Fully take your manifestation off the pedestal and it arrives FAST

[@pelegshalev7359]

I just realized that manifestation is actually about battling your inner demons and taking control over your mind

[@tessgroenewegen1343]

Nailed it!! 👊💪

[@antiprismatic]

Easier said than done!!! Hahahah or maybe dont say it all, there are no demons, there are no devils to fight against. You are not distressing (others and yourself), you are not harming (others or yourself), you are not idling, you are not losing (others or yourself). You are relaxing to others, you are welcoming, you are freeing, you are fulfilling.

[@jennn2977]

This is the one!!!

[@gregschlatter6766]

This is what Jesus meant when he said "You shall know the Truth, and the Truth will set you free." Free from what? Dependence. Dependence on anyTHING. You ARE freedom, you ARE liberty, you ARE independence. "The Kingdom of Heaven is WITHIN YOU!"

[@jamilagrimes]

Amen

[@dr.m6152]

I feel like for me the fear of not getting my sp also had the elememt of fear of failure in general. Like I was afraid of not getting what I want in life in general, and it extended to my sp. Maybe this could be the case for some of your clients too

[@bizoubizou5069]

100%!

[@dawnbullock]

This!

[@danhann6598]

💥 agreed!! That stuff is shifting as I work through her courses.

[@dr.m6152]

@@danhann6598 that's great! I'm sure her courses are wonderful ☺️

[@redviolet8511]

Also the fear (more subtle) of get really what you want. Fear of your power.

[@aliicendll]

I really can’t believe that you don’t even have 3k subs because you are the best coach I’ve found in 4 years. As someone with bpd you truly make me feel like I’m capable because your words are so understanding and resonating so well with someone who has bpd

[@f1sh_st1cks]

Same here! When you have BPD/abandonment issues in general the obsession is usually on a whole other level. I realize that I was creepily obsessed over my SP but I'm slowly getting rid of it and being at peace knowing he's with me already and I have nothing to obsess over.

[@mysticdesire]

that part. i have bpd and i have this habit of placing people im attached to on an unbelievably high pedestal as if theyre not human. i create a version of them in my head that is superior to me and i quite literally begin to obsess when really theyre just regular ass people.

[@aliicendll]

@@mysticdesire Samee been doing it with my person for over 4 years and I know our relationship would be so awesome if I could turn it off. Sometimes I can and then I understand him better and don’t get angry at many things but it doesn’t go away fully. Thankfully Im on a waitlist for a 8 week bpd theraphy. It will be stationary in a clinic and it’s called dbt therapy. I heard it will help so much, some even hate their person after or look for something else. I don’t think that will happen to me but I hope I learn how to have healthy relationships

[@mysticdesire]

@@aliicendll i need to try that. i was in limerence over this guy, whenever i felt any form of rejection even if it was subtle i would spiral into a panic attack and my stomach would turn, i would feel physical effects just from thinking about him leaving me. once i recognized that it was limerence and not love i honestly began to feel disgusted by him and the way he treated me. i began detach from him and his bs, and i worked on my self concept, which made me realize i deserved better and that i didn't even like him as a person in retrospect. he took advantage of my lenience and people pleasing tendencies to get what he wanted, he saw me as an option. loa certainly helps so much, i've manifested him back on numerous occasions but that same limerence would keep me from finding that peace. i've given my power away to others and wasted so much time dwelling on the how and why instead of working on myself. having bpd is actually such a nightmare, i understand u all too well.

[@Axito2]

40.000 ❤

[@ChristopherJohnson-o6h]

What u fear u will manifest. Remove fear

[@awesomearab13]

“They poop and fart” 😂 you are funny lol.

[@Apsaraaaaaa]

I rewatch your videos to revise. You give very clear knowledge on every topic❤

[@ada_dragon]

Your channel is a gift

[@jrenae5827]

The limerence portion is so real. I’ve actually been shifting out of it successfully. I love your videos definitely glad I found your channel because this was the missing piece for me.

[@jadeomalia3647]

This is so spot on like you broke it down in such a way that it clicks brilliantly

[@zedranicolic5822]

Thank you, I just needed to hear this. It helped me enormously. I have to say sometimes out of nowhere I feel it again and then I listen to you and I think again oh yes it's about me and my feelings. But thank you very much.. it may sound crazy but it really helped that you said it is just one person, someone you really like, but it still helped me

[@summerf3303]

This is a really great video. Thank you for the somewhat tough love. It’s hard sometimes when you’re heartbroken to see how you have made ur sp into a larger than life character.

[@mkpmn]

I just realised my fear of abandonment caused me to ignore my boundaries in order to keep my SP. Since I pushed my realization of my worthiness deservingness and beauty away in order to please and keep I noticed how my energy shifted the moment he said he did not want to continue our relationship. It shifted positively! I do not resent him, I do not blame him ór myself. I just know what it is I deserve, and I know he will be coming back but I will not take him back so easily if at all. And if he is serieous, he will treat me the way I decide I want and deserve to be. I can not wait to get another shot at loving someone!

[@tanania]

I KNOW that this is kinda toxic but learning the negative things that my sp said about got me mad. I used that anger to finally knock him off the pedalstal. It did make me start thinking a little bit more negative but it was a learning experience cause i then turned round and reminded my self the 3d doesnt matter and this is a purging of my old version of sp. It further made me revise him cause i can tell from this action that im still thinking about him as thinking megative things of me. Im also aware i do often develop limerace so im actively putting together a realistic image of this person, and while im still working on cleaning up his version, the knocking off his pedalstal got me movement in the 3d!! It made me want to avoid him and doing this made him move towards me. I am not kidding something i scritpted about he did! I was in shock! He had made a nasty comment a while back that hurt me bad and i wrote he apologized for it. AND THEY DID. Twice. It was honestly one of the most amazing things thats ever happened to show me that it really does happen! But the trick really is to let them go. I know while i do love him im also gonna be ok without him. I know for me it was me having to see his nasty side to break limerace. Hes not perfect and hes flawed as hell and im deserving of his best self only. PUT YOU FIRST

[@RenaissanceRockerBoy]

any updates? :D

[@tanania]

@RenaissanceRockerBoy yes, im like 80% to where it want to be with sp. Self concept is truly the key. I feel like my mind is so stubborn it's whats hard for me. Since some days the mental diet is better than others I think that's my last hurtle. The wavering is i think where I need to focus now. I've seen a ton of movement when u focus on being the price and sticking to it as best you can. For example right now im in talks with him about what we're gonna do about our undeniable pull and longing to each other. So almost there.

[@DawnLenn]

I feel like this fear has only gotten worse now that I'm in my 40s, like I'm feeling the pressure of time more than I did when I was younger, and that's especially true when it comes to sp.

[@sweeteuthiedoll]

Same. 🥺

[@jadeomalia3647]

Yuppp

[@dan11thehands]

Same my sp and i wanted a child but she walked away...been manifesting her back for 10 months...

[@elenaheath8504]

Same

[@lena-Ramone]

Money comes in super easy for me.. how i seem to do this is not being arsed about it just being super chilled. 25 grand came in a few weeks ago. I also put myself on the pedestal everything is cool. Maybe 'everything is cool' ✌️and 'be chilled'✌️ is the key 😊. Btw im in my 40s too. I feel sp trying to come onto the pedestal but i am mindful of that shit super quick i even looked at him yesterday and thought he looks like a mouse 😂 and he is lucky to have me im amazing. I think we need to release fear and just chill out .we have secure attachment style now. Look at other areas where you do well at manifesting and try to apply that to areas where you are struggling ❤

[@kyerashandel4934]

I was working on my self concept and in a good place.. out of the blue my SP messages me to say he thinks it's over with the 3rd party. I was buzzing.. so happy.. I left it a couple of days and then asked how he was.. he told me things were now sorted and he shouldn't have messged me. This event has really challenged me and my security.. it's set me back a little. I keep saying it's just the other woman thing breaking down. It's a 'sign' that things are shifting for my manifestation to happen.

[@guardianangel222-v2t]

Dont message him and focus on your self concept, it’s proof that she’s not even in the picture. Remember you are the centre!

[@kyerashandel4934]

@@guardianangel222-v2t thank you 🙏

[@tanania]

One of the things that helped me alot with sticking with my persistence is remembering the lag in 3d! A lot of coaches and even the big spiritual gurus mention a lag in 3D. To me, him reaching out to you is a big sign that you're on their mind. They sometimes talk about purges along with the lag! Its the old messy version of ur 3d working it's way out. I don't like using the word test but I've sometimes framed those kinds of situations as tests to see how I will react. If I react im still not 100% detached and I go back and reaffirm or see what I need to work on. I know its easier said than done but it's all about perspective in the end so hopefully this helps reinforce your will!

[@kyerashandel4934]

@@tanania that makes so much sense to me.. I clearly wasn't in the place of 'self' I thought I was, to be derailed again. Thank you lovely

[@luisabattimelli2867]

Love this. You’re so logical. You’re a great coach.

[@tessgroenewegen1343]

I love you, Genevieve. You're truly bloody brilliant! 😃🙌

[@dr.m6152]

I was just typing your name to watch an old video of yours and this popped up! ❤️

[@emilias_daybook]

manifesting the Pope 😂👌made me laugh. i really liked this video, you always explain really well😊

[@CourBarone]

Sooooo real and so good

[@Tink-dn5jz]

This is everything I need to hear

[@johnokeeffe3096]

Thanks for this video, I learn so much and get so much peace from your content, I think I will just bin the rest and focus on your channel. It all seems doable while being grounded in common sense and what seems to reflect the exact challenges I am facing, and offering in great detail the advice I have been looking for.

[@FollowerofDuck]

this is so on point and a fantastic reminder that WE should be on the pedestal, not anyone or anything else 🙌🙌

[@buhletamar8709]

love this! she’s so clear❤

[@KaiSani]

This is so on point

[@psilocybinpixie]

hi genevieve, i hope you read this - can you make a video on manifesting an sp who is also someone you share a child with? i know no one is an exception, you can manifest anyone. i would just love to hear your input on that dynamic and how to ignore/not react to them or involving the child in any way. thank you!

[@emanuelmajstorovic9457]

I watched another video of your wisdom and once when i start writing for what and who she really is and how i felt down and not appreciated for the most of the time, things are shifting 😊

[@samsaflik]

This is really helpful to help us understand how manifestation is suppose to be done. Thank you Genevive.

[@jed88]

Glad to hear this now. A pat on my back for figuring it out. Sure do wish this video was around 3 years ago though.

[@bennyguerra6539]

Hello Genevieve Hello Genevieve, I want to thank you for these videos once again they definitely resonate and I am learning a lot. I definitely want to sit down and take some time and join when your workshops where I can explain my story which is kind of unique because I am living with my SP, and we are separated with a third-party so manifesting them is quite difficult, but I will have to say that I am learning that I am the no circumstance matters

[@akashlimbu1987]

Thank you, I am loved, cherished, respected I am complete, prospering and Worrthy. ❤ Ii am so grateful for this video and my love. Im secure and Safe.

[@jackiek4159]

These videos are so good! Thank you Genevieve! 🙏💕✨

[@awesomearab13]

This is a great video

[@thegeneralrock86547]

This is perfect 🥰

[@dainareillian3073]

you really make it so easy fo me to understand, thank you so much

[@createa.googleaccount713]

Very much appreciate you Thank you for addressing these subjects

[@aleona_wine]

Thank you ❤

[@SilaIndigo]

Very helpful! Made me see how I can have it both ways. my natural very devoted way of being in relationship sort of tends to put me into limerence. But being a "one person cat ;)" and very loving and devoted feels good and right for me. Now I see how to balance that seeming paradox! Thank you.

[@relaxingbeachvideos353]

thank you

[@NoName-zb1gm]

The person I was manifesting last year felt forced . It was anxious because I put her on a pedestal. I didn't really know her but I dreamed up what kind of person she was. The person I like now I know and I feel we connect so I feel like I can control her and lead her to me.

[@Teenie0103]

New subscriber! Great video ! I’m not in the right state and you helped me realize this

[@believebest5474]

You are simply wonderful.

[@h.t.8812]

I love the idea of "copy and paste"! I'll look for a way I can do that with money, maybe seeing something else I receive a lot of. And I'm that person that thinks "I'm not that obsessed about SP anymore" but I do still think they're cooler/more special than me or something, especially in social settings and professionally. And I haven't been remotely interested in anybody else for a while, so I gotta be honest there. But I think I don't love them anymore so I'd be manifesting from a place of manipulation, I thought about it these days and that's not good for anybody, so decided to just stop it, this isn't great but if the other option is to be manipulative then I can live with it. I guess I'll just keep working on myself and hopefully things will fade!

[@mariebrigid2305]

Can you be in the right state, but then slip into limerence? I feel like that's what's happened to me when anxiety started gripping me.

[@dorothykozlowski5124]

Love this. Think of after you have gotten the thing or person before. Was it/they as magical/lifegiving/etc as imagined? Perhaps but sometimes no. That may help normslize and take the desired object/person off the pedestal. Thank you for this!

[@angelarose249]

This is exactly what has happened to me. This went on for two years. The more I manifested the more limerence state I was in, thus ruining my potential relationship with him. I am now in no contact with him in the 3D. After he disrespected me and I told him to get over himself and a few other choice words.

[@OlaQola]

what is the situation now between you guys?

[@NoName-zb1gm]

It's tricky because I'm trying to detach from someone to give her space to develop feelings for me that I know are already there. Plus I'll add some manifesting to guide her towards me. But then things get weird because I used to give her a lot of attention. which made me look weak ad needy. But not giving her attention has created some tension between us.

[@dr.m6152]

'I'm not obsessed, I'm better than I was before' 🤣🤣

[@DawnLenn]

I laughed at that too. I'm totally guilty of that 😅.

[@dr.m6152]

@@DawnLenn I mean honestly it's nice to note your progress sometimes 😂 I was in limerence for a while, so I definitely AM better than I was 🤣 but this was hilarious

[@user-hs7pf6by6v]

Very good ❤

[@angela1981]

Advice for those who the loneliness keeps them in limerance

[@krisiam]

Thank youu ❤❤

[@Lilly-iv4rk]

8:23 ❤

[@HangryPossums]

So do we still name them in our affirmations or affirm them more casually idk??

[@mariebrigid2305]

Have you ever experienced a strong night, where you knew you passed the purge "test" and felt 100% confident in the manifest, but then over night, thoughts hit you out of nowhere - and bring anxiety and bring you imaginations of what my SP and the person their with is doing and what might happen between them in the future? It caused me anxiety the whole rest of the waking day. wth??? Is this like, the old story, really seeking vengeance for "winning" a small victory?

[@SEVENTHREEANDNINE]

The mind (reptile brain) always seeks problems and nervous system might be going to baseline. Maybe adding a body component. Somatic release to purge it from body.. emdr or tapping or somatic meditations. I keep a few meditations to choose from in a day or so them as it feels better than the spiral..☺️❤

[@swasciara900]

Can you manifest two things at the same time???

[@elevatedperceptionspodcast]

Oh Genevieve it makes me laugh out loud every time you talk about manifesting the Pope ❤❤😂😂✝️

[@MillieVelazquez-u1k]

What if it’s not a person I want to manifest but a business/career that gives me the freedom to work from anywhere. It’s hard to not focus on the 3D when I’m sitting in an office from 9-5.

[@JuhlK-x8p]

I’m noticing that it’s not really my feelings about sp… it’s my feelings about when my brother was born I needed my mother‘s comfort because I just been bitten by a dog and didn’t get it. and so every time im in relationship I always have this thought that there’s someone else when there isn’t. crazy making and it’s so old/ from age 2 - I don’t know how to change it or think about it differently because the fear just pops up randomly… thoughts?

[@Staytruelee]

19:27 stop 📝 😅

[@CarlaShirley-g8i]

There is a person that I never met I saw him on my cell phone back in October 2023 and I fell madly in love with him his name is Bidoh Elysion. Bidoh is Japanese he has been in Japanese vk bands and I've been listening to his music he is a incredible singer and musician. I would love to meet him and become a couple and get married and have a family someday. My question is how do can I manifest him when I have not met him yet?.

[@isa-tha]

i have been watching your videos and listening to few neville lectures and i understand the concepts but for some reason im clueless on what do for this situation facing rn. first of all, im south asian so my family is traditional and even dislike liberal values but im opposite of them. my parents are completely convinced about an arranged marriage for me like they even have a person set on their mind that they are absolutely sure is perfect match for me whereas i hate that guy and i dont even want a marriage rn but they think it's their most important responsibility and everytime i try to talk to them it just ends up in fight. i honestly dont know what to do and i have to hear almost everyday about this topic which puts me in anxiety since i live with my parents. any advice about what to do would be nice cos im just tired atp

[@alexandracondruc221]

Hey can you please explain this?I saw some videos in which the coach was saying that we should not take no for an answer,that we need to be completely sure and to really know that this person is ours,it doesnt matter how or when will happen in 3D,we already know it's ours so the word "no" doesn't exist.But then that would mean that we put them on a pedestal?And that we are too afraid to take no for an answer? What should we do?Be super secure and not taking no for an answer when it comes to our desire,or should we be like well, whatever the ouctome is I am fine.Because it's a paradox, how can we live in the wish fulfilled,but also saying that even things don't unfold like we would want to we'd be okay with that?

[@aanchalchadha1712]

What if you are putting the idea of manifesting on a pedestal

[@yeetfios]

everything exists within you. to me manifestation is like calling or connecting to a certain frequency for a certain reason.

[@jimleffler7976]

Farts and lumescence and the Pope and crush but don't crush all in the same post, Daaang 😅

[@sonyavincent7450]

Its so funny that you gave the example of manifesting the pope! On the only other manifestation coach i follow, someone said in the comments, that they sometimes felt overwhelmed and hopeless because their sp was a catholic priest! Now I know technically anything is possible, but ouch!!!

[@dr.m6152]

🤣🤣

[@jimleffler7976]

I'm always curious though,with this kind of thinking,if people in church praying for a young girl I knew that had cancer and they got nowhere. There were prayers for my mother,died also. I think episodes like That not only hurt people believing in GOD and believing in They are causing it All. I would not have wished Either of them to die,thus I get the doubters of "You bring it on yourself"..I don't know that a young girl desired cancer

[@jamesalgeo8592]

I learned a new word today. 😂

[@purplebutterfly415]

Hi Genieve can ypur anxious attachment course help with putting your manifestation on a pedestal?

[@ManifestwithGenevieve]

Absolutely! It very much addresses this issue and you’ll feel much more powerful after doing the lessons and exercises 🙏

[@purplebutterfly415]

​@@ManifestwithGenevieve that's so awesome I def have my eye on that course it sounds awesome. I actually have disorganised attachment but know thats its a combo of the both. So I work on both the avoidant parts of me and the anxious part so so powerful 😊. Its hard with disorganised because I find a part of you wants it then another part doesn't grrrrr. Does the course also help to heal anxious attachment in general or more directed at anxiois attachment towards your manifestation

[@swasciara900]

Can you plsss make a vid on 3d parties???🥹🥹🥹

[@rohanraj6886]

Don't give awareness to them and they will be gone

[@barryparsons7874]

Sorry I am missing something here... How will you be chased 🤷

[@darekxxx5008]

♥

[@chrishouston5401]

Seems like you are getting close to the fallacy of misplaced concreteness. We are not in control. You don't control all of the variables. I'm pretty sure we have very, very little free will.

[@chaoscabinet]

💝💝💝💝💝

[@andreaheiman5427]

What if you was mean after 26 yrs. Said something mean.Thats it. We don't function like that.

[@Teenie0103]

A million third parties lol