FTM BOTTOM SURGERY || Your Questions Answered

[@mghtymffn]

i have no clue why i watch this, i mean, i'm hetero, married with kids so why am I here? Why have I watched every video for the past few years? Why do i watch Shaaba? I will tell you why, because it is great to understand others better.......if more people did this, the world would be a better place.

[@ldwblondeatheartasmr2545]

Amen

[@SevCaswell]

@@brimoririver6435 In the UK there is zero 'profit' in the NHS, it is entirely publicly funded, and you can only get what you need (sometimes you get less but that's a different thing). You talk about 'the structure of nature' but I expct you are unaware of just how messy nature is. Female is the default sex of all animals, every embryo, from fish to elephants to humans, begins developing as female and will continue to do so, irrespective of genetic markers, unless or until hormones from the mother tell it to do otherwise. If those hormones are irregular, then the embryo will get a mixed message, sometimes it is level of hormone, sometimes it is timing of hormone, and this produces the rather large variation in physical 'biological' sex, such as intersex and trans individuals, as well as cis women with XY genetics.

[@88megagirl]

mghtymffn honestly same. Not the married with kids part, but the hetero part. I have a lot of friends who are lgbtq and I never really had a great understanding of that t. But with friends who are trans, I wanted to learn more, so I could be more accepting and understanding, because they’re the ones that matter in all of this. The world hasn’t accepted everyone completely yet but hopefully the more we learn the more we will.

[@danielleantony9971]

Same

[@Aconitum_napellus]

@@SevCaswell In addition to the genetic variance of humanity, cultural variance is also significant, with many cultures throughout history and across the globe having, sometimes radically, different notions of gender identity. Many non Western cultures have recognised at least three distinct gender identities, with some cultures having still more. Personally, I'm inclined to think this is probably because of the variation of sex and chromosomal presentations.

[@trannyjazzy3213]

I’m here cause my boyfriend is ftm and I’m mtf my bestie said that sounds like being straight with extra steps 😂

[@Todomo]

lmao i love that so much 😂😂😂

[@trannyjazzy3213]

Todomo 😂😂

[@IsopropylDisinfectant]

That's preety straight.

[@trannyjazzy3213]

Kaly th. 😂 it is 😂

[@mrcrackfish0]

I just love this comment, I have similar situation, but I'm ftm and my gf is mtf

[@cdarklock]

As an older cis man, I can assure you that standing up to pee becomes less and less important as the years go by. It's far more convenient and comfortable to sit down, and as a bonus for those who have a female roommate or partner, you'll never get yelled at for leaving the seat up OR for peeing on the seat. Also if you have kids and you teach them to pee sitting down, the bathroom's a whole lot easier to clean.

[@Smarieo1]

I still have no idea what the cis male thing is pls help

[@koda5173]

a cis male is a cisgender male, which means you were born with male genitalia.

[@Smarieo1]

Ohh ty!

[@missclick7609]

@@koda5173 and identify as male too

[@aromanticfranziskavonkarma]

To be honest I had no idea people with penises could pee sitting down-

[@faithodulesi]

Whoever wrote 10 inches probably reads too much fiction

[@veganmocha]

fr fr

[@marisaruiz8796]

exactly, they probably read too much wattpad, that's just unrealistic

[@elyse443]

Or is Black. 😂😂😂 Oh the fiction thing... yeah

[@TyoAtrosa]

I have never met a woman who actually enjoys having her cervix bruised. And I'm not even near 10 inches, so i know 10 is excessive.

[@somethingalive5553]

12"

[@christopherhardesty-crouch1119]

"I don't want 7 inches, that's too much responsibility!" That is the best thing ever

[@ryanxavii]

“ too much penis “

[@can_tthinkofausername]

@@ryanxavii pft-

[@Jadeigital]

@Jonathan Roberts What

[@birb2197]

*Marshie_Mellow* lol he’s just a boomer in disguise

[@nicolasnamed]

@Jonathan Roberts Trans medical research is in it's infancy, and if you really cared about science rather than pushing a narrative you'd understand that. You want to break this down? I, Jamie, other trans people, have gender dysphoria. It's crippling and not something I can control, and testosterone has alleviated that immensely and has made me finally start to feel whole and correct in my physical form and presentation. If I lived alone on an island, I would still experience dysphoria. You can throw anything you want at me, but this is the reality for me and all other trans people able to take hormones.

[@missingcoffee1553]

For my bottom surgery ima just get a worm on a string

[@kitty3096]

same bro,,,

[@mcmxcviii-nia]

seems legit *nod nod*

[@dronegamerz9679]

I will make my worm on a string dicc purple

[@thew0lfyb0i40]

‘baby is it in??’ ‘yeah’ ‘...that’s a worm on a string...’

[@connorsaysyeet5953]

The real question is what color

[@rachaeljones4731]

“They do wobble about a bit, it’s quite fun” Best ball quote ever.

[@MedicFromTF2_REAL]

I loved that part 😂

[@arri159]

Like boobs but in ones pants I figure

[@raidennova]

arri159 yasssssssssss lol 😂😂😂😂😂

[@conservativecatlady1594]

Lmfaooooo

[@chwunky]

@arri159 someone fact check this

[@missblank3887]

You give me hope that one day I will loose my chest planets and gain a third leg.

[@no-me8iz]

me too.

[@borderlinenocturnal6195]

The euphemism is gold

[@bonelessmice6828]

💀💀 unreasonably funny

[@89visionartistry89]

Chest planets. LMAO I love this and that’s what I’m going to call my DDD’s now. I’m cis but I’m hoping to ditch them for something you know lighter. 😂

[@maffidevillious]

Me too

[@dyljesdarain8026]

Jammi, being a 50 year old gay man, I have spent many years watching my LGBT community change and grow. Your videos are really something wonderful. Growing up in the 70's I had no leadership or examples of what a gay man was, not to mention how life was going to be. Your videos answering questions so honestly are not only helping trans people but the people who support them. By being so detailed and open your TRULY helping people. I wish when I was a young boy in the 70's and 80's there was a resource like you to have answered my questions. I admire what your doing! Thank you.

[@Slyor]

how do you have no name and i can't click on your profile picture?

[@taeramisuuu]

@@Slyor was thinking the same

[@ydasda4210]

❤

[@nosequenombreponer84]

@@Slyor u can...

[@pihla6350]

@@Slyor some kind of bug?

[@geniebysnsd_mp3]

Jammi: "I got [my metoidioplasty] done though the NHS in the UK, which means I didn't pay for it." Me, an American whose insurance barely covers a Band-Aid: *WHAT*

[@emperor_elkcip4260]

your insurance covers a band aid?

[@emperor_elkcip4260]

i've never heard of insurance coverage whatsoever on a band aid

[@louiserules]

@@emperor_elkcip4260 it's a joke about how American insurance doesn't cover anything but (apparently)20% of a bandaid. And nothing else. Because it's absurd.

[@emperor_elkcip4260]

@@louiserules oh yeah i know trust me my $10,000 surgery was paid almost entirely out of pocket. i get the point but still ive never heard of any insurance having coverage whatsoever on band aids.

[@geliz-r3o]

Yeah I don’t get that

[@IPONJ]

The real question, remained unanswered. Does it have high speed wifi?

[@ilikeyourfunnywordsmagicma8328]

Yes.

[@mjpeng6516]

buzbee yes

[@Dungeonfreak]

5G?

[@kellyellie5466]

Omg imagine tho

[@positivitymoth8153]

Built in virus protection?

[@bronsonmcdonald5473]

Thank you for this video. I am FTM, older but still pre-transition as I didn't realize I am trans until 50 yrs old. You explained so thoroughly about bottom surgery. I knew little before watching your video. I love your sense of humour.

[@alexmackrell1385]

I'm 2 months late on replying but it's never too late to discover who you are, i'm also FTM pre-transition, I'm 19 years old and even I sometimes feel down seeing others transitioning or making steps before me, but I wish you luck on your journey!

[@bronsonmcdonald5473]

@@alexmackrell1385 Thank you so much, Alex! I appreciate it. I wish you all the best on your journey too👍

[@EveryDayGetsWeirder]

@@bronsonmcdonald5473 I'm a youngin and ftm, I agree it's never too late or too early to find out your trans. We don't get taught this stuff, and you might think it's normal until told otherwise. Don't worry, the age of finding identity is non-existent :)

[@bronsonmcdonald5473]

@@EveryDayGetsWeirder Thank you Random Alternate. I agree...it's never too late or too early. My journey is going very well. I have come out at my work and it's going very well. I am 7 months on T and seeing changes. Have you started your transition?

[@EveryDayGetsWeirder]

@@bronsonmcdonald5473 I'm in a closet༎ຶ‿༎ຶ

[@blurryphan7578]

Jammi is so pure saying that "7 inches is too much responsibility" As a female even that number scares me lol

[@sadeyescreations1702]

Right! My boyfriend is 8 inches long and 3-4inches around... Lots and lots of lube... It makes me miss an average penis Lots and lots of communication lol

[@thesixaddict5174]

That's just terrifying

[@killerkirby366]

As a gay guy I want to say pathetic

[@CaspiRose99]

Nahhh

[@Godselfsoundz]

Shit I want a 9 inch like the mandinka warrior that I am 🤣

[@kaiagrey6851]

I’m a cis female but I’m watching this because I want to because I want to become a plastic surgeon and make people feel better about themselves

[@maaarlon248]

great 🥰♥️

[@shaylac.7167]

aw that’s so sweet i’m a cis female aswell and i’m watching just to better educate myself so i can understand the trans community better:)

[@andressaloiola8669]

It would be really cool if a plastic surgeon specialized in bottom surgery

[@alextheleafman7425]

That awesome!!!

[@theycallmemegatro]

Hoping your my surgeon when I get surgery

[@andrewrochell9665]

YOu lucky man. I transtitioned in 74 didnt have bottom surgery as it wasnt near adavaced as it is now. I am now seventy too old for it now i dont take anesthetic very well either. Enjoy your life be happy wish i was you.

[@Mentocthemindtaker]

I'm sorry you didn't have access to the options you needed when you transitioned. I do feel though that people transitioning now will be saying the same thing to people who are transitioning when they're 70!

[@MaxxyWaxxylol]

😔

[@leannesmith5818]

Well said Sir

[@tonyholt7736]

my nephew is beginning his T and starting his transition journey; i'm here for the education so i can avoid 'stupid' questions. Thank you

[@tammy_vip]

I hope your nephew is doing well. What an amazing uncle you are, I teared up over your comment. 😭

[@Mandy-nt2cs]

​@@tammy_vip too much estrogen lol

[@cactusbuds2979]

@@Mandy-nt2cs I think they may be exaggerating! Kinda like how when people say lmao when they really aren’t laughing their ass off, they just thought it was funny. :)

[@maaarlon248]

As a German being unfamiliar with inches, I laughed my ass off when I converted 10 and even 7 inches to cm. Honestly? That‘s (sometimes literally) nothing more than a pain in the ass. 😂

[@vanessasmacedo]

Same happened to me lmao I laughed so hard when I converted the 10 inches to cm jesus christ hahaha

[@xbrunisx]

25,4 cm like... what the hell??

[@_eko_ill.1779]

@@xbrunisx i am 150cm omg

[@_eko_ill.1779]

@@xbrunisx It like more than 1/6 of my height.

[@mettapeachhead2076]

@@_eko_ill.1779 Pls be joking

[@robotaholic]

I'm gay and cis, but after learning about trans struggles, you make me not take for granted my lack of dysphoria. I appreciate that. Take care!

[@mmtruooao8377]

As a trans dude I'm always appreciative of anyone who's interested in learning about trans issues! It's always great just to have friends or people in the community who will be supportive or advocate on a small scale.

[@didacftm]

Thanks for the interest on learning about us.

[@evalynn1863]

Same. I'm female but I've always fantasized about having a penis and even watching these videos I think it'd be super interesting to get to experience that, but hearing stories from trans people really helped me understand how lucky I am to not have dysphoria and how complicated and devastating some of these experiences can be. And especially being queer, I always try to make sure I'm not alienating people in our own community. You can never be too educated.

[@jacobclement3706]

Johnny Morris You don’t have dysphoria though. I mean how do you have dysphoria. Please elaborate, I would love to learn more as I am Ftm trans.

[@robotaholic]

@@jacobclement3706 I am grateful I don't have dysphoria. I do NOT have it and I'm glad.

[@TheAngryCleric]

I know this is probably difficult to make videos about, but as a nurse in the middle of no where I appreciate this information! This is unfortunately not yet covered in nursing school and learning from brave people like yourself helps me give trans patients better care. Which is especially vital living in the middle of nowhere. Thank you so much!

[@emilylink7126]

Cudos to you and going the extra mile! You are a true care taker of people in need. Really admirable! Greetings from Germany!

[@chasingdharmaify]

♥️♥️♥️

[@ozlekosusturu]

You are awesome!

[@sarahtaylor7737]

TheAngryCleric it was covered in my nursing course. Really interesting conference day.

[@shanehughes3511]

Well done choosing to inform yourself. I'm a cis man and wanted to learn more as I have trans friends from college. In fact in almost sure here in Ireland they must mention trans issues in modern medicine. I mean trans people have become far more visible in my generation in Ireland and hundreds transition a year so surely they are training here. Well (I hope they are). Its an important medical issue. Fair play again, if only all staff were as open minded and curious as you. Trans people deserve our respect. I hope we start teaching little kids too to be more open minded

[@carlosenriquez2092]

I'm confused and I don't know bloody why but seeing you be comfortable discussing this openly and freely tells me that maybe just maybe the world is moving in the right direction. However slowly.

[@ras_krystafari3333]

Hmm ye... to be noted I know people happy who are FTM trans & fully seem like men after years its.uncanny but not MTF unless in drag or or lady boys ect... People don't seem happy mtf transitioning fully with chemicals\surgery, many have noticed 🙄 maybe that changes tho I suspect not anytime soon

[@Duskstone89]

So like seemingly everyone here, I have no idea why KZbin recommended this to me. I'm a cis guy, last time I was interested in LGBTQ+ issues was at least a year ago, and my trans friends can be counted on one hand - Safe to say, I am not the main demographic for this kind of content. But I'm so glad that it _is_ being recommended. KZbin has a bad habit of half-hiding content they deem "non-advertiser friendly", so a lot of videos regarding transgendered and homosexual people isn't being seen by those who need it, such as young LGBT-identifying folks. Overall, your channel seems like a great resource for those who need it, and I'm glad KZbin is allowing it to be seen :)

[@TheMistressMisery]

Thank you for being a rare, intelligent, accepting cis guy

[@Duskstone89]

@@TheMistressMisery Well, thank you for the kind words. But it also feels a little weird to be praised for simply accepting people who are different from me ^^;;

[@frusia123]

Because it's a sponsored propaganda

[@Duskstone89]

@@frusia123 k grek

[@TheMistressMisery]

@@Duskstone89 I feel like we need to praise simple things like this, because many still think it's ok to be dicknozzles to people who are different from them

[@chaotic_confusion]

Hi. I just wanted to say I got my name legally changed today. So excited! Love your videos Jamie! That is all.

[@mathilded367]

Yay ! Even though I don't know you, I'm very happy for you !

[@chaotic_confusion]

Mathilde D thank you!

[@alienfembot]

Congrats!

[@robotaholic]

Congrats!!!

[@DracoCustos]

Congrats! :D

[@MadiArcher-ji3ck]

Probably a TMI but my dad had one artificial testicle lol he was in a horrible car accident and only one of his balls survived. He had myself and my sister with that one ball 🤷‍♀️

[@alyssarasmussen1723]

Aw. Well I'm glad he's still able to make children. Good for him. :D

[@alyssarasmussen1723]

And I'm sorry he got into an accident, I'm also glad he's okay. :D

[@aguu191]

Madi Archer bit random, no? 🤔

[@maju404]

SHSJDBFBFBSHDBNSDBS man i love internet

[@dirtypagan5793]

Fastest sperm in the west

[@beverlyhigh620]

I had watched your vlogs before but never had subscribed, then a teenager told me her mom kicked her out over here wanting to trans, I remembered your name, recommended your blog, he is now 19, and getting ready for final surgery. Thanks for doing the video series, they've helped him.

[@collyflower6623]

That's amazing!

[@tammy_vip]

What an absolute blessing you were to him. You accepting him without judgment and signposting him to Jamie’s content may have saved his life.

[@homeland1128]

aww im cryin happy tears for the happy ending

[@benedictines]

Most of us won't get off our ass to make the smallest changes seeking happiness. Here is young man who has risked his life redefining his place in the world. I don't understand transgendering at all. But who am I to decide what is right for others? This man is both adorable and courageous, God Bless him and his partner.

[@frusia123]

Seriously? There are people dying of hunger in 2020 and you think being preoccupied with oneself is being brave?

[@cutiesos]

frusia123 there are always going to be others in need. That doesn’t mean you cant make yourself feel good! Don’t be rude :)

[@woodlandcreaturefeature2832]

@@frusia123 its always important to help others, but no one should have their own problems invalidated by being compared to others'

[@frusia123]

@@woodlandcreaturefeature2832 But it's always healthy to see one's own problems from a realistic perspective.

[@woodlandcreaturefeature2832]

@@frusia123 my therapist told me this, and its really changed my perspective: someone can die from a physical thing, and someone can die because their mental health was so bad they saw no other choice. the suicide rate for transgender people (including myself, and yes, in the past I made a very-close-to-successful attempt on my own life because of dysphoria and fear of rejection) is astronomically high. yes, focus on helping others who are less fortunate. but don't think for a minute that its "preoccupied with oneself" to take these kinds of steps. they save lives too

[@laurelannkline]

When you say you feel no dysphoria for the first time it really makes me realize what a struggle life can be for trans people. I just can not imagine. I'm so glad you don't have to feel this way anymore.

[@potato-jj5lz]

It makes me so happy seeing cis people leave comment s like this.

[@simonwright9916]

I don’t give a rat’s arse what his tackle looks like - he’s cute and a good lad and that’s enough for me! I do appreciate him answering questions that we all wanted to ask but were too scared to.

[@derekbotelho5682]

He is very cute and seems very cool!

[@hughman9975]

@@Crazygirl-eu5dc what a weird thing to say haha. I'm a bisexual cis guy and I don't give a shit what anyone's genitals look like. As far as hearing Jamie talking about his experiences I feel like that's one thing but not everyone is so focused on the most personal or base aspects of a person's body. What does anyone's sexuality have to do with it..

[@GenerallyBananas]

As a cis guy the balls section was really fun, I was really surprised at how much of the "having balls" experience is exactly as you described it, but I had never really thought about it in my life, and hearing about it from someone who has thought about it so much, put so much effort into having them and gotten used to them later in life was super interesting

[@silverstar1805]

10 INCHES?! that's like half my arm I'm scared

[@navaneethvijay1315]

I just googled it And I'm like 😲😰

[@sawyer4700]

@@navaneethvijay1315 wtf lmao

[@mossabhasssan4280]

My girlfriend take it smoothly

[@silverstar1805]

@@mossabhasssan4280 me too

[@mossabhasssan4280]

@@silverstar1805 I will be very happy if you can take it

[@KindCountsDeb3773]

I am a boomer and I am grateful that anyone can feel satisfied with who they are, on a lot of levels ,including this issue. Wasn't so when I was growing up. I'm CIS ( just so ya'll know my take on this is ). Even though this does not directly affect me, I am happy that people can be who they are inside, on the outside, too. Good luck J, you are being so helpful to others needing this info.

[@eli_xikmqq4104]

I like how you refer to yourself as a boomer

[@possums154]

hello, kind boomer.

[@KindCountsDeb3773]

@@eli_xikmqq4104 I have no choice ! LOL. I think it is a way to show my age, helps knowing where I'm coming from in my attitude or thinking. Thanks.

[@KindCountsDeb3773]

@@possums154 Well, hello Beetlejuice, appreciate the kind reply. Takes one to know one ! Any positives about me are because I KNEW my parents loved me. Some people who are "different" don't always have that, that is a shame.

[@marcusdinunno4624]

You're what we call a Bloomer, not a boomer. Thank you for growing with the new generation ❤️

[@duskky]

I really appreciate that you post videos like this. trans genitals and transition procedures are understandably treated as a private matter, but for me personally as a person questioning its very comforting to hear about it casually and comfortably

[@gwynethelodie4575]

As a non-binary that recently got top surgery, I feel the exact way you described getting bottom surgery. I did have some dysphoria around my chest but it wasn't huge and I probably could have lived alright without getting it done. However after doing the surgery I was amazed how happy I felt in my new body once I'd healed enough to move around. I felt complete! Thanks for sharing your info and journey with the world

[@pudding1823lol]

why am i even watching this, i'm a trans GIRL, i'm trying to get rid of my little guy down stairs and get my donut installed EDIT: guys please stop saying "tRaDe" its overused, annoying and im not even trans anymore so please stop EDIT 2: ok i used genderfluid wrong, i meant non-binary

[@crazysquirrelgirl463]

Trade?

[@hotcocoandart]

I'll trade you my doughnut and my melons.

[@pudding1823lol]

@Great Awakening Im done threatening you, This time i'm gonna show you what Transphobia is, transphobia is the basic definition of: "i do not understand this, therefor, i disagree with it", This is what You're doing, Dysphoria, The need to look different, Isn't Weakness, Its Actually Pretty Empowering, I Agree i went a bit too far with the laxitives and Hydrochloric acid, However your shoes deserve to be shat in, You'll have shitty shoes mate

[@pudding1823lol]

@Great Awakening Being trans isn't Death, Infact, Its Actually reversable, Its not permenant, If You were say a Trans girl, IE: you were born a boy but identify as a girl, If you, a Hypothetical trans girl, Could if at some point in your Female life decide that you were Born as your Prefered Gender, IE: male, You could Detransition, Its not death, Infact i will Make me a Happier Person, I've been more Sad because my current Biology is male, I Hate that, So I'm Gonna Change It

[@pudding1823lol]

@Great Awakening and also as another thing i Wanted to do, But didn't as an act to Justify who i am, Heres One thing that i can do, or Say rather. ok boomer

[@craigg5410]

I'm biologically male and I also sit down to pee because A) I too am lazy and take any excuse to sit and B) I end up peeing on the floor and seat. But I get tortured for it from my male friends as though it makes me less of a man. Ridiculous!

[@wisemage0]

There's literally no advantage to peeing while standing up. Your friends are being irrational.

[@craigg5410]

Only problem is that I end up sitting in my boyfriend's pee all the time because he doesn't lift the seat!!! Not happy!! 😂

[@alchemyofcolorandstyle]

It’s actually much, much healthier to sit down to pee, for prostate and bladder health!

[@randommeowthekitty6482]

mEn aRe NoT aLlOwEd tO Be cOmFoRtAbLe AnD cLeAn

[@littleboo2002]

For sitting and peeing. My boyfriend is cis. And he sits to pee when hes at home because he feels comfortable, but if hes at a strangers house or a public washroom he stands to pee since he doesnt feel as comfortable.

[@littleboo2002]

@mary reed I'm sorry what? Are you having a stroke?

[@lyoshi1022]

Well that’s me

[@mattnelson9010]

mary reed ???

[@Cazzy666]

Mine sits too. I think he’s just lazy though.

[@kujikawathemeekmage3640]

mary reed - did you have an epilepsy attack while writing that?

[@sherribrody5456]

I'm amazed at science. I would never have known this guy was not born as a guy. So glad for the technology that allows people just to be themselves. Something CIS people take for granted.

[@floo1465]

i know, i was so surprised when i realized he was trans! great results

[@Ajehy]

Same! He’s 100% man, and I’m glad his body can reflect that.

[@KylieEileen]

You shouldn’t be that amazed at science. Most people suffer a great deal from these surgeries and they will be medicated for the rest of their lives- which also has consequences including early onset dementia

[@user-rx4jg8lq7h]

@@KylieEileen Meh, it's like everyone telling me I will regret not having children and that I'll be so lonely (we'll see about that...I make friends). But I'd much rather be happy whilst I am 20-70 than be miserable for 50 years just in case I happen to reach 90. Which I might be unhappy anyone for failing health.

[@missjojogill]

Im a straight cis women. With no plans of changing my body, hell I dont even have piercings or tattoos! Always liked your videos Jaimie. I find it fascinating to learn and understand about this sorta thing. X

[@infiniLor]

I'm not cis, just a woman

[@Itsfrickinbatsbabe]

Using the word " Fascinating " Is kinda offensive and cringy... He's not a sideshow he's a person

[@infiniLor]

@@Itsfrickinbatsbabe oh PLEASE FUCKING STOP!!! You're literally searching for opportunities to be offended! She said she found it "fascinating to learn ... about this sorta thing" - it's a fucking compliment to the maker of the content, not an insult to the person. Fuck!

[@CharWardingley]

Me too and I love learning about this it opens your minds to others struggles and their issues, and truly makes me feel happy seeing these people being happy with themselves and it’s also educational for if anyone around you goes through this you’re more likely to be more understanding and supportive

[@lovepuppy4627]

@@Itsfrickinbatsbabe You sound dumb, just stop there's nothing wrong with what she said.

[@anonymous-q9g]

i’m a 13 y.o. trans boy with extreme dysphoria around my genitals, knowing this exists and having someone out there helping educate ppl like me is just so amazing. thank you ❤️

[@KD10Conqueror]

Dysphoria just sucks. Hugs for ya

[@ultron374]

Find a good psychologist who will get to the root of ur dysphoria. Surgery will not help

[@harryman55]

​@@ultron374transitioning is the cure to dysphoria, you have to go to a psychiatrist before you transition and if they diagnose you with gender dysphoria then you can transition.

[@hamontequila1104]

As a aro-ace person who doesn’t have the courage to come out, You really make me feel good about myself

[@crypticlol]

Just a reminder that there's nothing wrong with you and that I wish you many garlic breads(and few for me because I love it too)

[@Oculoustuos]

You can be a eunuch for the kingdom of God (Matthew 19:12).

[@ventusray6892]

"It wobbles about a bit, it's quite fun." This just made my day.

[@clutchcargo2419]

As a straight man in my mind this person is a man. Congrats, I hope you are happy. If you're happy you will make others happy and therefore you will make this a better world.

[@hobbitgarden]

As a straight female, married with 2 children I'm not sure how I got here. But I'm happy I did. A lot of questions I've wondered

[@darksideofthemood]

Okay but why didn't you get the vibrating and wifi options? Disappointed in you tbh.

[@samuel-zb4qn]

Ive got bluetooth get on my level nerd😤

[@reesemiller4043]

Lol

[@miapuffia]

Alexa, grow 6 inches

[@AkumaDayo]

This is so sad Penis, play Despacito

[@daisymay6505]

🤣🤣

[@sarahkrick8667]

You are doing such a service to the world helping us understand why this path is so important and how it works. It has clearly unlocked a beautiful happy soul. Thank you.

[@grimnott]

The real question is: Does it have heated leather seats, brake assist, and 4-wheel drive? 🤔

[@eager_sandwich]

Yes

[@Faithfrogffd]

And cup holders

[@Susirajantakaa]

@@Faithfrogffd Nut holders more likely

[@inky5183]

@@Susirajantakaa NUT HOLDERSSSSS SVUSHAVAKSBHS

[@inky5183]

but the REAL question: does it say kachow?

[@bedrock30_]

Sending this to my best friend who came out to me as transgender. Hopefully this will help him in their transition.

[@MedicFromTF2_REAL]

I'm bi and cis but I think it's very important to understand my trans comrades and support them in any way possible! Very glad I found this channel :)

[@forsakedsorrow]

2:40 "I don't want 7 inches, that's too much responsibility" only if everyone can think this way...

[@avobanana]

*that's a lot of penis*

[@nualahalpin6119]

me, last year: why am I subbed to so many trans channels? guess I'm just a good ally lol me now: hold on maybe it's cause I'm *cisn't*

[@lydian1230]

*cisn't* is the best thing I've ever heard

[@unlimitedpower1385]

Please never use *cisn't* ever again

[@Larkin4840]

I did the same thing with realizing that I'm not straight. I was just a really passionate ally 😂 Then I started getting more and more ads for things about being gay, movies, books, groups, etc and I thought "wow, gay people are really starting to get a lot more representation. That's awesome". And then I happened to look up my Google account info and there's a place where you can see all the things that Google algorithms decided you were: female, white, between 20-30. Things like that. And it had decided based on my searching habits, that didn't have anything sexual at all because it was a monitored work computer, that I was gay. It was literally like "you buy Calvin Klein, listen to Avril Lavigne, read books with strong female leads, own more boots than shoes. You are gay". Actually I'm pretty sure it was because I was semi active on gay rights political issues. I think I signed a petition way back when marriage rights were still not a thing yet and it flagged me. Anyway, google knows who you are before you admit it to yourself 😂

[@alexanderhamilton6249]

Robin Hardy where do I find the google account info I need it

[@SilveraroShow]

The egg has cracked

[@pinkmonkeybird2644]

Thank you. I have a teen who has recently revealed trans status to me and now is on a FTM journey. Thank you from my heart for being willing to speak openly about your own personal journey; you are very young still, but you have created the opportunity to help others navigate the FTM transition, and I am so grateful. Of course I support my child’s decisions and needs unconditionally, but I still worry that others won’t. Having people speak openly and matter of factly about their own experiences helps others understand, and with understanding comes empathy and acceptance. Thank you so much, you have done so much to foster acceptance.

[@juliaflachmanfro310]

I'm a cis female. Why did youtube recommended this video to me is a mistery... but I'm watching it anyway.

[@michaylajennings8579]

Júlia Flach Manfro mystery *

[@grujose551]

I think it gotta do with lawsuit KZbin is facing from LGBT content creators in regard to content discrimination because since the lawsuit was made public many people said LGBT contents appears on their recommendation.

[@tomie8313]

I watched trisha paytas video abour coming out as 'trans' and I think that's why he got recommend

[@jemimahkendall6579]

Why do we have to say cis it's rubbish why can't they just say trans this crap is crazy how much people are just going along with this

[@danifyx9978]

I thought it said misery instead of mistery *mystery lmao

[@ThrowawaytheRatman]

I’m a young trans guy and I don’t know much about bottom surgery and this really helped. Befor now I didn’t even know there was more than one surgery!

[@seyioresanya2449]

Pls don't do bottom surgery,the penis doesn't work.keep Ur virginal

[@demonicastar]

I'm just a regular lady that has been fascinated with learning about the trans community and the process to achieve the desired changes. The advances in medicine is amazing and you just can't tell by simply looking at someone if they are trans or not . You are a very handsome fellow and it's good to see how happy and confident you are. Bright blessings and great job answering potentially awkward questions

[@FalconsMaltings]

Thanks for being an ally! 💖

[@demonicastar]

@@FalconsMaltings awe no need to thank me we're all human and we all go through different struggles especially the trans community which I think has to go through the most difficult process my respects always

[@demonicastar]

@Mike Hunt hahaha 😆 hey there 👋, much appreciated by the way

[@ninia7037]

Did he just say “that’s a lot of penis” or did I hear wrong 😂😂😂😭

[@kaylamurray2657]

Yesss😂😂😂

[@Flowergurl2000]

Yes!!!

[@valeria6751]

And he also said it's too much responsibility 😂

[@iamlannafierce]

As a cisgender straight woman I can confirm that 7-8 is above average. 10 inches is not going anywhere near any orifice on my body. We can be friends! Thank so much for educating us!

[@odessawales]

When I get surgery I will get 6 due to my math and genetics

[@odessawales]

6

[@odessawales]

E

[@odessawales]

S

[@iamlannafierce]

@@odessawales Good luck with your surgery sweet. I hope all goes well.

[@Suelorie]

I am so glad I found you-My son is in transition and one day will be facing this surgery. Your video gives me a little insight so I can understand what to expect and help him through it- Big virtual hug of thanks from this proud mother.

[@bethanyboarder7751]

"well that answered my goddamn questions about bottom surgery!!!" -me whose parents wont even let **him** cut **his** hair edit: well guys i got my hair cut not long after i posted this, i hope you all get your haircut eventually. best wishes edit: turns out i wasn't trans-masc after all, i'm non-binary apparently. sorry this comment is a little outdated

[@tercoloko]

Same they won't even let me wear boy clothes

[@bethanyboarder7751]

@@tercoloko oof

[@tercoloko]

@Linda Trefan Pls adopt me, I can't no more in this family I'm in pain all the time

[@tercoloko]

@Linda Trefan I've always wanted for my future to come where I can leave and do what I always wanted to be. That's one thing that'll make me happy. I can wait for that momment

[@bethanyboarder7751]

@@cybrrkitty01 straaaaannge maybe he hates girls??

[@ApollosDagger]

I don’t think I’ll get bottom surgery but it’s so reassuring and helpful to hear and learn about them! I feel like it relieves a lot of the fear people have about it which is awesome so thank you potato dad 💛

[@Aconitum_napellus]

Ultimately that is a decision only you can make but remember, you're fucking amazing and valid.

[@CharWardingley]

Something Dreadful yeah I agree do what makes you happy and complete :)

[@TheeeDanielR]

Something Dreadful ty angel 😇

[@jemimahkendall6579]

Yeah but it's doesn't always work out for everyone, there are some horror stories out there especially MTF with hair growing inside the fake vagina not healing properly, why can't you just accept who you are, there are people out there who are deformed and can't be fixed with better self esteem than trans people it's kinda sad

[@danifyx9978]

@@jemimahkendall6579 *face palm*

[@marshallasmith397]

I have no clue why this was in my recommendations however I’m glad it was. Definitely answered a lot of questions I always had when it comes to bottom surgery for trans men and women.

[@animeartist888]

I'm a cis woman, but I was still morbidly curious about this kind of stuff. I was never willing to research it on my own for fear of what my ads would become ahaha, but I know better than to randomly ask these things of some poor trans guy I barely know. Thank you so much for all the gorey details! Now I don't have to make anyone uncomfortable with my curiosity!

[@souncivilizedpobi5774]

okay but that comment on average size 7 inches had me dead

[@pismith9892]

I loved the 'too much maintenance' 😂😂 my boyfriend is... Well hung? I don't know how to not make it grimm 😂 and I stg he is constantly complaining about it 😂 from what I've heard I think if it wasn't for oversexualisation and exploitation from the porn industry around penis size most guys would rather a a smaller one 😂😂

[@Crazygirl-eu5dc]

Does it hit your cervix? I think 6 inches is perfect.

[@Crazygirl-eu5dc]

I hope you’re joking. Not that I understand jokes but six inches is definitely not small. Most people are way smaller than 6. Five inches erect is average.

[@stevepalpatine2828]

@@Crazygirl-eu5dc 5 " dicklets BTFO

[@emperor_elkcip4260]

it depends on if its erect or not like if its not its between 3 and 4 inches average but it can get around 6 inches erect

[@curlaque]

I am 76 year old mother of three boys, three grandkids, and one grandchild! I am fascinated with this subject. I think of all the people when I was your age that may have felt they were in the wrong body but had to pretend their whole life. You are very articulate and I have no doubt you are educating many people but also helping people out there trying to navigate their feelings . I must say you and your girlfriend are a wonderfully sweet couple! I wish you both much happiness. I wish the world were a kinder place. I do think you are making a big impact on everyone who watches your videos! Bravo young man, bravo!

[@phancypahnts]

Cis woman here: anyone can pee in a bottle when stuck in traffic if you really need to. At least... My personal experience leads me to think that's true.

[@SummersPsycheDelicates]

Can confirm 🤣

[@eliqi]

Yep....

[@Alexandra-qc9te]

Hello there. I mean no disrespect but would you be willing to explain and help me understand the difference between "cis woman" etc. I genuinely would like to know so I can be respectful to all . Sorry 💓

[@phancypahnts]

@@Alexandra-qc9te Hey! :) No problem, Cis woman just means my gender identity coincides with my birth sex, so I was born female and I identify as a woman.

[@Alexandra-qc9te]

@@phancypahnts Thank you so much for responding. I truly appreciate it. May I ask what is the difference in regard to queer ? I'm sorry I would rather ask to educate myself. Hope I'm not bugging you . I feel pretty silly asking because I've identified as Bi since I was 14. You'd think I'd stay in know. Lol

[@robynescott2291]

Thank you so much for being so open, honest, and willing to share the details of something so personal. I've always had a genuine curiosity on the medical and anatomical aspects of this type of surgery but was aware that that curiosity could be perceived as something more salacious and intrusive than it was intended. You didn't owe anyone these intimate details, but I am grateful for the education you've provided. I've always liked all of your videos and am so happy that you have found your peace.

[@littlebugasmr]

“It’s too much responsibility” 🤣

[@streamagoraphobic8565]

I laughed too 😂😂

[@whalecat8049]

It's a responsibility you don't want anything to do with when you are a trans female.

[@biancab2607]

“That’s a lot of penis” xD

[@archentity]

It kinda is because with nearly 8 inches that i have (not bragging, just being honest) I have to be fully aroused during sex. Being moderately aroused means having 5 to 6 inches of firm but squishy meat that bends and folds up as i try to shove it into the vagina.

[@jaderatliff179]

@@archentity That's such a real struggle 😂😂

[@toriakaley1274]

I have watched all your videos for the last couple of years as my son is F2M. I wanted to learn more and understand his emotions more. I have to thank you so much as you have taught me so much. You have been so informative and I just love your relationship with your fiancé. I can only hope that my son finds the love you both have for each other. That’s just me being a worrying mother 😂. You appear to be a really thoughtful person and I thank you once more for what you have done for Trans people and worrying parents like me. You have made this so much easier for me. My son has top surgery in April and I know he will feel more confident once it is done. So excited for him! Much love for you both xx UPDATE - He was so happy when he had top surgery but since September he has tried to commit suicide and now is on serious drugs that we are helping him get off hopefully for the 2nd time. He is hurting and feels that no one accepts him out side the house. It’s really hard but we will get him through this and all I can hope for is that he accepts himself. He knows he is loved but whether he feels it is another matter! 😞 Update - he has since been diagnosed with ADHD and Autism So is on medication. This has helped him a lot to understand himself. Now wonder he was stressed out. He now has been clean for a while and although still gets depressed he is not so hard on himself. Also being on Testosterone changes his hormones as well as his moods. He is doing so well and I’m as proud of him and his brother for handling everything so well. My boys do me proud! ☺️

[@toriakaley1274]

Nobody. As a mother I would accept my kids if they say they want to be a purple alien. I just think it’s such a trauma going through all the emotions and feeling people go through to be who they want to be with rejection added to the list. When you become a mom you are a mom for life not just when you want to be one. I would do anything for my boys. 😊

[@nutelllla_]

@@toriakaley1274 it's been 5 months, but i just want to say you're an amazing mother ans an amazing person! im sure your son is so happy to have you as his mother, you're so supportive and wholesome and its really nice to see :)

[@navaneethvijay1315]

Parents like you are the real dedication for future generations. Actually I'm a gay but I don't think that my parents accept me I told this to my brother And he is not supportive and he is saying that it's just my thought I feel a mixture of sad and angriness But I will mind him Take care 🥰🥰🥰

[@toriakaley1274]

@@Ty-dk2sj thank you

[@toriakaley1274]

@@nutelllla_ Thank you

[@phaedrus4931]

I know to come here for education on the trans ftm experience and culture, but learning to love the word squidgy in all it's forms is just a treat.

[@serobinson1]

These honest conversations will get the world so far. You were doing such a service.

[@Sealington]

i cannot think of any word that can describe how thankful i am for trans youtubers who make me feel represented

[@jmsmith1767]

I’m a sis gendered male he/him and I a sure I stumbled upon your videos while researching lbgtq+ topics because I am a middle school teacher in NYC and, as a district the policies on students in the LGBTQ+ community are getting better and better every day. KZbin is such a fantastic resource for both those in the community and those of us who are allies.

[@scarred_chaos7986]

I’ve been watching your videos all day, I’m trying to educate myself so I can better understand my trans boyfriend’s struggles. Thank you for putting this kind of information out there, I’m sure a lot of people appreciate it including myself ❤️

[@marshes22]

I'm so happy about how open you are about bottom surgery! So helpful :)

[@HeronCoyote1234]

My child (18) just started the ftm journey last week (involving us, that is). This video was so helpful for me. I’m going to binge watch your videos. Thank you so much for doing these.

[@lalahaha8407]

Thank you for being an amazing parent

[@NomzNoodle]

As an American, I can’t imagine just not paying for something when going to a hospital

[@JadeDRail]

"THATS A LOT OF PENIS" XD You have such a funny way of saying things, makes videos very entertaining. Keep up the good work.

[@goldensprite3373]

🤣🤣🤣

[@theflowerhead]

Got me too!

[@goldensprite3373]

@@TheAstroflight shut up troll

[@goldensprite3373]

@@TheAstroflight you really thrive on validation haha

[@amykh7647]

@@TheAstroflight And I'm sure it has nothing to do with bizarre KZbin 'rules' about what gets demonitized and/or flagged. Btw, congrats on being able to both call someone out for not using the 'correct' adult term while childishly taunting someone with that same word. That takes an incredible lack of self-awareness that is rarely seen these days, you must be so proud.

[@phazaz5697]

I love how he’s so casual and open! It’s amazing

[@mrsstrawberry7110]

You handled these subject material with Grace, humor, and solid research and experience and you did an amazing job. I have already shared your channel with some friends of mine working on their transition. Thank you for being there and sharing your experience.

[@amberrogers2925]

I freaking love your honesty and your bluntness and I’m a huge shipper for you and Shaaba. Just... thank you for putting your truth out into the world, and helping others who may need your encouragement and advice. You make the world a better place.

[@elizabethvogelchase2574]

Except it would be Shaime, not appropriate, or Jaaba, also not sure how I feel about this.

[@lemonlyartistry]

It’s really incredible of you to be so open while educating people. The answers to these Q’s are totally your business, so it’s very kind of you to share and help others understand trans people better. You’re amazing (and so is your gf!! Currently binge watching your videos haha)💕

[@xXJoeyXxcoooool]

I’m not ftm but it’s just really nice to know what trans guys go through

[@adqueen2548]

Thank you for being so open about the topic! Growing up in Slovenia, where LGBTQ is not as acceted thus not as talked about as it should be, much topics are still new to me. I love to learn and understand people who are different than me because it allows me to be more accepting to them and not to accidently offend them or do something harmful. Your videos are great source of info! Thank you! Hugs!

[@jackiemorton3217]

I love this guy. I’m sure he’s helping a ton of people. And he is hilarious.

[@FG-cq9mg]

You are one of the bravest people I've ever known of! Bless you!

[@HexagonNightmare]

Just had a consultation for my top surgery and have been feeling just terrified. I decided to watch a few about bottom surgery too, figured what the hell. Being able to seemen who have gone through everything already amd see how happy and comfortable they are has definitely been helping calm me down. Thank you guys for posting these videos and being so open and vulnerable with complete strangers.

[@GoodrichT6]

I know this is a super old video (I've been binge watching your stuff ever since I found your channel lmao) but this was super helpful!! I'm a cis guy and I feel scared to ask these kinds of questions out of fear of sounding disrespectful, so having them all answered here really helps haha. I also must admit, I'm a little jealous that transmasc balls aren't as sensitive, it must be a lot easier to deal with them every day 😌

[@koichi8289]

There’s actually a surgeon in Texas that does a version of bottom surgery called Centurion Metoidioplasty! It’s still very small, but it’s a bit bigger :3

[@TheHelloXKittyyy]

I’m here because I have fallen for a trans man, we’ve taken things slow but all I want is to give him every ounce of emotional support I can from a partner standpoint. I’ve learned so much from your channel and I am so thankful to you for making these videos. You’ve open not only my eyes but my families as well as we navigate everything to the best of our abilities ❤️ thank you so much

[@heydanalee]

Seen this video in my suggested for a while, finally took the plunge. I appreciate the honesty and the information. We can all be honest that the stuff between the legs goes a long way for a lot of us for intimacy. It is considered unacceptable to talk about what a trans person has, but same time its rather important for what we want/expect/etc. Very glad you are comfortable to help people understand!

[@LieutenantSheep]

I love how chill and open you are to answering questions. You’re serving a greater good of educating anyone who isn’t trans and anyone who is and has questions. I bet Little Jaime would have bee very grateful for your content

[@SilveraroShow]

Just got my packer!

[@lightyagami6794]

Congrats 💓

[@emmanuelaadebisi5743]

Kittalia yayyy

[@_l_9038]

I've been doing research, what site did you get yours from?

[@SilveraroShow]

L Complex Amazon

[@idae.g9780]

Congrats

[@sarahmcneil846]

Thanks for such an informative video. I'm a straight cis female who is trying to understand what its like to be transgender. I had no idea it affected so many people.

[@emerson23946]

I never ever thought I’d want bottom surgery, let alone phallo, but I recently realized that’s something I’m definitely going to do. The more I transition the more affirming it sounds if that makes sense. Thank you for sharing

[@drziggyabdelmalak1439]

You are such a positive guy and both a joy and informative to listen to. I'm a mere Gay mortal but have a trans-man friend who was one of the first people in the UK to have surgery all those years ago. He had very different experiences, as you can imagine. Good on you, mate! Take care and keep safe!

[@katherinestar1831]

Woah i have never been this early! Hope you and Shaaba are doing well, looking forward to the video

[@AlexLoranger]

As an MTF this is very informative. It's also confirming for me about what I want in my transition because all that talk about balls wiggling around made me cringe! lol I definitely want GRS and it's funny no matter what other people need for their transition it is all unique to that person and you look so happy and content! I'm so happy for you and I hope my transition to female will go as well as your transition to male.

[@xipherzen]

I'm so glad I stumbled across this. I've been a bit late to transitioning only now looking to start testosterone at age 29, and your videos have tackled a lot of the fears I'd put off until now. I'm finally going to be calling my doctor today, so thank you for being so informative and helpful! Can't wait to finally start into my own journey :)

[@Peeplii]

Man these videos keep popping up on my recommended and like 👀👀 I have been questioning for a while now and I'm pretty sure this is just the universe throwing eggs at me

[@AriTheDinoMomma]

i mean my cis husband likes to sit at home, so like its not odd to do so. Thank you for being so open and honest with your journey when you had no reason to, except for the sake of education. You are a wonderful soul.

[@project_swift]

As a cis guy, I learned a lot from this. Thanks 🙂

[@jamesnelson6656]

Ik I'll never need this but its still important to know. I wish all of you going through something, the best of luck getting through it and if you are doing good, keep going. It can always get even better