Chasing the New Normal ¦ Gifts, Updates and More ¦ Large Family Vlog

[@TheMillsFamilyVlog]

Ok for the common questions: Yes I know our local grocery store is more expensive than Walmart. But it is close and is our local store, in our local town. Thomas works there, and the store has over $3,000 in store credit there for us right now -we support them all we can. The name of the game we were playing is called Tsuro. It supports our whole family, plays in 20 minutes and is one of our favorites. Yes our dog Knuckles is 14 years old, is blind and deaf and possibly got a little dementia and a severe skin allergy, I don't think he will last too much longer, but as long as he isn't in pain, he is our family and we won't put him down until we have to. We have been to the vet multiple times, they prescribed the medicine after all. Asher is sad sometimes and not other times. His grief thus far has been healthy. We play video games together in the evenings and it helps us take both of our minds off of things. He is actually doing quite well.

[@beckysmith2346]

Praying for all of you as you find your new normal. I know it’s hard to but ignore the haters. Seems like some people have nothing better to do than offer unwanted criticism.

[@iamteachermimi8244]

Seriously? People are telling you to shop at Walmart and that your dog is too old to live? They need a new pair of glasses just like you described !

[@mylifeasjen8732]

Of course Asher is sad sometimes and happy others. His life has been radically changed. It sounds very normal and a part of the grief process. Stay strong.

[@caroldeaton619]

God Bless you all love them Chrildern.💙💜

[@joanneripley2256]

Tom, what a wonderful town you live in! People come together and support each other when needed. Andrea always mentioned that she supports local stores. She liked the meat specials there. I am glad you are getting help from your sister-in-law and mother and maybe getting back into your work routine. God bless you and your beautiful family...

[@iamteachermimi8244]

Thanks Tom for allowing us in your life ❤️ I think of Andrea every single day and pray for you

[@katr3110]

Same here

[@moonviolet27]

Same 😭🙏

[@virjinderkaur4565]

Same 😙

[@mummysunshine6593]

I’m the same too! ❤️ I’m so thankful that God is in control! My heart is sore for all of them! ❤️xxx

[@babs4970]

Me too!

[@patriciapandolagagliano1723]

Your life has changed. Please monetize for the good of your family. ♥️🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@Yes-iu3kr]

Yes. Please. You aren't taking any money from viewers hands. Let us help support you by hitting subscribe, like, and playing videos through the ads. She left you this gift...use it. And remember...videos over 10 minutes garner more income due to the ability to have ads in the video. (A youtuber did a great video about how monetization works recently in case you need info.)

[@Jessiemadanat]

Monetize and patreon your time is valuable

[@RazzberryRachel]

Im crying. Her computer. The side of the bed that hasn’t been slept in. All her labels in the fridge. 😔 I didn’t know her personally, but she changed my life as a mother and wife for the better.

[@sherryduden5638]

Note to all the trolls and haters: Leave this family they’ve been through enough and they don’t need your hate. There wasn’t anything Andrea did to give herself cancer and to say that is insane. There’s nothing wrong with eating healthy and having a few junk food splurges here and there. Please just be nice and supportive this family needs all the love and support we can give them and not have negative judgmental people coming after them. Please remember the bible says do onto others as you do onto me and don’t judge or you too will be judged in the very same manner.

[@amelaolsen4580]

100% agree!! If you going to hate and give negative comments..this is not the channel for you!

[@speakofhisgrace]

I agree its a beautiful family. But the Bible although tells judge righteous.its in the kjv Bible Gods divine unchanged word. Dont leave it out. Like the Lgbt people don't judge don't judge. Its although judge righteous. There is no reason to be mean i think its a beautiful family. God bless you all ❤️❤️😊🙏

[@susansmith3633]

I agree with ms. Sherry they are trying to get some of there life back. He’s trying as hard as he can to be there for his family . So just back off. Love you Tom and your family and I think about Andrea.

[@ericburgos7148]

Agreed

[@megand.407]

Amen.....I have never been to close to this channel, but that is beside the point...Amen and Alleluia!

[@tinahinote4104]

Just don't forget you. Take a few minutes each day too relax and clear your mind. You are important.

[@whome7498]

Absolutely!!! This is very very important thing to remember

[@sandramullen7804]

I agree 100%♥️🙏

[@randomweirdo25]

If you think you need to monetize, do it!! I will always support you!

[@melissagreenway7386]

Same here, I so wish he would. I can't imagine their pain. We only know her thorough here, I think her a the time it breaks my heart for them all.

[@aliciavilla7416]

Yes, Tom we are with you and your family. God Bless you.

[@julietannOsfan1972]

Katie Delight What does it mean to monetise KZbin?

[@pasierose6294]

Katie Delight Absolutely 1000%

[@junbh2]

@@julietannOsfan1972 It means allowing ads on your channel. KZbin then gives you some money from the advertisers.

[@pennyhelms6410]

Your doing a great job. Again Andrea would be proud of you and the children. You know better than anyone what your family needs and deserves. Continued prayers for everyone.

[@lynetteeaster1541]

Absolutely right!!!

[@melindabanning7707]

Penny Helms Amen! All the “helpful” people and nah sayers need to remain silent! Maybe we should be praying for them too? Thank you Tom for allowing us to see how things are going.

[@pasierose6294]

Penny Helms - Amen

[@jessicaeaton3183]

All the kids are so amazing but there is something special about Asher :) He is so sweet with the little ones and watching him do Hannahs hair was precious

[@KD_RN]

Jessica Eaton I agree! I was gonna say the same thing ♥️

[@lopazjenjen]

The person who sent those lockets was the must amazing idea and I can’t stop crying thank you for sending the girls that it best gift ever

[@poodledaddles1091]

Yes! Also so nice of someone to offer to make pillows out of her shirts for the kids!

[@margaretschaefer9786]

Years ago growing up in a large family, I experienced the sudden death of my mother. But having six siblings made us feel like there was plenty of love in the home. Just wanted to say, that these days now may be sad and grief filled, but there will be happy days ahead and joy will once again fill your hearts. So happy that your children have these wonderful videos of their loving Mother. May God bless you!!

[@taraschmidheini4674]

Bless your ❤️

[@patriciapandolagagliano1723]

I do not understand how anyone could criticize or hate on your family or your beautiful family values 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️. You are an inspiration to my life.

[@u4evamine]

Its the parents that baby their kids and give them anything they want. The same parents that think children shouldn't do chores and have responsibilities.

[@sarawilliams9025]

I just love Asher! His bond with Hannah is amazing!! Y’all made great kids Tom!

[@GossMania]

Sara Williams that’s a bond that can never be broken. My oldest daughter and my youngest daughter of 7 kids has an amazing bond and still do even after she passed away from a severe asthma attack October 21, 2017. She misses her so but has an amazing bond with her still. Miss seeing them together though. That’s something I’ll always miss.

[@jennk7987]

Sara Williams Asher is my favorite too!! He reminds me of my son, kinda looks like him too lol

[@ThisMainerMom]

If you monetize, I will watch every ad!!

[@mustwereallydothis]

It's nice to be able to watch ads at last as it's all I am able to do to help. I just wish there were more of them to watch.

[@Yvonne_ennovY]

I feel the same way Tara Wright!

[@Sagemumma]

Me to

[@lisamaynard9304]

Yeah, I usually skip ads but have been biting the bit through all of theirs 💞

[@tyanneh1]

Tom, you mentioned in a previous video that you were not sure if Andrea had Life Insurance, I remember watching a budgeting video that Andrea made maybe a couple years ago that it was one of the items she paid every month, if so, maybe that can also help with you being able to be home more with the children. I'm so glad you found the menu cards. I'm so sorry for your loss, I've been watching this channel off and on for years now and I'm thankful that you are still sharing videos with us. Sending good thoughts to you and your family.

[@lvwest8092]

Also if all else fails it is pretty common across all states for the company to send a statement of coverages and benefits at least once a year or you may see a bill pop up in the mail.

[@trainingolives3370]

Didn’t get through the first minute without crying. My heart hurts for your family and the profound sense of loss you feel without your precious wife & mama. I’m so glad that you have your own mama and Andrea’s sister there to help. Continually praying for all of you.

[@BH-si7ru]

This sounds strange, but watching you all go through this and seeing Andrea die, made me appreciate you letting us into your life and made me love all the KZbin families I watch that much more precious. Thank you, your all doing wonderfully. We are praying for you.

[@barrysparksofficial]

This comment is so sincere.... So true too❤️

[@nannypat6520]

I'm old enough to be your mother. I'm sitting in my recliner in Vancouver BC just amazed at the wisdom God has given you. Beautiful video. Thank you ❤️ And yes it's really healthy for the kids to step up. (new subscriber)

[@deborahchapman2130]

I couldn’t agree any more. There is nothing wrong in helping out with the family.

[@shannonmiller9548]

I live just down the road from you, in Surrey. I am the same as you...old enough to be the both the mother and grandmother. I have followed Andrea and Tom and their amazing family for a few years now. I agree with you 100%.

[@megandanielle7862]

Welcome to the Family!!

[@nannypat6520]

@@shannonmiller9548 hi Shannon 👍 I watched one of Andrea's video about a year ago. The boys bedroom tour. I didn't understand KZbin then and lost track of her. When she was so ill her name was everywhere. People asking for prayer for her. I just started following the family a few days ago, but today at the grocery store she was all I could think of. She was an amazing woman. I'm so sorry for the world's loss of such a wise down to year young woman. 💔

[@lgpollock68]

Here's my 2 cents on the monetization. If nothing else, those babies (big ones included) are gonna need you now more than ever. I'm all for the monetization!! Much love!!❤❤

[@renee5138]

To those complaining about Mountain Dew.... At least The mills are drinking fizzy instead of smoking drugs or cigarettes or drinking alcohol. Eating candy and drinking fizzy is not a sin.

[@melindalemmon2149]

As long as the kids are not doing the stimulant drugs in MD, it's okay. Occasionally.

[@444enahs]

@@ms.anonymousinformer242 there is a time and place for everything. this is not the time for you to be giving out parenting advice. its like youre twisting a knife right now. I hope you sleep well at night. wether they have soda and sweets or not, your comments will not help anything in any way. your thoughts mean nothing to anyone. you are hurting people who are already in pain. good for you.. so just back off for now,, how about that...

[@megand.407]

I know! It’s not other people’s place to judge them...also, they are kids! people need to give them a break and not judge them all the time... losing your mom and then even also getting judged on what they eat is really not cool.

[@pamblakeley4085]

I agree 100 percent

[@gailbaker9285]

It's no one's business what they do or eat or drink . There's always those that feel they have the right to say things. Wrong you don't have the right.

[@Sweetzandmore]

You're doing great Tom. You're home is small,cozy and full of love.

[@heatherjett2333]

Yes. I can’t believe people would say something about a home that someone lives in. Not everyone can afford a big home. A home is what you make it not what it looks like. Love and family is what makes a home

[@Mskay421]

Who else watched with a lump in your throat the whole time? I never thought I could miss someone I never met. I have been praying for your family every single day. Keep strong, Our God is a wonderful Father.

[@mariaolker]

Yes. I especially got sad when he showed the bed with her side untouched.

[@andih5895]

Yes!! I never knew of Andrea I til after her passing and watching her videos I feel like I've known her years and seeing Tom now breaks my heart

[@AnnaBananaLM]

Since there are ads I assumed you decided to monetize? I honestly think you made a good decision! Even if you decide to demonetize later, at least you have the extra income to catch you breath. I will continue praying for you.

[@kyieshamiller8666]

Anna Massarelli I didn't have any ads

[@carly1478]

I didn't see a ad.

[@MarisaAndChew]

I didn't have any ads, weird. I wonder if he monetized or not?! This video is so long (yay!) That i should've had a hundred ads, lol.

[@debbiedion5731]

I didnt get any adds

[@marguritegilliland2453]

Miss Andrea so much and baby Hannah is so darn cute

[@e48124]

Let us know when you monetize, I know I have Andreas videos playing all the time! I'll set up a nice playlist and set them to play!! Keep your head up

[@manoustmarc5238]

I love that idea, it's a great way for us viewers to contribute to her family. Her channel is getting so much views. Now would be a great time for them to monetize.

[@kmaggie924]

Same here!

[@lauracallan1812]

I’ll do the same!

[@carriecase3541]

I have binge watched in the past... whenever I'm having a bad day... her voice alone calms me so much.. I've been watching old videos almost every day since she left... I'm so happy Tom is even considering monetizing the channel

[@mommynti3stewart391]

Your such a beautiful person for suggesting that💞

[@danuta.]

I would say monetize. What a great gift from Andrea to help support her beloved family for their future, if you should need it. I really miss Andrea too. Thank you for still posting. God bless you.

[@lauracondo8151]

Tom it sounds like you are doing the best for your family and no one else knows what they need better than you. Your family is greatly loved. The kids helping is a good thing for everone. Thank you for keeping the channel going. We will support you.

[@caroldeaton619]

I agree love this Family.

[@rawlyroo5975]

Of course you are the expert on Andrea and you definitely know what she would want . You are doing an amazing job.

[@junbh2]

That must be a very frustrating part of putting aspects of your family life online... People then coming and seeming to think they know your family better than their actual family does.

[@melissavazquez2953]

The angel in the beginning with Andrea,absolutely beautiful.

[@JessieLeigh93]

I lost my mom suddenly when I was 16 and I took care of my family. I helped my dad because I knew that my mom would want that. I never regretted doing what had to be done. I took care of my younger brother who was 10. We grew closer because of it. You handle things the best you know how. God Bless You and this precious family. Praying for you all.

[@luckybluelab]

My mother was killed in a car accident when I was 11, and it was obviously the defining moment of my life. But unlike your children, we were not encourage to talk about her or grieve her loss; it was almost like she never existed. You are doing a fantastic job of raising your children, Tom. Andrea must be so proud of you all.

[@amywilson4352]

Oh, the lockets. I'm at a loss for words. So special yet sad.

[@kitno5]

What a wonderful person to send the lockets.

[@jenniferdowns8991]

Why does there have to be haters! This is a beautiful family!! A truly beautiful family! Please choose kindness,no hate

[@debibarrington8348]

Haters are children of their father ..the devil ..Jesus said they hated him first

[@kellyjohnson4055]

Tom, I know that you need to take care of the children, the income, the animals, but most importantly you need to take care of yourself. Your family all depend on you. Don’t forget to take time for yourself to grieve. Maybe you will be able to take some help from others and take some time to be by yourself and start the healing process.

[@RobertasArtisticAdventures]

As to the size of your family's house, a large house often means that family members have a space to go off and away from the rest of the family to pout and feed the fuel of anger and separation, where as in a small house, people learn to forgive and move on, or even overlook and ignore grievances. I know this because I had to live in a motel room with my two daughters when our apartment was being renovated. We got along so much better when we lived in the space the size of your kitchen than we did when we lived in a full two bedroom apartment. You and Andrea made the right decision in buying your home, and raising your family there, and having every child you have. Each one is an absolute blessing to your family, your community, and one day to our heavenly community! Prayers as always, every day, for your family, to be comforted, encouraged, to find joy, and to be blessed!

[@wheezer2922]

Please don't apologize to uninformed strangers for living your lives as you chose. It's nobody's business. You and your children are doing what families should, taking care of each other. Although I have never met you or your lovely family, my heart breaks for each of you. Thanks for letting us be a small part of your life. I think of your family every day. Bless you all.

[@Taylorevaaa]

She still will get grandchildren and watch her family grow. She may not be tangible but she is there. Just watching I still feel her. You’re doing awesome Tom, I wish I could do more to help. Sending love and prayers to you and your family.

[@p00dlequ33n]

Tom, I’m glad you addressed that about stepping up, kids these days are out of control and it’s the parents fault. I could never see ur kids being disrespectful to anyone and it’s because of the way they are being raised. To the new people this is a very honest god loving family that truly love each other and love there home so please be respectful, and enjoy a real family not like the rest on you tube. And there will not be another Andrea she loved her kids so much!! Tom your doing great!! Love from Tennessee

[@kimmiewyckoff3907]

I totally agree.. Fayetteville, TN here hello neighbor

[@p00dlequ33n]

Kimberly Critcher Knox tenn hello

[@donnawall6922]

TOM YOU ARE A VERY WISE MAN...TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS....GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY !!

[@smilyblessings7668]

You all are amazing !!!! I’m a mom of 6kids,was married ,divorced to a single mom my kids were my strength !!!!God will get you all through the rainbow will shine after the storm !!!❤Andrea will always be there through all the little things !!!

[@normamiller1676]

The videos are a rich legacy that Andrea left for you.

[@mimiwhite5762]

Tom, I would gladly watch commercials to support you staying home. Thinking of you and your children. 👍👍❤️

[@DanaLynne]

ditto!

[@skylar6258]

recently i found out my baby will be born with a fatal skeletal dysplasia and watching andrea’s videos had helped me so much with coping with everyday life. i really appreciate you keeping the channel alive for everyone and especially myself.

[@jowilliams1010]

I am incredibly sorry. God bless and keep you strong.

[@juliakent2560]

I'm praying for you!! I know you must be do sad... ❤

[@ItsAWonderfulLife]

I am so sorry to hear this. My son was also diagnosed with a fatal condition while in the womb. We did our best to make as many memories as we could with him even though most of it was done while I was carrying him. Sending love and prayers your way. ♥️♥️♥️

[@lorrainem8234]

@Skylar - prayers for you and your baby❤

[@rachelball1174]

I'm so very sorry to hear that. My sister had the same experience. I'll be praying for you.

[@TheKinillita]

I will let your channel running all night to support you with commercials. I just started to watch your channel days before Andrea pass away. I’m very sorry.

[@Borreguita89]

TheKinillita great idea I will do the same

[@brittneyclancy4701]

Me to! I have been watching all the time anyways

[@SissyKay]

Same here...

[@renea8724]

Same with me. I'm here and will be here watching any and all ads.

[@Happy_Tails_Toy_Poodles]

TheKinillita yes!! Also clicking on the ads will pay out extra for them.

[@monicakittleson1468]

Im crying as i watch this video memories flood my mind I was widowed at a young age with only 2 daughters to raise I can say with all certainty The Lord Jesus will give you strength and send those people to assist with practical help I am praying daily for your precious family and especially you Tom He is close to the broken hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. GOD IS FAITHFUL please remember to get enough rest grieving can be exhausting

[@LindaKordich]

I’m still feeling Heartbroken but this is Heartwarming.....I loved this vlog- this is well produced Tom. We are ALL with you. Sending love and gratitude to you all for all you have done to bring light, love and God’s spiritual teachings to the world through your family. ♥️

[@jenniferknight1511]

I agree it is important for the kids to step up and care for each other. They can do it.

[@leithagrover9116]

I agree!

[@iamtheirishgirl2]

You are doing what is best for your family. I admire your strength in Christ. I am one of your new subscribers.

[@lorrainem8234]

Also a new subscriber. Ditto everything she said ^.

[@NikkiSchumacherOfficial]

Shannon G. I'm new also.

[@Tinkerbell31326]

I am a widow 12 years, when I saw your bed, it is the way mine looks every morning.. My heart breaks for you.

[@FatMamaVlogs]

💜

[@matzmaw21]

Just lost my hubby of 39 years, and my bed looks just like yours does, too! So sorry you lost your best friend so soon! Our relationship wasn't perfect by any means, but I so miss sharing my yenta moments with him. Love your vdos. We're Jewish, but very spiritual also. God really doesnt descriminate. Sadly, people do.

[@bethd9160]

You are so right about letting your older children help. It’s good for them.

[@Fray14318]

I genuinely miss you Andrea. 😔 Tom you are being such a rock for your family. Thank you for being so open and continuing to let us have a glimpse into your life. We will help in any way we can.

[@jayneellmes566]

Please don't be afraid to lean on your family, friends and community if needed. You're doing a great job and Andrea would be so proud of you and the kids.

[@dirtpatcheaven]

Onions. Lots of chopped onions somewhere in my living room.

[@WyattRyeSway]

Dirtpatcheaven .....Mine too!

[@lindadobranetski6302]

Me too, me too.

[@RobertasArtisticAdventures]

Mine too, Julianne! Me too! I grieve for them, and am so saddened by all the hurtful comments people are leaving. This is a time to support, encourage, embrace, and console, not judge or criticize.

[@mskudlarczyk]

Haters dont pay your bills,eaise your children, DO NOTTTTT pay attention to them.

[@Blessedbears]

True Life Average Jane Vlog amen!!!

[@barrysparksofficial]

Well said 🤗

[@junbh2]

I hope the kids don't read such comments :(.

[@cassandra5516]

I love that Judah hasn't lost his sense of humour. He seems like a real character to have around!

[@rainbowobsidian5313]

He's still working on his you tube channel which is nice to see.

[@emilysideasasmr6918]

Tom you are doing a wonderful job Andrea is smiling down from heaven Prayers for your sweet family

[@duskthedalmatian6451]

“It’s not fair to have them NOT step up.” - Wise words. You and your children need each other. No child is raising another child. ALL members of the family help nurture and take care of each other. Thank you for the update.

[@kimmiewyckoff3907]

I agree! Very wise words. And it's not like they weren't helping out before too. Wonderfully balanced family all around

[@kimsheets3638]

Asher is wonderful doing his sisters hair good job stepping up

[@lizbowman37]

I love the update of the family! Thank you so much for inviting us to share your lives with you.

[@janetsides901]

The lockets made me sob. You are doing well. Remember,one day at a time.

[@renee5138]

Claudia likes going to daddy to talk a lot about anything it seems. ( eg// when you are at work in the shop checking the mill's KZbin channel ) and she wants daddy's attention and you MADE TIME to listen to her and touch her gently then said, "go get changed dear ,they are yesterday's clothes" and she listens- so cute. Tom you are slow to anger and that's how the Lord is- praise God.

[@tracyireland7447]

Tom I want to encourage you. You're doing a great job. May you be blessed, blessed, blessed. May Father God have his hand upon you and your family. You know you have some difficult days ahead but you have so many people who are praying for you and want to see you and your family florish. God bless you. Xx

[@gem-lou3037]

Thank you tom for allowing us to still be part of ur family sending love and hugs to you all xxx

[@chrissyj.9854]

Family stays together and work as a family, my family does that, don't let negative comments get to you.

[@nancyosgood777]

I'm so glad you have your family there to help you out. Andrea would be so proud of you all. Your sons will make the best husbands and fathers some day!!

[@jenniferknight1511]

Glad to see you have another adult there helping.

[@youtubegirl5298]

Ive been waiting for an update on your beautiful family. You have been in my thoughts and prayers.

[@nanamjbri]

I miss seeing Andrea’s videos 😢 I see the hurt in the older kids eyes the younger kids really don’t understand what happened ..... I think about Andrea all the time and my heart breaks 💔 I have been watching all of her videos and it’s very sad knowing she’s no longer here with her family 😢 she was such a loving mom and wife and had a big kind heart ♥️ I pray that God helps all of you get through this dark time in your life’s 🙏🏼 I know Andrea is looking down at her family and she’s very proud that her family is still continuing just like she was there ..... Thanks for sharing Tom I know it’s not easy being a dad & mom but your doing a great job Andrea would be so proud of you ♥️ her family was her whole life anyone watching her videos could tell that.... I hope anyone watching these videos will have only kind words to say and if they don’t they need to keep it to themselves because words can hurt and this family doesn’t deserve anymore hurt in their life’s ♥️

[@junbh2]

Little kids can be odd in how they process grief or pain. Seeming to understand one day and then not another, serious one minute and playing the next... I think they just grieve in their own way?

[@tonyaharris4492]

Thank you for bringing us back into your life. Continued prayer and blessing to you and your family. Yes please monetize and I will be one of your biggest supporters! Love you Mills family....

[@lyndsaymoehrman]

Goodness knows you don't have to keep this channel going but it is a blessing to all who watch it. Thank you for this video. It was very well done! You are doing an amazing job! Continuing to pray for your whole family!

[@debbiedion5731]

Im balling my eyes out again well done tom your doing a great job❤

[@happyinharned9583]

Same here

[@threerivershomestead]

Oh, my heart. When I got to the lockets I lost it 😭. God bless you, Tom. You are doing an amazing job.

[@julieannemichelle]

Hi Tom, thinking of you and your family. I think of you guys often. I never doubt that you won’t be able to handle things because you do understand what Andrea’s goals were because I believe they are yours too. I’m here to support you.❤️

[@mexicanmomma5119]

Tom , I’m a new subscriber here, I’m gonna tell u something my sweet friend, your wife led me to this channel, but you and those kids kept me here! Keep up with the amazing job! Life is never easy or far, but each day is a gift, a blessing, the joy of our Fathers heart and he loves you! Love u brother! ❤️

[@mexicanmomma5119]

My kids don’t have their father anymore, but for the last 2 years I’ve been doing it! I’m mom and dad and with teens it’s been a challenge. U make me proud as a single mom cuz yes my friend it can be done! ❤️

[@MM-re4nv]

Here’s an idea... when I lost my parents I kept a note of memories and how I was feeling in a journal. How about having some memory jars and slips of paper or cut out hearts on which the children can write their happy memories, special moments they remember or their feelings or thoughts and pop them in the jars. I’ve used Mason jars and decorated them before for uses such as this.

[@ames218]

I've been binge watching the vlogs. I became a subscriber after Andrea passed, when Jamerell made a video and mentioned Andreas passing. I wish I was a viewer when Andrea was still here. I love your family and I weirdly feel close to you all. I dont have a big family, I'm not religious, I don't home school my son but still I feel so close to you all. Andrea felt like home. I see her and I have an instant comfort in my heart. I wish you would monitize the videos, i can't help out with money but I sure can help out with views and likes! Like I said I'm not religous but you and your family have been in my thoughts everyday. My Mom passed away 6 years ago when I was 23 in a very similar way to Andreas passing. I am comforted knowing they're out of pain, and there's a reason for everything happening and this, even how unfortunate and sad it is, it was just meant to be. Much love to you, Tom and to all of those beautiful children!

[@lorrainem8234]

What a small world! I found Andrea the same way - through Jammerill. Only wish I'd found these wonderful videos sooner. Take care, my friend!

[@beckymattsmom4556]

God is, indeed, in charge. I've always wondered how anyone can deal with such a devastating loss without faith. When we lost our son, our faith was our relief. Keeping you and your precious family lifted in prayer.

[@kimmiewyckoff3907]

Same when I lost my daughter. People asked how are you doing this all. I always said Jesus is my comfort and guide without him I'd truly be lost and probably not even here since it would've been a burden too great to bear.

[@mycelticstardust]

My heart hurts, missing my friend. Loved the video and praying for you and the family.

[@debhadden205]

I'm so sorry about Andrea having inflammatory breast cancer. The beautiful video she gave last spring about her mom passing away, tells me that she kind of knew something, that the Holy Spirit was preparing her and us and providing a video to comfort her family. Just to validate you, I had a dear friend die of IBC at the age of 36. She was a talk skinny woman who did not over indulge in anything, and she never smoked, drank, or even drank coffee. I walked along side her during her journey. She tried all of the natural ways to try and turn the train around, but it didn't. A year later another friend of mine died in her 50's of IBC as well. It took me years to overcome the grief. You will be in my prayers.

[@GreenF1ames]

Hannah is absolutely adorable. I love her! You are doing such an amazing job, Tom! I still tear up watching these vlogs though, breaks my heart.

[@sandytrahan3778]

Sorry for your loss but I think your doing an awesome job in such a short amount of time.

[@monicahnyambura2093]

God's grace shall abound in you as you take care of those adorable children.

[@glendaruff125]

Thanks to all the big kids for helping out more. Family is like that. You have fine kids.

[@MirandaJones80]

Tom, you are so brilliant and a true warrior!! Your kids are benefiting from you being there and it’s so smart to shop close. The people who are hurtful and cruel never will stop...so you keep on being the best daddy that you can. My mom was murdered when I was 5 and I know how you and the kids feel at times. It’s going to be a roller coaster, but most days will be filled with sunshine and laughter and happy tears. I’m going to be 39 and I just always know my mom is with me and Andrea oh how she is with you with a lovely smile and her cute laugh. So proud of your kids being there for one another too, and it’s amazing that your family has stepped up even more. Your mom is the best Grandma.

[@TheMillsFamilyVlog]

Do you remember much of your mother?

[@MirandaJones80]

I remember so much...I grew up in So California, and in those short years with my “mommy” We did a lot....the one thing I don’t remember is her voice. It’s not as rough for your youngest kiddos as it will be for the older kids. Being so young and mommy being gone the younger kids can easily pick up and keep living easier. My twin and I always had questions and we had to go to therapy (because my moms death was tragic) back in ‘86, but we still were so outgoing and positive our mom was in Heaven. The hard part is the pain never will come and go, but you Tom need to live for her and remember to sleep- it’s sometime I worry about for you. Sleep is going to help you heal your heart and keep being the best you. I’m no expert, but at 39 know what it was to grow up without my mom or my dad (my Grandma raised us). The teen year will be tricky for you more then normal. You got this tho, and Andrea is always there to talk too(that will help you too) 😊 Hope this makes sense...most people are good and mean well...

[@MirandaJones80]

I meant I worry about you not getting sleep...it’s silly maybe, but your health is even more important now. I agree with your diet and exercise ideas...it’s all moderation is what I take from your words. You are wise beyond your age lol

[@MirandaJones80]

Oh, and ignore my typos. I’ve been up with my 2 year old a lot and am tired lol. Thank you for being you

[@RascalCruz4]

“God is in control” AMEN , LOVE your endless amount of faith. Inspires me to be better mom!

[@carolbaswell5019]

Our hearts break along with yours. When you feel lonely or want to throw in the towel, remember you are being prayed for each and every day. God BLESS you all.

[@allisonbearup21]

Oh Tom, I want to tell you that you are doing a fantastic job. It can't be easy. This is all still raw. Take your time. Everything will come around in time. Allow yourself some grace. Your videos are a reminder for me to slow down and live in the moment. God is in control and he is good. Thank you for sharing your life with us.

[@Blessedbears]

Allison Bearup exactly! Sorry to chime in but this is so true!

[@rawlyroo5975]

Your home is beautiful absolutely beautiful, furnished with live , filled with the Holy Spirit , you are doing incredible work with your family , and you are totally doing the very best for your family.

[@HomesteadTessie]

You are Loved by Thousands of us !! Keep Pressing on ! You and your family are an amazing Testimony To The Lord !

[@nataliev4988]

Asher is becoming the strongest man. He has stepped up so quickly even though you can see the hurt in his eyes. Your entire family has stepped up. I can’t imagine the pain I’d be in in your shoes and I admire you and the children so much. Thank you for sharing your life with all of us

[@tracymarie5]

Your son with his hands on his hips , head to the side like superman , while you were telling them to clean rooms and pick up Legos was hilarious, glad to see he has a sense of humor and happiness still, they all are doing their momma proud

[@taratrudeau2029]

He hides his pain with humor. Those are the ones that are hurting the most and need to be checked up on often.

[@justinereno9569]

Amen God is in control! Thank you for continuing the channel. Andrea made a huge impact on my life... You’re an amazing dad, and husband.

[@estherbarrett7698]

Monetize. I'm a new subscriber and I have subscribed because I want to support your family.

[@cindysue1198]

Andrea was a real lady. She made sure the kids enjoyed life. Had fun. she respected them. Never bullied them. Just a sweet beautiful lady.

[@arisia8622]

I just have to say that I love how you talk about Andrea with your kids. When my family experienced loss when I was a child no one talked about it, and it just made the grief so much worse. You are keeping her alive and in time your children will thank you for it.

[@tracymarie5]

Lmbo...Thomas's hairbows..great sense of humor..keep those smiles coming, the necklaces were sweet, you could see the missing momma in the older girls eyes..God bless you all..Tom keep that sense of humor, no mom wants their children sad

[@vickiburt2676]

Its a process, not a timeline like you would expect, & every person is unique. GD made us totally unique, its amazing.

[@marilynb8136]

Nothing happens that isn't filtered through God's hands. God is still in charge. God is still on the throne. We may not understand but God does. Blessings...

[@thebahamiancooknook7065]

Many of us in The Bahamas don't have homes anymore. So a tiny home is awesome.

[@bloomthrive9179]

Praying for you all in the Bahamas :'(

[@annehoyle3581]

I am so sorry for what you all are dealing with there. It must be awful.

[@kimmiewyckoff3907]

My heart is grieving for you all as well. Hope you didn't suffer much loss but know that you are thought of and prayed for as you all recover from this devastating storm ♥️

[@jessicaeaton3183]

Edens face when she saw her Mamas picture in the necklace had me and my daughter crying :'(

[@julietannOsfan1972]

Jessica Eaton Me too.

[@ashlieleavelle]

Yes

[@sandramullen7804]

Me too. Her face said it all. Soo sad 😢😑♥️🙏

[@ShayleeOfficial]

Jessica Eaton broke my heart

[@kellyandkidsx1546]

Me too 😢 I was wondering if anyone else saw that.

[@missrivka770]

My mum was diagnosed with bowel cancer. She barely had any sugar, was very aware of what she ate and exercised regularly. She still got the cancer. Anyone claiming to know why Andrea got sick are irrelevant. As you said only Gd knows.

[@Lisari72]

The lockets made me teary eyed. Perhaps you could add your own photo on the other side of the locket?