FTM | Divorced At 24 Years Old

[@SandBoxZen]

Take your time. It will work out in the end.

[@aflashin-time2260]

So sorry to hear this. 24 is still young so don't worry too much. I'm 33 and never married.

[@elijahray132]

Thanks man 🐙 yeah that’s true I got a lot of my life left. Oh shit, you posted a new video I’m going to check it out (:

[@sabrinaperkins8077]

I'm sorry to hear that 😔

[@elijahray132]

Thanks, it’s for the better tho🙃

[@endereverdeen]

Really sorry to hear this but glad you’re looking on the bright side of things and trying to move forwards. How did you decide who got which cat?

[@elijahray132]

Yeah I like to stay positive(: It’s funny actually both of our cats clearly have a favorite owner boba always hung out/loves my ex more and cheddar just always liked me more so it made sense. It’s also nice because both of our cats never really got along so they won’t be too hurt on splitting up.

[@endereverdeen]

@@elijahray132 That works out really well!

[@hilaryrose2379]

Dude I’m so sorry!!

[@elijahray132]

Thanks dude 🙃

[@pearlpearl3806]

Were you expecting your (ex) wife to take care of you after top surgery? Who will now? Sorry to hear your relationship didn’t work out

[@elijahray132]

Yeah I actually was expecting for her to take care of me. I’m not sure what I’ll do yet, possibly pay for a service or something. I’m hoping I’ll have a fast and easy healing so that I can be independent soon after surgery. Thanks 🖤

[@chrisonx2882]

Just a question. Y do you feel the need to be with someone right now? U have yet to heal from your relationship now. Its only going to create issues for u in the new relationship. Heal first, grow within yourself, love you more then indulge into something new with someone who is on the same frequency as u are. There are plenty of people into trans folk but it comes when it comes not by force. Being single after a 8 year then 5 year relationship has been the best thing that ever happened to me because I got a break to work on me and find things that was troubling about me and I got the chance to really work on my mental health and physical. Im more confident now and more vocal to women that are interested but i dont want a relationship nor do i want that to be the only thing that makes me happy i have to do that first.. Not saying this is for u n not to force my feelings onto u but heal first.

[@elijahray132]

I’m not really sure what I said in this video but I am not really looking for a relationship rn. Mainly what I want is friends because I haven’t had that for years but yes I’m scared that I won’t find love as a Trans man I think that you are right, there are a lot of people into trans people (: I’m also trying to heal and grow alone. I think I’ll be staying single for the next couple years at least. Being single have been so great for me so far it’s been two months and I definitely learned more about myself already 🐙

[@nickmiller9643]

Hey if you ever want to talk And need a friend I'm here

[@elijahray132]

Thankss🖤🖤😊

[@nefelh83]

You were dating other people, and you wonder why you got a divorce?!

[@elijahray132]

I didn’t she did.. we were going to break up and we tried it thinking it would help but it did the opposite :/

[@nefelh83]

@@elijahray132 It always does. Hope you feel better in the future..

[@TheEmoSyndicate]

Stay strong. Get a hobby King. It's going to be a while. Try python. Or c++. Was it a lesbian relationship or did she know you were trans for awhile? Sorry to hear though bud

[@elijahray132]

Thanks 🖤 I will. I have many hobbies so I should be good. I been learning Python for a while now I like it so far. It started off as a lesbian relationship but I transitioned a year after we met. She’s bi so it didn’t really affect the relationship.

[@TheEmoSyndicate]

@@elijahray132 guess she can be more Lesbian lean. Just assume the best. Don't think 4 years of marriage should change things like that. Also don't rush into marriage G. Keep your head up. Do hobbies. Work on yourself and try to find yourself. Be cool. Be emotional but don't think you won't find love again. Just wait and see. Country black person. Nice. Sweet dude. I want to run in that field honestly. Good luck on python. It's pretty easy and keep painting. Self improvement. Never stop. No idle hands

[@elijahray132]

@@TheEmoSyndicate maybe but we didn’t break up because I transitioned it was other reasons.. yeah I know I shouldn’t have gotten married so young. Thanks for the encouragement and positive vibes 🤟🏽🦑

[@TheEmoSyndicate]

@@elijahray132 welcome G. No matter what happens. Just know that you are loved. Find yourself. Be yourself. Love yourself before you love others. Still impressive for 20 year olds. I respect the first try. Hope next time is longer or forever.

[@kylei7460]

I’m sorry I’m here if you wanna talk

[@elijahray132]

Yo, thanks 🖤🤟🏽

[@kylei7460]

@@elijahray132 np anytime I started watching ur videos on Thursday and I’m proud of you for being yourself

[@elijahray132]

@@kylei7460 that’s awesome, I’m just trying to be happy 🙃