💍 MY TOP 10 RULES TO FOLLOW WHEN DATING! A SURE GUARANTEE TO FINDING YOUR SOUL MATE FOREVER!!💍

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[@kishataylor6963]

You waited until your wedding night ?? Seriously???

[@FumiDesaluVold]

Yes, darling, ONE MILLION PERCENT SERIOUS! I slept with my now-husband for the 1st time on our wedding night! 😊💛

[@kishataylor6963]

@@FumiDesaluVold Wow!!! I really want to wait but thought I would never find a man who would.

[@daniellescott477]

Omg, Beautiful❤️❤️❤️ FOR REAL!!💯💯🙏🏽🙏🏽Faith restored💙💙💙💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾🤗

[@libralibra417]

Definitely saving myself for marriage ❤️❤️❤️

[@HerRoyalSmileness]

@@FumiDesaluVold I am MARRIED @ 35!!! 💃💃💃3weeks old now💃💃💃💃…. I followed your advice 💯💯💯 my husband is European, we dated and WAITED for 9month!!! I had always been celibate so waiting was a normal for me but not for my hubby but he waited still… Thank you mama!!! I always recommend people to your page!!! I follow you like kilode!!! My sis in waiting, trust me that man CAN wait if he is serious about you and you require it of him!!!

[@jennyk1509]

Rules: 1. Know yourself. Be positive minded. Love yourself and confidence. Don't depend your happiness on someone else. Find yourself! People wants to be around happy people. People with good manners. 2. Eat at home first before dinner. So you can concentrate on your company. Don't compromise your plate of food that you will poo in few hours 3. Have your own money 💰. 4. Set time. Don't be too available. 5. Pay your bills. 6. Date as many as you can with no physical touch. 7. Don't be the first to call. 8. Be hard-core and polite. 9. Don't call him at all. Don't give him too much access. 10. You can wait. Avoid sexual encounter. 11. Protect yourself. Don't compromise. 12. Don't sleep with your husband to be. 13. Don't exclude friends

[@emilyarina8111]

Thanks alot👌🥂

[@giftjesuseme5306]

✍🏻✍🏻✍🏻✍🏻

[@austinachinonso5603]

nice one.. Captured.

[@Marley-18.]

I was looking for this comment to take notes. Thank you

[@sadiak7205]

6:59

[@lionesslamb7049]

👌🏾. And don't be afraid to lose him!

[@GABBRE1264]

The first rule is, make sure it's a man who loves God more than he love himself, put Him first and live by His principles found in the Bible. Once the man truly and sincerely loves God, everything else follows. Auntie Fumi is already married and not all men have the same qualities. And it's ok to call first, nothing is wrong with that.

[@rowdybliss]

Fumi ❤❤❤ Your daughters rise up and call you “Blessed.” 🙏 Your advice is so well-timed. Thank you for being such a good mother/friend/sister/auntie to us; there is no force stronger in this world than women uniting and choosing to lift each other up.

[@superwomanme]

Your channel is so diverse in such a wonderful way. This is like the reality show/talk show that all women need. Also, this makeup and hair are hot on fire 🔥

[@wendymclaren8219]

I really realy love the context that you put out pray that ypu will continue and grow stronger and stronger

[@danielas3303]

WHERE WAS THIS 7 YEARS AGO??????!!!!! "Eat before you go..." THAT IS GOLD!!!!

[@crystal-steelbutterfly]

You definitely are My “Mama Bear” Auntie Fumi, I keep coming back for your wisdom and all your class and goodness. Bless your heart 💕

[@jeniqueyearwood846]

Yes. I love this outfit choice and can definitely see the progress of your health journey. ❤️ Thanks Aunty Fumi for the great advice as usual!😀

[@hildaackah8678]

This look is fire! The outfit, the accessories, the shadow, the lipstick, the hair! It’s giving 🔥

[@lizzybusyo]

I love this make up look!!! You look beautiful ! This is given me 90's Robin Givens. 😍

[@SWEATVids]

Hi, I just discovered you, and already you have affirmed me on so many levels. I'm turning 39 this year and not married yet. Thank you so much Auntie Fumi. I am definitely part of Fumi-Nation 🤗

[@jala22]

Wait! Where is the etiquette video she mentioned? That would be such a good video/series idea! Also, the tip about eating before a date/conference/work dinner was so good I'm definitely adding that to my tool belt. Thank you aunty!

[@naybaby86]

OMG !! SHE IS SO FLY !! I am applying these rules !! I will send you an invite to my wedding !!

[@zeea6507]

Awesome points thanks for sharing. Need to not ignore the red flags, this man I am talking to online said his last relationship was 12 years and now wants to get married in less than a year. Need to not be available all the time, messages me whilst at work had to ask him if he isn't also at work.

[@ShalomCreates]

This is wonderful, Auntie Fumi! Dating has become increasingly harder and it’s comforting to have someone like you looking out for people who’re navigating dating and relationships. Keep up the good work.

[@mowolawa]

Hi Fumi, please could you do a video on 10 rules for single Moms. Thank you so much for this episode.

[@Naisy77]

Walking my own path. Thank You. 1. Know Yourself, Know Who You are, and Have Hobbies and Passions outside of a Relationship Love Yourself First Love Your Work Your Career Your Life 2. Be Positive Be Happy Be Happy within Yourself Be Happy Flying So Low 3. Before You go out eat before you leave Never look to desperate or to hungry 4. Look prepared and professional Do Your Hair Be High Class 5. Have Your Own Money ALWAYS It will keep away Disrespect 6. Dates should not be more than a 1 and a half 7. Do not be too available 8. Stay booked and busy 9. This advice really is Life Changing 10. Date as many as you can your interviewing don't say too much ask good questions 11. Don't be the first to call wait for him to call again if they want to go about again say I'm busy 12. Do not call or text him at all be polite not available 13. Do not let him touch you 14. Let him get to know you 15. Do not ignore the red flags do not ignore things that cause you trouble 16. Dont go to the private areas like his house go to public places 17. Do not sleep with him 18. do not exclude male friends 19. Life Long Partnership begins with boundaries and self love 20.Thanks Mama

[@sparklemackey7058]

You drop some Gems! Definitely appreciated it so much. I am a self learning journey. Not actively dating right now but just learning all I can for when it's time again. Love how you consider us all daughters in the spirit. Keep doing what your doing your awesome!

[@joi726]

Gold. I can honestly say I haven't heard half of the rules she shared.

[@lyrzartist]

Yeah! As a small business owner and independent daughter I must find a good husband and pray that we're be helpful for each other passion and share more time to keep a great relationship together. I'm still waiting for the engagement while having devotional prayers to keep my plans for the future to be respected also, to have positive outlook also by having our Team. Maybe someday I'll be able to win him for a lifetime..by now I'm still making checklist to assure of it.. I want to rely my own version to see him as my great defender someday and will protect my profile so fine.

[@giftjesuseme5306]

I’m 21 and I’m so happy for coming across this video😭😭😭😭

[@tamarachilingaryan6689]

Love these rules. Please give those for single moms. It is ages I haven't dated any man as I was concerned more with protecting my daughter. But now she is telling me to go out for dates. But now I seem less experienced. ❤️

[@Kari_Michele]

Gotcha, same here.

[@LifeGuru16]

I haven't watched the video but I know it's going to be great. I was watching a rather important video when Fumi's showed up and I just had to click on it because Miss Fumi has that effect on me ❤️

[@Hbk-gc7st]

Ule's comments in the back cracked me up! I love the dynamic between you guys! I'm in a relationship, but I am still taking notes, lol!

[@maryparris9435]

Everything you said make make sense I love it.

[@olubanjofunmiola9515]

Thanks for that wonderful tips ma,Am not married yet and this should be a great tips for single lady not to be desperate

[@SMKajee]

May God continue to shower your marriage with his kindness, my new mom, Fumi.🎉

[@lifewithherr4018]

I love the new set up Fumi 💕

[@roki5337]

I had to pause the video 37 seconds in... This look right here is it!!! Just may be my favorite on you. I also love how the background vases are changing to compliment your look or tone of the videos. Lovely! Greetings to Olé!

[@mariamogale132]

Uncle Ula...... you are my hero, my relationship male model and wish God connects me with my one who is cut from the same cloth as you. I absolutely looooved your comment here. You killed it. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Love you to bits. 😘

[@harmony_aina]

This is the first time I have watched your video but it sure not going to be the last because I am subscribing right away. Watching this video and learning from you ,makes me have that mother-daughter feel and I'm almost moved to tears.I must say thank you for this lessons and I love you ❤❤❤.

[@siveliyianselawiykeki8812]

People wanto be around happy people. I love that mummy. Thank you

[@SMKajee]

Ma'am? You're my new mom that I always dreamed of having. ❤ I've learned a lot from this video. Thank you. 🎉

[@juicyrochia2747]

I'm 24 and the title attracted me and I decided to join your family I subscribed...I learned so much and willing to try this I'm glad I did cz I just met the guy and almost slept with him.....he took me to his apartment and thanks to my periods cz it ddnt happen

[@cecilia6114]

I live and love for your channel😂☺️, it's a big pleasure for me to see a notification from you posting new stuff ❤️🥰✨

[@opmine1563]

Never too old to change for the better.

[@millicentonyango7807]

Thank you for sharing this I needed it much love from Kenya 🇰🇪

[@i_am_b1anca_207]

Not Ole saying “for days” in the background 🤣🤣🤣

[@caseyepps1514]

So good!! Yes, single moms tips please. 😊

[@allisonstephens9421]

Thank you Thank you And Thank you I Needed To Hear This I'm So Happy I Found This Video God Bless you And Your Family And Blessings To Every One Who Listen To This Video Shalom 🙏❤️🦋

[@denisetoby818]

Fumi everyone of your rules is on point.Blessings Big Sis.

[@TherealIreneIhuoma]

This is my first time of actually commenting on information like this and I must confess it was worth my time, I thought I was on the right track but I've noticed few things I got wrong. Most times we're too religious to say we're waiting for God's time meanwhile God's time for us has come a long time ago, we just needed to do our part and I pray that after practicing these principles we'll end up with our heart desires. Meanwhile I love the laughs in between!

[@damilolaogundare2334]

Top notch make up mama😘😘😘

[@Beetwixt_N._Janeen2112]

Lady Desalu-Vold, U have put the writing on the wall 💯👏🏾👏🏾 These rules are LEGENDARY…. 🥰🙏🏾

[@constancelewis6065]

Love the makeup! It is on fire!! 🔥🔥❤️❤️

[@ms.martiegallego8834]

I'm 71, and done with men, or any one at this time in my life !! I always picked the wrong guys, so when I was in my 40s, I decided to be by myself !! I didn't want to take the time to get to know anyone, or spend my time cooking, cleaning or putting up with any drama !! Sure, it would be nice to have someone to do things with , but I will not waste my time !! You are looking beautiful !! Luv Ya !!

[@pageoma7156]

You look FaaaaaB!!!!. Best look, Ambience, Aesthetics ever in my opinion. ❤️❤️❤️

[@Nic2Blk]

#9 Yes!! Fumi talking about your feminine energy...if it doesn't FEEL right, it ain't right.

[@IrresistibleArtBySalisha]

This was solid gold Advic!!

[@sharonbarrett5709]

Great words of wisdom Fumi. Thank you. 👏👏👏

[@trinatruelove466]

THIS Fumi!!! You are so right about all of it! Give us more! You are a goddess!

[@cegecej]

You're stunning. Love your hair, makeup, jewelry, etc

[@lysettcasey6340]

Absolutely love the look Fumi 😍 ❤ Fabulous as always

[@blessingpeoples3147]

Ur laugh is infectious

[@gavan1988]

Thanks Fumi great advice.😊

[@mariammohammed146]

Yes fumi please another 10 for For single moms

[@adaofcharles1217]

I just got funminised, God bless you so so much ma'am.

[@diannedouglas9630]

Iam not a easy woman these men are different Iam single now iam waiting God will let the perfect man come along

[@SCHCKK12]

You are an absolute treasure! You've dropped nothing but pure gems and I am soaking them in! Your personality is everything as well. Thank you aunty Fumi!

[@desiringchrist9248]

God lead me to this channel for real!!! 😂 Thanks Lord🙏🏾

[@Blessed9jaBeauty]

Looking gorgeous as usual Aunty🦋. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us. Proud to be a part of FumiNation👑💎

[@chilliefries424]

Great advice!!! Love the makeup could you please do a makeup tutorial on the look you have in this video?

[@Daisy20]

Hey Fumi, Just joined your beautiful family the other day and have been binge watching your videos. You are such a gem. Thank you for your generous spirit and your raucous laughter that equally contaminates me with laughter. Looking for more nuggets of wisdom and more of your laughter. Loads of love 💕

[@HealthyFoodBae_]

Please Fumi - could you give us ideas of where to meet single quality men in Covid times? Thank you hunny bun🙏🏽🙏🏽✨❤️

[@graciakinyanjui6937]

happy positive people are attractive...

[@MsCandyShay]

Thank you beautiful Queen for your wisdom and kindness. ❤️

[@jacquemonae]

FUMI! I loveeee this new setup and you look sooo beautiful and skinny by the way. Absolutely beautiful.

[@kengonzisharon156]

I love the woman in you. Your so real fumi, am inspired. I choose to love me first

[@tabithabarasa1362]

I want to meet you! Thanks again, you such a darling, I needed to be reminded of these tips. Thanks you 💕

[@nanaabra1020]

Thanks so much auntie Fumi for this wisdom. Please can we have the 10 for single mums. Love you

[@stephna9978]

Love the look Fumi

[@vania3152]

First of all I love and live for the hair and make up we need a tutorial. Thank you for the wisdom in this video I’m definitely going to apply them all I pray it gives me the same great results you’ve had. I’ve been finding so difficult to meet men let alone quality men I’m so tired of the dating apps 😩 Thank you for always having our back untie Fumi ❤️🥰

[@TaluuTV]

Love the new studio 😍😍

[@peaceeluchie9369]

Thanks ma. I love your sense of humour ♥️♥️♥️

[@HouseofAda]

This is straight real talk. Exactly what my mum taught me and am happy

[@laurenjones9111]

I love this episode. Please do 10 more.

[@lesegolegoale2522]

I see where I keep going wrong. Fully agree with all ur points 💕🙏

[@damiesther1057]

Fumi, i really love this episode, learning so many things from you, great job. thank you

[@erickacole3818]

Yes for this great advise. Love the lesson you learned from your Dad. This video was confirmation that I'm on the right track. I'm pleased to know that I did everything you suggested on my last date although I had not dated in 5 yrs. Can you do a video on how to meet quality guys?

[@RacyTv]

Be the quality woman first and you would attract your kind .

[@abooki_omuati]

Ula killed me with how he came in. So adorable. You two are best friends indeed. Bless your marriage

[@noralatimer2617]

Fumi you look fabulous. The color combination is gorgeous!

[@vinaskalimukwa6657]

Thanks for sharing, wonderful lessons out there

[@florencemaxwellchidinma8413]

Am going to save this video FOREVER!

[@albertinachikonde2802]

True Fumi, you nailed Girl🥰❤️❤️ thank you so much at 51 am Still learning. As my mom would say no one is a pro and that for as long as we're alive will continue learning 😘🙏

[@mutesilindah6960]

Am blessed by this video,Thanks Ma!

[@wen-snagg3450]

Wish my mama had spoken to me like that. They were shy to speak to us!

[@FTOTV6]

I so much like this lady ❤️ I can't stop watching her video. Thanks for sharing your story.

[@margueritendi7033]

Big sis went all in details on number 8 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I laughed so hard couldn't stop

[@shedrackmary1404]

Wow! Thanks so much Fumi I have learnt a lot from this video, like you saved me from making a mistake at this time of my life though I'm still very young

[@CamperVan-K]

Wow! That colour suits you. Are you an Autium, or Spring? Lovely.

[@sugarjovi7158]

Aunty Fumi.talking bout no3,I didn’t go on a particular date cause I didn’t have money on me and didn’t want to go empty handed,I was really sad cause I liked the guy.i had to make up stories😀

[@michelecrowell7943]

LOVE this message!!!!

[@happinessmartins7406]

Oh my Goodness darling you look so good here🌹

[@msadanwodo6942]

So cool Fumi❤️

[@malihamasood1050]

Awwh Fumi mommy I wish I found you sooner

[@angelamuchivi8469]

Love your laughter. Thanks for the tips.

[@zayennegutierrez9453]

Love all ur contents beautifull lady love how ur speake always i see ur contents i remember my mother in law shes from St Lucia living in Curaçao.🇨🇼🙏💖🥰

[@queen30695]

Lot of blessing to you and your family. Thank you very much Aunty Fumi 😘❤️

[@shuminka5944]

Where were you when I was dating, I wish someone would have told me this 15 years ago.❤