Gabor Mate - Who Gets Sick and Why - RARE

[@angelaeva9365]

This was painfully accurate for me. Everything he said was and is proven in my family.

[@BrandonLaufer]

You're not alone. Jsyk, now time for my family healing and exctied future.

[@BrandonLaufer]

excited*** :) Peace

[@coreycox2345]

Mine too, Angela Eva. It is a commonplace, unfortunately.

[@coreycox2345]

@@BrandonLaufer Peace.

[@souljacem]

I‘m sorry to hear that. Peace and Healing to your family

[@katerinabykova444]

I would love to hear more on this!

[@lornocford6482]

When the Body Says No -- Caring for ourselves while caring for others. Dr. Gabor Maté kzbin.info/www/bejne/mWesfWuNi96Ag9U How childhood trauma affects health across a lifetime | Nadine Burke Harris kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2bSp3yAaMmmhM0 I hope you find them of use :)

[@MrShabbaaaa]

Great video, but just want to point out that this isn't rare as the title suggests, there are hours and hours of footage of Maté where he expands on his theories. Well worth listening to if anyone is interested

[@qmydee1481]

This clip is rare and to the point. More people will get the information because they aren't watching one of his full lectures. This was great reminder of his work and knowledge he shares

[@mariamkinen8036]

No matter how superficial it may seem , I try to skip everything that the narc wants to harm me with . Addiction , in my case , makes a poor excuse. I'm not addicted . I'm wanted dead: out of the way. Thank you. My poor mother collapsed under the burden set onto her , by her NH. 💕

[@nvr5490]

I have work related stress in my life, money and family issues, I smoke and I don't eat nearly as half as healty as I should, but I am very hooked to my authentic self, never go against it, and I feel very healthy and energetic. My medical check ups always come out good. I'm knocking on wood but I also believe there is truth to what Dr. Gabore Mate is saying.

[@atticuskilby515]

That separation factor in the extreme, down to the individual cell, is something that no longer serves us physically, emotionally, mentally.

[@yunalee13]

I suffer from multiple sclerosis... I'm afraid he's right....

[@Anni_12349]

I have MS as well, and I agree with him completely

[@dandankokorohikareteku2620]

What is multiple sclerosis ??

[@denise2169]

I have a lovely neighbour who has MS, and she is always trying to be joyful. Her MS is advanced and I see that she may have held her ‘negative’ emotions in check all her life.

[@user-yk9sk7pg6v]

thank you GABOR

[@wherethereslifethereshope9858]

Thank you Dr Mate.

[@stregadisalem732]

Can lethargy become an addiction?

[@denise2169]

Maybe look at what is beneath it.

[@metalslegend]

yes in psychology this is called secondary illness gain, a 100 dollar word for a process that could answer your question.

[@stregadisalem732]

@@metalslegend Thank you!

[@dellawolfdove8927]

Interesting & Metaphysical

[@brendaoro2951]

Former scapegoat here, recently diagnosed with ms 😅

[@Mookiethedog]

Dr M is da bomb

[@marylu7711]

What about children who get sick? My daughter got psoriasis at three years old.

[@johnjakle943]

How stressed was the mother while child was in the womb ?

[@katiie7]

Psoriasis is due to toxicity. Her gut bacteria balance is off or she had vaccines

[@mazklassa9338]

@@Commoner8888 yeah I've thought that too. There are instances where there are some people who seem like they're totally NOT stressed and in charge of their lives positively, yet out of the blue get diagnosed with a terminal illness.

[@goldenpeanuts9]

Potato, you are totally programmed. Get real to heal.

[@saram.7174]

John Sawyer wow. Charged and aggressive. So much hate. For what?🤷🏻‍♀️k, bye🎊

[@mariamkinen8036]

We need to skip the abuse by evil ppl. I had a personal psychologist to talk to at about 23-26.

[@geoengineeringakachemtrail9365]

I believe in what he say 👌

[@marioskadas4405]

Gabor you do not include their unhealthy diet and lack of exercise, from childhood to adulthood , that contributed and laid the foundation for disease in the future

[@creative45630]

marios kadas unhealthy diet and lack of exercise probably often stem from being disconnected from your body. If you’re connected to your body you naturally eat well and exercise because it makes you feel good. Being disconnected comes from the stress etc that Dr M talks about

[@marioskadas4405]

@@creative45630 We need both in line in order to be healthy longterm. Carl sagan, new (1966 congress speech check it out) that malnutrition causes stress, apathy, cognitive impairment and many more. So we are both correct!! Thumbs up!! Much love from Greece!!!

[@marioskadas4405]

@@creative45630 Knew*

[@marioskadas4405]

hahaha forgot the letter K because i aswered while i was cooking!!!

[@geoengineeringakachemtrail9365]

To much cortisol day in day out is killing people

[@nolives]

If we lived in a true meritocracy people like this would govern. Not random tailored golden spoon fed politicians who really dont know anything about sociology, pyschology, economics or even fucking poitics really.

[@adriantaylor289]

Only partially true. I work with young adults and young people with disabilities. I'll never believe that things like muscular dystrophy and cystic fibrosis are related to childhood traumas

[@loriediane2921]

adriantaylor289 he said "in ALMOST every case."

[@adriantaylor289]

@@loriediane2921 True, he did say that

[@juliedorman1858]

He didn't say everything. Some things are genetic

[@cheekyboy5000]

Of course you are right. I think in people over 40, their lives catch up with them. But people with those deep genetic conditions, that's different.

[@cricketwireless8294]

@@juliedorman1858 I am with you in thought...lifes experience, some of this happens and is found out as the person is freshly born...not a min experience in this stressed out world....but if it's passed on by the mom's or Dads sides or jumps generations down the line and pops back up that's more understanding...to me...as for some of these things I believe they are already in place waiting to be activated by some triggers of wrong diet and lack of movement excessive amounts of process foods.. by the parents before the child was born and while in the baking oven of mom...like a drugged up using mother usally passes on to the kid who not ever having any experience with drugs other than the mother's sin is born with a drug problem...and probably grows up in the world with some kind of addictive nature... maybe other than drugs possibly over eating... the drugged up mother mostly by using curtailed her nutrients and food intake and passed it on to a kid a starving mechanism and by that being the case the kid has this feeling of never being full and so is always hungry even after you fed him or her..like a survival mechanism takes place as they say fight or flight so the body says you remember the great potato famine. Well you need to protect against just in case it comes back you have storage in place in the form of fat..and like I have family born during the depression...who seems to think they don't have enough what ever and sometimes pass that trait over on to their kids..of save this or that and eat everything on your plate,hold on to this or that for a rainy day might even be out dated..reuse that plastic lunch baggie bring back that Brown paper lunch bag etc..I bet most of your horders of today are recipients of a prior general age group and if younger where conditioned by a older generations train of thought of their past experience of hardship and droughtsin life...you hear the stories and so for some the worry becomes a mental illness and might become a detrimental health issue..LET not your heart be troubled says the LORD Jesus Christ...turn your burdens over to him...large or small...

[@lizaratliff8462]

I'm sorry is he saying that children get cancer from years of childhood trauma when their children? That makes no sense whatsoever especially when the children can be 3 and 4 and 5 and they haven't even had time to experience real trauma..

[@bugrist]

Absolutely you can get traumatized even the very first days and at birth already.

[@geoengineeringakachemtrail9365]

Memory starts in the womb (Implicit memory ) cortisol in the mothers body

[@wherethereslifethereshope9858]

Liza... I think you will find that a child's neurochemistry can be screwed up enough in utero to adversely effect their health in a serious way. Gabor talks about how the emotional state of the expectant mother damages the child's development while they are in the womb. It also depends on what ones definition of trauma is. In addition to bad things that happened to a child that should not have, Gabor also includes good things that did not happen to a child that should have, that is trauma by omission. It's not because the parents don't love their child, it's because they have their own issues that haven't been dealt with.

[@everydy]

Read Origins by Annie Murphy Paul. Talks about how huge moms experiences and how the first 9 mo in utero plays in to how a child becomes

[@denise2169]

Liza, I am a retired teacher, and I have worked with a lot of stressed kids. When I met their parents, I always understood why!

[@kellyrn6014]

Gabor, it seems you don't agree with research that states alcoholism is at least 60% genetic.

[@denise2169]

@Kelly RN, Using genetics as an argument is an easy excuse; then you don’t have to look at the real causes. If you are a nurse, your training has taught you to look at the outward symptoms. But if you really look more deeply, you will likely see that alcoholism and dysfunction in families is due to ongoing, familial stress which becomes habitual and a way of coping with psychological pain. It’s easy to see, if you really try to understand, that alcohol deadens the underlying emotional pain brought on by stress, especially in childhood. With no one to turn to for support, these individuals turn to alcohol to self-soothe. I was a primary school teacher, and could always sense that the parents were stressed, if I had to talk with them when their child had been ‘acting out’ in class. As Dr Maté says, ‘acting out’ is a child’s way of releasing stress if they are unable to do so in a loving environment. This is not genetic; this is learned! Please wake up! You are supposed to be helping the whole person, not just giving giving them medication!

[@kellyrn6014]

@@denise2169 You don't know me; Yes, I am a RN but I also have a masters in addiction counseling.

[@charnedavey328]

⁠​⁠@@kellyrn6014 I hope in the 2 years time frame since you’ve commented this you’ve learned what epigenetic’s are… genetic contribution to alcoholism =/= born with alcoholism. environment & trauma causes changes in gene expression.

[@intorpere]

He takes this too far. You can't seriously tell me that everything from diet to exercise to carcinogens play no role. It's all about our emotional experiences? It's groundbreaking enough to talk about how much emotional states contribute, without getting carried away into absurdity.

[@geoengineeringakachemtrail9365]

Joshua Abell look a bit deeper. (Aces study )

[@angelaw9255]

His book goes into that. Yes those things, diet, carcinogens play a part but your body can normally fight them off, unless your body is fighting other stresses. And you can overcome trauma but it takes work. Our body is a constant flux of eliminating precancerous cells for instance. When the system is overburdened it can no longer keep up and disease develops. The type of disease will then depend on what carcinogens you may have been exposed to, genetics, diet etc.

[@wherethereslifethereshope9858]

Joshua...there are also examples of people who have followed a so called "healthy lifestyle" that still experience health problems.

[@jordsupp]

He has talked previously about inheriting a predisposition to develop a condition - that is the heriditable component. The rest is down to environmental factors, so, yes, that's exactly what he's saying. I suspect most people choose to live in denial and believe that medical conditions are random, because the alternative (working on themselves to address their MH) is too great a responsibility.

[@criztu]

look for that experiment with piglets. they had piglets that were separated from their mothers before the right time, and placed them in the center of a table with 4 arms, 2 arms had boxes at the end, the other 2 arms of the table were clear. The height of the table was like 20cm so it was easy for a piglet to jump off the table, onto the ground. The piglets separated before time, aka traumatized piglets, would get stuck on the table, and go inside the boxes. The piglets who were not separeted from their mothers, were exploring the environment, jumping off the table onto the ground. So when it comes to addictions, traumatized children will consume sugar in quantities. Sugar is acidic. Sugar and all corporate processed food filled with carcinogens, puts physical stress on the body cells.

[@robinturin]

It was meant as a compliment. Duh. You'd do better to spend your time concerning yourself with your own thoughts, words and mind.

[@derpnerpwerp]

Idk how I got here but since I'm here.. this is ludicrous. Classic case of ascribing reason to random events. Pretty human thing to do, but clearly flawed thinking. Thats not to say stress isn't damaging to your health and can contribute to a variety of specific diseases as well as bad health in general.. but some people are born sick. Babies get cancer. Cells mutate, most of them are destroyed by the immune system, some randomly are able to develop into cancer. The idea that a person's immune system could be 100% resilient to cancer if they aren't stressed is ridiculous. Let me paint a scenario for you.. 100 million years ago a star goes supernova and emits an enormous amount of gamma radiation. A tiny amount of that radiation makes it to earth today and strikes the nutsack of a guy. This causes a seemingly insignificant amount of damage to a sperm cell's dna. 5 years later his 4 year and 3 month old kid is diagnosed with terminal cancer. Random events occurring in impossibly complex systems. Chaos theory at work. Chaos is difficult to wrap our heads around because it is not particularly useful for us to think in those terms. It is better for our survival if we are biased towards finding patterns even if there are none. This makes us less likely to ignore patterns that are present. You could make so many arguments hinging on the idea that "trauma" is a causative agent of various things. It's not quantifiable. Everyone experiences things that could be considered "truama" to someone.. especially if they are looking for it to make their theory work.

[@derpnerpwerp]

@@LukeMosse is this a comment produced by chatgpt?

[@elekkr]

By this measure if something is wrong with you . It is youe own fault . How about children born witha disease . ? What did they commit to have that problem . ? And people who are never sick are saints ? I guess i am a saint than . Where do i get the beautification certificate ?

[@darkfeather6857]

My thoughts exactly! This man is a doctor spouting this fairy tale nonsense? That's outrageous! This is as bad as those televangelists preaching "name it and claim it". He's a quack.

[@j.m.b5441]

Watch the video again, you didnt understand what he said.

[@darkfeather6857]

@@j.m.b5441 No thanks, I got my fill of foolishness the first go-round. .

[@claudiasiegel8838]

he did not speak anything about fault. this is a misinterpretation that stems from a limited mindset. common in 3D.

[@robertburnett5561]

He never said it is the child's fault. You here what you want. Check his other lectures. It is evil religion that says a baby is born in sin. Horrible.