Mad respect for Dr Chen. Pretty above and beyond and I'm glad he didn't have to cut you too badly.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Seriously. I can't say enough kind things about this man.
@rustyshackelford187 жыл бұрын
If there were only more out there like Dr. Chen. Had he not been so thorough and insistent, things would've been much worse. Anxiety is hard to deal with man. Glad he was able to remove the strictures without any major cuts. May the piss flow free now, my friend.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Seriously, so thankful for him! Hopefully peeing will be way more reliving now :P
@jeanhenly3436 жыл бұрын
Dr Chan caused all these problems in the first place
@jaydriven3337 жыл бұрын
Man! I watch all of your videos, and I just wanted to say that you're an inspiration to those of us going through our transitions. Your will to keep pushing and keep your head up is great to see. I'm glad you finally got it figured out, keep doing you bro! Much love💚
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Aw thanks so much that means a lot!! Hopefully it is up from here on out :)
@jaydriven3337 жыл бұрын
Cody_talks Sounds like you and Dr. Chen are finally getting things on the right track, good luck to you and have a wonderful day! :)
@zingzing74267 жыл бұрын
thanks for the update, I'm happy you were able to figure out what the issue was and hopefully from here on out everyting will go smoothly. Well done for dealing with what must have been a bit stressful to unexpectidly go into surgery so soon! I'm wishing you a speedy and smooth recovery, take care Cody!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! So relieved it is fixed up!
@MindyReedJones5 жыл бұрын
Cody, you are the bravest guy! What you have been through is just unimaginable to me. To be your real true self, you had to deal with so much physical pain. I am in awe of you. I'm finally getting to watch your older videos. Much respect to you! Hugs!
@midnytegoddess7 жыл бұрын
Dr chen sounds fantastic! I am so glad you are feeling better and sorry to hear you are in pain but so happy it is sorting out. Feel better quickly and know you are in the thoughts of so many who care for you.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
He really is. So thankful to have him as my surgeon!
@nathanhawke32837 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad to hear that he didn't have to cut like he was going to originally. It sounds like you might have ended up with the best ending result. And no surgery anticipation.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Yes so relieved! No surgery anticipation is kind of awesome haha.
@Vandermin0117 жыл бұрын
You never really know what's going to happen one moment to the next. I'm so glad you found relief Cody❤️
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Seriously! And thank you! Feels good to have this surgery done now :) No more worrying.. for now. haha.
@AshleyJones847 жыл бұрын
Glad that the Dr. finally found out what was wrong and fixed it! Take the time to rest and recuperate. You are amazing!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Me too! And thank you!!
@MalcumTent7 жыл бұрын
Holy crap! I'm glad you're getting that taken care of! Dr. Chen seems like a really good doc! And you made it to 10K!!!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thanks dude! Yes, he really is great. I am so thankful! And yes!! So crazy!
@chrismclean7807 жыл бұрын
sorry you had to have surgery, glad you fixed it before it got bad. I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Thanks for the update, high or not you're an awesome guy.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thanks dude! haha someday I will not be so high or full of complications :P
@psychedforlife71767 жыл бұрын
Yay no cutting and you got the stricture fixed! Healing here comes Cody! My anxiety fools me too sometimes but it's always best to get it checked out because like you said it's not always anxiety. Keep the faith! I'm continuing to keep you in my prayers.✌️💖
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! :)
@jooliebeanpajoolie42447 жыл бұрын
Validated anxiety, no poop, piss perfection, surprise surgery and strictures... Oh the adventures of the beautiful human body!! LoL I'm so proud of you, as always. You're very brave my friend. 💗 Totally happy that Doc made an instantaneous decision to get you in there, and resolve the issue the same day. Smart man. :) Stay strong, catheter will be out in no time. You got this Cody. Xo
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Yes, so glad to have him as my surgeon. He really seems to care about his patients!
@xoGullysMumox7 жыл бұрын
I love how while talking about the surprise of surgery you can sound so calm 😂 I would be freaking out I'm new 2 your channel and I'm loving your videos and learning your story. Love from my little family of crazies in the UK xxx
@stephaniehamilton62177 жыл бұрын
I am so glad you got it sorted finally, hopefully from now on everything will be plain sailing, get well soon man xxx
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
me too, thank you! :)
@twistedbrasshorn7 жыл бұрын
so so glad you're okay Cody!! have been worried about you, dude. hope things get better ♡
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@AshRowan7 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad they could do something about this. In sorry you needed surgery again. And so soon. :/ your Dr sounds amazing, and I'm so glad he is so good with you and deals with issues head on, but not rudely. :)
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thanks! And yes luckily I have a great surgeon!
@AdamTreyRobinson7 жыл бұрын
Wow. Glad things are fixed now.
@OGQueenMedusa7 жыл бұрын
I am new to your channel and your journey has been long. I hope you will get well soon and heal great. Keep a positive attitude. You are very strong and brave to share your journey. I have mad respect for you and for everyone who undergoes transitioning.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Welcome! :) Thank you so much, I appreciate the encouragement! I think I am seeing the light at the end of the tunnel finally!
@ianmaxwell84977 жыл бұрын
I am so glad he took care of the stricture promptly. Now hopefully it will go as planned this time. Wishing you quick healing.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
@dutumasalpha7 жыл бұрын
You know i had my hysto around the same time you did. You helped me out. I had the robot also. Your moving fast in your transition because a year later your having phallo. Wow. Thats so awesome. I hope to keep your momentum
@CyndyNeg7 жыл бұрын
U should say "pees out!" ...at the end...lol...glad u feel better....and caught it in time! Take care
@psychedforlife71767 жыл бұрын
CyndyKated that's a good one! 😂💕
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
hahaha perhaps when I get the catheter out! :P
@abijarrett6237 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you figured out the pee issue lol. Still really enjoying watching your journey!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Me too! Thanks for watching :)
@TheAugustineMachine7 жыл бұрын
Glad you're doing better and got through all of that. Hang in there. And rest, rest, rest!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Just gotta survive this damn catheter lol ugh
@go_go_oats7 жыл бұрын
So glad you’re okay and didn’t end up in the ER! Because just like Dr. Chen said, the ER people might not have known how to properly help someone who is having issues with your type of surgery. Get well soon!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Me too! So so happy things were resolved ASAP. And now I know if I get another stricture in the future... haha.
@jeristovall54657 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you got your issue fixed Cody! Hope you heal up real soon. Loves xx
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
@dietriche67987 жыл бұрын
Wishing you a quick recovery! Hopefully this is it.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
@LoganJoannesRollerCoaster7 жыл бұрын
Your stoned giggle is hilarious. Glad he was able to fix you up. For someone with anxiety, surprise surgery is better than planned because you can't spend weeks/months stressing about it!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Haah right! I was like wait.. surgery? I didn't even have time to worry. LOL
@MrMakeDo7 жыл бұрын
Well done, dude. All this pain and hard work will be worth it.
@Casrus277 жыл бұрын
I am SO glad that they've been able to address this, and get you through to surgery straight away. I know it must really suck when it was so unexpected but if it means you can actually pee properly then that is worth it.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Yes TOTALLY worth it. I am so happy its done!
@katlynbrooke17 жыл бұрын
Ugh! You poor thing! Hang in there :( Just make sure to rest as much as you can and don’t wear yourself out. I’m late seeing this video but a lot of my family’s birthdays are in September, including mine! It was yesterday 😂❤️
@inkblot23937 жыл бұрын
This all sounds like an extremely painful experience..Do you ever regret having the ftm surgery ever?
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
+mary church NO.
@samrogers8747 жыл бұрын
Glad to see your on the mend and it's fixed. At least it wasn't so invasive like you were hoping it wasn't going to be. :)
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thanks man! So happy it wasn't as invasive too! Worth the week to not have my dick cut. :P
@samrogers8747 жыл бұрын
Cody_talks I've been researching the one doctor we have here in Canada he does the hook ups on 2nd stage. I'm hoping the new one we get in the new year doesn't wait that long.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Ah yes, more and more doctors seem to be doing it this way.. however, I don't know that it actually comes with less complications.
@Rachel16H887 жыл бұрын
Sorry if this is way off topic, but have you/would you ever do a tattoo tour kinda video. I'm a tattoo collecter and I'm very curious about yours :)
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
I haven't but I would! :)
@robinmertz60027 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear you have relief and are on the mend. 👍🙂
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
@baileydavis77847 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for always keeping us updated. I hope you take pride in everything you do for the trans community. By the way, I caught a glimpse of your arm and it looks amazing!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Hey thanks!! The arm is feeling better too so thats nice. I guess everything just needs time, slowly but surely I will be back to normal :)
@jessieramos30747 жыл бұрын
I don't know, if you have answered this question before. What insurance did you use and was their any out of pocket cost? What did the surgery cost as well? Thanks it's awesome your doing well.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Hi there, I had blue shield and the out of pocket cost was $2000 I believe they billed my insurance 200k
@itsreallyimportantman7 жыл бұрын
Oh no Cody but at least now you can pee fully and in less pain. less hope this is the end of all the problems!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Yes!! Has definitely brought the anxiety down!
@itsreallyimportantman7 жыл бұрын
That's good news Cody!!
@strawberryshortiecakes69887 жыл бұрын
I have anxiety and it is very confusing to know when its the real deal or are you just over thinking .....i know keeping my mind occupied helps
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
I know right!? In Hindsight.. I see how it was in no way in my head but damn... the mind can play some tricks lol
@juliushermansen18517 жыл бұрын
hello I just jumped on to your channel! you're so cool
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Haha well thanks for jumping on :)
@ianftm797 жыл бұрын
Im Glad You Are Getting All Better Man
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thanks dude!! Me too :)
@jaredmorales22087 жыл бұрын
Wow that's crazy dude! Glad you're okay!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thanks! Feeling much better!
@jenniferbart30604 жыл бұрын
I love your videos.And it just makes me think for the people who think being LBGTQ is a choice, why would anyone put themselves through these types of surgeries and through the pain and recovery if it was just a choice.Or the hate and pure evil that some people that are homophobic spew.Nobody on earth would choose that.Thank you so much for sharing your life with us
@AxeLady664 жыл бұрын
I understand about anxiety making you think everything is in your head!
@justadude72477 жыл бұрын
So glad you're stritcher (sp?) is fixed and you can empty your bladder. Hope you're resting well now.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! And well, the catheter currently empties my bladder but.. better than not being able to empty it haha. Hopefully it will be out by thursday :)
@justadude72477 жыл бұрын
Keeping my fingers crossed that Thursday will be the end of catheters for you my friend.
@MyvideoRock123456787 жыл бұрын
Happy everything worked out!
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
@transylvanianprince47867 жыл бұрын
Totally unrelated but congrats on hitting 10k man
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! :) Never thought that would happen!
@In4It789cat7 жыл бұрын
So I’m a gay man and am just so fascinated by all of this for lots of reasons. I just wanted to say that I think you’re awesome and brave and you look super cute and I’m so glad your stricture is resolved! Wishing you the very best and thank you for sharing. 😃
@amyshiva7 жыл бұрын
Wishing you a speedy recovery, Cody. The whole procedure sounds so painful from taking the flesh from your arm to the actual phalloplasty. I knew nothing about trans men and women until I watched your videos. I have been educated greatly and think you are very brave. Love from the UK. X
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
+amy carter aw so glad to hear it's been educational! Thank you so much for watching :)
@levikeane89387 жыл бұрын
dang so pleased you have a good DR and he didnt just wait around and did something about it that day. good luck for a speedy recovery. mad love. its so interesting to see the good an the bad happening an that things are becoming right again. surgery is nuts, the human body is nuts.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
It is nuts! Very thankful for my doc :) Thanks for following along!
@SCHMIELSHOW7 жыл бұрын
Oh god, I would have been stressing the hell out. I'm terrified of any kind of surgery @_@
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Haha somehow same day surgery is less stressful than waiting. Less time to think!
@DeerestAshe7 жыл бұрын
All these videos of complications has me worried ;~; I'm already worried about surgery Dx
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
aw no don't worry, they will soon be resolved :)
@ivanlonden7 жыл бұрын
i'm sorry dude! Fortunately, they have solved it now. Class of Dr Chen that he himself did, and sent your not to another hospital. Get well soon Cody.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thanks dude! Yes, soooo glad to have it fixed up and Dr.Chen is amazing to do it for me that day so I didn't end up in the ER!
@game0nnemisis6 жыл бұрын
I'm going to get this when I'm older. I don't care if it hurts I'm getting it done
@sujeymoore84147 жыл бұрын
Oh wow Well you are OK now, so that's good. And you look great.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@panzerlion7 жыл бұрын
oh man... I feel you. I'm a biological male, and for some reason nobody really knows I been making strictures throughout my life, I started at 8 years of age, today I'm 29 and I had yet another surgery, my 4th one about 2 weeks ago. Been with a Foley catheter for a 10 days now and probably will need to intermittently catheterize myself for the rest of my life, so yeah... my heart goes out to you
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Oh man I am so sorry. :( That is crazy that they don't know why. Maybe you should see Dr.Chen. He is an amazing reconstructive urologist.
@panzerlion7 жыл бұрын
Cody_talks I'll keep it in my mind for sure! if everything fails that is. as for the rest, don't sweat it, I know how it is with the urethral problems, but I'm sure you'll work yours without an issue, just remember there's some human somewhere in the galaxy who understands exactly how the poking and prodding and uncertainty of this very specific problem feels like. keep up the good work with your channel, you got yourself a loyal subscriber.
@FTMDaniel7 жыл бұрын
Hugs. That is all I can say. Hugs hugs. Bro hugs.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Hugs!
@phiphilarue91127 жыл бұрын
It makes me queasy to think about the pain. So sorry you went thru all that.
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
Luckily I am feeling better now! :)
@phiphilarue91127 жыл бұрын
Cody_talks I am new to your channel. I have been binge watching. I hate getting shots so what you went to takes a lot of bravery. You are cute too;)
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
haha aw thanks :)
@phiphilarue91127 жыл бұрын
Cody_talks I'm Erica from Arkansas by the way
@arourtutor88337 жыл бұрын
You poor guy. I'm glad you got things resolved. Let's hope things stay this way. How'd things work out with that coworker misgendering you? Docusate is a good stool softener which I take due to pain meds. Maybe you could check it out.
@bippy20117 жыл бұрын
What makes a person feel like the opposite sex? It is what it is, isn't it? Or is it just they want to BE the opposite sex?
@Codytalks117 жыл бұрын
+bippy20 I believe it has to do with hormones and development in the womb.