Fumbling On ¦ Large Family Vlog

[@corrinak9744]

Thank you, Thomas, Asher and Judah for being kind and gentle with the girls. You are teaching them how they deserve to be treated.

[@amyholmes7941]

Absolutely

[@evem4876]

Luv that about the boy's 🌺

[@reids97]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@reneeallen3906]

They really are an amazing group of guys, showing love and compassion for their siblings ❤️

[@livilou6165]

Aren’t they the sweetest!😊

[@DearPanda0813]

I love that you are still continuing the KZbin channel. I love the family so much and glad I can continue to watch the kids grow. You’re doing great Tom!

[@grandmasewhappyhomestead187]

Totally agree

[@RazzberryRachel]

“Don’t squish. Squish less.” LOL The beginning of this video is how I envision every family trying to take a family photo! I know mine is like that 😂😂

[@annacastillo8099]

Squish less made me laugh 😂

[@sascesis1]

Hahah same with ours!

[@am.aj.6234]

R.L. Amor so funny lol

[@mcg267]

R.L. Amor I cracked up at that

[@simplesgood7694]

That is so true! Our family takes so long to take family photos it’s ridiculous sometimes. 🤪

[@AwesomeSauce2001]

Oh my heart swelled! You can hear Andrea in how Asher was talking to Hannah. Your boys are going to grow up into true men! Your daughters are going to know what a real man looks like too! Great job with your family!

[@girias2346]

Oh my!!! That's true... 😢

[@sheilas1283]

Heather Dragulescu Asher will make a wonderful dad one day!

[@momentswithmorgan6091]

Asher just makes me cry . Taking care of his baby sister who adores him , mowing the grass and working on projects while she naps , feeding her and the family while you work .. learning to sew . You and Andrea did an amazing job raising an amazing young man ..

[@rachelday9585]

That was Judah sewing his armor. Asher has always been that way, he was the same way with Claudia when she was the baby.

[@TheMakeupWakeup]

Andrea would be so proud of you all. You are always in my prayers. Thomas, Asher, and Judah always do so well with the little ones. ❤

[@tinyspace9510]

You guys make me smile! I was thinking Andrea is cracking up at you organizing that picture. She is so close to you.

[@nikolebashaw4165]

"Stand up like a real person"...lol. Sounds like something I would say.

[@am.aj.6234]

Nikole Bashaw I busted lol

[@platinumbleu]

My mom used to say ‘act like somebody’ and we’d say who should I act like today’?

[@carolinarodriguez5752]

The way everyone helps with Hannah! And Oh my goodness those last wrote words that you write to Andrea at the end😥 they bring me to tears. I found your channel 1 day before she went on to be with the Lord but I watch the other videos constantly and she was such a caring and loving mom and wife. I am praying for your family❤

[@michaeldonnasefcik1832]

Hannah's 3 pig tails were adorable!!! Solly's excitement playing UNO is precious. Tom, you're a great Dad. Andrea would be so pleased. I can just hear her saying "awe, sweet girl" to Claudia when she was in tears over losing the game. I'm keeping your family in prayer, thank you for allowing us to continue to watch the kids grow up. We love your family. 💕

[@TheMillsFamilyVlog]

Made me cry...you’re right!

[@2003_Katie]

I know it won’t ever be the same, but I’m sure there are many of us that would love to sew the girl’s new matching clothes. Love the new video! You did so well getting everyone together for a picture!

[@shelleys226]

I’m shopping today for brown fabric to make The brown dresses. Maybe we can set up a list so people can add what they are working on so they don’t get duplicates? I know the boys need new jeans....for those that don’t sew!

[@jurystillout]

Our Little Patch Sizes would be great! I think there is a video of those dresses.. also I know for sure the layered skirt is. 😊

[@jimmyjohnstone7258]

Brown dresses ? Dull. Why that colour?

[@WyattRyeSway]

Judah has a cool haircut! Excellent picture!

[@joysheets2412]

I agree, I love Judah's hair. He is becoming a very handsome young man.

[@beverlysmith2502]

The way you are carrying on traditions and keeping things stable for the children is such a testimony. It is clear you and Andrea are still raising these children together - you had a oneness of purpose while she was living, and you are carrying that on now. Your precious children will have a solid foundation. Wonderful job, sweet mama, we all miss you and you could not have left your loved ones in better hands.

[@GD.1031]

Tom, I'm sure that there are times that you are so overwhelmed, and sad, and burnt out, but you are doing an AMAZING job. Being a widower is something that no one should have to go through, and I cannot fathom how hard it is. You are so strong. I just started watching recently, and coincidentally, my boyfriend and I always shop at Walmart and go about 15 minuted up north via the highway each weekend. I play Andrea's role, checking off the lists and laughing at him goofing off, and my boyfriend does the stacking and cracks me up the entire time. After starting to follow you, I treasure our silly shopping trips even more. (They're my fave vids ☺) The first time we went to Walmart after I started bingeing your videos, I got so teary eyed. We used to rush through because I got over stimulated in crowds, but now we take our time. He's an IT/Systems Support guy kinda like you, Tom, so naturally we spend a good deal of time in electronics lol. Thank you, Mills Family, for teaching us to slow down, laugh more, and just enjoy each other's company ❤

[@meow2871]

Love the morning prayer!!! Bless the Mills Family ❤️

[@tinat702]

You all are so amazing!! You all keep allowing these amazing glimpses into your life and it's just so precious...and exactly how Andrea would do it. This is grief....this is continuing on...this is living. Love you Mills Family!!!!!

[@rebacrow8698]

Oh what an awesome family. I love y’all so much and I miss Andrea

[@kaylaprice7155]

So beautiful seeing you pray for your family, Tom. You are joined by many, MANY others in this!!

[@nikkinick6676]

Yes many people...we love the mills family

[@denisegossage4059]

Thank You, LORD... praise really makes life better.

[@debrapenney4281]

Kayla Price- I agree we are praying along side of Tommy. I so loved the ending even thought it made me tear up. But then I think of your photo attempts in the beginning of this video and it sure did make me laugh- the struggle was real! Thanks for sharing this new family photo.

[@tracymarie5]

God bless you Asher for taking such GREAT CARE of little Hannah..your mom must be so proud

[@kristiina8231]

every person on this planet is proud asher i believe

[@skysnene]

Tom I commend you for how you've stepped up to keep the family going & honoring Andrea's life. All men don't I can tell you. A long time ago my mother passed away very quickly with melanoma cancer leaving my dad with just three kids but he walked away. Just left us & headed out to Lord know where. I was the youngest at 13 my brother was 15 & my sister just graduated from high school & 18. My sister got a job & did her best to keep us together & afloat. Finally after a year of hiding the fact our dad had left us my grandparents, my mother's parents, found out somehow & came to Texas from Alabama & made me come back with them. My brother had left on his own hitchhiking to California at age 16, joined the navy but they found out his age & kicked him out. My sister was old enough she didn't have to leave. I did not want to leave the only home & our wonderful church family but I wasn't given the choice. I didn't understand my daddy who I thought loved us so much just leaving. He was in church all the time but my mama was the spiritual leader of our home because we realized later our dad was only in church because of our mama. Just like Andrea my mother instilled Christian values in us that have kept us our whole lives. I still miss my mama every day as your children do & will but I know God doesn't make mistakes. I never knew where my dad went or why. I did reconnect with him years later but he never answered my questions why he just got in his car & left 3 kids to make it somehow. He was a selfish man his whole life. I did finally forgive him but not once did he acknowledge what he did or why but I knew I had to forgive him even if he never acknowledged he did wrong. I spent all my adult life trying to make my dad love me, he never said he loved me until the day he died at age 73 with cancer also. Your children will never have to deal with losing their mother & their father because you felt you couldn't handle raising them when their mama died. I know it's hard but there are many many of us praying for your family. Sadly I didn't know about y'all until Andrea passed away & somebody talked about her on their channel so I've binge watched your videos & wish I had known Andrea before she passed away. She reminds me of my own sweet mother with her love & devotion to her children. She sewed all our clothes too, grew our food, canned it & never owned a washing machine until a year before she died. An old wringer washer hand operated. Our first TV a year before she died. We were poor but so happy. Keep up the good work guys! Love from a former Texas lady transplanted to Alabama long ago.

[@cherylknight8239]

It's amazing how strong the human spirit can be. I hope you are doing well now.

[@pasierose6294]

Husky Mom - much love to u ❤️Beautifully said 🙏🏼

[@largeautomobile]

I hate your dad, he sounds like mine. I don't care if I never reconnect with my dad.

[@amandaathome9757]

I’ve been watching all the old vlogs back to back. Andrea has raised with you beautiful children & has left a legacy in more ways than one 🥰🥰🥰

[@annetterose8948]

Nothing can bring back or replace Andrea but what a blessing this youtube community has been! The kindness of others shining through!

[@emmalove3587]

I don't think Andrea would have ever dreamed that this channel would have given so much support and love to her family when she passed away this is amazing it really is the love that everybody is given to this family I'm lost for words keep up the good work everybody Tom deserves all the help in the world he's a great father and should not have to struggle

[@nvc9060]

Your family is so loved by Andrea's You Tube family and those who found her channel through other You Tubers who were sharing your grief with their viewers. Andrea showed how to love others with how she treated you Tom, how she put so much thought into Christmas presents for the children, how she went to visit Grandma Fern so often, and how she taught the children to help their family members. Andrea's love is continuing to shine from her endless examples right back through you, her children, and her viewer's outpouring of love back to you.

[@debmac2]

LOL Hannah's hair, bless your heart Tom !

[@kristinasearer7443]

I laughed but it was cute as could be. A for effort, I just watched a video of Claudia with her hair like this and she wasn't happy about it. But it won't last long girls hair never does.

[@jackie64b]

She was so cute lol x

[@karaa7595]

I love that Andrea is still in the opening. Miss her. 💜🌹

[@carolcurley7840]

Beautiful prayer before leaving for work Tom.

[@JustAnotherQuantumWaveFunction]

Hannah's triple ponytails are adorable. Much love and light!

[@KrisFasseBooksandButterflies]

Love this daily prayer. It truly teaches your children so much

[@cindyhorst8316]

It's a testament to how special your Mom was that so many people want to help care for you kids. Goodness breeds goodness

[@rebornsnuzzles2573]

Dangit. I didn't know I could go from laughing to crying so quick. The prayer got me.

[@mommy2kdk]

Same here. I laughing to tears.

[@VEEKAKIDSLIFE]

Reborn Snuzzles meeee too I was laughing and all excited until that picture snapped

[@cherylkelly1221]

Hannah is really moving on now. I can’t believe how much she’s progressing in such a short time. We love all of you so much! Hope you are doing well so far.

[@denisegossage4694]

Loved, loved, loved beginning. Pic positioning “squish less,” and prayer, Dear God, thank You for all my children... why u make me cry?

[@MsAmi2222]

Hysterical! That's awesome trying to get the family to cooperate. That's what our family photos look like. We either have one crying or one with food in their mouth 😂

[@WandaKay4u2c]

I KNOW!!! Soooooo funny! I just laughed so hard! Too precious!

[@teenabump5433]

Tom your children are beautiful, i enjoyed watching all of you playing a game together and watching all of you open gifts that were sent to all of you.Chores on Saturday is nice to see to.What a beautiful family you all are.I will keep all of you in my prayers, GOD bless all of you.

[@bethenyauker4727]

Shew the opening had me stressed! Lol. You totally rocked it dad!!!!

[@WandaKay4u2c]

Thank you for showing the silly, the fun, the mundane and the new normal as you find your way through this season. Flip flops, cowboy boots, crazy hair and all. You are helping so many others who've experienced loss! There is no right or wrong way to keep living.... we just do! And I can't help but think that's exactly what any parent wants is for their kids to learn... that there IS life & love & joy -- even after tragedy & loss.

[@peachy4173]

Your videos make me laugh and cry all at the same time. Thank u for sharing your family with us.

[@VEEKAKIDSLIFE]

Why did I cry when he was finished with taking the picture Tom is doing his best and that’s what’s so amazing and if people would stop being so fast to hit the thumbs and just support him it would be so much better 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@Blessedbears]

Good job family! Dad, you are doing great! Even when you fail, you’re still an overcomer and when you say you’re not strong -- he inside of you is! Oldest boys, wow, I have five boys and the oldest one is a lot like you! You are the type of young men this world needs. God bless you. No words to help you on the grief. We’re all behind you! I purposely watch entire ads to help any way I can!

[@diannedare8798]

What an awesome job , Tom that you and Andrea have done with the children. Just from seeing them in a store or being together at home they are such good well mannered children! Makes my heart so happy that so many are sending gifts and blessings to you all! Love that the boys received something to cherish their moms picture in! I have no doubt that with the great help of the older boys and sweet Eden that the younger ones will always be well taken care of! It definitely takes team work! Continued prayers to you and family! ❤️ God Bless

[@DraKBC]

We miss Andrea! But, I know God is good and as a KZbin family we will be there, year after year supporting the Mills family.

[@christinanny]

Tom, you and the children are doing a wonderful job. Thank you for allowing us to continue to be apart of your family.

[@kjlouisi4630]

I just love watching the children, they are all so wonderfully beautiful. Hannah is such a treat, they all are. Thank you for continuing the channel.

[@michelel965]

Once again you’ve knocked it out of the park!! It’s the simple routines of life which make it most memorable!! Thank you Mills Family for showing us how we ought to be!!

[@francinelaurin520]

Look at all the cool games ..so well thought of, beloved gift givers ..fun for viewers as well, I just LOVE the 💕Mills Family💕 game night ..the books, arts kit ..The Mama Andrea garden stones.. perhaps paint each their names on them 🆒..maybe thank you cards would be appreciated for each child to thank a family..you are doing fine Dad ..Angela is much entertained up above and watches over all of you ☀🌠🌌She is the brightest Star up there..you are a totally devoted Dad Tom 👍..all my love, to each of you, from ...moi, canada 🇨🇦

[@laurengracepop]

Lovely video! You are to be commended Tom. Your children are a joy. Thank you for sharing your family with us. You all are a blessing!

[@roseroomnz685]

I have never cried so much for a total stranger or people I don’t really know. I was doing fine until Tom’s message to Andrea at the end. I can see that every day life can continue relatively seamlessly because she was so organised, but oh, the hole that must be there... Please believe the hurt and heartache becomes liveable. You are all remarkable people xoxo

[@Alicia-kf9lq]

Hannah's hair is so Cute!!! Lovely video of you all. God bless you all, and keep you safe.

[@jcbmama5016]

You’re doing a great job on the editing! Everybody has really pulled together to make things go smoothly. Despite the fact that your hearts are aching. Andrea has definitely left a beautiful legacy❣️

[@pandabear7073]

i just thought i would make a suggestion any of the out fits that your wife had made for the childern mybe you might want to save some so they have some thing she made for them and mybe get a keep sack box so they can put thing they would like to save for mem

[@Nan-59]

Robin s ABSOLUTELY!!! ♥️❤️😘

[@malina1239]

Robin s they each have a suitcase in the attic for their special things to keep. I would be a good idea to save the things Andrea made for them there❤️

[@jessabbott7830]

That's a great idea. Like little hope chests for them with a few special things she has made for them, and maybe even a few of her things that perhaps Tom would be okay with gifting to the girls for them to treasure someday when they are older.

[@karenrogers2826]

Robin s , that is a great idea! They would love whatever their loving mother had made them, so please do keep some of those precious articles.

[@marycaldiran5659]

I love watching your beautiful family , miss Andrea so much, she is watching from her heavenly home , Luv to all!!

[@Justme12466]

What amazing older siblings the little ones have!

[@radiiokitty]

Tom you are the best daddy around. I only recently saw the news and caught up on all the videos... I just want to say I am so so so impressed with how you have handled Andrea's loss as a family. You are doing everything right for your family, and you know yourself how proud Andrea would be. I have cried many many tears for your family, please know how loved you are. Lots of love and prayers, all the way from Ireland.

[@shelbydowns-seckman1870]

Tom you are such an amazing father. God knew you could handle these challenging times. "Stand up like a real person" made me smile through all the tears I shed watching g all of your videos. Bless you and your family. My heart goes out to you and your family.

[@lindarussell9379]

Awesome teaching and sharing. Love seeing teamwork!!❤️🙏🏻

[@samanthar9526]

Thank you for the sizes!!! You are all wonderful people that I admire!!! A strong, caring and loving family can get through anything together, one day at a time and with Gods love/Grace that is with each of you❤️

[@jennk7987]

Thanks Tom for all the videos and still allowing us to watch your wonderful family. I giggled at the stud finder! My husband does the same 😂 God bless you all. ❤️💕

[@angelamiller4164]

Tom you don't know how you are such a blessing to others. Your family has went through so much and you all are being an encouragement to others. I hope that somehow we all are being an encouragement to you all. What you all have went through just rips at my heart. You and the kids are stronger than what you feel you are. Please tell each of the boys how proud we are of them of how they are taking care of the younger kids. Still praying around the clock for you all!

[@sbayles]

I have to admit that I have only now started watching your channel. I can’t even imagine the grief you face every day. Being a Christian doesn’t lesson your pain or loss. Having said that, what an amazing family. At some point, I want to go back and get to know your wife. I’m not ready yet. Thank you for continuing her legacy.

[@mariachris2526]

Perfection personified! Well worth the fuss! What a great shot!

[@deborahcortinas6308]

So enjoyable thank you for sharing

[@fancybantams]

This family picture is perfect! The boys are all growing up too fast, its hard to recognize everyone! I've been watching the first video and can't believe how you're growing so fast! Some of our family pictures just can't be believed with 2 boys who always made faces. Oh well, its just funny pictures of the family comedians! Love you guys. Everyone fumbles along, even they don't admit it lol! I've fumbled along for soon 70 years on this journey! Keep it up, you're 100%.

[@mhfl7514]

Yours is the only channel that I happily watch the ads! Prayers and love to you all! ❤️

[@shellyl.9662]

You children are awesome at doing a good job. So all are so gentle like your mom. Thanks for helping your dad out.

[@lmkays]

You guys are amazing ♥️. Asher the love and care you show to Hannah is absolutely phenomenal. She adores you 🥰

[@julietannOsfan1972]

Well done for continuing to do these videos, Tom. Happy 12th Birthday to Justus today. I hope he has a great day. 🎂🎁🎉🍰🥳

[@newenglandcoast-b4p]

Thank you all for posting a video, to catch up. I think of your family, and pray for all of you daily. Tom, you are doing a great job with the kids, I know it must be so difficult. Hannah looks exactly like her Mommy!💖

[@donnaturnbull1190]

You did it!! Great thumbnail picture. Love, hugs and blessings.

[@SuperBamamama]

Tom you are doing it! This was fabulous. Hannah's hair was just precious when she was eating her banana. One handed vlogging has got to be hard but, then Andrea was an expert.

[@nikkole9951]

Your children are some of the most wonderful well behaved children I have ever seen. Lots of love goes into them and it shows. God bless you guys!

[@bonfer20]

You boys have such gentle hearts. One day your children will benefit from those gentle spirits. 😊

[@Irishgrl65]

Great video Tom kids look awesome love seeing you guys together praying ,doing yard work, playing games it's awesome!!❤

[@job955]

Taking the picture was a hoot! Loving every part of this video. It is so good seeing smiles on the children's faces. Blessings to you all!

[@LaceRedRose]

"Stand up like a real person" made my day 🤣🤣

[@lhamby]

I can so relate to that picture taking process. Bless you and your sweet family as you carry on and find your way without your precious wife and mama.

[@toqueyessenia6813]

You are doing amazing Thomas. Don’t be discouraged for difficulty. Just keep praying for guidance and choose your battles. Do what you can and enjoy the most without stress yourself more than you should.

[@reclaimedtreasures5749]

Love the prayer and the new picture!! May God continue to hold you all close!!!

[@debraedmunds9777]

Judah may be interested in looking up Nigel Carren on KZbin. He has a workshop in France where he makes armour for films. He also makes miniature armour helmets that are so small they fit on his fingers. Its someone that i stumbled across by accident and thought it might be of interest to Judah if he is in to making armour himself.

[@debraedmunds9777]

You all made me smile when taking the group photograph. It was so nice to see you smiling and having fun even if it felt frustrating at times. You are truly one amazing family and that all comes down to the way you and Andrea raised your children. They are a credit to you sir.

[@Jo.H.]

Hi Tom & family, the group picture made me laugh. I try taking pictures of my 2 dog’s together and they hardly ever are looking at the camera at the same time. You did a great job. We will never forget Andrea she was an amazing lady. Love from Wales 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿💙😀

[@clairepaquette5676]

What a wonderful family you have Tom. Trying to take a photo with such a large family can be quite the challenge but you pulled it off. Love your videos and I continue praying for your beautiful family.

[@MamaGypsysCaravan]

It is awesome to see you all working together. Tom, you did a good job with Hannah's hair.

[@cherylmacentee7934]

Beautiful family.May God bless you all.One day at a time as the song goes.👼

[@mymomlife]

I was laughing watching you try and get that picture!! I think every parent can relate to that!! You are doing great!!

[@jacksonabrams4978]

Keep those bags and make it a bit easier wrapping Christmas gifts! Their so pretty too!

[@GreenF1ames]

The love that Asher has for Hannah is just absolutely amazing. He is an amazing brother. I love your family!

[@francesgrech8930]

Andrea has left a legacy that you can see her in every one of the children! Tom, you`re an awesome dad!

[@thebannings6176]

I love the group photo. So sweet.

[@rency7460]

Andrea and you Tom did a good job in raising those boys, they are so kind to each other esp to their sisters, I only watched a couple of your vlogs but I can tell that you have a kind and responsible kids.....keep it up boys!!

[@patricialeusing1083]

Good morning!!! I loved it!! I laughed, I cried...

[@bethenyauker4727]

Another amazing vlog Tom! You're doing so awesome! I love your endings, so precious and sweet.

[@angelinamoreno7609]

The beginning of video cracked me up , so fun to watch. Gosh , I hear and see Andrea in Asher so much. Good job kids !

[@shelbieleigh3318]

"Squish less. Don't squish!" 😂 Loved seeing this real moment.

[@MandahWilde]

I love the unboxing videos!! It’s so nice to see all the wonderful gifts you are receiving!! It’s very heartwarming and humbling to see the outpouring of support and love for your family ❤️

[@deedrafulkerson2194]

What many Blessings you have been given! The Lord provides!! There are still many good people in the world who are willing to share their blessings! Tom you are doing Great !!! God Bless!!!

[@kimmcmahon8341]

You are doing a wonderful job tom ! Andrea is smiling.

[@rachelball1174]

Sometimes all we can do is put one foot in front of the other and keep moving. You're doing a great job, Tom. Please know that we are all praying for you.

[@sascesis1]

Omgoodness! Her hair just made my whole day! 💜💜

[@bonniescott6470]

God bless you and your family 💕

[@erickagonzalez5667]

That's a beautiful picture 😍😘.. GOD bless you all love and hugs..