Wife Wants a Divorce: Save Your Marriage With the Power of Non-Neediness

WIFE WANTS A DIVORCE: THE POWER OF NON-NEEDINESS IN SAVING YOUR MARRIAGE
Are you wondering what to do when your wife wants a divorce? In one of my previous videos, I talked to you about some communication techniques you can rely on if your wife wants a divorce out of the blue, and what to do if your wife wants a divorce.
In this video, I am going to show you the one crucial mindset you need to begin embodying if your wife wants a divorce - and this mindset shift is going to be crucial in allowing you to avoid divorce, but also regain power in your relationship as well.
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[@GeoffreySetiawan]

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[@nigelspendiff3771]

Personally, this is the most important vid that you have posted. I've watched alot of your advice Geoff, but I believe after 12 weeks of seperation between me and my wife I am just getting to this stage. She told me the other day that I'm too needy and it really hit home. as you say, your wife knows, she knows even more when you're being covert, the trembles, the lot! But I do genuinely believe that I'm reaching the middle area now, I feel more relaxed about leaving her alone and building myself and not focusing so much on needing her back.

[@franciscopinto1812]

I don’t even watch these videos for relationship advice anymore😂 this is some great self development videos

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Absolutely! life transformation.

[@adilsonmiranda1069]

Heii Geoffrey how can we speak men? You the best expert ever I really need to talk to you . Please

[@cleverklausur7689]

Man I laughed so hard when I read this, because it's true. Just with watching his videos I managed to establish contact and good communication with my girl. long way to go, but the beginning looks really promising. I am gonna buy his course as soon as I can afford it, even if I can get my relationship together without it. I really really want this program!

[@chitos2132]

@@cleverklausur7689 sounds awesome man good luck with everything bro I'm in the beginning stages of this trying to control my self. Can't ever loose hope I gotta keep my head to the sky!!

[@RossBayCult]

@@cleverklausur7689same here. I am improving myself and the relationship is slowly healing. But as soon as I can afford this I’m getting it anyway to become bulletproof

[@jenniferbuentello3842]

Yes. Oh wow. This is the way I have been and I absolutely cannot recognize myself. I feel so disappointed in myself that I feel like I’m being emotionally manipulative to my husband. I’m either trying my best to detach and leave him be or I’m so emotionally exhausted and overreact when I’m feeling rejected and lonely. It seems like he’s fine “kinda dating” and being together at times but I can only take that for so long because I want to work on getting somewhere, some common ground to begin heading down a path of restoring our marriage. I feel like I’m just living life in a broken-hearted shell and I’m tired

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hi Jennifer, The pain and anxiety you feel is because you are still tethered to your partner and or relationship. Learn in the video below the first step we must takin in order to start to repair things in your relationship. kzbin.info/www/bejne/gnyTmH1tpKuWn6c

[@yanabi83]

How are you now?

[@biersmorgen6609]

Totally am in the same place with my wife, she hates me ATP

[@BlitzvogelMobius]

Thanks for your videos. It's been a vicious cycle, but I'm starting to better understand my own self-sabotaging behavior and feel more confident with more new knowledge. Admittedly, I'm still feeling needy and anxious. However, I came to the realization today that despite everything that has happened between me and her, she hasn't given up on me. She still believes in me, I can feel it even if we are more distant that ever. That's the kind of thing that really gives me a renewed sense of hope and purpose. I know we can do this. It's hard and going to continue to be hard. Regardless, we are going to make it. I believe it.

[@nigelspendiff3771]

2 years have passed, how did things go?

[@promiseononokpono8814]

Hey any updates?

[@BlitzvogelMobius]

@@promiseononokpono8814 Things have gone really well to say the least. However I honestly would steer men in a different direction these days. Learning to let go of the outcome is ultimately what you need to learn. Obsessing over a woman is unhealthy.

[@allanbesley1249]

Most problem now a days is the Dunning Krugger effect. where people thinks they know more than what they really know its whats keeping them stagnated.its always fun to learn from people who really knows what they are talking about. ill watch all your videos

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Right! It's always interesting to see comments on the YT channel of people being so convinced of something, not knowing they are on the left extreme of the curve :)

[@bobbyjonesspeaks2858]

You are very good at explaining such a complex part of many struggling relationships. The part that stood out the most to me was the transformation from needs to wants and how that is the only way to truly shift our identity.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Right!

[@Joeyl1217]

I didn’t realize that I was being so needy.Your explanation of covert neediness helped me realize what I was doing.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hi Joey, Covert neediness paradoxically pushes your partner away and makes the situation even worse without you even realizing it... Am happy this video was helpful... If you’d like to learn more, you can begin by joining our free masterclass here. relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass At the end of this masterclass, you will also get some information on how you can submit your application for the program. And in case you’re curious as to how life-changing this program is, or how it is MILES beyond what other programs can offer, check out the links below! Client Review Videos: kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU

[@UCVoltageNumber3]

Wow dude, just wow. I might be needed, not with just her but with everybody. This might be blowing my mind, I'm going to have to think on this for a bit.

[@tokwatbadboyvlogs7346]

Hi Geoff, I'm having a problem with my girlfriend almost a month now, I've been watching your videos everyday so I can cope up to the situation. Videos are well explained. Thank you!

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

You are welcome! What has been the most insightful part of the video for you?

[@shubhamwadnere5423]

Absolutely correct geoffrey... You always speaks about exactly what is happening in our mind... You always motivate other to not doing such things which could make our partner manipulate, but at the same time how we should find ourself fulfilled and make our relationship happy & healthy in a normal way🙂

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts man. Always nice to hear from a fan :)

[@coolwave2029]

Interestingly enough, as I was watching through your videos, I came across a book called " The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem". Great resource!

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Love that book!

[@yoongis.tangerine]

i love this so much omg i'm gonna write this down on my journal. thank you 💙 this is such valuable information

[@katrox0]

You are very well spoken and the videos you share combined with how well you explain things is so easy to understand. You are so emotionally intelligent. Thank you for sharing all your valuable knowledge. Seriously! Thank you!

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Kathy, thank you! Really appreciate your kind words.🙂

[@ndimokom2144]

Geoffrey.. U rock brother. You master the subject matter... Great job

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Love it! Thank you so much for your comment and support!!

[@mh.m4653]

My good😳! How hold are you? I just came across your video. So rich, so much knowledge, so much informations. Really really good🙏

[@Lorden350]

I watch so many of your videos. Grate contents. Your coaching techniques are so insightful. This video is like your speaking directly to me. I can’t seem to Create the right internal shifts to stop being so needy. I would love to get more assistance from you.

[@deansultan4836]

Please make more videos like this man, this is so deep. It’s literally life changing in many aspects then one!

[@deansultan4836]

I love the deep and complex topics you go into

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Thank you! What was the most insightful part for you?

[@larryhill4894]

Dude you are awsome and your program is great made me see my wife's feelings in a way different way and see how I was needy mulptif gudgmental all that thanks for this.

[@savtheman19]

Hi geoff, sounds quite complex . But I will certainly give it a try . My feelings still wont to show affection and give her a hug . Is it best to stop all contact but still show I am there if she needs me

[@kasumbaabubaker50]

Hi Geoffrey thanks for the good work,❤❤

[@MikeHitt]

Your who demeanor is absolutely perfect. Great teacher. Thank You

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Yes!

[@cebo_sa1952]

I’m generally not a needy person. However, I fell too deep in love this time and have become very needy. I need to back-off and focus on myself, my friendships and family so I can see my value in multiple ways.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hi Cebo_SA, This would be a great video to start with. Be sure to let me know what you think and if it was helpful. kzbin.info/www/bejne/gnyTmH1tpKuWn6c

[@celumusavilane8419]

Hi Geoffrey. Thanks for your videos. I have a problem of ignoring my wife. Sometimes I try to reach her but she says I do not reach enough. How do I master handling her emotions very well

[@jimbruff2026]

he has showen me that i have always been needy and that ive always been a taker not a giver for 33 years

[@Ryanshaw6778]

I've had problems with my girlfriend for 2 months now we are having a baby together and it all started when she wanted space from me coz she wasn't coping during the pregnancy so I reacted in the wrong manor I was begging and pleading to get her back and it pushed our relationship to a deeper hole every day I was being needy keep asking her to come back to me etc I hope I can solve this with her I get her hormones are all over the place at the minute an I didn't pick up on that until it was to late we have been together for 14 months she is 22 weeks pregnant an all I want is to win her back and save our lil family what we going to have today av not text her an av took a step back I have been horrible to her calling her names what hurt accusing her of doing stuff an this had pushed her away even more I hope she can forgive is not just for me but for the sake of our lil daughter who is due in August I'm guessing once she has had our lil girl she will come around we planned lots together we planned on being a family living together and we was bang in love with each other now I've lost it all due to my lack of paranoia

[@vinovigor1632]

Nice. This is the first time see you wearing white shirt. I always watch your videos, it helps me a lot. Now our relationship is on cease fire. "Cool off" . Right now we're just Father and Mother to our daughter, we are friends, feels like we try to build a new chapter of relationship, start from the scratch. Hope my separation anxiety will subside.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hi Vino Vigor, Haha, very observant. I have been trying to mix it up a little on the colors. Glad you are getting value from my videos. Have you seen my latest interview with one of my clients? Check it out, I think you'll like it. kzbin.info/www/bejne/iIfNenWDe86Vm8k

[@tb87670]

Any update?

[@blahhblahh4683]

Hey I have a question I have put the ball into her court, but the no contact rule is something else I hear, what should I do.?

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Have you watched my videos on partners wanting space and the no contact rule?

[@zeffyneffy]

Hmm I want to know do you also can help in long distance relationship?? Kinda having an hard time and does all this applies to long distance relationship as well ?

[@icewater091]

Married for 26 years and I’m a needy person, I need to break this bad habit, I always want to be around, I need to create some hobbies for myself

[@futureboy1587]

Thax bro u have jst saved my relationship for sure but how can I talk to you one on one

[@JokinJoe]

My wife wants divorce and I’m willing to love her in a way that lets her free. It’s sad and I want her but it’s not up to me. We are signing the papers and dropping it off at the court tomorrow.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Yes Joe! We have a saying that goes "Give you partner the power and freedom to walk away, treat them well enough they will not want to"

[@streetlifetv13]

Update brotha?

[@tb87670]

Oh man how did things go? Any update?

[@Mrpatrickh]

I’m trying really hard to digest these awesome videos but I wish they were shorter...10-15 minutes would be great.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Patrick there is so much life changing information to share that 10-15 mins would not be enough. But it's something worth considering for future videos. 🙂

[@J_Dot_S]

Geoffrey, your concepts have been insightful. Take as much time as you need to articulate your points

[@kermitdf7026]

Hey Geoff, I love your non-toxic approach instead of alot of other youtubers! What do you think about this: My gf and I are not together very long, just half a year. But since she has a new job which is very stressfull for her and since she started it in January, she pulled back alot and isnt as affectionate anymore. She even told me its not about me but because this new job. How can I get her to become more affectionate again?

[@po5541]

My good God this guy is absolutely amazing

[@shahsaad1078]

Sir I did something wrong and my girlfriend started totally ignoring me I tried alot to convince her and still with a Gap em approaching her again and again to tell her that em here just waiting her she is kinda different type of girls what should I do em really confused..

[@shahsaad1078]

I tried all of my efforts to tell her that I Love her calmly logically and everything but I know she Loves me too but she is saying that she is fedup of over relationship

[@mrgameryt6129]

My partner tried her best to tell me that she has trust issues becoz she has past relationship trauma but I didn't take it seriously and now she is decided to leave me and just wanted to be my friend so she stonewalled me for the relationship part she didn't want to listen becoz she thinks if she come back the things will just repeat. What do you think Geoffrey sir can you please help me resolve this?

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Again, I don't want to copy and paste my response like you have with your comments. Please check out my advice on your other comments.

[@_beanswick2054]

It’s been a week since we separated over the weekend I went to go get some cloths then I saw then our dogs pad need a new one so I just threw the trash out the next she texted me thanks for throwing the trash witch when be fore she never said anything like thank you then a few minutes she sent me a link to buy her something Inside me iam confused bc our last therapy our therapist suggested the no contact rule but we have a son involved... hope you answer back man

[@chiefskingdom4151]

Treat her like crap and ignore her. Sit back ,enjoy the peace and watch her crawl back to you.

[@renaissanceman608]

what if your ex is hooking up with someone else that's giving them more of what you didn't?

[@marks5740]

I was desperate to get my ex back begging , pleading and getting drunk causing a scene .. My 13 old son said to me , give mum space , come and see me when isn't around and don't be so needy ! 😥

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hi Mark S, Let this serve as a wake up call for you to start making the right changes.

[@marks5740]

@@GeoffreySetiawan Yes I am making the changes , hopefully not too late , she says she doesn't love me , we had 3 hour goodbye chat after 7 weeks. I am now going no contact and working on the things I need to improve . If it's to late then , then it's to late , as 3 months will have passed and she obviously isn't changing her mind !

[@tb87670]

@@marks5740 How did it go? I'm almost a month into separation, curious if anything helped you.

[@marks5740]

@@tb87670 , she moved on !!women have tinder which is great for them .. women have female buddies who will guide them in the wrong direction ! I am still destroyed!

[@Jamieschutz]

If your wife is burnt out and tells you she needs time and space but you have children is this possible to achieve under the same roof

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Please check out my list of client stories and see how your situation is really not that unique. kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU

[@mariopenafiel8045]

I want to be in the group

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hi Mario, you can click the link (free masterclass) below the video in the description.

[@dogsent]

Why didnt i find you 6 months ago.😖

[@davidisaacs6692]

there is a lot of "overlap" in your many youtube videos. Surely a lot of the info could be condensed into a few underlying memorable principles guidelines which would be more helpful. Many of the scenarios you describe are to produce a perfect man (who does not exist) with a high maintenance demanding wife or partner. In ALL relationships you love your partner even with some faults (otherwise they would not be human beings!!!).

[@aaronbowie2562]

I want to be in class

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hi Aaron Bowie, Follow the link below. relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass

[@vakratundastudio5012]

I have cheated my wife now she has caught me red handed she want divorce please help me I need her in my life I did lot of things like begging pleading crying Now she not speaking to me please help me get her back in my life

[@biersmorgen6609]

I want my wife i do not need her, lets do this win her trust and safety back !!!! Thank u Jesus what u made no man can separate

[@felipecappatodacosta9786]

Update ?

[@bucknasty1390]

What happens when you're still living with each other and have a child to raise and she tells me that we're separated? Is there any chance after she's repeatedly told me that we're not together anymore?

[@felipecappatodacosta9786]

I am on the same boat, just keep believing and work on yourself to become a better person