From Shy Guy to Ladies Man: Memoirs of a Male Seducer - Chris Bale

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Great reviews man! You got me on this one. Subbed.

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Great review, you are the man my friend!

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I have mixed feelings about this review. I think paradoxically, there are some men that, if they want to be "authentic" as you say, will not lead, and that is fine and should be encouraged if that makes them most satisfied. I do appreciate your candor though! A lot of people (women especially) are not as open about their sexual desires, because they are afraid of conforming to a sexist ideal. Yeah, not all girls want a dominant partner, but a lot do, and modern-day feminism teaches women to squash that desire and hide it. Women can still be strong and independent while playing a submissive role in bed- because sex is in many cases just that, playing. I disagree in part where you indicate that men should not try to please their partners. You would ideally be right, except the thing is, women have had this "pleasing their partner" game down pat from the get-go. It's good advice, don't get me wrong, but really, women need to hear this advice more than men do, because we live in a sexist society and if you're born female, this partner-pleasing mindset is pretty much engrained. If one side of a sexual relationship is in a "pleasing the partner" mindset while the other isn't, it leads to an unhealthy power dynamic. It always depends on the relationship and situation, of course, but men should go in with at least the notion that their partner (particularly if she is female) might not tell them about some boundary, and that there's a good chance she will prioritize their satisfaction over her own. (It's not hard to fake an orgasm, if you're female. Just remember that guys.) I probably will not read this book, because if my suspicions are correct, it likely appeals more to gender-conforming heterosexual cisgendered males, all of which are categories I cannot identify with. Maybe I'm wrong though, and other kinds of people can enjoy this book. Let me know!