Gavin Rossdale Recalls His ‘Shame’ After Gwen Stefani Divorce

Gavin Rossdale opens up about his 'shame' on the 'Amy & T.J.' podcast, after seeing the impact of his and Gwen Stefani's divorce on their three kids. The 58-year-old Bush singer admits he 'never thought' they would split, until the parents officially went their separate ways in 2015.

[@nitabaucom9510]

Keeping yourself faithful to your wife would have kept your children from experiencing a broken home. Shame on you.

[@schanychamemphis1327]

Pretty obvious!

[@j.5073]

Totally agree! He’s a douche.

[@user-rs6fk1vu6q]

He pi$$es me off.

[@amandachenault6373]

I think they are better off. The country is a great place to be raised, even half the ttime.

[@DARKBRANDON-2024]

​@amandachenault6373 ooooooook what BS this statement is because that's not the truth. JS

[@Jennifer_Laz]

Gwen adored Gavin before his affair with the freaking nanny. She was in it for life. After the betrayal, she thought her love life was over, but she met a man who loves Gwen and the kids with his whole heart. So happy that Blake and Gwen found one another at a time when they could heal together ♥️

[@ericadouroux9658]

Well cheating with the baby sitter does limit your abilty to criticize her! Duh!😂

[@Joanna_Grace24]

He has no one to blame but himself. If he truly love Gwen he wouldn’t have thought twice of cheating on her . I am glad Gwen found a great man .

[@1313sp]

Wow, he is absolutely delusional. Still makes no apologies for or admits to having cheated on her and that's what led to the divorce.

[@CC.94]

How do you know who he's apologized to behind closed doors ? He made a mistake and took his medicine like a man. What makes you think you know him ? 😂

[@dollydavoid2456]

What we do know is Gwen doesn't want any more of a connection than she has with him. She's married to Blake. Gavin has nothing to offer her.

[@dollydavoid2456]

​​​@user-mw1lh9ed5uGavin kids has an amazing stepfather who was there for them before Gavin decided to become this "consistent" dad he likes to brag about. They have additional family and friends who loves them.

[@powaqqatsi8]

Yes, he is delusional. He still hasn't publicly admitted to cheating on Gwen with the nanny.

[@SheilaR.08]

​@@CC.94Took his medicine like a man? You're delusional. He said right in this interview that he feels bad because his kids have divorced parents - "that's it, the rest of it just comes with the territory." He's gross and childish.

[@katsybo]

Wasn’t he a cheater? With the nanny? Disgusting!

[@jujubees711]

Gwen is amazing. He totally blew it...

[@senorgato70]

So the shame was the divorce, not the fact that you cheated with the nanny. And he "feels bad" for his kids but seems to blame "the person that made them with (him)". I hear ZERO accountability from this guy. Such a shame. I used to really admire him. Loved Bush. Gavin was always in Roger Federer's box and Roger is my favorite player.

[@booksnobethyl]

You said it perfectly “zero accountability “ and him saying it wasn’t fun for him. Are you kidding me? And he got a career out of it? So sad to hear him like this still only focusing on himself and no responsibility for his actions.

[@DianeMoonShadow]

@@booksnobethyl: Agree completely.

[@swhiting100]

He's such an immoral person. What a liar.

[@sasipornlundberg]

He remorsed of the half cake because of his cheating he couldn’t got half money otherwise Gwen can told to the media that’s why he got only his one 40 millions Gwen’s 100 millions,Gwen didn’t tell paparazzi anything,but them found out in November 2015 about the nanny that’s why Gwen have to tell them that she found out after the Grammy 57th ! He never love anyone only herself coz if he loved her and his kids he won’t have an affair with the nanny for three years. Yuck !

[@SheilaR.08]

​@user-mw1lh9ed5uRemorse about his kids having divorced parents, as if that just happened and wasn't a direct result of his cheating on their mom with their freaking nanny! Gross.

[@lorikoenig6111]

Seriously, You expect a connection with someone you cheated on with your nanny. 🙄

[@user-qv3uv3ur4x]

Love his music, but he used to tell Gwen she was old and washed up !😮

[@SheilaR.08]

​@@user-qv3uv3ur4xShe showed him, didn't she? I hope he watched Coachella and felt like shit. 😂

[@PureSparkles22]

1:44 Words are useless. His actions weren't great and behaviour is the loudest communication of them all

[@nootnoot-2]

Men never think a woman will leave, its almost like they want to see just how much they can geg away with, and then push it farther and farther each time.

[@LadieBjj]

I have been married for 22 years. In this 22 years, male coworkers tried to flirt ( some, married!), and I cut them off right away if they were too slow to get the message from my professionalism. It’s so easy to avoid flirting than it is avoiding temptation. Just don’t let it get to that point. Gwen looks so much happier today. You handed your ex to her soulmate.

[@juliaelliott6663]

Next time keep it in your pants, respect your partner and don’t take them for granted

[@soni8995]

"I wish I could've just figured out a way to not have that in their life..." Omg... Dude, you f'd around on the amazing and beautiful mother of your precious children. Yeah, we all wish you could've figured out a way to not have that in your children's life.

[@th1s1kat]

Damn he looks like hell. Meanwhile, Gwen is aging backwards.

[@judymurray191]

With a little plastic surgery.

[@offtomilan]

YES TO THIS!!!! GWEN LOOKS SO SO AMAZING, JUST WOW

[@Kinksgalore]

Vegan ​@@judymurray191

[@Yup71719]

Well now she's treated well by her spouse

[@nancejack56]

He never admits he cheated .. his kids know now since it’s all over the internet so he can’t put a spin on it anymore.. a real man is faithful

[@user-rg4gv2bi8i]

She did way better.

[@camrentoorealcam8437]

He’s ridiculous he cheated on her for years and never regretted until they divorced...wow!

[@booksnobethyl]

@senorgato70 said it perfectly “zero accountability “ and him saying it wasn’t fun for him. Are you kidding me? And he got a career out of it? So sad to hear him like this still only focusing on himself and no responsibility for his actions.

[@benthread]

💯

[@sw7833]

Typical for most men and he's a narcissist!

[@Grandee7585]

Why would he say anything negative about Gwen. That would push his sons away. They know they have a wonderful mother. Although I am sure they love their father, seems they have a great life with their mother and stepfather. (Side note - the girlfriend looks similar to Gwen.😬)

[@CC.94]

Eerily similar in looks I agree. I don't understand why she let the nanny dress up just like her not unless just being nice and giving her hand-me-downs but nothing excuses what happened.

[@nicollerochelleofficial]

Its strange the way he is speaking like a total Victim when it concerns Gwen 🤔🙄

[@dollydavoid2456]

​@j😂😂esstrombley9257

[@bleh3039]

I met Gwen before and she was so nice and down to earth it’s hard to believe anything negative about her

[@Whoisshe7575]

I've never heard a single bad thing about her. Obviously he wishes he still had access to her. She probably never directly communicates with him which removes any ability to exert any control or chaos over her life.

[@jamatrix]

In the Return of Saturn album. Years before Gwen found out Gavin was cheating. You can hear what Gwen was going through with Gavin, even at that time. The song Ex-Girlfriend in particular. ("You say you're gonna burn before you mello") "Ill be the one who burns you." (Gavin Rossdale aka Bush lyrics from the song "Dead Meat" "Im doing you in tomorrow. That's why I'm dressed in all this sorrow. I'm doing you in tomorrow. (I'll burn before I mellow." ) If you listen to that song, which the album was released in 1999. Return of Saturn was released a year later in 2000.I'm still a fan of Bush, however when he cheated and hurt Gwen, we all felt it with her.

[@crismarieb6275]

I would be ashamed too if I was him.

[@user-bb6dm9jd8k]

he is a jerk

[@micheledavidswife4336]

He shouldn’t have cheated with the nanny .. And the new girl looks just like Gwen lol

[@jujub4553]

Don’t insult Gwen like that

[@micheledavidswife4336]

@@jujub4553 wasn’t insulting anyone . She does look like Gwen .

[@hellobecky84]

More so that she seems to have styled herself like Gwen in that blonde high bun. But I think Gwen is just a singular beauty

[@micheledavidswife4336]

@@hellobecky84 agreed

[@micheledavidswife4336]

@@jesstrombley9257 lol

[@dixie6294]

Whatever dude.

[@branchtobranch5607]

Some never learn until it’s too late. Consistently whining about it, year after year is just ridiculous! She didn’t deserve the humiliation you put her through. I don’t know either one of you personally but we could all clearly see from the beginning how much she loved you. So, next time you want to whine publicly, maybe consider an apology in public, put your stupid pride to the side and stop making it sound like she did something wrong. Clarify this, and feel the freedom.

[@carmendoyle9786]

He messed up . She to good for him same on him !

[@askmeagainplease]

This guy is so completely full of himself. He cheated repeatedly during the marriage and relationship and is trying to play victim. What a NARC!

[@debrap947]

She's so wonderful you just had to cheat on her? Ya...that makes sense. 🤦🏻‍♀ Next time try working it out instead of taking "it" out!

[@jujub4553]

As he should. Cheating trash box.

[@dimples2000]

He doesn't look well oh well

[@vdeniceeckert3494]

I'm sure he regrets what he did, he lost the best gal ever and his kids are far away

[@Yup71719]

It doesn't sound like he did, it sounds like he's playing the victim

[@elizabeth5985]

That made me want to🤮. And I no joke thought that was a picture of him with Gwen....and it's his new gf. Guess he has a type. 🙄

[@jessicagoodall1458]

Men that break their family up because they need to get their end away are never the same afterwards.

[@szszszsz95395]

He cheated multiple times on his wife, and he thought she would not divorce him?

[@empath3133]

Lmao 🤣 please!!! Lol

[@HARI25able]

Where do I listen this ???the cheater central? 😂

[@belmoon8711]

The podcast... ironic

[@askmeagainplease]

that's what I was thinking. Of course he went on TJ and Amy's podcast! LMFAO! Cheaters unite. All of them are so messy!

[@hellobecky84]

@@askmeagainplease Just totally shameless, the whole lot of them lol

[@dollydavoid2456]

​@@askmeagainpleaseLaughing right along with you. They all have no morals.

[@nolafan4612]

Blake is far more of a real man than this guy. He did her a favor - she’s too good for him.

[@ammaopoku5397]

I’m sorry but no don’t nobody stop feeding. Sorry for this guy. I remember Gwen saying something along the lines of I wish I could tell you what happened because it’s juicy that is what she said or thereabouts so I do not feel sorry for this guy one bit

[@Whoisshe7575]

I remember that interview. I don't think the nanny is the whole story. It's probably much worse.

[@alidi4144]

Cheated while your beautiful wife had a baby, sick he doesn't mention himself being the problem

[@j333z]

Gwen is amazing and he has gone downhill. He truly made a big mistake doing that to her.

[@LLynneM]

How many times do u suppose he’s called a GF Gwen’s name? Dude needs to branch out + try something different. I didn’t think it possible for an Albanian woman to resemble Gwen, but there u hv it. Next time, date a redhead, man. They don’t have to look like ur ex, DO they?

[@dollydavoid2456]

For him I guess they do bc he can't seem to move on. Gwen and Blake's together almost ten years yet he's had no one until now that he wants to introduce to his kids.

[@katcihealer]

Shame ; Ya think

[@tawandathurman886]

What kills me. Why not think about this before cheating and destroying your marriage. And not think about your children? And having all this regret. Not having the connection with the mother of your children. Gwen has moved on. You are not co-parents. Yes you will be connected by your children. But. You killed that connection of the mother of your children. By cheating and lying. And you know this did not have to happen. Sad. But. Like Gwen. Keep it moving.

[@user-ui8ol2sc8e]

If you arent ashamed to have been with your ex its not your ex. Kids or not. Lessons or not. Gains or not. Thats how we grow. Oh yeah and that goes both ways not about who did or the guy, if it wasnt theft, violence murder who cares. Grow up world.

[@cayseyroro7654]

He was cheating on Gwen with their nanny when she was pregnant with their third baby. In the bin.

[@kimmancha4314]

This man cheated throughout his marriage, a woman can only take and forgive so much. Shame deserved.

[@thepamela050]

Just knowing he had a 5 year sexual relationship with a man would have been a enough for me to never get involved..

[@fluffyclouds555]

lol this bastard has no room to say anything negative about her

[@Bgorejus-rs3nn]

He’s completely delusional!!

[@RooRassy]

He needs to own bringing brokenness into their home.

[@grumylynn]

To all the judges here, he's human, he made mistakes just like everyone else. He hasn't projected his stuff onto Gwen.

[@taniamatos9720]

Sorte de Blake que ganhou uma lindaaaa família!❤❤❤❤❤ e são felizes

[@mindy561]

he should be ashamed. what a bum!

[@TheStyleCurated]

Sorry, he cheated on his wife? For a while? Like is this guy right?

[@SheilaR.08]

Yep, multiple times, including in their bed with the nanny while Gwen was pregnant with their third baby.

[@BubbleMix-96]

oof....

[@NancyCallahan-tt4pj]

Keep his head up and not say anything negative about Gwen? Did he miss the nanny-affair OR was it somehow Gwen's fault (in his mind) that he fell into somebody else's bed? UGHHH. He needs to stop with the interviews.

[@lesliea.7174]

Why Gavin, why, why, why would you cheat and with the nanny! Wtf cheap and cheese of an affair as it can be! I loved you two together but you messed it up. And your new gf wanna be I can’t.

[@bebesomething]

This is how you handle a divorce. Sometimes it is not meant to be and that is okay.

[@terri4049]

Then stop talking about it in a public forum where your kids can hear it and relive it if you really care about their well-being like you claim.

[@bebesomething]

@@terri4049 he isn’t talking bad about Gwen so what’s the issue?

[@dollydavoid2456]

​@@bebesomethingNot yet. Could be in his plans.

[@bebesomething]

you can read the future? oh pls@@dollydavoid2456

[@SheilaR.08]

Nope. You "handle a divorce" by being honest and leaving if you're not happy. What you don't do is screw the nanny in your wife's home and then try to paint yourself as both the hapless victim and martyr. Just gross.

[@mariannelaba]

Hello? He cheated on her repeatedly.

[@scooper8197]

Give this guy a break he cheated not murdered someone. People make mistakes. To cheat means you cant be happy in the marriage. Fair enough he shouldnt have gone that way about it but everyone has the ability to make mistakes in life. We are here to learn from them

[@SheilaR.08]

Cheated multiple times, lied about having a daughter, and got caught effing the nanny of his own children in his wife's home. Not much better than murder, honestly. The decent thing to do is to leave if you're not happy, not betray your wife with someone she trusts to care for her kids.

[@scooper8197]

@SheilaR.08 not much different from murder?? you guys are nuts 😅

[@rm5201]

Go away, Gavin.

[@sw7833]

Cheater!

[@Nativelonewolf]

I still prefer Gavin's music over hers by far, no doubt about it.

[@PacificNW-Jess]

I sure loved them as a couple. Such a great time in music, both of them on 🔥. All the hate filled comments here must mean nobody has ever made a bad decision or choice before and you're all perfect. Don't bother commenting back. I won't care enough to see it.

[@TLCintheD313]

Bad decisions X 10,000!! He cheated on her for 20 years! He slept with their nanny in Gwen's bed!! He continues to play mind games years after the divorce. Telling his kids he hates them. He deserves every negative comment on here! He's a professional liar.

[@MalissiaCreates]

This comment is the equivalent of mouthing off and running lol he has no accountability and neither do you. 😂

[@Lulucaps]

I still feel like they belong together

[@teresawilson3893]

Gwen us3 to be so cool and great looking now she’s a blonde Kardashian why did she ruin her face?🤮🤮🤮

[@eveningstar8581]

Thank youuu!! I cannot even believe what I'm seeing when I see her now! I thought she was the most gorgeous, cool, amazing woman when no doubt first came out! She was my top shelf celebrity. Now it's just heartbreaking. Not surprising! But still sad.

[@rm5201]

She doesn't even know you are alive. lol

[@BROOKECHAIN144]

Gwen literally married to the hottest fucking guy ever BLAKE SHELTON!!! 🥵🥵

[@ivomuzik8199]

hottest?... hm, choices, tastes,,,,

[@SheilaR.08]

​@@ivomuzik8199He's great, plus he's not effing the nanny in her bed. He wins by a mile.