Gabby Bernstein on Becoming a Super Attractor: You Don’t Have to Work So Hard to Get What You Want

[@marieforleo]

Ready to become a super attractor in your own life? Use these quick links to catch the highlights: 2:58 - What does it mean to be a “super attractor”? 7:18 - Why reaching for better - even negative - emotions can get you out of a funk. 9:59 - How to reframe any negative thought in just three steps. 12:50 - How Gabby leveraged an angry Facebook comment - and saved a life. 17:08 - One limiting belief that holds you back and how to release it. 20:31 - What it looks like to ask for intuitive guidance. What’s next? Watch this playlist to strengthen your mind and soul: kzbin.info/aero/PLF09676920DB8DB33

[@ashliewarner151]

I love the idea of the "appreciation game"! I teach 3rd grade at a low income school and many of my students come from homes with serious trauma. Every day we have a morning meeting and I have them go around the circle and give their partner a positive greeting. Usually, I have the whole class say the same thing such as, "I think you are a great friend". This week I am going to have them think of things they appreciate about each other and we are going to share this in our morning meeting. So many of my students come to school stressed out, angry and they don't trust anyone. I see the results of positive affirmations used throughout our school day. The kids begin to soften and they look forward to coming to school because they know they are loved and they are given a safe place to express their love for others. Thank you for the inspiration!

[@ewaklein9318]

Ashlie, thank you for the inspiration! 🙏

[@gabriellebernstein]

Love this conversation. So happy to see it's helping people. 💜

[@AllInWellness]

Loved this Gabby - thank you!!

[@MonicaSancio]

Thank you, Gabby! Love how you just achieve everything, wow! 💐🤗Congrats, and thank Marie for such a great interview! xoxo 🙌💜

[@ryanallen9168]

Love this Gabby. This was exactly what I needed to hear!! Perfect alignment.

[@PilatesbyGina]

I’m on Chapter 2 of Super Attractor on the audible version. It is really amazing. Makes me feel like you are right in my living room kicking my booty with truths.

[@MarizeteDaSilva]

Gabby every time I read one of your books I become more inspired and proud of your journey as a spiritual leader. Love you my friend :)

[@lizvinson2897]

Marie + Gabby = PERFECTION. I love you both. Thank you for what you do. I appreciate you both.

[@SarahDeshaw]

Liz Vinson They are amazing!✨

[@rebeccaalexandermeditation1377]

It is refreshing to know that one step up is a start…any movement is progress…. Not to overwhelming ourselves with instant progress

[@TeamForleo]

Absolutely! Small steps can create incredible progress. :) You can do it! - Monauar, Team Forleo

[@Lindsweightloss]

Every morning I wake up BELIEVING that this day is going to be a good day! Beginning with this mindset, sets the mood for the rest of the day! ❤️

[@SarahDeshaw]

I love that, so inspiring!

[@Lindsweightloss]

@@SarahDeshaw Thank you Sarah, I wish you all the best! :)

[@intentionalliving7326]

🤗☀️✨✨

[@graceeehan]

Gabby Bernstein 3-step choose again method step 1. Witness the fear-based thought 2. Forgive the thought 3. Ask the universe for guidance to reframe

[@Vivemejor-Eli]

grace Sihan simple yet extremely powerful

[@suzic4521]

grace Sihan - A Course in Miracles (in action) 😊

[@rachelhope3161]

Love this

[@dilciayadiraberti4260]

“To decide to feel good “ That was so powerful and revealing for me. Magic words.

[@roadtojoy8037]

Me too. Those words changed my life.

[@YouTips4U]

You’re terrific Gabby, and you work hard to put out love and to try to help people. There is clear evidence of that. Don’t take the negativity personally, it’s not about you, it’s about them. It’s their point of view which is only based on their own beliefs and life experiences. Don’t let their thoughts become your thoughts. You have your own beliefs and life experiences. You don’t even know them and they don’t know you, so they are really just dealing with themselves. Focus on the light. ❤️xo Linda

[@pedallovecommunications]

I am over the moon with joy that Gabby is bringing Abraham + Esther to a whole new generation + audience, and that Marie focused on it in the interview. Thank you. This was a wonderful, super useful session that I was very much guided to. In total love & appreciation. Melissa

[@GardeningSpirit]

the part about honoring our fear is a big one for me. i had emergency eye surgery to save my sight and it came out of the blue. it knocked me down physically and emotionally. i am working so hard on triggers and the idea of honoring the fear is a good one to hear. just found you and Gabby on youtube and i'm soaking it all in like a sponge. i have much work to do and much alignment to work on.

[@martazapata2610]

This is my first time listening to this channel...this is a synchonicity...I was guided to listen to this message!!!! Thank you....🙌🏽💫🌠🤩

[@KellieTaylor11]

My takeaway was about appreciation. I have an child that has Sotos Syndrome as well as Autism and needless to say our days can be very difficult. Anything that throws us off schedule can throw him into a major temper tantrum. My son is high functioning enough that he can be unsupervised in the mornings while I sleep. Every night I write his schedule and a draw a heart with a message of "I love you", or anyone else in the family. Today, I have decided to write him a paragaph every night telling him the unique things that we love about him so that he'll wake up with messages of positivity surrounding him.

[@alexbaker9384]

This is probably the most genuine interview ever seen you do Marie. I’ve been following both of you for a very long time and it’s amazing to see how much you guys have grown. It’s 4 AM and I really needed something. I asked God and he brought me to this interview, thank you! This interview it’s more helpful than you’ll ever know. By the way, I’m buying both of my daughters your book Gabby...Great content

[@marieforleo]

We so appreciate you sharing this experience and your time with us, Alex. Wishing you and your daughters all the best. - Team Forleo

[@melsparkles]

Every morning at 7.30 I have a message on my phone to remind me of positive qualities to focus on. After hearing Gabby say "appreciation dissolves the boundaries of fear", I have updated my morning message. That is perfect. Thanks Ladies:-)

[@marieforleo]

Love this simple action, Mel. AWESOME work! - Team Forleo

[@beaspada1166]

What I got out of this video is the importance of staying on high vibration! Thank You!

[@Skyrunner2]

This was my homework today. Precisely the message I needed. Loved so many lessons on this interview, but the one that stood most was "honouring our fear rather than resisting it. Honouring the moments in our life that are most uncomfortable, because they reveal to us the light we're ready to step into." There's so much profound wisdom on these words. And doing so is the ultimate surrrender. I've been in a dark place for months, and recently-a couple of weeks ago to be precise- made the decision to choose new (my version of deciding to feel good). While I still fall often down the rabbit hole with negative thoughts, self judgement and criticism; I've noticed I'm getting back up much faster than before. I started with listening to interviews of Brené Brown on braving greatly and vulnerability. Oprah and her super soul Sunday show. And these days following with Marie's interviews of so many great people including Gabby as well. Just got her latest book Happy Days and it's the divine intervention I am needing to get out of the space I've been. Slowly (not so slowly) moving up the ladder of feelings. Thank you both Marie and Gabby. Love ❤️

[@xbayha]

The feeling chart is amazing! It's a visual goal for feelings...I love it. For me it's basically a to do list of the next best feeling. Instead of trying to jump from anger to gratitude, and failing and getting frustrated I can move up the scale appropriately. Simple yet powerful. Thanks Gabby & Marie! XOXO

[@sat.shikha]

I love how Gabby mentioned synchronicity! I have been intentionally choosing the path of joy and really focused on feeling good, and I saw this video in my sidebar and felt guided to watch it. It is such a confirmation of what I am practicing and embodying in my own life right now! Thank you :)

[@ChristmasHillBilly]

"Appreciation creates more of what you want." I think that we forget to appreciate the life we have. The goods, the greats and the not so goods. I believe that in every day there is something to appreciate. Even if it is that someone smiled at you today, appreciate it and use the power that gives you to move up the 'feeling better/more positive/more love' scale. Use what you've got. Be grateful, even if it's only for that one smile.

[@TinaBrinkleyPottsrocks]

As working mamas we need to know that We are also important! Not just as a business woman or a Mother but also as an individual! An individual who needs to and deserves to feel good! YES! The first step is to DECIDE to feel good and work towards it, whatever it may take! Such an insightful conversation! More power to both of you.

[@Buffyh9142]

Found this interview today - a day when I woke up to my mom needing to go to the hospital. She couldn’t walk and I went right into love. I am an avid Abraham follower and being so aligned, I saw the good in what happened today. I could write a dozen things that went right today! If I hadn’t been aligned, I would immediately look for the negative. And, since hospitals are notoriously slow, I found this talk. I felt so connected with it. My very first Gabrielle introduction. As soon as I leave here, I’ll be off to the bookstore! Being compassionate and nurturing is joyful!

[@marieforleo]

Sending you and your Mom lots of love and good vibes, Buffy. - Team Forleo

[@pampemberton7450]

Thank you

[@moniquejackson7741]

Wow,... I could finally get something out of Gabby's work! Until this moment and this video, I couldn't hear or wasn't ready to hear Gabby; but there is something about the two of you together. I especially love how you brought it down to Earth and talked about how it's not about feeling good 24/7 because that's impossible, but about finding what takes us to a higher emotion when we need it. I especially love how Gabby said that it's when we're at our lowest that we need to work the hardest to find a better feeling thought. I have always found Abraham teachings way to complicated, but you guys brought it down to a much more absorbable level. Thank you! :)

[@HealthyLife-tx2xo]

My biggest take away is about appreciation - even in the hardest moments. My daughter (18) suffers from severe mental health issues since 2013. It has been absolutely draining at times, but since shifting to focusing on what I appreciate about her in the moments she's not having a panic attack or crisis or suicidal/self-harming... I see things start to shift. I shared the link to this video for her - not sure she'll listen to it, but as her mom I'll do my best to model the attitude of gratitude and appreciation to hopefully continue to shift things in the right direction so that she can start to feel good again! Thank you!! I'll be getting Gabby's book as soon as I'm done listening to yours Marie :) (Everything IS figureoutable)!

[@marieforleo]

We're sending both of you lots of love. You're an amazing Mom. xo- Team Forleo

[@AliciaSalazarDesigns]

Thank you Marie Forleo and Gabrielle Bernstein for this wonderful interview. I believe that we are guided and you spoke about everything that I needed to be reminded of. So grateful and I appreciate it both of you so much.

[@RobertaWest]

After 2 years dealing with post-partum depression, deciding to do whatever it takes to get out of it was the start of getting better...so true Gabby!

[@marieforleo]

Sending you a hug, Roberta. You're amazing. xo - Team Forleo

[@practical.emotions]

Thank you so much for your candidness Gabby! It’s giving other people permission to also feel rejected and rise above it. When people are harsh to you, know It’s often not about you at all-you might remind them of a time/person or themselves bc you are raw and their rawness doesn’t feel good as they haven’t loved themselves and those areas yet. I I honestly really love your rawness, and Marie’s lately of her old workaholic identity. You both give people permission to fall down, not get it right and still be accepted and loved. I actually used to be triggered myself by you-you remind me physically and the tone of your voice both remind of my one and only sister. We had a falling out where love was not known and I have really worked on the forgiveness piece with her and loving all those parts of myself that I don’t like as well. I only find love in my heart now for my sister and the bitterness is gone. I have so much love for you now that I’ve shifted. Thank you for your voice, for trusting the Universe’s small whisper, and for the difference you are constantly making, even if you don’t always see it physically daily. P.S., my roommate and closet friend that feels like a sister-is currently reading your book ‘The Universe Has Your Back’ and it is changing her on the inside out. Much love to you.❤️❤️

[@GreenTurtle181]

That wanting to feel better is a step by step guide. How sensible and wise. Loved whole of this talk.

[@BeenieTV]

My dynamic badass grandma passed away a year ago and it broke my heart. She comes in my dreams but I sometimes "fear" talking to her and asking for guidance, I do it anyway but apprehensively. From this video and the story that Gabby shared I'm going to continue to ask grandma for guidance and get fully comfortable with that. Thank You! Marie + Gabby ya'll are the OG's of all of this! Blessings!

[@gabriellebernstein]

There's a whole chapter in Super Attractor about how to connect with your guides, including deceased family members and friends. xoxo

[@orianagalardi-este9211]

Love that. I ask for guidance all the time.

[@Gia.Goodrich]

This was exactly what I needed to hear today. I love you both, thank you for everything!

[@harmony1910]

Wow I love these two powerful women!!

[@ibrahimjabati6768]

Gabby is so right I have been through it. To be become an attractor you have to feel good inside. When in such mood, you glow with joy that you can't explain and this influence people around you the way you positively relate to them. The problem is such a mood is elusive ! Getting it to stay is a major task.

[@gurugloria4545]

Very Empowering !! That’s What is All About Recognize You Have The Power To Transform any Felling in good Vibration to Grow ad Joyful

[@toniak7668]

Keeping this one “Being grateful does not mean we have to be happy about everything, but grateful for the lessons. We can accept that even the tough moments are divine lessons that guide us back to love.” and going to journal about a romantic experience I had today, and what I learned. Love to you all 🙌💗

[@marieforleo]

Sending you love, Tonia. Thank you for being here and sharing that with us. - Team Forleo

[@elle7808]

"The key to feeling good is to decide to stop feeling bad." These words made me cry today, since that's exactly what I told myself I'd do after receiving terrible news. I said, "Okay, I've mourned for a while now and I've expressed what needed to be expressed. Time to get back into alignment." THANK YOU for this wonderful conversation, Gabby. 💜

[@ctvalleyfarms]

I love that that you talk about a higher power. I fell into a funk for a long time and chose to do whatever it takes to get out of it. One step was praying to a higher power. It's very hard for me to say God, but I get comfort knowing there's something beyond this world.

[@mina9484]

It's normal to feel sad, fearful or whatever situation. And we have the power to get back in alignment by stepping one step closer to our aligned happy grateful self. It's a matter of choice and commitment to ourself. Focusing on the good is always the best solution. Thank you Marie for this wonderful conversation. You inspire me so much with everything you do. Love you Gabbie, next book on my shelf !

[@tinagraham7209]

Seeing the purpose of what you've gone through. I've had tremendous loss in my life, disease and addiction. I've struggled for 50 years(ran from) trying to see the purpose in all of it. Happy to say I'm finally in a place of honoring this very difficult journey:)

[@deepthir503]

I'm going to go tell my mother that I appreciate her and everything that she does for me....I really do love her...

[@thekingdomsisterhood]

I LOVE the 3 step choose again method!!! Sometimes I get so caught up, I forget to pray and surrender it to a higher power to reorganize it. Another great opportunity to experience the holy instant and choose Love and Faith over fear. Great tips for Exceptional Living!!!

[@marieforleo]

We're so glad that you enjoyed them, Kathie. Thank you for being here.- Team Forleo

[@todrapayne]

This is my favorite Marie TV episode! I really enjoyed how open Gabby was in this episode about some of her own struggles. I also loved seeing Marie in this space. I'm reading Marie's book right now and it seemed to me that she's very much a doer (as she said, she prizes her work ethic). It was nice to see that Marie is, in fact, balanced. I also told my guy about waking up and doing the appreciation game. We did it this morning and it was wonderful! We've been together for 10 years in October and we get alone really wonderfully. And we tell each other daily that we love each other, but this appreciation game is another level. It felt so good! We're traveling the world together full time, so we had some interesting things to say - "I appreciate that you always translate the street signs we can't read with Google Translate". "I appreciate that you're down to try any foods no matter how bizarre", etc. Thanks for what you put out into the world. It's wonderful.

[@asthefanie]

I really was guided to this episode and it was EVERYTHING I needed to hear today. God is really good. My heart feels light as a feather now. My day was so stressful but I managed to keep a positive attitude and started search for something inspirational. Thank you so much Marie and Gabby!

[@UAX619]

My 2 Favourite Teachers in 1 video! I Love It! Thank You so Much Gabby and Marie I Love You Both a Ton! Sending Lots of Love and Light to both of You!

[@lvmuzik7]

A huge take away for me was to stop trying to make things happen because pushing controlling and manipulating cut off our super attractor power. It was confirmation of what I read earlier.. that my focus should be on what I want to manifest verses trying to figure out how it will be manifested. First time on your channel..I subscribed..Loved it!

[@pattiel1108]

We are all here to heal and to help others to heal. When we keep our focus on our service/destiny instead of those who try to distract/upset us we won't lose our power. Practice makes perfect. And CONGRATULATIONS ON THE BABY!!!! So happy for you both! I'm actually planning a blog series on gratitude and abundance the month of November so I took this as confirmation that is what I should write on. Thank you!

[@madeleine_lily_]

One insight I am taking away is the importance of focusing on the positives and realising, thanks to the universe, everything is going to be okay! One action I'm going to take is to make sure to realign myself when I feel negative thoughts/feelings clouding me. Thank you.

[@avivasolson4280]

I love Gabby and her work! I spoke of her just yesterday during my LIVE training inside my private Facebook group "Rising Mom's Circle | Joy and Wellness After Pregnancy Loss" Gabby and Marie, you two are rocking my world 🌎

[@dianera2571]

Gabby, You give me hope!! I love you!! Marie, thank you for having her on!! Love you!! 🙏🏼♥️

[@recoverywithlee2591]

DETECTING PATTERNS in how speak to ourselves is KEY to transition away from past limiting patterns to authentic power. WE need to become aware of the specific phrases that continue to give us an un-easy gut reaction. This was crucial in my early days of addiction recovery, and helps those I guide, in all circumstances of limiting behavior. TIPS: 1. Make an inventory of these limiting statements. 2. Make it mandatory to combat this with WORDS TO YOURSELF that are accurate and kind. 3. Create and recite an affirmation each morning, specific to you, detailing you deserve happiness. 4. Take an action towards your goal. BEST PRACTICES and WISHES to us ALL!

[@TeamForleo]

Hey Lee! Thanks so much for sharing those with us. Those are great tips and super actionable! - Monauar, Team Forleo

[@NatalieSisson1]

Loved this ladies and your genuine love and friendship. Big year for you both with your books out in this world. I have yours Marie and am reading it now, so Gabby yours is next!

[@cheryldavison9514]

I wasn't looking but was definitely guided to this episode. Thank you, thank you, thank you! Love the openness about help from the team above as this is something I'm working on, always found it hard to ask for help and life is much easier when you do!

[@johnbehneman1546]

Thank you so much !!!!! I need to read this book again. It helped me so much in the past. It is a TIMELESS CLASSIC!!!

[@MishelleBee]

Basically Abraham Hicks stuff! So glad someone is talking about doing less and BEing more in alignment.

[@orianagalardi-este9211]

AGREED.

[@wendelijnvanderleest8278]

Gabrielle .... you were on the mark. I felt I NEEDED to watch this episode now although I should be working now. It felt like a sign. Cause this was what I actually needed to do now.🙏 It was the part about spiritual guidance that my heart was longing (and finally ready) for. Grazie mille to you both. Love both your work with all my heart and soul💝

[@nethealth-ing8953]

Knowing Gabby's teaching as well as Marie's , I found their interaction fulfilling in itself ! Appreciation and honesty of how easy life can derail all of US is THE conversation we are meant to have in order to envision all the solutions ahead of US ; then the initial problem can become just a fact in our life ; Reaching out for more super attraction on and on and healthfully!

[@susanshah4079]

I really appreciate Gabby's honest conversation about her Postpartum. I was diagnosed after my second child early this year and it's a tough and haven learned no one truly understands. The concept of choosing the next best feeling helps tremendously because so many told me to just be happy and work hard at that, but Gabby's Choose Again Method really resonates. Thank you Marie and Gabby. Gabby and your book are my current nightstand reads:-)

[@JuliaCha]

Each and every new baby is an entirely new experience and another level of being a parent. First baby and one baby is just one cluster of learnings. Each baby is a customized course of self development for the parent. Multiple children is an entirely new challenge and learnings when it comes to helping them create their beautiful relationship with each other. Having a baby is a spiritual experience - physically entering a spiritual being into this world. That’s why so many people have postpartum depression and anxiety. It’s a symptom of spiritual growth.

[@MulkRaj101]

I know that moment of pause when someone asks "What's it like becoming a parent?" Thank you, I'm grateful for this eye-opening discussion.

[@orianagalardi-este9211]

This is SO right on! Thank you so much for helping spread this important message that is so critical for all to hear during these times of great perceived scarcity! The more people are exposed to the law of attraction, the more abundance we will all see. You guys are the best!

[@queenrmia1816]

Hello Gabby, I hope you, and your family are really blessed with a Abundance of Love, Joy Happiness and Peace !! I finally finished the book The Universe Has Your Back. Thank you for helping me get back on my Spiritual Path, I had always has a Special Connection with (God) as a little girl, my Mom used to call me all through my life her little angel, these were the exact words she spoke to be a few days before she suddenly passed away !! My connection with God was something more powerful then the Catholic Church, I was baptized in as an infant, my life as been anything, but perfect !! I decided to become, more Christian through Churches, only to have them recognize my Spiritual gifts, and try to take over them, along with me !! I'm and will always be a Free Spirit !! Your book was Excellent, Extraordinary Unique for anyone, who has found themselves completely lost Spiritually, and their lives have either went into a spiritual reverse cycle, or they are having a hard time trying to figure out, what in the (World) is really happening to them !! Please know I will be reading this book again very soon !! Well guess what I'm so delighted to tell you that I just purchased my book SUPPER ATTRACTOR today !! I love the cover, thank you for the signed copy 💗 You are Beautiful inside, and outside, your Spiritual Light, is Glowing !! With Much Gratitude, Queen RMia

[@maureencabrera7029]

AMAZING CONVERSATION. Thank You Marie and Gabby

[@monicaadames7630]

Amazing show. I'm so grateful I tuned in. God bless

[@amberabbitt6999]

There are so many great nuggets to take away from this video, but the biggest thing that stands out for me is the confidence you both exude even while you’re sharing such intimate life details. You are strong, overflowing with knowledge, engaging, and totally relatable. Mass admiration to the both of you...I aspire!

[@suebehari8540]

Thank you for another thought provoking book. It is my book club choice this month. Have my hard cover copy ready for our discussion tomorrow.

[@austinhoffer3638]

I cannot wait to read this book. The Universe Has Your Back changed my life, and I am sure this will be another one that fills up the cup! The areas of awareness, choice, and action are so important to me. When you both speak of pulling yourself out of a rut, the expectation isn't to feel better instantly. Knowing you have the ability to make a choice to save yourself is a subtle yet powerful gift that we should all be able tap into. Awesome talk. Thanks ladies! ❤✌🧘‍♂️ #Namaste

[@robertasmart4396]

oh yes - I am writing about overcoming heartbreak right now and i happened upon this episode , my guides definitely brought me here to day, thanks Marie and Gabby for sharing your love and light for us all.

[@jessicaszturmann609]

What i took away: cherish the positive stuff and talk about IT!

[@jmh-1002]

Gabby, such a beautiful person. Thank you for sharing your gift to the world. All your books have been transformative. ❤

[@penelopeperez5349]

Beautiful episode! Thank you Marie and Gabby! I absolutely loved the moment Gabby talked about our "guardians", and how we never are alone. Recently I've been thinking and feeling a lot about this, I also read it in a beautiful essay from Charles Eisenstein (who I'd love to see as a guest in your TV show Marie!). I feel this episode is just a confirmation or a reminder from my guardians that it's true, they're here, and I'm not alone :)

[@debbieochoa8525]

Marie, I'm so happy you brought up Abraham Hicks! This is an excellent series. God knows I needed this. Merry Christmas 💜🙏💜🙋‍♀️💞 Gabby 8s so wonderful 💖

[@TheLisaTorres]

You get to decide how you feel. Thanks for sharing!

[@tenacioustonya9639]

The key to feeling stop feeling bad is to decide to feel good is a simple decision and a moment to moment practice ( depending on the situation). I am currently practicing the life of an overcomer to manifest a program for people like me living with a medically unmanageable and incurable seizure disorder ( Refractory Epilepsy). There are times I have to practice deciding to feel good even when feeling good means allowing my body to lay in bed healing from seizures without feeling self-pity, shame, blame, or anything other than Love for myself.

[@aubreyalovera]

Main take-away is taking small but consistent steps to feel better. And its not just about feelings. It’s about making a decision and taking action towards a better place

[@HonieeLove4You]

I'm on chapter two of the book and it's moving rather slowly and I almost gave up on it, but seeing Gabby discuss it brought it to life.

[@bethcorcoran9714]

Truth is the light! Thank you for this book Gabbie and Thank you Marie for your channel ! Love you both ❤️

[@ariadnelatorre199]

I appreciate having the opportunity to listen to this valuable information and knowing that there are powerful women dedicating time to experience in depth how to make ouselves be happy and writing as well as speaking to others about their experiences in a meaningful deep and responsible way. Thanks!

[@janetmednick2256]

I was feeling so down today and went outside in nature and said I accept myself and what I feel and held my hands up to the sky and released it to the universe as I embraced something better. I went to my computer to watch video I was interested in but it was only a few minutes long, yours showed up next and it was amazing to hear you both talk about exactly what I was going through. The universe was saying Yep! keep coming. .Love to you both!

[@orianagalardi-este9211]

Love that. What we need is always brought to us at exactly the right time.

[@claudinesouza8995]

Appreciating the moment we are now even if it is a struggle because this moment is preparing us for the LIGHT that we are stepping NEXT. I needed that!!!

[@dianadennisrealtor7464]

Thank you for this conversation. It is just what I needed to hear today. My takeaway, I was guided to this episode to bring me out of my concern and worry. I’m truly inspired and off to take on this day with an improved mindset.

[@milomazli]

I LOVED LOVED LOVED the 3-step choose again method. Wow! It has been incredible! And now I am actually shocked that this episode came out a month ago, and although I am subscribed and hit the notification bell already YEARS ago, I stumbled on this, NOW. I even imagine Gabby saying "well this HAS BEEN your guide, guiding you to a better state of mind" haha. I love it! Thank you Marie & Gabby! Hugs from the heart of Europe

[@mamalovesthebeach437]

Thank you, thank you for talking about postpartum issues Gabby ... it's been 23 years but remembering that time still brings me to tears! How I pulled myself out of a dark hole during that time is that I took a Parenting Your Infant class at a local parenting institute. When the teacher asked each of us 12 new mom's, "how's it going so far?" We all burst into tears ... we all stayed in touch via playgroups for 5 years ... these young women (most were 15 years younger than me) saved my life! Such good information! Love the 3 steps. I just talked to my husband about this last night. We discussed the beliefs that do not serve us. This system will help us, thank you!

[@pattiel1108]

I think you both are living in the joy already by pursuing your destinies! Bravo for such young ladies!

[@LetsTalkbyMissBee]

I love the 3-step choose again method. It's simple and this is something I can do right now to step out of the misalignment I am in right now. This is the first step and I know that God guided me to watch this video even though I am not feeling very well so I can get back into alignment and start attracting the things I desire in my life.

[@Thelandofcolor]

Yes, using my expertise to help people never fails to be the push I need to get over it, whatever it may be. Love Gabby. Love Marie!

[@JamieHartMusic]

just did the reframe exersize and felt a bunch of resistance starting it bc i was in a negative spiral. But i did it , and it worked! Especially knowing that my shadow work has healed so many fragmented aspects of myself in the past, so this is no different! Hope prevails :)

[@madonnahooper4872]

I really love your approach, Gabby. Will be subscribing to your KZbin sessions. I love that you are so BALANCED with this stuff. I've always felt alienated by the really out there positive thinking people who take an all or nothing approach which has always left me feeling like a failure. Your way is so much more real and do-able. THANK YOU!!! I feel like I can do this in little steps. "Appreciation dissolves the boundary of fear." How great is that?

[@DMacVoice1]

The fear leads to love. LOVE this! The sooner you can get to, "where is the love" the better. Even if you can't find it (YET!), trust your Higher Power. And yourself.

[@luciapes123]

Cannot wait to read the book! So glad I watched this, your awesome girls 💕

[@brennabella]

Honor Your Fear, Something need to Heal. The Opportunity to guide you back to Love. Love you both, Brenna

[@vereeck]

Thank you so much Gabby and Mary ! I had a great time listening to your conversation !

[@michaelaisabelschou8804]

I deeply deeply deeply appreciate the both of you! Your words, your work and your energy is shifting the energy of this whole planet, and the universe is constantly pointing me to the exact videos, blogs, and emails that I need when I need it. You both are major blessings in my life and I hope one day to meet you and thank you personally. Until then, eternally grateful and so much love and deep respect. Thank you thank you thank you

[@michaelaisabelschou8804]

Ps: Reading both Super Attractor and Everything is Figureoutable, teary eyed and loving every second!

[@marieforleo]

We're so grateful for your kind words and presence here, Michaela. Thank YOU. xo - Team Forleo

[@marcelasvirbelovakuziakova7517]

Two powerful, beautiful, natural woman, appreciate everything you said, thank you for making this video Marie 🍀❤️🙏, can't wait to order book, God bless you, please keep inspiring, love you, you making my life moore beautiful, so greatful for people like you 🍀🌻♥️☕🌹

[@cherylmazzoncini280]

Thank you for sharing so much love and healing to honor our guides

[@robindaas6782]

OMG - the universe actually guided me to watch this video - and to say I had major goosies as Gabby uttered those words is an enormous understatement because I felt like she was speaking directly to me - so THANK YOU a zillion times for your invisible acknowledgement without even knowing it!!! As a fan of Ester's was grateful to learn about their Emotional Guidance Scale and am going to download it next!!! You both are rock stars!!!

[@marieforleo]

We love this magic, Robin! Amazing. - Team Forleo

[@scoopbabymotivation]

Just want to say thank you and happy Valentine's day thanks for all you do👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@RealSuccessfulYouTubeChannel]

Obsessed! So glad I was guided to this convo!

[@rhondamariewright]

Don't know how I ended up on such an old video, but I loved it! You two are great! I appreciate you both. 😉

[@vanessahotlosz4009]

Recently I’ve been letting myself feel whatever comes up. So if I feel anxious, I give myself 5 minutes to let the feeling be present. It’s been incredibly releasing for me because I really think when we shift too quickly we suppress the feeling rather than let it eradicate itself. Think this can play into the 3 step rule really well.

[@freyajoytinbergen]

Marie Forleo and Gabby Bernstein, thank you so much for this highly inspiring interview. For me the biggest take away is to focus on what I love and appreciate in the people I meet today as a new choice for daily practice. This is gonna be my new practice and I expect this daily practice to contribute to creating and expanding an abundance of healthy relationships with other people. Thanks again. I love and appreciate the abundance of inspiration coming from the two of you.

[@qanhnormal]

Make Feeling good is my priority. I appreciate both of you and wonderful videos. Thank you so much 💝

[@fearitself125]

I want to say, when she talks about easing into the next best emotion, in my experience it wasn't even that big a leap sometimes. It was more like, I'm having thoughts about falling down the stairs, instead I'm going to pace the floor. Instead of screaming and freaking out let's try going for a walk and breathing. I want to crawl out of my skin right now, maybe I can name 10 things I'm grateful for. Very very small increments, but it added up to surviving. Pre-natal anxiety is a real thing - a real terrifying thing - and people also don't talk about it. Love you both. xo