My husband won't let me touch him after I cheated...HELP!

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

I hate how they claim to love their husband but in reality, they love the stability, they love how useful they are...

[@garethbryant2183]

Yep loved intill useless.

[@raphaelgreer6259]

trill

[@alexia3552]

fax

[@Catherine.Dorian.]

Yeah it’s not him, they just don’t want to lose the lifestyle they have. I’d be willing to be most men who pursue married women don’t ever want to actually be with a cheater, it’s just sex

[@Lonaticus]

She loved him for what he could provide, not for who he was.

[@sammy-uy8hb]

So... you let another man enter you but your surprised your husband doesn't wanna touch you? The entitlement is real.

[@alitur1712]

no it is basically her husband doesn't want to enter her, i mean who knows she might have the clap 🙄

[@angeloliver7613]

What I don't get from the person who had been cheated on, why they don't divorce or get separated and rather stay "roommates" with the cheater.

[@stevendeen4391]

They love his stability, money, and title of being a wife.

[@maxdubos5325]

​@@angeloliver7613probably love + the kids

[@rezarfar]

​​@@angeloliver7613 being courts favour women, especially if kids are under 18, why would I give you the satisfaction of taking half my stuff and get custody of kids after YOU cheated. Yeah that isn't gonna happen, deal with it, I'll leave you when they're 18 and I'll see call girls instead of touching you..

[@cavey001]

Your commentary text should be in a different color than the story text, to avoid confusion.

[@joeldykman7591]

Yeah, it takes me out of the story. Mainly because there's not a significant pause between story and aside to differentiate easily what's story and what's commentary.

[@WilliamBrowning]

Use a different voice too. It's impossible to keep track if you aren't watching.

[@The8thblock]

I watch these on mute (since I watch these at work when we're not busy) and it was very confusing when he would switch to commentary.

[@agent004skin]

I’d prefer if there just wasn’t any commentary.

[@CosmicAeon]

@@agent004skin Exactly. I dont really need random opinions creeping into the timeline of events for no apparent reason. KZbinr is overestimating the importance of his opinions tbh.

[@hershade]

"listen lady, i wouldnt even touch you with a hazmat suit" GOT ME ROLLING ON THE FLOOR LMAO but hey true asf...filth is filth

[@penextrexe4380]

the whole extra dialogues are st*l3n from another youtube channel

[@hershade]

@@penextrexe4380 happens all the time in the world of reddit stories 💀💀💀💀

[@senatornokia4071]

​@@penextrexe4380 bro, just say stolen

[@christhensaid]

I think it's called find your alpha

[@masonmorgan8167]

⁠@@penextrexe4380does it matter?, it’s still true nonetheless I don’t get all this ‘YOu’rE STEaLing WorDs Oh mY gOD’.

[@Spartan536]

Jim was smart to accept that post-nuptial agreement, all you need to do is remain married to her for 30 months, which is 2 1/2 years. You have an OPEN MARRIAGE ON YOUR SIDE ALONE WRITTEN IN CONTRACT. Build up, stock up, and when it comes time, execute a full on salted thermonuclear strike, and have your next relationship ready to go as soon as the divorce finalizes.

[@chrisblom121]

The problem was she cheated and you think the solution includes cheating till your divorce finalized bro your dumb and just as bad as the wife if you think that helps😂😂

[@mazthebear]

A woman that truly loves her man wouldn’t even offer an open relationship. That shows how little she cares about him. Not only that its a horrible idea for any guy to take this offer up because then she can use it against you. Since its a contract, she screwed her self over if he did take her up on that offer. But heres the thing, they have 2 kids. If he took her up on that offer the girl is gonna poison the well while her previous actions are unnoticed

[@Spartan536]

@@vulblhotdiessfi Correct will edit the typo

[@benstandard]

​@@mazthebearwould a woman who truly loved her husband even cheat on him?

[@mazthebear]

@@benstandard nope

[@exodusfivesixfivesix8050]

Jim is playing chess while she is playing checkers. 30months vs half his assets. Not a bad trade.

[@joshuafranklin7488]

I was thinking the same thing. Plus with the no touching rule, the if she cheats she gets nothing clause (which she came up with), she has to get a job, and the monthly STD tests. Good call.

[@sliqyplayz8072]

That’s so real tho

[@JohnSmith-bs9ym]

His lawyer probably advised him to do all that.

[@blaedus5318]

The funny thing is that he couldn't even make it 30 months before he just asked for the divorce.

[@kevinj1855]

​bblaedus5318personally, had it been me, I would have brought up her moving out, as SHE abandoned the marriage

[@orion668]

The Only reason why the husband did accept the offer is because of the kid. 100%, He complete his duty for his kid and not for her.

[@JBTFan124]

No dude. He has to live in the same house with her for 2 and a half years to keep all of his assets vs. giving her half of everything he's earned. It's a pretty easy financial choice on his part.

[@GreyMasker]

He has to accept this bizarre and unnatural serfdom crap because otherwise the cheating 304 along with the state gets to take half his stuff, because you know justice and whatnot.

[@talhaansari62]

Yeah I i think he's just waiting for 30 months to end so he can seek divorce.

[@Z020852]

Or maybe deep down he's a simp.

[@ikram1572]

​@@Z020852 Not wanting to lose half you stuff doesn't sound like what a simp would do. You're just throwing that word around.

[@frantheman1287]

I have zero sympathy for her or anyone who cheats (man or woman). I hate the whole "i love you" nonsense a cheater says. If that's love, I'd hate to see what their version of hate looks like. Cut ties and move on. I'll never understand the couple that stay togther "for the kids". Both parents are miserable and setting a horrible example for their kid(s).

[@christianbenn316]

I also have no sympathy for her either

[@TheEldritchGod]

Because it is objectively worse to get divorced for the children. Statistically. So, being a man, he's willing to suffer for his children. If you don't understand sacrificing for your children, please don't have any.

[@frantheman1287]

@TheEldritchGod spoken like someone who would willingly traumatized their own kids. Kids are a lot smarter than you think and will take everything they see into their own relationships in the future. Most people I've met whose parents stayed together for the sake of the kids have serious issues. They're spoiled, entitled, and throw tantrums like 3 year olds. They lack empathy and are master manipulators due to the fact that they could pin their parents against each other to get what they want. So yeah, you do you and create weak individuals.

[@TheEldritchGod]

@@frantheman1287 - And yet getting divorced would traumatize them more. In The US, the mother gets the kids, regardless of what happened and single mothers are statistically quite abusive. So you would have the kids become the whipping posts for a psychopathic woman where the husband is looted for all his money left to live in a cardboard box, unable to protect his children as his ex-gaslights them, making it seem like it is their father's fault while destroying their self-esteem. You see, I did SUICIDE PREVENTION and I bet I've talked way more people out of killing themselves than you. From both the statistics and from personal experience, getting a divorce is always worst FOR THE CHILDREN. You can go with your FEELINGS. But if all else is equal, the children are usually better off if the parents stick it out until they leave the home. For all your stories of how bad children in that situation are, It is FAR WORSE if the parents broke up and the mothers did what they usually do and abused the divorce courts.

[@zahrachughtai3361]

​@@TheEldritchGod Idk why there are so many more stories about men abusing people, when women do it the samw rate. The US court thinks that women are naturally caretakers, which is a mysoginistic attitude.

[@Sushi_Cat2793]

Hahahahahaha. I’ve just read the title and now I’m laughing. She cheated and now wants her husband back. Mf he got his heart completely broke and she’s now feeling sorry for herself. This woman is utterly disgusting. I feel so sorry for the husband.

[@christianbenn316]

I would tell her it's too late & you're not welcome back in my life i'm sorry it was her decision to cheat & it comes wirh a heavy price.

[@_--Reaper--_]

Your profile pic together with your comment is hilarious...

[@Jetpackguyy]

Bruh where can i find the story without his stupid comments

[@SoundClaw09]

I read the title and said “No! I will not help you!”

[@Hoki4]

I would never take a cheating woman back, even if it meant losing shit ton of money. My self respect is worth to me more than any amount of money ever will be. And once woman goes and cheats on a man, it signals to the man that she didn't respect you and only way to deal with that is to get rid of disrespecting person. Some women view cheating differently, as long as strong feelings of love and care wasn't involved, its all good in their eyes.

[@Mcdonaldsbag]

All I will say is this- No matter what you call it or who told you what or how you view it CHEATING IS FUCKING CHEATING.

[@DarkHeartTheEmo]

The women that kind of her side on the comments are women that already cheat and their husband are cuckolds, they have to be, because no man with self worth would take a woman like that.

[@SimonIsVeryHandsome]

*Thou shalt not commit Adultery* Even In the Bible It Says that It's immoral to do it

[@LH-lv4zs]

Another case of a gal not being physically attracted to her partner, but marrying him for "resources". She's thinking "This is a husband for me and my future family." Her blaming her loneliness on being a SAHM is ridiculous. She's UNHAPPY with her LIFE decision of marrying JIM. There's nothing Jim could have done to make her happy. Her unhappiness is of her own doing, and anything he does to try to make her happy will result in her just getting more unhappy. Her begging and telling him she'll be the best wife and never do this again is ONLY because she realizes she's now at risk of losing her "provider", and will need to start looking for another potential partner. Her AP has no interest in being with her, either. Jim is brilliant! He's divorcing her and keeping the majority of assets. He'll be FREE of her, and be able to move on.

[@Kiwiiismama]

Also her explaining the affair as if it’s something “animalistic” and “can’t control it” and it happened because she’s a SAHM then lets see what would’ve happened if he cheated and used the excuse of there’s a lot of gorgeous women around me at work and at the gym and I couldn’t control myself

[@LH-lv4zs]

@@Kiwiiismama, Agreed. Women compartmentalize and view ONE man as the husband and another as the LOVER. This makes her life complete. When it comes to their view of men; though, they'll expect their husband to only be available to THEM. They ACT on instinct and emotion, but want their man to UNDERSTAND that when they get caught cheating. Most of them would NEVER accept their man cheating... unless he's providing her with the life she's always dreamed of- wealth, etc.. Of course, she'll keep the truth from all her friends, unless they're going through the same with THEIR husbands.

[@Kiwiiismama]

@@LH-lv4zs not all women have that sick view of their husbands, cheaters are cheaters and don’t represent the majority, wether they’re men or women. Some girls think that just like how some guys could see their wives or gfs as “disposable” and both are wrong for it of course

[@joschmo4497]

@@Kiwiiismama Yeah but the accuse doesn't even make it any better, no matter how you spin it. It's actually just an extra insult. Yeah Jim, you just don't turn me on like he does, even tho I've known him for 3 minutes.

[@frankconley6321]

This nails it. All women who cheat view their husband as 'Father and provider' only. Never as lover. They feel NO regret for cheating, only worry about losing the gravy train. After all, they 'deserve' to be happy. Never marry in a 'No Fault' state. Always a prenup. Always seperate finances. It's in a woman's nature to be selfish. (This from 6 decades of observations, my own family included)

[@istoppedcaring6209]

cheating on a marriage should be a criminal offense, 5 years jailtime and immediate one sided divorce, half the cheater's assets are granted to the victim.

[@alexsyn2531]

Also Child custody

[@tedkaczynskiamericanhero3916]

An affair is low risk for a vast majority of women. The husband leaves? She's keeping half his shit, if she managed to trap a good one, she also get alimony! If anything women are rewarded for degenerate behavior at this point.

[@psier11]

As cheating destroys marriages, 5 yrs for every one. If you destroy 2, yr own and the APs, 10 yrs. That would avoid homicides related to infidelity.

[@Shunaiko]

Jailtime seems excessive. It is and should be the most prime of grounds for ruling heavily in favor of the cheated-on when it comes to dividing assets, though.

[@RandomGuy-ej9gr]

Yeah and then imagine the men getting framed and sentenced to prison nah fuck that

[@JoelXl-zc4rp]

They don't ever realize...if you love your husband, you won't have sex with any other man outside your marriage, the moment you get touched, let another man have his release within you, there's absolutely no reason to touch you nor stay married, there's no love in that at all, then you end up sharing two men, and not staying faithful with your husband. Nothing can ever undo that.

[@joschmo4497]

Bro if I caught so much as a dirty text she'd be out.

[@darrellfincher2948]

told my wife if...IF i ever found she was not true to me....i wouldn't be held responsible for my re-actions---she then asked me if it would involve a gun.....told her i'm not sure--i'm not in that position yet..... my wife and i have been happily married for 34 years now---i know we are supposed to be together--but i also know life changes-----i just hope we are still together when i die....... we both renew our commitment for each other daily----its hard to make up your mind to stay---when extremly difficult times come your way--buut God has helped us stay together and he will continue if we allow him.

[@dooomlerno720]

@@darrellfincher2948no one asked 💀

[@potatoheadpokemario1931]

It's always the same with these stories from the cheater's POV, they're not sorry for what they done, they're only sorry they got caught. Like maybe one or two might be sorry for what they done.

[@detectivewinters3180]

Such audacity for this women have to claimed that she loved her husband despite clearly stating how her loyalty is easily shakeable and fragile

[@GereldJohnson]

She cheated but now wants her husband

[@tedkaczynskiamericanhero3916]

*wants his resources If she wanted her husband, she wouldn't have done this to him in the first place. She offered up "everything" to try and play him like she doesn't just want his resources in the hopes he would buy it.

[@christianbenn316]

She dug her pit so she has to fall in it.

[@perindne]

Yeah, good luck with that.

[@markanthony1004]

Poster, I often don’t like hearing the narrator’s opinions at least during the story but I swear you got me chuckling and agreeing lol. Love this channel man. Even my wife giggling and agreeing. Fun times lol

[@JewelWildmoon]

Never take a cheater back, no matter how much they claim they'll spend their life making it up to you. If not for your mental health, then at least for the sake of self-respect. Although, I do admit that Jim was pretty clever with the way he went about it to make her kinda regret the agreement. I don't get why people still can't understand that whether or not you're intimate with your partner, you can't be intimate with someone outside of your marriage.

[@saint037]

even if it's not about self respect, there's still the fact that you can't trust the person anymore gonna spend the rest of your life babysitting a cheater because they can't control their urges?

[@christianbenn316]

Taking a cheater back is a red flag & it's access denied.

[@amidlej8237]

Okay, I'm almost over the video, possibly a hot take here, but what are those comments to the original post? Why are the women being so sympathetic to a cheater, that is most probably an unreliable narrator or at least have a bias towards herself, trying to make excues for her behavior? I may be spewing mistakes here, since I've never been on a romantic relationship, but she hurt a man that loved her a lot, and the agreement made both of them miserable! If the OP were a man, I am really sure the comments from the women would be very different...

[@billbob2293]

Feminism ain't about equality and hasn't been for a long time.

[@alexia3552]

You are 100% dead on. Anyone who views themselves as a feminist needs to equally hold women accountable for their hurtful actions.

[@kinosaga21]

Simple, cheaters defend cheaters;

[@JewelWildmoon]

​​@@alexia3552This is why I only really respect the opinions of the egalitarians who actually stick to the standard moral of the community. I feel like feminists tend to lean more into justifying bad behavior and call it "being the bigger person," but get mad if the same thing has to apply to the opposite side.

The Sisterhood always back one of their own, not all but most. Flip the genders and they NEVER think the guy is in the right or offer the same excuses for it.

[@rexcatston8412]

It's infuriating that so many cheating stories begin with 'i have a great husband and life..' I'll tell you something. If their husbands were awful 99% wouldn't have cheated.

[@graham5990]

In these cases the only reason they will "do everything to win you back" isn't because they love you and have regret for what they did but because they are about to lose the life you provide them and they will give anything to keep living off of you and not have to provide for themselves. Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is her nature to weep when she wants her will - Socrates

[@perindne]

Yes. I believe a number of married women are really MARRIED to their husband's paycheck, and not so much to their husband. I believe this is how it was in the family I grew up in. Both of my parents have passed but to this day I believe my mother was a cheating woman. How sad for her/them. Fortunately I married a very warm and very loving woman - we've been married for a little over 49 years now, and I love my wife much more now than I did on the day when I married her - she reciprocates and is very intelligent, loving and kind to me. Our lives are good.

[@graham5990]

@@perindne That is always an amazing thing to hear, and may God continue to richly bless both of you.

[@potatoheadpokemario1931]

20:03 nah, distance will just make him see how much happier he is without her and confirm he made the right choice offering her everything to leave

[@christianbenn316]

& he's better off without her in his life

[@potatoheadpokemario1931]

And I'm sick of you saying you love Jim, you don't, if you did you wouldn't have cheated

[@Sashin-d8t]

It’s kinda annoying when the reader keeps interrupting

[@CJ-BZ]

The audio is actually from a commentary channel from Find Your Alpha. This person took that audio into a text converter and posted it. thats why it has all the interjections(that are much more natural in the original video) and why it difficult to differentiate between 1st person in the story & the “reader”.

[@Scyon13]

I think it's great, it's hilarious 😂😂😂

[@sinz1875]

Let the man go. You dissolved any respect or love had for you.

[@will_o_wisp]

As a woman we do not claim her, cheaters are disgusting and low, my father cheated on my mother and his mother tried to get her to go back to him, this is the same woman who my Mum went out of her way to help her, Mum stopped her from offing herself after her own family turned on her and a slooth of other things and on top of all that SHE encouraged Mum to leave her son since she saw the abuse he was putting us through and this witch did a full 180 AND had the actual audacity to tell Mum "the kids are too young to understand and they'll go with whatever you decide". I guess she wasn't wrong, we did go with Mum, several towns away, guess what "granny" I always understood, I never forgot Edit: damn, maybe I need therapy, or a new family

[@nkznkz3800]

Sorry but nobody gives a fuck what you claim, This is the standard of Women walking out there. I worked in an Industry where I had to rub shoulders with people from all walks of life 24/7. I've seen and heard it all. And the one thing all Women there have in common is that when a 'Bad Boy' crosses their paths they're practically willing to sacrifice anything for that Dick.

[@AlexanderTheFarmer]

Sorry to hear that, my dad cheated on my mum too when I was 7 years old and everything went to hell

[@MadCatMadMan]

Since she is also a woman, she does represent y'all. Just like how all the shit guys represent us too. Cause even if we don't cheat, we will still get accused and have to take responsibility. Also I think at least 80% of humans need some type of therapy

[@interviewwithdevin2902]

Rainbows and fireworks while describing first partner. Dry bagel describing her husband

[@experiencedotaku171]

The fact that all the girls told her to keep trying while the guys told her to leave the man alone (which she did in the end finally) shows some signs of the toxic female bonding. Not all females do it but there are enough females supporting other females in the most heinous acts just cuz she's a female and it doesn't directly affect them that it's not unusual to see it 🤷‍♂️

[@Niveous23]

It's sad how some women can be. I blame the lack of role models. She's really going through life like an animal....and says as much. But she still thinks that's not a problem. She calls a year long affair a mistake. It's hundreds of deliberate and cruel decisions, completely sober and meditated.

[@Thaddius0]

Jim: I'll give you everything to cut ties so I can rebuild my lost fortune on a leech. OP: Ill give you a massive amount if you can handle being roommates for 30 months Jim: Okay. I guess that works. OP: *Ive got him right where I want him*

[@Maninawig]

The AI trying to add relatable quips in the same generated tone and font reminds me so much of the "How do you do, fellow kids?" meme.

[@alexia3552]

Oh is it AI? i thought it read some things strangely

[@Maninawig]

@@alexia3552 it is a good AI, but the softwares really suck at homographs, so you'll catch him saying "tear" the exact same way every time. Also, inflection, typos, and spacing are all off. Granted, I don't mind AI voice, but at least do something to differentiate the personal quips from the story...

[@purc498]

this is from another channel "find your alpha" its literally an AI rereading, if not just using the actual audio and using the minecraft background to not get striked by the previous channel. The other channel put this out 6 months ago and is 10 mins longer... if you like these kinds of stories check them out, but especially if you like these kind of stories go check out Strong Successful Male... he is really one of the best.

[@rotocoach5397]

@@alexia3552 It's AI reading a reddit post. I'm guessing the commentary is written by the KZbinr.

[@amycoley2464]

I hate when people cheat , if you are going to do so please leave your relationship first.

[@christianbenn316]

Anyone who is bitten once never look to be bitten again cause when the trust is gone it's impossible to regain it.

[@XFD42069]

This.

[@amycoley2464]

@@christianbenn316 so true!

[@alexjensen5993]

I think I get what they try to say when “I was totally fulfilled, but still cheated” comes out. Like when you’re pleasantly full from dinner and then you see that pie, well aware it’ll be a bad idea but you don’t want to be full you want to eat.

[@eddyalonsomoramorales6069]

Witch is Even worst🤣🤣🤦

[@saint037]

okay, now I understand it😂 but I'd still get a stomach ache and regret the decision also, when it comes to cheating, it's not just the cheater who is fa ING the consequences of their own actions it's the rest of the family facing consequences for a pie they didnt even get to eat

Yeah but at least the dinner isnt getting hurt if you cram a pie into your hole.

[@darrylblanch8463]

Totally mentally, emotionally and physically satisfied? NO ONE who is completely satisfied & happy has a 5 month affair! NO ONE!

[@TRPDK]

"I'm not a victim by any means" Processed to tell us how she's the victim

[@picklerick4944]

He's just biding his time until the 30 months are over and he can leave with all his money

[@TheKadanz]

Cheaters calling their infidelity a 'mistake', you know exactly what type of person you're dealing with. She not remorseful about the cheating, she's remorseful of getting caught and being held accountable for it; hence the downplaying by calling it a mistake.

[@tonychan8558]

Another cheater trying to justify her actions to strangers on the internet, trying to gain sympathy when she doesn't get it at home. Wise man once said, 'She belongs to the streets'.

[@thomasprogli3372]

Woman loves her husband more than anything in the world that is why she abused him the worst possible way. Yes, cheating is abuse and it is insane that the courts will ignore this fact but will regard financial abuse.

[@RealCurrencies]

The begging is not a 'ploy''. Women are very strongly attached to their husbands. And once the reality of her actions become manifest, and she loses him, the shock to her system is massive. It can even lead to suicide, especially when other key relations (like parents, children, job) also abandon her.

[@MineQley]

Hey there, my current channel is going to be deleted soon due to some issues. But don't worry, I've started a new channel. kzbin.info/door/TPtQ3DPI8oJt4kAIL5NeGw

[@GreyMasker]

Women very rarely commit suicide. Lots of attention-grabbing "attempts" though.

[@breadedagenda]

There wouldn't be a video of this story at all if any of what you said was true. Damn near a half hr of evidence to the contrary in fact, and there are thousands of these kinds of situations that all of us have collectively either, heard, watched, witnessed IRL, or lived through.

[@alexinfinite7142]

It is a ploy don't make excuses. She's just in panic mode because historically a women abandoned to the streets is doomed to die in the wild. She doesn't care, her survival instinct is just triggered. Empty tears. That's all it is

[@vegvisirskald2172]

Cheating is selfish it doesnt have to have an excuse. Its like looking at two pieces of cake and deciding to eat them both.

[@SkyEcho751]

It isn't that OP didn't love her husband, it's that she didn't RESPECT him. There are 2 kinds of love, passionate and companionate. Passionate is what OP chased, but it NEVER lasts. Companionate love is what married couples need to survive, but she never felt that love with him. She felt security and safety with him, but she didn't actually respect him as her partner, it took 24 hours for her to be in bed. Only now does she realize what she lost.

[@NikiWinProd]

I like your additions and comments to the original reddit post XD

[@tgoodfella]

So she's happy but a 304 is normal for her. No accountability

[@Chiques4200]

That kind of woman is the reason I’m never gonna marry

[@Adiscretefirm]

Gosh I emasculated my husband, made it clear he wasn't enough for me, and made sure the humiliation was complete by choosing a lover he knows and has to drive by the house where it happened every day and he's not attracted to me anymore! I hope for his sake he is just waiting out the 30 months to be able to keep what he worked so hard for.

[@ZarDieZayne]

At the middle part where Jim agrees. I was like “let him cook” cuz I know what he boutta do

[@michaelmordarski5994]

If you have to “get caught” to stop cheating, it’s not regret for braking her vows if remorse for loosing her bang buddy. Plus, cheating is not an “accident” it’s intentional. NO SYMPATHY GIVEN!! This woman is literally the embodiment of trash.

[@TheKadanz]

I paused the video right before she going to get caught. I'm going to write down all the excuses I think she's going to be spewing out and see if I got most of them right. - It's not what it looks like - It didn't mean anything - I love you (her husband) so much - It just happened; I didn't know what I was doing. I made a mistake. - It's actually not my fault, there's just something wrong with me - We can get past this through couples counseling

[@Godhuman-tu5en]

I hate how if he cheated she wouldn't take him back😢😢😢😢😢 she is literally the worst Jim brother straight up

[@GprefsKounick]

Your passion for what you do shines through in every video-thanks!

[@silentsirens5112]

I enjoy the commentary but use a different voice or colour text to avoid confusion

[@dellinger71]

If you can't stay loyal to your spouse/family, you simply don't love or deserve them.

[@TheAngriestYam]

Just read the damn story, dude.

[@Sashin-d8t]

Fr

[@Future_jira]

No no his opinion and cut in are needed

[@reginaldhobbs6202]

no they’re not lol

[@that-one-guy4747]

​@@reginaldhobbs6202 they are, I need someone to talk while I laugh my ass off at her stupidity

[@PreeSpunky]

He copied and pasted Find Your Alpha's video, including all of his comments. He plagiarized.

[@jeffreyaguilar8028]

You stole the dialogue from Find Your Alpha. Literally this has his side comments in this.

[@GreyMasker]

"I loved him and the kids more than anything in the world." Nope. She loves herself more than anything in the world, and nothing will ever change that. If I was Jim I would have gotten some paternity tests done for sure.

[@mikef2811]

Be honest...CHADS excites you....boring husband does not.

[@MelMcGuire.]

😂😂she played herself.. Jim only accepted her agreement to keep his hard earned money/assets good for you Jim 👏🏼👏🏼

[@ninjastorm540]

She literally threw away everything over a thrill, thats it. She said her husband was better than the AP in every way including in bed yet only the "thrill" was enough for her to cheat and keep cheating. Women like this are beyond help. No one man will ever be enough

[@pecychoforever2606]

Is it really hard to believe a man refusing to touch street trash i don't 😅

[@landonmealer6414]

Never fails, not even once have I heard a woman not call their cheating a mistake. It's not a mistake, it was a choice.

[@sekarmaltum1695]

that woman is glad to still be alive. i would have changed that if i were in his position.

[@mermaidmaterial5735]

dude you can't just kill people

[@kianna2530]

I love how the mum dealt with both of them😂😂😂

[@greekstyle5788]

The amount of coping in this story is unbelievable

[@Noname-gm5om]

Your commentary is good because it helps reduce the amount of disgust I feel when she talks before I quit the video

[@sgd5547]

The open marriage clause wasn't a no risk play, it was a "i hope he does cheat so i can accuse him of being just as bad as me" ploy

[@Ai-Sure]

I hate it when cheaters say that they love the person they cheated on when if they actually loved their partners they wouldn’t cheat… being a married woman I could never cheat on my husband he is my world and if anyone wants me too bad for them I’m married and I’m not gonna bend over for anyone except my husband cuz he’s my husband my lover my best friend and my soulmate!

[@adnanorochi3761]

I can't understand how they can give it to someone willingly for free just bcuz, but when hubby asks for divorce then does it with her she starts saying why divorcing me.. like you make your husband look like a simp, beta male who works his butt in order to get intercourse with you while Mr alpha didn't have to do shit not even please you in bed 😂

[@manthehlalele7499]

Omw, narrator really didn't need to add his 2cents after every sentence. Couldn't even finish watching due to that. I'll just go read this on the site. 😮

[@robert-zg8or]

This bonus hole is why i rent and will never buy the cow.

[@Anchanix_RioClic666]

From the first minute I knew this was a victim blame story, 99% of the video was her convincing me she wasn't in the wrong and I love the narrator kicking ass at this woman

[@rcreynolds6186]

She loves him as a friend, not as a lover.

[@rachaelmurphy1633]

Btw in the bible If you cheat it means your going to hell sooo....:)

[@tossancuyota7848]

I'm amazed by how long this person can write about lies ❤

[@melmenus8979]

If my SO cheated and went to live in apartment on her own even for short period of time, I wouldn't believe she's not sleeping around there

[@tusharkumar8750]

I am so sorry for the dude but also Proud of him that he thinks about his kids, He really takes a calculative decision and didn't get blank during that situation. I think either he really wants to give her a second chance or waiting for his kids to be adult when he will separate from her. However so much Power to you bro.

[@rehanjunaid1581]

Bruh stop yapping you made a mistake and can't handle the consequences???

[@AJLTgamesAndre4401]

FR!

[@humanXperiencesRetold]

Somebody said, before a cheater tells you it was a mistake, remember when they were smashing at some point "IT" slipped out and they put it back in. 😭😭😭😭 Sooooooo...

[@AJLTgamesAndre4401]

😦

[@melisspooky]

She only added the bit about him seeing other women because she feels bad and feels that if he sleeps with another woman, then they'd be "even." He's only agreed to the post nuptial agreement because of their kids and only their kids, so they aren't affected by a divorce. This woman got what she deserved and she's lucky that her husband agreed to the stay married only in name. She only wants the stability at this point. If sex was such an issue, even though her husband is a better lover, then maybe she should have communicated to him on her desires/fantasies and maybe even spiced things up in the bedroom. Poor man deserves better and I hope he realizes his self worth and just proceeds with a divorce.

[@luiscordovadsgn]

This style of stories + commentary is interesting. I hate it lol

[@spadw3394]

spot on with the red flags, a woman who is attracted to you will have an intimate relationship with you on the first or second date, more men should know this and not be afraid of being rejected, this would save many marriages, in these times you "win her heart" is bs

[@colinrose9436]

He’s smart, riding out the 30 months and then he kicks her to the curb. Well played.

[@Anna-vd7hu]

"If you had to work hard to get her, you probably weren't her first choice." Bro. I am sorry for your trauma, but that is not true of self-respecting people. A "high-value woman" will not be with a man just because he "gets her juices flowing." She will still make him prove himself. If you approach dating with this mindset, you are selecting for easy lays--nothing more, nothing less.

[@MI982]

No, a "high-value woman" will be with the one she perceives as a "high-value man" but will still fuck the guy who "gets her juices flowing". In today's reality, women are settling for less en masse all the while fantasizing about better shots at life and when complacency reaches a certain level, the urge to make fantasy a reality become unbearable resulting with uncountable stories like this one.

[@joschmo4497]

Nope, no thanks. Been there, done that. If you have to "prove yourself" she's not attracted to you, plain and simple. She has to contain herself not to fk another man, but I have to convince her. Give me a break, if you think that sounds like a good argument, you have no business dating. High value woman? No such thing. Best mindset to approach dating is to pump and dump because none of y'all are worth more than that. Every cheating story begins with a wonderful husband. He did prove himself, did he not? Look what good it did him.

[@nicknitro86]

"Then I met my husband and it was just satisfactory."

[@sandukan1001]

Jim was actually pretty smart to accept that agreement, he got to keep most of whatever he has earned and he got to see her suffer by not receiving any love for 30 months straight from the man she claims to love. I would just be biding my time and the day the agreement was fulfilled I would file the divorce anyway, if she loved him she wouldn't have cheated.

[@Rafael.Oliveira29]

Jim's masterclass

[@Olimar92]

The offer of an Open Marriage is a slap in the face. "He'd never do it" that doesn't matter, it reads like 'Now you can do it and we can be even'. Jim only took that agreement so he could come out on top. Probably thinking of how to get rid of her and keep the outcome.

[@ThatOneFriend5811]

I think it's ok that you have your own opinions on these (because damn, these are hilarious) but maybe make it a different color from the main story

[@obbyrtrice4654]

As a child of a mother who had an affair, both these people are horrific. I'm 32 working through 17 years of gaslight and deflecting from a toxic drunks. Think of the kids man damn!!!

[@DoctorDoom_editz]

Wdym "both" of these people

[@analyticgeometry9014]

I'm only half way through the video while writing this comment. I have to say, I initially didn't like the narrator commentary, but now it's grown on me and I find myself agreeing, even made a few "you tell 'em!" remarks out loud haha.

[@rieanne09]

Honestly, cheating is one of the absolute worst thing a partner can do to their SO. I listened to the whole video from start to end, and the reason for cheating was so F up. I do acknowledge that the wife knows she bombed up big time and accepted what happened. Unfortunately, it was only due to being found out and not because of wanting to come clean. What was said at the end was true, though. For anyone having thoughts of cheating with their loyal SOs, don't. I couldn't really understand why there are people out there who do this and expect their better halves to accept them back like nothing happened. Especially when there are also a lot of other people, wanting those kind of loyal partners to walk into their lives but never do meet anyone who can accept, cherish, and love them unconditionally like the cheaters. How sad 😢

[@bryanthewendigo1877]

All this story did was make me think I was not the first choice. And the more I listened, the more it hurts. I don’t think I am anymore. I think I was the safer option at the time 😢

[@MineQley]

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[@adnanorochi3761]

Divorce, go find your one.. good luck 🤞

[@gigidotto9014]

Cheating isn't a mistake.

[@Tinywarriorhippo]

mother in law: violence isn't the answer, its the question, the answer is yes

[@grayblack7506]

She took the advice to move out but not the advice to not take all of his assets. Yep. Proves that she only "loves" him for what he can provide for her.

[@Odd_Interaction]

when OP first proposed the post-nuptial agreement I immediately thought ride out the 30 months and have the divorce paperwork delivered the day the post-nuptial agreement takes effect. A huge win for Jim, ride it out and walk away Scott free not owing her a single thing.

[@PsychologyFacts-jx2uk]

It sounds like you're going through an incredibly difficult time and it's understandable to feel lost and regretful. It's important to focus on healing and communication. Seeking professional help might help both you and Jim navigate these complex emotions and decide the best path forward for your family.

[@marty.m2933]

So...their relationship was just physical...but they only had something physical four times. Yep. You were right lady, I don't trust you.

[@cocoino2307]

After claiming her husband was better in bed...

[@gavinrose6677]

Love how she says biggest mistake of my life then 20 seconds later explaining how she was doing it for 2 years

[@joshuahouck6258]

I am glad that it ended on a happy note and they worked it out and were looking to possibly start again.

[@twosantigamer4233]

with thet voice blud should give sigma advice, i am dead ass 💀💀