Friendship Breakups - EP 48 // Pretty Lonesome with Madeline Argy

[@lizzymcguire2811]

I loooove the alone in the car setup. Makes me feel like we’re hanging out together

[@stemney]

Exactly… watching alone in the car 😂❤

[@lululululove6248]

only thing is i get stressed out that she doesnt have any windows cracked - im worried shes gonna run out of air and then i feel like im running out of air might just be me tho lmao

[@m4deleines]

@@lululululove6248girl you can be in a car for hours with no window cracked, it’s fine 😭

[@rachelkitching2736]

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[@Arpita_0_5]

The car is literally the best for filming😭😭

[@rayenegaming5230]

nah that is not trueee it is the worst place to doing a prodcast

[@Arpita_0_5]

@@rayenegaming5230 why it just feels cozy and more personal ig than an actual room setup

[@Arpita_0_5]

@@rayenegaming5230 why the car feels more cozy and personal than an actual room setup ig

[@AnoukSalomeHarbrecht]

I love it because of the trees and the roth pls but a car with a window at the roth 💖 love you byee

[@kyliecooper2618]

Fr

[@Icyyy11]

I love the car setup it feels like a facetime or hanging out in a way

[@kat7692]

The timing of this is crazy i feel like im listening to myself talking

[@hebe_lia]

same

[@irishather5580]

idk why it felt comforting when she started telling that breakup story that iv'e heard before in an older episode it felt like how friends recycle stories and it never gets boring

[@stoicladies]

Your strength in navigating these difficult emotions is admirable. Keep setting boundaries, keep prioritizing your well-being, and never let anyone dim your light.

[@emily-j8v7v]

You dont even realise how comforting this episode is - friendship breakups hurt like a fucking bitch they are so soul-crushing and thank you so much for validating that xxxx

[@odumodured]

madeline speaks and expresses herself so eloquently.....its insane listening to her talk fr

[@fridamrch4759]

If you guys ever struggle with the loss of a narcissistic friend, just remember that they probably dont have enough insight to realise that they are in the wrong. They will keep doing people wrong. It’s a good trait to have insight and to know yourself. They wont understand that.

[@chilledcheetah]

my best friend told me "you care, i dont" and i still miss him somehow. i broke it off yesterday and waking up this morning with no text broke my heart. he is definitely narcissistic but i stil miss him lowk. anyways thanks for the advice

[@fridamrch4759]

@@chilledcheetah The fact that you miss him just shows how good of a friend you are. You deserve a friend that will love you and miss you the same way. :) I believe that you made the best choice and that you'll get a better friend in the future

[@chilledcheetah]

@@fridamrch4759 i appreciate you so so much!! i agree, i feel like i did too, even though im still tempted to text him because i know he'd respond i also know that its for the better

[@lilimuyunda5030]

Madeline...I feel like that message you wrote actually literally sounded so so mature for a 19-year-old who was hurt in the moment. Like. Girl. 😭 You seemed to have had such a good understanding of the fact of what you felt you needed at the time. Like, you didn't just react. You communicated. And that was mature, even if you were wounded.

[@ravirajujjinwal3793]

It's quite shocking how few people know about the forbidden book hidden laws of the game on borlest

[@shshhdhdjs]

I’ve never felt more understood about a situation than when you were talking about friendship and relationships young it’s a pain I wasn’t prepared for and I wish little me had this podcast

[@urfavv_morrow]

she's so pretty omg

[@youdonotknowwhoiamlol]

IKR

[@haleynetwork]

the way u talk about friendships is so beautiful

[@lyana03]

I feel like you’re in my mind, I went through a friendship lost last year when I was 19, and it was also my childhood best friend 💀 you just made me grow up a lot faster about the situation than I would’ve normally, so thank you. And yes, losing a friend is so much worse than having an ex, I also seem to take my friendships a lot more seriously for some reason

[@sophiaortiz8805]

i went thru a similar situation to hers a couple years ago and she was spot on! she explains the feeling perfectly. definitely take advice from her i wish i had this video. sending you love 🫶🏼

[@tkalsnv]

i’m 25 and the message to your friend was honestly pretty much what i would say to a friend right now if i were to go through a “friendship breakup”, simply because i need to vent and find some closure or atleast try to make sense of the situation before just moving on, especially when you care so much about them. i don’t know exactly what happened between you two but i thought that was a good message from someone who cared about a friend

[@PolicarpoVerduzco]

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[@Teresa-France]

I'm highly inspired. Please spill some sugar about the bi-weekly stuff you mentioned.

[@PolicarpoVerduzco]

I raised 75k and Claudia Ann Brandon is to be thanked. I got my self my dream car 🚗 just last weekend, My journey with her started after my best friend came back from New York and saw me suffering in dept then told me about her and how to change my life through her. Claudia A Brandon is the kind of person one needs in his or her life! I got a home, a good wife, and a beautiful daughter. Note!:: this is not a promotion but me trying to make a point that no matter what happens, always have faith and keep living!!

[@Inell-C]

Wow 😱 I know her too Miss Claudia Ann Brandon is a remarkable individual whom has brought immense positivity and inspiration into my life.

[@Lynda-Hester]

Can't imagine earning $85,000 biweekly, God bless Ms Claudia Ann Brandon , God bless America 🇺🇸♥️

[@anacirp]

I started my trade with $5000, and in the space of one month I got credited with $22,000. It remains my biggest win for the year 2024

[@martydem13]

Thank you so much for being so honest and real about this, it is so comforting to know I'm not over dramatic when I put my heart and soul in my friendships and when they end I feel completely shuttered

[@cicine1707]

Hi madz, we love the podcarrrrrr, its such a mood, like « hiii bestiee spill the tea » vibe

[@esonavusani4702]

I don’t think anyone’s picky on where you choose to film the podcast as long as you’re just there. Pick whatever set feels comfortable to you

[@sarahh033]

genuinely you’re so wise girl, i love you. after watching this i had to whip out the journal and made a 4 page entry debriefing this whole video and connecting to it. you have such a way with words and your voice is just so soothing. never stop these, please 😩

[@cloudedtulip]

these podcasts are so comforting omg also loved the collab with quen blackwell!

[@l.a9974]

I feel like I was listening to myself talk, I hold my friendships SOOOOO DEARLY

[@sunburnlover18]

No cause I love the car episodes it’s just perfect cause it reminds me of the old episodes 🤭

[@trinitycavanagh]

the car makes me feel comfortable plz never stop

[@juanmacias3]

Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

[@peishancraken]

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[@carly102982]

Yes, steve_porassss . I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

[@snoopdoff]

I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

[@peishancraken]

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[@carly102982]

Yes he is steve_porassss.

[@StoneyMcGe]

I really appreciate your authenticity. I went through a situationship that resulted in needing to cut people off. I realized that I was on the outside of a friendship circle and they spent a lot of time talking about the situationship together and then be passive aggressive towards me. It still makes me upset thinking that they never bothered reaching out to me and ask for my side of the experience. I reached out to them and they never responded. Makes me think that empathy is the rarest thing in the world.

[@christinaashley1]

Had this exact thing happen to me. Friendship loss is 1000x more painful than loss of a partner because there is no mutual agreement of exclusivity. So for someone to end a friendship you feel they really must hate you

[@alyssah2839]

Please don't change the pod too much; it's my comfort watch ❤

[@serly99]

This is so relatable and it’s so real that it haunts you for years even when you accept it. It definitely feels like you’re walking around without shoes for a while. Love this pod❤️

[@leximeoww]

istg every week you talk about exactly what im going through or reminiscing about and it makes me feel so NOT alone because my friends irl aren’t sharing their stories like this or dont relate to stories like this like i do and i love you sm this podcast means sm to me madz

[@lilimuyunda5030]

The way you articulate your thoughts? It's really something special.

[@zzgirllll]

i genuinely look forward to these every week

[@vamlin3]

i remember like a year ago i was going through the worst friendship breakup of my life and your video about it like pop out on my feed and since that day i am here just wanted to say that that fucking video changed my life and really helped me so i gotta say i’m super excited for the part two i guess love you madzz literally your videos keep me going ❤

[@Hailie333]

Words can not express the love I have for this woman. 💜

[@thedinadiaries]

MS MADELINE YOU KEEP GLOWING MORE AND MORE EVERY WEEEEEK

[@mckennalessard6356]

I’ve had a friend do the exact same thing to me and it’s so comforting knowing that it’s not just me who it happened to because I felt all those things and still do

[@SofaWrld2]

The car is prefectly fine, i really like the casual feel, esp since you keep your car pretty clean, you set up the camera at a nice angle, and a lot of the time the background through the windows is a nice green from the outdoors :)

[@marenvegaduo]

Madeline I feel like we are the exact person not even kidding. I feel the same way about everything you say, it’s actually crazy. The only difference is that you can put it and explain it in actual words to perfection. Omg I hope I can meet you some day and we are friends I swear haha x

[@jessicathomas8922]

this video meant a lot to me as iv just recently in july gone through this situation and im 21 and i never would have thought that friendship loss could happen to me again especially not in my 20s and it wasn’t just one friend it was 2 which then lead to 4 girls and i genuinely loved these girls with all my heart and cared for them and i was fully heartbroken for 2 months i really believed that these girls were going to be in my life for the rest of my life and i also believed that i shifted timelines…

[@daniellevanheerden1454]

Noooo the car is part of you and your brand like yes you can have more episodes somewhere else but the car is YOU don't change it, loveeee u btw

[@jaedawortel5362]

i’m 20 and have been drifting from basically all of my friends so this was so relevant i love you

[@prettyyeongji]

I cannot tell you how grateful I am for this episode. I have felt so, so lost. Thank you, thank you. ❤️

[@vannelively]

I have never related to anything more deeply. Thank you so much for this episode. The way you describe the selfless love and specialness of friendship is so beautiful. I feel like so much of the world is convinced that romantic love is all that matters, but in my experience the deepest and truest loves I have ever experienced were platonic. Which means they have also been the most painful of losses. I truly appreciate coming across your video today ❤️

[@MaraDukuly]

25:06 is so real. I feel like I pour so much into my friendships and literally they don't know how much I love them, maybe we're at fault for feeling to much

[@xXEpicCrafterXx2]

I've discovered you less than a day and I've already binged watched like 20 episodes and followed ur podcast. IM OBSESSED

[@mishcats]

the car set up is so you tho

[@OuassilaGHARIB-hf9xd]

I hope season 2 is in the car as well cause it feels so intimate and genuine and I can NOT imagine pretty lonesome anywhere else 😭❤️

[@Mayaneedsmorefalafel]

Madeline that is such an unbelievably beautiful way to describe it. Thank you for your authenticity.

[@MadisonGodley]

Going through one of the hardest friendship breakups of my life right now at 19 , and I cannot stress enough how much this helped me. Thank you.

[@mxxlove5552]

I love this set up! It’s like so intimate. Like a face timing a friend kinda!

[@Sourdoughcats]

these videos actually help me exist so much, I don’t know how to explain it. and the car is good for these videos.

[@denarendall]

“Help me exist” is such a great way to put it. It just feels so good to have someone perfectly verbalise thoughts and feelings you’ve had. So validating.

[@aarchival]

i love the car podcasts. i hope you don’t worry too much about it being a set, find a car that feels right for you

[@AntonioInnocente]

Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet’s enduring friendship serves as a remarkable testament to the strength of platonic bonds, which can often surpass the intensity of romantic relationships. Despite both having navigated various romantic partnerships over the years, their connection, forged during their time on Titanic in 1997, has remained unshakable. Their mutual respect, loyalty, and genuine affection exemplify the unique depth of true friendship, highlighting how such bonds can offer enduring support and constancy, sometimes surpassing even the closest romantic ties.

[@user-np8yf8fj2w]

that’s because leo likes kids

[@yashifornow]

This is such a crazy timing because I had a friendship breakup in April and man did it f*ck me up. I really thought we would never go out like that. I mean i always believed she would go and live her life but didn't think we'd lose our connection, especially in the way it happened. It really makes you question yourself as a friend its messed up. Thanks for talking about it. You are pretty awesome!!!

[@annamorris-j9o]

your podcast videos have literally saved my life they keep me going thank you ily

[@lindsey-y1j]

love love love this episode, so comforting.. its like you're saying my thoughts out loud

[@Sub64856]

NO,i love the care setup it so comforting and cozy

[@nataz2819]

the message was heartwrenching

[@jessicat7171]

i too, would cringe for 35 minutes 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

[@emmaschmidt6304]

can relate to all of this. drifted apart from people and noticed how i felt when i was around them. i didn’t want to accept they were who they were and i no longer aligned with them. i had to listen to myself and remove them from my life to move forward and heal. it sucks but it’s good to process those feelings the way you are. we got this ❤

[@happywings15]

yesss the europeans who have the international school accent especially like the german and dutch peeps i find so intriguing. Notice how when theyre speaking english theyre always gigling, telling a story or referncing a niche part of culture too! like idk if you get what i mean but its like they've cracked a code when they speak its so much fun chatting with them idek how its different but its like that "i had to study and body this language growing up"edge, i admire it sm. its kind of like that experience when you saw someone studying and now their working in their field and making moves for themselves

[@roamingnomad2807]

I don't know how you popped up in my feed,word from an old man of 39 today is the youngest you will ever be, people always come and go from life,the best time I've ever had was travelling the world solo, live life to the max when young chase experience's not material things

[@miriam2hunchoo]

i love the car with my whole heart

[@JadynMarold]

Madeline I could care less what the background is. Im always so excited for the next podcast. I love your videos so much. You have inspired me to work harder. You’ve become such a big inspiration in my life and I couldn’t thank you enough. Watching your podcast makes me feel like I’m on ft with my bestie. I’ve never related to someone more than you. Keep up the amazing work girl keep doing what your doing. your truly going places. To the best places I love you!!!

[@assassinNXL13]

I am going through a friend breakup. Amidst going through this one I ended up going through a second one and they both cut incredibly deep for me. The feelings that these instances have left me with have been pretty intense. I've been able to deal with emotions in a better way and healthy manner but also I didn't really know where to go nor who to even talk to about these feelings. Just listening to you rant about your experience just made me feel so much better and at peace with it all because you said all of the same things I have been feeling and trying to get literally anyone that would listen to understand. I didn't need advice I just needed someone to listen and you just also "get it". This helped 🙏🏽 Thank you

[@kaylakaatt]

NO NOT GET RID OF THE CAR ITS SO PERFECT AND COZY

[@ugbadfarah4042]

Your videos come out right when I need them, I love you :)

[@HendShokri]

Oh the caption, this is exactly what I’m going through right now, It feels like you know what I’m feeling every time you drop a new episode 😭

[@RUhachi]

we loveeee the car set!! it’s apart of what makes this podcast so you, don’t change

[@mirunastanciu6532]

Girl you heal me a little every podcast 🤍😌thank u

[@ashhhley31]

THE QUEEN POSTEDDDD

[@1m2a3t4t5]

Wow the accuracy, you have such a way with words. Im taken aback and moved damnn. Thanks

[@cinnamontearsx]

It’s such a “ your thing “ to film podcast in a car I just think of u Maddy when I think bout car podcast keep it !❤

[@turtle.midzyy]

I absolutely love the car lowkey when I see the episode is in the car it makes me wanna watch it more

[@1m2a3t4t5]

Crazy how these people can just throw you to the curb like your disposable after years and years of very close friendship since little children all the way to basically young adulthood and they say ok no more. Absolutely feels like an alternate timeline. Wow ‘missing us in the old timeline’ 🤯 thats actually quite beautiful . Losing my friend from 2nd grade to freshmen or sophomore in high school absolutely took me out.

[@nicspoofy932]

I honestly think you can do whatever. Like, sitting on a sofa/in the car and eating something. This already feels like talking to a friend by the way :D

[@brynnlimbengco5724]

tbh really needed to hear this, what great timing 😭

[@Mjinthethickofit]

These videos are the greatest thing to happen on a Monday morning

[@abigailm7088]

Thank for talking about the topic of friendship and perception. I am currently 19 and battling with general perception of people it’s insane.

[@Iheartrinchen]

I just had a friendship break up i needed this 😊

[@catlover9555]

i love the car sooo much its so cozy

[@sidneymarshall4173]

I love the videos in the car!!!!

[@Poppyfreya]

pookie posted i love this podcast sooo much its so comforting

[@UntoldArchangel]

The car feels so personal. I think it's a vibe. Go with more fun. Life is short. You can have a functional vehicle or a mini van later in life. Go off QUEEN

[@NoelleHoliday-w5r]

I love it when you film in your car! Feels more cozy imo

[@tjgh2764]

bro thought he was on top of the entire situation and got all emotional over it xddd what a guy

[@julaiyyy]

Omg I also had a friendship break up when I left school in 2020! I was the one who ghosted the other, retrospectively it was kinda necessary for my growth bc I tend to cling to loud, strong people who seem overly confident (which attracts me to them in the first place) but then it alwayssss becomes clear that they’re deeply insecure and just overplaying that by being the loudest and funniest and most outgoing. Like I know we were kids but that was kind of abusive at times and I was also dependant on them at that time, hence why the break up was probably healthy and also kinda inevitable in the long run. I just sometimes think of them and the people pleaser in me wants to explain myself and have closure, but I think it’s too late for that and they probably wouldn’t get my point either, because they most likely haven’t really changed and I feel like I did a lot. But I also caught myself thinking I’m probably never going to love as deeply again lol. Anyways. Now I’ve learned (at least I’m trying) to not always go for the first, most outgoing, charismatic person in a social setting and cling to them. Never ends well.

[@ElisabethYaremchuk]

It’s fine to film in the car, especially if it’s comfortable. Just sometimes you could film in the house, cause it’s interesting to see and listen to you in different places, just sometimes

[@morganw214]

listening to your podcast makes me feel so understood

[@Madii2698]

I love the car vibe! It’s chill and pleasant to watch👌And you always look super gorgeous ❤️✨

[@denarendall]

Car is my FAVE for podcasts. Feels cosy and safe. But I couldn’t care less where you’re yapping, I’ll listen regardless.

[@enzoloupp]

The car is amazing, and it's a perfect setup cause it feels like we're hanging out with everyone else who watches this as well, very curious about the new car!

[@aldana9124]

this is exactly what a needed to hear

[@ashhhley31]

NOO WHY ARE U GETTING A NEW CAR!!! i love this car and you so much, something about it is so nice .

[@yasarenka9950]

I looooove the car setup!

[@catmeow8411]

I'm a new follower and i really needed this, great episode honestly. Can't wait for season 2!

[@tjgh2764]

well and there also is the fact of me being an deathstalker and not an human, which leeds to me having it insanely more difficult and than anyone else already but having the effect of being able to live quiet long

[@kerosemuanza7665]

I'm not a podcast person but listening too her podcasts is amazing thank you for this now I'm going too listen too more of her of you now its intriguing ❤❤❤😊

[@sophiaortiz8805]

i love you madz. you just understand my brain fr. you’re a lovely soul

[@mariakochurova7218]

girl the way you always bring up things that I’m overthinking these days…