Iyanla vs. Tamar (and the Braxton family) Synopsis Part 1

[@whosaidthat9265]

Those grown women are still the girls in that room when their parents announced their divorce. It's like they stopped emotional development at that point and began survival mode. Sad mom was too prideful to acknowledge her role.

[@jujubeelove4]

I totally agree

[@staceyj3667]

They haven't left that room and I hope they get to some day.

[@sunniisheree6019]

Chyna White yassss omg ! You are truly right

[@XoeCox]

We all still has a hurt little girl or little boy inside. EVERY single person. It is something that needs to be addressed. Many of us don't and carry the hurts deep into adulthood. It is important to dig I'm deep and heal your inner child. I started with a meditation on youtube. I'm in my 30's. It is important to heal those hurts.

[@BigBabySis]

💯💯💯

[@nielsenmakaba5777]

TONI IS DROP DEAD GORGEOUS......she's the oldest but she's the prettiest

[@evelynramirez6390]

Nielsen Makaba not only is she drop dead gorgeous but her maturity makes her even more sexy

[@Lisforlion]

Everytime I see her I'm like "woah"

[@JaheimsStrugglingHairline]

To know birdman is kiss and having sex with her physically makes me sick i honestly can’t look at her the same because of it 😂

[@sshardaisha]

They all are beautiful in their own way

[@twilightzone3632]

@@JaheimsStrugglingHairline I can't either, She's disgusting sorry not sorry.

[@GiBi-nt3yf]

Ms. Iyanla aint having the foolishness!

[@dianarogers8450]

GiBi2016 ! No she is not putting up with their BS at all

[@kashataylor6430]

NOT ON HER WATCH!!!!! I use that for my grand kids now. Not on my watch you will not be doing that. They look at me crazy I be cracking up but they understand when granny playing or not!!! THANK YOU IYANLA.

[@packleader1215]

She had my stomach in a knot. NOW THIS LOOKS LIKE REALITY TV. :)

[@DomDom0990]

GiBi2016 ! 🗣 AT ALL and I’m here for every little bit of it!

[@tabithaharden1865]

All of Brooklyn came out

[@bonjourhermosa7049]

The brother is never involved, I don’t blame him.

[@bl757]

What? They have a brother? Had no clue

[@kimgedits]

Keep It Cute just like Rob Kardashian 😂

[@kimgedits]

B.L. Simpson Yes Michael Conrad jr. Braxton

[@nr30199]

Keep It Cute Sometimes you have to love your family from a distance

[@KarenKSmith-tm2kp]

@@kimgedits I never thought of it like that, But Yes they are THE Black Kartrashins.😏

[@AndreA-bm9ob]

I was laughing my ass off when Iyanla was reading the crap out of Tamar and the rest at the dinner table. This dragging was long overdue, Tamar finally met someone that is not going to cater to her attitude and crap.

[@shauniek]

Ms. Iyanla told her to have several seats. LOL

[@Erikay80]

André A And that’s why she really thinks Iyanla is the devil.

[@monaj4152]

I don't even believe Tamar realized it was her Iyanla was talking about until towards the end.

[@denzela-kum2186]

I died when Miss Iyanla said “How you get outta here” 💀

[@TheNewMissyJ]

She rolled that neck but she sure did sit that ass back down!

[@musicjunkie7549]

I am not going to apologize for this but Evelyn is responsible for the result of what we are seeing today. Toni is the oldest but honestly and truly she doesn’t want to have anything to do with it. Toni didn’t want to do the show from the beginning period. Tamar is childish and has been able to get away with so Much.. And Tamar is not the black sheep of the family.. Tracy is

[@didiash]

Yeah toni felt like she was doing them a favor by signing up for the show so they could also be in the lime light. And since they have supported her all this while now the messiness it has created.

[@Tobyguy22]

Yes Tracy definitely is

[@ForeverLuckyLika]

Yup 💯 that was my observation too

[@ForeverLuckyLika]

Tracy is the black sheep because she goes against the established family norms (she’s the only one still married, she honors her commitments) while Tamar is a billboard and ultimate manifestation for the family dysfunction

[@keshiakat]

Thank you. Yes Tracy is the black sheep.

[@DrMoriole]

" . . . Your behavior diminishes the validity of your message. You don't get to dishonor me 55 times." I'ma have to use that! 💯

[@Y2_KatieO]

Me too!! I wrote that 1 down lol😬

[@Morphedintoiat43]

@@Y2_KatieO LOL Right

[@nashuaandrews4410]

Touché I’m going to have to use this too

[@looknbakatu]

didn't that stop tamar in her tracks! shut her down real quick!

[@janelldivine4560]

Yessss!!!

[@sharperry1]

they need iyanla ..joyce meyer...bishop jakes..joel osteen. and madea

[@leratorose-marynthabi438]

Michael Todd and Steven Furtick, and a dash of Steve Harvey too😂😂😂

[@TheMikiros]

Don't forget Jesus

[@Chabu94]

😂😂😂

[@elizabethnguyo2774]

LMAO

[@kapturedbykay3409]

Hahahaha well said

[@zephyrs9222]

It gets on my mf nerves when parents don't get how THEY played a part in their kids life YET they're quick to say "I raised you to be..." Ugh

[@SmileyAdventures]

Zephyr Standifer Makes me physically sick!!!!

[@lisacharmaine3866]

I know I couldn't be the only one blaming their parents for this MESS.

[@deanaa538]

Zephyr Standifer i

[@MsNooneinparticular]

Yesss. "They inherited that from their dad." Uh, no. Communication skills are LEARNED, not "inherited." And I can guarantee they didn't learn all their bad habits from one parent. Communication is a two-way street. No ownership whatsoever. My mom is the same way & it's infuriating.

[@LatoyaBB]

Zephyr Standifer, it gets on my nerves too. I've heard people say so many times "he/she wasn't raised that way" BUT you ALLOW he/she to behave in that way. So you may not have raised them to be that way technically but you allowed it.

[@nataliebaker4062]

They all created the monster in Tamar. They have tip toed around her and allowed her to treat them with disrespect. A few seasons ago, Towanda tried to call out Tamar on her mess and Towanda was viewed as a hater and jealous of Tamar. Now look where we are... disgusted with the whole family!!!

[@malayasiafl]

Exactly

[@shanice8078]

Yes and also Towanda already knows how Iyanla works because if y'all can think back Iyanla had a show called Starting Over and the 1st season Towanda was on there that's why she's more humbled then the rest of them.

[@nataliebaker4062]

@@shanice8078Wow! You're right, I forgot about that show! Now I understand why Towanda asked for Iyanla's help!!!

[@shanice8078]

Yes

[@daviawalton1974]

I agree. When everyone was calling Towanda jealous I always thought no, we’ve watched her and the other two sisters get mistreated by Tamar for seasons. So she finally stood up and said she wasn’t going to take it anymore. And now she and Tamar don’t have a good relationship anymore. Tamar can’t take anyone telling her about herself.

[@Stephanie51788]

Is it me or do Toni always act like she don't know what's going on and always confused 🤔

[@mz.toomuch2578]

Stephanie Smith because she knows Exactly what's going on 😎

[@wresltgal]

Stephanie Smith Toni acts like Shaunie

[@hardyfam5]

Stephanie Smith lmao yes

[@looknbakatu]

I think toni is just TIRED! of ALL of this.

[@eunicejohnson5057]

Yep she pretend like she don't know

[@evawambani7992]

When someone else points out the hurt you pretend you don't feel... it's overwhelming....😖😖😢

[@SSBMA1994]

I can relate. I'm always hiding my feelings and my hurt

[@metzbishop436]

💯

[@netsanetmartine9548]

Hell no rather I would spit it out right away and get back my revenge instant ##DONTPLAY##

[@See-if_I_care]

Facts!

[@reelala4114]

I wonder if tamars neck ever gets tired😂

[@hotties3v3n]

😂😂😂

[@blessed1018]

FACTS

[@maxcruz1850]

why she wobble her bald headed ass like that tho smh ol' mr potato-head lookin' ass damn near 40 too smh

[@BellaFemme0420]

I guess it is well trained 🤣🤣🤣

[@dearmimi1072]

This made me laugh😂😂🤣🤣🤣😭😭

[@1joeben]

"Your behaviour diminishes the validity of your message" Very powerful indeed

[@theonlyrocha]

She is right af. You gotta walk the walk and not talk the talk.

[@marywrenn5262]

I loved that. Made me really think about that statement. You definitely see that in life. She's a gifted lady. I like listening to her when I need some clarity in my own life

[@clarke4400]

Noah was a very good behaving citizens yet still his message about the flood fell on deaf ears.

[@deloreancotton3565]

And there it is. Everybody always saying "they pick on Tamar", They just jealous ". I been watching the Braxtons from the beginning and Tamar has always been what they said. She's a brat and she's disrespectful. She can dish it all day and night. The minute she get a taste of her own medicine she instantly becomes the victim. Good Job Iyanla.

[@THEDOORIZCLOSED]

Same. Im over here liking all the similar statements ab tamar bc this episode done irritated me so MECH!

[@MultiTwilli]

Amen!!

[@malayasiafl]

Agreed

[@AA-hj8er]

EXACTLY! Can't stand the Tamar's and K Michelle's of the world. Both have a big mouth and sense of entitlement and they need a serious reality check.Tamar has always been the common denominator on this show from the start.

[@Veronique428]

They indeed pick on Tamar, they have been indeed being jealous of her since the second season of the show, especially Towanda, because they never believed that Tamar and her huff, puff, her neck rolling and all her antics will make her the most popular on the show. People started watching the show because of Toni, but they keep watching it mostly because of Tamar. So don’t get ourself twisted‼️🤨 They will crucify Tamar whatever she said or does, like everyone in this family who love to pick on Tamar, because it easier for them to do, since they always say that If our family is dysfunctional it’s because of Tamar‼️ Tamar is the syndrome of this dysfunctional family, with so much deep and ugly secrets that everyone failed to see it. They all have been learning to keep their family problems on the inside, while Tamar cary their ugliest secret, she also the one who revealed their dynamic and dysfunctional relationship. Even worst Tamar said that she was been sexually assaulted, with family members on both sides more than once, so now I understand better why she did act the way she does. I also observed that most of the time when Tamar wanted to speak her truth they shut her down, and not allowing her to talk openly what she deeply feels. She grew in a family which she learned to keep her mouth shut, her childhood’s secret make it even more unbearable for her, because she cary it all those years. For her sanity she needs to let this out, and seek for help by herself without her family.

[@Kali2Htwn]

Their mother doesn’t take ownership of anything she has done

[@thecapetonian1278]

Like Tamar

[@janedoe7895]

I think it’s difficult for people to accept responsibility or take ownership when they weren’t doing something intentionally or consciously

[@paulamugabi7320]

@@janedoe7895 it may be difficult but it can be done

[@las3rdams3l]

Like Tamar.

[@peacheskong2245]

Neither does the dad tbh... Both of them are to blame in this

[@mirandasims7488]

Why is Tamar doing all them hair flips with no hair 🙄

[@PRINCESSBOSSET]

Miranda Sims 💀💀💀

[@tamekareeves2845]

She need to stop. BALD HEAD ASS.

[@burgundyb11]

Miranda Sims girl you crazy 😂😂

[@shontagarner8663]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kathleenrichardson1844]

She forgot she was BALDHEADED

[@giseles.t7619]

Good Lord, my 2yr old toddler shows more maturity than Tamar.

[@aisharay9861]

I know her whole mind set is all messed up. She was not going in with an open mind. She needs to grow up. That's why she feels like the session didn't work. It's all about her.

[@packleader1215]

You why she acts like that? Something devastating happened to her as a little girl. I've heard that she was touched in her "no-no's"

[@librabutterfly1937]

Truth

[@NECOLEsadiah]

Shiiiiiit SO DOES MY 7yr old GrandBaby🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@ZhanaZee]

@packleaer87 I have known many people who were molested worse than her…and even they don't act like that. I'm talking being bloodied I won't get too graphic but they don't act like that.

[@kkain123]

Their Mom is so irritating. She don't want to fix or resolve anything and don't want to take blame for anything.

[@yolandathompson537]

kkain123 yes

[@fatimaamerson8489]

Miss Evelyn is a narcissist. She use her ex husband infidelity as a response for her current bitterness towards any form of tolerance. She believes that she's perfect and blameless and a victim. Tamara behaves like her. Shallow AF!

[@polifonyann]

Youre right. And she has more control over them and power in their dysfunction.

[@Bintimrembo-y1v]

She is full of herself and the root of all the problems.

[@laurielewis5670]

kkain123 its not her fault all these women are grown !!!!

[@Alione]

I watched this a couple days ago, and was very grateful for your editing skills and willingness to let the story do all of the talking. I came back because I am waiting on Part 2 like a Black Friday sale!

[@vampress18]

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[@GeMiniTheQueen]

@@vampress18 i put it up yesterday. Go check it out. It's crazy

[@ndaulinendaulina5715]

😂

[@research101able]

Ms. Evelyn's behavior was despicable. She knows her part in the dysfunction so she didn't want to commit to staying and airing it all out.

[@acquadi2077]

Some people don't like to relive the same thing unfortunately with the same results. Ms. E age bracket also is the reason she doesn't like therapy.

[@Kwintessential2]

Ms E is holding on to her anger

[@HeyTamikaa]

Didn’t Ms. Evelyn have a therapy/counseling office or whatever?

[@LIVEINPEACE2023]

Kwintessential2 She hasn’t gotten over the divorce; therefore, her children haven’t either.

[@THEDOORIZCLOSED]

Yes and no. Evelyn is TIRED. She is getting older and didnt even know why she was there. Theyve tried all types of therapy before and yet the daughters dont learn anything. Its not the parents, its the DAUGHTERS--mainly anyway

[@meghanm5592]

Iyannla's ending speech followed with "How you get outta here?" Wow very powerful.

[@bennyb8680]

🤣🤣

[@SheniceSays214]

Another thing Ms. E. had no problem going on every talk show talking about her daughters business but with Iyanla she's quiet.

[@BlaqueRose23]

Coincidence? I think not. 💯

[@TXPearl1908]

Right!

[@hotties3v3n]

Exactly 🧐🧐

[@SabbM35]

Exactly!!! Now she's hush mouth...smh

[@glammaof3871]

It's all about the paycheck for appearances! As far as I'm concerned....Mrs.E sold her soul to the devil by throwing her daughters under the bus...although they're already in the publics eye! Smdh...the things people do for money! 💰

[@CarlitaCosmetics]

It was way over due for Tamar to be checked by someone. Because she's annoying af. Tracie have a reason to feel the way she's feeling because they treat her like a step sister.

[@lilyjohnson1411]

They really do

[@omadjourney]

Everytime there's a camera Tamar start's to audition and it's really getting old at this time.

[@CarlitaCosmetics]

@@omadjourney yup I totally agree

[@kashiko321]

They do treat her that way coz she gets along with the father, when all the rest are still salty at him.

[@CarlitaCosmetics]

@@kashiko321 right it's called forgiveness

[@ladyt1182]

I thought for sure Tamar's head was just gonna roll right off her neck onto the floor.....maybe next week🤔

[@BrandyJButts]

Kiesha Cole lmao

[@secreteobsession3584]

I believe time I was set up she is always on time doesn't make sense from Breakfast to come in in the afternoon though but obviously time I had something to say and obviously she didn't want to let her know about it

[@MeccaA28]

Me too! Hell, it already looked like a kid’s size bowling ball

[@ladyt1182]

Ms. LA lol

[@staceyj3667]

🤣

[@mshill2406]

"Your behavior diminishes your message"

[@n2resiliency]

MS Hill very impactful statement. Locking it in memory bank. Thanks for sharing!

[@SyleenaSpeaks]

A WORD!

[@kashataylor6430]

💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪

[@deenadz6806]

Ms Hill this is a statement for myself 🤦🏽‍♀️ my man always says to me that sometimes I’m right but the way I deliver the message is wrong so it makes ME look like the bad person smh Deep

[@mshill2406]

@@deenadz6806 Well keep working at it. Its good that you can see yourself because a lot of folks are unaware of their dysfunction. I have my moments too like any ordinary person.

[@alim3611]

oh wow ... tamar with all that neck rolling and pursing of lips ... very disrespectful but i dont blame her ... she learnt it from miss evelyn who is also making faces and doesn't want to be there ... i am glad we are all seeing this because Tamar tweeted that iyanla was the wrong one yet it is obvious what is happening here ....

[@KRWatkins]

I totally agree. Iyanla was spot on when she said: your behavior does not match your message. Tamar's behavior was so off! At some point, she needs to grow up!

[@tstyles9690]

@@margotpittman567 Wow!! I saw that too in Evelyn. Tamar has Always been a Spoiled Imature/Disrespectful Tart!!!

[@looknbakatu]

the entire family condoned tamar's "extra" behavior until it became "the norm" for her, TOO ingrained in her to change or for tamar to see her way is grating on almost everyone.

[@margotpittman567]

@@tstyles9690, Amen and Amen again! This family will never heal until the mother drops her pride. Isn't she supposed to be a life coach?

[@yolandathompson537]

alim3611 100000% FACTS

[@merci-jardine6728]

I really thought Toni was the youngest of the sisters lol, she looks damn good.

[@nomahlubigumede]

I thought so too

[@robertaturner7338]

Whoever doing tracy hair n makeup she needs to keep them

[@YPM498]

Roberta Turner right?! She looks GOODT

[@momoshiggles3631]

Holy Shit. I was thinking the same thing. She looks great.

[@loisbrown1059]

Exactly! Trina especially looks like she's doing her own hair and makeup! Look cheap and regular!

[@starstruck522]

It's the season of Traci !!! And the sisters don't like it !

[@lonnieoutloud1244]

Tell dat

[@moniquecovermepretty1558]

Tamar has been glorified by fans for her craziness and lack of respect for others.. it's almost like she take pleasure in being insensitive to her sister's because it makes her feel/or appear to be better than them.. and I knew this show was creating a Monster out of her (that's the problem with them).. she likes being "up here" and Traci, Towanda, and Trina.. "yall are down there".. Tamar is disrespectful..

[@GeMiniTheQueen]

Good point. I was thinking similar earlier like....THE FANS of Braxton Family Values literally made Tamar a superstar. I think we all thought she was waaaay younger than she was but then we saw she made some bomb ass music. Now....we r seeing her in a different light. She's attacked people I personally know with lies...people I've watched...with lies...she confused or it's a case of I'm too old to change so over personification of what you already were doin....mmmm it's sad

[@moniquecovermepretty1558]

GeMini The Queen Tamar has been spoiled in the entire history of this show.. when Wendy William's did there first season reunion show.. Tamar learned that the public loved her bold personality.. and she amped it up for the next season.. Tamars career officially took off.. fans were excited to see her win.. but with that extra attention.. it put a super mega charged battery in her back and she started really shitting on her sisters... A Mess.. and they sitting all around and can't say anything to her.. she is just about ready to take that humble seat (and put her ass in it).. Tamar is Tamar down fall.. you will see it..

[@GeMiniTheQueen]

@@moniquecovermepretty1558 the whole truth! Tell em

[@HunniChile72]

Tamar Victim Braxton is rude AF !! Acting like a clown and talking to a woman that can very well be her mother. I hope Ms E pop her annoying behind in the next episode. Because she is OVER .... DOING..... IT !!

[@GeMiniTheQueen]

@@HunniChile72 💀😭😂

[@EB-fp8ep]

Mother not ready to be hit with that reality stick its hard for a women to take responsibility for her hand in the destruction of this family

[@erikawhite5152]

Well Mrs. Evelyn was NOT a single parent. Her husband cheated and broke up this family. Why the hell is all of this on the mom.

[@EB-fp8ep]

Thats what u got from my statement did we watch the same clip cause i saw women that wanted no parts of responsibility period ok

[@erikawhite5152]

So, this proves the double standard theory then. If you can honestly fix your words to explain foolishness displayed by the father then I guess Mrs. Evelyn should just pretend that that level of betrayal doesn't affect her. Unresolved issues spill over in the heart and up and through the mouth and behavior. She didn't have proper support to overcome this betrayal so yes out of hurt and pain unintentionally she raised her daughters from the broken pieces she was left to gather. S

[@erikawhite5152]

So, this proves the double standard theory then. If you can honestly fix your words to explain foolishness displayed by the father then I guess Mrs. Evelyn should just pretend that that level of betrayal doesn't affect her. Unresolved issues spill over in the heart and up and through the mouth and behavior. She didn't have proper support to overcome this betrayal so yes out of hurt and pain unintentionally she raised her daughters from the broken pieces she was left to gather.

[@erikawhite5152]

Yes, but notice that this man moved on while he was yet still married. You can't possibly be serious with this rant about how he moved on. He was still in the covenant of marriage.

[@eroscancel8493]

Iyanla is so powerful lord she has a special gift she’s an omega dominant without the need of violence and soothing

[@stewstewnonyo9377]

Do you mean Sigma?

[@casarose36]

My God how childish is Tamar? I'm the youngest of my family and I don't behave like that! Iyanla tell they ass like it is!

[@kenyalove7343]

Tamar......please for once please just get over you! Geeeeesh!

[@DelondaYvette]

I swear.....

[@EducatedBlackQueen]

Her and those head movements!!!! She cant keep still!!!! Wtf wrong with her???

[@kenyalove7343]

Tamar has a lot of pride & cant nobody tell her a dog on thing, she’s the only one who can ever be RIGHT...bossy and needs to grow the hell up!!

[@kokolatte825]

Tamar inherited all her pettiness from her mom. I'm glad its finally on front street.

[@shannonstewart4792]

Tamar and the Mom need an Exorcism lol.

[@supernaturalme9736]

The problems with the Braxtons are: #4 All 5 of them inherited Ms. E’s bitterness #3 Ms. E is either unaware or in denial about that #2 All of the women including Ms. E feel abandoned by Braxton Sr #1 They keep trying to work out their family issues on TV - which completely goes against the “Covered Wagon” value that they listed. Also, the fact that they keep referring to a 40yr old divorcée as a baby is a bigggg problem and the reason Tamar acts the way she does. They’ve been enabling her attitude since childhood

[@Lafilledlapluie]

Ms E is like some of my friends. Will act oblivious to things because it's uncomfortable

[@opulence_prime]

As much as I hate to blame the mom it's her.

[@nursejaegraham4475]

Say that sis!!!!

[@trollies8403]

This first one you started with is so wrong. All of them are NOT like their mother so stop spreading lies.

[@supernaturalme9736]

Trollies not lies. Just my opinion from what I deserve watching all six seasons of the show

[@ummitsrissa]

I really love Trina,Toni,and tracy because of Their transparency. They seem like the most willing out of all of them

[@dlilwon]

Dang Toni is still very beautiful.

[@heatherking8689]

Absolutely one if not the most beautiful woman ive seen.. Id give anything to look like her... Her skin is so smooth and beautiful and i love her personality too.

[@mooniepeters8426]

Yes, she is absolutely stunning!!!

[@sharzhay]

Lirrulewon I was looking at her the entire time like damn sis!

[@louisxvii2137]

...but what happened to Trina??? She aged into somebody’s old ass looking grandma. And Traci needs to get the rest of her face done. Where are her lips? In her neck? Looking like Aretha’s corpse. Ms Evelyn looking more and more like mama Tina Knowles. Iyanla needs to stop saying _Beloved_ we get it... she hustling for Oprah on the 20 year anniversary of that movie... but baby she was a flip floppy hot mess of a movie. _Beloved_ has to be one of the worst cinematic attempts in history. It is said that movie only set black people back at least 70 years. Shame on you Oprah the organ trafficker in russian that secretly spells negro backwards. #illuminati

[@Luigiano]

Tamar is incredibly disrespectful

[@keitafoxy7428]

kagiso lenoge ke dumelana le wena. Metlholo! Miracles!

[@lorrainebanath-yasharahla9561]

kagiso lenoge: Yes she is

[@dikeledinycolemaloka9422]

Wa tella o kgona ke clappa straight

[@Soundsliketara]

“What happens in this house stays in this house” *goes on reality tv show*

[@namastepeace3484]

The irony of it all...SMH

[@tdaniahenderson5015]

millerny10 remind you they are producing the shows so they show us what makes us watch the show they still keeping secrets

[@fisheyedfool7947]

@@tdaniahenderson5015 right. Toni is one of the 1st producers. I notice how she portrays herself. I have been saying that for years. I have always been a fan of her music. But she just comes across as too good or flawless. It's weird.

[@glambyportia3100]

Right

[@kathleenrichardson1844]

Exactly what my parents said...But I didn't listen I told everything...

[@annellealexander4025]

When iyanla raises her voice just know it's a wrap 👀

[@educatork1771]

Iyanla is so on point it's scary

[@2756DC]

The whole family has SEVERE issues and tamar will NEVER EVER own her part in any of her sh##.

[@mscurlett2011]

Never with her messy ass!

[@Social_Pugatory]

Sheila Smith Is she a Pisces?

[@Jerseysfinest12]

Sounds like my mother

[@kylie4524]

Yes she's a pisces, Pisces always play victim

[@TeeTee-2016]

Sheila Smith just like her momma.

[@ilrock]

These comments got me crying! 😂😂😂 but Tamar needs to grow the F up! I’m glad she got called out on her b.s

[@tishamae8963]

It's about time somebody did and she got the right one to do it

[@coquis408]

Deflection all the way around. The family still has their mom and dad. How can they continue to take each other for granted by not talking themselves? SMH

[@deehaynse8657]

This Family is gone,,👧👩👹👽👱👵

[@darricksmith403]

ilrock right 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@darricksmith403]

coquis408 exactly

[@muhammaddel]

They need individual counseling starting with ms E and ex husband. She needs closure and he needs to ask for forgiveness and really mean it. He hurt her and he doesn't feel bad about it.

[@Indigobliss377]

He has hurt her! Yes, however he is not responsible for her pain. She is still choosing to linger that on. He has moved on why hasn't she??

[@ladywilkins9398]

@@Indigobliss377 ...She hasnt gotten past it because the deepness of his adultered betrayal went from tears to hate. It blows me when folk hurt you they feel time is up on your forgiveness. Not to mention, He married the woman who assisted in the cheating within their marriage. So its a hell of lot easier to be civil without disgust when its someone new, but that situation I see clearly why she's forever bitter towards him. She's moved on, she date others. What her adult daughters need to respect is her boundaries and stop pushing collective gatherings, and accept where there mother is without boundage in their life. When and if Ms Evelyn decides to see Braxton as not a cause and effect in her life, be it never, is perfectly fine.

[@mightyme.makingitnew9979]

LaDy Wilkins 👌🏾💯

[@blognewb]

*oh. OH! OH!!! SO **_THIS_** IS WHY TAMAR GOT FIRED FROM THE REAL. No respect for anyone else's TIME. Better believe it*

[@kyvonnasmith7091]

Yup

[@marissalachelle1164]

Pretty much...😒😒😒 this is the reason in behind the disappated marriage...😒😒😒 its truly sickening

[@Babysista]

💥💥💥💥💥Boom! And you know it. Tamar’s attitude stinks. She hate traci so much it’s crazy. I cringe watching her ass, every time the camera spun around it was on her plastic surgery carved ass nose up in the air.

[@arleedennis791]

@@Babysista tamar?

[@bellarose2220]

What's really sad is Vince was a producer for the show and got her the job but not even her tight strings could get her to keep it.

[@ashleydenise9875]

Damn!!! A mess. Tamar is a 40 year old who acts like she's 4, Evelyn is still pissed Michael left her and the girls are stuck with her and haven't moved on. I feel for Tracy. Kudos to Iyanla for trying. Did Iyanla say they have vexed my spirit?! 🤣

[@deezingo]

They are a royal mess

[@parisboo05]

you hit it right on the nose i was shocked at tamar behavior

[@alvawoods952]

I had no idea that Tamar was in her forties she doesn't act like an adult I was totally shocked GET HELP BABY LORD KNOWS YOU NEED IT

[@crod3167]

Ummmm...when Traci said, "I feel disrespected," I do not recall Traci saying, "I feel disrespected by Tamar." Why must Tamar turn everything about her!

[@TheeCoachg]

C Rod exactly! That was such a telling moment.

[@looknbakatu]

I think tamar was the 1 who said traci was dead to her.

[@crod3167]

@@looknbakatu I've had that discussion with someone else in another post. They seem to think it was Towanda that said it, because of the fall out from the strike and the non-invite to the christening, I tend to believe it may have been Towanda because, Traci & Tamar was not speaking to each other before all this. Remember when Traci went to Tamar's movie set and Tamar rode right by her? Than the business about Tamar getting Traci off tour? That was the last time they said two words to each other. Nevertheless, whoever said it, that's just out of bounces. This is family! I know family don't always get alone, but dang, really! That right there means you have no feelings towards this person, that is your sister, your blood!

[@Simplykiebby]

Same thing I said! Traci didn’t even say a name and she made it about her. She did something to Traci

[@angiesimpson2439]

While I don’t think Tamar behaved herself well in this episode (and I am a BIG Tamartian), I also have a feeling that this is what she means about how production chops and screws the editing to paint a certain picture of her. I have a feeling that she was talking about something totally different but coincidentally her wording matched what Traci said in a different scene so they put it together as if they were talking about the same thing.

[@shariceornah]

This child took off her hat and brushed her scalp. My goodness. 🙄🙄

[@MiamiPush2theLimit]

Sharice Johnson Lmao that cracked me up. I can’t take it 🤣

[@princymadotyeni2467]

😂😂😂

[@obitabs1716]

😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@butterbiscuit1005]

💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 I’m so dead

[@evawambani7992]

😂😂😂

[@QueenYayYa]

When Tamar started brushing her barely bald head i screamed. Tamar is a hot ass mess. 💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@t.walker8641]

Right. She is too much

[@derricknregina]

Ayanna B that was funny.

[@brotherandsisterlove8476]

I died !!!

[@ajbluebird7741]

Me tooo!!! I was dying...😂😂😂

[@monaemonae1012]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@GeMiniTheQueen]

Sorry guys, it's a 2 part episode on Braxton Family Values soooo of course we have to wait until next week to get the rest of the story as BFV tells it. I'll def do one as sooooon as I see it💖♊

[@vibrantspirit5403]

Thanks for the update.

[@SurahOnline]

Thank you 💖 x

[@serritawatkins8113]

GeMini The Queen thank you can’t wait

[@GeMiniTheQueen]

I'm excited to see how it goes down as well! Lol I'm on it!

[@pinkp939]

You did an awesome job on this vid 👏 Thank you

[@sharzhay]

Ms Evelyn really needs to let go of all that hurt form the divorce..

[@thulindhlovu4672]

I agree, shes still bitter its not even funny! She has pride to admit...she taught her children to forgive but she hasnt

[@sweetangiegirl1]

Yes. You are so right.

[@charisejackson85]

You ain't lying! ...she's ridiculous.

[@jamicemoore984]

Thank you, I'm glad I'm not the only who sees this.

[@iamravyn6878]

Bruh her best friend is screwing and sleeping with her ex husband. But your right she needs to start working on growing up from this shi*. However how you gonna fix your crap when every two seconds one of your kids acting like the fresh out the world with another one. They all need to find the word GROWTH. Not everything someone says needs to be responded to or spoken about or overthought.

[@xoinfatuated]

Ms. Evelyn really reminds me of my own mother. You cannot openly express any negative feelings, because she takes it as a personal attack on her parenting. I hope the Braxtons are someday able to find inner peace. They deserve it, they just don't know it yet.

[@cocot9414]

Mom and Dad's toxic relationship trickled down to the children. Toni is still acting distance by appearing profesaional, Tawanda, Tracy and Trina are living in the shadows of Tamar and Toni's success. And Tamar is constantly fighting for attention even with and behavior.

[@pumas6189]

Tamar does not have success....

[@shivvy101]

You hit it right on the nail that’s what i was gonna say

[@semekapope]

Coco T I wish I could like this comment 1000 times. Nothing but the truth. I’ve always said this. “Mommy” never says anything when it comes to these girls behavior toward one another. This is definitely learned behavior. There was a time when Ms. E didn’t speak or sit in the same room with “Daddy” and claimed not to be bitter. They have a massive amount of work to do!

[@alemarie239]

Well said!

[@mobrown7594]

Coco T Trina is successful, owns her own bar, and is on sister circle Trina was also the lead in the braxtons singing group.

[@Serenitie3]

Tamar irritates tf out of me

[@galacticwarrior7573]

Serenitie3 u r absolutely beautiful girl! (I’m fully straight no disrespect if u r gay)

[@dianarogers8450]

Me too can’t take her at alllllll

[@anewno6240]

She reminds me of someone I know in real life who thinks they are better then everybody.

[@ericagulley3918]

Lol

[@ericagulley3918]

I love her music but she can be ridiculous at times

[@jackiewelch85]

I dont see how Tamar can call Iyanla a fraud and defame her when Iyanla tried to help. Tamar is out of line by being hours late and was nonchalant about it until Iyanla called her out. Tamar needs to grow up. Iyanla was totally right "Your behavior diminishes the validity of your message"

[@PrincessZaire100]

Jackie Welch iyanla brought her being molested as a child and Tamar wasn’t ready to open that womb back up and she feels that Iyanla took it to far and it wasn’t her place to bring that back up when she didn’t want to talk about it

[@lilyjohnson1411]

@Antwön right cuz that was never mentioned in either episode so that was BS she just wanted to put out a false reason for her behavior im so glad her mother was there to check her

[@PrincessZaire100]

Antwön they edited it out and please don’t call me beloved. That’s very passive aggressive

[@jackiewelch85]

Imani Floyd if she didnt want to talk about it, then she doesn't need to go to therapy. Their purpose is to get to the root of your problems and overcome them. Nobody was forced they went on her own so they should've stayed home if they didnt want healing

[@PrincessZaire100]

Jackie Welch Iyanla is NOT a therapist first off... second off it’s VERY inappropriate to blast that in front of everyone. She could’ve took Tamar to the side and asked if she wanted to talk about it with the family. She took that choice away and that’s wrong on so many levels. Iyanla was very unprofessional for that and she knows it. And she is very condescending at times. When she was doing that whole “I love you” stuff with her hand and shit I was ready to slap the fuck outta her for Tamar. That was outta order outta line and very disrespectful

[@Anthony-qs3in]

Very disappointing seeing ms. Evelyn being so standoffish and in denial. She basically blamed her ex for everything bad that has happened to the family, she conveniently took credit for all the good.

[@Yelena8980]

Wesley Sosa he is to blame, there wouldn’t be this issue had he not stepped out of his marriage and left his family.

[@someoneanonymous5544]

Stay and fight witg mim because its not where you want ro be is even more toxic. Divorce is not the end of a family the behaviors after usually are.

[@Yelena8980]

Someone Anonymous I agree to a certain extent, he was a grown man, an amicable divorce would suffice. But to cheat for years with a woman your wife called her close friend and then leave his family no contact for years ? I believe if they ended things on a mature level then this could’ve been avoided

[@anitramiller9626]

Yeah, it seemed like every time Mr. Braxton spoke Ms. E ...kept with the side eye or rolling of the eyes..She's still very bitter...Iyanla even felt that.

[@ckay4469]

She's still bitter, she wish Mr. Braxton never left her she's holding onto a lot of anger it really shows

[@Tredaris16]

I can’t with Tamar

[@Lavin2084]

Neither can I...she's a mess

[@levean]

Kimberly Mathis and I think the world is starting to see why the rest of the sisters act the way they do towards her

[@FrenchiJ]

How does Tamar neck not hurt? I rolled my neck at my mom once in my whole life. She very sternly explained to me how that behavior was beneath me as a young lady & she wouldn't have it in her house. Then went into detail about where my neck would end up, if I dared to roll it again.... 🤦🏽‍♀️ WELP! Needless to say I've NEVER rolled it again! Lmao 🤣🤣🤣

[@sheilae.9670]

Lol your mom was absolutely right and is a great mother for telling you to correct that behavior

[@tashaladytee]

I was thinking the same thing.

[@KushQueen9]

🤣🤣🤣

[@ayandadlamini5182]

My mom thought I rolled my eyes at her when I was rubbing them and I can safely say that I nearly died and neck rolling is not even on my attempt list.

[@lpg64593]

Tracy kept asserting that the "elephant in the room" and "it" references "dont bother her", but clearly her face showed that it does indeed bother her. Whether she's wrong or not, I hate to see a person in such obvious pain.😟

[@LEGENDPantherJennings]

Me too

[@BigBabySis]

Right

[@jocelynharris9475]

9ⁿ

[@nicklebaby]

I always felt so sad about Traci. They treated her like an outcast and then when she reacted always blamed her. 😕

[@SheniceSays214]

Anything covered up doesn't get healed. What's the point in attempting to do therapy if you're not going to be a willing participant?

[@lovelove42]

Shenice Says Right! Like literally, “why are you there”😒

[@DelondaYvette]

I agree!!

[@mamamegan7535]

Tamar is too full of herself. Her attitude makes me wonder how Vince even married her

[@wanda01141]

Ive always wondered that lol

[@nicolerichardson7724]

Bc Tamar is a broken insecure woman.......controlling men can smell women like Tamar from across the sea!!

[@christinajackson126]

I'm trying to figure that out too. Shes a whole fucking mess!

[@TASconfidential]

Easy answer: Being an obese man with low self-esteem, who needed the validation from being with any woman... Tamar found a sucker, who’s bank accounts she could be attached to, and not have to have sex with. And a marriage emerged.

[@FBACERTIFIED]

Mama Megan he was fat

[@tgrice601]

Towanda walking up the steps into the house tho that sister has a BAWWWWDDDDDYYYYYYY fa DAYSSSSSSSS!!!

[@momoshiggles3631]

Tywanna Grice OMG. I was just thinking that. She looked AMAZING in that dress. 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@sherellroberts4757]

Tywanna Grice she should glide with each step! Took her years for her natural grown woman shape! She’s loving it! Yesss UMBA

[@Thecleaningmommy]

She was walking like she was on a runway

[@jasminee671]

I was looking for this comment-she came allll the way through!!

[@KeepIt-hy8oo]

I saw her too. Go on Towanda! 😂

[@Grandiva_005]

Miss E says she communicates YET she don't even wanna be there to talk. And TAMAR is crazy 😅😅😅

[@1GEM4U]

I bet the brother could tell some stories and that's why he's hardly shown.

[@chantalb3986]

I agree. I would love to hear his perspective.

[@johnnyjonjohn8443]

He stays out of it He's said. He grew up with his siblings who were full of drama and he could sneak away and go to a quiet place. Dudes probably a bit traumatised tbh

[@alidon1970]

That's why the Brother stay away!!! Its too much for him

[@rainypuddz]

I NEVER knew they had a brother until this comment 😫😫

[@rachelr3230]

🤔I was wondering about him myself.

[@felicianicoleg]

Lies Tamar told on Wendy's couch of deceit!!! "Your behavior diminishes your message. You can't do what I do!!! I TELL THE TRUTH!!! The Spirit of Chaos & Confusion is attached to the Braxton Family" Iyanla told the TRUTH & it's obvious who can & cannot accept, take it or even handle it! Wow!!! Now I am disappointed!!! That's the ultimate truth!!!!

[@tashaladytee]

And she has a new man... how? Her attitude stinks.

[@ladyruler9585]

Say what you want about Iyanla’s tactics, but she always tries to get to the root of the cause. In all seriousness Tamar is a class a narcissist or suffers from a form of mental illness. Evelyn and Daddy Braxton played a big part in the family’s dysfunction together and separately.

[@MultiTwilli]

Absolutely!!

[@SimpleeKomplex]

I don't think she's a narcissist as she seems empathetic, but I believe she's been deeply traumatized and is stuck at the age that the trauma took place.

[@johnnymyzkyyyy]

I feel like I’m getting a free therapy lesson. I’m really self evaluating 😂

[@etsout]

This video was so well done. Thank you. Tamar is so childish it's embarrassing.

[@imalwaysright]

Truly. She is a grown woman acting like a school girl. She is so irritating and will never heal with that attitude

[@fedexlady22]

Tamar truly needs to grow up.

[@nicolerichardson7724]

i always see these types of comments and i just want to say that when youve been yhrough a trauma that youve never moved on from you sort of mentally stay in the place and age of when it happened.....not to mention they are all immature....some more passive aggressive than the others.....Tamar is the baby of the sisters and it is clear theyve always treated her this way. even the parents.....they are all stuck in time. im not sure what time but they are living mentally somewhere in the past....

[@doloresmccray3079]

Telling a LIE, living a LIE,are two different things!Why Curse! And Bless GOD, in the same sentence! STOP, playing Church!! They traded their Dignity , for fame and money ! They need to stop ALL the drama ! Acting in church and acting in life!!!!!!

[@kenyaezeanuna1288]

etsout Yess! I'm glad she's not related to me. So embarrassing I'm embarrassed as is cause she's African-American like me.....Damn!

[@MissNocturnal09]

It's not only Tamar. Toni also dishonors and disrespects their family. They show up when they want. They treat the others like they are more important. Their time is more valuable. And I love Toni, but the truth is the truth.

[@jadeluvsya6870]

MissNocturnal09 Toni on a conference call, what happened. Nobody will blame her cause she has the money.

[@shylasmith8140]

Makes you think....hmmm. why would Toni schedule a phone conference call during a much needed therapy session???

[@Teeyah2]

I agree!

[@IAmKawanaJo]

Tru

[@litlearning2894]

Dont come for Toni

[@shanatoomer8411]

Why Tamar always got to look so cray with them faces... she really thinks it gets her points across!

[@GeMiniTheQueen]

Right...but Iyanla right...Your behavior diminishes your message!! My world....All id wanna do is ignore you or help ya head go head and pop off

[@preciousmarielove2858]

No, She's become a character and a shell of who she suppose to be.. She don't know how to stop she will self destruct in min

[@shanatoomer8411]

GeMini The Queen Exactly!!🤣

[@maesams6212]

And she think she's SUPER CUTE

[@donnadorsey1334]

ATTENTION that's what she like's just stupid

[@LovingAtlanta]

☝️💡Also I want to point out that the red outfit Evelyn has on was for her ex-husband....the “statement” was for him, no one else.

[@ndinawilliam5587]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@merlaniemosese4173]

😂😂😂‼️

[@tgrice601]

And the sisters wonder why Tamar act the way she do CAUSE THEY ALLOW IT!! Cause at that table grown or not my momma would've back handed my ass if i acted like a 16 year old and im 40!!

[@GeMiniTheQueen]

Truth

[@missneworleans5606]

That wasn't a 16 yr old tho. That was a 4 yr old girl right there. That shit was 😂😂😂 thou!

[@levean]

And I think that's the biggest problem the family placed each one into a stereotype when they were kids and now as adults they don't fit it anymore

[@flesh8595]

Tywanna Grice girl my momma too on camera like oops oh I don’t GAF !!!

[@wisediva9807]

Tamar the same age as my mother my mother doesn't act like this but i like Tamar

[@santana181]

Tamar is so childish!!

[@QueenRissa_34]

She really is....lol!!!!

[@CeeCee-j9w]

And annoying as f*ck

[@constancemorgan2462]

Ooooooo my mother would have smacked me upside my cold head so hard it would have echoed into the next block WHAT 😏 so disrespectful

[@constancemorgan2462]

I hate auto-correct 🤷

[@lovelylady76]

Exactly

[@beautifulasme8798]

WAIT ✋! Did Tamar pull out a brush and start brushing her head like she was Chicago from poetic Justice?

[@katrina8998]

Beautiful Asme Best comment ever. 😂

[@beautifulasme8798]

@@katrina8998 😂😂😂 I just couldn't take her serious after that lol

[@shamiyayisreal7316]

😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@beautifulasme8798]

@J Diamond 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sherryeaton129]

Lmbooo

[@GoddessofMusicTv]

I believe Tamar has bipolar disorder or some kind of undiagnosed mental health issue that needs to be addressed. Something just seems off..🤔

[@andiledlamini482]

2 years ago and your comment makes sense now. She actually confessed that she has mental health issues, just last month in an interview with TAMRON HALL .

[@sandilekhumalo6152]

And you were right

[@TheMwendaa]

@@sandilekhumalo6152 what was it, bipolar?

[@NoName-ok8bq]

Toni braxton is a beauty

[@naturalTJ]

No Name she sure is. So clsssy!!!

[@szaswhore]

Sumaya M what?

[@hopemelody5898]

Of the family edited

[@sattasana7753]

Yes beautiful

[@rabiam2848]

She looks so young as well

[@AskMiko]

Tamar's "animated" behavior is a result of not being able to verbally communicate her thoughts and opinions clearly. It's definitely something that started in her childhood: in school, church, and likely at home. She can't say what she really wants to say and uses facial expressions and body language to convey her thoughts. When she does share her thoughts, it's short, simple statements that are blurted out of frustration and uses her body language to say what she really means. The parents definitely play a role in all of this. Allowing children to bicker, fight, and cause emotional pain while acting like it's not their fault was hard to watch. They certainly haven't resolved their own issues which have allowed the children to mimic their behaviors. This was an excellent synopsis.

[@rachelr3230]

Say that again . You are so right!

[@Veronique428]

They will crucify Tamar whatever she said or does, like everyone in this family who love to pick on Tamar, because it easier for them to do, since they always say that If our family is dysfunctional it’s because of Tamar‼️ Tamar is the syndrome of this dysfunctional family, with so much deep and ugly secrets that everyone failed to see it. They all have been learning to keep their family problems on the inside, while Tamar cary their ugliest secret, she also the one who revealed their dynamic and dysfunctional relationship. Even worst Tamar said that she was been sexually assaulted, with family members on both sides more than once, so now I understand better why she did act the way she does. I also observed that most of the time when Tamar wanted to speak her truth they shut her down, and not allowing her to talk openly what she deeply feels. She grew in a family which she learned to keep her mouth shut, her childhood’s secret make it even more unbearable for her, because she cary it all those years. For her sanity she needs to let this out, and seek for help by herself without her family.

[@judahbupe7607]

I act in that way too, although not more than Tamar, and what you have typed down here is true.

[@destinetobegreat]

Toni always playing like she's innocent

[@shirleyjames8257]

Exactly she does it well

[@daelynnbutler2742]

destinetobegreat she is. She’s never the one with a problem 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@destinetobegreat]

Daelynn Butler don't get me wrong I am and always have been toni's fan. We tv edits toni's scenes well and her sisters will never call her out because she's Toni Braxton and they wouldn't be doin the show if it wasn't for her

[@Lyomama22]

i think shes just so content with her outer appearance shes okay with the inner turmoil.... its her hair i think

[@tahashaholloway3688]

She ain’t innocent at all Like everyone thought 💭 Whitney Huston was “A Good Girl” Whole time she a whole Crack Head ( Coke Head) (Tomato TaMoToe)

[@bigmocha4694]

Tamar needed to get checked. Just saying.

[@basetsanamogobu2199]

The brushing hair part😂

[@ToyToy1527]

Iyanla needs to dedicate an entire season to these people. So many skeletons and stories of hurt and lies that they will never be honest about. They will never fully evolve and heal because they dont want to admit they behave this way because of Ms. E. She has these grown women emotionally stuck

[@tanyajohnson1388]

wilsonf15 soooooo true and Toni is about to marry a man that’s probably on the same emotional level as she is and that’s scary because Ms. E loves him which means their negative energy matches 😞

[@tyvethiamorris]

I agree

[@victoriawilliams7750]

Actually traci is the Black sheep

[@nuveauterra2]

Victoria Williams Traci looks very Good! GOD bless her.

[@siger03]

Victoria Williams no shes not... they labeled her as such... but shes really not... cause and effect

[@copycat2560]

Victoria, I certainly agree with you. And Traci is also the closest to daddy...the object of Evelyn's anger / hatred.

[@catrinab888]

This season

[@coquis408]

Hello!

[@looknbakatu]

NO 1 EVER! confronted tamar on her shit, it had to have started when she was younger, this behavior & attitude is INGRAINED in her, the Family let her "get away" with SO much, it's normal to her, she's ALWAYS! behaved this way, it's not just behind closed doors any more, BFV's has made it public! how people act in private is how they act in public!

[@queenlauren7389]

looknbakatu exactly! 💯 they let her get away with acting like that way too damn long .

[@lisavcampbelllc]

Her behavior def started as a child. I use to always wonder, why they excused her antics & called her "the baby", like she was in her mid-late 30's, now 40's, and she still out here acting out. Her behavior with Iyanla was sad. She looked like a 3 year old child that needed to go potty. I am glad Toni at least mentioned Tamar's inability to communicate, & inability to communicate without making those UGLY ASS facial expressions.

[@Machenziethemodel]

looknbakatu it comes from her sexual abuse as a child

[@dianebrown4840]

Tamar with the head rolling, eye popping , neck snapping antics continues to look like a damn fool. Is there any wonder that her marriage & her time on the Real didn't last? A simple, attention seeking juvenile in a woman's body. And clearly, Mother Evelyn is in denial about her part in the behavior of these grown women. Yes, they must all take responsibility in some form but it is crystal clear in the attitude in Ms.Evelyn that she will take no responsibility in the root cause of their adult behavior.

[@cocoajones9415]

@@Machenziethemodel I agree, the abrupt getting up and leaving the room from conflict, defensive and stand-offish behavior, stems from anger and confusion from traumatic abuse as a child. If you noticed she began to experience some anxiety, and PROBABLY has anxiety more often than not...she knows if she remained in that room to continue, Ayanla would bring those demons to the surface. It's a very scary thing to face those demons ESPECIALLY when you are surrounded by the very people who you expected protection from. It's not their fault, but this is the mind of some who have gone through this type of trauma. The brain has a way of compartmentalizing... it WILL shut and suppress certain traumas down... if too hard to handle... and when it surfaces all types of behavior follows. She must begin to heal and face EVERY demon suppressed; she must walk through the fire, and stay there awhile to heal; it's not fun it's very hard. She needs to walk back to meet her true self because the reward is great and worth every burn. I know from experience.

[@stillanastasia5623]

"You need to tell your face" 😂😂😂

[@VirgoDluxe]

Ms. E first showed disrespect the second she didn’t even stand up to greet Iyanla. Like, excuse me?!? Red flag to go with that red outfit. Tamar is a younger version of her mother... PERIOD! Both are full of attitude and are seriously in denial.

[@tanyajohnson1388]

Tanis Russell that why Ms. E can easily excuse her daughter’s behaviors

[@mar69storm]

I need to know what a God Ms. E is praying to because it can't be the one I know

[@GeMiniTheQueen]

She flipped all the way didn't she.

[@mar69storm]

@@GeMiniTheQueen hell yes and I don't even like to bring religion into it, but for her to be the woman she is and she feels that she has not allowed anything is crazy

[@GeMiniTheQueen]

There's so many layers to this....lots of secrets...stuff and stuff

[@alim3611]

Miss E ... is nice nasty and unfortunately its rubbed on to her children

[@bluebeam1120]

It ain’t

[@raydavis1539]

Tbh the problem is Tamar is exactly like the mother..Tamar does outwarldy what mother does inwardly.

[@smilealwaysnatasha3423]

ray davis yessssssd you are so right

[@kaelapearl1950]

Great observation

[@xnijasky_creationzx]

I agree

[@TaeandDes4L]

I love how you just worded that !

[@raydavis1539]

Destinee Giles thnk u

[@NiceenoughDMV]

Wow, you did an excellent job at summarizing this episode. You gave all the juice and eliminated the fluff.

[@katherinemiller5506]

TAMAR'S BEHAVIOR IS SO VOLATILE AND AGGRESSIVE.

[@moniquecovermepretty1558]

Tamar will miss opportunities because of her inability to take responsibility for her ridiculous antics.. she lacks self control over her emotions and she is a horrible listener as it pertains to her inappropriate attitude and behavior.. I believe she is a great person but this show has played into her diva like foolishness.. I'm disappointed in her

[@yolandathompson537]

Monique CoverMePretty155 Yes it makes me wonder why they fired her from the Real

[@sophiemoreau3049]

K

[@StandupGirl-ym3ey]

NO ONE hold Tamar accountable!!! At all!! She done went rougue

[@Lola-seven]

You said that just right! This is so inappropriate. Tamar has real talent and has the chance to really be great and not just be known for her immature behaviour. This type of bad attitude can not keep good things around you(including a job and proper relationships with people). I'm sure Vince has/had his bad behaviour in their marriage but I truly believe that if Tamar continues with this type of behaviour, nobody will give her the chance to show how good she can be in whatever relationships(platonic and romantic) she may have going forward.

[@mammogram9]

Why Iyanla say "How do I get out of here?" LOL!!!!

[@daughterofthekingofkings3207]

Yesss, had me rollin!

[@jonquilsimms97]

Took me all the way out 😂😂

[@courtneyrosser5449]

RIIIIIIIIGHT... Ms. Iyanla was not wit DA SHYTZ on THAT DAY! 😂

[@nenemcginnis9133]

mammogram9 I was laughing so hard and thats not the first time she said that either.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kellyvines8210]

I was thinking the same😂😂😂. Is she not familiar or was so upset she got lost. Omg

[@kcb3342]

money cant buy happiness

[@ckay4469]

That's 100% clear

[@ronita35208]

Sooo they stopped talking to Traci when they got a deal, but when she went to work without speaking to them first, they are in their feelings??

[@lauralynn3450]

Ronita Nelson Right? A bunch of bullshit, ain’t it? And who spearheaded that?

[@private9260]

Thank you!! I was just going to write something similar. Traci was left in the dust - now when she continues filming bc its her job and how she supports her family, they are mad.

[@reginaldeberhart8521]

Sounds like ratings to me.

[@BigBabySis]

Exactly...double standards

[@godliveopoku-duah9704]

Tamar is just a big CHILD! They've pampered her as the "baby" of the family so much that she never grew out of it. And much of that blame lies solely on the shoulders of Ms. Evelyn Braxton. Yes, Tamar is an adult and SHOULD be responsible for her own actions. But Evelyn is responsible for the chaos within their lives.

[@najionahparker8821]

Godlive Opoku-Duah i agree 100%

[@kkain123]

Tamar still didn't want to take blame for her part! NOTHING HAS CHANGED AND NOTHING WILL CHANGE! Wig or no wig, she is still irritating AF!

[@yolandathompson537]

kkain123 THE WAY SHE IS ACTING LETS ME KNOW WHY SHE GOT FIRED FROM THE REAL

[@greenlight8819]

Wig or no wig the way I am crying right now 😹😹😹😹

[@tabposey]

Thank u. Yes

[@tashagrimes5199]

kkain123 yes and I was truly hoping to see some evolution . Perhaps this is the starting point

[@iamravyn6878]

I love how she handled Tamar finally someone got her together. She is seriously childish I agree with Momma E these people pushing 40 and acting like they 12.

[@proph-od1bj]

They are late 40s

[@iamravyn6878]

@@proph-od1bj Then that is worse

[@sipiwemutemwa4733]

I think Tamar has some serious mental issues hey.

[@mervinvanputten7974]

I think she's a borderline

[@chanellevanterpool8747]

Tracy too

[@maxcruz1850]

why she wobble her bald headed ass like that tho smh she damn near 40 too smh

[@mizzbrown767]

I feel like all of them got issue I also feel like they leave Traci out of a lot things I no that hurt it still dose

[@bxgirl2930]

I'm getting anxiety watching even the first two minutes Tamar is outta this world how in the heck did Tamar get so outta control?

[@torrihoward9729]

Alot about her and Vince changed since he lost all that weight. He started looking at Tamar for who she really is, in ' the 3rd person'! 👊

[@amandeepsingh-qq2ss]

Torri Howard 🤭

[@looknbakatu]

I think the family condoned & tolerated the behavior until it became the norm for her, should have put the brakes on that train wreck LONG ago!

[@elitehaircollection]

BX Girl Her Fans. And Family with all that “she’s the baby”. This Tamar not liking so much

[@alemarie239]

Tamar has always had a nasty attitude. I also believe she has mental problems. She may be on the verge of a mental breakdown.

[@blognewb]

*Real tea: this is the **_real_** reason Tamar got fired from The Real. Probably. You do not disrespect everybody else's time*