I’m just hoping that we can break free of the financial stuff. It’s a wonderful journey, though! Thank you for sharing this!

[@yolandam611]

Happy anniversary and God bless your marriage and finances

[@karissajones2294]

Happy anniversary to you and your husband Kenya. Celebrate the 22 years of love and perseverance in your own special way. That’s a great accomplishment. May you be blessed with more love, dynamic health, financial abundance and joy.

[@pamv3012]

I get it, when I first got married I would argue and my husband was quiet. Then I realized it didn't change anything so I became quite too. We stopped arguing took time to calm down. Then we discussed it and let it go. We learned to respect each other, even when we disagree and move forward. Don't hold on to yesterday let it go and move forward! 37 years later, the love is still there. God is good!

[@Virtuouswomanproductions]

"Pull em to da side! " I HOLLERED HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[@suretta]

I totally agree. Marriage is learning each other. . I can truly testify that you have to grow. I learned that through the course of my marriage. Somethings both have to compromise, and communicate, which I was horrible at in the beginning. Thank y'all so much! On another note when Chance said Tab's parents probably whispered argued, was hilarious!!

[@marilynwithers630]

Lord yes Yes !!! When we are with Child . You ask for it , you will definitely get it and some. I remember throwing stuff barely missing his head . But broke out the window. He Got the message 😂. Thank God for Deliverance And His Amazing Grace. The Bible tells us not to let the sun go down on your anger. Tomorrow is not promised to us. Loved This discussion. Y’all look amazing ,Tab rocking that camouflage.

[@chanreka]

After 16 years we have learned that as a couple we have to keep making the choice to grow together and not apart. Be blessed All!

[@deniseburns2296]

It's the wise counsel for me. Thank you!!!! #Grace #BeEncouraged

[@tamicasilvers9648]

Ooo y'all say it! Them phases are something else. My husband and I over 30 years. All you can say thank you Jesus for covering us and bringing you through 🙌 I am Queen of ignore and the silent game.

[@tokiyasimpson4156]

Just got out of a three year engagement.Totally based on a lie on his part.I wanting his grace to bless me with this type of eternal love.I am in my 40’s it’s gods will.Blessings to y’all both

[@princesslewis8466]

i love you guys my husband an i have been marred 32 years this year. yall story is so relative to ours from the moves and the children finances career moves etc. and still able to stay together thru it all God is good. you never know until you see and hear someone elses story. i grew up in a small village in louisiana very country lol so i relate to tabitha alot from being tom boyish climing trees an all that ungirly stuff. im inspired. im also natrual an trying the vegan challenge. i had a massive heartattack in 2018 .im really wanting to succeed at being vegan. thank you for spirit of love and kindness.

[@yolandam611]

Good bless you. Praying for good health

[@smudge8882]

Good luck!! You can do this!! Praying you succeed in bettering your health. 🙏 I don't know if you've heard about the research, but a whole foods plant based diet has been shown to reverse heart disease in a majority of patients. That's basically a vegan diet that doesn't use cooking oils and is low in sugar and salt. There's tons of resources for it on the Forks Over Knives website and the Physicians Committee for Responsible Medicine website. PCRM also has a podcast.

[@TOwens132]

I’ve been watching since the beginning 3 houses ago and this is the funniest episode “take these drawers off”😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Erica_Marie_]

"pull em to the side" 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@susantamukherjee8360]

@@Erica_Marie_ Dr

[@missnickyb7839]

This is so good!!! One of the realest conversations I have heard. Couples going through it, needs to hear this.

[@prettygirlat21]

Hello there Tab and Chance❤ I love y’all relationship it reminds me of me and my husband. Congratulations on the Emmy nomination Tab. I love your spirit it’s beautiful.😊

[@karissajones2294]

Thank you Tab & Chance for this level of transparency. This will bless many, as it has me. Wishing you many more years of love.

[@missjaehill]

Me and my husband been together since I was 18 he was 20 we are 38 and 40 now hallelujah 🙌

[@catherinefrye7269]

My husband and I have been married for 50 years and when we have an argument it's called different opinions! We are definitely best friends. When know each other so well that we end up saying the same thing at the same time. God truly put us together. We started growing in The Word of God together. We have a personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ our Lord and we are filled with The Holy Spirit. We also did many foolish things early I'm our marriage, but we grew into mature adults little at a time. There is nothing on this earth that can separate us from the Love of God!!! Marriage is work and learning to do things God Way. Peace and Blessings to you Tabitha and Chance. ❤🤗❤

[@Camen_Sandie]

Just what I needed to brighten my mood, thanks Tab!!!

[@pvowithprecious8082]

Wow! It is so necessary to know these stages… to help others see how realistic life really is. Not too transparent as you guys did a great job navigating, but just enough to show us how human you guys are! Then and now! I just love y’all ❤️

[@Godschild9108]

Tab is cracking me up. I just drooled all over myself laughing 🤣 Bless her heart.

[@TonyaS76]

Glad Fridays with Tab & Chance are back. Thanks for the transparency. Black Love ❤

[@mosue3200]

This conversation is next level! 👏👏 So insightful and humorous! Thank you Tab & Chance! 😊

[@DDJones-yi1pm]

This is a wonderful discussion with great lessons & nuggets to take away!! You both have grown-together and not just grown together. Please don't ever breech this beautiful union, then you would loose what makes your union so beautiful and a cut above the average!🙏🏽

[@nellyuhoh1986]

OMG. I died as I figured out BAN! Hilarious! Y'all are so real. As I celebrate 13 today, you are a reminder of how things and people change over time.

[@KeshaL8410]

Tab!!!! I'm shocked. LOL. Just kidding. I love to hear real stories of love, but see the genuine respect and kindness for each other in the present day. Tab was cutting up today. LOL. Chance is so cool. You guys are the cutest.

[@theshoeladyls]

Y’all have hit y’all sweet spot and nothing that small can deter it! Awesome wisdom nuggets to share with the viewers!

[@sherrillbutler6095]

This is amazing I love the growth and how they both admit their imperfections and are still able to express their love for one another also lifting one another up

[@moniquefarrington1587]

Chance gave a whole benediction with that last phrase. This Friday’s was all love.❤❤

[@fawcett2054]

Amen! He's definitely a motivational speaker and he has the best cheerleader ever. Love u both keep sharing the love, knowledge and wisdom!

[@PamelaDavis2Chicksand1OldLady]

I love your transparency & growth. It’s beautiful!!

[@barbiec4312]

Awesome. Watched with my husband of 20 years and it helped us both. Perfect timing. Thank you.

[@demetriawilliams1378]

Thank you Auntee Tab and Uncle Chance for being love and showing love to us ❤️❤️❤️

[@tandrajackson7774]

This is what’s needed in the world. Truth, honesty,compassion,fellowship, understanding and so much love. I was blessed by this. Thank you.

[@daffeneywilliams2912]

❤️❤️❤️❤️…. Truly love this episode of Tab and Chance… the realness, the truth, and the inclusion of God’s work and Him working on you individually and as a couple

[@humansage9523]

This was definitely a great level of communication and amazing energy. Thank you all for this conversation

[@quinnelmonte9435]

Great advice from a couple who can admit the trials and errors, and are willing to work on themselves and together each and every day for damn near 25 years 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️🙏🏾 May you always be blessed with an everlasting Love ❤️

[@chefloves1248]

Two great people in a really bad season...I LOVE that! I love Tab and Chance! You guys are AWESOME!

[@jerlynnghee207]

Thank you for this episode! I needed this encouragement. 🙌🏿

[@denishafamily83]

Thank y'all for the transparency and the encouragement. It's hard out here but there is always hope and God is Good all the time!

[@jamuq3589]

Wow. Another amazing stumble. I clicked on a different video of y'all but this video started playing. So Nothing, but Providence! This is exactly why I like your persona and brand so much Tab! I just started really following you this year, even tho I briefly followed you in 2019. Thank you, Chance for your closing words - i definitely needed to hear them. Peace and Blessings to the both of you!!

[@iamleonitadenise]

I feel so seen with this video! The season I’m in, whew…. I needed to hear this video word for word. I just love how you two not only share your “raw” relationship experiences and also provide tips to help. Thank you!! ❤

[@dr.dorothy_transformations]

Beautiful! Natural! Attainable! Thank you both for having the courage to share! Much love to you both!🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎

[@tammypdailey]

Tab and Chance remind me of my parents. I love seeing a loving marriage. I'm not called to that ministry. It is wonderful to see the love and commitment between them.

[@tachiadace8156]

I love you guys and seeing how you can laugh at your past and learning from your past. Kudos 👏🏾 💐 🥳 🎊

[@traceypalmer7002]

Absolutely love this! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 every married couple needs to adhere to this! God bless you two 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️

[@lilliansmith4381]

As a somewhat newly wed… I thoroughly enjoyed this. Thanks Tab and Chance for your transparency 💕

[@TheSavvyDiva]

This was so encouraging. My husband and I are going through a season right now, trying to figure things out. Thank you for being vulnerable and honest. This blessed me and gave me hope that it can get better!

[@roshawnamason426]

Thanks for the message Chance, dont let that one thing of the past weigh you down 🙌🏽

[@dreae7953]

When you can look back and laugh about it, know that you have grown for the better, and love God... That is JUST ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL! I love your work, love your transparency. Thanks for sharing. My children love your shows and keep asking if they are any new episodes. Thank you for your creativity!

[@bintune2616]

Authentic and honest conversation, so refreshing. I had a brief conversation with Tabitha at the North Hollywood Vegan Festival several years ago and she was nice and approachable. Tabitha left a positive impression on me ever since.

[@karibu1361]

This was a great presentation; loved. Blessings to Tab & Chance! 🌹

[@sonjafayecathcart2150]

I absolutely love you two!!!!❤❤ The way you’re being so open and REAL!! May GOD continue to BLESS You Two!!!❤❤

[@Graciewu29]

Thank you Chance for the encouraging words, I needed that. 👍🏽 love y’all! 🥰

[@juliewilliams9227]

😂😂😂❤❤ love y’all! It’s great to see genuine people speaking on their lived, life experiences! Thank you!

[@oliviaharley1944]

I love that yall are so open and real!

[@Erika-li3vn]

I love y’all!! Thanks for your honesty. Marriage is not easy and it’s blessing to see the beauty in the ebbs and flows. ❤️

[@s.coleman4308]

I absolutely love y’all and truly thank you for the message! One day I’ll have the joy you 2 have ❤

[@eldersherryhanchett8141]

Hello Tab & Chance, I missed a couple of Fridays. I had to see was missing…I was so blessed, hearing y’all being real, to your audience. Tab you have brought the best out of Chance and Chance have brought the best out of you. I call it making diamonds under pressure. I love y’all realness, its nothing wrong with that…it makes, him love on you even more…it’s feels so good when you can talk, love language and start laughing with the joy of the Lord, making you be real to yourself and others. I bet you had so many crying laughing even your photographer crying laughing!!! That’s the kind of feeling, that we look forward to in a person…It was like medicine to my soul…yes ma’am & yes sir💜✝️💜keep it coming🙏🏽💙💙

[@justtatyana9523]

This had me laughing my ass off! I just love the transparency. People like to gloat so much now in marriages and act perfect to the point where they start to think about giving up when something goes bad is the first way to solve it. I love this! I love knowing the truth behind a strong marriage. Thank you Tab & Chance.❤️🙌🏽🤞🏽🙏🏽

[@mcbrydes4eva411]

I just love this dynamic of you two

[@marceneogawa7617]

Oh! Tab and Chance thank you so much for being real! Tab is my current spirit animal (meant in the best way possible)! I was just thinking how I hope to be as peaceful and reflective as she is; especially for my kids. Me and my guy...we are definitely still working through it. God has stepped in over the years and still is. In the words of Chance "Get out of your own way. Forgive yourself,"..."You are better than that thing that one thing that happened in your life!" God may we we embrace Your hand in our life, Your LOVE for us and may we always remember that others around us are healing too and lastly, that healing can be messy. Thank you both again. Gob's blessings 🙏✝❤

[@glois80]

Thanks from the bottom of my head for making this video because you helped give me clarity on how to give grace and how to handle things in my new relationship

[@peacewG]

Yall are amazing! Thx for all of your positivity!!!

[@traciesplace]

Ooh wee! I enjoyed that, first time here for your Friday night vid- God bless 🤗🙏🏽💗

[@metafletcher8920]

I enjoyed your realness. God has his hands on you both. Continue to grow and learn through every season. ❤

[@savedbyGodsgraceinJesusChrist]

What I got from this is: Love is a companionship not a race and it's not a comparison train. It's a fellowship and communion; that grows as you go. And you have a life time to cultivate it to the best selves you can be with God's help

[@telissadowling]

AMEN, Thank you and you family! Ms. Tab please don't stop sharing you and your family!!! Me and Grandchildren watch you all the time. You are so amazing!!!😇👍🏽❤🤗👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@lydianeely1832]

Love this couple. So inspired. God's continued blessings