FTM trans man and Girlfriend: An update of happiness

[@cassandrag7944]

I was so distracted by Shaaba's incredible hair.

[@SilverFlame819]

Shaaba is a fucking BADASS for sticking by you when it ostracized her from her family and made your whole household awkward. What a great, strong woman you've got. :)

[@ashofmeal9453]

Oh my god this is so adorable to watch 8 YEARS later You both look so young ❤

[@charlottelong3655]

HOLY SHIT I LOVE YOU GUYS AND WHEN SHAABA SAID SHE HAD A 14 YEAR OLD SISTER NAMED SHAZIA I WAS LIKE 'OH MY GIDDY AUNT I AM FRIENDS WITH A GIRL NAMED SHAZIA' SO I LOOK ON FACEBOOK AND LO AND BEHOLD I KNOW SHAABA'S SISTER

[@rxhc5660]

WOW SUCH COINCIDENCE 😱😱😱

[@rakamukherjee9070]

HOLY SHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIT

[@shaaba]

Hey! Aww thank you, this is so sweet! I asked Shazia about this and she was like 'Yeah! I saw that!' Hahaha, small world! All the best (:

[@kissingmarks5790]

Oh my god relationship goals.. Jaime, you're so freaking handsome, and your girlfriend is adorable. Wishing you guys the best x

[@kamoteart4141]

is it me or jamie looks like David Tennant in some angle I dunno maybe im drunk haha huhuhu btw so happy for you guys

[@rainbowspoonie]

Oh totally thought that from the beginning

[@SarahAbplanalp]

You're both so mature for only being 21 it's refreshing :) (i'm 21 as well I can relate I suppose lol) but yeah it's really nice to hear things are looking up for you two

[@okimlistening2u]

Thank God for the youth of our society. It is only in them that we can find openness, willingness to love, and the desire to grow as a society. Jammie and Shaaba, you both are such good people and your love for each other is so obvious. Now to learn that Jammie is applying to work on a PhD. is fantastic. I started following you from the beginning and have always told you how special you are; I am SO HAPPY for you both and you give me so much hope for the positive energy in the universe to conquer any and all obstacles. Thank you so much for what you have accomplished and shown us about life.........Ray

[@NJ-rm5vs]

I've been watching your videos for a while but I recently found this linked on the I Am Not Haraam blog, I'm a Muslim trans guy so it's really cool to see they finally accepted you :)

[@ameliarose5143]

I love how Shabba doesn't even know how old her sister is and Jamie does 😂

[@ameliarose5143]

*Shaaba

[@mattnichs]

this is amazing news! (gives me hope for my boyfriend's family one day being accepting!)

[@Mahlerlover21]

I'm a gay man, well, I use man loosely, I'm 22, but yeah, you two are so cute! Though Jamie steals my heart. New subscriber!

[@Jammidodger]

+Logan Rutledge Thank you for the lovely comment and for subscribing! :)

[@Mahlerlover21]

Of course!

[@thatgraykidd]

Seeing the two of you together always makes me smile, I am really glad that things are working out. Thanks for keeping us updated.

[@kavyashivhare7540]

Jamie hey came here through buzzfeed's video! You gotta subscriber. First of all you look dope as hell and i love how you're so in love with your gf. :) Congrats on getting acceptance in shaaba's parent's life. :)

[@susieoconnor5931]

I loved this video. Acceptance by family is so so important. Acceptance isn't always easy or instantaneous for some people. A child's transition can really challenge a parent's view of the world and force them to adjust the hopes and dreams they had for their child. That sometimes takes time. But usually love triumphs eventually. My family has been brilliant about my transition except for one of my brothers who hasn't spoken to me for two years. But I won't give up hope that one day he will understand and find acceptance.

[@anahimartinez9113]

Can't get over how wonderful this story is . Wish the best for the future for you two!

[@Msbean1220]

I am SO happy for you both. You 2 are so cute and inspiring. Keep being the beautiful people you are. That is what makes the world go around. So happy for the breakthrough. May this lead to much more!

[@krishiqua]

Bless you both and here's wishing you a long and happy life together!

[@duncant6364]

*This* is the wholesome content I’m looking for

[@jesselynam8287]

This makes me sooo happy!! I could really relate to when she was saying she wasn't allowed to go to her parents' house because of the person shes with. I was living with my mom when i came out to her, she wasnt totally accepting at first, but now shes amazing with all of her support. I came out to dad over the phone when I was 15 or 16(can't remember which age) and he told me I wasn't allowed to go to his home anymore because he didn't want me to "rub off on my siblings". Hes extremely religous & He sees me as a lesbian because i have a girlfriend, but i identify as ftm. It sucks, I havent seen them in 4 1/2 years, I'm missing them grow up, BUT this gives me hope that maybe one day he'll come around :') ❤ Thanks for this -Jesse 😊

[@LetsStopThisSong]

Also Jammi reminds me of Hiccup from how to train your dragon (when he was older) lol!

[@dispm3324]

I've been in the same situation when I couldn't believe that my family would ever approve my marriage. Long story short-I was born in a muslim family and my husband was born in a jewish family. We ourselves don't follow any religions and all that stuff and we love each other. Now, my family loves my husband just like I wound never dream for. At the beginning it takes a lot of effort to prove ppl that you have a right to be with a person you love regardless their gender, religion, nationality. Good job guys! What matters is love, everything else is bs

[@rrose5038]

How did you come out to them??

[@TheDJNay]

Congrats Jamie and Shaaba :) I wish u guys all the happiness in the world.

[@wh1chkraft]

Buzzfeed brought me to your channel Jamie, super cool of you and Shaaba to talk so openly about these things. The world needs to hear it :)

[@wh1chkraft]

+Joyce Hu also it was really freaking cool to see the photo progression, thanks for doing that!

[@jasonclarke92]

Wow, that's incredible, I'm really happy for you guys, that's massive progress. Gives me hope that, with time, loved ones can always come around :)

[@saltontheshelf]

Congratulations on the breakthrough with your future in-laws. I can't even imagine how difficult the process of establishing your places in the family has been. It seems like quite a nightmare. Again, congratulations.

[@IdahoDali]

Congratulations guys. This is great. I'm very happy for you.

[@timkidd8491]

So pleased for you both. I hope the relationship continues to grow - good luck for the future.

[@LGBTR3naissance]

So glad to see you guys together and still going strong despite the hurdles as far as family opinions towards your relationship. Glad Shaaba's family have opened up to your relationship and that positive outcomes have emerged. Wishing you both all the best always!

[@yazminmarie4635]

Shaaba is hair goals...

[@AmyDuan]

both of you are so strong. i would have just given up n cry. you have proven that if you stay strong, you'll get to wherever you wanna be.

[@ohnotmymolars5887]

Im so happy seeing both of you happy!

[@MarellaSbrenz]

good luck for your relationship! and you Jamie have become a rrrreally handsone guy :D congratulations!

[@RafiDelly]

This is so wholesome and inspiring. My partner and I are currently going through a bit of a difficult time with being accepted, but seeing this was really inspiring and encouraging.

[@hakura1a2b]

This video is a pretty big inspiration to me. My mum's pretty against my relationship with ftm bf, whom she just know as my gf. It's given me the strength to tell her and be straight (pun intended) with her over it. Hopefully she'll accept it one day too

[@shaaba]

Hey, I know you posted this a while ago, but I hope everything's going well for you. All the best! (:

[@JeffAMiller17]

Yay! That's awesome! I'm so happy for you Jamie and Shaaba!

[@mevrouwroos]

Your girlfriend is beautiful ♡

[@ccy2156]

I love you !!! I send you. Kisses and hugs from Mexico

[@stephanieramirez8062]

Did the T make get taller or were you just always that tall.

[@Jammidodger]

Stephanie Ramirez I've always been tall

[@jgpatel4804]

you both are so cute... made for each-other...you guys I love you 💖...💞

[@kritashah7107]

and fast forward to now when they're moving into their new house and engaged with their entire family present at the proposal 🥺💜

[@edgarallanpoe209]

This is the best transition result I have ever seen

[@LetsStopThisSong]

You're so cute together!!! I love the height difference ♥️

[@Gat238]

You cutie pies :) Congratulations you guys are doing so well, I wish you the best

[@yamikatie8226]

Am SO happy for you two!

[@teddytheodore4878]

That's wonderful to hear you two! Very happy for you :)

[@musicislife4060]

U 2 are so made for each other ❤️

[@fausga2096]

you're very handsome!

[@fridaber6069]

you're soooo handsome!

[@milansatcher5949]

So thrilled for you both!!! :)

[@padgejoanna]

I feel weird watching this, nothing negative at all I promise, proud of you and your journey and your girlfriend to for being there for you through out the whole process, I only feel weird as you look a bit like my younger brother, congrats on your happiness and I hope more good things come your way in the future ☺️

[@alexandrac4993]

Well, that's sweet! I'm happy for you. :)

[@nishisaxena4831]

very cute relationship! wishing u lifelong togetherness love and happiness!!!!

[@ladykaiacorneliaopheliadun5873]

You're both adorable, wish the best of luck to your love

[@JosephRosalie]

Really happy for you both

[@sofiabasilio5358]

Hi Jammi, I hope things are going well! I just wanted to give you my best wishes and tell you that you're a very strong and special person! I've just recently subscribed and started watching your videos, it is very emotional to me although I am not experiencing anything close to that or anything related to being transgender. Best of luck!

[@thebookreader287]

this is just the cutest and the sweetest! how come cis-men are not like this (well at least where i am from).

[@dariiamirtalipova]

This is so beautiful and cute.

[@MisterJaycobsJourney]

So so happy for you dude great news

[@agneslawrence2967]

Shaaba and Jamie you guys are cute together Stay happy as always Be yourselves 😀

[@Rainy-In-The-Desert]

I adore you two ❤️❤️

[@chelseas2863]

you're such a beautiful couple 👫

[@edwardstaats4935]

Love watching you together

[@TraceyZimmer1965]

That is a beautiful story and lovely couple

[@LyndasDiamonds]

So happy for you

[@Warcheiftan]

u guys are great!

[@sethclayborn8791]

This is adorable.

[@kotaiyarshiva498]

jammy am in India and wanted to go for transition...need you help...will you be able to give me some suggestions

[@AmourParisien]

You guys are freakin adorableeeee

[@Flyleaf0202]

You're cool! Stay happy!

[@MyCrimsonMischief]

They are sooo cute!!

[@aislingeveleen5395]

you guys are so lucky. my family doesn't accept my agender ,-,

[@clairehiggins7120]

Yay 🙏🏼🤗👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@salomebalsamo]

I've got the same clock

[@jaeryan7]

can you put english subtitle in ur video? ur accent looks nice but i cant understand..

[@facuarroyo3249]

The way she talks and her gestures reminds me so much of Callie Torres from Grey's Anatomy XD

[@phattrice8684]

how old r u now?

[@Jammidodger]

+Jack 1092 We are both 21

[@fayangel9277]

+Jammidodger you have become very handsome, best of luck with your relationship

[@animalsandiphones]

aww congrats!!!!

[@lyricgibson1610]

I'll would be happier being with my crush like this

[@ANGRYmuffin9000]

I have a question, thought... Was Shaaba kind of into you before you transitioned?

[@shaaba]

Nope (no offence to Jamie!) Jamie and I only started being 'into each other' a few months after Jamie came out (: By the way, your username is amazing. All the best!

[@mohdalijinnah4563]

How You guys are planning baby? if any.

[@11pra88]

I'm a gay man and to be honest i find you really really attractive. And you voice its fantastic! It can make anyone fall in love with you. Congrats to you and your girlfriend! Chao!!!

[@crywulf44]

How tall are you? (if you dont mind me asking)

[@imgoingonholidaytovietnam3631]

you two are so funny

[@silvermoon2281]

Ah, they’ve grown up so much... 😭

[@lolpin752]

you're girlfriend is beautiful😍 not being rude but is she indian? you guys are perfect together 💕 bless you both

[@keisha8116]

I don't know but I really want to knoe

[@gregmcgrath5835]

she's the same country of him, both accents are similar, ethnicity doesn't matter

[@ryan.s3992]

Were you always that tall?

[@OMcAdam99]

Strange question but how tall are you?

[@Jammidodger]

OMcAdam99 I'm 6ft1

[@OMcAdam99]

If only I could grow a couple of inches, then I'd be a decent height as a guy once I've transitioned.

[@havenwinn8695]

Jammidodger I would kill to be 6'1 ! That's pretty cool, man

[@nishisaxena4831]

+Jammidodger awesome !!!

[@keisha8116]

What religion is shaaba?

[@ybyulizayb]

so cut3 😊👍

[@alicehazel2575]

omfg awesome!

[@phoebechatty8490]

your so handsome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@christenpack1116]

Did you get taller from the T?

[@Jammidodger]

+christen pack I didn't, no

[@RedRattus99]

But you seem so tall! Or is Shaaba just really short? 😂

[@mayram1276]

whats ur girlfriends ethnicity? :D u guys make a cute couple btw ^_^

[@nishisaxena4831]

she looks indian! 😎

[@hatersgoingstohateyae5127]

Mayra M Mauritius

[@ems1135]

She’s Mauritian, but her ethnicity is most likely Indian.

[@franka91]

just a random thought I had... I would have so much anxiety being friends with a trans person just because I misgender people a lot, but it's not really because I think they're the opposite gender, I just get words mixed up? I'm italian so we have female and male adjectives and sometimes I'd say for example "brava" instead of "bravo" to a guy, and viceversa. I do it all the fuckin time, like it's not something I think about. Sometimes I dont even realise I do it and they're like a bit weirded out and Im like what did I say ? Lol Oops sorry. I think it stems from not caring about gender, so whoever I'm talking to I dont particularly differentiate "oh thats a boy/girl im talking to", but honestly i dont have an excuse lol, I'm just clumsy with words. so I just think if I had a trans friend theyd probably hate me :')

[@ChildOfAnAndroid]

Hey :) I just wanted to communicate with you to let you know you're not alone, though I don't have much advice. I often refer to even my dad or boyfriend as she by accident, simply because (same as you) I don't tend to ever think about gender! I personally do not care which pronoun people use for me, and I have a communications disability anyway. I have transgender friends, and they understand it's an accident and do not hate me for it. I just make sure that I think harder about the words im using when I am communicating with somebody who has a specific pronoun they prefer. If I get it wrong all I get is corrected. It's only offensive if it's deliberate and repeated, in my experience, and it has never gotten to that point for me. Just don't deliberately misgender people to be hurtful and mean, and don't be offended by being corrected. (if anybody wants to correct me on any of this feel free, I am not the ultimate knowledge on this (at all) I just wanted to offer an opinion so franka91 didn't think she would be hated for clumsiness)

[@rdr6858]

❤

[@qonitaway09]

hey, handsome

[@sumitab.2452]

nice couple :)

[@altertheskyy1]

did you always have such nice broad shoulders? it's an extremely masculine trait you're lucky lol.

[@Jammidodger]

altertheskyy1 Fairly yes, but they've broadened since I started T and exercised :)

[@The-Sigma-Principle]

2 lesbians mmm i love it 😘

[@iwennlacomme8968]

Duuude, they're 2 boys

[@The-Sigma-Principle]

@@iwennlacomme8968 are you a wizzard ? 🤔

[@iwennlacomme8968]

@@The-Sigma-Principle like Harry Potter ?

[@The-Sigma-Principle]

@@iwennlacomme8968 yes i do ,we can watch it together sometimes give me your facebook or email baby 😋😘😘😘

[@The-Sigma-Principle]

@@iwennlacomme8968 kisses 😘😘😘