Glad the doctor is so caring and really does pay attention. Hang in there and I'm still doing the pee prayers
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Yes he is awesome! Thank you!!! :)
@calebmoon62037 жыл бұрын
"He came over, grabbed my dick" wtf lmfao that part made me crack up! 😂😂😂 Hoping for the best for you dude! You got this Cody! 💪😊👍
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
haha quite possibly the weirdest ive had in awhile :) Thanks dude!
@Vandermin0117 жыл бұрын
That paper skirt really painted a picture Cody😂very glad that Dr. Chen saw everything, he really sounds like a good MD. Will be praying for healing. You are so strong, I would have fainted at first sight of that probe! ***DO NOT NEED PACKER, thanks***
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
haha luckily I didn't faint! Thank you for the healing prayers!
@finnparnell32557 жыл бұрын
Healing thoughts your way, man! Stay positive 🙏 Dr Chen sounds like an awesome dr- not many would go that far and be so kind.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
He is awesome! And thank you!
@cairo6527 жыл бұрын
Hey man, I love watching your updates. I really appreciate you sharing such an intimate journey with your viewers to understand better what a realistic transition looks like. Can't wait for the next update!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Aw thanks!! I appreciate the support!!
@tammyrockman26337 жыл бұрын
It must feel better having a idea of what's going on. I'm glad they should be able to fix things in September. Please don't push yourself to hard to go back to work , I don't want anything to happen that'll complicate your recovery and next surgery date. Best wishes to you.
@TylerMarton5 жыл бұрын
I cannot believe you are putting yourself through this!
@andrewlitten18927 жыл бұрын
I've heard a lot of good things about Dr. Chen. Thanks for sharing your experience with us!
@Sumthing4theWkend7 жыл бұрын
Aww dude' I'm sooooo pee shy! I have to do that in front of my probation officer...it's horrible!! 😂 I think it's kinda benefiting me, tho, cos it seems she requests to see me less often cos it takes 45 mins for me to pee in front of her! Hahaha!!! 😂😂 Sounds like they have a much better idea of what's goin on with you now...so that's good. Slow progress, but you're getting there! *Edit* No need to add me to your packed drawing! I'm a cis female, and my boyfriend doesn't pack. I'd hate to have my name go in a random drawing and come out a winner , as I'm sure there are loads of guys out there who really need it and to whom it would mean a lot! 😉❤️
@jaredmorales22087 жыл бұрын
Thanks for updating, dude. I'm sorry you have to keep the catheter in for now, that sucks. I'm really rooting for everything to heal up fast for ya. Stay strong!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@myflyingkidney7 жыл бұрын
I feel your videos are getting funnier. I always laugh. :D but you seem to be getting better! go cody go :)
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
haha I think I am just having more awkward moments than usual! :)
@WillaHerrera6 жыл бұрын
Your arm video did show up in my feed. Wow lots of pain to go through to be the boy you are. I wish you all the happiness in life. Never listen to ignorant people.
@Codytalks116 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@BlazedNDazed7 жыл бұрын
You're awesome Cody!! You are so strong and I know in the end all of it will work out! Healing vibes your way darling!! And I totally would get that packer for my boyfriend!! ❤️
@ShadowDreamersHorse7 жыл бұрын
Oh man, phalloplasty really seems like quite the ride! I hope all goes well for you soon. (and oh man that story cracked me up)
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
It is quite the ride indeed! And glad it could make ya laugh! haha.
@jimnoheagarner69867 жыл бұрын
Gosh, Cody, so sorry about the fistula complication. I know about your anxiety as I have it too. I wish things turn around for the better soon.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you, me too! :)
@PokeyStix7 жыл бұрын
You look great with a beard btw
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
@willh74407 жыл бұрын
That sounded like quite the adventure!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
It was! lol
@maxlippincott38525 жыл бұрын
Praying for a successful repair and congrats on scrotoplasty!
@armywife4life787 жыл бұрын
Well I'm much older than you and married but I have to tell you that you're one foxy guy! I hope that you heal up nicely and get back to all the things God has planned for you to do. Continue to tell your story because I'm sure there is someone out there listening. God bless!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
+armywife4life78 aw haha thank you! :)
@yxelexy77137 жыл бұрын
Hope you'll heal fast ❤Best wishes for your recovery .
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
@kaidentaylor65337 жыл бұрын
Hope your healing process gets better. Much love
@connerdog4977 жыл бұрын
Just started watching you, you're great! I'm actually a transwoman getting my sex change in a couple months! I'm so scared and excited all at the same time!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Hey thanks for watching and congrats!!! That is super exciting!
@connerdog4977 жыл бұрын
Cody_talks my pleasure! Ill definitely continue watching on my free time! And, I know right! I'm super excited, slightly scared, but super excited!
@hannahh79037 жыл бұрын
I know it's one week today. Just want to let you know that even though I have just found your channel, I am praying it all goes well and that you heal. :)
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
@TheRogueDM7 жыл бұрын
I would love that packer please. :D I hope the complication sorts itself out, or your doctor at least puts it right in September. At least he has more of an idea what the problem could be now!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Yea, hopefully it all works out!
@BlueRibbonAML7 жыл бұрын
Good luck, with everything, things will eventually work out.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
@RoundyTheRoundCat6 жыл бұрын
I am just... humbled at how brave you must be as a trans person (not just you, any trans person) to make this choice. I can also empathize with the notion that it's even more frightening to live a lie. But wow, I guess, as a cisgender female, I am just glad I don't have to have such painful sounding surgeries. And... I hate to say this and feel like I am obectifying you, but holy god, you are a beautiful person... so incredibly handsome and your confidence is so sexy. x
@lisalentile1776 жыл бұрын
I said that too I would date him but I'm old enough to be his mom
@lisalentile1776 жыл бұрын
OMG you poor fellow I know that hurt yes catheters hurt even for girls I'm glad that you had a good dr to help you God bless you
@ethandunn52926 жыл бұрын
He sounds like the best doctor ever
@sunmartian47247 жыл бұрын
At least you have answers now! Also couldn't stop laughing through out this video. Good luck on the healing! Prayers as always. I also don't need the packer. Just commenting to comment.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the comment just to comment :) Appreciate it as always! Haha yes I am happy to have some answers at least!
@lou75697 жыл бұрын
hope it feels/heals better soon cody!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
@lbaye68127 жыл бұрын
Praying for pee man 🙏🏻! I love looking at your updates.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
@zayvionrambles7 жыл бұрын
Good luck with everything, man!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
@garrisonhensley71497 жыл бұрын
I could really use one...can't afford it. Good luck with everything and sharing what you go through:)
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you, and best of luck in the giveaway :)
@arreikc33157 жыл бұрын
Yay!!! So glad to hear it's not as bad as it could be! Much love 💛😽👌
@elijahf7 жыл бұрын
thanks for sharing your experiences, i hope it heals on it's own for you!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@TheAskesis17 жыл бұрын
When can u start back to working out? Geez! What an ordeal. Hope u on antibiotics. Omg, going back to work! Glad to see u r smiling.💕
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
I am not sure :( Not on antibiotics but I am supposed to take a couple pills the day he changes my tube. I can't wait to workout again but I have no idea when that will be.
@andrewjames2917 жыл бұрын
Best of luck man! I hope all ends well even if its a long ride
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
@autumnb86597 жыл бұрын
Thank you for keeping us updated ☺❤
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the support!
@the94jazzy7 жыл бұрын
Really digging these videos! Best of luck!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thanks!! :)
@JimmiAlli5 жыл бұрын
I hope that you fixed it - how does a fistula develop?
@cornflakejackson27047 жыл бұрын
Love you Cody! Stay strong dude ❤ much love
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
aw thank you! :)
@cornflakejackson27047 жыл бұрын
Cody_talks ahhh you replied
@noahburns09067 жыл бұрын
hey cody, i'm a young trans boy struggling to find the right words to come out to my mum. she will be really sweet about it, but i just don't know how to word it. any advice ? - Riley
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Hey! Hmm, I would say just tell her how you feel, speak from the heart and tell her your truth. :)
@knitting4premies7 жыл бұрын
Hey, if you talk to your mum from the heart that is all the words you need. Good luck spuddy. X
@MsCherade97 жыл бұрын
pjoj As the Mum of a trans teenager the best thing to do is to be honest and straightforward. The chances are that your Mum will already have some suspicions that there might be something you're not talking to her about. I don't know her but I do know lots of other parents of trans children and teenagers here in the UK. I belong to a charity called Mermaids for both the trans children and their families, there are lots of us across the UK of all ages. Some parents do struggle, but the vast majority just want to know what's happening so they can love and support their kids.
@cruzyii7 жыл бұрын
Did you talk to her,how did it go?
@Sasha-up9er7 жыл бұрын
If you're still having problems getting the words out, try just writing a letter and giving it to her to read or texting her or something. Sometimes things can be easier to say through writing rather than out loud.
@raphraph32607 жыл бұрын
Still trying to win me a packer because I can not afford one myself! But most of all feeling like I am taking this journey with you. Everytime I see a video of yours I immediatly start thinking ooh how is he doing. Is he peeing allright? 😀And how you told everything that happened with the appointment made me smile so much haha
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
haha glad it made you smile! You are entered for the giveaway! Best of luck :)
@raphraph32607 жыл бұрын
Awesome thank you so much Cody 😀
@taramcdowell93077 жыл бұрын
Sorry you are going through this but like I'd said before it will be worth it in the end... I'm kind of hesitant on wanting the surgery now tho but I don't know :) keep your head high. ilysm
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thanks! And despite the complications if I had to do it all again I would... still worth it :) Just trying to be patient lol
@taramcdowell93077 жыл бұрын
Cody_talks :)
@CEDL40727 жыл бұрын
I had to pee in front of a nurse I've never seen before, for a urodynamic test 😐 The test in it itself is very uncomfortable and a bit embarassing. Ended up needing to take meds for my bladder lol. Ahhh the joys of childbirth lol. Luckily the meds have fixed my problem 😊
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Glad the meds helped!! Peeing in front of someone is no easy task lol
@Srdm7137 жыл бұрын
Praying for a recovery for you man
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@PopRocksV7 жыл бұрын
I am hoping you heal before surgery so that way you don't have to wear a cath for too long. And that paper dress sounds like the newest fashion. Lol
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thanks! hah and oh the paper dress was fabulous :)
@ethanjohn91915 жыл бұрын
Is the reason you didn't feel the doctor insert the rod,because of loss of sensation or none at all?
@rustyshackelford187 жыл бұрын
Probably shouldn't be laughing as much as I am. Sounds horribly awkward but hope the fistula heals on it's own. Good luck with the stomach catheter and the torture stick. Boldly go, my friend. *not in need of the packer :)
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
hahah I am glad it made you luagh!! Thank you! :)
@berdooli33267 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear, bro!! Hope it gets better!!! And I hope to win the packer!!!!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! And best of luck :)
@uhatekara6 жыл бұрын
Hey, no judgement here but it looks like you might have blunt stains on your teefs. I get that too and i just add a bit of rubbing alcohol to my toothpaste and it takes it right off. >3> Love you. Thank you for sharing these things. I have a hell of a journey ahead. Pre-T and everything. Whoof
@itsashhere1757 жыл бұрын
Hi Cody!! I commented on your last video talking about how my boyfriend is trans and we are having a hard time affording a packer of any sorts!! It would be amazing if you could pick me! It would help him so much with his dysphoria! Thank you and I love your videos! I hope you heal fast!! I'm praying for you!!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Hey thank you!! Best of luck in the giveaway! :)
@maymay1957 жыл бұрын
Sending positive thoughts and positive vibes your way regarding the hole healing up!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
@okayokay69637 жыл бұрын
keep up the good work and the healing!!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@genevaakaaverydanner27806 жыл бұрын
Your video helps me prepare for what I am in for.
@marypetrosino75027 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh God bless you I had things put up my urethra too and it's so painful
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
haha yea it was not so pleasant!
@acepaul65687 жыл бұрын
Heyo can I enter the giveaway if I'm in a different country? Also, I hope the complication gets worked out soon, and thanks for all the great vids
@wovenwar85286 жыл бұрын
So I'm having peeing issues too... but my surgeon wants me to remove the catheter... Also a lot of burning through the fistula site. Any advice? I should mention that I had a ring metoidioplasty.
@mattsnameis7 жыл бұрын
I wish you well on your recovery :)
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@mattsnameis7 жыл бұрын
you're most welcome :P :)
@andyhobbz67997 жыл бұрын
Is there not a way the exit hole can be taped or somehow covered to test his hypothesis about the 'path of least resistance'? I feel like there'd be a simple way to test...but i guess all that is healing. (still would think there'd be a temporary fix by 2017).
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
I wish but he didn't really say.. just said it needs to heal. It will be fixed in Setpember but wish I didn't have to wait that long.
@wonderingaround9456 жыл бұрын
If I ever have the money to do surgery, it'd be top surgery. I can just use a packer. I'd rather them not mess with those parts of me.
@jenniferbart30604 жыл бұрын
Wonder if you could have just videoed it?
@KeatShadows7 жыл бұрын
Cody Boy, I am sending good thoughts to you from Texas.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@Alex-xy1it7 жыл бұрын
Can i enter the packer giveaway if i live in another country?
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Yes! :)
@jackcosmo61047 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for you but much love!
@et93127 жыл бұрын
Is it possible to get phalloplasty without urethral lengthening?
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
yes it is!
@2eleven485 жыл бұрын
E T.....you can have phalloplasty without urethral lengthening, but this means you will still pee out of the urethral opening above your vagina.
@legendaryboss547 жыл бұрын
What's the packer look like?
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
The classic packy from ftm essentials :)
@legendaryboss547 жыл бұрын
Cody_talks ok that's pretty sweet
@genevaakaaverydanner27806 жыл бұрын
Hang in there Cody
@AdamScottH7 жыл бұрын
Love your videos dude!! I just subscribed
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! :)
@ethandunn52926 жыл бұрын
Rewatching this... Now I know I'm getting meta instead of phallo
@Codytalks116 жыл бұрын
naw it was worth it :)
@manifestdreams51577 жыл бұрын
Are you stlill doing the packer giveaway?
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
The current one is closed but there will be more in the future! :)
@jhaliyahbedford76357 жыл бұрын
How much do this doctor get paid......
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
More than me!
@snowboardingfisher1357 жыл бұрын
IF THE PEE TAKES THE PATH OF LEAST RESISTANCE, CAN YOU PLUG THE HOLE WHERE THE PEE IS COMING OUT WITH YOUR FINGER SO THE PEE FLOWS DOWN TO THE HOLE AT THE TIP?
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
I have been trying that! Luckily I have had a bit more luck with it passing up the hole at the base so that is good!
@snowboardingfisher1357 жыл бұрын
OH THAT IS GOOD NEWS. I HOPE THAT THINGS CONTINUE TO IMPROVE FOR YOU. MAYBE GET YOU OUT PEEING ON TREES BEFORE THE SUMMER IS OVER?
@robt66357 жыл бұрын
Hi, I want to enter the giveaway. Recently started to watch your video's I really enjoy them.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
You are in! :) And thanks for watching!
@cursivart5 ай бұрын
Watersports awakening right here lmao
@taylorcornelius85027 жыл бұрын
Please enter me into the drawing! Thanks man!
@theyoungadvocate77977 жыл бұрын
I want the packer so bad!!
@bean78787 жыл бұрын
This makes me stressed out for ur poor pp :( I hope that bad boy heals
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Me too! :(
@nerdking4life57 жыл бұрын
Hope it all works out for u 😀😃
@04Serena7 жыл бұрын
Wish I could send you a tiny fistula cork...
@lynn69jackson4 жыл бұрын
My 21 year old son has had to dilate the top 2 inches of his penis once a week since the age of 14. As a result of scarring after he had an emergency circumcision at the age of 6 the tip of the urethra was scarred and he developed meatal stenosis. It wasn't a problem until he went through puberty and the size of his genitals changed but the diameter of the urethra didn't. Having the larger capacity bladder didn't help too and he started getting urinary tract infections because of urinary retention issues. He had several dilation procedures under general anesthesia and now has to dilate every week for the rest of his life. The problems trans men have with the tip of their phallus are basically the same as cis gendered guys with meatal stenosis.
@Codytalks114 жыл бұрын
Aw man that is such a bummer for your son! :(
@lynn69jackson4 жыл бұрын
@@Codytalks11 the problem with penises is that when they go wrong they can go spectacularly wrong. My sister who was actually born my brother was born with hypospadias . Even after corrective surgery aged 3 the stream of urine was unpredictable right up until the day she had her vaginoplasty. In her case this was an intersex condition. From watching mum change my nappy as a new baby and my sister being almost 4 she realised back then that her birth assigned genitalia didn't match what she felt. Years later she told me that when she saw me she realised that she should have the same genitalia as me.
@kay52667 жыл бұрын
I'd love a pack!
@katiestrauss74497 жыл бұрын
I'm sure this is one of those duh suggestions, but have you tried covering the hole at the bottom?
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
haha not dumb, luckily the bottom hole has closed now :)
@katiestrauss74497 жыл бұрын
Cody_talks oh wonderful, good luck with continued healing!
@cayogator5 жыл бұрын
"hey guys, what's up ? I just figured out that I'm really a fuckin WOMAN!"
@madelainemccauley98317 жыл бұрын
Love the channel!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
@quaz18557 жыл бұрын
I'd like to enter for the packer!! 😊😊
@claytonmeador83826 жыл бұрын
i admire your open & honest view of "things"...very enlightening to this gay man, meee ;)
@Codytalks116 жыл бұрын
:) thanks for watching!
@gaticogordito55577 жыл бұрын
Good vibes from London!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
@laurensampson14487 жыл бұрын
Keep your head up❤️
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Will do :)
@nerdking4life57 жыл бұрын
Praying for u
@ajp80567 жыл бұрын
Entering the packer comp
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
hey unfortunately it is over but there will be more very very soon! :)
@FranArmyChihuahuaLove7 жыл бұрын
My luck *has to pee when hes not there, cant pee when he is*😂 but I hope all goes well with the healing and everything good luck man👏 and also hopefulley I win this give away...? Aye if not good luck to the winner!!!😁✌ Have a great day Cody
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
haha Thank you! And hey you too best of luck! :)
@FranArmyChihuahuaLove7 жыл бұрын
Cody_talks 😁✌
@krystalmendiola64487 жыл бұрын
Great video
@waz4116 жыл бұрын
Hello Cody how are you doing first I want to thank you for sharing I know it was not easy and to also use the bathroom in front of another person dam made things worser I wish nothing but better health and I will keep you in my prayers take care God Bless 💋
@Codytalks116 жыл бұрын
aw thanks so much :)
@julianbarrera27477 жыл бұрын
Yooooooooo the packerrrrrr
@theyoungadvocate77977 жыл бұрын
Also, can we spam?
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
no haha. Please refrain from spamming. One comment will do! :)
@miyukiadlawan32877 жыл бұрын
Hi hope I could start testosteron
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
You can!
@313PrettyboiAjay7 жыл бұрын
I like watching your videos!!!
@ummmforgetnames80527 жыл бұрын
Oh that looks pleasant
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
haha so pleasant :P
@arreikc33157 жыл бұрын
Of course it's not good but thank god it's not as bad some other trans guys misfortunes out there.