That friend saved her. And why the hell he was moving freely and continuosly harrassing her even after she reported him. She had so much proof he should have put behind bars until the verdict
@claudeyaz2 ай бұрын
It's what happens when you have a real life patriarchal culture, we have some shit men in the West sure, but We have damn good compared to other women with other cultures
@rowaaSHKhedr2 ай бұрын
I think she is in a western country, and i think it's an isl*mophobic country that rhymes with Trance.@@claudeyaz
@lynnstrickland94032 ай бұрын
She did, nit, my question is, wht was her friend doing looking at a porn site lol
@gothcsm2 ай бұрын
@@lynnstrickland9403 People have needs…
@oonachestnut5092 ай бұрын
@lynnstrickland9403 She likes porn. There is nothing wrong with that.
@mx.brightside3 ай бұрын
Every time I thought OP's ex husband couldn't get any worse, I was *sorely* mistaken. Idk who OP is, but I have unbelievable respect, empathy and admiration. I admire her strength and truly hope she heals from the trauma of this situation. OP never deserved to go through even a fraction of the trauma her ex put her through. Thank you for having the bravery to share your story, OP. I am so glad you at least got some justice and I pray that your future is rewarding and filled with joy and peace again soon.
@meaghannescheering25223 ай бұрын
Narcissistic husband needing control and hurting another woman. I wish there was more done for men like this. 😭
@rebeccascott65082 ай бұрын
Not done for... done TO!
@mido_chan6723Ай бұрын
Is this sarcasm?
@epikpeetzahutpro23Ай бұрын
People get more justice in the U.S. those countries are ruled by religious beliefs from 1500 years ago
@latoyaallen26753 ай бұрын
He should also be charged with the assault that happened to you for posting your pics phone number and ALLLL your personal information on line... Why would he do this to you and put you in harms way..
@latoyaallen26753 ай бұрын
You married a sexual sadistic rapist... I'm so sorry you went through this by a man you gave your heart to and married..❤️🙏
@woozybroozy2 ай бұрын
my jaw was on the FLOOR listening to the full story. it just kept getting worse 😭 i’m so glad she had a friend looking out for her, providing her enough evidence to leave and sue this deplorable excuse of a man
@I0ve__y02 ай бұрын
I wonder if it’s really or a fake story
@Itz_ZaghaАй бұрын
@@I0ve__y0Honestly, this is so messed up that I hope that it is fake 😭
@eilizdlin38372 ай бұрын
"He was out disgracing himself" she said it. She said it perfectly
@dripppyk3 ай бұрын
first of all, it was not consensual and they should really worry more about your safety. And second of all, why are those married men staring at you and being inappropriate when they have wives? People nowadays want to do what’s easy, not what’s morally correct.
@x_Solaris_x3 ай бұрын
I heard people blaming the atheism. But honestly every single atheist I met behaved better than any of those religious folk I met... Of course, with exceptions, but still. I dunno.
@dripppyk3 ай бұрын
@@x_Solaris_x Yea same, many atheists kind of just use their judgment of right and wrong. It’s easier when you don’t try to make people follow a book to a T. Though I will agree some people are insufferable about being an atheist.
@Nono-ut8kz3 ай бұрын
It's because they either say that women don't have rights, aren't human or they just say, he will forgive me....@@x_Solaris_x
@kimberlynexe3 ай бұрын
@@x_Solaris_x Even for aithest people this is mess up, bruh.
@x_Solaris_x3 ай бұрын
@@kimberlynexe that's... What I'm saying...?
@candidaatkinson62493 ай бұрын
Misogynistic male who felt inferior to his wife and posted to feel superior to her. Any time she "overstepped " the wife role, he would post another video for his own pleasure.
@carriea56373 ай бұрын
Rest of story: she moved out and confronted him with her brothers. He admitted he had a sex addiction and had even been sleeping with prostitutes when she thought he was working. He went in the bathroom and called his mom and she came over with his family. She was at first mad at OP until she told his mother what he had done. She was not on his side after that. OP ended up losing her job because it got around who she was and gross men kept stalking her at her job. She worked with children so they couldn’t have her there anymore. He stalked her and kept postponing the divorce proceedings. Her father passed away, and he cornered her when she was alone after the funeral and rented for about three hours about how she was smarter and more successful than him and made him feel inferior. He hated that she thought for herself and didn’t just obey him. So anytime they argued he would post a video as revenge. She finally got the divorce and a restraining order which he kept breaking. So he was put in jail for that and will be on trial for all of the harassment. Hopefully he will get more jail time for that. OP moved far away and got a new job and is in therapy.
@Chromebookdemon3 ай бұрын
That helps people who didn’t watch thanks
@carriea56373 ай бұрын
@@Chromebookdemon thank you, I appreciate it when people do this so I try when I have time
@Chromebookdemon3 ай бұрын
@@carriea5637 your very welcome
@boogermaidenАй бұрын
No. He should be sued for sex trafficking!!!!!
@paulasmith1033Ай бұрын
@@boogermaidenMaybe that, Too! All of it.
@Maz34563 ай бұрын
What a strong and practical woman. Masha Allah
@KoraTchiteya3 ай бұрын
That is beyond despicable this man is trash of the highest order I hope he gets punished to the full extent of the law I’m so glad that at least his family isn’t trying to excuse his behaviour
@Jzargoisbetter2 ай бұрын
This is fucking insane, I've heard and seen some crazy shit, but this is on a whole new level
@Animallover21-nk7vt3 ай бұрын
This is absolutely disgusting that her husband would do that 😢❤
@samiyaansari69423 ай бұрын
I know it's impossible for her to read this, but there comes a point where she might blame herself. Just remember, it's not your fault. Allah is watching, and He is the best Judge. Your ex husband will soon get the punishment he deserves, in both the the world. Inshallah. As for you, don't let anyone think you deserved it or don't let yourself believe it, remember, all the women of Islam were heavily rewarded.
@maebell2273 ай бұрын
The women who say that their men can't control themselves will they need to learn how to grow up and act like a man
@Idkwhattoput1234-x2x3 ай бұрын
That slap was deserved but this is so sad I’m so so sorry about what happened to you he’s a disgusting person and it wasn’t fair for that to happen to you or anyone but you are an incredible person and handled it amazing a lot of people wouldn’t have handled it worse
@ZomBabeZoe2 ай бұрын
Kate is an amazing friend
@ninak26292 ай бұрын
Your strong and shouldn't feel ashamed for what he did.
@BlackMilkSleep2 ай бұрын
0:20 0:51 On the off-chance that you have not realized this yet, Kate is your absolute best friend in the entire world. The fact that she is going out of her way, on her own personal time, to not only break the news to you as-gentle-as-possible, but this woman is also out there doing the leg-work to take as much off of your plate as possible. Women like Kate legitimately save lives.
@Tinkerbell-d3j3 ай бұрын
👏👏👏 good on her strong woman
@Luci-morningstar--Ай бұрын
This husband is really just the gift that keeps on giving that nobody on earth asked for, huh?
@KimTaehyung-tv5jb2 ай бұрын
Okay.. why in the comments some are behaving like its worse for a muslim woman compared to a non-muslim woman... Its worse for any woman regardless of religion 🙏
@ayatthefish_2 ай бұрын
first of all, we aren't comparing, second, non religious women have their own morals that can be altered and set however they please, but muslims, especially muslim women, have morals that their religion tells them to have and the morals can't be changed. And when one of your morals is covering every part of your body, being exposed on a prn site just defied her religion and one of her key aspects of living. This also had an effect on her job, and her reputation became tarnished. Because she is muslim, she would be bullied and taunted more because her religion commands her specifically NOT to reveal her body to anyone, and because she had been seen on a prn site, some might see the situation as ironic and some deranged delinquents would target her.
@unlimon6382Ай бұрын
@@ayatthefish_ morals are not set "however you please" morals are set based on background. It's something people build and adjust their lifestyle to. Not any other way. Following muslim morals is still choosing to follow muslim morals. So you are still choosing lol. I agree with some of what you said, but the part is which you implied non-muslim women can just change their values to be ok with being violated is crappy
@CynthiaWingo-k4b2 ай бұрын
Two words; Divorce and Lawsuit!!!
@JellyBeanss202728 күн бұрын
Holy shit this is absolutely horrific i’m so sorry that’s happening omg
@dindog222 ай бұрын
her brothers should "take care" of him
@Thetwop00kiez33 ай бұрын
Omg girl I am Muslim too, and I get you
@pallas_kater3 ай бұрын
I'm atheist, but still I'm infuriated. This utter disrespect to someone's personal beliefs is insane. This woman literally didn't want some strangers to see too much of her, she had every right to have this boundary respected, instead of being betrayed the worst way possible.
@merwngue2 ай бұрын
Exactly I'd be screaming crying throwing up for days and days. Like I genuinely think this would have been my 13th reason
@Rogue_CenturionАй бұрын
Anyone of any religious practice or none would be infuriated and all of us are.
@industrialover2 ай бұрын
Can you imagine getting arrested for slapping someone in the face who sold your nude body online?
@JelenaVrbica3 ай бұрын
This is the strongest personal I have ecer heard before.❤
@Maca42 ай бұрын
This happened to my friend's mom back when she was a teen. I'm sure my friend knows about this and it is pretty sad how things can get. :(
@medical_aspirant3526Ай бұрын
the thing i find weird the most is that the husband never told OP about his 'expectations' and 'feelings'. so even in his deluded mind, how can it make sense that she's breaking out of 'the ideal role' he envisions if she doesnt know what it is? the guy should be put on a psych hold too
@yai_himiko3 ай бұрын
And they ask why woman scared of them 🙄 ( i mean those man not normal one, no not act like you one of em )
@dimarshall17772 ай бұрын
Is castration a possibility?
@ro-hoe31173 ай бұрын
Anyone else notice that the video in the background part of it (if not all of it) was the person flying not actually jumping ?
@TheMormonSorceress2 ай бұрын
Proof Porn destroys love.
@hyhy74782 ай бұрын
No..Man destroyed everything He doesn't even love her If not porn he would have done something else
@gaiapalmeri1446Ай бұрын
I feel so bad for her, its not her fault
@sarahamdan16983 ай бұрын
What kind of a human is that? One of the most disgusting people to ever exist. I pray that OP is doing better now
@nicee66292 ай бұрын
This guy is such a failure that he even failed in self exiting.
@Skzfan-r6i3 ай бұрын
What a horrible man
@deaddove3 ай бұрын
this is exactly why i wish porn was illegal
@saturnisgay692 ай бұрын
there would still be websites if it was illegal + banning stuff like that can be a slippery slope to intense censorship (there should be more regulations on it tho)
@ayatthefish_2 ай бұрын
it is in many countries
@oonachestnut5092 ай бұрын
Why? If you don't like it, just don't watch. There's nothing wrong with liking porn.
@V3r1tyR0s3Ай бұрын
@@oonachestnut509well actually there is - it can have negative effects on mental, emotional, and social well being. It can distort views of Sex, lead to unrealistic expectations or reduce real life intimacy. It can Impact relationships or unrealistic comparisons between partners.
@Itz_ZaghaАй бұрын
@@oonachestnut509It can be extremely harmful to your mental health and personal life. I've heard of people were so addicted, that they didn't showered for weeks and masturbated until they're bleeding. Ofc, it is an specific case, but there are tons of people out there with their brains rotting because of it. I know people that can't live a normal life without sexualizing absolutely anything and everything. It also creates extremely high standards and some videos even post miss information about sex. Also, we have tons of cases like this, videos being posted without consent.
@BeautifullyResilient232 ай бұрын
No, he didn't! That such an invasion of privacy. Such an act of betrayal.
@eleanorphoenix2 ай бұрын
This made me feel sick to my stomach
@izzy_bell_0_02 ай бұрын
How did random people on the street start catcalling because of what her husband did to her if the only part of herself she shows publicly is her eyes?
@Itz_ZaghaАй бұрын
She said that not every women in her country wears niqab, plus, he posted her address and where she worked, so they might've been following her (and all the rumors too)
@JellybeansatduskАй бұрын
In the video she was alone with her husband and not wearing the niqab but he also posted her details and location of daily life online. Probably her name too.
@malinablevins23132 ай бұрын
😢🙌🏼👏🏼it’s heart breaking that all that happened in such a short time, but she stayed strong. great story
@jncchang1762 ай бұрын
Whoa. Muslim. That's a serious offense. Poor girl. This is a violation and I would call this assault. That friend is a good friend. Hope you stayed in touch.
@hyhy74782 ай бұрын
Muslim or not that's a serious offense
@gift.drawssАй бұрын
The karma that's gonna follow him, my apologies and condolences to OP❤️
@mrshannahliz3 ай бұрын
Some people just disgusting disgusting and disgusting. I don’t know people in the world do this . to me. It’s Disgusting
@Ladonasora98992 ай бұрын
I don't understand WHY anyone would do this in the first place, it's just really sad and disgusting..
@Cat_Fairy032 ай бұрын
I got disgusted when she said that but when she said she was Muslim I got goosebumps cuz if she wears a hijab is severely haram (even tho it’s not her fault) cuz we can’t show our body…even if she wasn’t Muslim I would’ve still gotten goosebumps
@The_Pigwidgeon3 ай бұрын
I feel soooooo bad for op
@V3r1tyR0s3Ай бұрын
That is actually disturbing and disgusting what the hell ☹️
@catsinmycradle63152 ай бұрын
This sounds just like that French case kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6S0gXalrJlrgrssi=bfQ1QPEt4wQlK-4y The husband “over medicated” his wife and filmed what he did to her as well as what he allowed other men to do to her
@bethbirch35853 ай бұрын
Nah if my husband ever even thought abt doing that I would be the one in prison for fucking murdering the dude that is not a way to be treated that friend rly saved u there to ur lucky she saw it in time
@merwngue2 ай бұрын
Frfr
@Nintendo6412003 ай бұрын
I'm honestly surprised that she didn't change her name and change her number.
@its3amyouknowАй бұрын
If men are still calling you once you move, I would become another person: delete social media, sell your phone and get a different one, try not to go out much, and try to keep tabs with those you would only want to actually talk to
@ninak26292 ай бұрын
You're ex husband is sick twisted. Who does this to there wife it's just sick 🤮🤮🤮🤮
@FirstDarkAngel2001Ай бұрын
That was nice when you put on the bottom right to speed it up if it was going too slow. :)
@PlamediAmayah2 ай бұрын
No but the fact that they are muslim and he did that is disgusting 🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤢🤢🤢
@merwngue2 ай бұрын
That man speedran hell 💀
@maebell2273 ай бұрын
Go to a good lawyer
@Isabella-o9g2 ай бұрын
True
@boogermaidenАй бұрын
That is sex trafficking. Divorce. 😭
@alanoudalanoud-c7yАй бұрын
1:15 when she said that she was Muslim I was so shocked because i am also Muslim and stuff like this is haram and I know that the guy she is with did something very haram so it’s basically not her fault because she didn’t know that happened
@Cat_Fairy032 ай бұрын
No way women don’t want u close to their kids bc their THEIR husbands can’t stop looking at u
@DelRaeАй бұрын
Man the bear has never looked so good ❤❤❤❤
@fatimalikescats3834Ай бұрын
Recording someone like that is absolutely freakishly haram not aloud is Islam Ik cuz I’m a Muslim too
@hopebegha516Ай бұрын
The husband is pure evil
@PatriciaBoltney2 ай бұрын
Leave him I don't want a man like that
@Liam-h1e6hАй бұрын
This is the definition of a narcissist. edit: the man, of course.
@hira-f5v2 ай бұрын
I'm a Muslim HIJABI but not a nikabi (sorry if spet wrong) but that man bro he- u cant even call him MUSLIM him anymore
@Allah__hu_Akbar97322 күн бұрын
As a Muslim . I can say this without touching her, her husband has kill her . Her husband snatch every single thing from her . If she is alive it's really something , that I can't even explain 😔.
@PatriciaBoltney2 ай бұрын
Am glad u left him
@NoahJb1223 ай бұрын
I have a very big plan and I am not through the entire video so first tell your friend to record it whenever you and him are ex-husband and ex-wife. Sue him should show the judge the videos and boom that’s all I have to say. Hope you’re doing good.
@Slivpopvr2 ай бұрын
There is no way there are people this evil on earth.
@marymmohamed91729 күн бұрын
As a Muslim woman i really don't know what to say to her except that she is a hero , in our religion if only our face or hear was exposed it feels like we got rap*ed because it means allot to us , what he did is not only a crime but also a sin... a horrible sin
@bean02002 ай бұрын
2:02 why do people think that Muslims are savages and this barbaric 😭
@helenawinther2005Ай бұрын
My sister got a picture online by her then bf [no clothing] she was like 14 but luckily we haven't seen anything to it almost since but i was on facebook and who knows who have it now. (Or at least that was we were told as young (she is 8 years older than me), but haven't asked her. So we were told not to do that, but if we "have" to, do NOT SHOW YOUR FACE!!!)
@raincurespain73992 ай бұрын
It just kept getting worse
@GodswillegboАй бұрын
the husband on some drugs like wtf sorry and i hope you get bettr like damn he crazy
@boogermaidenАй бұрын
Wait, he also doxxed you?! Aaaahhhh case on case on case
@luner_ghast685610 күн бұрын
im a muslim and oh my god did this piss me off so much man, its okay sister you didnt do wrong , i ask allah to take revenge on your husband that put you in such a scenario
@KWgalaxyWolfАй бұрын
5:10 Bro thats messed up don’t bring the little kids into this
@mollysandera9912 ай бұрын
Brother, ewwwwwwwwww
@lisagow14822 ай бұрын
I call cap on this story, sorry but she contradicts herself. She said she wear FULL COVERING, all you see is her eyes but now "strange men" are harassing her and even assaulted her?? How do they even know it's her???
@fideoscontuco092 ай бұрын
hopefully it is cap, but she does say her husband doxxed everything about her, including her workplace, and she also mentions not many women were she lives veil, so its probably an easy guess.
@qaanitah_i2 ай бұрын
I need to find the video where she emailed her story to an anon advise thingy and it had more detail about his harassment and the initial drama of her immediate confrontation uncovering her identity starting with the neighbourhood teen boys realising what exactly the scandal was (thanks to the ex) and sharing the videos that, at the time, weren't being taken down despite everything she and her siblings went through. She'd only just told her soon to be ex in-laws the truth. He was spinning it as her being crazy before and she was ashamed and didn't want to say anything because of mother-in-law's health. OC mil didn't believe her at first. She hadn't taken him to court yet, she didn't lose her job yet but she was having trouble with a couple of parents and didn't understand why and was still sort of falling for his initial "I'm addicted to porn" lie.
@cloudypuffss2 ай бұрын
in the first place why was kate in that website?
@merwngue2 ай бұрын
Is that really important?
@AquarwolfАй бұрын
I have a question are these your real stories because it just doesn’t make sense that every single one of them is different 😅
@Faith_LesediАй бұрын
He's so sick
@Redfoxa3 ай бұрын
It's sad people fake stories like this. some people really suffer from that type of issues. Reddit is just sad. i hope every women that suffer from this get out
@anikaahmed91803 ай бұрын
What makes you think this is fake? I have heard numerous cases like this. I'm sure this is not fake
@Redfoxa3 ай бұрын
@anikaahmed9180 this one is written by AI. You can train (or be trained in my case ) to recognize the patterns and the illogical points. I know there are a lot of stories like this, doesnt mean i cant point out this one. Few exemples i remember is it made some détails but soon forgot them. Some stuff are just impossible.
@melissacontreras330Ай бұрын
Your ex is disgusting poor excuse of a man and disgusting human No wonan wants a man who hurts her and lies and violates her personal space or exposes her secretly recprds her naked thats a violation he needs help and he stalks that scares me
@bean02002 ай бұрын
He’s a disgrace to Islam
@St4r2St4rАй бұрын
OMG HE CHEATED!!! THAT IS HARAM AND IT IS COMMITTING ZINA!!!
@Cheyenneansrobloxxx3 ай бұрын
Why was the friend on that site 😂😂
@AkA5533 ай бұрын
Thats ur take from the whole mess?
@Cheyenneansrobloxxx3 ай бұрын
Kinda 😭🙏
@Cinnababy63 ай бұрын
homie alot of people watch porn LMAOO she could've been flicking the bean and realize her friend had be exposed to this stuff, the real take should be thank god her friend was a real one.
@Cheyenneansrobloxxx3 ай бұрын
@@Cinnababy6 I know. I was joking 😌
@IbrahimAlasser2 ай бұрын
How is bro Muslim
@Falcon_fast3 ай бұрын
How does she know???!??
@pythiko3 ай бұрын
Her friend told her that she found a video of her on an adult website
@Kbug2.03 ай бұрын
Am I the only one think why was Kate on the website to begin with?
@charlottepaige53753 ай бұрын
Women need personal time too 🤷♀️
@qaanitah_i2 ай бұрын
Kate was snooping through her teen son's history because she heard him saying something about the veiled friend and showing the video to his friends. The initial story is somewhere on the tube. It's a few years old, a lot more detailed and she hadn't gotten him to court yet.
@boogermaidenАй бұрын
Yeah! But still can't dismiss the fact she helped her co-worker
@Rogue_CenturionАй бұрын
chay monstruo
@NoahJb1223 ай бұрын
I just watch the rest of the vid sorry I dident watch to the end THEN comment sorry
@Foreversmore3 ай бұрын
Why would he do that
@AkA5533 ай бұрын
He is psychopath. Wanted to feel superior.
@reynalynicogo63503 ай бұрын
Pretty much he felt inferior and wanted to feel superioer
@untitled-gv3qp3 ай бұрын
He was a misogynist that couldn't feel superior to her any other way. He basically admitted it was to punish her for being better than him.