How do Orthodox Jews Party | 5 Things You Will Need to Make a Successful Orthodox Jewish Party

[@T_WC123]

I love the part about the dancing being inclusive - “if you can walk you can dance” - it’s so much better than when people are too self-conscious to participate and miss out. Love learning everything in this beautiful video!

[@frumitup]

i am so happy you picked up on that! because it is a big thing in Jewish weddings for everyone to be able to rejoice the bride and groom !

[@ashleyhazlehurst9593]

This is also what stayed with me out of everything, the inclusivity and unity! I'm autistic and parties growing up were a terrifying occasion because of all the social cues I would undoubtedly miss, this kind of party looks a lot less overwhelming even though there is way more action! 😅

[@ellenwheeler2031]

I love Jewish parties.

[@susanborsky9436]

And if you are paralyzed and can't walk, you are included in the dancing anyway, no one asks "can you dance?" but just adapts to include you in the most natural way, and I'm not even Jewish!

[@be.A.b]

I’m afraid to dance in public due to getting ridiculed by friends and family as a child lol. I guess It’s supposed to encourage you to be less goofy? Too bad not everyone is interested in acing “how to dance,” some people just want to feel the music lol

[@karenmills5084]

I grew up on Long Island, NY, so at a Catholic wedding reception, we danced the Hora. At a Protestant wedding reception, we danced the Hora. At any party with live music, we usually danced the Hora sometime during the festivities! We baby boomers danced in Conga lines, did the Hokey Pokey and the bunny hop, might have attempted a polka, and then ended the dancing with the Hora. Great memories!

[@MAMRetro]

What’s a hora?

[@Shoshi2048]

@@MAMRetro What Is the Hora Dance? The hora is a traditional dance performed at Jewish weddings where the newlyweds are lifted into the air while their family and friends dance in circles around them. During the hora, the couple each holds one end of a handkerchief or napkin to signify their union.

[@MayimHastings]

Happy Mother’s Day to all of the moms here - you are absolute legends! 💖🙏🕊

[@frumitup]

thank you Boo xoxoxo

[@lisastess3447]

Thank you

[@MayimHastings]

@@frumitup 🥰🤗

[@MayimHastings]

@@lisastess3447 💝🙌

[@rayskitten78]

Not mother's day here in the uk

[@Cherryvanilla27]

You are so gifted and talented! You bring nachas! My family abandoned “religion” when they left Germany. We had no rituals no ceremonies. You give me all I never had. ❤

[@frumitup]

Aww🥹🥹🥹 I am happy you can find here something you need ❤️ I feel very very blessed

[@Ildikoprepperkitchen]

Sara is a fantastic storyteller and creator. I am amazed by every video I watch.

[@dianestafford6968]

Ditto

[@jamestheiss256]

Dancing in unity is truly special.

[@bernadineh7107]

thank you for even considering a tour/explanation of a Synagogue. It would be so useful for a reminder for those of us here that are not Jewish let alone orthodox but want to learn about practices for our Jewish friends and colleagues

[@Redrosewitch]

I watched the tour a few days earlier than this one. It's excellent.

[@robertabray-enhus3198]

I love Jewish party! My word,all that wonderful food,and the dancing! I like the idea of partying separately too!

[@sandydugenske299]

I love Jewish parties!! I noticed that at most of my family's parties (weddings, anniversary etc) most of the women get together and the men get together in their own groups. It was not required, but they just gravitated to their groups. The women to talk about babies, children, older relatives who could no longer come and of course men. The men would talk about cars, work, hunting or fishing and of course women lol. On the way home my parents would talk about the things they had heard or learned from others and I'm not sure what else because us kids would eventually fall asleep. I think that happens alot with other people, that just must be universal. But I love learning about your culture. I've always been interested in the Jewish culture and now, with you, I can explore to my hearts content. Thank you and so glad your back!!

[@trisharaichatterjee2578]

This whole party hall and the traditions that are associated with it by proxy are so deep and meaningful. It's truly a beautiful thing to witness and by proxy, I am also in a festive mood.

[@frumitup]

I am so happy you enjoyed it Trisha❤️❤️❤️

[@jacccaro]

I wasn’t taught about the rich and meaningful heritage of the Jewish people while growing up. I am Jewish by birth, and your videos have taught me so much about our people. I absolutely enjoy every moment of your videos, and I have learned so much. Thank you! And I would love for you to create a video about the interior of your Synagogue. Beautiful blessings to you and your family! 💞

[@mariakoufalis1487]

All our Greek Orthodox dancing at celebrations also include us holding hands or intertwining our arms. It creates a sense of unity and inclusivity.

[@LastEnchantment]

My sister-in-law is Greek Orthodox; one of my FAVORITE memories of her & my brother's wedding/reception was the Dance of 12 Steps (I'm sorry, I can't remember the Greek name) & how it became a wild conga line situation by the end. What a wonderful tradition!

[@mariakoufalis1487]

@@LastEnchantment Aww, what a great memory. The dancing at Greek weddings is right up there with the food. Do you ever get to have some Greek dishes from your sister in law?

[@iskandertime747]

I love Jewish party! The food, the dancing!

[@joyfulbites]

I love Jewish party ❤

[@angelalong6740]

I would love to see the Synagogue. I heard they were beautiful but never seen one. Thank you for everything you shown us. God bless you and your family ❤️🙏

[@kristinesharp6286]

Around 2016 I found on KZbin orthodox Jewish wedding videos and I have to say they lifted my spirits I have never seen such joy.

[@frumitup]

I hope you will like this party too! ;)

[@SusanNachman]

I love how clearly you present things to your viewers. So inspiring 👏👏👏

[@giraffesinc.2193]

Agreed! If I wasn't Catholic I would convert ... what a beautiful lifestyle!

[@eily_b]

I always get hungry when I see your glorius Challah's. So perfect.

[@firebird189]

We are Catholic and we were so blessed to send our son to pre-school at a Jewish Community Center for 2 years. We learned so much about the many Jewish festivals. His favorite was Sukkot!

[@stormleal4613]

I'm Catholic as well, & our church invited our neighbors from the synagogue to our parish to share a Seder with us so we could learn more about how G-d's chosen people carry on their traditions. It helped to bring our faith communities closer as neighbors, it helped us understand them better, we were able to share how we, as Catholics, view the Jewish community, & it was a great way to remind ourselves that Jesus was an observant Jew. I think that is forgotten WAAAY to often in the Christian world!

[@jendyson6729]

I am Catholic as well and was taught that Jews are God's chosen people and to have the utmost respect for our Jewish brothers and sisters. 😀

[@stormleal4613]

@@jendyson6729 Me too!

[@martystamper6558]

I love Jewish Party! Love the fun dancing , bringing joy and including the children 🎉🥳

[@purplegem23]

​i went from christian fundamentalism to atheist, so I don't know quite how I ended up here, but your videos are so interesting and your voice is calming 🙂 love to you and yours x

[@frumitup]

you are so welcome to come sweetie in this same place:) Please let me know if you have any questions! xoxoxo

[@karenjohnson5634]

I am just a regular Christian 😂and this is a nice place to be (visiting this channel). Sara is so sweet and the videos are beautiful!

[@Kerryjotx]

Maybe you are drawn here for a reason. I converted (Conservative Judaism) and it feels like it was always meant to be for me. I learn every time I see these videos.

[@SusanNachman]

We are drawn to people and places we know (even on a subconscious soul level) that are warm, safe and comforting. It doesn't matter what religion or philosophy you believe in. Sara Malka has given everyone a place where they are welcomed, loved and not judged. Watching her vlogs is like wrapping a warm, fleece blanket around us.

[@mic8952]

I love Jewish Party! I learn so much about all of the wonderful prayers and why Jewish Women say them. You are delightful! Thank you.

[@potcake10]

I love Jewish Parties. And I especially love your explanations. I grew up obeserving but not understanding why. It is nice, as a 67 yr old woman to now understand why my parents and family did things the way they did. My parents are from Morocco and my In laws are from the UK, so many differences, and a lot the same. Be well and so glad you are back! :)

[@frumitup]

i am so so happy the video could help you sweet JL! shavua tov :)

[@lindarumbelow3166]

I love Jewish Party! My favorite part was the importance of JOY!! We get so wrapped up in our busy lives and it's so easy to forget to enjoy ourselves!

[@frumitup]

I am like you Linda Joy is the most import!!

[@Tinkerbell31326]

I love Jewish parties. I think the separation is a great idea. I also like what you said about dancing. If you can walk, you can dance. No one feels awkward or left out. That is beautiful.

[@BrendaBeiter-q5f]

I love Jewish party. Bless you and your family. ❤

[@Daphattack]

Happy Mother’s Day to every one! Sara I am not Jewish but in my Latin culture we gravitate during parties to hang out women with women and men with men. Its not a rule but it just happens, at least in my family and I LOVE IT TOO. It really is fun just to catch up with all the ladies in the family and yes, I party gossip with my hubby too afterward 😂❤ **edit** how hilarious would it be to look up and see a Dino head dancing on the other side 😂😂 epic.

[@frumitup]

hihihhii! yes the after party in the car is always "colorful " as we relate all the stories of what happened where with whom on the men and women sides!!!

[@abigailphoenixthepaperaddi2501]

I think that has to be one of the best parts of a party where it's separated like this... the after-party discussion is going to be interesting because you each had different experiences. That dino head was the best. I don't think I would have been able to stop giggling.

[@karentucker2161]

Same thing at my church...we just gravitate in to groups cause we always got to talk

[@JACKSON-mj6zs]

At 6:16…”we will connect the physical world with the spiritual world “ ❤❤❤

[@Celticgirl81]

I loved seeing the physical differences/needs in the building! Like the sinks in the hall. Yes please do a tour of anything you think is interesting ❤️ I love Jewish parties 😊

[@frumitup]

thank you so so much Cheryl!

[@rheakotfis8048]

I would love to see a tour ! Thanks again for this weeks video.

[@patevans3709]

My favorite part of a Jewish party--Being sure that every activity/event is inclusive, regardless of age or physical ability! That in itself will bring JOY and happiness. It also lets children know they are valued, and they learn to communicate with all ages!

[@jaimie4011]

Happy Mother’s Day. “I love Jewish parties” would love to see a tour of synagogue!

[@bluebethlehem]

I love Jewish Party. My favorite part of the video was the Women and girls having fun and getting to talk with each other.

[@ashextraordinaire]

Purim parties are THE BEST! Happy Mother's Day!!!

[@frumitup]

i love purim parties too Ash! Have a blessed day! xoxox

[@Redrosewitch]

I Love Jewish Parties. The group dancing is a wonderful tradition. Much less chance of feeling self conscious and not knowing how to move, when everyone is holding hands and doing the same steps together.

[@carolynloyacanofilby418]

Happy Mommys Day. I love the socializing the most.

[@frumitup]

me too! and the food LOOLLLL!!!!!!

[@fzfamilyhomestead]

I love Jewish party. My favorite thing was the dancing all together to bring joy and that no one feels left out. I’m Christian & I have been watching some of your videos and I find them very interesting. Thanks for sharing.

[@Cazzyvid]

I love to listen to you I find your kind gentle voice so reassuring ,I’m not Jewish but I love your customs ,the best bit is bringing joy and the inclusion when dancing.Thank you for sharing.Happy Mother’s Day from the UK

[@jeannestark6293]

Clearwater Florida here. I’m Catholic but my great grandfather on my dad side 0:43 was Jewish we have a very mixed family. I deeply respect you guys

[@KellieOtero]

I loved learned about Jewish parties! You bring so much joy learning about your culture and way of life. I especially love how you end each video. I don’t hear it enough (by myself) and it reminds me to do it more. Thank-you for being a voice of good and uplifting messages on a platform!

[@lorettabrown3005]

I love Jewish party! HaShem bless you !

[@Angayasse]

I have learnt more about your religious community from your channel than from anywhere else ither in school, university or reading articles. I do not consider myself religious but I deeply respect all religions and I think your teaching work is very important. I wish i could see a similar channel with Muslim and other contents!

[@Angayasse]

@@lkriticos7619 Yes I love that channel and watch often! Also Esoterica and Religionforbreakfast. What I was thinking about above, is a channel like frum it up, just for Muslims and other religions, so the everyday life explained, the religious rules as they are lived (for example I learnt feom Muslim friends that you shall never put the Quran on the ground) so theae things. Would love to learn more:)

[@frumitup]

Awwww thank you so so much for your kind words Angayasse❤️ they touched my heart and soul so much ❤️❤️❤️

[@sarahrosenzweig7796]

I love your happiness & Love & FRUM Yiddishkeit & beautiful Judaism! We need Jewish Music & Songs to FRUM it up!!! We only wash 4 times before bread and only dip once in salt on weekdays, while 3 times only on Shabbat. Thanks tons! Enjoy!🎉

[@tinacotreau-guillot4870]

I love Jewish Party! 🎉. I think my favorite part is that your job is joy during the event. How lovely. ❤

[@frumitup]

it is my favourite part as well! forget about ourselves and all our little booboos and only focus on the person we are celebrating ! Like wow! LOVE IT!!!!

[@tinacotreau-guillot4870]

How’s your leg? You poor thing!

[@terriem3922]

My favorite parts are the dancing and the bread and pastries, which look like perfection.

[@uhlenspiegeluhl497]

I love that children participate the Party

[@robinobrien6671]

My favorite part was understanding the joy and freedom that comes with the separation of the men & women. I never truly understood how this separation truly enhanced the event. And, understanding that by this method of dancing, all are always included & welcome. I love Jewish parties.

[@abigailphoenixthepaperaddi2501]

Happy Mother's Day, Sara, and all the amazing moms out there! Hope each and every mother gets the love and attention she deserves on this beautiful day where we celebrate all that is motherhood. =D Love you, Sara, and I am just sooooo happy you're back!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@frumitup]

thank you Abigail for your warm wishes and thank you to be an AMAZINGLY SPECTACULAR Frummies ambassador! xoxoxo

[@lauriwhite1383]

My favorite part was including children and the dancing.

[@keeniebaskin7092]

I love the coming together , fun and enjoyment. It looks like it was an amazing time. I love a Jewish party

[@Kayin2626]

I love Jewish Party. All these parties look like so much fun for everyone. I wish I could come. Any party where a dinosaur costume comes out, where there’s dancing, and where there’s good food is always a good party.

[@Lisa-qv7hl]

I think the dancing was my favorite part. I love Jewish party.

[@barbarakb8847]

I love simcha and can see why it is the most important element in coming closer to God! The dancing is so wonderful, too, and it is a joy to see everyone participating. Yes, I would love to see a tour of an Orthodox Jewish Synagogue. I love Jewish party!

[@elemenopee412]

Happy Mother's Day to All🎉

[@OhDeerOregonTrail]

I receive so much pleasure watching your videos. I find myself smiling until the end. Thank you so much Sara. You are a wonderful person ❤

[@lightningbug6823]

I Love Jewish Party. Happy Mother's Day.

[@lindafarrokhzadian354]

I love Jewish party..... I am a Christian from the United States and I absolutely love watching your Channel. It is taught me so much and you bring me such joy to everything you do🥰

[@suzannenapolitano5480]

I love you all, True Jewish people, 🎇😘 my family , love all your video s Sarah , Praise the Good LORD , CREATOR of HEAVEN and 🌎 Amen🌸🌷🌷🌈🌈

[@michellemontgomery-jones2579]

My favorite part is the joy. It was all wonderful, yet the joy is extra special.

[@mermeridian2041]

The more I learn, the more I realize that the rituals/routines serve several very important purposes - cleanliness, mutual respect, joy, and warmth to and from the community. It doesn't matter that I don't understand keeping men and women so separated so often - what matters is that it works for those who do it. I don't have to understand it to respect it. I also love that there are safe places where you can relax, not have to worry about the food and the facility, where you can laugh and dance and feel the weaving together of the community.

[@mcomeslast]

Simcha! I love Jewish party!

[@annthrockmorton1517]

I LOVE JEWISH PARTY! My favorites have been the many simchas given by our Chabad of Peachtree City (GA, USA) Rebbetzin Shternie Lew -- especially the weddings! The *food* is always amazing!! Sometimes I have even helped prepare a little tiny bit, peeling veggies, frying donuts, etc. Happy Mother's Day to you -- and to any Mother reading this.

[@frumitup]

i am so happy you could partake to Jewish parties and most importantly you liked them! did you see similarities between your parties and the party i have shown today?

[@imarrywhales]

I love Jewish party. I love how you see the magic in you. You are not confused about who you are and what you want. I find that enchanting!

[@melpomenimandy]

I can testify personally as a non-Jewish person that dancing is SO important, inclusive and fun! It was many years ago, as it was a bat mitzvah I attended for a classmate, and the dancing was the one thing I remember most clearly to this day. I love Jewish parties, and I would love to go to another someday :)

[@annekarinverby1538]

I love jewish parties. I sat here thinking about the separation, and your thoughts about it, and realized that even in non jewish parties we often separate in mens and womens groups - but without the physical devider. I really like your videos ❤

[@patlaster3193]

I loved this party! Everyone seemed to have a great time, and as the broken ankle lady proved, you don't have to be able to walk to dance.❤

[@PsalmS-vi8zl]

I LOVE JEWISH PARTY. My favorite part was seeing everyone together, experiencing such joy. That level of joy is heaven sent.

[@novemberecho3807]

Yes I would like a tour of the synagogue if you please. And thank you. I am enjoying your videos immensely ❤

[@frumitup]

with pleasure!

[@happycook6737]

I can't pick just one favorite part. It all looked fun. I love Jewish parties.

[@ophelian4646]

I love Jewish party! And I would love to participate in one! The best part was the dancing, because it reminds me of some Swedish folk dances we do at our Midsummer celebration 🌿🌺.

[@frumitup]

Awww I would love to see the Swedish dance too!!!

[@leasaswartz6879]

My favorite part is more than one thing. The food is always so perfect and my favorite. I love the way the men and women separate for the party. The modesty is lovely to see. The children all look so happy. Thank you for sharing your life and religious practice with us.

[@FennecTheRabbit]

I Love Jewish Parties! Also Happy Mother's Day to you! I hope you're having a wonderful day. I love how inclusive the dancing is, I can't dance very well and have family member's who are older and this would be much easier for them.

[@frumitup]

hello sweet Fennec! YESSS everyone should be able to dance without being self conscious!

[@FennecTheRabbit]

@@frumitup Oh agreed!

[@clarissahopkins1148]

Thank you for letting us non Jewish ladies into your wonderful community. I am Roman Catholic lady who has a deep appreciation for those who have a deep commitment to Hashem. I truly admired Orthodox women. I LOVE Jewish party🎉❤

[@mindyourownbusinessplease1120]

Growing up my grandmother, aunts and other extended female family members & friends always went into the kitchen and the men and boys outside. I've noticed that other Non Jewish people do this, too. Maybe it's just an intuitive inclination to segregate, connect with like and to remain proper or modest

[@karenjohnson5634]

Same here. Maybe it’s just a natural thing for women to get together and talk and men to do the same.

[@JackDanyaKemplin]

I love Jewish party! Simcha is my favourite. Yes, I would love for you to make a video tour of an Orthodox Synagogue.

[@BraveEmpress]

Can I just say how lovely it is to have you back on KZbin with us, Sarah? Thank you!

[@wandawhiteaker1738]

I love Jewish party. The dancing is my favorite.

[@NYPGWAA1993]

I ❤Jewish Parties!!! Also I would love to see a synagogue tour. I haven’t had the pleasure of being invited. Btw, we’re all glad your back. Happy Mother’s Day 🫶🏻

[@frumitup]

thank you so much Lisa: thank YOU for being here and with pleasure for the video! xoxoxo

[@sallyhostetter2820]

My favorites of a Jewish party is the Beautiful table, food and dancing.

[@frumitup]

I love them too Sally!

[@ahambrahmasmi-qk9ui]

The togetherness and love of this community was probably the best part of this celebration. The bread also looked beautiful. Thank you for inviting us along ❤

[@benjamingolen1399]

I loved watching the men dancing, as brothers and of course, the food looked delicious.

[@oilofjoywithcoachtina9555]

I have had the amazing experience of celebrating Purim, and the finishing of a Torah scroll parties in the orthodox communities. BEST PARTIES! My family had so much fun, felt so blessed and thankful to participate. The joy - simcha- was definitely what was most amazing!

[@sms-balto]

I Love Jewish party. My favorite is Simcha. G-d bless you. Thank you.

[@biancaoliveira4276]

Amo sua voz e doçura ao falar, mesmo nao entendendo inglês ❤ Feliz dia das mães e beijos do Brasil 🇧🇷 💋😘

[@nancydunks9095]

I love Jewish party, of course! I am shallow enough to say that using the grogger at a Purim reading is my favorite thing, and a Purim party afterwards is frosting on the cake, as the saying goes.

[@frumitup]

i love it!!!! have blessed day and a shavua tov!

[@sjcp1111]

A Blessed Mother’s Day! 🎉 💕😀

[@reneeb3861]

I love Jewish party. And I adore the desire to bring joy to each interaction.

[@BrendaBeiter-q5f]

I would love to see a video tour of an Orthodox synagogue.

[@faithhopelove78]

I like how G.od is integrated in every part of what’s happening. I like the modesty aspect of dress for the men, but especially for women, so elegant in dress. I like how everything done is a spiritual lifestyle to our Creator. So beautiful! ✨ Thank you! 🙏🌷 Shalom! ✨

[@southernassweettea2228]

I’m not Jewish, but I love all of of your customs. You have the most soothing voice. I love your channel ❤

[@hundo9314]

The kids getting to attend is my favorite part. Loved getting to see inside your place of worship. There is a beautiful one in our town.

[@juliedyson3383]

So glad that you are back - I missed your smiling voice, warm words of encouragement, and joyful sharing of your faith. I would love a tour of an orthodox synagogue! This particular video was especially lovely to me for the emphasis on including everyone in the party.

[@lynnwoodel1739]

The best thing? Community!!!! Such a blessing!!!

[@verolivre2982]

I love jewish party. Pour moi, vraiment ce que j'aime c'est la joie de vivre durant la fête. Contente de vous revoir Sarah. Merci de nous partager ses rituels. ❤ Bonne fête des mères 🌹😊

[@frumitup]

merci ma cherie et suis tout a fait d'accord avec vous: la joie d'avoir le privilege de participer a ce moment est incroyable! shavua tov! xoxoxo

[@cherylann7431]

"I love Jewish Party", and I love learning about your religion, your culture, your family, your traditions...all of it!

[@bartlettje]

I love Jewish party...... they look such fun ❤❤

[@lindachampion4171]

I love a Jewish party. My favorite thing was the dancing and how everyone can dance, not just the young and nimble. I would really appreciate it if you would create a video tour of an orthodox synagogue. Todah, Sarah. ❤

[@zoraidabaez2947]

I love Jewish party and I love to learn so much about the culture and everything that takes place in it thank you so much for including us great to be with you again❤

[@motherofbeagles8532]

The tables are so beautiful! I live in the middle of America where there is a limited Jewish community so your videos are so interesting to me, thank you 🙏🏻

[@purpleandred7]

I was at your premiere and I love Jewish parties 🥳 Happy Mother's Day, Sara 💜🤗

[@frumitup]

thank you so so much to have been here with me Judi for the premiere! happy day to you too!

[@nicolejansens9317]

J’ai eu le plaisir d’assister plusieurs fois à des mariages juifs et autres fêtes cet simplement génial il y a toujours de l’ambiance et la nourriture et excellente