Iyanla vs. Tamar (and the Braxton Family) Part 2 Synopsis

[@tasiadacres5522]

Tamar... on Wendy Williams she made it seem like iyanla VanZant was in the wrong so much... in my opinion Tamar owes iyanla VanZant a public apology

[@windex-2887]

Yes, indeed. She had the world thinking that Iyanla was so disrespectful... she really came after her chracter fr fr

[@batiyahyisrael]

4real!

[@Arisairspace]

Not so sure...we are watching the edited version.

[@caroldingle2355]

She does

[@yolandacampbell9804]

I completely agree... she was disrespectful with all her antics... Iyanla was jus there to help.

[@ImJustNi1]

I’m so sick of Tamar swinging that bald head she so animated.. 🙄🙄

[@courtneyjohnson6725]

ImJustNi 😂😂😂😂💀💀

[@jasminefarr1572]

Yes me too.!! Every time she does it, I just wanna slap her in the back of it

[@reelala4114]

Jasmine Farr LMFAO😂😂😂😂

[@amcdowell8896]

Right on powerful

[@ImJustNi1]

Jasmine Farr right like the boys in the barber shop do 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@norresepowell2418]

Tamar is really to much that body language is so disrespectful..

[@chaliceofchange]

I agree she is in pain. The world don't give a damn about your foolishness.

[@sisterches6306]

Norrese Powell Tamar is very childlike

[@brownskinbeauty.]

I agree. Tamar is always being extra and as old as she is, she just makes herself look like a fool

[@derrickagarcia1028]

I agree talk about ppl being disrespectful.. She feels shes entitled fuck her shes no body but someone who is on tv..girl bye

[@sbj0404]

I almost stopped watching this because of tamar. I had to fast forward through it.

[@mahoganysoul1798]

Do you know what’s crazy, iyanla was actually speaking UP for Tamar, but because she was so wrapped up in her dramatics, she missed it 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@iLaBelle2]

Tamar is one sad , lonely and disrespectful woman. She is a sick narcissist. She needs to grow up and stop thinking that the world revolves around her. Her disgusting antics are very infantile. Grow to hell up Tamar!!

[@Sage1965]

THIS

[@gaborigvink2681]

“I got underwear older than you” Most Savage moment 😂 😂

[@be_you_til_fulljourney2033]

GaBori gvink 😂😂😂😂😂 Iyanla is a real life savage😂😂😂 Did you see her in the movie Girl Trip? She told Queen Latifah they were going to have a Middle Passage experience! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@gwennichols-mitchell1102]

Be_You_Til_Full Journey Lol! I needed that laugh today! Thank you!

[@Sponsorship4u2]

Iyanla is the real MVP :) and yes that was SO gangsta

[@maharawchaa]

GaBori gvink 😭 lmao out loud

[@MsNooneinparticular]

Tamar: "Ugh I hope not. That's nasty." 😂

[@reelala4114]

Iyanla has ALOT of patience!!!! If anyone ever spoke to me like how tamar does woiiiiii!!!!!!

[@taishafoy7231]

Ree Lala DO YOU HEAR ME UNDER THE FUCKING JAIL ILL BE!!! HER BOBBLEHEAD ASS IS TO DISRESPECTFUL🤬😡

[@michaeledwards9219]

She handled TAMAR tho!!

[@kimsue9035]

Ree Lala The mother got Tamar all the way together 😂😂😂😂😂

[@jenniferjohnson8759]

It’s like it’s unreal the attitude she’s showing I’m in disbelief of the childish behavior she’s displaying it’s like she’s doing it on purpose for attention I might be wrong because I don’t know what went on behind closed doors and I’m woman enough to be corrected but I think her husband was tired of her childish ways if she acts like this with her parents and siblings what would make her treat her husband any different ijs

[@brianamosley2002]

Right Tamar are straight ahole .

[@patwilson7596]

When Toni said ' if they weren't my family..they would Not be my friends". .now that's deep....touch a nerve with Tamar

[@savecheerleader1]

You saw how Tamar cut her eyes over at Toni when she said that

[@wackybrattyx]

My sister has said that to me, because we're very different, and it definitely hurt to hear.

[@kymlawrence6701]

The girls were very jealous in the first place! The displayed hate and disrespect among themselves and 2 thought that they were too good for their husbands. I'm glad the Toni told the truth on how she felt about her family!! You gave them exposure now is your turn to leave this nasty nest. Momma Evelyn and Daddy stay out of the picture. It's time for a change for healing the soul.

[@inmyOWN_world]

I felt that. I can definitely relate

[@lamejor615]

When Toni said that, I even felt that!

[@keldoella9283]

Toni is the oldest but she looks like the youngest, beautiful

[@qlimax95]

Keldo ella Ikr? She is gorgeous

[@amyv.]

Definitely one of the most beautiful women in the world - and the way she carries herself.

[@isabella12100]

She's beautiful, aaaaand she's got $$$$$

[@isabella12100]

@audubon crosby is everything okay up in your head? 😂

[@dellawatson1669]

Woah... I thought she had at least 4 of them older than her.

[@aleynabubbles]

Toni is always so elegant

[@miagrass]

Sometime when people act elegant they hiding their BS so don't fall for that okay.

[@kymlawrence6701]

Toni knows how to play it cool! She's got real sense. She's got bills to pay.

[@cravingsweets]

I wish tamar would stop with the extras

[@jasminej9238]

Agreed

[@amazingperson326]

Honey, you ain't the only one

[@ChinaWhite4life]

cravingsweets I believe Tamar have bipolar

[@Gisellej80]

Yes

[@tayoshane3345]

Shes so good at acting its unreal lol

[@ciaranicole6025]

"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." ­­-­ Maya Angelou

[@THEMANCURTIS]

💯

[@greenlight8819]

Powerful.

[@NaturallyTuddy]

man! powerful

[@TheMorganVEVO]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@treybaybie1526]

Ciara Nicole 🎯

[@thabolennoxmangoenyane5997]

When Toni said "If they weren't my family, they wouldn't be my friends." Whuuu, chiiilleee!!!

[@Rhenadhis]

i felt that in my spirit and couldn't have said it better

[@obibraxton2232]

Well that’s how to is sometimes of us arnt blessed with the types of family where you wouldn’t need to hear a statement like that and find it relatable

[@Sakeenawatley231]

​@@obibraxton2232❤

[@nqobilentuli4244]

I wonder if this behaviour is why Tamar was fired from The Real.

[@rays.3242]

oh for sure!! imagine her doing all that neck and eye rolling in the board room during meetings and in front of executives. She's lucky she is in the entertainment business because a real employer would have fired her much sooner for those antics.

[@agriswold2009]

Probably so... she is just so combative. I do think she is wounded. A bit of a narcissist... a lot going on with her.

[@stephenanderson1594]

I even though I enjoyed her on the Real but I can see why she was fired because of her mouth

[@janashockley8263]

Nqobile Ntuli probably

[@PlatinumFall788]

you know it was! too much drama with her, her family will put up with it. Outside tv executives will not!

[@Destinyk775]

That WAIT A MINUTE! from Ms. Evelyn was felt around the world.

[@cynthiamorley98]

Destined Queen 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🤣

[@geekjanet]

You say one more word and i got you.

[@Bintimrembo-y1v]

😂😂😂

[@TheJuveyhamilton]

Sure was

[@mominor6913]

😲😲 I STOPPED DOING WHAT THE HELL I WAS DOING LOL I THOUGHT THAT WAS MY MAMA LOL

[@MzMara86]

BAYBAY!!!! When Ms. Vanzant asked Trina and Towanda “If Tamar can go off and do a show with Vince and Toni can go off and do a movie, why can’t Traci still do Braxton Family Values?” I was like YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!! Call them on how different they treat Traci because it ain’t right!!!! I want nothing but the best for Traci because she deserves it!

[@jjonezy504]

Exactly !!!!!!!!

[@ms.fortune2957]

Tami A AMEN🏆

[@Adgegbe50ag]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿💯double standards is real

[@vanessabutler6895]

Yes Yes she made that crystal clear regarding Traci. Tamar continues to act like a brat. Time will tell regarding Tamar she is still acting, she does want to be seen.

[@tammybanks413]

Tami A I totally agree with you!

[@nomarussia5085]

I just love how Toni sits and look like 'who are these people'. CLASSIC

[@tania0070]

Toni sitting there looking like she doesn't believe a word Tamar says. Acting.

[@Msserena25]

I agree, I feel that Ms. Iyanla didn't believe Tamar either. And honestly what Tamar did on Wendy Williams show after this proves she wasn't genuine about what she said. She was just going through the motions to end it as quick as possible.

[@krystaln7455]

And tracy

[@meannoharm1561]

TRACI ALSO AND TRINA MADE A JOKE OUT OF IT

[@NajSinghs...NajNibbles]

All of them looked at Tamar like 😑. (I was too.)

[@melanie1050]

Yup

[@momof2240]

Lord Jesus...when mama Evelyn spoke up and silenced Tamar ole childish ass, I FELT that so much that I shut up and I wasn’t even talking 😂...Tamar’s behavior was disgusting and distasteful. I am no longer a fan. She reminds me of a middle school child.

[@ylonda1973]

Ms Evelyn let her disrespect Ms Iylanta to long

[@melleervimusic2584]

You are sooo funy !😂

[@icantbelievemyeyesnelson6970]

D. Easterling I never was a fan of her, since the first episode. She’s such a bitter, nasty, rude , and distasteful person. Only thing good about her is her music.

[@lornalaing4446]

you say one more thing and I got you....when mama talk no dog bark...you could hear a pin drop...

[@leeleemee]

I froze too XD

[@22MadaraUchiha]

Tamar went on these shows & social media acting like Iyanla is evil and all that. I knew she was full of crap. Iyanla always tries to be non-judgemental because she comes from struggle herself.

[@chellez29]

Toni looked absolutely beautiful!

[@sboyce246]

This explains all of Tony's sad love songs.... We thought it was a man but its her f uped family issues.

[@mssocial2093]

sboyce246 😂😂😂

[@almasantiago1100]

sboyce246 😂

[@smartsanders808]

Her dad

[@berniceopare9405]

Kwaaa!

[@SuperTrevbrown]

Yesssssss that’s a great theory!

[@rellysunshine9665]

Toni's confession was BRUTAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@SSWBJC1]

But she's been holding that in for a long time....... I bet she felt relieved to release that burden.

[@michellegriswold-davis9551]

I loved it...it was the realest confession of them all!

[@Beyondme7700]

A libra keeps it 💯

[@juliagulia5823]

Relly Sunshine Brutal to watch is what that was. Complete acting

[@cocojinx5245]

She was honest.

[@cleopatraanthony5195]

Toni Braxton is gorgeous and so youthful looking. Tamar can be manipulative as hell.

[@dreamerof93]

Cleopatra Anthony yessss and even Toni’s speaking voice is so smooth 😍

[@EzeryFaith]

My goodness Toni is just a QUEEN. So calm and poised amidst all the drama around her

[@stillnessinme9195]

Vincent always said "your doing to much Tamar" since the first episodes he always said that and kept saying that. He also always told her "it's your mouth" "shut up and be quiet listen" i remember those times. When they went through their relationship issues then everyone in the public eye called him abusive mentally etc. Well we are Tamar is abusive and yes she has issue's of needing validation all the time even in her wrongs she wants to be right.

[@venitajae447]

I agree with u totally!!

[@kymlawrence6701]

I agree Ericka about Vincent. Tamar's attitude sucked and I really didn't like the disrespect she gave to my girl Iyanla. Tamar is ghetto and it showed. I heard that she is doing a tour show with SNOOP DOG, Good luck with that! I don't like her anymore. Let the Braxtons heal on their own!

[@hazelmarshall8051]

Vince got tired.

[@shanellelum6712]

Facts i do remember that!!!!

[@dianebrown4840]

It is no longer questionable why Tamar is no longer with Vince or The Real...I watched that show and often cringed when Tamar went into "look at me more".The other co-hosts may have tolerated her antics( I doubt it) but obviously the producers had had enough of the "Real Tamar Show"; FIRED...Watching these short clips of her obnoxious behavior made me want to slap some peach fuzz on that head, Lol....

[@ayannadaw4574]

Just noticed that their brother is NEVER in any drama he’s barely ever on the show that man just lives his best life while minding his business 🤣

[@forevermarisa2578]

Ayanna Daw they have a brother, I didn't know that

[@msshree37]

Ayanna Daw, yes he's been on the show not alot, but a couple of times...

[@pkjuliet]

I don't blame him one bit!! I would stay away from all that drama!

[@NameLess-de4bc]

He's the smart one

[@chantiaunique]

Ayanna Daw he's living his best life. Ain't going back and forth with these bitches 😂

[@somaliyahh]

Tamar did all of this but then went on the Wendy William show and badmouthed Iyanla?? I’m confused y’all??

[@filmadcamp1512]

She was not genuine. It was all an act. I only hope she and her sisters are communicating better.

[@amilton1911]

EXACTLY!!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@filmadcamp1512]

@@Christy_Shongwe I knew better. This is classic Tamar.

[@Sponsorship4u2]

Christy Shongwe How was Iyanla wrong?

[@somaliyahh]

Christy Shongwe yes please, do explain? I actually thought she handled Tamar’s maniacal outbursts quite well.

[@keiandramil6175]

Lord I’m using what iyanla said “ your finger in my face, is not gonna work for me”... yas 🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣

[@ntombifikilepetronellamkhw3760]

🤣🤣🤣

[@samane549]

Tamar is the type of person that hates correction.

[@user-tp3yj2iw6h]

Right. Look at her now on the Big Brother show.. she didn't want to listen what smart GROWN people has to say

[@sai9718]

Samane she can’t take criticism she is very immature and needs to learn to be less defensive and on attack mode all the time. I also feel like she needs to prove herself so she tries to do it with aggression.

[@FBACERTIFIED]

I know Vince is glad to get away from this Toxic woman

[@paigehunter5335]

Yep she is a narcissist

[@bellapaigeproctor4342]

Pls Tamar is much too much but i believe that Vince is as well. Those quiet ones always like loud and flashy and then try to control thats a fact👊

[@CradleEpiscopalian56]

Maybe her nick name of Tay-tay is short for Terrible-twos like kins go through. She is the youngest sister and all that cuteness fell to the side when she learned how to talk and bet away with being "special".

[@posjadarkoboateng843]

Tamar is tooo much

[@danialittles3448]

Melvenia Myles I'm sure he was toxic 2

[@Jenn4rmblk]

Toni’s career would’ve been amazing if it wasn’t for her family holding her back. She has a lot of resentment towards them because of it. So much potential wasted.

[@ashleynmoore12]

Lies all lies.

[@Անի-ո3մ]

truth !

[@vickihill8999]

Bitch you're dumb

[@honeyrainn]

+Stacie Luvv Toni can still have an incredible career

[@ciarrajohnson3849]

Not completely wasted! She's gotten to travel the world, meet everybody, and win awards (not that they matter), so at least you can't say anything was for nothing (even her marriage to Kerry)! It's all about Toni to me and I never cared for the sisters (they're just BG singers)

[@iamray09]

I love Toni speaking voice she always calm

[@rodesia2]

I’m giving Ms. Iyanla a standing ovation. She weathered the storm. This family wasn’t easy. Off camera she was talked about and degraded, when in fact they just didn’t want to own up to their mess. I’m hoping they will continue group therapy so they can further the healing process.

[@dreashanai2231]

rodesia2 message!! Tamar talked about her like the show wasn’t gonna come out!🙄

[@LaChanceuse]

Perhaps they should consider individual therapy first.

[@indiashante1560]

Tamar is the one that was slandering Iyanla's name. She was dead wrong for that.

[@chameleonkg]

Why did it feel like Tamar was just trying to steal all the attention as usual, that’s why she was so extra with her confession. Let’s see how she treats them from now on to know if it’s legit

[@Chitownhomestead]

Excatly.. #drama

[@lakeitaprettysmile]

Yes and she did

[@adelitenyamhanga7823]

From now? The show that was filmed months ago?

[@candaceL.]

Well traci said the show was filmed in March and they haven’t talked since then so in my opinion it was all an act

[@CalliopexMaria]

*narrator's voice*: it was not legit

[@tinag8341]

She did that apology cuz someone got in her ear and told her how bad her behavior would look to people on tv

[@promisesmithee943]

I believe toni family really dragged her down She should have been a bigger star.

[@lolaadesina5362]

💯, poor Toni didn't stand a chance with these losers

[@portiabongimthembu8283]

Wowww... TRUE. But she was big. You mean bigger. She has a lot on her sholder

[@shante70sb]

Promise Smithee Ummmm Toni did have a big successful career it wasn’t on Beyoncé level but she a big successful career and accomplished a lot and won many awards.

[@lookhowshegobbledthat]

I agree. She was hesitant to do the show too. BFV completely fucked up her legacy. She's a reality star now.

[@DivineVibrations9]

You’re saying it like Toni is underrated. Toni is very much recognised

[@kymberlie4756]

I see why she got fired from the real

[@ieshar1619]

She was the best one on the real

[@MsKeepitReal1]

Exactly!!!

[@lisajones6496]

Kymberlie Harris that's mean. Do you act the same way at home that you do at work no it's called professionalism

[@luvlimiss2007]

lisa jones Tamar does

[@marcella38]

lisa that is not mean, IT'S TRUTH. if you can't handle taking responsibility at home you won;t do it at work. If you can't take criticism at home you can't deal with it at work, if you are spoiled at home, you believe you should be spoiled wherever you are. her attitude will spill into everything she does until she gets some help.

[@shonb989]

Im still trying to see, when did Iyanla call her a name

[@lakeitaprettysmile]

She didnt !!! TAMAR was just mad she was been checked and her foolishness didnt scare Ms.Iyanla. She didnt back down like everybody else do when Tamar get loud, aggressive, ect.

[@julandaclark8586]

Shon B she didn't it wasn't name calling she spoke her truth her experience and Tamar is just extra. She took everything out of context. Tamar is spoiled and feels like she is entitled. She needs a good old ass whooping 😂😂.

[@shonb989]

I mean, I literally went back a lil...Like did I miss something smh

[@lakeitaprettysmile]

@@julandaclark8586 I sooo proud Ms E checked her.

[@davise26]

It never happened hon. Tamar just dont like for people to call her out

[@lukesguywalker]

i've got secondhand embarrassment for tamar's behavior... yikes. and honestly i feel like their parents play a big part in the relationship and attitudes their children have. they don't seem to have promoted open communication or fairness. their father was rarely around, and mama evelyn rarely reprimands tamar when she's out of pocket unless it's against her. saddening!

[@leeleemee]

Where is their brother during all of this family counseling? :/

[@songspassion]

"You say one more word, I got you"! That part.

[@susanosei6526]

I was sweating for her

[@keandraapplewhaite9809]

I was like yassss momma!!!!

[@haileylindernyasha4918]

it was powerful . l felt it

[@natashasanyu8759]

@jaz singer Right. And the way Trina quickly said "I'm sorry Mommy.." showed Ms E meant what she said.

[@carolkitteral9737]

Now I see why Trina gave Tamar the nick name monster, she got away with everything the others got punished for.

[@loveneverfails1463]

I think Tamar lacks real empathy - That's why she is always so overly dramatic - I think she is dead inside - She is not in touch with her true feelings - She only knows how to manufacture feelings - I hope she gets the help she desperately needs -

[@khristynareese2979]

Very well put. She is not in touch with her feelings and that's why she puts on the act. Iyanla started getting her close to being vulnerable and Tamar reflected big time to distract from the end goal. I am not sure what made her this way but that act is just a wall to distract anyone (including herself) from getting to what is really going on with her.

[@loveneverfails1463]

Khristyna Reese Wow so agreed!

[@boomboom6577]

Yes, I think so as well. I’ve taught many students who exhibited this type of behavior, and it’s virtually impossible to correct their behavior because they truly cannot imagine a situation that is not about them.

[@amason8636]

Sandra Williams well said... I agree completely

[@Viimskiie]

So basically Tamar is narcissistic

[@kimsue9035]

The mother got Tamar all the way together 😂😂😂😂😂 13:36 Toni's face😂

[@carissa813]

She basically was the only one who could make her stop

[@jamarcussimmons3044]

Decades later

[@BravelyMa]

i love toni's voice i wanna listen to her talking all the time

[@natnat0576]

First of all your finger in my face is not gonna work for me!

[@Sponsorship4u2]

Nicole Edwards Whew Iyanla is the real MVP she didn't even raise her voice she was calm cool but serious! I luv it. I was so here for Iyanla checking Take The aka Monster

[@alejandroday340]

Nicole Edwards the BEST😂

[@aewell77]

iyanla dont play..yall know she take them heels off in a NY minute

[@imanilove2119]

Nicole Edwards so quotable, Ms. Iyanla!

[@annajames1065]

Nicole Edwards We have to always inform people of our lines and when they are being crossed. Just as calm too, so they know you're serious.

[@shamikamoses6326]

When Toni said that she doesn't like her family and they wouldn't be friends otherwise I felt that 😂😂😂

[@dancewithme2278]

😂😂😂

[@shamikamoses6326]

I've never felt like I was apart of the group either, even within my own family. If I am around it for too long it sucks the life out of you

[@Dreamidgaf2014]

Hollin 😂😂

[@morena8293]

Yesssss! And she repeated it and elaborated on it lol! She meant that in her soul!!!

[@onepunch2310]

Right 😩😫

[@-Epiphany]

Tamar is rude asf....Also we Know Traci aint buying that fakeass apology And thank you Iyanla for standing up for Traci.....It was needed side note: I need Iyanla in my life

[@thequeenofking2954]

Yes, it was definitely NEEDED! It always seemed to me that they never stand up for Traci!!!

[@dahmeneekah]

Traci had that mmhmmm look.... 👀

[@aprilnealey668]

Tamar was putting on a show.

[@ci.ci.1998]

Shellene I honestly don’t think Iyvanla was buying Tamar’s apology either how she was looking at her side eyed at the damn table even though she told her to breathe. Phaahahahah! I’m sorry!😂💀🤣😆🤦🏼‍♀️😫

[@-Epiphany]

@@ci.ci.1998 yh I peeped that too...Iyanla face said it all....Tamar feel she slick but she aint fooling nobody.

[@nyasha9623]

you can tell Toni isn't buying Tamar's dramatic crying.

[@miss_magz]

Lol I didn't either... Lol I didn't see one tear

[@ayandansibande3238]

I think it’s more of Toni is tired. Like she is emotionally EXHAUSTED

[@Sakeenawatley231]

​@ayandansibande3238 She is. That's what it was❤

[@QB42477]

Toni Braxton: The MOST levelheaded on at the table... I REALLY felt what she said about feeling held back/not supported/made to feel RESPONSIBLE for carrying her family's careers... She was made to feel bad because it was HER time/HER blessing... FAVOR AIN'T FAIR... but she was made to feel like being favored was a curse/burden.. #NOTFAIR SO GLAD SHE spoke her truth.

[@Jinxx531]

Sadly its the syndrome of being the oldest...expectations to take care of is so misguided. Lived it!

[@MsGA09]

Hell KIM K DID IT PUT HER WHOLE GOSH DATN FAMILY ON!!! I feel its doable. T.I. Did it. IceCube beginning to do it. They could have done a show soo long ago so they all could be good!!

[@maseabegeraldinendala4749]

Toni and Towanda are level headed.

[@zikhonadunjana1842]

So true.. I feel for her maarn

[@125hana]

Tamar is spoiled!! No consequence for all action thru out her life.. ! Challenging to correct that now!!

[@TeleeFONE]

Was thinking the same thing, her family let's her get away with the rudeness and spoiled attitude, now she don't know how to behave as an adult. Tamar parents should have disciplined her better as a kid, so she wouldn't grow as a spoiled adult like how she is now.

[@tracey._ko1864]

They cut a lot out. Tamar was raped by her family Iyana was telling her it was her fault. Tamar told Wendy Williams and there's a clip

[@ChinaWhite4life]

125ha I really believe she dealing with bipolar

[@honeybee1226]

exactly mama e tries to discipline a 40 year old??? you should have done that 35 years ago

[@ChinaWhite4life]

Naturallyhoneybee1226 I think the mom was Dealing with her own issues my family have the same issue I had to block and delete everyone in my family the only person I talk to is my father how mother has major issues she believe that she’s young and she act like she’s my sister it’s very deep but I will say this many black families at this issue

[@kiky4881]

Disruptive, abusive, violent... Iyanla, NAILED IT! Tamar is an immature erk and this is what Vince and the Real was talking about. She needs psychological help.

[@scarletletter68]

My younger sister is just like that! I can't stand her ass and we don't talk anymore.

[@OctoberLibra1]

Tamar is definitely the problem. I cannot stand that hateful, attention seeking bitch...

[@phamalaecummings9463]

I used to find Tamar's antics funny and entertaining but now it does seem like she is the main issue in a lot of the disruption in the family.

[@FLAWEDANDFOCUSED]

OctoberLibra1 I Agree !

[@Calvin375]

Yes, I agree about her attitude. My mother was very glad that she was no longer on the show. She said Tamar was too GHETTO and crass and did not fit well with the other ladies.

[@PetraVanDeijl]

I deeply respect Ms. Iyanla's work. This lady has a true gift. Ms. Tamar however, manipulated the white table by her dramatic and tearless show. I did not feel any sincerity whatsoever. This is clearly a display of narcissistic traits.

[@simbae170]

Tamar Needed that spotlight!?

[@dellawatson1669]

Welp... I sure ain't buying it... Bit crinegy actually

[@conolivia]

I even cried and said “what a narcissist”

[@Queen_C22]

It’s about time somebody took up for traci

[@tommiesimmons5097]

PYT CC u right Traci I a under dog like me

[@beatnikrn2945]

I know! I always end up feeling for her the most. She is so grounded and kind. And Toni said she was the only one who didn’t make her feel bad for her success. Toni really should have spoken up for her!

[@aarich119]

@@beatnikrn2945 well Toni said Traci put the black Tax on her, you make it and come back to get us 😂😂😂

[@orsonsadler]

Beatnik RN i know what you mean but, even tho traci's intention may have been to show toni her support, i think toni was saying that her words actually put a huge burden on her. there was the expectation that she get her sisters into the business after she made it

[@orsonsadler]

aarich119 lol u said it so much better than i did. if i saw ur comment first i prob wouldnt have bothered 😂

[@Rickyboo711]

Clearly having money and being famous doesn’t give you Class..

[@debraking3536]

Ricky V: Hallelujah!!!

[@ddross9111]

Amen and Amen!

[@quadtrillion4681]

Trina said Touche on Tracy being treated differently

[@artbymaree4680]

Toni looks like a queen looking down on people she sees as Peasants lol she looks so regal

[@lolaadesina5362]

They're peasants and they've dragged her down. She would have been a bigger star if she'd distanced herself from them. Especially that Tamar. Yuck

[@clarke4400]

@@lolaadesina5362 Tamar assisted her when she was financially struggling

[@micaela7788]

@@lolaadesina5362 also that's her family. She's never called them peasants, so who are you to do that?

[@LaChanceuse]

Miss Tamar should consider individual therapy first. Group therapy can follow at a later time.

[@farim8062]

Resilient Angel Years later. I feel sorry for her.

[@FightsRightsAlways]

Yes, yes and YES

[@93lbBALDSPOTSonya]

Girl yesssssssssss

[@latoyaday5155]

Yes I agree

[@libongeking7029]

agreed

[@anthonymarshall2012]

I really felt that “first of your finger in my face is not going to work for me”. Tamar bad behavior isn’t a name calling thing it’s an name for an observation for how you’re acting.

[@NaturallyTuddy]

Anthony Marshall she felt labeled like iyanla "knew her" instead of trying to "get to know her". i understand that...... but tamar has no emotional control

[@anthonymarshall2012]

No she didn't she was just trying to be right like she said and she thought being a victim was going to work.

[@cocomelonnnnn6278]

I said the same thing. Name calling is calling anything outside of what she was named at birth which Iyanla didnt do! She simply observed and pointed out her behavior and called it what it was! It really made Tamar seem unintelligent to not understand that, and call it name calling.

[@mamaneedsagrande]

What is wrong with Tamar?! Iyanla can’t fix this. Only Jesus, medicine and serious counseling can! Help her lord. Smh

[@SSWBJC1]

LOL!

[@cuqiie1]

Trust me Jesus is too busy with important things than with this foolishness.

[@NajSinghs...NajNibbles]

#THIS

[@maatx9718]

The only way we can be truly touched by Jesus aka Yoshua is through each other....Iyanla is being used by the Holy Spirit to assist with the process of self healing indeed

[@TheeMichellesMind]

Chiiiile, Jesus even tired of Tamar! She one of the reasons Jesus wept! 🙄😩😁

[@evemaina1141]

"..Say one more word and i got you.." the back and fourth was incredibly disrespectful miss E was not playing. I second her for checking Tamar. She really needed to chill out

[@BriBooth]

Tamar literally acts like a child!! I have never seen someone so up in age behave this way. If I was ms. E I would have been ashamed! All that head rolling and eye rolling was very disrespectful. Yet she wanted someone to respect her.

[@beatnikrn2945]

I think she was ashamed of Tamar. I’m glad she shut her down too.

[@daniellewedlock7697]

Cuz she never grew up she was molested she never had treatment and help for it smh

[@JustCallMeJaane]

Why is the word behavior a trigger for her? She needs to grow up

[@ashlieleavelle]

I think she may be a narcissist. They can't handle any rebuke. If it wasn't the word behavior it would be something else.

[@Mrs__G]

Robynne Loving she is guilty.

[@nicolerichardson7724]

she obviously was having bad behavior but i think it was a trigget bc its been said to her soo much. possibly even when times it shouldnt have.

[@yosteramor6571]

TAMAR HURTS WHEN SHE HEARS THING ABOUT HERSELF THAT SHE FEEL IS FACTS. MANY PEOPLE IN THE WORLD GO THROUGH THAT. Tamar need help seriously🙇🙇🙇🙇

[@LyricSkye]

Ashlie Leavelle true

[@leaperm3433]

Lol TAMAR is CRAZY. LITERALLY

[@grlbluesky]

maphuti mothata I am just now understanding that TAmar is not acting or portraying a character- she’s mentally unstable.

[@shawnhill946]

I recently learned Tamar was sexually abused as a child. Who knows how that will manifest in your Life? Therapy is definitely the right place for her.

[@ajfulson123]

All that crying...but not a single tear...

[@leaperm3433]

+Alicia Fulson lol mxm.. She's playing games.. Talk about Mental Health Issues..

[@runek50]

@@ajfulson123 Awwww damn! Your right!

[@Jayxxxxxxxcc]

Tamar’s attitude is nasty🤮🤮

[@JDArchangel1]

Ohhhh it's so funny how black parents always have that control over their kids lol

[@jennigirl8275]

irk!!!v I hate that!!

[@teoshaprofit5697]

Mrs. Evelyn wasn’t planning! Hell, I sat up straight. Lol

[@christeltillman657]

Guuuuurl!! 😂

[@carajordan4377]

Right

[@KaneneProductions]

Just Jannie And, Evelyn doesn't. She did that for show and Tamar went along for show. Tamar looked ready to tell her own mom about herself.

[@MISSMARIE26]

The son stay far away from this mess lmao

[@drakecampbell6150]

MISSMARIE26 LMAO

[@clairejoseph4418]

They have a brother?

[@Siberia087]

Claire Joseph he’s been on the show a few times. I think he lives on Maryland though.

[@shonda79able]

He's not actually a part of the cast so I don't see why he would be on the show with Iyanla.

[@AshMcMiller]

I didn't know there was a brother😐

[@nakiajones5385]

Tamar and the rolling of that head just gave me whip lash..

[@khutsodukesy39]

I don't get why Tamar's family just let her disrespect Iyanla like that honestly I don't get why she never got disciplined as a child, She's the youngest but controls everyone. Yoh

[@maylynbayani]

If my little sister acted like that, best believe I wont be like toni. I would slap her the moment she started acting like that.

[@Selenee77]

It’s often like that with the youngest. The parents are less strict with them and forbid the oldest to whoop their ass.

[@Joyful-gu5bj]

Yes. And a very big headed person. Very sad.

[@micheal-codiwellington4031]

Obviously you didn't learn anything from this video because it was addressed why Tamar is the way she is. 🤣

[@hazelseboko927]

As a fellow South African, I totally feel and understand your "yoh" 😄

[@SuperKim2981]

Tamar is very self centered and her family has fostered that behavior rather than check it.

[@terrancebankston4741]

What names did she call her? That part was weird. I heard no name calling.

[@rays.3242]

there was no name calling...Tamar was just finding any reason to play victim so she can put on her theatrics!

[@jimvance5874]

Terrance Bankston it's because Tamar has to find a way to be a PRO VICTIM!! There was no name calling just like there was NO TEARS from Tamar! She tried to get 1 out at the end but just couldn't.

[@Arisairspace]

She never called her any names but referred to her attitude as a "behavior" and it must've struck a vein in Tamar cause she kept protesting

[@ynazzra]

She hears what she wants to hear. She's insecure.

[@loveneverfails1463]

Terrance Bankston Iyanla pointed out the truth - Tamar's behavior - her actions - Tamar is very defensive - living on the edge - I think she had to fend for herself - Usually when people are defensive it's because they feel they were not supported - And I think Tamar made it her life's mission to punish her family for it - I think the sexual abuse she experienced is the root cause - I think she went off because for the millionth time she was being told she is the problem - it's clear she is - it's clear she has been extremely challenged in accepting her part in the dysfunction of her relationship with her sisters mother and father -

[@Andriabell346]

Tamar never accepts ANY accountability!! Least Tony accepted her part gracefully even if she was only 15 MINS late!!! But for a person to be over 2 and half hours late and still complain about how others singled her out or saying she didn't do anything wrong is simply sad for and grown woman!! Now I see perhaps why she was LET GO at the view!! Who wants to deal with a grown baby!!!

[@Destinyk775]

The Real

[@wackybrattyx]

"Individuals with histrionic personality disorder often fail to see their own personal situation realistically, instead dramatizing and exaggerating their difficulties. They may go through frequent job changes, as they become easily bored and may prefer withdrawing from frustration (instead of facing it)".

[@marquezbrown6586]

dria bella am i the only one who watched the ending

[@msprettysunshine]

Wonder which parent she got that from? Evelyn

[@khamaribooker9740]

Iylana " I am NOT your sister!!! " That's right!!!!!! Iyanla "I am two years younger than your mother" That's right get hu azz girl!!!! Iyanla "I got UNDERWEAR older than you!!!!" YEAH!!...... Wait...... What?????? Tf ewwww 😂

[@nkosingiphilesibiya8650]

I hope you're not wearing them 😂😂

[@kaylanicole4836]

She said they are clean 😭😭

[@rosemaryfadzayi2185]

And its clean

[@ladyejustice9320]

Toni said throw the whole family away! 😂🤭😲😪

[@dr.orderz557]

Teresa Sands 😩😩😂😂🤣🤣🤣⚰️⚰️⚰️⚱️

[@ci.ci.1998]

Teresa Sands Hell yess!😂💀🤦🏼‍♀️🤣😆

[@mp4455]

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@LovelyLarRika10]

Lmaooo I was watching this all serious then this lol

[@matlakalamolibeli7593]

Teresa Sands

[@loveneverfails1463]

Tamar said all that stuff in the beginning about how she didn't violate no commitment and how she felt disrespected that Iyanla didn't get to know her - Didn't get to know her??? - TayTay she read you like a book - She saw all the way to the bottom of your soul Ms.Tamar - then during confessions Tamar confessed to EVERYTHING Iyanla said was true about her behavior - WOW!

[@FaithandNova]

When she said she didn't get it know her I'm like yeah ok guess she forgot she was on Iyanla other show years ago.

[@danieldostermanntv]

This👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@juliagulia5823]

Tamar’s face when mama FINALLY snatched that disrespectful behavior it was as if it were the first time any one finally checked her funky self. That was well over due some 30 + years ago. I’m so glad Iyanla was willing to point out the obvious concerning Tamar that all of us as viewers have clocking for years.

[@SuperTrevbrown]

juliagulia Rightttt it was almost like she was in a Trance when the mom checked her!

[@nellypendal5632]

Trevor Brown yesssssssssss mama, she even scared me off shout! 😳

[@oluwatosinadebowale6421]

So if Tamar came to this conclusion and gave this apology, why did she go on Wendy and call Ms Iyanla a witch? It undermines the whole apology and makes the whole thing look like a lie!

[@francineolivia4481]

oluwatosin salawu exactly!!

[@akheya4396]

Oluwatosin Adebowale it doesn’t make it look like a lie it was a lie

[@OumTHMDY]

Cause she is a narcissist.

[@lowkey4327]

Something about Iyanla telling the world about Tamar’s sexual abuse

[@mpono1864]

I have to disagree. These shows film for hours and we only get about an hour's edits. There are a lot of emotions and years of hurt being sorted through at the speed of lightening, this conclusion could be the focus of repairing ties with her family and not about the actual show. Tamar went on Wendy's before this episode aired. The show tried to out Tamar's sexual abuse without her consent and that was the actual real reason she initially walked out. Probability is they told her they wouldn't talk about it anymore which is why she came back in, she was "Forced" to reveal her abuse on Wendy's show because she probably thought they would air that part and she wanted to tell it herself, the backlash is probably why they decided to scrap it all together. The mom was also very upset about the episode saying they tried to blame everything on her. Tamar said only 2 people in her family knew about it, I'm willing to bet top dollar her mom knew about the sexual abuse and did nothing, it makes sense why she let's Tamar get away with her behaviour. At the beginning the mom didn't want to commit to staying throughout the process. Why was it so important to make sure she committed to staying? What exactly would have been her breaking point, what's the one thing that would make her leave? I just wonder. In an interview she was asked if she thought the family member who sexually abused Tamar were scared, she answered "No, I don't think they are scared because Tamar didn't mention any names". I don't know but I found that answer rather weird. I am not a "Tamar fan" but her behaviour makes sense now. All people are complex and we shouldn't judge too harshly.

[@Ldm0320]

Iyanla: Who gets to correct her? Miss E: 13:34

[@LBDBeauty]

Tamar's behavior is despicable. No matter how you feel about Iyanla, you don't talk to your elder like that. Period.

[@CradleEpiscopalian56]

Oh yeah? Come to my job - you would faint!!!

[@dreamerof93]

LonDen Makeup Artistry exactly you can disagree respectfully...

[@posjadarkoboateng843]

She is very rude and has no manners

[@jazminesoso3182]

LonDen Makeup Artistry here we go with elder shit

[@angelawilliams6913]

Amen lady Amen

[@jacquestreeter]

Tamar is a real deal actress. Now watch she go back to the same Tamar tomorrow!

[@FaerieRose23]

Jacque Smothers She already has. Tamar has been all over social media calling Iyanla the devil when all that lady did was try to help her.

[@mamamoonie]

She seriously needs a mental/emotional evaluation.

[@char4897]

Girl I hope so..

[@char4897]

that she keeps her word that is..

[@S3RIN4T0R]

The dad is right, *you can't talk about other people when they're not around, that's gossiping!*

[@believeityoucanachieveit4531]

I'm embarrassed for Tamar's behavior. She's wrong on all levels. From experience, that type of behavior will never get you anywhere in life. It doesn't matter the success and/or accolades a person may achieve in life. Love the ending!

[@MariaEOD]

Timesha Gaynor And that’s why she got fired on “The Real”!! Now we know how she acted then and the same now, but they DID give her some consequences...the boot!! 👀😆

[@Tac2112]

She didn't come here to be judged but to heal, why can't you just give her a chance, she was broken bit as you have witnessed she has agreed to take the healing route, some people you just don't get it do you

[@BassKayake]

@@Tac2112 you excusing her behavior is just revealing that you are exactly as broken and rotten as Tamar! That kind of behavior is inexcusable - and her family thought so too. What Iyanla did was not judge her - she told her the truth which she herself acknowledged in the end. I hope you find the healing you need and stop excusing your bad behavior.

[@camillefedrick5973]

TONI'S CONFESSIONS WERE THE BEST. THAT IS EXACTLY HOW I FEEL ABOUT MY FAMILY. IF THEY WERE NOT RELATED To ME, WE COULD NEVER BE FRIENDS. REAL TALK.

[@lolztye4318]

Toni is sooo beautiful. She looks good in red

[@trishjames2730]

Waiting on Tamar’s tears like how I’ve been waiting on my parents to tell me we are millionaires. 😂😂😂😂

[@fortunatephasoana2408]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nicolamunroe1176]

I’m weak….😂😂😂😂

[@kobusingyehope2628]

@@nicolamunroe1176 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 please hold me am dying

[@vogueelle88]

🤣🤣🤣

[@juliandajewel2296]

I thought it was probably the make-up I was un able to see her tears. Toni looking at her like I'm tired if all this

[@MrS98VAC]

Can see why "The Real" axed Tamar, this is what she is like behind the scenes!

[@kymlawrence6701]

Acting like Ms. Queen Bee giving out shit! Her shit stinks! Remember this, no matter how great you are in any career YOU ARE REPLACEABLE!! Don't let your mouth make you lose in the game!

[@Leps_]

Ugh she's a toxic human! She needs Jesus, like for real, not just 'saved by the Lordt' for the cameras 🙄

[@earthangel6858]

Tamar owes Iyanla an apology.

[@leeleemee]

Yes she does!!!!

[@rebirthed1274]

I AGREE

[@dinim4714]

Why

[@evemaina1141]

yes totally

[@vbnmdakane]

earthangel she doesn't ever apologise

[@ob2be1]

When Mama Evelyn says none of you were raised this way. LIES! ma'am the exchange went on far to long for me to believe that are this same way in the house with each other. And mama Evelyn only calls it out when she's fed up. Chileeeee

[@filmadcamp1512]

I gatta give Miss Evelyn props for how she handled that. I think she let it go so long because she feels that Tamar was upset about personal issues.

[@gapeach14]

I think Vince is the cause of how Tamar acts we haven't seen Toni act like ever....I think Vince spoiled Tamar and turned her into Diva and she don't when to turn it off...He fed the monster.

[@maharawchaa]

ob2be1 true

[@filmadcamp1512]

Nah Vince used to check her and now he gets called abusive for doing so. Tamar is responsible for how Tamar acts. No one else. Like you said - he managed Toni and she does not act like that. He managed Gaga and while she was weird, she did not act like that either.

[@maharawchaa]

gapeach14 she was already spoiled when Vince got her she's the baby of the fam , n her mom spoils her rotten . I do think Vince did hide his character from the cameras tho n he was probably always tellin Tamar how it was n in turn she lashes out even more so n general , cuz ppl say she was n an abusive relationship w him n abusive relationships do play a factor n that way she may act out w others ... Toni is always reserved, calm and collective . She keeps her self confined for the sake of her sisters .. as u can see her sayin she's always had to worry abt them first being the oldest that's what u do .Im sure Toni needs 101 therapy too ..

[@audreyvanya5520]

I love how their mother called Tamar to order. Her voice touched hard and gentle at the same time deep!

[@Beyondme7700]

She should've apologized to iyanla

[@GeMiniTheQueen]

She doesn't apologize

[@duffman102]

Good! Iyanla is just an attention w looking for ratings on tv. She's just annoying, and doesn't really help anyone...

[@chinafinch7626]

I can't tell....looks quite helping here

[@tb4681]

..and to actually have that Emmy award apology & turn around & attack & play the blame game with Iyanla on Wendy Williams goes to show she has NOT changed. SMH

[@GarlandTX2Israel]

I feel bad for saying this but a part of me feels Tamar might’ve been acting a bit during the confession. Lol. I’m sure she was legit but it still feels a bit off.

[@ImJustNi1]

TheGarlandTXVegan right like is wasn’t genuine at all..

[@GeMiniTheQueen]

Well...remember....this came out AFTER the last few months of Tamar acting an ass all over social media versus annnnnybody so....ion know....seem like a lie to me

[@catmo59]

I only believed 1/10th was real because she got on twitter acting up after the show

[@GeMiniTheQueen]

@@catmo59 exactly

[@samanthathony1793]

Thank you!! I felt the same.

[@martelli846]

Tamar better win an Oscar for that performance her as put on at that table!

[@tahiraanderson4923]

Dwl...na sah...tears must be falling within. Tamar nuh easy a rahtid.

[@Jadeweast]

@@tahiraanderson4923 behave yuhself😂😂

[@feridedogan7653]

She almost killed herself 1 year later.... Depressions is not Fun

[@LaylayBoss]

Only person I've ever seen ...who can handle Tamar is Iyanla🙅

[@nikiracarter]

Clautilda Bhangaza and Vince and ms e 😂

[@be_you_til_fulljourney2033]

Ms. E did a pretty good job of it here. She shut Tamar ALL THE WAY down! 😂

[@kymlawrence6701]

Iyanla is a real pro! I love this woman! I own two of her books! Now she can be a bitch if she wants to try catching her off camera!! She went through hell and back many times in her personal life. She's a true Nubian Queen who can hold her own. Don't FUCK with her she will show you how's it's done. I could see it now after the taping of the show. Where is my cocktail!!!!

[@2401beautty]

Heck yeah. For the first time Miss E also shut her down. Miss Iyanla is correct, a real soul sista. Been through the struggle and back. Love her

[@2401beautty]

@@kymlawrence6701 which books?

[@zeelove4ever]

And she went on Wendy Williams acting like she did not get anything useful from iyanla.

[@yolandacampbell9804]

zeelove4ever I agree, she was wiping tears, but I didn’t see any.

[@chelllockhart9404]

Tonis is so cute

[@leenawalker753]

Tamar is so dramatic omg 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m disgusted 28:00

[@isaiahdavineroman2254]

U kno shit got real when Evelyn brought out that serious mama voice lol brought back memories

[@RochellB46]

Isaiah Davine Roman Trina got scared lol

[@ambersimons9971]

They were all shook everybody was like 😨 wait mama no

[@teazjhamoye918]

"Say one more thing and I got you" 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@chameleonkg]

I feel bad for Toni, she is the Michael Jackson of her family😔

[@dennisburnett60]

Kelley G ? & who is Tamar Jermaine Jackson

[@chameleonkg]

Dennis Burnett 🤔probably

[@creationsofawomanbytomia]

Dennis Burnett lol

[@looknbakatu]

YES! she is! hoping she stays on a different course from MJ (RIP), now his family living off of HIS money, SMH!

[@queenmarie1232]

she’s not innocent either 🙄

[@tamikayarbrough3811]

Tamar is a classic example of a narcissist 1st thing they do is they deflect it's NOT them it you (AKA gaslighting)and when you don't fall for that then comes number 2 they get angry because they can't play with your emotions so they punish you by giving you the silent treatment but it didn't work because she didn't go to her begging her to come talk to her she let her have her moment 3rd they have an emotional breakdown and promise to change but there's no genuine real emotion pay attention there was no real tears

[@lolaajayi9449]

You hit the nail on the head!!!

[@tamikayarbrough3811]

@@lolaajayi9449 I'm telling you I study them I know one when I see them

[@chisuwochabu250]

Am not buying her tears either

[@Dee52790]

That part. I’m sitting here like...where the tears at though? I felt like her confession to Traci is sincere, but otherwise it’s smoke & mirrors. She’s a COMPLETE narcissist.

[@KarenKSmith-tm2kp]

You Hit right on the 👃, Narrassisc describe her to a T.. My Daughter has the same characteristics. 👍👍

[@thabolennoxmangoenyane5997]

Iyanla's work is a MINISTRY and a CALLING!