Fridays with Tab & Chance: Who We Were VS Who We Are And what God is still working on us! 11/4/22

[@stephaniewilliams8535]

After 34 years of marriage my husband and I don’t call it an argument, we call it a misunderstanding! Because now we know that we are permanently in Love with each other ❤️ NOTHING and I mean NOTHING can separate us from the Love of God and each other!

[@thatsseauxnish_]

This is lovely. 🤍

[@teresalove1548]

Amend

[@vanessafitzpatrick5635]

Now that's what I love to hear 😍

[@yvonnejohnson8963]

Wow this was great, we need more couples to be transparent. Hollywood is full of divorce couples some of it is petty not a good example of marriage and making it work. Keep up the good work with your choices of dress, what you eat, how yo love your mate, to the way you all raise your children's.

[@darcymachellebryant6833]

Love that Stephanie. NOTHING can separate us (Me and mine) from the God's Love💜💜💜💜💜💜🙏🏽👈🏾

[@tara4563]

Thank you Chance and Tab for being transparent. People forget we are all real people at the end of the day.

[@umiiyabode]

My husband and I were high school sweethearts; we'll celebrate 49 years of marriage next week! God's grace is sufficient. Great show Tab and Chance!

[@theradiantroomwisdom4every777]

Whoa!!! 49 years high school sweethearts beautiful

[@tamuholmes1st]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 That's awesome!

[@Bsweet7]

"I ain't got time to be mad" and "It takes too much energy to be mad" wow! I am so proud of the two of you because ya learning this in your 40's. I learned this in my beginning 50's and It feels so good, ya'll I am free! No more chains holding me...Gods Grace is sufficient!

[@christschild818]

Amen.

[@thatsseauxnish_]

I also LOVE how Tab is America’s Auntie, but she’s free with her sexuality and loving her husband.

[@wickedtowise]

It is a great blessing in a marriage and a lot of couples do not talk about that follow God

[@five5jamaica]

That part!!

[@tamuholmes1st]

It's a beautiful thing! 😉

[@tj103libra3]

And THIS is why we wanted “Friday’s with Tab & Chance” back! Thank you for your transparency ❤

[@daijav9488]

Donna is so versatile and just keeps looking more and more amazing

[@miznay30]

I literally smiled through this entire episode 😊

[@denisewalker4620]

Me to I love 😍 this couple

[@Jesus.SaVeS77]

Hey@@denisewalker4620, Me too, I even sing the Friday's song with Tab & Chance. Badoo doo doo! Lol 😀😂😂

[@Jesus.SaVeS77]

I be 🙂😊Smil'n, 😄😆😂 out loud too. This is another 1 of my favorite couples. They're so Real, transparent, fun n funny. I can tell they really ❤️😍 & Care for ea. other as Husband, Wife & good, close friends as well. 👍🏾 I ❤️ this & like the way they conversate about the begin'n of their marriage, ups, downs, in betwn & presently as well. Good job Tab & Chance. 👍🏾 If yall read the comments section together sometimes. May God continue bless'n yall & whomever else reads this. Whether married, separated, divorced, single & patiently wait'n & or engaged. ❤️😘

[@pamelamorris4802]

I would love ya'll to write a couples book using the phases discussed as chapter's in a book. I am here for it!

[@livingwell21]

Or maybe a podcast for topics. ❤️😊

[@candicewilliamsmurrell3714]

“You can be two really good people in a really tough season”. So true! Love you guys! So many great nuggets here❤

[@thatsseauxnish_]

So true.

[@TheJessCasonBrand]

The episode I had no idea I needed to hear. I am in a healthy relationship but I am so used to harsh words and arguments, I struggle with how to communicate, and my partner gives me grace it's just like I wanna get it right the first time, but this helped me so much! Thanks yall

[@Talishalo]

No Auntie Tab, you didn't 😂 BAN "Everyone should know they cannot go" this episode is gold! Thank you!

[@ltlbit75]

I love their dynamic!! It's great to see Chance talking and opening up more!!

[@buttahp]

Donna in a crown puff is my favorite. She looks like a queen! 🤩

[@SincerelySabrinaRenee]

Chance is a Sagittarius & we are candid, blunt, & brutally honest. So I get his perspective on boundaries, cutting ppl off & completely forgetting about you. You will absolutely become invisible to us.

[@phynomenalwoman29]

💯✔️🎤 #Sagittarius 😜

[@HolisticManifesting]

Yep!

[@jackiemarieadams7764]

Although, I am not into astrology, however, my birthday is 12/4. I can cut off when needed & keep it moving. Certain folks, 3 strikes, you're out! I DON'T have time. DONE.

[@lavonneribera6913]

I'm a Sagittarius and is my personality as well...I will cut folks off in a heartbeat like they never existed lol...

[@TheREALCUPCAKE03]

I never agreed with the birth signs (Astrology) but this describes me best! December 1st...I've cut my own brother off raised in the same home. It's been 7 years now If you go low I do the "Limbo"!

[@bonniebridges1381]

I really enjoyed this Tab. I just remember a sweet, hard-working, and reliable 17 year old. I am so glad God has blessed you with your heart's desires and used the harder times for an amazing testimony now!

[@bostonbaby6894]

Chance: "Don't be nasty" Tab: "Gimme them drawers "😝😆Love y'all!

[@justifiablyunique266]

😂😂

[@justifiablyunique266]

He knew it was coming😂

[@lisasmilez]

😂😂😂😂 he knows his wife

[@QueenofHearts02]

🤣🤣🤣...

[@kanitawhite2880]

Them meds definitely done kicked in Auntie, man we love the transparency

[@fdoctor79]

Love this! The vulnerability, humor, and transparency were EVERYTHING! Yes, God is still working on us! Tfs

[@tara4563]

"Pull them drawls to the side", we love you FAM 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@wishingonthemoon1]

I wish I had a marriage like this. Maybe it will be half as good as this someday. Y’all are a blessing

[@trishalachell]

It can be...more importantly keep God as that third cord in your marriage.

[@yvonnerichards9966]

“Because I couldn’t say it don’t mean I didn’t feel it. “ I know some men,and women too, in relationships sometimes have a hard time verbalizing their feelings. Let’s be patient with each other .🙏🏾😊 Thanks Tab and Chance for the reminders 😍

[@PocoLoco21]

I love how your husband is nonchalant about everything. Raw and uncut Ms. Tab!

[@Faithwalk212]

That right there " The Road from Freedom to Obedience " Gift of discernment seeing and knowing how to give what God gave freely!

[@vickiepatton7843]

Such a beautiful couple. I can truly see how Chance has come out of his shell now that he is walking in his purpose mentoring the kids. May God continue to keep your union in his hands. No weapon formed against you both will prosper.

[@dedra1204]

Not the disclaimer in the beginning 🤣🤣 love it!

[@luvnyaalwayz]

Every time I see them together it's all love, all the time... I love love love me some Tab & Chance ❤️❤️

[@ICONICWEAR2022]

I love this segment! You can tell Chance is very firm and you are firm but with a tender heart. You guys balance each other.

[@daishapalmer8216]

I love how they are completely honest about the good, bad and the ugly. They admitted things that they experienced that most people don’t even talk about.

[@adriane1031]

YESSSSSS, I know what BAN or BAMF. We out grown it all. Thank you JESUS.

[@melindav00]

🤣🤣

[@nikkiboone779]

"Get out of your own way." That is so true for all of us. Valuable life, relationship lessons. Thank you for sharing.

[@markoushayes2233]

Wow I Love this video. I'm not in a marriage or relationship, but I get it. Thank you all and Blessings. If you all can see this message send a prayer up for me for understanding people more. Peace ✌️🕊️

[@donnaadams3461]

As Tab was talking about how she would be cussing alot, I felt that. I remember growing up not being exposed to cussing. I soon after became real good at it. I remember the day I got a revelation and God allowed me to hear a conversation (full of curse words) that made me feel disgusted! God told me thats how people felt when I spoke like that, and that, that was me! From that day I changed the way I talked.Thanks for the reminder Tab! We are all human and fall from his grace daily. But God... We are a work in progress! I love you and Chance's relationship and how you continue to keep it real with every one! Lord I thank you for putting this family in the position to uplift, enspire, encourage and educate your people with transparency and love! Have a great day all! ❤🙌🏽

[@Virtuouswomanproductions]

This was an amazing episode. I don't have any family and I will be married soon. I don't really have someone to teach me these things. Aunty Tab and Uncle Chance came through. Thank you for your transparency and humor. I appreciate how vulnerable you both are. I love yall so much and your sweaters are soooo fly

[@nobodycares7233]

Yep, me & hubby were the same way when we started out at 19…. Now at almost 50 we have learned how to argue (no name calling, no trying to hurt each other’s feelings) but able to get our point across!! #757 #VAisforlovers

[@MCarnegie66]

The DYNAMIC DUO!!! Love you two to life! Thanks for sharing ❤❤❤

[@pamv3012]

I get it, when I first got married I would argue and my husband was quiet. Then I realized it didn't change anything so I became quite too. We stopped arguing took time to calm down. Then we discussed it and let it go. We learned to respect each other, even when we disagree and move forward. Don't hold on to yesterday let it go and move forward! 37 years later, the love is still there. God is good!

[@chanreka]

After 16 years we have learned that as a couple we have to keep making the choice to grow together and not apart. Be blessed All!

[@deniseburns2296]

It's the wise counsel for me. Thank you!!!! #Grace #BeEncouraged

[@catherinefrye7269]

My husband and I have been married for 50 years and when we have an argument it's called different opinions! We are definitely best friends. When know each other so well that we end up saying the same thing at the same time. God truly put us together. We started growing in The Word of God together. We have a personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ our Lord and we are filled with The Holy Spirit. We also did many foolish things early I'm our marriage, but we grew into mature adults little at a time. There is nothing on this earth that can separate us from the Love of God!!! Marriage is work and learning to do things God Way. Peace and Blessings to you Tabitha and Chance. ❤🤗❤

[@tokiyasimpson4156]

Just got out of a three year engagement.Totally based on a lie on his part.I wanting his grace to bless me with this type of eternal love.I am in my 40’s it’s gods will.Blessings to y’all both

[@TheQweenVLOGS]

“It’s very attractive when you see your man evolve!”

[@keneshiaallah795]

I'm Learning So Much From You Both 💛💛💛💪💪💪🦋🦋🦋 THANK YOU SO MUCH 🙏🙏🙏

[@suretta]

I totally agree. Marriage is learning each other. . I can truly testify that you have to grow. I learned that through the course of my marriage. Somethings both have to compromise, and communicate, which I was horrible at in the beginning. Thank y'all so much! On another note when Chance said Tab's parents probably whispered argued, was hilarious!!

[@justtatyana9523]

This had me laughing my ass off! I just love the transparency. People like to gloat so much now in marriages and act perfect to the point where they start to think about giving up when something goes bad is the first way to solve it. I love this! I love knowing the truth behind a strong marriage. Thank you Tab & Chance.❤️🙌🏽🤞🏽🙏🏽

[@tamicasilvers9648]

Ooo y'all say it! Them phases are something else. My husband and I over 30 years. All you can say thank you Jesus for covering us and bringing you through 🙌 I am Queen of ignore and the silent game.

[@patriciamorgan3171]

The prosecuter and the defense attorney and collecting evidence had me holleringsmh. You two are halarious and blessed. Stay the course and keep loving each other. ❤❤

[@pvowithprecious8082]

Wow! It is so necessary to know these stages… to help others see how realistic life really is. Not too transparent as you guys did a great job navigating, but just enough to show us how human you guys are! Then and now! I just love y’all ❤️

[@princesslewis8466]

i love you guys my husband an i have been marred 32 years this year. yall story is so relative to ours from the moves and the children finances career moves etc. and still able to stay together thru it all God is good. you never know until you see and hear someone elses story. i grew up in a small village in louisiana very country lol so i relate to tabitha alot from being tom boyish climing trees an all that ungirly stuff. im inspired. im also natrual an trying the vegan challenge. i had a massive heartattack in 2018 .im really wanting to succeed at being vegan. thank you for spirit of love and kindness.

[@yolandam611]

Good bless you. Praying for good health

[@smudge8882]

Good luck!! You can do this!! Praying you succeed in bettering your health. 🙏 I don't know if you've heard about the research, but a whole foods plant based diet has been shown to reverse heart disease in a majority of patients. That's basically a vegan diet that doesn't use cooking oils and is low in sugar and salt. There's tons of resources for it on the Forks Over Knives website and the Physicians Committee for Responsible Medicine website. PCRM also has a podcast.

[@marilynwithers630]

Lord yes Yes !!! When we are with Child . You ask for it , you will definitely get it and some. I remember throwing stuff barely missing his head . But broke out the window. He Got the message 😂. Thank God for Deliverance And His Amazing Grace. The Bible tells us not to let the sun go down on your anger. Tomorrow is not promised to us. Loved This discussion. Y’all look amazing ,Tab rocking that camouflage.

[@prettygirlat21]

Hello there Tab and Chance❤ I love y’all relationship it reminds me of me and my husband. Congratulations on the Emmy nomination Tab. I love your spirit it’s beautiful.😊

[@missjaehill]

Me and my husband been together since I was 18 he was 20 we are 38 and 40 now hallelujah 🙌

[@TonyaS76]

Glad Fridays with Tab & Chance are back. Thanks for the transparency. Black Love ❤

[@Godschild9108]

Tab is cracking me up. I just drooled all over myself laughing 🤣 Bless her heart.

[@tiahardy31715]

When a husband communicates.... Tab " take these drawers off". Love it! Healthy relationships ❤️

[@KenyaRWoods]

Oh my gosh! I needed to hear this tonight. Would you believe that tonight is my 22nd wedding anniversary. Hubby and I love each other very much but right now we just can’t even go out! We usually go someplace or do something, but there’s just nothing in the kitty right now for us to do that. I have a similar experience, my parents, who are actually still together, never argued in front of me, and my hubby, well, his mama’s cussin right now, too! Lol! We’ve been through so much stuff. I’m just hoping that we can break free of the financial stuff. It’s a wonderful journey, though! Thank you for sharing this!

[@yolandam611]

Happy anniversary and God bless your marriage and finances

[@karissajones2294]

Happy anniversary to you and your husband Kenya. Celebrate the 22 years of love and perseverance in your own special way. That’s a great accomplishment. May you be blessed with more love, dynamic health, financial abundance and joy.

[@moniquefarrington1587]

Chance gave a whole benediction with that last phrase. This Friday’s was all love.❤❤

[@nellyuhoh1986]

OMG. I died as I figured out BAN! Hilarious! Y'all are so real. As I celebrate 13 today, you are a reminder of how things and people change over time.

[@sherrillbutler6095]

This is amazing I love the growth and how they both admit their imperfections and are still able to express their love for one another also lifting one another up

[@Bonner901]

Thank GOD for growth.

[@humansage9523]

This was definitely a great level of communication and amazing energy. Thank you all for this conversation

[@savedbyGodsgraceinJesusChrist]

What I got from this is: Love is a companionship not a race and it's not a comparison train. It's a fellowship and communion; that grows as you go. And you have a life time to cultivate it to the best selves you can be with God's help

[@Virtuouswomanproductions]

"Pull em to da side! " I HOLLERED HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[@purposebyhisdesign7614]

I can hear Blacky in the background 😍 Looooooove y’all❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@juliewilliams9227]

😂😂😂❤❤ love y’all! It’s great to see genuine people speaking on their lived, life experiences! Thank you!

[@Tweetybby2008]

😂😂😂 See I know the way she looked at him sometimes..... especially on the Shannon Sharp show. She look like she loves listening to him. It is so awesome to watch.

[@TOwens132]

I’ve been watching since the beginning 3 houses ago and this is the funniest episode “take these drawers off”😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Erica_Marie_]

"pull em to the side" 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@susantamukherjee8360]

@@Erica_Marie_ Dr

[@tammypdailey]

Tab and Chance remind me of my parents. I love seeing a loving marriage. I'm not called to that ministry. It is wonderful to see the love and commitment between them.

[@KeshaL8410]

Tab!!!! I'm shocked. LOL. Just kidding. I love to hear real stories of love, but see the genuine respect and kindness for each other in the present day. Tab was cutting up today. LOL. Chance is so cool. You guys are the cutest.

[@natalieclarke-white4758]

I just love ya'll... really inspirational

[@1LovedbyHim]

Love you two! I’m like Chance, I can block people out to the point they don’t even exist! 😂 I don’t have bad motives in doing it and I’m not necessarily angry at them for whatever they’ve done to me; it’s just that, depending on the person, I’ve accepted what was done, forgive them and move on with my life. If our vibes are still vibing together, then we walk together in harmony, if not, no love lost, I’m gone!

[@profmj7630]

Ditto

[@tandrajackson7774]

This is what’s needed in the world. Truth, honesty,compassion,fellowship, understanding and so much love. I was blessed by this. Thank you.

[@cv5200]

I'm with you Chance! I can genuinely forget a person even existed. And seem shocked if someone brings up their name. It is a true gift

[@jamuq3589]

Wow. Another amazing stumble. I clicked on a different video of y'all but this video started playing. So Nothing, but Providence! This is exactly why I like your persona and brand so much Tab! I just started really following you this year, even tho I briefly followed you in 2019. Thank you, Chance for your closing words - i definitely needed to hear them. Peace and Blessings to the both of you!!

[@TayReneeTips]

I'm late following too, now I'm hooked. I can't wait until I'm all caught up on their videos.

[@dozensofdestiny]

😭😂😂 TAAABB!! Lol I cannot even imagine you saying “F you, B.A.N.” 😂😂😂😭😭😭😂😂😂😂

[@yellaymb]

the way he talks about the kids. i know he is doing so much for them that they will carry with them for the rest of their lives

[@roshawnamason426]

Thanks for the message Chance, dont let that one thing of the past weigh you down 🙌🏽

[@quinnelmonte9435]

Great advice from a couple who can admit the trials and errors, and are willing to work on themselves and together each and every day for damn near 25 years 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️🙏🏾 May you always be blessed with an everlasting Love ❤️

[@tachiadace8156]

I love you guys and seeing how you can laugh at your past and learning from your past. Kudos 👏🏾 💐 🥳 🎊

[@damita4336]

How can you not love these two.. Grocery store.. Goodwill.. somewhere... so real

[@jamesjohnsonjr75]

I always say this people will forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.

[@bintune2616]

Authentic and honest conversation, so refreshing. I had a brief conversation with Tabitha at the North Hollywood Vegan Festival several years ago and she was nice and approachable. Tabitha left a positive impression on me ever since.

[@lilliansmith4381]

As a somewhat newly wed… I thoroughly enjoyed this. Thanks Tab and Chance for your transparency 💕

[@chefloves1248]

Two great people in a really bad season...I LOVE that! I love Tab and Chance! You guys are AWESOME!

[@missmeyon]

@22:22 😮 WHEW CHILE!!!! You caught me off guard with that one! Lemme stop acting like ya'll don't have kids!!!😄

[@demetriawilliams1378]

Thank you Auntee Tab and Uncle Chance for being love and showing love to us ❤️❤️❤️

[@brownskin5448]

When I say I Love the vibe y’all have with one another and how y’all break down the relationship! I Love it❤❤❤

[@fitwit3]

A completely FREEEEEE woman!!! Praise GOD 🙏🏽

[@HolisticManifesting]

I caught that too! So beautiful 😍

[@jetunb]

me and fiance are at that stage...trial and jury. so glad i found yall. i thought i was the only one

[@mrsmatthews5943]

...near 16:33 when Chance said "It's inconvenient!" Luv that descriptor regarding 'staying mad'. Brilliant! I gotta share this w/my beloved. thnx

[@thedestroexperience6273]

You two are amazing! So happy to get this clarity on marriage and that we all go through phases.

[@tekishawells4069]

I pray that one day my husband and I will have the chance to meet you all. We see a lot of ourselves in what you all speak about and are rolling. God bless you all and your union.

[@CharmaineNewman]

So true Tab, timing is everything. My favorite part though was " take them draws off, pull them to the side"..😂😂😂

[@amtstudent2011]

Yes, Lawd I'm in that season but I'm patient and waiting on the Lord😩 bc I know he has a plan and he's working on us for a reason in this season.

[@lunsha25]

This episode was so beautiful to see and hear, They both had me laughing into tears. Nobody absolutely Nobody Auntie Tab anything I said I meant it 😂 And that’s her business lol I love you all 🤍✨

[@TheSavvyDiva]

This was so encouraging. My husband and I are going through a season right now, trying to figure things out. Thank you for being vulnerable and honest. This blessed me and gave me hope that it can get better!

[@vintfuldream]

Y’all need a podcast. I love it

[@oliviaharley1944]

I love that yall are so open and real!

[@mcbrydes4eva411]

I just love this dynamic of you two

[@consoniahoward8522]

Shout out to the Flowers yall giving each other while you can 🦋🦋🦋💜💜💜

[@barbiec4312]

Awesome. Watched with my husband of 20 years and it helped us both. Perfect timing. Thank you.

[@jerlynnghee207]

Thank you for this episode! I needed this encouragement. 🙌🏿