5 Things Women Do In A RELATIONSHIP That Are The Biggest TURN OFFS for Men! You Know You're Guilty!

[@agapelove1111]

I never chase. I don't cling. I don't go through his things. I don't snoop in his phone. If he wants to walk away, then I clear the path for his exit. I am not his keeper. I am not his mother. I don't babysit him. I can be his best friend if he needs me. I can let him be alone of he needs it. I have my things to take care of, and I have work to do. My feelings are my responsibility. I can be a good listener if he needs a friend. I can keep his secrets to myself. But I know that he is his own person and if he walks away, I will get out of the way, but he better respect my boundaries. I of course will respect his.

[@EspritsFantomes]

The friends you’re sharing details of your relationship with might not even be your friends. They might be waiting to ruin everything and you’re giving them a chance to

[@leticiaosei7758]

That part

[@aeiou0123]

Most of them are waiting. Trust me. Even blood sisters.

[@vaclinciapounds8859]

Exactly!

[@mabelbangura9140]

thank you

[@ronkeanimashaun156]

This is what I appreciate about being in my 50s coz I have a better insight in how to behave in a relationship and not be so needy. Cant say the same when I was much younger

[@Bloominglotus19]

My motto is: a (real) friend is a friend to the relationship; respect the Union..

[@mjgreenidge]

So true as my friends got married I started to distance to show understanding that her family is her priority.

[@cupcake1065]

I’m engaged but there’s no such thing as too much wisdom. Here to learn as much as possible.

[@lorettasofowora8603]

😅😅😅😅😅. I laughed all the way THROUGH!! So true! I’ve been married 29 yrs next week and although I’m happily married I wish I had known a couple of these at the beginning. Especially he’s not responsible for my happiness. The moment I understood this I freed him and freed myself. Girls listen up!!

[@Creyole]

I thank GOD for you Fumi! I am 65 and I am like a student that sits at the feet of the teacher. Some things that you say are reminders of what I already know and some things you say are like a punch in the gut! Both of which are needed. Thank you a million times for your representation of a real Queen that makes me so grateful to be a Black Woman! I will share these gems with my granddaughters. Much love and respect. I am a fan for life…Denise from Philadelphia P.S. please tell me how to give super thanks

[@DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES]

It's, beneath the video on the right side of the screen, Ma.

[@Creyole]

@@DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES Thank you so much. I appreciate your help👍🏾

[@ultratech1534]

Creyole Girl!!!!!! I feel the same way. I love this Classy Black woman . She is the epitome of style & class.Have a great day.

[@cherylbowen52]

I'm with you ladies. I can't even remember how I discovered Fumi, but I'm so glad I did. I'm 65 and been around the block a few times myself so believe me when I tell you that this Queen on point!! Much ❤️ Fumination!!

[@ChatsWithChris]

How lucky are we that you give us this information for free!

[@gldnglow]

My mother told me family & friends will only remember the bad you tell them and harp on it.

[@ThePatriciaPatrick]

Aaahhh as for the complaining forget it. It’s the fastest way to get them out of the door. If you are in your 20’s listening to this and learning from Aunty Fumi, you have hit gold😃❤️❤️

[@ayong.fejeck8111]

You are the queen Keeping your business between both of you is all it takes It’s a complete turn off The worst is the over caring and over calling Encroaching into your personal space. Every one needs that special at some point but some people don’t understand because you are in a relationship they think they own you .

[@ayong.fejeck8111]

The funny part is when you are at work and they keep saying oh you don’t love me. I come first before every thing that’s crazy lol and a losers mind set

[@DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES]

The interesting thing is that these tips will work EVEN IN a marriage! It was on this channel i began to realize how simple men really are. We need women like these to reinforce what our mothers have taught us. No man needs a clingy, busybody woman for a life partner. Lovely episode, Aunty Fumi

[@louillemakeup]

I agree Fumi on the essentials. But I always keep in mind that I am me, with my personality and that I have my standards too. it is also a question of compromise.

[@harryschlitz4067]

Omg…Auntie Fumi, THIS Video hits this issue right on the Mark. EVERY young Lady turning 18 should be required to watch this video. I mean it.☀️👍💜

[@mishapatter9049]

Auntie Fumi you're always on point with advice.😇

[@tammi67able]

Every bit is excellent advice that Iv’e always lived by. Congratulations on your 14 years! You look so beautiful and blessed as always. God bless you.

[@bene_dictions6592]

You never disappoint big sister Fumi!!! Thank you so much for teaching us how to be high value women ❤❤❤

[@queenie4837]

Looking fabulous as usual Fumi. Thank you...xx

[@tammi67able]

Yes she is as always

[@opheliaakwetey]

Much love from Ghana!😍

[@MsTrish3520]

Agree, have your social life, money and skills. Men do look for stability, good mothers and character. Divorce, Death, Job Loss, Illness will come.

[@mula.a]

I had to learn many of these things from experience especially talking to friends. I am glad my man was very patient,, and still is.

[@keshbancroft7431]

Just found your Chanel and I loveeee it. On the path to becoming a high value woman and your tips are amazing

[@precioushopia3218]

God bless you mummy Fumi

[@tobigloryy]

I'm your newest fan Aunty Fumi, you always crack me up. Wisdom tips here, thank you

[@charitybrown05]

My Big Aunt fumigation. I'm learning a lot. My relationship will not be ruined. God bless you.

[@eberlinschwinn5634]

Absolutely spot on. Brilliant. Your nation should listen.

[@ceecope3797]

Thanks!

[@mirabelclip2026]

Fumi is such a QUEEN.... have really learnt a lot from you since I started watching your videos for the passed few weeks thanks hun

[@jayadayvonmcgee7547]

Yes! You are 1000% right. I've been married to my husband for 29yrs and that's what works

[@rhondawilson2494]

Very informative, I love when we as women want to lift each other up in a positive, respectful way. Keep sharing Fumi💃👏🤎

[@BayouBellePhDBe]

You hit the nail on the head with this one!

[@ogomsseries]

The way you keep a straight face and a smile I between is lit👌👌👌👌if you are in a relationship then it requires the two of you,don't take your relationship issues outside. All the advices are on point.

[@vaclinciapounds8859]

You hit the nail on its head with everything you said Mother Fumi!! You have to set boundaries and you are not responsible for anyone else's happiness! This video is the truth!!! ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕 🙌🏾 👏🏽

[@towhommuchisgiven5981]

Yesss❤Dahhhling ❤We❤Love❤

[@lizzieovermeyer2986]

Well said Fumi!! And as always ; to the point! Take note fumination, take note!!

[@msdepree7950]

Yessssss! You are sooooo “corrective” without being “offensive.” I APPRECIATE you! 👏🏽👏🏽❤️❤️🎉🎉

[@silviacheptoo3973]

Subscribing to your channel is one of the best decision that i made this year.

[@abiecb]

😂😂😂That part when Fumi is taking about her friend Cynthia

[@lorihudson6892]

Yes you hit it on the nail again... thank you Fumi 😊

[@waleskagracia4891]

This episode was FACTS!!!! Loved it!❤

[@babydollkincaid4584]

So true💞

[@Iambajanpeach]

Great advice, I tell my girls this all the time!

[@saibay.a8574]

That hair braid! Hunnnnney! Tutorial?

[@Jooniey87]

Grateful for these lessons... I'm motivated to do better, to start over, a complete overhaul if need be. You're a true blessing Aunty Fumi.

[@TheNOchick]

A WOMAN OF CLASS TEACHING SO MUCH CLASS WOW JUST WOW FUMI

[@rutheises4156]

Aunty Fums!!! We need a video for the long term relationships... the ones with children, the ones where it appears that everyone is "comfortable". How does one keep growing and keep him on his toes.. It brings the video of Natalie Clarice to mind where she says, "don't let your long term boyfriend keep you from your husband" 😀😃

[@nantumeprossy9398]

Aunt fumi your a blessing to us the fumination.thank u so much dia

[@kosewa1]

Thank you for the advice Fumi!!!! The top/ dress is beautiful!!!

[@evelynsithole1753]

Aunt Fumi we need more of this kind of content😊❤️

[@peacockhomestead9741]

Loving your energy Fumi!🥰💖💖💖💖

[@revam612]

I'm in total agreement with this video. Thanks for making it.

[@doreenbayoa3829]

Love it its only two of u talk things out

[@doreenbayoa3829]

That's me sms,what's up all times 😂

[@doreenbayoa3829]

Thanks mama bear am learning

[@angelankem6345]

Your teaching is top notch 😅❤

[@saibay.a8574]

Thank you Auntie Fumi 💖💓🥰🕊️ sending love from a Sudanese sister!

[@rhondagoodwin5711]

Your intro makes me smile each time. That animated bold strutting woman, tickles me much....😊😘

[@talldarkandlovely5882]

new subscriber!! all the way from South Africa 🇿🇦

[@haleyclarke1332]

The "too much complaining" is a turn off indeed😒.

[@makwarimba]

Thank you so much Aunty Fumi!❤

[@katlegomhlauli8423]

Oh my goodness the first tip about friends is so true and I learned that the hard way…

[@85amil]

Fumi you could make a book of advice based off of your KZbin videos alone!

[@marcialewis7581]

Yes, my sister. Compliment! Stop complaining.

[@carolcamper4737]

Last time you checked he is not a therapist Love it LOL

[@keziahjonah3719]

I'm guilty of point 3...he even told me im doing too much🙆‍♀️🤦

[@eleniprovia7667]

I cherish and appreciate your words of wisdom Fumi 🙏🙏🙏

[@ppinnock4725]

Always a blessing Mrs. Fumi.

[@Nikita_848]

You are amazing. Love the energy and your videos! Thank you.

[@nandiescouch5509]

I like this advice. Especially 😅the 1st one about not mixing our partners and friends. I don’t do it, either. Our relationship is only for us and I’m glad that my friends respect us ☝🏽🥰

[@katlegomhlauli8423]

Oh my God… aunty Fumi I do all those and now that you mentioned it when we are together he always seems extremely exhausted and out of it almost distant in fact like his bored

[@karlota71]

First to comment: Fumi, you are just sensational

[@jacksyer1649]

You are brilliant!

[@lucyachieng3271]

I'm happy and greatful I found your channel

[@sharonstevens8032]

Thanks Sister Fumi, I always learn something new when you speak. Keep up the good work! 👍

[@millaaa1542]

Love it!!! Next video, Tips For married woman Please!!

[@constancelewis6065]

Thank you for the tips. 😊❤️

[@chidinmaezeilo3165]

You're so practical Aunty Fumi.. Thanks a lot. Love from 🇳🇬Nigeria

[@lindylilsfavour28]

Thank you Fumi ! God bless you ❤️

[@gcinamkhize5473]

You are such a beautiful woman! Thanks Fumz! 🙏😍⚘

[@fisf.2148]

Let's get Aunty Funmi to 500k subscribers 🥰

[@tcoleman6167]

This is so good!

[@davinarichard5121]

I really love your channel your advice is helping me.

[@lolamaven3971]

Always dropping gems ❤

[@conetiathabangchiloane2516]

As he is not a therapist 🤣🤣...I love you so much fumi. What you say it's true

[@Cantetinza17]

My former husband used to not only tell our business, bit over-exaggerated or straight up lied. 🙄🤥

[@LadyEsther001]

Thank you so much ma, you are blessed

[@andreadavis1388]

Auntie Fumi is dropping gems 💎♥️

[@impactfully5714]

Well said Fumi. I agree with your message. My son, slept on my for the first 6 months too 😂

[@chiratidzotinago4912]

Thank you so much Fumi 🙏you are my best

[@gratitude8107]

Guilt as charged for sharing with friends but my sister taught me in the last relationship that I don't have to share everything. Just letting them know I have someone in my life is enough

[@evettewalker1133]

Like always you never disappoint thank you for sharing Shalom 🕊💐💐💐💐💐💐💐

[@eliteiamfly]

That lipstick looks absolutely fabulous on you ❤🎉

[@zainababdulmajeed9931]

Thank you Aunty Fumi 💜💜💜 This is an eye opener 🤯🤯🤯

[@sandywilkins4908]

Thank you Fumi

[@theobaepanye9179]

Preach Fumi preach♥

[@edenabuohieneunice1029]

Best coach ever 💙 love you ma ❤

[@Godschild622]

Love your message Fumi! ❤

[@gracejm4591]

Fumi thanks for all the positive advice you are a great Woman, I do appreciate you.

[@aboktv6055]

Thanks and God bless you for these tips

[@jessicaadai7882]

Thank you Auntie Funmi

[@kateena1621]

Hey funmi,I just subscribed to your youtube channel and I just love your vibe and positive energy already.

[@Jerseygirl_J]

I agree everything you are saying 👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️

[@katiamervil3143]

Big Sis I’m not dating yet but 😂I will use this advice for future reference 😊

[@Flowers408]

“You’re doing the most” , I feel so attacked 😭