She’s 100% Given Up | Can You Still Save Your Marriage?

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In this video, I want to show you WHY and HOW you can do the same, and discuss...
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[@GeoffreySetiawan]

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[@toasty-toast]

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[@vincentcaudo-engelmann9057]

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[@delayedgratification581]

Bro how are you so wise and young, where do you learn all this knowledge! You might have saved my marriage. It’ll take some time. I appreciate you.

[@RossBayCult]

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[@JimRickenbaugh60]

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[@GeoffreySetiawan]

@@JimRickenbaugh60 Good to see you here my dude. Your interview is launching next weekend :)

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Looking forward to seeing you in the program my dude. Would be honored to change the rest of your life!

[@Thearchetype12]

The videos have helped a lot. Still seperated with my fiance, but we are talking now and I have improved my communication skill, stopped playing victim but it's still a lot of resistance. Ignoring stone walling etc but the active resistance has stopped because I stopped the negative feedback loop. In the process of joining the program now. Next zoom call with Jason is tomorrow. Can't wait to change my life permanently regardless of the outcome with my relationship

[@StevoSparta-tt5vu]

Were you guys separated?

[@spencerfernandez2587]

My wife of 16 yrs gave me divorce papers in january of this year, i cheated on her in end of 2022. She thinks that im still cheating now. I took a lie detector test to prove to her no im not and i passed and she doesnt believe it and still doesnt believe me. Its been 3 months and she still is mad and dont want to talk to me. For the past 3 months ive been changin my ways to better myself as a man. Im doing a lot more at home and im also in therapy cuz of my anger issues too. Im startin to view life differently and mature myself also. Shes insecure about the women i work with and idk how to show her my loyalty and changes

[@MMAStriking]

You don't deserve her, just let her go.

[@spencerfernandez2587]

@@MMAStriking geo,? this idiot might need some lessons. 15 yrs marriage saved thatnks to geo and my efforts on being a man and being different

[@shinigami2669]

Before watching this video, I already messed up. So no chance of she coming back😔😔

[@TheLilDeyDey]

What if your blocked on everything?

[@chasesanders3686]

How do you know when to stop? Like if your partner looks you in the eyes after 6 years and says she feels nothing? Is any of this reliable or do you accept that at this point you just feel as if you are keeping her hostage.

[@karolkozak64]

I am in a similar situation. The only thing that helps is literally killing my old self and ego and just become this new character. Full of positivism, good vibes, energy, new hobbies, social and talkative. One that always hunts for an opportunity for a good talk, makes the other person laugh. I was deeply stuck in this victim why me mindset. 10 days ago i woke up and felt like the aliens had abducted me while i slept and said to myself - no way not like this. You have to bring your energy back. The one that made them fall in love with you. I offer my time and presence and if she does not want it i am so fine with it. Fully detached now from the outcome. That does not mean k dont miss her or stopped loving her. I do but in a much healthier way. Theres literally nothingshe can say or do to hurt me. Cause the old relationship is over. We can either build a different one or move on. It was nothing but a decision.

[@PedroSosa-t2j]

I got jesus I know he will retore !! In Jesus mighty name

[@fasiledesguzara8506]

Thank you very much.

[@christopherjbenjamin9298]

Thanks Geoffrey. This video is an updated version to your previous videos about artfully controlling your emotion. I can still see weakness in my BPV, and you know it when your micro tone, micro expressions, and feelings is a bit effortful. I am grateful for your free contents. Without them i would not be able to spoke last night my wife and i for about 5-6 hours without without arguing but healing some years of emotional damage. It was such an healing experience as i listen to her poured out what was really bothering her and what affects her over the years. for the fist time i can remember i listen, without victimizing, and making it all about me. This happened after she put up some walls of resistance.

[@toasty-toast]

How do you deal with, “I’m so busy with the kids and with work, it’s not on purpose”

[@FransHerbst93]

I understand all of this but what if she doesn't even talk or respond to my texts , how do I start to create a safe and better environment? please help

[@damianbarsh6680]

same here

[@zeperf88]

Hi Geoffrey. I've watched a lot of your videos and the content in this one is very good. The editing is too much tho. There are some cuts where you only said 2 or 3 words. It feels unauthentic. This video can be longer, it doesn't have to be perfect. I imagine you've hired an editor at this point. Tell that person to let the video breathe more. Your viewers are in a serious dilemma and they are fine listening to a few ums and studders. The pace of the video isn't calming or convincing, it's too frantic. Thank you so much for what you do! Keep it up!

[@jflexztv]

Today I start No Contact for real this time I won’t talk to her unless she contacts me first or I’m asking for my stuff back that she keeps stalling and pushing back for us to talk and give last of r things back. She says this separation will save our bond and love and help us but I feel like it’s all bullshit. She’s became so distant since the break up and I’ve been pushy as I’ve never dealt with heart break like this I hope what she told me was true and she comes back one day and proves she was wrong to leave me. And she’s going out late after work with her friends and forgetting so about me shit hurts.

[@jflexztv]

@@wendeezy456 We would check each others phones whenever we wanted and I lived with her at this time and we still have each others locations on a app. I don’t think she was or have any evidence but maybe you never know.

[@Quintro21]

I'm not sure if she's 100% given up

[@antoniohinojos3808]

How tf are you so spot on every time 😂

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Let's just say - I've missed the mark a lot in my own life, thought deeply about the lessons they tried to teach me, learned from them, so you guys don't have to :)

[@HungNguyen-lh6io]

Great timing. Committed to your channel for 7m, since the BU. Today i received the bomb she planning to married new guy which is basically perfect product(even what mentioned in Geofrey videos), her crush and they in official relationship for 1m. Keep my bulletproof vest and able to digout what she admire at the guy.

[@HungNguyen-lh6io]

Neither the outcome, hope one day finally able to save money for geoffrey program (if he still accept me into the program) 😂

[@joannariseley2132]

Is it still worth it if the person already said, they’re happy and relieved?. They have given up and will not try anymore. He has moved out. It happened a few times already, the moving out and coming back but I think this time is the last one.

[@darkcloudsilverglint4552]

Dude I can take everything, but I lost my frame when she gets physical...

[@plexieglas4701]

how doees this apply to when your girlfriend cheated and is in love with another woman, and that is the reason she wants to leave and buy me outof my house?

[@shuvamdey8807]

@Geoffrey Setiwan i need your help man. Need to save my relation bro 🥺

[@brixterleyva1176]

What to do when you're being friendzoned ?

[@indrautama3648]

I have tried to join your masterclass for the first time today. Eventho im very nervous because i rarely connected to social media, i decided to take a shot. Better try than never

[@soummnyeih8039]

Coach is it a good idea to reach out and seek help to her bestfriend telling and explaining her how genuine my love for her and how much I want her truly as a future partner after trying everything I could and still she alienate me.. cuz she could listen to her bestfriend.

[@theallseeingeye9388]

Dont

[@mg_kj]

Does this work if it’s the opposite gender? The guy is 100% done and the girl is trying to get him back again

[@toddallison4390]

yes

[@remyd1984]

My ex of 14 years has just got into a rebound. Proper low grade man! Can you do a video of how to deal with a rebound please. All I’ve found is no contact

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Round, no contact, or whatever your situation is - the root issue is still the same, no? Lack of safety, admiration, alignment and passion... Because you lack the internal shifts to lead the relationship and isn't irreplaceable in the internal shifts to create the 5 pillars. So technically, all my videos pertain to this...

[@Thearchetype12]

These videos have helped a lot. Still seperated with my fiance, since nov 1st and staying in separate rooms, but we are talking now, and I have improved my communication skills. I'm not really talking about the relationship, as she doesn't have that safety and trust anymore. I stopped playing victim and owned up to my old ways, but it's still a lot of resistance. Ignoring stone walling etc but the active resistance has stopped because I stopped the negative feedback loop and im learning to change my interpretations of the passive resistance to be an opportunity to understand just how hopeless she likely feels and not judge or blame her for it. Im In the process of joining the program now. Next zoom call with Jason is tomorrow. Can't wait to change my life permanently regardless of the outcome with my relationship

[@Infinitevanity]

I'm in a similar position, only cannot afford the program currently since the separation has left me with split and poor finances. She doesn't want to talk about the relationship anymore because in her eyes it's hopeless and there is no point. All I can do is show up positive and supportive every time she does talk to me about things. But they're all quite superficial, hobbies, work, etc.

[@cris-yo1950]

How much is the program brother?

[@widoutme6911]

Hey geoffrey you are the best coach i ever see in my life. Can you tell me one answer i always think about that question. She cheated on me she had affair with other guy but she has my child but she dont love me anymore i am in long distance right now she's poor sholud i help finnancially?

[@widoutme6911]

Anybody have good answers?

[@bethestandardallday]

Is she your wife

[@widoutme6911]

Yes brother do you have good answer?

[@shareenchoudhury-leighton1748]

Geoff, he has left 3 years ago - I have tried being steady, no pressure, just loving. Now he has revealed he's met someone and has been physically intimate with her. He's planning on moving in with her in the near future. I am giving up.

[@karolkozak64]

Love yourself more. You’ve got this! Sending positive thoughts your way.

[@bnewman3712]

3 years is a lot of hope and faith that you have.... I couldnt try that long. My wife moved out and will call just if she needs something. I told her not to call me at all and figure it out on your own.. just push on...

[@tb87670]

My wife just told me after 3 weeks separation that we should see other people, she won't wait for divorce to finalize. We didn't even file yet.

[@karolkozak64]

@@tb87670 dont do it, it could be a trap. At this point have everything in written. The last thing you want to do is go to court where she says there was a ton of infidelity on your end. Have everything sorted out and make sure you file for divorce first.

[@bnewman3712]

So my wife moved out... tried everything. She still tells me im done and doesnt even talk to me. It does not always work.

[@MrBobaby]

Sorry man! This sux!

[@tb87670]

Any update?

[@PedroSosa-t2j]

Put your help in God

[@bnewman3712]

@@PedroSosa-t2j We're divorced technically for year and a half. She has moved in with someone already

[@wresk]

Saving marriage is different then saving normal relationship, When married you live together and see each other every day and you can try methods and all these skills and interact together, In relationship where everyone lives different places and have no chance to meet and talk, because she refuse or need space...its way harder

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

And yet, we have shown time and time again how this is very very possible with the right skills. Have you seen my interviews with Ian, Eve, Jason Gerber to name a few?