From “GET OUT & NEVER Come Back” to “PLEASE Come Home?” In 5 Months! - Stephen's Story

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

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[@BluWrld]

Big thank you to Jason for sharing all of this.

[@jasonnewman8680]

We are always here to help.

[@StevoSparta-tt5vu]

37 minutes hit home so hard. That’s me, things get great and then out of nowhere she crashed today. It was right after we had a good moment a few days back. But the thing is I am not giving up, I am seeing where I went wrong and lacking…I slipped up in the goal instead of just loving and enjoying life. Bettering me. So tonight I had this gut feeling I just let go of something. And all of the sudden my relationship with my daughter skyrocketed out of this world. I felt free and we just laughed and connected like never before. The feeling stayed…my mind has stayed in that state and I don’t know what exactly clicked.

[@Jitender08]

When stephen said: “look at the trajectory of your growth and just focus on that and not to worry about anything else”. Mentally that’s where I’m at and hearing that from him at the end of the interview made me feel so confident. 🙌 Thank you guys

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Exactly! Focus on perfecting your PROCESS and the rest takes care of itself :)

[@victoriaoshea4865]

Very important interview, thank you Geoffrey and Stephen

[@alecmcd8536]

Really looking forward to the in depth video on un-tethering. I'm not sure how you knew, but this one is still biting me in the ass all of the time. (Probably just a coincidence. Lol) Could we possibly go a bit more in depth on TBU's and how to Identify these and avoid them? They always seem to disguise themselves as something that is so important in the moment, until I look back and realize that it screwed me over again when it is too late. Being okay with things happening in the moment and remaining un-teathered to the outcome sounds like the correct mindset to address this, though it is easier said than done.

[@essencevfx2667]

Another inspiring video thank you for sharing Stephens story . I start the program next week .😁

[@mwjc2]

Best interview yet!!! The first 20 min is exactly my situation, except it's been 4 years of the same mental health struggles with my kids! How can i get in touch with Stephan? Please?!? Geoffrey, I need this program so I can learn to learn and be a better man, husband, and father; I need to learn to reconnect with my kids (alienated from) while being untethered (among everything else I want to learn) . I've been emailing you and your staff for over a year now... I can't wait to get into your program.

[@indrautama3648]

Only if u prepare to go thru hell before reach heaven, u will prevai if u really want to join and do the system as Jeff created. Otherwise, u can forget it. Join Jeff program is not showering you with wishful thinking, instead, u really will have to be willing to go thru hell in a correct way and follow Jeff's advice 100% only then u will prevail. Im saying this because i have been watching any single Jeff's videos, and i have to admit, its a hell before rainbow.

[@StephenStroup]

I appreciate it. I went into this interview fully knowing I was in many ways early in this program and still had a lot to learn and change inside, but I can 100% say it's had a massive life changing effect on me. I'm finally fixing really deep-seated issues in myself, in ways that everything else I had tried had not. Inwardly I had learned a lot of wrong lessons about who I was and what I could do. I have more peace with myself, in what has been the hardest part of my life, than I thought I could. I kept trying to do it on my own, for way too long. Geoffrey says you can't outthink your situation with the same thoughts and paradigms that got you into that situation. That was really true of me. I had beliefs holding me back that were so deep, that even knowing I was a mess, I couldn't even see what the real issues were. Or where my repeated ineffective attempts to fix them were off, and or how to really fix it. This has been a god send, life changing program. Keep working hard and I hope you get in. Recognize that you can change, and that doing so requires recognizing how much you don't know, and how much what you think you know may be wrong.

[@mwjc2]

@@StephenStroup Thank you for replying to my post. If there is a way to speak privately, I would like to. I pray for you and your family, especially your son. My child just went through 2 years in hospitals, many facilities, and has now been out for 8 months and doing much better, but still a long way to go. Like you, that is all i will say here for now, and i may edit/delete some of this soon, i would hate for them to find me talking about their struggles. It was/is very severe, and came about during the separation. I can see this program will help me with myself so one day my kids, and my ex, will reconnect sincerely with me; you have given me hope and inspiration.

[@Not_today_713]

Thank you Geoffrey. and Stephen. I am in Houston as well. Dude! That's how I found you Geoffrey! I was looking into JH and LF, and found a review on Reddit and saw some people mention your name. No idea who you were at the time. So i just like any other guy here, I did a research on KZbin and absolutely fell in love with your content. It made me feel better about investing with you.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Glad you're enjoying the content here! Sounds like you're in the program based on the last statement? Is that right?

[@Not_today_713]

@@GeoffreySetiawan I will be this week!

[@bradleyslama4932]

New video before my *hopefully* last interview call w/ jason tomorrow. Let's f'kin gooooo

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Glad you enjoyed the video, Bradley! BTW - Jason has some good notes regarding your application process. :)

[@bradleyslama4932]

@@GeoffreySetiawan That's huge. I have a business trip in Dallas this upcoming weekend, would be awesome to start delving into the material before then! Let's hope for the best!

[@botsbass842]

​@bradleyslama4932 jason is the shit, Ive only spoken with him 3 times but I will ride for that dude

[@bradleyslama4932]

@@botsbass842 ong bro started hitting me with fax as soon as we talked.

[@lukeleonardrasmussen3550]

At 54:00 or thereabouts, he talks about Josh Hudson and the somewhat far reaches he makes. Letters and such. I know, I've watched his videos too. But then "who's this Geoffrey guy"?? Stephen talks about just kinda what I've found out too. Geoffrey takes a different approach. Fellas, take Geoffrey's Masterclass. Out of anything you may have heard, his approach makes the most sense.

[@ahmedshah5922]

Geoffrey how can you know whether u are giving ur partner space from discussing a difficult topic or you are just being allergic to the resistance that would come from bringing up those topics

[@alanho6027]

Thanks for all your helpful advice. Can you comment on how to cope with the lack of physical intimacy during rough times with our partners? You mentioned that it takes months before our partners recognize and accept our internal changes. How do you help yourself physically?

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

I went on a meditation retreat for 1 year without ejaculating once. Lol. It is such a powerful position to learn to not NEED sex, but to still WANT it. NEEDING it is a major weakness that makes men do dumb stuff in their life & relationship. There are many ways to satisfy your feminine needs besides ejaculation. This is the enlightened way to live. P.S. My wife and I have sex 3-5 times per week. I LOVE sex. But I do not NEED it.

[@aizensosuke6031]

Hey brother how can I join your program?

[@AMGmechanic]

I'm 2 weeks into the program. When I was trying to decide if I wanted to make the jump, I saw that guy's Reddit posts. Anyone that says you don't need a program and just read some books is un-coachable and has an enormous amount of ego.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Proof is that he still spends so much of his time on Reddit talking crap about his partner, etc... :) Funny how much victim mindsets he is displaying despite the fact that he claims he can get rid of all of them on his own!

[@StevoSparta-tt5vu]

Disagree. You don’t need it but it is a very helpful tool to use. My wife has actually opened up after six months of me integrating G’s and another coach’s pointers into my life. I’ll be honest, G’s videos make more sense once you master the correct “why” aka internal shifts. People who watch this and don’t get to a certain point first will not find that these videos click.

[@MrHandoverfist]

#awesome #healing #information

[@npwarr2651]

I think most men don’t understand the emotional component in relationships. Most men aren’t taught that.

[@StevoSparta-tt5vu]

So technically they were separated for 14 months? 9 before the program and 5 in the program. Sounds about right

[@HelenaSummer]

Howdy Houston... glad you are good. We in Austin were quite safe. Check your email 🙂

[@justinhester4046]

Jeff looks so sleepy in this video

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Yes, running 48+ hours without sleep in this video. Houston was hit with a Tornado & we lost power for 1.5 weeks. Further, we had 3 sudden deaths in both Sam's and my family, and had to fly to Asia 3 hours after this interview. Yet, we still delivered - we are anti-fragile. :) These challenges allowed my wife to see how much of a leader I can be, and gives her more reasons to feel safe. Beautiful way to be. Good moments create safety. Bad moments create even more safety. All because I learned to BE a leader as a my lowest default led by my frameworks and internal shifts. WIN.

[@justinhester4046]

@@GeoffreySetiawan 😳

[@justinhester4046]

I meant no disrespect

[@caseymclaughlin696]

Hey thanks for nothing Geoffrey I filled out my application and you never even responded to me

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

As we mentioned numerous times, we currently only have room to take in less than 10% of people who apply, and we do get many stellar applications. Questions to ask yourself - why do you feel like others owe you a response/acceptance? I mean, if you were us, would you accept enrollments from these types of comments when you have 9 others who submit great applications? Would you risk disrupting the wonderful community of clients we have now by enrolling people who make these types of comments? And is this how you would apply/communicate to your dream university/job? Do you think this response/attitude is going to help us feel like we "missed out" or made a mistake for not accepting your application? Do you think it is these types of behaviors that caused your relationship to break down? Do you think these types of behavior is going to help your partner feel like she "missed out" or made a mistake for leaving?