FUNNY || Ustaadh Teaches About 2nd Wife Conditions & Gay Marriage | Ustaadh Abu Taymiyyah

[@n-v5m]

Even when messing around Muslims would still a الله المستعان i love my religion, so wholesome

[@Karachiking45]

3:50 my favourite scene your reaction ustadh 😂😂😂😆

[@hs-wo9ke]

Sheikh, there is a reason why woman often don’t want to be polygamous marriages. Some times men will use that as an excuse to cheat or treat her unfairly. Our frustration and discomfort with jokes about this isn’t pulled from thin air, there’s a reason for it. There is nothing wrong with polygamy, but only if it is truly practiced with the best intentions and efforts. Every true muslim just wants a marriage full of love and respect, it that too much to ask for?

[@haraamtohalaal]

Truth

[@issobeesaw1705]

@King Sultan brother she has been very respectful and even though I dont agree, you dont have to insult the sister. the sunnah of the prophet is the often the opposite, compassion. So please let's try and follow the sunnah of the prophet Assalamualaikum

[@ebrahimi44]

I seek refuge with Allah from disobeying his legislation and command because Allah is the all knowing the all wise. While death is not far behind us why complain about the affairs of this world?

[@hijabmary4814]

@@ebrahimi44 that’s like saying why have money when it’s ganna leave us. To survive that’s how. Why are you going to break your wife for desires

[@hijabmary4814]

@@issobeesaw1705 why wouldn’t you agree to what she said

[@مريمنح]

Hahahaha,when my hubby wanted to marry a second wife, I cried for almost three months hahahahaha now I realized it's even the best thing that could ever happen to me

[@saral9817]

Please elaborate

[@musaddiqibrahim6878]

3 months!? Howcome?

[@hussainsharmin661]

Did he marry then

[@hussainsharmin661]

@@musaddiqibrahim6878 what

[@saral9817]

@@musaddiqibrahim6878 this kinda stuff can really hurt women, especially if there isnt good communication in the relationship and the woman feels replaced/not good enough etc. U gotta be wise with these things women are fragile. Im not gonna put no 2nd wife on my marriage contract as ots something Allah has allowed and there is wisdom to it but ik it will probably hurt me and I'll be jealous. I do wish it was more normalized in our society tho

[@ummjunayd1511]

If a man is saying that he probably wants to be polygamous anyways so just call it off and move on to other candidates. ALOT of brothers are fine with it in real life despite how loud minority are on social media. I promise lol. But the few who are not tend to think no man will ever agree looool. Also don’t try to be crafty. Bring up the fact that you intend to stipulate this right from the beginning so that if he’s not on the same page you don’t have to waste your time. You can move on quicker Inshaa’Allaah. And most importantly, if you’re VERY sure it’s what you want, then ask Allāh for a monogamous husband that will never put you in that situation OFTEN and seek refuge with Allāh from being tested with that situation. If a guy is being very combatant about it or trying to add all these clauses that make it ineffective clearly he doesn’t want to agree. Don’t try to force him. Take the hint and move on immediately.

[@saral9817]

Insha'Allah I will not be putting on my marriage contract that he can't take a second wife. Its a right from Allah.

[@wealthwisdom1656]

barakallahu feek

[@sarahosman9030]

@King Sultan 😂😂😂😂 is this the same sultan??? I thought polygany was a man’s right no matter what?

[@Ikhomjon]

MashaAllah sister, if my future wife was to say I can't take a 2nd wife, I would not marry her altogether, cause unacceptance of polygamy says alot about her iman

[@strivinghope]

@@Ikhomjon Just because a woman doesn’t personally want a polygynous marriage for herself doesn’t mean she lacks in emaan. Women are all different. Some are more emotional and sensitive than others, some are thicker skinned and able to handle a polygynous marriage. Just because Allah has created some women sensitive and they aren’t as emotionally strong for a polygynous marriage, it doesn’t mean that they are rejecting polygyny as a practice within Islam or that they don’t support it. In Islam we are allowed to have preferences. There’s a reason why the scholars allowed it to be a condition. Some women are very sensitive and cannot emotionally and mentally handle it. Therefore, it could cause mental hurt/harm to them. Please do not equate that to a deficiency within her emaan. The Prophet (ﷺ) prohibited Ali (رضي الله عنه) from marrying a second wife while his daughter Fatimah (رضي الله عنها) was still alive, because of the emotional harm it might do to her. Shaykh Salih al Fawzaan said: “A woman’s dislike of polygamy by her husband is a natural disliking and it’s not a disliking/hate of the legislation of Allah.” It’s very hurtful if you’re saying a girl whose extra sensitive has lower emaan because she cannot personally handle polygyny for herself. May Allah guide you and the rest of us, ameen. ‎ الله أعلم

[@mohammedalamin9118]

@@strivinghope no one had an extra sensitivity tho its totally normal for all women to dislike that however the strength of some women in faith and piety is what will prevent them from posing such thing in the contract

[@ChErRyaVe20pK]

To those that didnt get it: You can add a clause to the contract, that if she screams, then her condition breaks and you may take a second wife since it broke 😂. You can add as many clauses as you want. Of course hes just joking around lol.

[@haraamtohalaal]

We hope

[@haraamtohalaal]

But my question is more than keeping healthy good relation with wife. Doing tarbiyah of children. Providing from halal Seeking knowledge. And giving dawah. Why don't people try to fix these things rather than adding responsibilities.. I have seen mans where they really feel happy to talk about many marriage. But why they don't talk about the responsibilities too. Taking care of education of their children. N many more things

[@sameehabashir6778]

Where can we watch the full lecture??

[@snowworld1641]

I feel sometimes women get the short end of the stick. A woman may not be sexually satisfied with her husband as he has other wives and he is too busy or tired or doesn't care. (We know many Muslims husbands do not care about their wives' pleasure). Such a woman won't leave her husband because she has his children. What good is she getting out of this?

[@naturallybeautiful1344]

I guess I will not be shouting for lifetime,😅😅😅

[@مريمنح]

Hahaha I wish you all the best...........

[@Amina-Al-Waaili]

😂😂😂

[@haraamtohalaal]

😂😂😂sis. This got me

[@RakhtanQ]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 May Allah preserve you

[@bnbagain4304]

yena mol bozi

[@kamleshjashnani93]

My name is Kamlesh, I am a 29year old Muslim revert, accepted Islam last year. I am Chartered Accountant by qualification. I have moved to UK last year in August 2022. I am looking for a revert Muslimah to get married. Please let me know if you know any sister or any revert Muslimah who are looking to get married are interested to discuss this further, I believe there is no harm in having a decent conversation. As I am revert, I prefer having a revert wife as she understands the struggle and the challenges. Best regards Kamlesh Jashnani (Muhammad Yousef)

[@fulaan8784]

😂😂😂 May Allah preserve our Sheikh

[@msabri3417]

Love the disclaimer

[@procalla9107]

Anyone know where the full video to this is ?

[@phoenixknight8837]

Smooth. Mashallah tabarakallah.

[@ilovegod5339]

Now no women would dare to shout at her husband if he makes this a clause in her condition😂

[@ilovegod5339]

@reichstag I’m not sure, I’ve never heard of this. I believe you have to make the clause before the nikkah as when she sets the conditions. Perhaps look it up on islamQA or ask a scholar like sheikh Assim Al Hakeem

[@Shahid-if4ws]

Surah Aal-e-Imran, Verse 2: اللَّهُ لَا إِلَٰهَ إِلَّا هُوَ الْحَيُّ الْقَيُّومُ Allah, (there is) no god but He, the Everliving, the Self-subsisting by Whom all things subsist Surah Aal-e-Imran, Verse 3: نَزَّلَ عَلَيْكَ الْكِتَابَ بِالْحَقِّ مُصَدِّقًا لِّمَا بَيْنَ يَدَيْهِ وَأَنزَلَ التَّوْرَاةَ وَالْإِنجِيلَ He has revealed to you the Book with truth, verifying that which is before it, and He revealed the Taurat and the Injeel previously. Surah Aal-e-Imran, Verse 4: مِن قَبْلُ هُدًى لِّلنَّاسِ وَأَنزَلَ الْفُرْقَانَ إِنَّ الَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا بِآيَاتِ اللَّهِ لَهُمْ عَذَابٌ شَدِيدٌ وَاللَّهُ عَزِيزٌ ذُو انتِقَامٍ Aforetime, as a guidance to mankind, and it is He who has bestowed the standard by which to discern the true from the false. Surely they who disbelieve in the communications of Allah they shall have a severe chastisement; and Allah is Mighty, the Lord of retribution. Surah Aal-e-Imran, Verse 5: إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يَخْفَىٰ عَلَيْهِ شَيْءٌ فِي الْأَرْضِ وَلَا فِي السَّمَاءِ Allah -- surely nothing is hidden from Him in the earth or in the heaven. Surah Aal-e-Imran, Verse 6: هُوَ الَّذِي يُصَوِّرُكُمْ فِي الْأَرْحَامِ كَيْفَ يَشَاءُ لَا إِلَٰهَ إِلَّا هُوَ الْعَزِيزُ الْحَكِيمُ He it is Who shapes you in the wombs as He likes; there is no god but He, the Mighty, the Wise via iQuran Beautiful Recitation of the above Verses; kzbin.info/www/bejne/rnuYYqqYpqqad80

[@hukmmalayalam5254]

watching from kerala

[@Karachiking45]

Watching from delhi salam ya akhi in Islam

[@anoniem012]

Es Selamu aleykum we Rahmetullahi we Berakētuh watching from The Netherlands

[@AhmedMohamed-vf6nl]

@hukm malayalam I salute you brother. I am somali who lives in Canada and here I have some good brothers from Kerala masha allah.

[@hukmmalayalam5254]

@@AhmedMohamed-vf6nl I will share with you something. when I watch videos from UK like speakers corner, lectures of Abu taymiyyah, I feel very good, like....the masjid are packed, youth is present, every khutbah can be understood by everyone, all are praying, I cant beleive your living in a kafir country, barakkallahulakum

[@AhmedMohamed-vf6nl]

@@hukmmalayalam5254 Masha Allah brother, yes there are a lot of muslims who are adherent to islam in the west. When I came to Canada, I realized nim'atul islam even more masha allah.

[@Hamdevi]

This is the point.

[@anoniem012]

For brothers who didn't hear like me: if she write clause to not to marry 2nd wife. You should write a clause saying that if she shouts, her condition that you can't get a second wife breaks. So either you get a wife who always easy and never shouts, or she breaks once her clause and you can expand. I think that's what I understood. And Allah knows Best.

[@anoniem012]

He said also you can add more clauses

[@hijabmary4814]

I think he was joking about the yelling part so no

[@fozzt]

Well a woman can right more then can't she? It's quite silly

[@TheDevil939]

@@hijabmary4814no he wasn’t

[@azizaahmad9249]

الحمد لله حاضر وجزاكم الله خيرا

[@Luladey1]

If she ever shouts it breaks hahaha

[@randomjoy8411]

Dude check the arguments of the jumhoor Re stipulating conditions in the nikaah contract.

[@just_akh4694]

Can someone mention what video this clip was taken from?

[@Blackca_yaya]

Where can i find the full video?

[@longegg-wind9577]

Masjid Imam an Nawawi 💪💪

[@anoniem012]

What was the glitch I didn't hear something about her screaming??

[@saidharthi2223]

Abu Taymiyyah tech us your tajweed/telawah please

[@Murkser]

great advice bro haha

[@ctgal9698]

It cannot be forced upon a wife to accept a spouse's second and so on wives, she has rights as well and can file for divorce. This subject has to be approached with much respect and consideration to the initial wife. These are serious life decisions which can cause adverse marital and family issues

[@offroadandfun]

Machallah brother

[@meghdirlynda5366]

Do to others what you want for yourself

[@mehmet20003]

Treat and do for others what Allah wants not what the people do

[@LowlierThanThow]

This behaviour takes away the reverence from the house of Allah, His shari'ah and the subject matter. When did our mosques get taken over my the emotionally and spiritually immature???

[@anoniem012]

Ah I understand I think: When she adds condition forbidden to marry 2nd wife. You should add clause that if the screams its invalid (the conditions), and you can add more clauses. In this way you either have no screaming wife or that the condition not been set.

[@Azhar_shaikh1]

I don't understand why someone would marry a girl who puts these clauses in her nikah contract. There are many women who act like Allah made them, naturally! And now westernised. If someone marry this kinda girl , the blame is on him

[@anoniem012]

Brother you should know that it is hard, to share someone who you really love. So it's kind of gheerah which they have. That is not bad it prevents from zina if she cares, and when one of them does it they do it all like sheep's. But regarding something that is beneficial for Ummah to have many children and marriages. It's indeed not smart to marry such a woman.

[@ChErRyaVe20pK]

Every woman is jealous of her husband taking a second wife. It is in their nature and its okay. I dont think this is something we should judge them for. If they cant share their husband, its their right to add this condition.

[@taimurahmad]

Nope. If she is jealous she accepts Allah's ruling

[@ef2883]

hahah that was pretty funny

[@BarcaBasto]

*Disclaimer is Gangster*

[@toptnz7440]

Mashallah

[@BKAYS]

سبحان الله

[@burhanrashidhussein6037]

Amazing i

[@Imonederful]

Fair trade if you ask me 😊

[@محمودحسن-غ1ك1ث]

Sheikh jazakallah kahir .. but can you make your audience quite whilst in Allah's house cuz there is a hàdith that goes any one who makes problems or noise or dirty the mosque etc that person is getting cursed by the brick that is built,let alone the angels so kindly no noise or shouting... cuh ( its sole purpose the mosque was built for what it was ment for

[@manarchaaban-baccora3784]

It’s not funny at all to joke about taking up a second wife.

[@arsalan4716]

I didnt get IT 💔

[@monaishfaq6442]

Me neither!

[@anoniem012]

I study IT and I didn't get also, something about screaming, when she screama you can divorce? But idk what it has to do with marrying second or third or fourth wife.

[@anoniem012]

Ah I understand: When she adds condition forbidden to marry 2nd wife. You should add clause that if the screams its invalid (the conditions), and you can add more clauses. In this way you either have no screaming wife or that the condition not been set.

[@sophiejuliaaa]

@@anoniem012 I’m pretty sure he was joking at the shouting part brother

[@anoniem012]

@@sophiejuliaaa aahaa

[@hussainsharmin661]

I will write on marriage contract that he can't get sec wife loll

[@somebodyy32]

Me too inshallah

[@hussainsharmin661]

@@somebodyy32 awww

[@hussainsharmin661]

@reichstag why would it break I'd she shouts

[@Azhar_shaikh1]

Then The person who'll marry you will be like a simp, most probably not a rea lman

[@hussainsharmin661]

@@Connect_with_Yourself yeah sister

[@farhiafarah6954]

Nonseseseeeeeseseses, girl boy man young madam women.who is somebidy took farhiashappiness wonderful young women and and nonseseseeeeeeeee.

[@anoniem012]

Triggered? Chose your deen islam or non-muslim way of life

[@anonymousnoticer]

whats up with you djinni why did you possess farhia

[@SlaveofAllahhh]

too funny loll

[@themechanic1968]

😂😂😂😂❤️

[@sosman747]

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[@fs5297]

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[@farhiafarah6954]

Block.block.nonseseeeeeses ever and and and.who.

[@mufunyiibrahim3655]

Marriage has been corrupted so let everyone do whatever they feel is good for them. The more we preach what is good the more things get worst

[@pearlsofjannah6438]

Wake up

[@bintjamiel2873]

We are an Ummah that enjoins good and forbids evil. Not an Ummah of ghaflah

[@zk321]

so if someone kills their entire family and it makes them feel good should I do it?

[@NoNames824]

@@zk321 good point! 💪🏾

[@keiferneverland5501]

Ustadh Abu Taymiyyah speaks so alng sometimes.. BarakAllahu Alei... Did he say "If the wife stipulates YOU CAN'T'.. or "YOU CAN ??"

[@hijabmary4814]

He said you can’t

[@wealthwisdom1656]

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[@y.f.y-e8y]

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[@ef2883]

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[@NightWarrior972]

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[@fatushabani7555]

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