On a first date, he took me out and when I realized where we were i was excited and grabbed a coupon I had. He was laughing and gave me the biggest kiss and even said he loved me for that. I still laugh because I will always pull out coupons if we are somewhere. Why not save money??
@jimv773 ай бұрын
My sister is a couponer -- she will literally walk up to a complete stranger at the grocery store and offer coupons for items they are buying.....
@Jaynumbernine3 ай бұрын
Graham common sense says start enjoying your money while your young and you can your rich do whatever you want you’ll be 80 one day with a lot of extra money wishing you enjoyed more young. Travel and experience
@sandiellett17863 ай бұрын
@@Jaynumbernine You can do both. In my 30s, I maxed out my 401k, paid off a house, vacationed 4 weeks a year (including Europe for a month), among other fun things (Also, saving 30% of my take-home pay.). America is quite expensive compared to the rest of the world. Experiences can include dinner with friends at home cooking some great food (Food and drink at restaurants cost 5-10X what cooking at home costs.). Lots of memories of dinners with my friends. Retired at 49 and can do exactly what I want to do every single day, including traveling, if I feel like it. I'm still young and don't have a boss telling me what to do every waking minute.
@Jaynumbernine3 ай бұрын
@@sandiellett1786 I’m referring to specifically rich Graham
@Whiskey_Jane3 ай бұрын
@@jimv77 We call them coupon faires and they are the greatest humans of them all. ❤😂
@Gshen33 ай бұрын
I love George, but whoever edits these videos is a genius!! I crack up at all the video clips inserted in this video.
@sayless14453 ай бұрын
💯💯
@MrsPamB3 ай бұрын
My husband set our first date at the McDonald’s near my apartment. When he was 30 minutes late I left and refused to answer his calls for a week. He finally convinced me to give him another chance and took me to a NICE restaurant. 30 years later…😅
@sayless14453 ай бұрын
😂
@jessunpolished21472 ай бұрын
Not gone lie McDonald’s is crazy if you not a teenager!
@Charlesyo_3 ай бұрын
Your guys chemistry together is always on point haha laugh multiple times watching you 3 😂
@RebekahSam-i1p3 ай бұрын
Seeing Jack and Stephen being interviewed and airing out dirty laundry is hilarious! Your best friends know all your embarrassing secrets. Usually these two are doing the interviewing but when they're being interviewed it's too funny.
@maxcohn32283 ай бұрын
I also like to avoid dinner on a first date. Drinks or coffee can be as long as 4 hours if it's going well or as short as 30 minutes if it's not. Dinner is more locked in, time wise. Also a lot cheaper than a full meal for two.
@Kalvain143 ай бұрын
I like to get ice cream on a first date. It's really easy to keep the conversation light. If things go well, dinner is usually right next door.
@AbigailMillerLSW3 ай бұрын
Woman here. Yes! I want to stay as long as I want, but to feel free to leave as soon as I want.
@cisium11843 ай бұрын
This is wise. In most cases you want the first date to be low pressure. Full meals and movies crank up the pressure. Dinner is a second date. First date is to see if you like each other and to make sure the other person doesn't have any disgusting personal habits.
@mhodge08903 ай бұрын
Love listening to frugal cheap rich people. I got the frugal and cheap part down. I just need to figure out how to become rich
@sosalovesmylfs693 ай бұрын
samme 😭😭
@elisemedina22373 ай бұрын
Saving money on a routine basis adds up and when you find the fun in it you won the game!
@gabrielleolivia13 ай бұрын
Look if a guy used a coupon on the first date my first thought would be “oh nice! He’s frugal” that’s it. The right lady will not care at all.
@KimberlyManuel-ee3ov3 ай бұрын
Great show. I love when you have them on, you 3 have great chemistry and a lot of fun.
@donjohnson14163 ай бұрын
The FLUSH conversation was gold!!!! "A penny for your flush" lol lol lol
@TopFivesRUs3 ай бұрын
First date was coffee at Tim Hortons. This was 11 years ago in Canada so it was probably around $3.00 We’ve been together 11 years, married for 6 and have a 3yo daughter together! I paid for our first three dates. She was offering to split the cost after the first date
@donnahampton3632Ай бұрын
This trio is a gem!
@ChrisD18653 ай бұрын
Asking your bud to not flush the toilet… you sir, are the winner.
@laclaires89992 ай бұрын
George Kamel.. frugal comedy, gold!😂😂
@lisag-posty3 ай бұрын
Love this video! You guys are great! Nothing like friends airing your “dirty laundry”!
@marchydecreative3 ай бұрын
this is the content KZbin was made for. This and "Charlie bit my finger."
@ericagon12 ай бұрын
“I wouldn’t say anything about me is attractive” lol this had me dead 😂😂😂😂
@daniellegasper22893 ай бұрын
I went on a date with a man who had a coupon book. We met at the restaurant and he told me what entrees I was allowed to pick from because they were under the coupon. Of course, I was not allowed to have any drink other than water and no dessert (they weren’t covered under the coupon). That was our first and last date.
@TopFootballHighlightsChannel3 ай бұрын
i mean if you were expecting him to pay fair enough, he prob dodged a bullet.
@CG-vn5xh2 ай бұрын
I agree that he was very tacky. If you’re going on a serious date pick a place that is decent and that you are willing to pay for. Your date is your guest. Part of dating is taking a chance. If your date spends $10 more than you want them to, then maybe you shouldn’t ask them out again…but have some pride please.
@jessunpolished21472 ай бұрын
Yeah I would’ve just paid for my own at that point, and if I have to pay on first date, it is the last one.
@princelinus83202 ай бұрын
Try going on many dates. You try it and see how it goes. @@CG-vn5xh
@Davefitz043 ай бұрын
I was laughing my ass off with the toilet and toothbrush stories 😂😂😂
@tcgtpl3 ай бұрын
Frugal is not being wasteful. These examples are more being cheap. There is a difference.
@Oaky3 ай бұрын
Is it frugal owning 50 homes? hah
@hankthetank163 ай бұрын
Exactly. For example, done if the best first dates are creative free ones. I'm not even considering if I'm spending above or just below $70
@nickstark84793 ай бұрын
Also, think it becomes "cheap" and stops being frugal when you start infringing on other people's lives/way of life. Like asking people not to flush when in your house 😅
@JudithMcPheron-pb9lv2 ай бұрын
This was so entertaining, educational and just plan fun. So glad I'm a frugal...late in life but frugal no less ! ❤😊🎉
@sassyfassy85943 ай бұрын
My father would be the "Tightwad Tussle" ultimate champion. He once served my wife and I 3 year old ham for Christmas dinner. He didn't even bat an eye.
@CG-vn5xh2 ай бұрын
My Mum would so do the same thing
@ericagon12 ай бұрын
This episode is hilarious lol great job yall
@westx6811 күн бұрын
I paid for all of our dates with my wife. I took it as very encouraging when she started bringing coupons on dates. She said if it cost less for our dates, then I can take her out more often ❤
@Bakers9243 ай бұрын
Be frugal with your time. Which is your greatest asset.
@retnuh12623 ай бұрын
I eyeball the leftovers like Graham. If there is no obvious mold, weird smells, or discoloration it's fine. The other day I almost convinced myself to cook up a moldy squash because I was arguing the mold is probably just on the outside, but I instead decided that was too risky.
@Tashas_Travels3 ай бұрын
I am always with my points cards and even if the shopping isn't mine i swipe my card to earn the points. There's nothing with coupons , it just means you can totally save money. I love it.
@thegardencity923 ай бұрын
For leftovers, It's 5 days for most things. That's food standards used in retail for prepared foods. If they are selling 4 day old food, it's perfectly safe to consume. There are a few exceptions, things with onions for example should be probably consumed within 3 days, then some salads should be dressed/mixed daily won't really keep for more than a day. Finally, some cooked meats like salmon will really start to dry up after the first day so I wouldn't keep past 2 days. Most meat is fine. When in doubt I just smell the food.
@marinamiranda83923 ай бұрын
This episode had me cracking up! 😂
@phantom38273 ай бұрын
The best way to convince Graham of anything is to persuade him of opportunity loss. “Imagine the hours of work you loose if you’re yacking up two week old Dino nuggets”
@kima85662 ай бұрын
Loved this episode so much!
@deelehey28273 ай бұрын
My son went on a first date wearing his Rolex and driving his Porsche….after dinner, the woman wanted my son to buy her a $5,000 handbag. Lesson learned. Hide the wealth on the first date.
@daphblue3 ай бұрын
That’s wild!
@neelabhchoudhary20632 ай бұрын
It exposed her true colors though
@jasonwintermyer8566Ай бұрын
My first date with my now wife was at a fast food place. I actually was a mystery shopper and did a mystery evaluation of the place. I got reimbursed for my meal plus paid for completing a survey. She knew what I was doing, and I actually ended up not costing me anything for our first date!
@mp55643 ай бұрын
These guys are like an old married couple
@BridgetteMackenzie2 ай бұрын
The way I lost it when I heard that Graham asked Jack not to flush the toilet😭😭🤣🤣🤣
@marinaszabo232 ай бұрын
According to most kitchen staff/people working with food leftovers are usually good for 3 to 4 days. Carbs (all food for that matter) have to be properly cooled down before refrigeration, and even then I wouldn't let them go longer than 3 days without freezing. Vegetables (Salads, soups etc.) last a bit longer, something like up to 5 days. Either way always look, smell, taste and properly heat up before consumption. 3 Minutes on high in the microwave usually does the trick, if you're sceptical do more. Always, ALWAYS be sceptical of leftovers that are older than 3 days. Better that than food poisining.
@EDISH9012 ай бұрын
It's funny because although I grew up in the West (Spain and then the U.K), due to the poverty I grew up around all these things that you do in this video don't seem frugal at all to me... Now I travel, I'm writing this from Macedonia where I have a $250 a month apartment including all bills and I couldn't be happier. I work about four months a year in the U.K, only doing work that includes free accommodation, save every penny I earn, and then simply live in cheaper countries to a strict budget (I live on what a local earns, so here for example about $600) and have a wonderful life. The quality of life I can have here, for less than a quarter of what it costs for a basic existence back home is incredible and I love the Balkan culture. Anyways great video, it proves to me there a re many ways of reaching some time of financial freedom and I hope more and more people start waking up to the fact that you dont have to kill yourself for a paycheck! Subscribed.
@jimmcm65492 ай бұрын
I need this to be a recurring series
@StuGo10133 ай бұрын
Gift cards! Beware!! I was at a dinner where a gif card was used and rejected because there was $0 on it......Guess who had to pay the for $100+ birthday dinner?!?!?
@jimv773 ай бұрын
Who paid on the 2nd date......wait, was there even a 2nd date??
@Slewfootgangster3 ай бұрын
5:09 happy hours are at the worst times for a date. Usually they are before 5pm or the start late at 9pm and the girl would notice that you’re trying to take them during happy hour because you’ll either say it or they’ll see it so that doesn’t look that good imo for a first date.
@Slewfootgangster3 ай бұрын
5:18 and then if you just buy girls drinks that has a negative connotation girls don’t just wanna have drinks because then they know you’re too cheap to take them out on a real date and that you just want a fling. I think that makes you look worse. I know you guys are trying to save money, but it’s just not gonna look good for a first date, especially nowadays!
@lennyS69693 ай бұрын
This feels like marriage counseling 😂
@brendonwhartonfit3 ай бұрын
Idk about other cities but phoenix airport if you’re leaving for a week or less, generally costs about the same to park as getting an Uber….and you don’t have to deal with an Uber. So we pretty much always pay for parking now
@sokalbenoit3 ай бұрын
what a cool conversation! Thanks, Guys!
@paulmitchell15803 ай бұрын
To be so wealthy and so frugal is amazing.
@retnuh12623 ай бұрын
I feel like my first date limit would be like $40 on the high end. First date is basically meeting a stranger. 2nd and 3rd dates I would feel more comfortable spending higher amounts because now I know the person better.
@johnsmith-dm2tq3 ай бұрын
frugal faceoff, this is my episode. i dont eat out, i only buy cars in cash, i meal prep and drink coffee i brew myself. i even reuse old screws when taking apart old projects to build new projects.
@victorbaird82203 ай бұрын
You don’t eat out 😮😢
@16bitfingerprint223 ай бұрын
I built a chicken coop out of broken down pallets over the winter reusing the nails. Hammered them straight like I was building a fort as a child 🤣 and guess what? Worked out great!
@cheesecurd100s3 ай бұрын
@@victorbaird8220 i eat out maybe once a year, usually just stresses me out because I have a hard time spending a weeks worth of groceries on one meal
@janelleg5972 ай бұрын
Don't care 😂
@johnsmith-dm2tq2 ай бұрын
@@janelleg597 10 up to 1 thumbs down, your reply has been ratioed
@joshmeadows40673 ай бұрын
Grahams look when Jack brought up the speaker 😂
@johnrichmond98232 ай бұрын
When I started going bald I bought some hair clippers, and I've been shaving my head and beard with them for like 10 years. No barber, shampoo, razors, shaving cream the whole time. Also I just use a bar of soap to shower. I probably spend like $10 a month on hygiene.
@TheCheeseman373 ай бұрын
The more I see Graham outside of his channel the more I realize how cheap he actually is
@aprilhamilton55123 ай бұрын
A willingness to drink Folgers is the gold standard of being frugal 😂😂😂
@puravidaot3 ай бұрын
Maxwell House
@laundrygoddess43 ай бұрын
And I only buy it on sale😂
@sewerrat76123 ай бұрын
Couldn't imagine buying either just get whatever shows up at local discount store whole point of home coffee is that it's practically free.
@nousernamesarevalid3 ай бұрын
The first date money question depends on the venue: coffee is a good first date to have conversation especially if you met online.
@rachelminer54352 ай бұрын
My shirt is $2.99 from Salvation Army- it had a tiny tiny hole in it so I embroidered a little daisy over the hole. My shorts I have literally had since I was 17 and got them from target probably for $20 or something, and got my shoes as a hand me down 😂
@taylorleblanc3282Ай бұрын
The Oppenheimers are great, especially Brett with us soccer. Glad they got y’all the gifted swag🔥
@JoshuaEdwards-p4c2 ай бұрын
Dish soap hack I havent tried yet. Add rubbing alcohol and water to turn regular soap to the spray dish soap. It makes sure the soap isn't suds in the bottle, so still a liquid, but can turn into the suds when using a spray bottle.
@Allthecrazythings873 ай бұрын
Y’all got those cleaning hacks wrong. Let me fix it for you: Kitchen cleaner - 1tbsp dawn in spray bottle with water. Cleans, does not sanitize. (Others usually dont either. A cleaner is different from a sanitizer) you will need to buy a sanitizer. I usually use lysol. But this mix is gentle enough on any surface, food safe, and good for day to day use. For bathroom cleaner its the same thing except in a bottle with half and half water and distilled vinegar. For glass cleaner just half and half vinegar and water. Optionally add in a little cornstarch for some extra heavy duty cleaning. Do NOT use soap on glass… that leaves streaks. So sorry graham. You got that wrong. Add in your choice of essential oils if you want the stuff smelling nice (the vinegar smell is a bit strong). Bonus tip: do NOT DIY washing machine detergent. It will ruin your machine over time and the machine doesn’t function with sudsing soap so it will leave your clothes smelly and gunky over time. It also forces your machine to use more water in the rinse cycle. Stick with the store bought stuff because its meant for the machines. If you want to use handwashing stuff because you dont like the petroleum then hand wash. You cant hack this. You can however use distilled vinegar instead of fabric softener. This is especially good with towels because softener ruins the towels ability to absorb water.
@ebikescrapper39253 ай бұрын
Oregano and tea tree oils are good ones, buy the best oils you can.
@cisium11843 ай бұрын
I watch that Melissa Maker woman. She turned me on to the homemade cleaners.
@laundrygoddess43 ай бұрын
Vinegar and water is my general cleaner. Use it for most things
@NatashaEstrada2 ай бұрын
These are good hacks but sometimes it's better just to buy the DAWN professional and other commercial cleaners from Smart and Final in bulk then you have the right kind of cleaner but still keep the price down.
@crashtestdummy19723 ай бұрын
For the who pays, i would use the "who asked, pays" for the most part. But i would apply this only after the first few dates
@NatashaEstrada2 ай бұрын
Yeah there is nothing worse than not really wanting to go on a date but willing to give someone a chance only for them to want you to pay.
@crashtestdummy19722 ай бұрын
@NatashaEstrada that seems kinda scummy, lol. If I ask you for a date, I would pay because I initiated it.
@safeword_whiskey3 ай бұрын
I respect Graham’s coffee game
@sarahdoanpeace36233 ай бұрын
When in doubt throw it out! If it’s gonna make you sick and potentially land you in the ER or hospital or even miss more than half a day of work, don’t risk it. That costs more than the leftover so therefore it costs more money and saves nothing. As for dates, first one I think man should pay after that 1/2 & 1/2.
@aliciaamond81483 ай бұрын
I do valet for children’s hospitals. Especially if I’m by myself. Pay the extra few bucks to avoid any problems with parking garages, especially with a little one
@huskiefan063 ай бұрын
The Pillow Wall! 😂😂😂
@hollybingeman22902 ай бұрын
I've been drinking instant coffee for about 6 months now... since my nespresso broke. I have full control over how strong my coffee is 😊
@hollybingeman22902 ай бұрын
And I've saved a lot of 💰
@hornedlobsterАй бұрын
20:00 Calculating the cost per minute of sleep is WILD! 😂😂😂
@ItzTheThrill3 ай бұрын
Thanks for all the fun content!
@StephanieJoRountree3 ай бұрын
What's the hotel app you use, George?
@AJDAbelita3 ай бұрын
You guys are soooo funny together
@ScottishJazzman2 ай бұрын
Graham has now been gifted at least 2 Rolex watches?! Nice 😎 (Noah Kagan and Grant Navarre)
@GrahamStephan2 ай бұрын
Yeah!!
@kendallf32653 ай бұрын
Graham & Jack are clearly frugal buying shoes in bulk.
@stevenporter8633 ай бұрын
Money Guys as a guest with George
@golden-bear3 ай бұрын
Bring more "Frugal Fcae Off's" this was fun haha
@cathy35462 ай бұрын
First date was coffee & pie at Dennys. Thankfully, I was mature enough not to care if it was Dennys. We developed a great friendship, love and marriage. Turned out he wasn't a cheapskate. We had lots of nice vacations, dates, and giving over the years.
@w3choke3412 ай бұрын
Love the seating 🤣
@thebabcockhouseАй бұрын
We love foraging for mushrooms and herbs! We didn't even start for frugal reasons...wild mushrooms are just delicious and herbs are medicine. You just have to know what you're doing or you might die.
@mysterymanatee3 ай бұрын
Hot Take; Coupon on the first date actually makes a ton of sense. If you are taking the risk on spending money on someone you are trying to get to know and don't know how it is going to end up, why not save a little? You will always take a discount, but would you rather feel the need of a discount on stocks for a company that is reputable and will prove a return, or one that opened yesterday?
@jeffrobnc19713 ай бұрын
3:26 The inviter (whoever asks the other to come to the place or event for the date) should pay. Generally, the inviter will be the guy, but it could be the gal as well. For example, if you invite someone to dinner at a nice restuarant, you should pay 100% of the bill, since you have no idea whether or not the invitee has the finances to comfortably afford the restaurant that you have chosen.
@CartyCreativeАй бұрын
Graham and Jack are my favorite finance couple
@HUSKERFAN933 ай бұрын
That JP reference cracked me up 😂
@brentkillian3 ай бұрын
12:25 in the south they have a food called Polk you can gather from the side of the road. A lot would gather it and cook it.
@katiescherf77843 ай бұрын
This was great thank you 😂
@samw206914 күн бұрын
I get tons of gift cards around Christmas, asked my gf if she minds me using it and she said hell no! This was 5 years ago and still together using gift cards for our dates. BUT!, we always leave a very generous tip at restaurants since we used a gift card
@exxology13 ай бұрын
Wow come on guys. Do coffee or drinks on the first date with a two drink exit plan, definitely agree to other paying by the third date. After that going to parks, picnics, hikes or home cooking or home movies can be started. No coupons, no gift cards. It’s not that complicated.
@mattf17873 ай бұрын
Graham, Jack, and George are like the well adjusted finance bro versions of Charlie, Mac, and Dennis from It's Always Sunny
@thebossdawghomie3 ай бұрын
Who's who?
@mademoisellesura3 ай бұрын
Maybe this will be an unpopular opinion, but I think the man should always pay for the dates. However, I will say that I think coffee dates, and lunch dates are perfectly acceptable first and second dates. I completely understand not wanting to pay for an expensive dinner for someone you may, or may not ever see again. With regard to the coupon question, I think that’s super cheap to do on a first, or second date. However, if you are in an exclusive relationship, I don’t see a problem with using coupons, or gift cards. At that stage you’ve probably already established that person‘s levels of generosity, so a once in a while coupon is not a big deal.
@cisium11843 ай бұрын
Agreed on all points. The man paying is not about the money, it is a symbolic gesture of your willingness to provide, which you will _have_ to do if you marry and have kids. So on a first or second date, using a coupon sends a mixed message. If you can't afford the first date, a cheaper first date is better than a coupon. By the same token, if I am considering marrying a woman, then how she will handle the money I'll be expected to provide, whether she'll value the work it represents, whether she is a saver or a spender, are all things I want to know. I almost feel there could be a "coupon date" after you've been out several times.
@mademoisellesura3 ай бұрын
@@cisium1184 100% agree. If a man is pulling out a coupon on date #10 (for example) I don’t think that is a big deal.
@jessunpolished21472 ай бұрын
I agree and expect a man to pay for every date. If it’s something that I’m booking for us like movie tickets ahead I’ll pay for that (and get the rewards points lol). I would have no problem with anyone using a coupon/gift card anytime, that would excite me 😂
@trentenr72553 ай бұрын
Dawn in a spray bottle is actually really effective. It suds as it sprays and gives the perfect clean. 10x cheaper than the dawn brand foaming spray. You have to get a good spray bottle though. Zep is quality and $4-$8
@shinyanovikov25022 ай бұрын
In my opinion it is ok to use a coupon on a first date as long as it doesn't it change it. Like buying something that you happen to have a coupon for.
@PenniP2 ай бұрын
love this episode! ❤❤❤
@candaceenglish84912 ай бұрын
I buy Vessi for work and they are wonderful. I am a dog groomer so waterproof shoes are a must!
@amireallythatgrumpy65083 ай бұрын
13:00 "Not to hi-jack the conversation". I see what you did there, Jack.
@bens28013 ай бұрын
The man should absolutely pay for every date.
@jessunpolished21472 ай бұрын
Yes I was watching this and realized I will be single for a long time, I expect a man to pay for every date 🤷🏽♀️
@dianafoster78832 ай бұрын
I am in my early 60s now but in my twenties, I expected a man to pay for all dates for the first month or two. After that, I would pay for maybe one date a month as a "treat" for the man! lol
@kellycrossfit16554 күн бұрын
Question for anybody that can help - i’m recently single was married for 15 years and I get asked out a lot, but I don’t date often because I literally can’t afford it and I don’t want men to feel obligated to pay, but on the other hand I cannot afford to and I don’t want to be “that girl“ that expects everything paid for by the guy so I guess I just don’t wanna be put in that awkward position. I’m embarrassed to explain that to someone as well. What should I do?
@KristaWright-g1g3 ай бұрын
You guys are killing me 🤣🤣🤣
@derekp66363 ай бұрын
Leftovers....3 days in the fridge.....don't really care what it is or where it came from. The deal is 4 hours in the temp danger zone, and most people don't put things away or package correctly. Had enough 'stomach bugs' to last me the rest of my life. Its also the reason I don't like bulk cooking or meal prep.
@brianpulliam11002 ай бұрын
I only water down the liquid soap stuff when I am trying to get the last bit that is sometimes slow to get out.
@JPOlmin30002 ай бұрын
Literally cackled at the Jordan Peterson mini clip. Bravo.
@TartarianTopG2 ай бұрын
O wow just love coffee!!!😂❤ great
@thebossdawghomie3 ай бұрын
17:00 he wasn't joking. 😂
@KathieWhite-q9p3 ай бұрын
This is AWESOME. So funny!
@Veronicaoffidani13 ай бұрын
Gotta love Graham 😂
@thebossdawghomie3 ай бұрын
18:10 Ramit Sethi would turn into Caleb Hammer if he watched this 😂😂