Gender-critical rhetoric always ends in violent transphobia

Gender-critical rhetoric can seem super innocent. It can really draw you in. Its just a simple idea, there are only 2 genders male and female. Seems innocent enough but is it accurate? if you take this rhetoric to its logical extreme, the only option is transphobia. In this video, we'll take a look at some of the nastiest gender-critical bs out there.
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[@Suited_Nat]

7:10 honestly, as a fellow enby myself; seeing his response makes me think he’s internalizing a lot of his own transphobia. Like… I think that it’s not hard to not make fun of others- but apparently to some people it is 😭

[@slickandslaycious6579]

I'm just thinking about the intersection of people who don't think parents (with the expressed request/consent of the child) can make certain medical decisions, but also feel like kids ultimately can't do anything their parents don't agree with.... While also claiming to respect bodily autonomy and consent.

[@initiativeplaytherapy88]

I don't know about your comment regarding not being part of the trans community. For the most part, I don't count myself as part of the community. The reason? Because the worst hate and transphobia about my coming out that I've experienced has come from the community that promotes itself as a safe space. I've been called a fetishist because I initially identified as a crossdresser, been accused of sexualizing my son because I took a picture of an outfit in our one full length mirror which happened to be in his room, shamed for asking for non-binary versions of gendered words, and blasted because my first safety plan for myself didn't pass someone else's muster. However, a non-binary individual putting literal Nazi symbols masquerading as Nordic runes on their body (example: the double swastika) in a forum I joined got a lot of praise while I was condemned for just informing the person of what the symbols represented. I don't need that in my life. I don't feel like enduring that is going to change the community. I follow your channel, because it's actually accepting and discusses gender and sexuality in a deeply nuanced way. I follow Mia Mulder because she does the same. I don't follow Jeffrey Marsh, because while many of their videos are great, they're one of the non-binary people who thinks they/them should be universal for describing the non-binary community and I don't want to be called they/them. I want to be called he/she. I shouldn't have to feel othered by another non-binary person. I don't find the trans community very accepting or safe. It's not everyone, but it's enough that I don't want to be part of it. Until that changes, I don't feel I need to endure it in the vain hope that I alone can change it.

[@mavmagick]

I super appreciate this! If I think about it, a lot of the online trans spaces I’ve been a part of have been mediocre at best and hateful at worst. A lot of grips Spend a lot of time hating the other side which is pretty pointless. And I also don’t follow Jeffery marsh. I find them a bit much and I definitely don’t agree with all their points. It’s hard to make a ‘trans community’ when we have such varied beliefs.

[@slickandslaycious6579]

​@@mavmagick also I feel like a lot of the issues is internalized transphobia. It's always "this is the way to be gay or trans"... It's gender roles for the queer community

[@slickandslaycious6579]

Also some of it is giving white patriarchal religious supremacisy seeping into our attempts at community building. Which I guess is slightly different from internalized "isms".

[@initiativeplaytherapy88]

@@slickandslaycious6579 - I think it's more than just that. A lot of people in the trans community have experienced trauma that goes well beyond their gender identity. As a result, there is a lot that's triggering for them that may be innocuous to others. I try to remember that when I'm getting hit with some of this stuff that it's not about me. However, it's not like it feels good when they attack me because of their own stuff. If they need to smack other trans people around to feel good about themselves, they can do it to someone else.

[@slickandslaycious6579]

@@initiativeplaytherapy88 def agreed 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@hans9725]

hey, sorry this happened, also - totally relate to the idea of having gender dysphoria on both extremes. great response, you’re awesome !

[@mavmagick]

Thanks! I appreciate the support

[@quianahenderson5392]

Hi! I’ve been looking at your vids and I want to start low dosage and before you said you didn’t want facial hair (which I don’t) .. did u ⬆️ your dosage and changed your mind or it just came from your low dosage of testosterone throughout the time? Just curious

[@mavmagick]

I’ve grown into my facial hair over time lol! It also helps me avoid getting misgendered so its useful in that way. I’ve upped my dose for short periods but will go back to my normal low dose eventually. You will grow facial hair on low dose, it will come slower, but it will grow. If you really don’t want facial hair, laser is the best option. Other trans masc NBs do this as well!

[@slickandslaycious6579]

Just starting to watch but I'm sorry this horribleness is happening to you.... And kinda to the community as well.

[@royalchen2361]

We need more options, we need more than just transgender identification, we need more than just gender critical. Sex is immutable however that shouldn't stop us from expressing ourselves. It shouldn't limit us from the human experience. People shouldn't need to identify as non binary, transmasculine, transwoman etc. I see it as more unnecessary steps to get to a world in which we are all seen as individuals. Society is built on gender I understand that, but just like the trans-movement we should promote being individuals who cannot possibly be described in one word or a few labels. Yes I am critical of gender but my views and opinions should never ever erase the views and beliefs of others.