Frugal Living! How Dare You Buy That! Zero Food Waste Chicken Patty Recipe!

[@kimmyers7583]

Amen! Everyone has their own priorities! I just retired at 54. I just recently started doing my own nails. I used to pay $40 every 4 to 6 weeks to get them professionally done. I still plan on getting them professionally done in December, because I’m getting married and want them to look better. I own my home and car and my bills are low. I can afford to pay cash to get them done. I agree it is a personal decision. Love your videos!

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks so much! Exactly what I was saying!

[@jjh8367]

Congrats on getting married soon! I agree. It all depends on personal goals!

[@jonnaborosky8836]

As Money Mom, at Centsible Living, says: that's why we call it PERSONAL finances. You don't have to have the same priorities as someone else. Love to you two! ❤

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks so much Jonna!! Dawn is so right!

[@tonybradshaw4716]

I've heard you say it a million times. "Our journies are all different." The goal is to save what you can when you can and be satisfied with what we have. Picking up saving tips is a bonus. Keep doing what you do. You always make my day and you bring such joy.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thank you so very much Sheila!!!

[@wendyespinosa8872]

A good friend of mine ran a church thrift shop. She found me the most beautiful Mother of the Bride dress. It was the perfect dress. It was like it was made for me. The best part was it only cost me $10.00. It was so great. I was able to have a beautiful dress, and use the money I didn’t spend toward something else for the wedding.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

YAY!! Love to hear that!

[@dianecrowther581]

My favorite clothes from thrift 🤗

[@ritalawson7020]

You got a beautiful dress for $10. Good for you. Why pay more than you have to it’s nobody else’s business anyway I had a relative who spent her money as she pleased but accused others of wasting money all because she didn’t like what they did

[@GeckoHiker]

You always need to know why you do what you do. The reason I am frugal is so that I can occasionally take a friend out for dinner and spend $100 on a great experience. The rest of the time I spend no more than $1 a day per person to eat well. We are way ahead financially and could afford to spend hundreds of dollars a month. I'd rather have a home that is paid for and no debt and no worries. It makes the occasional $100 experience much more enjoyable.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Sandra! Love this!!

[@kakelinga]

Hi Emmy and Paul. I am sorry you had that experience Emmy. You have a paid for house and live a debt free life, I think you can afford to have Dixie's nails done too. 😂 I think some people are just mean for the sake of being mean. Everyone has their own journey. I remember Dave Ramsey once said that it's your money, you deicide how you're going to spend it. If you love to eat pizza, then make an envelope for pizza. As long as you budget for something you want then there's no problem.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Exactly...long as it's part of the budget we're good to go!! Thank you!

[@Sheila-ru1iu]

Gosh don't let Dixie hear you say that, she'll be booking a manicurist who makes house calls. #divadixie

[@kakelinga]

@@Sheila-ru1iu 😂😂

[@mandifields2621]

You have taught me so much about saving money down to saving my butter wrappers. Always a rotten apple in the bunch. Stay positive! We love you and Paul.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks so much Mandi!!

[@sharonparsons9804]

Spot on! Each to their own. Decide what's important to you....as far as frugal things to do ( or not do) in your life, then just go for it.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Exactly Sharon!

[@maggiekarns9578]

I'm sorry you received that negative comment. I think a majority of your viewers totally understand your message. Don't lose sleep over it. Also, please make a cookbook! I love all of your recipes and I know you did make it easier to find things digitally but I'm an old soul who likes print copies. You're 2022 goal can be to have a cookbook published. Or, just send me all your recipes, haha. Hugs.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

LOL!! Love that Maggie! Thank you!

[@debbiemize2269]

I must also be an old soul! I am more of a paper person than digital, and love my cookbooks! Your recipes sound delicious!

[@jeannel1065]

Look at you at 16K! Congrats! I’d be pretty miffed at a person who critiqued my spending or called people hypocrites because of how they spend money. .

[@timgaretson238]

Non-frugal bury themselves in buyers remorse. Frugal people savor their saving accompliments by rewarding themselves for their frugality. I'm one of the happy people, not the remorseful. Thanks for the positive side Emmy and Paul.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Definitely! Well said!

[@lilybee_]

What?! People need to take a step back and mind their own. I think your nails are lovely and hope you're proud of them. YOUR money is your choice to spend how you see fit. My money is my choice to spend how I see fit. I'm so happy you did this video. We're putting out alot of money on long term food storage. We're doing it as insurance against inflation. We're debt free and having that security is important to us. We budgeted for it. We've sacrificed to do it. Our money, our choice :) Thank you Emmy! It's definately a very personal journey.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks Lilybee! You said it well!!

[@michellesmith6829]

So sorry someone did that to you when all you ever do is spread joy and encouragement! Just know there are lots of us out here who love and appreciate you. I say “Less criticism, more connection “

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Michelle thank you!!

[@eileenpalumbo6578]

You are absolutely right. Today more and more people judge folks and offer their opinions when years ago it would of been thought rude and in poor taste. People are loosing their manners.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks Eileen!

[@christophervogt7456]

How dare anyone judge my dear friend! Your nails do look "mahvelous" though! Lol! No one has ever judged me for spending on anything and honestly, it's none of anyone's business. Thank you for always being encouraging Emmy! Sorry you have to deal with nasty comments from time to time. Oh, that little Miss DixieBelle! So cuddly under the blankets. 🤗 I love that those delicious looking chicken patties were Paul approved. You make me smile!

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks so much Chris! It's all good! It actually inspired a great video...funny isn't it lol!! Give those babies of yours some love from Aunt Emmy!!

[@maryosorio1085]

I have a self-care tap on my budget, for me having a pedicure & my eyebrows done is "self-care" but I have done my own manicure since I was a teenager (I'm turning 65 this month). By the way, my self-care budget is $35 a month (including tips). I Know that's cheaper than most states but if you shop around you too may find an amazing little shop where you are.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Exactly right! Good for you!

[@dianeb7420]

Emmy & Paul, you are both a ray of Sunshine! 🍁🦃🙏💕

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Diane that is so kind! Thank you!

[@Sheila-ru1iu]

Frirnds, you shared that message so beautifully. Thank you for all you share with us. You are appreciated. 💟 Yes I have been told I shouldn't be paying for a landscaper to mow the grass. Whateverrrrr...I am 58 years old, single, have a huge lawn (that I love and enjoy) and work 65 hours a week.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Yup! Exactly what I'm talking about!

[@bobandlucas]

You're absolutely right. We do ourselves. I keep my nails short not to save money but it's just practical. In college I roomed with an Avon Girl and it was sooooo much fun to paint our nails with funky colours. Pink Red green purple brown black etc etc At 18 it's cute but it takes a lot of work to maintain so now they are short without polish.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks for being here!

[@deborahd5519]

There will always be haters and complainers. They usually aren't happy unless they are miserable to others. You and Paul are an amazing couple and bring us so much joy with your videos. Keep up the great work both of you! ❤

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks so much Deborah!

[@rajxyz8894]

I give you credit for explaining to people how to respect others decisions

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Absolutely! Thank you!

[@dianvandevyver5729]

You are absolutely right Emmy ! Everyone has their own financial journey and priorities. I don't have a budget for nails, hair saloon, new clothes/ shoes (I use what I have already in my closet) . But I budget for holidays, travelling, home beautification (lol, I want to make home as the best place for my soul) , and I'm in a project to buy my dream bag in 2022. Love from France !

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Love that!! Good for you!

[@catinacheatwood3084]

Amen!! This is why I love ya'll channel because you keep it real 💯 People need to DO THEM not OTHERS... Have a blessed day❤

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Exactly Catina!

[@zickafoose]

One of my unpopular priorities amongst frugal folks is to eat out. I budget myself $100. monthly for eating at my favorite restaurants. I love eating out with family and friends a couple times per month. It’s definitely a highlight in my life. Also, the restaurant industry is a backbone in our local economy and I want to lend my support. Love your channel.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Good for you Starr!! Be true to who you are!! Thank you!

[@gailmiller6333]

Excellent video. As you rightly state, “ everybody’s journey is different.” Ignore negative commenters, because even after this video, they will still post something negative and or insulting. It’s what gives them “joy,” going from channel to channel spreading a mean spirit. Personally, for comments of that nature I would ignore, delete, and block if necessary. They are not going to change, it’s what they do, give them no platform. Love your channel,very informative and refreshing. God bless you both.✌🏿

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

God bless you as well! Thank you!

[@katymonsour8369]

Love love love your mindset on priorities...cut back on stuff not important to have funds for what means to you...just seeing your beautiful face and hearing your encouragement I am at such peace...and DO feel so blessed..by you..love da nails!🤗🤗

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Katy thank you so much! How very kind of you!!

[@gabriellemedeiros3161]

Such a positive outlook Emmy!

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks so much!

[@myrahaner942]

Such a wonderful topic Emmy! Thank you! I dealt with this recently. I had made a thoughtful decision along with my husband to finally start saving for a new sewing machine, mind the word "saving". Several people close to me thought it was outrageous, why? Because the machine is a 1,300.00 machine. Yes it is a lot of money. However unless they are me, they truly can not understand. I don't spend on so many other things. But I have a hobby of sewing. And I love it! I sew for my family, mend, make gifts for almost all birthdays and holidays. I am also able to bring in additional income if needed. I reached a point where I desired a higher end machine to match my advanced sewing skills and projects. And no, it's not a "necessity". It really is about personal priorities and it is just not the same person to person. Frugality does not mean you do not ever get to spend on something that is simply wanted. It means financial freedom to choose what is important to you and what is not. P.S. I loved the potato puffs! Looking forward to trying the chicken patties.

[@tugboatgirl1296]

Those people commenting about the cost should be shamed. They obviously don’t know your love of sewing and that you are frugal in the sense of spending your money for something special and meaningful in your life. ❤️ Hope you get it have gotten your new machine so that it can start sewing. I too love sewing and crafts. My mom (RIP) years ago bought and gave me a Bernina which I thought was soooo pricey but I’ve made and gifted many thing on it. Plus my mom’s right there beside me Remember that those people are probably ones who spent frivolously on things you do not. 😀

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Oh how wonderful! A new sewing machine! Good for you!! Enjoy!

[@deborahlewis3954]

WOWZA! I think that person missed something in your message - obviously not REALLY listening to you! I have always understood your message - do what works best for you and your own circumstances - personal choices. You handled this very well!

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thank you Deborah!

[@allisonmodaff5635]

This may be my favorite video yet! I always say, “I’m frugal 90% of this time so that 10% of the time I don’t have to be.” I went to Vegas for the first time this year....got a cheap flight and packed all of my own snacks, but stayed in a very nice hotel and paid for awesome tours of the Grand Canyon and Hoover Dam. It’s all about personal preferences and priorities!

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Love that! Seriously! That is exactly what I'm talking about!

[@tonifloerchinger3462]

On my journey, I have discovered that some things bring us such joy we continue to buy them. Such is my Licorice Mint Tea with the message on the tea bag tag . It costs 3 cents a cup and is so refreshing., and I love the message with each cup I drink. Do the nails, drink the tea, and eat the cake.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

AMEN!!! Thank you!

[@glendagonzalez2469]

So true. I can remember countless times when I've "judged". For example I saw a mom wearing an apple watch and YSL purse let her child's mosquito bites get super red and swollen because she knew she had a tube of ointment somewhere in her house and she wasn't going to waste money by buying another. She eventually found the ointment, by then she had ordered take out, gotten her nails done etc, but having duplicates of the ointment was wasteful and unthinkable for her.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks for sharing Glenda!

[@janetrichardson2644]

Being frugal means prioritizing your spending not having your life being devoid of joy.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Exactly! Thank you!

[@ellefson1]

You're both such lovely people - thank you for sharing that inspiring message. I'm sorry you got some snark, people can be lame! Also, Paul is 100% correct about the cheese!!!!!

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thank you so much! LOL!! Paul is the best!

[@ttu888didfitrhondavigil8]

We started Dave Ramsey 4 or 5 years ago. Lots of people had there opinions on it. We just kept pushing through the steps. Debt free and mortgage free. Retiring very early. No need to answer to the negativity. Our actions speak for themselves.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Absolutely right! Thanks!

[@stepha.7658]

🎉 congrats

[@Babba08]

A rainbow and fall colors! I love it! Yep, everyone's frugal life is different. We all have our own priorities. But I also have to work on not judging other people's purchasing choices. Their life is their life and our life is our life. The chicken patties look delicious. I think I'll remember that the next time I have left over chicken.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks for being here Barbara!

[@kaelaleedaley]

Personal Finance is exactly what it says it is, PERSONAL! I feel so sad for the person who felt they needed to leave that comment, I pray that The LORD blesses them and gives them a double portion of peace and grace in their life. When you have been shown so much love and grace, it's impossible not to share that with others - just as you two do! I love your channel, keep shining your light in the darkness xx

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thank you!

[@tammylynn5238]

Amen Sister!!!! Everyone is singing from the same hymnal, we might just be on different songs. It really amazes me the things that people feel free to say lol You watch a video and you take what you like and leave what you don’t. I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL!!! You and Paul do a fantastic job and helping so so many!!! Much love and blessings ♥️♥️🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks so very much Tammy!!

[@joycegonzales4994]

We aren’t the only one who try on the clothes in a store, so I love quality gently used clothes, versus cheap new items.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Oh me too Joyce!

[@Jusmom1]

That person was a TROLL. Frugality is saving money here to spend it there on something you value! Stay the way you are! I just found you and I am SO thankful for you! My husband and I are mortgage free, debt free and moved into our retirement house in November. It is now time for us to rethink our new priorities as retirees and you are my guiding light in the journey. Thank you!

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Yes! Thank you! So happy you found us!

[@barbaracarbone4658]

It is completely right for the baby to sleep under the covers!! 😊 ... Great video. I've had comments kind of like that. From my family! Lol. Peeps think frugality means never spending any money on yourself. Lol. They actually judge and think they have the right to decide what we can and shouldn't buy. I say I budgeted for it. Then I'll say tend to your own business. Statements like that are meant to "catch you" to prove we're not frugal. Sometimes I feel maybe they're a little jealous that they're not as in control of their money. .. Thanks for a great chicken recipe! Looked SOOOOO good.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Great comment Barbara! I agree totally! Thank you!

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Yep, it’s toxic frugality. It’s like a race to the bottom of the frugality bucket. How dare you have nice hair clothes, nails….and thank you for addressing this. You look gorgeous Emmy, you take pride in your appearance. Lots of love to you and Paul for addressing priorities.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

You are so kind! Thank you sincerely!!

[@morrisapruett2118]

Thank you for this video. Me and my husband choose to RV. We love every minute of it. I make my own detergent and hang out my clothes, don’t use paper products, etc.., all to allow us to enjoy our RV. We get some some looks about our choices, especially from family members who call me “cheap”.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

So smart! Thanks!

[@mae9064]

The ‘cheap’ jibe is borne out of jealousy. Enjoy your RV and live life to the full.

[@jackieburnett6881]

Shame on any individual who will say negative things of that nature! You have always made it clear that everyone’s finically home style is different which including likes and dislikes!! So do not give it another thought! I love your videos!! Ty for y’all all your tips

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks so much Jackie!!

[@mrs22A]

HI Emmy and Paul, One thing I have learned in my life is never to assume something of someone. You don't know the story behind the situation. And it is truly no one's concern. You handled this so beautifully.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Oh thanks so very much Tammy!

[@francismacdonald4569]

Hi, I love your channel. I’m not frugal but I am definitely benefiting from watching you and a few others. I kind of thought that frugality was making better financial choices. For Things like Early retirement or vacations or maybe those things we enjoy like Having your nails done or Starbucks every now and then….whatever. I’m sorry that individual questioned those lovely nails! You and Paul are awesome and I learn something new every week! Thank you so much🙂 Debby In NS

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Debby thank you for the kind and thoughtful comment!

[@Janice_1979_]

I only do 2 pedicures a year, in the summer. I do my own nails too. People always ask me do you get your nails done every week. I say no because I do them myself. I like to change my polish colour every week, big deal. I love what you guys are saying, I’m learning so much from you both. Some people like different things, who cares. Keep doing these videos, please.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Good for you! I love to change my colors too!! Thank you!!

[@ashleywitzman289]

Frugal doesn’t mean not being able to enjoy life🙂People get to hung up on every little thing!To me being frugal is knowing how to put your money where you most need it and save the rest and have a little for your enjoyment👍Great video😉

[@stepha.7658]

Exactly 👏👏

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Ashley exactly!

[@karinklapproth866]

Great video!! We do make our own decisions and prioritize within our budget. Take care🦋💗

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Yes! Thank you!

[@leanefortune4024]

Like you and Paul, we are retired and debt free. I love fashion, my husband loves books, so each month we budget for a little fund each to indulge our passions. It's such fun! Love your channel and your recipes. You are so uplifting! Your nails are beautiful.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Love that! Exactly how to do it!

[@kevlarrabbit5732]

You and Paul are so encouraging to others and I hope the comment about your nails did not upset you too much! By the way, they look beautiful so well done to you! I have already fallen off the no spend wagon because of going into thrift stores! Plus all the lovely Christmas decorations in the shops at the moment! I am now firmly back on the challenge! I may need to stay home and just bake or something instead!

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

LOL!! I know what you mean! I just thought I need a new white cotton shower curtain liner...then I'm like nah I'll just bleach it!

[@sandraschellhase8732]

The manner in which frugality is practiced by individuals is subjective. There is no room for people to impose their interpretation upon others. We as individuals structure this principle in a manner that reflects our own needs & goals not those of others. It is our role to support not judge.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Love that!! Support don't judge!

[@carolmapp7113]

At any time you can "treat" yourself and get your nails done! I don't spend money on manicures or pedicures on a regular bases. Put sometimes I will treat myself on special occasion.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Definitely! That's why we are frugal!

[@helenmak5663]

Love that I can make the chicken patties in the oven. It will taste good with Trader Joe’s Thai chili sweet sauce, serve with Jasmin rice and green beans.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Perfect!! Sounds like an amazing meal!

[@myhillsidegarden3998]

You are such a positive person, and are always encouraging, not shaming. Shame on that viewer for not listening to the whole context. Keep doing what you are doing. Some people only need to complain. Enjoy your day, be safe and stay well. Catherine

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks so much Catherine! You as well!

[@aliliveswellonless]

Hi from Scotland! Great message! I see lots of judging on frugal habits. I get a few comments about buying organic produce but I don't buy any meat or big brand names. You are so right to say you have to do YOU! :-)

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks for sharing! You are correct!

[@deepabahadur9164]

Good morning and love from India, actually I too had noticed your beautiful nails,but the first thought that had crossed my mind was ,how artistic you were to create and decorate your nails.I too make chicken patty,and I first boil chicken along with little bit of salt in crockpot and later after cooling that shred it to which Iix very finely chopped onion,garlic and ginger and egg( for binding effect ) and maje exactly the same type as you have made. Yes nobody has the right to judge anyone,and it is everyone's different priority that guides their frugality. We are celebrating our Festival of light called Diwali.So like Christmas we too exchange gifts and generally people go crazy on gifts,but you had suggested in one of tbe recent videos,we are gifting sweets etc,made by my daughter at home.Much love to Dixie darling

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Oh Deepa I am going to Google your Diwali festival to learn about it! Thank you for always being so kind and gracious!

[@elizaC3024]

Can I get a resounding AMEN, AND AN ALLELUIA!! I have gotten the same thing over choices in our life and yes it is frustrating. We have gotten better at letting it roll off. We choose joy!

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

YES! Love Joy!

[@barbarabarber4485]

You are so real and upfront! I cant believe someone said that! We need to feel sorry for that person. She obviously is a critical perhaps unhappy person. I always think perhaps life has not been kind to her!

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

No worries! We don't let it bother us LOL!

[@rebeccapitschmann5427]

Thank you for making this video. I think I needed to hear this. I do not want to catch myself in judgement of others or them of me. I do remember thinking about a week ago, "Wow, her nails are so nice!"

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

So glad it was helpful! Thank you!

[@carolinebenwell7625]

Thank you Emmy for sharing that with us. You owe no explanation for your personal journey. You offer such wonderful, warm and positive ideas to help others. You deserve yout own treat. We all need those. Take care of each other like you do and blessings to you and Paul. Xxx

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks so much!

[@myrtlelester383]

Hi Emmy: While watching this a notice came up from another KZbin channel I sometimes watch that might interest you. It is called Frugal Queen in France. They are mid 50's, early retirement, debt and mortgage free couple from United Kingdom now living in France. The episode I just watched was shown on October 13, 2021 on this same topic. The similarities between both your channels is amazing and I so enjoy both of you.Thanks for all you do.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks. I believe she talked about frugal shaming. Not people judging you for spending.

[@judithscharf6318]

My mother had this problem. She had a cleaning person. Her sister-in-law used to bash her all the time about how that money could be spent elsewhere. It was none of her business! My mother budgeted and cut out in other areas. She also went to the beauty parlor once a week to do her hair and nails. It made her feel good, and they had the money to do it. I do go to the salon to have my hair cut. I color my hair, do my own nails and feet, clean my own house and wash my own car. My mother thought I was too frugal and said so. I reminded her of how she felt when her sister in law did the same thing to her, and she stopped. My mother is long gone. She made the right decisions for her.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

You are absolutely right! Well said Judith!

[@jomoore2510]

I feel like I just left a PEP rally❤ Way to go Emily!! Our family chooses to live frugally. Our goal is always a significant vacation experience. And people, from time to time, comment on this choice and pass judgement. But "we DO stay strong!" thanks for your encouragement!

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

YAY! We enjoy vacations as well!

[@bonnie8522]

Emmy, you are absolutely right!! Also, I am so happy to find a frugal spending channel that incorporates meat in their diet! Thank you for sharing!

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Oh yes we eat meat lol!!

[@marykelly4680]

Well said.personal finance is personal Loved the rainbow in the intro🌈🌈

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks Mary!

[@rogettesteele5322]

Love that both are so positive. Thanks to you I am really trying zero food waste. Another idea I learned from your channel is to freeze fruits and vegetables that are cut up to ensure I will use later. You food creativity is enjoyable. Always enjoy your videos. Please feature Paul's parents and Dixiebelle in upcoming videos. As to the negative comments about your nails, it is there their problem. Keep up your wonderful videos.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks so much! We will be giving an update on Paul's parents soon!

[@raethibodeau9604]

You handled that very well. I haven't had anyone shame me for spending money. Most of my family and friends are more interested in how I do it. I guess my frugal journey isn't as public as yours. Keep doing what you are doing. You and Paul seem very happy with your journey.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Yes, that's the issue I think. We are so public lol!

[@marynienhouse6143]

This was so needed! I just mentioned to my husband this morning, I’m so surprised by how negative people can be when the are behind their computers. Kindness is critical on this journey if we are all going to succeed. You are spot on! None of our journeys are the same. If they were, we would probably never learn anything new! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for shining a light on this. It’s cold, Dixie should be tucked in ❤️

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

LOL! Dixie agrees! Thanks Mary!

[@susanfrench2245]

Wow! You did such a great job on your nails that the person thought it was professionally done! What a compliment!

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thank you so much!

[@morningswithgranny7789]

Hello my friend. You are right , everyone's priorities and circumstances are different. I look at it this way, when you start paying my bills then you can dictate where the money goes.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

GRANNY!!! Love to hear from you my dear friend! You are exactly right! Thank you!

[@laurie5098]

That is a compliment to you if someone is accusing you of doing your nails professionally when you don't! I have to be careful not to criticize someone for spending on something I see as a waste of money because I spend where others would not. And I consider myself frugal too! Everyone's frugal journey is different, like you have said many times. There are places that I don't spend so I can spend in other ways. Right now, my son and his wife are 15 hours away. There is no getting around traveling, but we cut cost where we can when we travel and we live a little tighter on the home front so we can have the money to go see them. Someone might criticize me for not going out to eat or spending money some other way but they see me go on these trips to Virginia to see my son. It's like eating a candy bar and drinking a diet drink with it. We sacrifice in one area in order to be able to do something else!

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Love the diet soda analogy!! You got it! Thank you Laurie!

[@maraujo600]

Great video. I look at it this way. Lol it's like a frugal quilt. You are giving us a pattern to follow but we choose the fabric. My fabric might include manicures and good wine. Someone else's might include good sheets and quality coffee.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Exactly Melissa! Perfectly said! Thanks!

[@stepha.7658]

We are camping this week for my birthday 🥳 and I’m super happy to watch a video from you!! I returned stuff this week again. Brand new that I had never used. I was going to purchase a dehumidifier for our camper and after seeing the prices we decided to just get a damp rid instead 😂

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

First off HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! YAY!! Have a wonderful trip!! Great job on the returns!!

[@janetrichardson2644]

I remember a work friend calling me out at lunch about the amount I spent getting my hair cut and colored on a regular basis. I was always so frugal with our housing, food and clothing budget. We saved for cars and vacations. I didn’t get my nails done but it was important to me to have my hair done. I accounted for that. It hurt my feelings and she berated me in front of others, I lashed out. How dare she criticize me, she had her nails done every two weeks which by my estimation she was spending almost as much as I was on my hair plus she always went to all the country music concerts that came to town. Which by her own admission she spent a fortune on every concert season. I may have made my point but we were never that friendly after that. I did apologize to her but I it was never the same.

[@tugboatgirl1296]

Glad you said your piece right then and there. She was absolutely rude and out of place to criticize and judge you. Probably jealous. Better you stay away from people like that. People like that like to berate others because they are really unhappy themselves

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Oh I'm sorry Janet! Thanks for sharing that!

[@vstrut4752]

Thank you for pointing out that we all have different priorities. I recently made the choice to reduce the number of times I get my nails done professionally. I used to go every 2 weeks and now I go once a month. I choose to stop shopping at Macy’s and instead shop at Thredup. It’s all working out for ME. Good message Emy and Paul.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Excellent! So mart!! Thanks for sharing!

[@vickiescholl9453]

You two are amazing. Don't let the haters get to you. They are just wishing they were where you are.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

LOL! Thanks Vickie!

[@bex438]

Hey Emmy and Paul, you've always stressed to do what's right for you when budgeting a everyones lives are different and as Dawn at Money Mom says that's why it's called personal finance. All I thought when I saw your nails in the last video and this one was how great they look! Those chicken patties looked delicious too and I had to laugh at Dixie being under the covers at the end of the video 🐶 No it's not wrong, I don't just let my cats stay where they are, I tuck them in as well if they're on the bed or sofa 😉😻❤

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Love how you love your fur babies Bex!! Yes nail tutorial coming soon!

[@gerigowers8318]

Funny that the person asked about your nails and then presumed the answer. You've stated many times what an individual journey this is and you are sharing your information and experiences (and your recipes).

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks so much Geri!

[@donnadarling2590]

Love your positive messages! We also have to be careful of not judging others since we may not know all the facts. Maybe you will receive a manicure gift card for this Christmas and enjoy your beautiful nails.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Oh that's sweet Donna! It's not that we can't afford it...we just choose to spend the money on something different!

[@stepha.7658]

Oh and I also deleted a whole qvc cart of over $100. Didn’t buy anything after watching your video about non essentials. Thank you 🙏

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

YAY!!! Stephanie I am so proud of you!!

[@---Joy---]

Great video, as always and I just have to thank you for extending God's wisdom and grace in response to the (anonymous person's) manicure comment. I know so many people/believers who would've been offended and reacted and the negative comments would've been pouring in. Such is the nature of the social media beast. Your response is exactly what it means to be the light (and the salt) in a world covered w/ darkness. GBU both, Paul & Emmy! 🌻

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thank you so much Joy!! That means so much!

[@imsewblessed1578]

Amen Emmy and Paul. I couldn’t agree more. I definitely have been judged many times and put down for things I’ve bought.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Ugh! So sad!

[@Spot4art]

Dixie is adorable and well loved as it should be.❤️

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

She is beyond loved lol!

[@kimhawkins]

I LOVE your zero food waste videos! And I really appreciate you, your message, and your channel. Thank you!

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks so much Kim!

[@Chellascommoncents]

Thanks again for another great video. Great reminder for all of us. Blessings to you all!😊

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thank you!

[@edithjohnson6835]

I can’t believe that person said that to you! I agree with everything you say! Please don’t like someone like that influence your life!

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

No worries!! I wouldn't!

[@lisamanser4448]

You keep doing what you do! Your true fans know what you mean by personal journey and you both are as authentic as they come. ❤️

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks Lisa!

[@susanrobinson408]

Yes! Everyone has different needs and wants. Emmy, can you share what you use on your cabinets? They look so beautiful!!

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks so much Susan! Murphy's oil soap to clean it.

[@lynnegordon6749]

@@FrugalMoneySaver Murphy's oil soap is great.

[@katmarie128]

Dixie is so precious!! I love your channel. Thank you for your joy & truth!!!

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks so much for the encouragement!

[@kellyshults6590]

Great video and message! I really appreciate how positive you both are! I love your spirit and humility! I am always learning with you both!

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks so much for the kind words Kelly!

[@kmkackle9524]

Excellent video today be well be safe

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks, you too!

[@lilalavendel3951]

My sweet dear Emmy and Paul ❤, there will always be people who don't understand our way. I totally agree with you! YOUR tips have teached me to build a budget and stick to it. And now I sometimes can afford some little, very little things that are important for me, but may seem unimportant to other. Here is what I mean: I bought a really nice branded notebook to write down YOUR tips and challenges. For me it is very important AND I have budgeted for it. By the way: Your recipe.....oh my goodness❤❤. I wish you a wonderful and blessed day. Your Sabrina ( with a new picture😉)

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Love your new picture Sabrina!! YAY!! A new notebook! I love any kind of writing journals as well! Thank you for being such a lovely friend!

[@lilalavendel3951]

@@FrugalMoneySaver Thank YOU to be a part of your frugal family.❤

[@deanabarnes2957]

You all always encourage me. Thank you for doing these videos for us. Yes it has happened to me and I just look the other way. Someone is always going to say something. Have a very blessed day and rest of week. 🤗

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

So smart to look the other way Deana!

[@dixiejones6800]

Congratulations on 16K subscribers! 🥳

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

YAY!! Thank you Dixie!

[@carollandrum678]

I love your channel! Y'all are honest and real. I value your ideas and always look forward to your new videos.

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thank you so much Carol!

[@maryhull531]

Another great video Emmy and another great recipe . A very easy put together meal . Sending you hugs and blessings from Melbourne Australia .

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks so much! 😊

[@amberlyons6161]

Loved this! The delivery of this was perfect too! Well done xx

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Thanks so much Amber!

[@dawncleaveley4875]

We don't know what anyone else is dealing with, what their lives are like... and if, like you said... whatever is YOUR priority and yes during my journey I have caught myself being Judge Judy...and have had to have a talk to myself about it... thank you for reminding us to just take a step back and applaude these ppl for what they ARE accomplishing not how we think they should be getting their... I am too going to jump on the no/low spent Nov... as always thank you both (and Dixie) for your tips and direction... I have a HUGE goal that I will achieve by the 1st of the year... a no/low mth is just what I need... ❤❤❤

[@dawncleaveley4875]

Also know that I watch every one of your vids...just most times I don't comment...but when I do....lololol

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

Dawn you are always so kind! Thank you for all your support!

[@pamlatulippe8665]

I loved the picture of Dixie at the end my cat sleeps like that when he’s cold

[@FrugalMoneySaver]

She is so darn spoiled lol!