FTM Phalloplasty Does It Pass as Cis? | Q&A

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[@Blaine-P-Turtle]

I like how your title question was answered first, most youtubers answer the questions they put in the title near the end or at a random place near the middle so you at least have to watch most of the video.

[@Codytalks11]

Haha yea I always get annoyed when people do that too lol!

[@OllieSkinnervideos]

You are seriously such an inspiration, mate. I have my first surgical consult with a surgeon on Thursday for bottom surgery and I've only really gotten to this point because of KZbinrs like y'all that are super open and informational for the rest of us. So thank you!

[@Codytalks11]

Yay dude congrats on the consult! And so glad I could be of some help sharing my journey! Thanks so much for following along! :)

[@reme001]

Cody, my very best in your authentic life! Even tho I was never comfortable with guys growing I ended up getting married because that's what you did back then. Finally at 25 I finally realized who I really was-- a lesbian. So I understand the change of life. HUGS from a senior lesbian

[@Codytalks11]

Aw hugs!!! So happy for you to live your authentic self :)

[@dylanimal]

Really love your videos man. You just seem like such a real, down to earth guy, and come across very likable and relateable. I am also working towards phallo and really appreciate being able to follow your progress as you heal.

[@Codytalks11]

Thanks dude!! Congrats on working towards phallo!! Are you looking into surgeons yet?

[@dylanimal]

Yep, I live in NYC and am most likely going with Dr Bluebond-Lagner. I have a consult with her in the end of January. I also have a consult with Chen scheduled for next summer, but will probably go with B-L if the consult goes well so I don't have to travel. I traveled for top surgery and meta and the thought of being able to recover at home is too good to pass up!

[@Codytalks11]

Nice dude I have heard good things about BL!

[@evaweir4007]

I'm pretty sure I've commented on your videos before, but THANK YOU so much for sharing your experience in such a public way! I am not trans, but I want to be more aware of the wide variety of hurdles faced by people who are trans, and I live in a pretty conservative area where there are not a lot of people with whom I can hold informative conversations. I appreciate you and your courage a whole ton. xoxo

[@DigitalAnchovies]

You really seem like the nicest guy. I appreciate your openness and I enjoy your content quite a bit.

[@Codytalks11]

aw thank you :)

[@jooliebeanpajoolie4244]

Get better soon beautiful boy... Awesome post as always. xoxo ~ hugs ~

[@Codytalks11]

Thank you! :)

[@nikbesalty5865]

you give me hope for the future.

[@Codytalks11]

That means a lot! Keep going! :)

[@arourtutor8833]

You are outstanding as a human being. You are like one of my heros. My siblings and mother are my others. My mom recently passed but I addressed the issue of possibly being trans. I explained it to her and asked if she'd still love me. I forget her answer but I think she would.

[@Codytalks11]

aw shucks that means a lot thank you! I am sorry to hear about your Mom. I think she would too. Sounds like she would of wished for you to be happy :)

[@moveitenheimer6405]

Love your honesty and willingness to be open and to be informative to others!!

[@Codytalks11]

Thank you! :)

[@MonroeReacts]

Just discovered your channel and I love how open and honest you are. Definitely learning a lot about my trans brothers and sisters lives through your personal insight!

[@Codytalks11]

aw thank you for watching and learning! :)

[@yooourbeautiful]

You seem like such an awesome, down to earth guy. Best of luck and wish you nothing but happiness!!

[@Codytalks11]

Thank you!! :)

[@michellewest3404]

Sorry to hear you are sick. Get well soon, although I have to say even being sick you seem to be in such good spirits compared to just after surgery and during the recovery. Great to see what a positive effect the surgery seems to have had on your general mood.

[@Codytalks11]

haha true! Thank you! Although I am sick, I am surgery pain free :)

[@1929kristina]

Completely off topic......your lips looks so kissable in this video. 😉

[@pmbluemoon]

I found this older video, I have a question if you're still checking these older videos: Do you notice that getting used to the weight of having the phallo was any issue? (Pulling of incisions, different ways to walk/sit, different prefs in support underwear?)

[@knitting4premies]

You should check a woman’s perspective on the cis passing question 😉😉 xx

[@Codytalks11]

lol!!

[@knitting4premies]

You know where I am should you require assistance, strictly in the name of research of course! 😉😉xx

[@Ridiculousnessness]

I'm weak 😂😂😂

[@erekereksen3944]

I hope you feel better soon. Thanks for being you.

[@Codytalks11]

Thank you! :)

[@bonniemillar5419]

I think your parentst should be very proud of you. You are a very brave and genuine person♡♡♡

[@rafaella9700]

You are so likable, you sholud have a meeting with your subscribers, I would love to met you in person.

[@Codytalks11]

Aw thanks I would love to do that someday!

[@chasejohnson6665]

Thank you for making videos that you do. Gives me hope and actual answers to big questions. xoxo

[@Codytalks11]

Thank you for watching! :)

[@TheAugustineMachine]

Glad you're doing well. And yeah, that cold is a drag-- take it easy!

[@Codytalks11]

Thanks dude! and seriously it just lingers!!

[@ryptoll4801]

Interesting to hear how your journey has been so far. I've watched a few of your videos here and there, and I find them to be informative. I'm getting metoidioplasty (sometime next year), but I'm still curious about how it's going for those who choose the phalloplasty route instead. I hope it keeps going well for you, and that you'll feel better soon too.

[@LadeezANDgentz]

Yay thanks for answering my question! Glad to see you uploaded :)

[@Codytalks11]

Thank you for the question and for watching! :)

[@B3eau16]

Love your videos man, I cannot wait for my phalloplasty! Watching your videos make me even more excited haha

[@Codytalks11]

Thanks dude!! When is your surgery!?

[@johnathank7583]

phallo def has a higher complication rate than meta.

[@Codytalks11]

It is all about what you want.. basically what I would recommend is to not let the possible complications dictate your decision... some people have multiple complications, but some are complication free. It is hard to know which one you will be but for me personally it was worth the risk.

[@Rowe_Ti]

bro u r doing such a great job by making these videos, keep up the good work buddy👍

[@Codytalks11]

Thanks dude!! :)

[@deborahnieling2315]

Since i discovered your channel let me tell you something.....i would date you because of your Charisma ...i am as i allready said straight....but i dont give a flying flip anymore.....what is important ....you are a charming beautiful men now! I have the feeling from inside out....!!!!!! But i mean that in all respect for your transition....and how happy you are with it!!!!

[@deborahnieling2315]

And ...your happy face when you talk about your Penis. .is really cute! And it makes people realize how important, life changing AND life saving a transition is!!! That people understand that it is a world to you that you transitioned into the body that really belongs to you...and not be stucked anymore with the wrong body! So such a physical thing like a penis, is so special to you for so many different reasons.....with your vlog people hopefully start to understand what all this is about because you educate us in such a authentic and beautiful.way!!!! I really really hope that much more people emphazise with you and other transgender people! And you owned it 100%! I hope i dont ramble here to much...but it comes from the bottom.of my heart for Pro Transgender support!'Lots of hughs from.Berlin!!!!!!!

[@emilyhonsinger9665]

Great job!! Good questions and answers!! Can't wait for next video😍😍

[@Codytalks11]

Thanks!!! :)

[@sandraallsopp1234]

Yay, great video..... good to see your smile back 😍

[@Codytalks11]

+SJ Allsopp thank you! :)

[@mandisanti2159]

As always, so much support ❤️

[@Codytalks11]

+Mandi Santi thank you!! 😊

[@BDMcN-vo8op]

my god! these girls have really gone off the deep end!!

[@ryanitunes6216]

Nice Q&A Cody! Also I like your hat.

[@Codytalks11]

Thank you! :)

[@connorwilliam7106]

Your inspirational to the point that I was questioning if I was male.... I was born Male. I haven’t been this confused since I came out as ace 😂

[@Codytalks11]

haha! Thank you :)

[@codywilkinson8344]

Some chick is gonna be lucky to get with you!! Like winning the jackpot. Ooo baby

[@xhazza_louehx6099]

I hope you feel better! x

[@Codytalks11]

Thank you! :)

[@midnytegoddess]

Great video. I was really looking forward to this one.

[@Codytalks11]

Thank you :)

[@henryohana6349]

UL is the biggest complication that seems to happen - meta or phallo.

[@captainsmoov9462]

Super helpful Cody thanks

[@checkurs675]

Use Mederma PM on ur arm its expensive but works amazing

[@demonspawn7252]

I want to get srs but I'm scared of how my family will react what do I tell them?

[@debrahildreth9783]

Get better real soon.

[@Codytalks11]

+Debra Hildreth thank you!

[@ayogage5039]

😊 🙏 im happy for you, you seem like you're in a great place

[@Codytalks11]

+bitch who I am! ;) thank you!

[@marissamalone621]

You look so cute in this one Cody!

[@Codytalks11]

haha aw thanks :)

[@Lulu-ql6mm]

i don't know why but i think you work at whole foods

[@Codytalks11]

Close! Not whole foods, but something similar :)

[@jenniferbart3060]

Thank you for sharing your story.Im curious if you are gay?Or bi?I know gender and sexuality are two different things.Im just curious but I respect it if that is private.Im just very curious but people don’t ask cis people what they have in their pants or who they want in their pants.lol

[@jessy5581]

Any side effects you get??

[@foreverwantingpie]

Hey bud in your research where did you find results of other people? It's easy to find top surgery results but not bottom (for obvious reasons lol)

[@jayysoul5375]

foreverwantingpie u can look online for surgeon's work

[@nathamiel6467]

foreverwantingpie Dr crane and Dr brownstein have results on their website

[@Codytalks11]

They have pictures up on the brownstein crane website and also on transbucket :)

[@jayysoul5375]

LMAO 😂😆🤣 dreams do come true. CNT wait till mines does!

[@Codytalks11]

hahah :P It will!

[@nekocringe2917]

I'm 14 right now but I'm planning to undergo therapy where they may put me on testosterone and i hope that in a few years, i will be able to go through Phalloplasty surgery. And since you have gone through it, i was just wondering if you could give me some tips or information I must know?

[@Codytalks11]

Just do your research, find a good surgeon ( I recommend Dr. Chen ) and joint some support groups and talk to some guys that have been through it :)

[@nekocringe2917]

Cody_talks Thank you so much! I really appreciate your help. You were the one that inspired me to gain the confidence i needed for this decision, I just wanted to let you know that. I'll surely try my best!

[@DJohn83]

Hey Cody. Have you noticed a length increase due to gravity?

[@Codytalks11]

+D. John yes actually! Haha. Good question :)

[@reeces5142]

boi I love his vids

[@seheabol]

Do you like men or women?

[@Codytalks11]

Women :)

[@seheabol]

Cody_talks good choice 😜

[@GodAdmit]

Glad you asked this question, I was too shy lmfao

[@1976Leila]

Cody_talks , you look great. Do you like biological women or other?

[@daviddalton1335]

@@Codytalks11 The original women or the fakes?

[@Cameron-np7hw]

Love all your videos has really helped with me , I’m yet to go to the dos , but I know that I want to start testosterone and get top surgery but still unsure on bottom surgery as ide want to know what it looks like and there’s not many pics out there to see off trans penis’

[@charlenemackason6395]

I noticed to get well soon

[@Codytalks11]

Thank you

[@alnthevalley1]

Awesome

[@noahmartin4098]

Does anyone know why his eyebrows r so thin?? Just wondering

[@Codytalks11]

Think reallllly hard. What would be your best guess? How do eyebrows usually get thin? What was his past like? Let’s hear it detective.

[@noahmartin4098]

Sorryy.. I wasn’t trying to be rude.. I was just genuinely wondering

[@Codytalks11]

I’m wondering why you were wondering?

[@noahmartin4098]

They just don’t really look like they were plucked so I thought maybe something happened...😂

[@an.dr.16561]

Are you gay or straight I mean you go out with girl or boys .. or both

[@Codytalks11]

Straight

[@ottawatransguy]

Did you use integra for your arm?

[@Codytalks11]

Yes, integra was used on my arm :)

[@beegee7700]

Very handsome :) brave man

[@Codytalks11]

Thank you :)

[@reneethed2499]

Your eyebrows remind me of 2004. Tiny and ultra plucked line.

[@Codytalks11]

+renee the d I’d say more 2008

[@reneethed2499]

Cody_talks Maybe i was early to it. Haha :)

[@jamesgarcia7771]

So many frogs named Cody, why?