FTM - Height Dysphoria

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mattisus

mattisus

Күн бұрын

I suffer a lot with height dysphoria and i know a lot of other trans guys do. I went on growth hormone a few years ago which could be an option for some of you. So quick tips for just looking taller as well as how to cope with it. Being small gets me down a lot especially on the romantic/dating side of things but i know hearing about other guys experiences helps. Feel free to share your height dysphoria thoughts in the comments. I know sometimes just getting things off ya chest helps.
Matty x
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@wassupitsyaboi3680
@wassupitsyaboi3680 5 жыл бұрын
Boy I can't win. Dysphoria: haha you can't wear fitted clothes because you have boobs Me: fine I'll wear baggy clothes Height dysphoria: haha you can't wear baggy clothes because they make you look short
@user-ds6pk8wt3k
@user-ds6pk8wt3k 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations. Welcome to the beautiful life of a man.
@neeldev8070
@neeldev8070 2 жыл бұрын
🥲🥲
@whitesnake.
@whitesnake. Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@devinarmstrong1406
@devinarmstrong1406 6 жыл бұрын
I’m 5’4 height dysphoria is one of my biggest things
@arespots8286
@arespots8286 5 жыл бұрын
if it makes you feel better i am cismale and 5'3 my dad is 5'2 and my tallest brother is 5'6
@deadlyartisan8949
@deadlyartisan8949 5 жыл бұрын
Mood!!
@QuiescentusAstra
@QuiescentusAstra 5 жыл бұрын
bruh, im 4'11
@shiroh3581
@shiroh3581 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 5'2"
@gxldenchild6764
@gxldenchild6764 4 жыл бұрын
i’m 5’1 lol
@ryeboflayvin
@ryeboflayvin 5 жыл бұрын
5’3” gang 🤘😔🤘
@crishall9522
@crishall9522 5 жыл бұрын
Sup, how u doin' lol
@micahfoote7270
@micahfoote7270 4 жыл бұрын
gang gang 😔🤙
@yourfavoritecloud7307
@yourfavoritecloud7307 3 жыл бұрын
We sad out here 😔
@predatorywaspsss
@predatorywaspsss 4 жыл бұрын
I was cursed to be 5'2 and it pains me daily. My younger sister is way taller and still growing :(
@mattisus6712
@mattisus6712 4 жыл бұрын
same dude, my younger sister and all my younger cousins are taller than me
@pygmymanlet
@pygmymanlet 4 жыл бұрын
i'm 5'3 as well and I'm either getting ll or going to rope.
@alexadraws123
@alexadraws123 3 жыл бұрын
My younger brother is taller than me and I hate it, I wish I was a cool tall older brother but I’m not
@marz_mitzi
@marz_mitzi 3 жыл бұрын
you're so lucky,, i wish i was 5'2 and 5'10. its so horrible
@abcdefgh6951
@abcdefgh6951 2 жыл бұрын
Those younger siblings they always be better taller then us it's not fair xd
@johndrivess
@johndrivess 5 жыл бұрын
I'm not even on the growth curve for men. I'm 4'11" :(
@ryandaddy1089
@ryandaddy1089 4 жыл бұрын
Youre not alone
@ryandaddy1089
@ryandaddy1089 4 жыл бұрын
But if that makes you feel any better I know 2 guys shorter than me and they're cis adults so.. there are short cis guys out there. I sometimes feel abnormally short since Im shorter than litterally everyone not only in my family but everywhere I go. I kinda have regrets for not doing anything about it when I had possibility altho I probably couldn't afford it cz now its too late.
@azariah15
@azariah15 4 жыл бұрын
@@ryandaddy1089 what do you mean by CIS? What does that acronym stand for?
@ryandaddy1089
@ryandaddy1089 4 жыл бұрын
@@azariah15 cis stands for cisgender which is the opposite of trans. If you're not trans then you're cis.
@azariah15
@azariah15 4 жыл бұрын
@@ryandaddy1089 ok. Thank you. I never knew.
@UnlimitedEmeralds
@UnlimitedEmeralds 4 жыл бұрын
If it makes any of y'all feel better, my dad and brother are cis males and are only 5'2 and 5'1, im literally the same height as my dad. I am Mexican so its a genetic thing and my people are just that height unfortunately but its not uncommon for cis males to be less than 5'5.
@greenchip32
@greenchip32 5 жыл бұрын
There are so many short cis males out there, i see short guys everyday and anywhere, it makes me feel better and accept being short. It’s okay.. you don’t choose your height
@mattisus6712
@mattisus6712 5 жыл бұрын
yeah exactly!!
@NoahHella
@NoahHella 6 жыл бұрын
shoe tip: Converse 70 Classic High Top. They have a thick sole so make you a bit taller :)
@maheegopal8904
@maheegopal8904 3 жыл бұрын
Link
@GroundswellBand
@GroundswellBand 2 жыл бұрын
Yes link
@GroundswellBand
@GroundswellBand 2 жыл бұрын
Yes link
@bobsuruncle2088
@bobsuruncle2088 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 5'7 and my husband (who's cis) is shorter than me... so there.
@francescoscarpato3293
@francescoscarpato3293 4 жыл бұрын
I feel so much dysphoria for my height, bc my brother is 13 years old and I'm 19 years old and he is taller than me and yeah I'm like this bc I'm not cis male... and I feel so bad.
@WaywardGhoul
@WaywardGhoul 5 жыл бұрын
Haha I feel ya bro. I’m 5’1...I blame it on me being Mexican but in Mexico and STX everyone’s short so if it’s not too bad
@matthewarnold8259
@matthewarnold8259 5 жыл бұрын
I’m just stretching three times a day and hoping something happens.
@starninjacam7774
@starninjacam7774 3 жыл бұрын
mood
@sushilovermf
@sushilovermf 2 жыл бұрын
Lmao same
@saff1257
@saff1257 5 жыл бұрын
i’m 5”0 and i hate it
@abcdefgh6951
@abcdefgh6951 3 жыл бұрын
I should really stop complaining about being 5”6
@user-ds6pk8wt3k
@user-ds6pk8wt3k 2 жыл бұрын
LOL but being a man is soooooo privileged
@user-ds6pk8wt3k
@user-ds6pk8wt3k 2 жыл бұрын
@@abcdefgh6951 still a manlet. Below 5'10: very short. Below 6': manlet@@@
@fey7367
@fey7367 2 жыл бұрын
my height is one of the things i’m most dysphoric about
@nathanr5737
@nathanr5737 4 жыл бұрын
This video and it’s comments makes me feel way better, thx dude
@KissAnimeAULoveAnime
@KissAnimeAULoveAnime 4 жыл бұрын
I'm MTF and 6', I would give you my height in an instant
@Knrr-yr2dd
@Knrr-yr2dd 3 жыл бұрын
Why? Tall women are beautiful too and in no way discriminated as hard as short guys are.
@aris.2026
@aris.2026 3 жыл бұрын
@@Knrr-yr2dd did you just.... gatekeep height dysphoria..?
@goldencove2670
@goldencove2670 3 жыл бұрын
I would give you my 5,1 height if I wasn’t still confused on which gender I am
@s_quasimodo
@s_quasimodo 3 жыл бұрын
Girl, if only that was possible..
@lezkaxgreywood9218
@lezkaxgreywood9218 3 жыл бұрын
I would gladly take it
@LittleDoobyBoy
@LittleDoobyBoy 6 жыл бұрын
im 5'1" .... could you link those shoes? :)
@mattisus6712
@mattisus6712 6 жыл бұрын
here you go man, a lot of places sell them not just ASOS its just the first link that popped up when i searched them. www.asos.com/au/adidas-originals/adidas-originals-gazelle-sneakers-in-red-s76228/prd/6755023?clr=red&SearchQuery=adidas%20gazelle&gridcolumn=4&gridrow=3&gridsize=4&pge=1&pgesize=72&totalstyles=20
@ShilohKeeling
@ShilohKeeling 5 жыл бұрын
MIllennial Max me too!! Lol
@eason9399
@eason9399 4 жыл бұрын
Same same lol
@wintermacca
@wintermacca 3 жыл бұрын
I'm trans and 5'1 it's so depressing.
@NoahHella
@NoahHella 6 жыл бұрын
Yesss he’s back!
@mattisus6712
@mattisus6712 6 жыл бұрын
Noah Hella and here to stay
@NoahHella
@NoahHella 6 жыл бұрын
mattisus aaight
@PsychedPerspective
@PsychedPerspective 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experiences and perspectives. I’m 5’7” and trans masculine. I feel my height is okay though now I’d love to be at least 5’9” but ehh I’ll be ok.
@greenchip32
@greenchip32 5 жыл бұрын
PsychedPerspective I’d love to be 5’7 .. I’m like 5’3
@lenrikagenuki5350
@lenrikagenuki5350 5 жыл бұрын
Dude. You're just bragging. It's mean, buuuuut if I was taller I would be like "hey! I'm *insert height* tall bros."
@subliminals5825
@subliminals5825 5 жыл бұрын
Man try to be 5'3 i bet its worse
@atrain3441
@atrain3441 2 жыл бұрын
I think the ideal height for a male (cis or trans) is 5'8 to 6ft. Any taller and you'll have lots of issues later down the road. Source: Me, 6'7 cis dude with extreme back pain, borderline scoliosis and permanently hunched posture from slouching in cars
@eliduran902
@eliduran902 5 жыл бұрын
5’1. One of the biggest things that makes me say I could never pass even if I tried 😑
@ryandaddy1089
@ryandaddy1089 4 жыл бұрын
Passing is not an issue. Im like 5feet and I pass pre t. I never find my size in clothes but I wear them anyways which makes me looks even shorted but hides all the curves which is great. Youre taller than me I'm sure you'll pass!
@babystarcandy2840
@babystarcandy2840 3 жыл бұрын
same
@user-ds6pk8wt3k
@user-ds6pk8wt3k 2 жыл бұрын
Don't even bother trying. That's coming from a cis, short male. Take the Heightpills
@noodleoodle7439
@noodleoodle7439 5 жыл бұрын
4'11 and I get so much shit for it... I cry over it, I'm so dumb 😂
@vomitcomedy2030
@vomitcomedy2030 2 жыл бұрын
no youre not. It's okay to cry. Keep your head up king
@ggggggg5987
@ggggggg5987 2 жыл бұрын
I'm going to be 5'2 my entire life Istg I want to cry
@dandadamo4299
@dandadamo4299 4 жыл бұрын
Okay I know I'm pretty lucky that I'm 5'6". But jeeeesus, I wish I could be something ridiculous like 6'4". But I wish I could even have an extra two inches and vibe at 5'8".
@juliancain3872
@juliancain3872 3 жыл бұрын
I lucked out at 5'11, not trans, but easy fix in high school shoe insoles, 2 inches, 1 inch, slight uncomfortable, but I wore socks and double socked them, and wore boots in the winter, tall shoes in general. Easy 6'1. If you haven't grown, you could appear to be at least 5'8 comfortably.
@loltadynicneni913
@loltadynicneni913 4 жыл бұрын
I'm about 152 centimeters and according to our doctor, my younger sister will overgrow me.
@marz_mitzi
@marz_mitzi 3 жыл бұрын
you can have my 5'10, i'm sick of it, i- i can't take being so tall anymore... i'm mtf and i suffer for extreme height dysphoria, i kinda want to give up trying to be myself because im masculinized no matter what, i can't even look shorter nor do anything to relieve it. so basically i just have to suffer will give my height away to anyone lmao,, and lastly apperantly society is like "um ur so tall, u aren't cute and u cant be cute bc ur so tallll" so yes, im internally 5'3 and get 5'10, this is a nightmare...
@heyy8074
@heyy8074 3 жыл бұрын
Run that walkway. Remember, physical appearance won't make you masculine or feminine but its about the energy you are putting out there. There are a bunch of famous women who are 5'10 and a lot of them are models. If you want to appear more feminine then sway those hips and be confident. You are perfect just the way you are and I am very proud of you for making it through this far on your journey of self discovery.
@hamza_ali_
@hamza_ali_ 2 жыл бұрын
Please give me ur height I'm trans guy 😿
@lyidspino7653
@lyidspino7653 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I was 5'10. I'm 5'8" or 5,9.
@FamilyIsGone
@FamilyIsGone Жыл бұрын
HOW 5'10 FOR a women is legit PERFECT SIZE
@FamilyIsGone
@FamilyIsGone Жыл бұрын
​@@hamza_ali_are you muslim
@alexanderhamilton6249
@alexanderhamilton6249 4 жыл бұрын
i’m 5’6 and height dysphoria is one my my worst. i just hate it so much. it hate it and i can’t cope with it.
@manoparmigiano8742
@manoparmigiano8742 3 жыл бұрын
I recommend using men's platforms, unless they're not your style. I personally find them very stylish and helpful when used together with shoe insoles, they'll give you around 10-15 cm.
@2111jade
@2111jade 4 жыл бұрын
Yes. It's a thing, and I have it. I'm 5'2" so yeah. Very short too.
@Human-san
@Human-san 2 жыл бұрын
5' 1", I've just given up since my doctor said I might grow another inch if at all.
@doughboi2145
@doughboi2145 4 жыл бұрын
im 5'21/2 :( i feel you. but if it makes you feel better your the first trans guy youtuber whos around my height and looks cis passing asf. the other short trans guys ive seen don't exactly pass.
@nathanr5737
@nathanr5737 4 жыл бұрын
I’m 5’1 😢 this was a great video could rly relate
@marcusxo7565
@marcusxo7565 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t really comment on KZbin but I’m 5’2 and 14 and sometimes I get a little insecure with my height I kinda grew a bit tall by doing some stretches I’m almost 5’3 but it’s not enough for me. I’m really hoping when I start my transition I’ll grow
@unrandom9551
@unrandom9551 Жыл бұрын
I didn't had height dysphoria until i entered the high-school bc im like the shortest person in the classroom and i didnt thought it very much and i was like idk but then i befriended a girl that isnt mean in that way but made me feel insecure about my height bc she was reminding me that I'm 150 cm and she also called me "petit" (it means like small in French) and at this point i went to dont hate me that bad to looking on the mirror and be sad bc i know that i won't be able to grow more
@3bah4y
@3bah4y 10 ай бұрын
Dude il m’arrive la même fucking affaire du début à la fin😭
@sluggdealerr
@sluggdealerr 4 жыл бұрын
i’m 5’3 and 18 years old, i feel like i will never be taken seriously as a man 😭
@tomthumb9109
@tomthumb9109 6 жыл бұрын
Hey Matt! Great vid. Do wth you on this one - I'm 5'4" shoe size 6 (got into bigger shoes from about 6 much to my mother's horror - apparently I wanted size 10 feet and to be 6'2"!). Needles to say we"re about the bloody height of jockeys and garden gnomes but..... I do think that one of our really huge advantages is our hands! That we have bigger hands and vvvv masculine hands and feet. I think that's my consolation prize to myself. I am a hands person so hands on anyone are really important to me. You have great hands!! Shape, size the whole shooting match. Hmmm...and bottom dysphoria. Well, that's got ten times worse since I started T..trying to make peace wth that. Don't see that happening too soon though. Where abouts in Oz are you?
@user-lp3qz5ri2m
@user-lp3qz5ri2m 3 жыл бұрын
I am 5'4 and I think I might be trans.. or well I at least feel more comfortable with labeling myself as male. I am struggling a lot and I have height dysphoria.. I'm 13 rn but I stopped growing already (my mother stopped at 13 too) I hope so much that I will still grow at least 5 centimeters tho but I doubt.. :( it's making me so sad
@dxterwolf
@dxterwolf Жыл бұрын
Hows it going for you dude
@user-lp3qz5ri2m
@user-lp3qz5ri2m Жыл бұрын
@@dxterwolf Damn I forgot I even made this comment.. I grew 2 inches I'm 5'6 now and I'm starting T in august :)
@dxterwolf
@dxterwolf Жыл бұрын
@@user-lp3qz5ri2m AWESOMEEEE
@zukaiyu
@zukaiyu 3 жыл бұрын
I have so much height dysphoria, I am 5'1. I wear platform boots, demonias, to make me significantly taller but it makes me less likely to pass because an average cis person would think what type of male would wear platform boots???
@pygmymanlet
@pygmymanlet 4 жыл бұрын
wait so I would have been able to get my manletism subsidized? why were my parents so stupid and decided not to do it even with that. what the hell. I hate being 5'3
@kaisergray.
@kaisergray. 6 жыл бұрын
I’m not sure if they’re your kinda style but Nike Air Force 1’s have a huge sole, it’s probably just over an inch but they don’t really appear that way
@jamjam1524
@jamjam1524 5 жыл бұрын
I’m 5,1 ;-; but like I’m 15 idk of I’ll grow more
@anastasiak8719
@anastasiak8719 5 жыл бұрын
Sleep at least 6 hours a day, have a balanced diet and do intense workouts. Vitamin D supplements may also help. Good luck!
@gooniefilms9938
@gooniefilms9938 4 жыл бұрын
I’m 5,6 but also 15 I feel your pain man I hate my height so much I worry everyday if am going even grow more or not
@goldencove2670
@goldencove2670 3 жыл бұрын
Hhhhh same it hurts man, I feel you
@theGhostSteward
@theGhostSteward 3 жыл бұрын
I try to get growth hormones when I was younger and I get really angry to remember that doctors told my mom they are like 500cost when they are not
@qwertyuiopasdfghjkl9879
@qwertyuiopasdfghjkl9879 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 5’10 but it’s still one of my biggest dysphoria because all my friends are like 6’2 or taller
@finniganrider7355
@finniganrider7355 5 жыл бұрын
I am also 5'3, I feel your pain
@fragolegirl2002
@fragolegirl2002 4 жыл бұрын
Go to Ecuador where a lot of men are 5’4 you’ll feel better about your height
@AishaAisha-nz8ug
@AishaAisha-nz8ug 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 174 I am pre t I am 16 And I am working out to be 177 at least Wish me luck
@micah5641
@micah5641 4 жыл бұрын
You don't get taller by working out... ???
@Aliceundeaddoll
@Aliceundeaddoll 3 жыл бұрын
I'm only 4'10 (and 21 which make the things worse) Why do I have to be like this? >:
@juni671
@juni671 4 жыл бұрын
5 feet here 😔✊
@goldencove2670
@goldencove2670 3 жыл бұрын
Yo-here from the future in the sad world of the pandemic and I’m super confused about my gender identity and I’m to scared to try anything, though I will say if I had the choice to wake up tomorrow as a either gender I would choose to be a guy but I’m so scared to try anything and it’s too late for me since my growth plates have basically stoped. I have really long hair that I’m attached to and I’m 5’1, even if I’m on T idk if my face with sharpen out and I haven’t even begun binding. This video is really comforting weirdly so if you see this can I ask if you have any tips on how to clear stuff up or become less confused? Because I like the feeling of both genders
@juliancain3872
@juliancain3872 3 жыл бұрын
Well I hope things are going well with you. And if you'd like, Non binary is a thing. I have know 4 transgender men, and from what I can tell they're all happier than ever and happily married to boot. I don't know if that helps but I just want you to know that there is a light at the end of the tunnel if you choose to go down that route.
@goldencove2670
@goldencove2670 3 жыл бұрын
@@juliancain3872 thank you man, youve got good timing, I needed to hear this
@personallycom3339
@personallycom3339 6 жыл бұрын
I’m literally 4’11 lol I hate it so much
@fatworm4804
@fatworm4804 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@henryohana6349
@henryohana6349 3 жыл бұрын
I've got a couple of inches on you - I'm 5'1" - but it doesn't help much. Still, I appreciate that I've got at least that. These guys who are 5'6" don't know what it's like down here. Hang in there, hold your head high, and throw your chest out there. 1/2 of what it takes is attitude!
@personallycom3339
@personallycom3339 3 жыл бұрын
@@henryohana6349 ended up growing to 5ft almost 5ft 1 in the end so I guess that's something. Cheers mate
@JOHN-kc1pw
@JOHN-kc1pw 6 жыл бұрын
Bro, I’m 5’4 I feel your pain.
@arespots8286
@arespots8286 5 жыл бұрын
still inch taller than me and i'm a cismale don't worry about your height
@ellenl.r.p.obrien4661
@ellenl.r.p.obrien4661 5 жыл бұрын
Sucks. Honestly.
@nyangjungwon2269
@nyangjungwon2269 3 жыл бұрын
i'm not cis or ftm but i get this a lot and i'm 5'3 too
@tomcouzens7470
@tomcouzens7470 2 ай бұрын
if it makes you feel any better Im a cis male and Im 5,5 so there are shorter guys who are out there. Your masculinity doesn't depend on how tall you are.
@atrain3441
@atrain3441 2 жыл бұрын
You should try get height surgery. It's expensive but you can try. You can get a solid 4 inches (or maybe even 6 or 7) inches in height.
@vomitcomedy2030
@vomitcomedy2030 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 5'4 I'm trying to gain confidence on my height but if i had the option to at least be 5'7 5'8 i would choose it reeallll quick. 6'0 is the dream though
@starninjacam7774
@starninjacam7774 3 жыл бұрын
i’m 5’1” and my cis female friend who’s 5’5” said she’d give me like 4 inches of her height. damn if only it worked like that...
@Preston-Lee
@Preston-Lee 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 4’10”, I wish gh was possible as an adult
@archiedobson4319
@archiedobson4319 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 5”6/5”7 I’d really like to be atleast 5”9 but I’m trying to accept myself for my natural height
@lenrikagenuki5350
@lenrikagenuki5350 5 жыл бұрын
Growth hormones?
@realsquidking
@realsquidking 3 жыл бұрын
5'0, and I'm 13, doctor says I will grow up to 5'1. Sucks. :( I hope the doctor is spitting out bullshit because I really hope to AT LEAST hit the 5'5 mark...
@pygmymanlet
@pygmymanlet 4 жыл бұрын
well at least you aren't one of these tall good looking guys complaining about bdd or something ridiculous like that.
@lawrencemakoare-z7p
@lawrencemakoare-z7p 2 жыл бұрын
I reckon you should try subliminals!
@purplelemons6277
@purplelemons6277 2 жыл бұрын
I use those foam to put in the shoes you can buy them on amazon
@skb282
@skb282 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 16 is it too late for growth hormones? I'm not even trans but I have gender dysphoria
@mattisus6712
@mattisus6712 4 жыл бұрын
Age doesn't necessarily matter, as long as your growth plates are still open. I only went on growth hormone because I was trans. I was below the the height of 99% of guys my age. Growth hormone is very expensive, time consuming and inconvenient so only go on it if you are extremely short or there are some other medical issues to do with your height.
@skb282
@skb282 4 жыл бұрын
@@mattisus6712 how tall were you?
@ijustdontknow5817
@ijustdontknow5817 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 4'10 🤦🏽‍♂️
@mikuhh
@mikuhh 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 5'2 but i always lie and say im 5'3 ....my little brother is 5'9
@casperleegrace2161
@casperleegrace2161 3 жыл бұрын
167.5cm. it makes me so upset😅i atleast would wanna be 173cm+
@Leotastick
@Leotastick 2 жыл бұрын
I'd love to AT LEAST be 5,6 - 5,9
@sasukeog7101
@sasukeog7101 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 5’9.5” and I have height dysphoria.
@abcdefgh6951
@abcdefgh6951 3 жыл бұрын
Is 5”6 short for a man?
@partypoison4730
@partypoison4730 3 жыл бұрын
As a fellow man, definitely not broski 👌
@user-ds6pk8wt3k
@user-ds6pk8wt3k 2 жыл бұрын
Below 6' is short.
@Human-san
@Human-san 2 жыл бұрын
What country are you in?
@abcdefgh6951
@abcdefgh6951 2 жыл бұрын
@@Human-san i searched it up and in my country average height is 5'10 xd so yeah I am short but it could be worse
@shadowknight3100
@shadowknight3100 3 жыл бұрын
Turning 18 and still 5 and half an itch 😭
@T2000-g4p
@T2000-g4p 4 жыл бұрын
Im 5’11 and i would be 6’5+, if i were born male, Im also under average height for a male, because i live in Europa, do you Think i could get this grown hormone When i am 17 yrs, even tho Im not very short?
@dannydunhill7078
@dannydunhill7078 4 жыл бұрын
So do I. I feel average wherever I go, it doesnt matter there are people who are lower than me, its just how you look at yourself and my perception of my body is that I am small. I regret not taking HGH, when I was at younger age, despite that I am decided to undergo surgery by 7-8 cm which would make me a huge guy.
@0042-u1r
@0042-u1r 3 жыл бұрын
Same Im 5'8 which is pretty average but all my cis guy friends are way taller than me :/
@robertrist2300
@robertrist2300 6 жыл бұрын
I am short to I was 5/6 6 years back 5/4 and now I am 5/2
@GhostofTheUchiha22
@GhostofTheUchiha22 3 жыл бұрын
My male classmates are so tall and I'm like 5'5 I'm super jealous :( thanks
@GhostofTheUchiha22
@GhostofTheUchiha22 3 жыл бұрын
It makes me feel so dysphoric bro and plus I have to be called a she :(
@hilol9820
@hilol9820 3 жыл бұрын
@@GhostofTheUchiha22 exactly same, I'm 5'5 (according to my genetics, 5'6 should be my adult height :/), it feels so humiliating, but you're not alone in this
@Kazzzy03
@Kazzzy03 4 жыл бұрын
does anyone know the laws around this in the uk i am 5'6 and i get really down about it, i also know if i was a real boy i would be taller. i am 16
@wizard1494
@wizard1494 3 жыл бұрын
5’6 is not bad at all. You are very lucky. There are plenty, plenty of cis men who are 5’6. I’m pretty sure it’s the 25th percentile.
@yasharahmed7601
@yasharahmed7601 3 жыл бұрын
Bruh wtf do you mean "real" boy stfu.r u here to make people dysphoric or what?u can literally just say cis.
@Kazzzy03
@Kazzzy03 3 жыл бұрын
@@yasharahmed7601 fucking hell calm down, no because i wasn't talking about gender I was talking about sex and that if I was born a real boy I would've been taller which his biology
@yasharahmed7601
@yasharahmed7601 3 жыл бұрын
@@Kazzzy03 BRUH THE WORD İS "CİS" FUCKİNG "CİS" YOU'RE MAKİNG İT SOUND LİKE AS İF TRANS MEN CANT EVER BE REAL MEN WTF
@ollie9869
@ollie9869 3 жыл бұрын
to any guys who are on or have been on puberty blockers did it help you grow taller? if not did it do the opposite and stunt your growth? cause i'm 14 atm and want to go on blockers but i'm actually afraid it'll stunt my growth (afraid i'll stop growing taller cause it'll stop puberty and you grow during puberty)
@mattisus6712
@mattisus6712 3 жыл бұрын
As far as I'm aware, puberty blockers will holt your growth but will not cause your growth plates to close. This means that once you get on t you still have a chance to resume growing. Definitely ask your doctor/endo though.
@Human-san
@Human-san 2 жыл бұрын
Puberty blockers don't actually stop growth. Estrogen is the hormone that causes growth plates to close, which is why the typical amab teenager will stop growing much later than their typical afab peers. In fact, there is a condition that makes people unable to produce estrogen (or enough of it), and people affected by this will continue growing indefinitely, albeit with a slew of medical complications. Anyways, as a short bitch who's already done growing and wasn't lucky enough to have supportive parents, please go get ur blockers.
@leinqd
@leinqd 4 жыл бұрын
i'm 5'3 as well
@CitrusBunnie
@CitrusBunnie 3 жыл бұрын
cursed to be 4'10
@leonardo899
@leonardo899 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a 5'6 CIS male, and I have height disphoria.
@azariah15
@azariah15 4 жыл бұрын
Being 5'7" I know I'm a short male. Short stature for guys is a disgusting, physical flaw, a genetic defect, a handicap/disability. There's no aesthetic appeal to short stature on a guy. This is based on my experience as a short male. 5'7" and under you're short. 5'8" is the decent height. 5'7" is also the incomplete height. You're close to being of decent height, but you're not there - you're still short. 5'9" and up is considered tall, but at 5'7" you're not there; you're far from being tall. I remember being to0ld by other women and other guys, if you were a female, you would be fine. I have seen women my height and many of them look great. If I was a female, I wouldn't date a short guy. I wouldn't put him down or make fun of him (I don't believe in making fun of other people), but I would never give him a chance. Let's be honest, you never hear parents say with pride, "Look at our short son." But if they have a tall son, you will hear them say with pride, "Our/My son is tall/so tall."
@raymondgonzales6439
@raymondgonzales6439 3 жыл бұрын
Being a short man is far from ideal in the dating world, but I think you are being a bit too hard on yourself. The way you describe your height is a bit unfair. Yes, you can find tons of quotes from women talking about how they find short men gross, but similarly you can find quotes about girls prefer guys in their height range. Unfortunately, its easier to focus on the negatives than the positives. It sucks that lots of women won't budge on their height requirements, but it doesn't mean we have to devalue ourselves just because of their preferences.
@azariah15
@azariah15 3 жыл бұрын
@@raymondgonzales6439 we're devalued because of our short stature. I have seen the women most short guys end up dating or marrying - low quality, bottom of the barrel. It's discouraging.
@raymondgonzales6439
@raymondgonzales6439 3 жыл бұрын
@@azariah15 i don't disagree that overall, we are viewed as less valuable dating partners. But the way that you described yourself as "disgusting" shows that you don't value yourself as much as you should. In my opinion that is even more brutal than society's overall devaluation of shorter than average men.
@azariah15
@azariah15 3 жыл бұрын
@@raymondgonzales6439 I'm applying it to myself and to male short stature in general.
@user-ds6pk8wt3k
@user-ds6pk8wt3k 2 жыл бұрын
@@raymondgonzales6439 cope, take the heightpill.
@subliminals5825
@subliminals5825 5 жыл бұрын
It's horrible im so small when ur on T does it makes a bit taller
@nastylawless
@nastylawless 4 жыл бұрын
Not really, but maybe you could grow 1 or 2 inches
@ValtielSmok
@ValtielSmok 5 жыл бұрын
did your feet grow at all?
@mattisus6712
@mattisus6712 5 жыл бұрын
yeah went up about 1.5 sizes
@ayazofluoglu
@ayazofluoglu 5 жыл бұрын
hey how old are you?
@seanwinter6140
@seanwinter6140 4 жыл бұрын
5'11 gang?
@sasukeog7101
@sasukeog7101 4 жыл бұрын
Sean Winter nope I'm 5’10 sorry
@dannydunhill7078
@dannydunhill7078 4 жыл бұрын
Yes and feel totally average, everywhere I go, I have a height dysphoria, cos I live in the country where my height is average, so hardly can I overcome this desperate feeling. When I look at myself I seemed just small, my legs are short and torso also, which is weird. Maybe 6' 2 ft would be great for me. However, many people in society just cant understand me, mainly my family when I tell them about my issue, I hope there will be time when these issues are common to talk about.
@dannydunhill7078
@dannydunhill7078 4 жыл бұрын
@David Sikent its not about my overall look, I look quite good and even though I would be the most beautiful person around the world, I would feel miserable about my height, because I just see myself in a mirror small. It depends on where you live, if you live in the country where I live so 5'11 is still average height. 6'2 is totally perfect, not very tall and you are above average.
@kerenton5897
@kerenton5897 5 жыл бұрын
eyes and face remind me of Russell Crowe btw
@unclemurphy3552
@unclemurphy3552 5 жыл бұрын
Im 5,7
@seanwinter6140
@seanwinter6140 4 жыл бұрын
can you take hgh and grow taller??
@mattisus6712
@mattisus6712 4 жыл бұрын
yes, thats what i was taking. As long as your growth plates have not fully sealed it can encourage further growth
@jacobclement3706
@jacobclement3706 4 жыл бұрын
mattisus awesome! Thanks for this video. Do you think a 14 year old would be able to grow on these? I’ve been on hormone blockers for a few months now. So idk I’ll have to ask at my next appt
@mattisus6712
@mattisus6712 4 жыл бұрын
@@jacobclement3706 yeah!! i think i was about 14. It really just depends on your growth plates though so you need to get a bone scan to see how much growth you have left. The blockers should stop them closing which gives you a bit of time to find out
@jacobclement3706
@jacobclement3706 4 жыл бұрын
mattisus Thank you 😊
@marz_mitzi
@marz_mitzi 3 жыл бұрын
@@mattisus6712 luckyyy, i can't do SHIt to shorten myself, nothing but cut off m fucking nasty ass legs so i don't have to suffer anymore lmao,,,,
@romaunces
@romaunces 3 жыл бұрын
Fuck it buying 6 inch platforms
@fatyes891
@fatyes891 6 жыл бұрын
luckily I am 6 foot
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