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[@thinker2467]

As a muslim woman with brown tone living in a country where the fairer you are the better. I assure you.. getting married has been a struggle for me too. As soon as I have started practicing my religion to the best of my ability, people have made things hard for me. I wear Niqab, do not do makeup in events like my own siblings' wedding. Wear an abaya in formal events.. And I have been constantly told how I am making it hard for myself to find a spouse. It used to get a lot to me.but it's fine now. If it is written it will happen. The struggle is hard. May Allah allow us to find righteous spouse ameen. A man on sunnah and deen in this times of fitan.

[@zerorepsinreserve]

May Allah make it easy for you ukhti

[@taimurahmad]

@@Abdullah_Khan578 dont talk to women withoit neccesity. it is not permissible

[@earthynomad7160]

As an African girl who grew up in the Arab world and been practicing since childhood, I understand ur struggle sis. But sister plz remember everything is pre written already. We girls are not supposed to be out there looking for husbands.and You might die before getting married. And Marriage is not written for every man and woman during their lives on earth. Trust me marriage itself can be a fitna and u might marry someone who will push u away from deen( I have seen that several times) Your aim and purpose of being created is reaching heaven and nothing else . And remember NO BODY IS SINGLE IN HEAVEN AND NO BODY IS MARRIED IN HELL

[@thaknobodi]

@@earthynomad7160Very sombering and good reminder to get our priorities straight. Some people may spend 30 years married but earn little to no good deeds, while some may die unmarried and be loved by Allah.

[@BintGumby]

Its a struggle for everyone fair skinned or not. Women of different tones always think one tone has it easier than the other, they dont

[@user-vc1dh9ku4t]

As a muslim girl i agree with what you all have said, and i know that Feminism is corrupting the woman in general, As Muslims we should not embrace any idiology other than islam, and the real empowerement for a woman is to be the way Allah wants her to be, and to be more feminine, it's where she would find peace Subahan Allah. Unfortunately I am very sad that many of my muslim sisters do not know that. i really enjoyed this poadcast thank you so much for this جزاكم الله خيرا 🩷🩷🤍🥹

[@kays3956]

The beauty of Islam is that what defines wholesome values are diverse and depends on geography, climate, culture and school of thought. Islam is not monolithic. Diversity makes it beautiful.

[@kays3956]

Salam brothers, please do not wear such tight shirts. Do have modesty as you represent your faith. TIght shirts these days is a byproduct of feminism as effeminate men love to wear tight tshirts. Do stay away from this trend especially when you talk about feminism. Be more consistent with your Islamic values. As you demand it from women, do enjoin it upon yourselves. And a shout out to the brother who is more modest even when he wears a T-shirt. Thank you. Wasallam.

[@Abdullah_Khan578]

Even I was about to say that

[@earthynomad7160]

Good point

[@mocroma3liesh564]

Yall 😂😂😂 cant take the advise, yall Just bitter and have something dumb to Say. Men are not the same as women…. The have different rules about there Awrah.

[@ami-4108]

Yes

[@appu1sundaram]

True!!! Also the haircut. I am not sure if this kind of haircut is permissible. I may be wrong.

[@BintGumby]

Why consider women that dont cover in the first place if u want a woman that covers?

[@labibabdullah389]

Every generation had hard times, this is our time where gender roles have been confused and created huge chaos. Previous generations had wars, food and water crisis, dangerous diseases without any cure, whereas we have electricity, internet, food and medicine. Let us just endure the pain and try to become better Muslims rather than stressing too much and giving up.

[@ericpowell4350]

These times are worse. At least the men of the past had something to fight for. Today, most men don't and won't have a wife or children to defend.

[@IronTrench613]

@@ericpowell4350agreed Back then even during the hard times, men were men And weakness wasn’t tolerated Nowadays weakness is the norm and you often hear people saying “man I wish I could go to the gym but I don’t have the discipline for it”

[@BosnjoBosnjak-ug6ry]

Muslims never lose hope.

[@HocineBased]

Never inshaalah.

[@aminah761]

Never

[@AbuAnkabut]

This podcast was really on point Subhan ALLAH ﷻ The brother speaks on issues that need to be brought up ‼️💯

[@aminah761]

Alhumdullilah great discussion brothers 😊. May Allah reward yall for these beneficial reminders 😊😊😊

[@SayfumaniMyG]

Shut up and dont comment by man

[@taimurahmad]

Praise be to Allah. Firstly: It is permissible for a woman to take part in public chat rooms, if she adheres to the following guidelines: She should only participate as much as is necessary, so she should pose a question or state the topic, then leave, and not comment unless there is a need for that, because the basic principle is that she should avoid speaking to men or mixing with them. There should be nothing in her words that could provoke fitnah (temptation), such as joking, speaking softly, or laughing, such as writing “hahahahahaha”, as mentioned in the question, or using smiley emojis, because that could lead to coveting on the part of those in whose hearts is disease, as Allah, may He be glorified, says (interpretation of the meaning): “O wives of the Prophet, you are not like anyone among women. If you fear Allah, then do not be soft in speech [to men], lest he in whose heart is disease should covet, but speak with appropriate speech” [al-Ahzaab 33:32]. She should avoid giving out her email address or corresponding via private messages with any man, even if that is for the purpose of seeking help, because of what such correspondence often leads to of attachment and temptation. See the answers to question no. 34841 . It is preferable and better for a woman to participate only in all-female chat rooms. This is safer for her. There are many such chat rooms, and that is better and sufficient. But if she needs to participate in public chat rooms, then it is better for her to choose a screen name that does not indicate that she is female. And Allah knows best. Source: islamqA

[@shadowthefirst5115]

Yo whats ur ethnicity

[@suadash1202]

Asalaamu Alakum, growing with a feminist mother, Alhamdullahi Allah guided me, and I always encourage younge girls to keep their true role in society. That being a muslimaa and the first teacher to your kids. Seeing my mom, taking a masculine role in our family, and bousting liberalism, truly breaks a family. First and foremost. A women will work outside the house and then demanding her husband to assist with household chores. Nevertheless, yes, our prophet Muhammed PBUH did help, but it was not in the context of taking a women's role. However, the West has striped a women , from her natural inclination to be a mother and replaced it with a artificial false self. Many female's fool themself, in thinking this false identity. Islam and Liberalism cannot come together. Islam teaching's will preserve your identity as person, as man and as women. Please look at , where feminist has taken the West, destructive homes , dysfunctional families, increased divorce rate , delinquent kids, drug addicts, increase mental health, suicide rates, and increased crime

[@kays3956]

Waalaikumussalam sister, I am happy that you are happy with your newfound role as a mother and teacher to your children. Unfortunately for many Muslim women across the world, this is far from reality. In many oil-producing Arab countries where cost of living is low, this maybe the reality but it is not the case for most people living elsewhere. The idea that women only work at home is a very upper middle class living situation. Many women elsewhere, even with righteous Muslim husbands, have been asked by their husbands to work to supplement their income, part-time or full-time. They would love to focus on child rearing. This is a conundrum that most people are not able to fix. The men here, at least in this forum, gave the impression that the women do not want to stay at home but want to do more outside. It is the opposite for the us living in the current situation. Our husbands want us to work because they cannot cope. And it is very hard on us because we work so hard. We have to keep a job, take care of the home and the children. In our culture, our mothers-in-law chide us if we are not able to hold a job and keep the children and home together. They expect us to do all three without their support. Even for many women who found ability to work from home and still care for children, it is not an easy juggle, we are lucky that despite many Muslim women had to juggle so many supporting roles here, the children and the husband are doing well. This however can come at the cost of our health. I think, Muslim women, wherever we are are very strong and will do her best to care for her husband and children. What is most important is she needs to take care of herself. Take care, dear sister. I think your mother did a wonderful job on you despite her feminism because your fitrah and her nurturing still led you to Islam. She had to do what she to do to raise the family, liberalism or otherwise. May Allah guide her and forgive her.

[@ks-io3lc]

Emotional intelligence has nothing to do with gender, it goes both ways. Regulating your emotions isn’t only focused on crying but anger too. But most importantly the willingness to understand and overcome other people’s emotions.

[@mediha90]

Dress modestly brothers

[@yasminemerouani7481]

100 💯

[@bethere7862]

@@yasminemerouani7481 hello misandrist, how are you doing?

[@serlaenec8483]

May Allah put bar aka in your life and work. Very useful video. Full of wisdom. Please we want more of this kind of videos.

[@boolinboola3064]

Great Video JazakAllah !

[@imans3899]

The brother in the black is wise and kind

[@hafsaabdurrahman6022]

Assalamu'Alaikum, jazakallahukhairan for an insightful discussion. SubhanAllah it hit different when the brother mentioned how we are pushing our sisters on the front line at palestine marches...it always made me uncomfortable but i couldn't understand why the men didnt seem remotely bothered, but Alhamdulillah, the Brother eloquently explained the reason... im utter shocked to find out that its only to please the west!! Astaghfirallah!!! Everything that was discussed is 💯 facts! As a women, i felt that the brother's did great justice when discussing the sisters and got the message through without any disrespected. May Allah give us sisters tawfeeq to take heed. Aameen.

[@HocineBased]

Ameen, we will do our best to restore order inshaalah.

[@Progamer-ol8hn]

Really Good episode. Its only getting better.

[@hayataitlhaj2937]

Great conversation tbark Allah

[@AbuAnkabut]

This podcast was not only entertaining but informative as well❤❤❤

[@HocineBased]

Part2?

[@sanahdayo]

No please she does exist. Stating this as a woman, please don't lower ur standards.

[@my2angels4ever26]

I love the talk and agree on all points. Allahoemabarek for all three of the brothers. Honest naseeha that i give to my sisters. Dress properly according to the islam, hayaa is your jewellry. Dressing trendy and all tight is not gonna attract the practicing brother you are dreaming of. But the same to the brothers. The way you dress, the way you talk. That will attract that woman with hayaa and imaan you are dreaming of. Men in tight shirts get women in tight shirts. I am not suprised at all that the brother meets the type of woman he describes. Not saying this disrespectful all at. Just honest naseeha from a sisters that wants to help. May Allah swt reward you for your dawah. 🤲🏻

[@isthi000ify]

JzkAllah khairan ikhwaa ❤

[@user-xu8ij3ji8g]

ماشاء الله تبارك الرحمن محادثة قيمة لم اكملها بعد ومع ذلك اجدها محفزة جدا جدا جدا لشاباتنا وشبابنا المسلمين في هذا الزمان ارجوكم اكثروا من هذه المحادثات مع مختلف فئات اعمار الشباب المسلم اليوم .ماشاء الله .تكتيكات التشهير . لم افهمها جيدا

[@ks-io3lc]

Respect and compassion within both husband and wife is what makes a marriage. Women can obey, if they don’t look at their husbands as their boss. Women respect men, who respect them, women can admire/love a men who can lead with full confident and compassion.

[@astongrad930]

Part 2 needed

[@HocineBased]

Comment on what topic you want us to cover. Respond to brother Gabriel thread.

[@miriamc8902]

Asslamu alaykum wa Rahmatu Allahi wa barakatuh. Such a beneficial discussion for both genders based on Qur’an and sunnah MashaAllah ✨✨ May Allah swt preserve you all. 🤲🏻 💡 No one pointed on the reverts issues are facing. Insha’Allah waiting for part 2. Alhamdulillah

[@HocineBased]

Can you details some things you want us to cover in part 2?

[@SayfumaniMyG]

Shut up and dont comment by man you cnt

[@hayataitlhaj2937]

We want Part two 😊

[@ItsMeRunNgun]

Great vid

[@muslim_mamabear]

Masha'allah a good conversation.

[@HocineBased]

Baraka Allaho feekom

[@ericlorentz1016]

nice haircut Gabriel, allahumma barik, i like that brother

[@hayataitlhaj2937]

May Allah bless me with the right man Ameen me and all Muslim sisters who are not still married ☪️🤲🤲🤗

[@Johnnyboy-nz9nz]

It’s crazy the divorce rate in North America for Muslim is about 40%. It’s insane.

[@khalidf1]

Very true. The sad thing is, Deen is always the last thing discussed by the adults. All you head is get education, mba/become doctor, large salary, buy a house, how many kids do you have and does she stand/sit/communicate in a certain manner. Sorry to say, most of the Divorce is initiated by the adults in the family. For some reason, it is more about the guy/girl fitting into the "Family" culture and has nothing to do with "Deen". The parents of the last generation lost guidance and became greedy for the riches. Not too many homes have discussions about deen, it is all about "Status", "what will they say" or "what will they think" mentality. That is is main reason for our failure as an Ummah. Take a look at everything that is going on with "P*H*A11$t1NE". Majority of the American muslims are chilling/living life as if nothing is happening. It is terrifying how misguided we are as Muslims. Deen and a humble life is what is missing. The breakdown of Islam being taught started a long time ago. They said near the end of times, Islam will become foreign. That time is here and getting worse.

[@farooqkeita700]

Why is it crazy

[@paulthomas281]

@Johnnyboy-nz9nz Why is that crazy? There's a reason people get a divorce. Just like people got married often for the wrong reasons.

[@paulthomas281]

@Johnnyboy-nz9nz The divorce rate in the Gulf Arab societies in the last decade is about the same.

[@farooqkeita700]

@@paulthomas281 lol no it is not

[@nullunullu7990]

As a women wallah we need part 2❤❤ jazakallah khayran

[@kjy05]

Amazing discussion and all 3 men look good🙏🙏

[@RedRose-cn8ln]

So it’s ok for men to have personal preferences but when women want to put her preferences and to put her conditions then she get attacked 😅

[@hussainsharmin661]

😂😂😂

[@ryojs4286]

Ah yes lying is Haram. Women have MAGNITUDES more levels of preferences. 1. Tails, rich, muscular, handsome. Are MINIMUM requirements for the women 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. And so on

[@yasminemerouani7481]

Wallah i dont like this podcast. Some points were okay but others were just plain unislamic and aggressive.

[@TheIgnorantJahil]

​@@yasminemerouani7481list the unislamic ones.

[@appu1sundaram]

​@@yasminemerouani7481Can you mention those points that were unislamic?

[@sos-hb2gv]

Make dua for me. It's hard to stay alone with all the fitna around us.

[@Millielai12]

Go find the zikr ' ALLLAHU MAAI,ALLAHU NAZEERUN ILAYYA,ALLAHU SYAHIDUN' ...

[@Farrukhabek]

Talking about emulating sahabah while you’re wearing skin tight muscle shirts with your chest hairs out. You’re emulating Andrew Tate let’s be honest 😂 embarrassing

[@HocineBased]

Leave the man alone. You just overly obsessed with diminizing man. Inferiority complex. By the way, brother. This is a Red flag in a woman.

[@itech40]

His appearance is just an appearance though at the end of the day.

[@ks-io3lc]

As a Muslim woman i find it hard to take him serious 😂😂 but I respect he’s opinion, he is entitle to it.

[@aishabashir5400]

Exactly !! Same thoughts. Some men are delusional 😭😭

[@amirmalik2711]

I agree modesty is also for men and we are bound to emulate sahaba if we want to obey Allah! As a man, I also found his shirt fitting low key embarrassing but may Allah make adopting modesty easy for both men and women!

[@MuhammadAbdullah-eo8mr]

Firstly I'm a girl here, to clear it up and this is my brother's account that I'm typing from. So here's my point: bro, if girls can't work then there's no guarantee that if one day u decide to leave her, cause for some reason u don't like her anymore, then she will just be ruined, girls being independent but still feminine is possible as well as a necessity in my opinion. In this world of today, u can't possibly trust guys or girls. But guys can do anything to u, they can ruin u and leave u with nothing, and then if u are unable to stand on ur own feet, feed yourself or kids, you'll be at the mercy of a cruel world, and again men who don't care about ur honor cause they aren't ur husband or related to u. Tell me then what will be the life of such a girl, whom you're constricting today? Will u want the same thing for ur daughter in the future? Husbands are rarely good and faithful these days. I'm unmarried but very wary and scared of such things in my future so I want to secure myself by studying well and pursue an honorable career. I don't believe there is anything called love in this world, only Allah and ur parents can love u unconditionally. If possible, u may answer my doubts. P.S. loved the video

[@KadershaN-ou2sj]

If husband don't want her wife to go for work do she obey him??? Most women don't like to obey and be submissive when they have their own earnings...

[@ghanmy]

​@KadershaN-ou2sj yes I obeyed my ex and sacrificed my career and he left me after 14 years of marriage because he wants kids. I was left at the bottom of my career ladder while he went on becoming a professor. Women do need a career nowadays and not rely on men because when they want something they don't care about the wife

[@ryojs4286]

​@@ghanmythat's the job of parents and family to help her As well as the masjid and community And the bigger question is why he left. Women I noticed never take accountability but let's ignore anything you could've done. The entire comment above Is PURE Feminism.

[@noneofyourbuizness]

​​@@ryojs4286what happened it's none of your business stop talking like those western redpillers How old are you you seem young a immature " this comment is pure feminism" what???? no that's reality a reality alot of single mother are going through. Let alone polyginist don't want to marry these women Why invalidating this sister's struggle while you still live with mummy and daddy? Both gender lack of accountability A lot of men do leave their wife for silly reasons. I have seen it 100 times So yes women nowadays need some sort of income. We are not living in ancient time. Capitalism is killing us all. Then she will be left struggling so doing a part time job is great

[@noneofyourbuizness]

​​@@KadershaN-ou2sjshe has to obey him yes. But women that want to work need to be with a man that is OK with it. And this is why women should put in as a Condition in her Contract So you want a wife that does not work because you assume that if she works she won't obey you? That's how you want to control a woman? What a sad mentality

[@GokuBlack-sn5dr]

i'm a simple man, I hit the like button first then I watch the video, alhamdulillah

[@James-yg5lm]

Great discussion Mashallah- real and insightful

[@priusa8113]

With all my respect brother Gabriel but please ask these brothers to consider NOT flexing their muscles and having half open shirts ( sort of showing off?!!). The reason is that this is very attractive and fitna for women who are watching this, even though I know the aura of men is different from the women. Jaz Khairan

[@AbdalMalik-ye1df]

they are not showing their penises are they

[@eazzzyfitness]

They are still looking for a wife, they gotta show off a lil lool

[@KadershaN-ou2sj]

​@@eazzzyfitnesswomen aren't visual...

[@Muwahid999]

​@@KadershaN-ou2sjstill wearing tight clothes isn't allowed for men

[@Muwahid999]

For deluded supporters of zion*sm watxh this : *"IDF Soldier Confronted A Muslim Live Then THIS HAPPENED! Muhammed Ali"*

[@hayataitlhaj2937]

صلى الله عليه وسلم تسليما كثيرا عدد خلقك و رضى نفسك ❤🤲

[@Bilal_AlIndonesi]

i wait for part 2

[@navidahmed7922]

let part 2 come

[@Johnnyboy-nz9nz]

I envy previous generation where they didn’t have to face women of today.

[@FA9082]

akhi muslim women today in the West are wild, I have spoken to quite a few hijabis who say they want to get married the halal way yet have told me about sexual things they have done with men in the past 😳

[@Sa7biUK]

That's because they were raised to believe 'you can have your cake and eat it'. Sadly, that is not and has never been the case, but they are gonna learn the hard way and take down good men along the way. That is why content like this is so important and may Allah give brother Gabriel the tawfiq to bring us more beneficial and educational content like this

[@user-ue4fh5mv9s]

@@FA9082its not just the "western" women who are engaged in this it also happends in "muslim" countries but they do it with more secrecy

[@priusa8113]

What’s the six criteria of hijab please ?

[@priusa8113]

What a sad comment 😢you were born into this generation because it’s your Qadr

[@HocineBased]

What a great conversation with my brothers, Alhamdulilah. Hope you guys enjoyed it. If you want PART2: COMMENT WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE US TO DISCUSS.

[@aazimsheikh6030]

I commented this on brother Gabriel's comment but also leaving it here: One of the topics that would be interesting to cover is navigating finding the right person and vetting when you don't have much family support. Some folks are blessed that they have a practicing family and when they want to get married they can call their mother and tell her, and she will go find 20 good potentials along with sisters aunties etc. However some brothers and sisters do not come from practicing households and what they are looking for, their family sees as extreme and they will not approve of it nor help them look for it so they are basically fending for themselves. This would be a good situation to address in a future video or podcast InshaAllah. Jazakumallahu khaira

[@Johnnyboy-nz9nz]

Thanks bro 1) did the girls dad (first generation immigrant) have spoiled them in the west?. Most have them delay marriages and expect a ton from a guy $$$ 2) how do you even find a wife? Masjid’s/imams/ are not helpful.

[@masudahmed6029]

Very good and balanced convo. I would like to hear about getting women that are willing to convert before marriage or for marriage. The problem I have Is that I have too much respect (not all) hijabi sisters and I can't see them in a sexual way for respect so i will never know if i am attracted to them. Allah knows best

[@user-xu8ij3ji8g]

اريد ان نناقش اذا بإمكانكم ارشاد الأمهات في البيوت كيفية تعزيز الرجولة لدى أبنائهم الذكور سيما اذا كان الوالد لايستطيع مشاركتهم معظم نهارهم والأمهات لايستطعن الوثوق باحد غير أزواجهن وجزاكم الله خيرا

[@amirmalik2711]

@@masudahmed6029 Salams brother, finding somebody attractive doesn't mean to see their body shape, its about charisma, and also we get an idea of a hijabi's attractiveness as well as body type if we have educated ourselves. Moreover, i'd be interested in a muslima who may not be the most attractive but have the keen desire and passion (like Aisha RA who performed exercises i.e., running/jogging with the Prophet PBUH) to improve their physique. Our problem these days is we take fitness and deen exclusive to each other. While deen is the way of life that includes physical fitness, strength of iman, and practice in choosing right vs wrong. The only things we need to revive in men and women is taking the example of the sahaba and sahabiyat and practice them to the best we can, we won't be deprived of fitness if we did just that!And Allah knows best!

[@serenatopaz2476]

I'm a she and I believe in life they should be a balance between spouses men should work to provide and females should be moms and home makers the queen in their homes.Working and keeping a home is not possible at the same time.

[@amirmalik2711]

Absolutely, its taught in society that we can do everything. While Allah says don't make life difficult for you if he's making it easy for you (Quran is not revealed to make our lives difficult but easy). If a man is providing, women don't need to be harsh on themselves (contrary to the deen) and keep trying to juggle both work and home.

[@marroosh9771]

Well brothers just as we as women are told the good men marry early, so do probably the good women.

[@Bhghih]

Many people find the deen later in their life and are very serious about all aspects of it. Actually, the vast majority. Be them born muslims or reverts. Then you will have many different levels of commitment to deen and some even "drop out" again. But the good news is that there are some good ones aswell.

[@marroosh9771]

@@Bhghih100% Agree. I accepted Islam at 27 nearly 28. Have been looking for many years and I know now that now I will make a much much better wife I would have in my 30’s for example (now 41). It took a lot of unlearning ideas about what marriage should be like, what to look for while also staying away from brothers with less than honourable intentions (revert problem 1 for the sisters I think).

[@MSBJ7]

Unless the male is also a a "virgin" too, with no sexual experience prior to marriage, males should not expect to marry virgins. It is a double standard otherwise. Allah required the males to be untouched too.be "virgins" too, with no sexual experience prior to marriage, males should not expect to marry virgins. It is a double standard otherwise. Allah required the males to be unt

[@kays3956]

Try pointing this out to the men and they will call you out as a feminist. Hahaha. 😅😉

[@MSBJ7]

​@kays3956 if they do its their problem not mine because I am not a feminist at all, just pointing out the truth Allah expect both male and female no to engage in sex without Nikka so male have no excuse, if they wanted so bad they should have gotten the Nikka.... Allah knows best.

[@Harton-cv1dw]

Assalamu aleykoum i totally agree with everything you guys said. There is a big problem amongst the average female Muslims of today, but Alhamdoulilah we don’t find these problems much amongst the Muslimat that are upon the sunnah, that are strict with the deen of Allah and are striving to please Allah. Like the brother said at the beginning, it’s a religious issue, there is a lack of knowledge and lack of adherence to the deen. The reason why brothers keep having problems with women is because they’re not looking for a wife in the right places and they still chase after pretty girls instead of pious ones, in spite of them claiming that they are religious brothers. SubhanAllah. Another issue that I think needs to be addressed with regards to masculine behaviour from wives is that sometimes that role of being strong, disciplined, organised, planning, and good with finances is forced upon sisters. I’m not talking about them going to work, I’m talking about stay at home sisters who have husbands that are not able to keep on top of administrative responsibilities in the home and/or of the house. Many boys relied on their mothers to book their appointments for them, they relied on their parents to deal with utility bills, remind them of appointments and things they needed to do even well into adulthood. When these boys get married they expect their wives to inherit all of these responsibilities which is too much for the sister to have to deal with on top of keeping a tidy home and looking after the children. It’s forces the sisters to step into a more masculine role, they have to become the personal assistants of their husbands, where they are in charge of things that are the responsibility of the man. and many times these sisters have to boss him around so that he doesn’t waste their money and make them broke every month, so that he doesn’t make stupid mistakes, so that he remembers important things that he is responsible for, and the big problem is the brother will grow to resent the sister and say that she nags too much and she wants to be in control and is not soft and feminine enough. What these brothers don’t realise is that these sisters would prefer to have no control or responsibilities at all in this regard. They would prefer to rely entirely on their husbands and not feel obliged to manage the finances, plan the budgets and nag their husbands to get them to get up and do what they need to do. Sisters want real men. It’s a real problem that is not talked about enough. If men stopped acting like boys and were more reliable women wouldn’t have to adopt any masculine traits just to survive.

[@tjc4085]

Are you a man? Because this is really on point.

[@laconictr]

I felt like Brother Gabriel is becoming more like Brother Eddie from Deen Show, for some reason he reminded me of him. May Allah be pleased with them both.

[@shareefkareem5163]

Assalamu Wal li cum folks. I enjoyed this podcast and it just goes to show that for every haram there is an even better halal to replace it with. I won't mention the haram podcast but this one here smashes it to death ☠️. Abu muneer is proper on the way he breaks it down for folks. MarshAllah. He reminds me of someone who is good at it but he is on a haram flex. May Allah guide him. Ameen. Respect to the other two brothers on here who appear to be smashing it also. May Allah keep us all on the straight path and may He help us deal with our Muslim sisters on a wonderful manor. Ameen

[@falaahblackwell1535]

I feel men claiming to be a high value man are the flip side of the coin, having all the characteristics of the very women these dudes are complaining about..

[@khaledhassan4706]

It really just comes down to deen. If that's gone, nothing works.

[@Pinyo242]

On the point you mentioned at 59.00, I think those who say that such and such women don't exist - as a female i would disagree and say that they do exist, or if they don't exist to that degree then there are women who have the intention and are working towards thats. The same way we have high value men - in the same way, these type of women are high value women. Anything of high value is not easily available. Especially if they are high value in the eyes of Allah, i would say that Allah has hidden them to protect that. I would definitely say that majority of women are not high value/working towards it, which is why its difficult to find, bcs people don't want to do the work bcs its hard and requires sacrifice and refinement. And i also think that those who say this type of woman doesn't exist, 1. don't have high value women in their circles 2. They themselves are not high value. If you are seeking high value, you naturally would have to seek those circles first and then Allah would opens doors for that. (You become what you seek and surround yourself by) So those who say you're looking for perfection xyz, i disagree, i would say you're equally just looking for quality and high value - specifically if this is coming from the perspective of males who are also high value/working towards it such as yourselves - in this context.

[@HocineBased]

Nailed

[@gintoki2643]

The brothers are misrepresenting the hadith about Jabir. The age of Jabir is key. Jabir married an woman who was old enough to be his mother because she had money. Jabir was a young man in his late teens and the messenger sw was asking why dont you marry a young woman closer to age to him. When jabir explained he married this older woman becasue he has younger sisters and he needs to take of them financially. So he married an old wealthy woman. Also they keep mentioning asiya and maryam as being mentioned in the quran. Asiya famously went against her tyrant husband pharoah for the sake of Allah. The brother in the green shirt was saying she was mentioned because of her chastity. That isnt true. She was tortured for the sake of Allah. The brother also mentioned some fake science to make some random point that doesnt have any basis in reality. STDs are not dependent of the sex of a person. Both men and women can transmit STDs. A man who is married to mutiple womn can transmit diseases between them. Having mutlple sexual partners increases your chances of getting and transmission.

[@majestyk8654]

Saying that men can get whatever he wants while women are restricted in Jannah is so misogynistic. Allah will give women what they want too

[@rainsnow5707]

Great conversations

[@HocineBased]

Part 2?

[@user-kg4lo3wk9p]

Men and women is different, and they bonds differently, agree. But the men who are talking about that its okey for them to have a past, zina is zina. Even if a man does it. Allah does not discriminate and who in the world told Muslim men that a real muslim woman, who is a virgin herself, wants a man who has committed zina aka have a past. No one want a man who have slept around and comes with diseases . «All women is that and that and that», it is actually just as difficult for women to find a good muslim man in this day and age, not just for the men.

[@Najlaaaa150]

💯

[@ghanmy]

These men are westerners. Western men have this fantasy that they still deserve a virgin and still seem attractive to a virgin even if they have had a high body count. I don't want to accuse , but it would be very sad if western men become a Muslim because they dream to marry a virgin and Muslim women are the only society left with a very high number of virgins

[@farooqkeita700]

“When you engage in ‘aynah transactions (a kind of transaction intended to circumvent the prohibition on riba or usury), and you take hold of the tails of oxen and you are content with agriculture (at the time when jihad is obligatory), and you give up jihad, then Allaah will send upon you humiliation that will not be dispelled until you return to your religion, Allaah will send upon you humiliation that will not be dispelled until you return to your religion, Allaah will send upon you humiliation that will not be dispelled until you return to your religion.”

[@phoenixknight8837]

Barakallahu feekum. What is this obsession with 'hot'? The majority of women are attractive to the average man. It doesn't take much to satisfy a guy. A woman should try and keep her weight reasonable, have a nice feminine personality and be nurturing and submissive on top of basic deen. Her face only needs to be average and it will be appealing to the average man.

[@tjc4085]

where did they mention “hot”? Just wondering. Didn’t come across it but I agree with what u said

[@alromaani]

Salam aleikum - what topic would you like us to cover in part 2?

[@Bhghih]

Wa aleikum as Salam. I suggest you cover the topic of how to find the good ones from either side. Where to go, who to ask. For both sides. For the women would be about visibility or help from parents and siblings. For men would be as stated where to go, who to reach. 🤷🏼

[@aazimsheikh6030]

Walaikum assalam, in line with the comment above one of the topics that would be interesting to cover is navigating finding the right person and vetting when you don't have much family support. Some folks are blessed that they have a practicing family and when they want to get married they can call their mother and tell her, and she will go find 20 good potentials along with sisters aunties etc. However some brothers and sisters do not come from practicing households and what they are looking for, their family sees as extreme and they will not approve of it nor help them look for it so they are basically fending for themselves. This would be a good situation to address in a future video or podcast InshaAllah. Jazakumallahu khaira

[@amatullah1998]

The muslim parenting, InShaAllaah

[@Johnnyboy-nz9nz]

1) did the girls dad (first generation immigrant) have spoiled them in the west?. Most have them delay marriages and expect a ton from a guy $$$ 2) how do you even find a wife? Masjid’s/imams/ are not helpful.

[@kagigirah5023]

Walaikum salam warahmatullah wabarakatu, Barakallahu fikum for the podcast. Actually I have a question on what you mentioned about looking for like a spouse based on their deen and character here I'm talking about a father handing over his daughter as the prophet(saw) taught us but you see in this day and age someone can put a mask on and totally pretend to be someone that they aren't, so how do we navigate through such kinds of situations?

[@dspd0140]

MashAllah, your beards are beautiful. Very beneficial talk. Something people tend to ignore about Khadijah (May Allah be pleased with her) is that in addition of being one of the best Muslim women ever, she gave birth to all the kids of the Prophet (Peace and Blessings be upon him). All seven of them. So she was fertile. It's not something that's likely with a woman of her age nowadays.

[@taimurahmad]

she was 28.

[@AK-bk8rt]

The bald guy is very specific in the qualities he is looking for. Sounds like he is looking for a needle in a haystack. I think the girls didnt reject him most of the time it would be her family, even though she has the final say but family usually override in these situations.

[@kays3956]

Her family is looking out for her. They can read him.

[@ryojs4286]

Zero accountability is basically this comment "It MUST BE the Muslim Man's fault"

[@masudahmed6029]

It may be good for the brother to find a girl in a Muslim country like Morocco, Iraq, tunisia, kurdistan, Syria where she is a traditional village girl that is on the deen but also is up for taking the role of a house wife and mother and has no intention of working. I think the brother is looking In the wrong places. It seems like he has been looking at women that are independent and are one foot in and one foot out and Is not looking to be submissive to the man.

[@hananoor7934]

I agree.

[@earthly4444]

While I value every bit of your conversation, I had like to correct this opinion by the brother who said the reason why there aint much women with both deen and beauty is because women who are beautiful dont feel the need to raise their value with deen and vice versa while it may be true for some sisters , May Allah not burden either types ... Its not the general rule. I know of woman who are blessed with beauty and deen . This is from Allah alone. But these beautiful women didnt have to work on their deen had they measured their value in their god-given beauty which was beyond their control. So they sought their deen to raise their value in the eyes of Allah, and men who marry these women are just benefitting from this wise choice they made, educated or not....They seek their validation from the Creator and so should the men too. So while you are looking for deen and beauty ,mostly it occurs in women with wisdom and sound intellect. Some women reach that level with education and some are born with it, some develop it because they are raise and bred with it... And Allah knows best .

[@kays3956]

I do not understand why he is saying this. Where I am from, women with deen and beauty are plenty. The people who are the harshest critics need to look within themselves. Is not Allah the best of all Hakims? If we see the glass as half empty that that is only what we see.

[@earthly4444]

Personally I have no problem if men hold these opinions but they might sabotage their search for women of their choice, when they dont know what to expect. If they think these kind of women are rare- the beautiful religious kind, they they wont look for them . Also they said they dont care about women's education, a woman with beauty and deen who is educated would be the wisest one, and their implementation of deen would be a bonus when rearing a family.

[@kays3956]

@@earthly4444 Perhaps they equate Muslimah with education and/ or intelligence as those who are most likely to be influenced by feminism. Hence, they see educated beautiful and pious sisters as a threat to their macho masculinity. I am surprised that education is not key. When you highlighted this, it makes peefect sense why he had to go through 300 of them. Finding an educated(in the deen and dunya), pious and beautiful sister who will be mother to your children is a choice that makes most sense. In fact religion demands that. No wonder, our beautiful, articulate and pious sisters are without husbands in veetain communities.

[@user-hf1sl7gv2z]

Assalamualaikm With all due respect brothers, these values applies to western brothers and sisters. The desi culture brothers and families prefer looks and education of girl above religion or character. They feel having an educated and working woman adds value to them infront of their families/friends/ some even think that their children will be proud to have an educated working mother. Please address these types of issues as well. A lot of men are pressurizing their wives to be ambitious and belittle them if they want to be a housewife.

[@Pinyo242]

100% agree that fathers/male protectors lack ability to vet the brother. So its difficult for women to trust their male protectors to do the job properly

[@amirmalik2711]

Yes, i feel like in these scenarios, extended family who are trusted and local imams can provide pre-marital guidance according to Quran and Sunnah.

[@skyoce1247]

Dress modestly men

[@yousseflahbabi3842]

Disclaimer: I mean the following comment as a sincere nasiha to our brother "Modern Muslim Men": He seems to be very careful about the woman following the quran and sunnah in applying proper hijab. Yet, to put it nicely: Would a sahabi (e.g. Othman (R), known for his modesty) or the prophet (S) wear the clothes that he is wearing? Technically, it is not haram because it covers the 'awrah, but is it following the principle of modesty? How do the back of the trousers look when he prostrates in sajda? I am making this comment for him as much as I am making it for me. When we men make strong muscles mashallah, we like to show them off.. but is this what the sahaba would do? I have been thinking about this for the past couple of weeks and I believe we should be create better clothing options for practicing brothers. Allah knows best. Happy to hear your thoughts on this.

[@taimurahmad]

Sheikh aasim said its halal to flex your muscles. I do not find any hadith or statement which says tjeir clothes are prohibited. Hijab on the other hand, then the scjolars have CONSENSUS that a loose and long abaya is obligatory.

[@wawaweewa9159]

Muslim men need to show their strength and get strong. Muslim women are not meant to show their beauty, in hajj you are showing more than they are by having tight shirts

[@reemabdi2316]

What's a convertale hijab is it the type of hijab they wear most In the gulf were the top of the hair is showing? Genuinely asking

[@taimurahmad]

Convertible hijab is hijab with tight pants and only head covering. The scholars are agreed hijab covers the whole body( a thick and long abaya)

[@TheIgnorantJahil]

​@@taimurahmadno he's right.

[@abdullamomak3470]

Allahumma barikum

[@yosrbouzayen6917]

I think the brother is looking in the wrong places... May Allah grants him a great muslim woman

[@discoveringclouds6198]

The brother in blue is asking for a women who works and is obedient, but it’s kind of intense nowadays is that men want obediance BEFORE marriage. How are these women being vetted exactly? How do they protect their modesty without crossing boundaries while discussing these things? I think more emphasis should be put on approaching women correctly so they don’t have to seen as masculine - and probably my talking to you alone. If her dad was there she would probably be more calm and less abrasive. She can’t talk to you SWEETLY before you’re married.

[@user-zj5kj4tc8e]

Some girls will not get married. Not because she doesn't want to, my daughter can't have kids because she has Lupus. So have some compassion for some of the sisters please. Men run away when they know her problem. So now she's given up on marriage.

[@HocineBased]

May Allah send her the best Muslim man. Ameen

[@kays3956]

May Allah bless her with a spouse in this dunya if not in the hereafter. Ameen.

[@Najlaaaa150]

Amien very sad may Allah bless her a righteous spouse

[@user-zj5kj4tc8e]

May Allah accept all your duaas

[@wawaweewa9159]

She should tell the men she'd be happy to for them to have another wife

[@jawwad1189]

Where is the link to the brother's channel?

[@HocineBased]

Salam Alaykum.

[@jawwad1189]

@@HocineBased Walkumaslam just subbed a couple of hours ago 👍

[@pinkmed123]

I’m not surprised that the man at the R and sunglasses has not been able to find a wife. I’m definitely not a feminist, but I still did not like what he’s saying bc of the way he’s saying it. He does not seem like a kind person with a good heart. The number one thing a good Muslim woman would want in a man is having a clean and pure heart, as that is a great sign of his din and would give the feeling of peace, which is what should be found with marriage. IA the brother can improve and be more peaceful, have a tone more like brother Gabriel, and find the perfect sister for marriage.

[@Sa7biUK]

Hes Algerian, lol @ 'more peaceful'

[@tjc4085]

I literally had the exact same thoughts as you about him. A good Muslim woman would be deterred. i know I speak for Myself

[@hananoor7934]

This is why Gabriel is the real man on this table - he understands both sides hes a realist 💯 the brother wearing green shirt is not a high value man in my opinion. Sorry.

[@TheIgnorantJahil]

Thankfully Allah judges whether someone is high value and not hana.

[@liby254]

250 girls clreay shows that fault goes to this brother. Imposible to vet 250 women and not find a handful which are decent for marraige, which begs the question: How did this brother initially find these 250 women?

[@Sa7biUK]

He seems a logical, straightforward, practising brother. I fully expect he found them in a halal way. Listen at 13:15 onwards and he explains how he met them

[@liby254]

@@Sa7biUK I don't think you understand 250 women my brother. Imagine just going to a random University, finding 250 random Muslim women and vetting all 250 of them. You're telling me you can't find around 5 that are marraige worthy? Then imagine you actually meet the women in the right way, through righteous people, or the masaajid, or through family etc.... How can all 250 of them be bad? Allah knows best, but I would automatially assume that it's not the 250 women, but its something to due with the guy

[@Sa7biUK]

@@liby254 Tbh he explains why he wasn't able to find a suitable companion, and although I agree that 250 is a high number, if you live or have lived in the west and especially a large metropolis such as London or NYC, then its not too hard to see where hes coming from. The part where he mentions them being carbon copies of each other is golden

[@liby254]

@@Sa7biUK akhi I live in the west, in a very large metropolis city, Imagine if this was the other way around, and a woman said she met 250 guys and all of them were not good, what would we assume about her... That she's looking for the diamond in the haystack.

[@HocineBased]

It shows nothing but that you are similar in the aspect. I detailed exactly how I handle my vetting process. You don't even know where and how I met them. Why don't you, sit, listen and perhaps you will learn a thing or 2.

[@lk9875]

There is nothing modern about these fellows, they are straight out of the middle ages 😂

[@Abdulrazak-py2nr]

(Another Islam???) At the beginning of the video, you guys use the term "modern Muslim man" which means in some Western Muslims to be successful in business and look masculine or be wealthy Muslims which is a wrong way and It seems to me that it is a trial of combine western values with Islam and call it a modern Islam which is incorrect. may God guide us to the correct way🌷

[@amirmalik2711]

I think he's just saying it in the context of time not new way of life. Its not new islam but same islam in new age.

[@Abdulrazak-py2nr]

​@@amirmalik2711 I hope it is neither a new way of life nor a certain stereotype for a Western Muslim👍.

[@amirmalik2711]

@@Abdulrazak-py2nr Allah huma barik brother indeed!

[@shareefkareem5163]

In a wonderful manner is what I meant to say. Sorry folks

[@AK-bk8rt]

He vetted 250 women and not a single one compatible for him!!!!!!!

[@HocineBased]

Correct. Standards must met to ensure a healthy marriage and no headaches or problems. I abide by the traditional roles and what I like. Alhamdulilah plenty of sisters have applied for the position already.

[@Msomale]

He's the problem lol😂 a dusty infact

[@kays3956]

@@Msomale Yes, every girl can see it except for him. Sad thing he is not self-aware. Poor chap. May Allah bless him with a good wife in Jannah.

[@wawaweewa9159]

Probably cuse muslim chick's are not good looking 😂

[@MuhammadAbdullah-eo8mr]

🤣😆😆bro!!

[@aidarakhmetova5585]

What if she is in her late twenties and a virgin?)

[@malihaali5424]

Then of course she is too old, so not marriage material because she has nothing else to offer. A lot of the time men are hypocrites and expect unrealistic things from women while they don’t have much to offer themselves or are the complete opposite of what they are looking for.

[@discoveringclouds6198]

This brother is VERY antogonized and angry. How can we listen to him exactly?

[@LyticiaAMR]

Ok

[@saleseastheritage]

I believe, Allah have a say who would be your wife and vise versa.

[@Sarah-to7oj]

Younger girl, beautiful, because mend love good looking women and 10 children, not working . And then second wife because u don't want give second wife a pressure. ...

[@KadershaN-ou2sj]

So men can protect themselves from zina...

[@husseindawod]

25:15 The quran and sunnah handles everything for you, not almost everything.

[@RedRose-cn8ln]

It’s a woman right to choose any man to marry 😅 if she wants a rich man that’s her right

[@ks-io3lc]

That’s right, just as man have standard, we women have too!

[@kays3956]

Yes, a rich man to a woman is a beautiful woman to a man. So it is within her right to find rich men. Do not shame our smart Muslimahs.

[@RedRose-cn8ln]

@@kays3956 of course 👏🏻

[@KadershaN-ou2sj]

​@@RedRose-cn8lnBut many women want rich men to satisfy their materialistic desires for them marriage isn't goal.

[@RedRose-cn8ln]

@@KadershaN-ou2sj my dear if she wants a rich man that’s her choice 😊 like if you want a beautiful woman for marriage that’s your choice too

[@farfar8695]

I would like to marry you brother😇😇

[@falaahblackwell1535]

I would love for a woman to say husband your wrong.. I believe it should go like this.. Some brothers don’t realize the Hadith they use about the rib is because of her nature.. Her nature is your test but some men don’t know how to deal with that. They talk about men who are like women. Those men could actually take the very women these men are afraid of and complain about, and help guide her to be a better Muslim who fear Allah…

[@ik5441]

Sadly sisters will reach their late 30s and 40s unmarried and still think they are right and the issue is with men. Yes men do have some issues but the biggest hurdle to us getting married is feminism. Sisters are combative, but they dont see it as being combative.... in fact they will twist that issue to be a man issue "you cant handle a woman with a brain" "you are insecure" etc. Sisters will use islam, hadith bash with their own understanding of what quran and hadith mean not how the pious predecessors understood things. Sisters will argue they want to give back to society/community when in reality men are responsible for bread winning and building society womens role is to build the home which builds society in a different way. Sisters will argue they can work and still look after the home and not neglect a mans right, our role isnt "confined" to "just" a housewife. The concepts of islam where Allah says we were made to worship him, that we are his slaves, that life is a test its not for amusement is far from a sisters mind. The concept of not arguing and wanting what Allah has favoured the other with doesnt sink in with sisters. Convincing a sister to be respectful, obedient and look after the home while we earn the keep and lead protect is passed off as misogyny.

[@Sa7biUK]

Yep, this is pretty much the entire western world and coming soon to a city near you in North Africa, the middle east and south asia

[@kays3956]

It is a simple equation brother. While a man wants a woman to be respectful and obedient, a woman wants a man who listens and have conversations with her. Listening and conversations to women is like respect and obedience to you brother. It takes two. Having values and standards cannot be misconstrued as feminism.

[@ik5441]

@@kays3956 Its funny how you immediately made the assumption that a man would not give his spouse the right to an opinion or have a conversation. Its these preconceived notions, negative feelings towards men that wont allow the ummah to get passed the searching stage and get married. Men are seen as your enemy from the early stages. No doubt you will argue even this is a mans fault. Wrong.... why are the bad anecdotal experiences you or someone else has had, projected on to every man? You could potentially have a good, god fearing man in front of you, one who does listen, takes opinions on board and isnt any of the other list of stereotypes and negative things women have pinned on every man, but you will still approach the search and sadly even the marriage with this defensive ready to fail attitude. Sisters have an answer for everything. How many sisters will claim they are working so they have something to fall back on if the marriage fails? How many sisters, like you have done engage in the marital search or enter the marriage with this notion that men dont respect women, we dont have conversations or listen to opinions? Peel the onion one layer further on your comment/arguement. Notice your respect and obedience is a "subject to". Thats the biggest problem we have today. Sisters dont even realise how much feminism has affected them. They will deny like you have that "thats not feminism". If i am not mistaken this or other Videos Br Gabriel has done covers this, that sisters have the attitude that "you need to earn my respect" "you need to be worthy of respecting". Allah swt never mentioned conditions to a womans obedience to a man sister, rather Allah has told us that both men and women will be held accountable on the day of judgement for not fulfilling the rights of the other or oppressing them. You do your part, men wjll do theirs and if they dont you have the freedom to leave and justice is served by Allah. I could give you a list of how wrong the approach sisters have to the marriage search/marriage, how you vilify men and why its your own self destruction but i will leave it here.

[@kays3956]

@@ik5441Whoa brother.... does a talk of partnership triggers you so effectively? Be honest brother. You do not like to listen. You have a problem far simpler than that. Your wife/ wives must be very happy because you love to listen. A lot.

[@ik5441]

@@kays3956Your initial response to my comment was read/"listened" to, an opinion given "respect" enough to validate a response of my own. It was not met with "insult" or "shame" a tactic used by people when they don't have something to come back with. There is a mirror here should you wish to use it and accept what you see, not what you think you see. You have an inherit hatred for men. The very thing you accuse me/men of is present in yourself. You have an inability to take a counter argument/Rebuttal. its easier to strip a man of the right to respond/counter argue by shame/insult/accuse pass it off as "triggered" "not wanting to listen" when in fact its the very opposite, he's listened and responded. The "need to be right" makes a person incapable of accepting criticism. Sister its you that doesn't want a discussion, want to listen/read an opinion. You want a one way conversation or rather pass a judgement. This is what your mirror will tell you should you chose to accept.

[@masseyenglish6328]

Make hijrah to Afghanistan like me.

[@KadershaN-ou2sj]

Really bro? Where are you from before? Is it easy to settle in Afghanistan for a foreigner...

[@Almurabit]

This is evil.

[@almajusuf9658]

There are many good Muslim women, who afraid of Allah and know her role in life and merige, but I'm afraid thet you guys looking in the wrong place.

[@KadershaN-ou2sj]

I'm looking for those kind of women please give me location...

[@tjc4085]

More like Allah is protecting good women from them

[@moonw5347]

بطلو شرعنه الزنا ! والتقليل منه بحجه اختلاف خلقه المرأة والرجل ! الله خلقك يا ابن ادام واعطاك الدليل القران والسنه لسبب عشان ماتتبع هواك لدرجة ذنب عظيم زي الزنا تقلل منه وتقول يختلف بين المراه والرجل بحجه اختلاف الطبيعه ! مصيببببه التزمو بدينكم وربي بيرزقكم بالصالحات . وبرضه الزواج السابق يأثر ع الرجال ونصايحكم لبعض وغالبا التخبيب ، المتحدث الاول متأثر بالريدبل وماهو حاس ع نفسه زيه زيه النسويات المتأسلمات .

[@earthynomad7160]

❤❤❤❤

[@Omar-yz8os]

What country is this located brother?

[@Sa7biUK]

USA

[@falaahblackwell1535]

He’s not answering the question.. If a woman makes towbah from her past, and it’s clear she’s pursuing the path of righteousness.. How could you continue to look at her from her past when it’s clear signs based on her actions that Allah forgave her by Allowing righteous deeds and character dictate her person..

[@TheIgnorantJahil]

Because it is Allah who accepts the repentance. We aren't as pardoning and forgiving as Allah. No way.

[@Idaglobal1]

Sorry, but everything that you are saying is ignorant & pathetic. The person who is speaking in the beginning shouldn't marry anyone, I recommend you to stay alone. Are you referring to the Hadith ? Alright, then you should know that in the battle of Uhud men & women were warriors , Ayesha was serving there as a nurse. We have here now a little contradiction since the prophet himself has said that all people who are helping & joining the battle must be over 15. In this Hadith, Ayesha must be over 15, so the prophet did not marry her when she was 6. You should let people speak who have knowledge

[@kays3956]

Hahaha, I agree with you. I think he can only be in love with himself. The girl who marries him will suffer.

[@TheIgnorantJahil]

Which reputable scholar interpreted this hadith the way you did? Remember, this comment will linger long after you die so make sure you're not adding sin to your record with this.

[@wawaweewa9159]

​@@TheIgnorantJahilher source is she made it up

[@bayareaherping1690]

brudder cover up