Meet Stipe - He Was Blindsided By Divorce & Now Closer Than Ever

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Geoffrey Setiawan

Geoffrey Setiawan

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00:00 - How He Joined
06:18 - How Things Were
14:30 - How Things Are Now
15:37 - #1: Why Tactics & Manipulation Don't Work
29:05 - #2: How Playing Victim Kills Everything
40:28 - #3: Why I Was So Blind To My Mistakes
46:49 - #4: Redefining "High-Value Man"
57:27 - #5: This Held Me Back From True Change
1:00:00 - #6: "It Takes Two To Tango" Is COMPLETE BS
1:08:06 - #7: Why Most Men Aren't Truly Bulletproof
1:15:34 - Why I Didn't Trust Geoffrey At First
1:23:20 - How To Apply For The Program

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@GeoffreySetiawan
@GeoffreySetiawan Жыл бұрын
Hey guys hope this was helpful! Want results like Jason & Maria? Want to apply for the Relationships Revival program? Be sure to check out my brand new masterclass on the 5 Proven Steps to Rebuilding Your Relationship/Marriage. (Warning: Spots are limited) 💪 Here is the link to the MASTERCLASS & To Apply for the Relationships Revival program -> relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass 🎉 Click here to see more inspiring stories from our clients from the Relationships Revival program: kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU
@reddevil00745able
@reddevil00745able Жыл бұрын
This should be mandatory before marriage. It would destroy family court but people would live happier lives. Just my two cents. You should give pre-marriage courses on the topics you teach.
@gd3598
@gd3598 Жыл бұрын
this is awesome. Stipe is open, honest and vulnerable. Thank you. Signed up tonight
@tajsam8059
@tajsam8059 Жыл бұрын
Stipe druze, sve vreme kao da slusam sebe. Otvorio si mi oci covece upravo. Srecu, hrabrost i mudrosti ti zelim u buducnosti jer, znas i sam, mi balkanci smo tvrdi kao kamen i jako nam je tesko sami sebi slomiti ego! Ziv bio i srecno!
@stipesiki
@stipesiki Жыл бұрын
Hvala drug! Ako si se prepoznao u puno toga, vrijeme je za promjene i preporučujem Geoffa i program više nego išta na svijetu. Sretno!
@yourfriendlyhardinera621
@yourfriendlyhardinera621 Жыл бұрын
I honestly enjoyed this video. I needed to reinforce what I have learned before because sometimes I do the victim blaming. I also do the overthinking the negative way. Thanks to this video, I was reminded to avoid it.
@ironclad8602
@ironclad8602 Жыл бұрын
My wife asked for divorce at the end of July this year and does not want to work things out at all. I’m still living in the house, but sleeping in another room ……….she is set on getting a divorce, is there still hope?
@GeoffreySetiawan
@GeoffreySetiawan Жыл бұрын
Hi Iron Clad, Meet the men and women who found themselves in the same situation as yourself. Then learn what they chose to do about it to restore hope within the relationship once again. kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU
@alfredwong98
@alfredwong98 Жыл бұрын
Hey geoffrey, watching your videos really helped me however I don't know if my situation actually works from your guide as we are a one year couple... and I messed up but now she says that she would want to break up and live her life first and after I work on myself she said that she is open minded for me to chase her back again ... however I do not know when will she be able to heal from that because as what she said she is deeply hurt by me someone that she loves a lot and do not want to get into another relationship is there anything I can do in my situation and how long will you recommend me to let her heal and stuff.
@alfredwong98
@alfredwong98 Жыл бұрын
@@newton19999 ?? haha i dont get it
@fivehots
@fivehots Жыл бұрын
Hey man, I can see why you’d be anxious about your situation. It seems like she’s asking for space because of her lack of emotional safety. Something I hope you can recognize is that she’s offering you what she needs to feel that safety, which is for you to work on yourself. When you ask yourself about how much time it’s going to take, you’re shooting yourself in the foot before you begin the race. If you’re more concerned about how quickly you’ll lose the weight or gained the muscle, you’ll stop going to the gym if the results don’t come as quickly as you’d like. It’s a great thing that you are able to recognize that you messed up, because even that requires an amount of swallowing your pride. So I don’t want to take that away from you. Still, you’re looking for answers from everywhere but what she is actually telling you because you don’t understand her reasoning. She is looking for emotional safety, which you may seem to be struggling with creating. A child heals from a broken bone much quicker than an adult, and you might heal quicker or slower than me. You won’t be able to dictate how long it’ll take for her to heal. The only thing you can do is make sure that when she is healed that you have changed your mindset, which will change the environment. I hope that helps. It’s a marathon, not a sprint. It will take time, but what you do with that time is crucial. Mindset > willpower.
@alfredwong98
@alfredwong98 Жыл бұрын
@@fivehots this helps me in a bigger perspective… but one of the reason why i am stress about the situation because we are not a long time couple despite spending one year together almost everyday … and she is finding comfort in other guy and she is trying to play around and fool around does that decrease my chances of winning her back??
@fivehots
@fivehots Жыл бұрын
@@alfredwong98 I think what we would both want to do for our partners (for as much as we consider them to still be) is to not tell ourselves their stories right? You will never be able to say for sure what they want if you’re not able to receive her message regardless. What she might be looking for, again I can’t speak with absolute surety, ultimately is a sense of comfort, a sense that she may have lost with you, with a high probability, much earlier than the actual break up. If you watch more of these videos you’ll see that your partner more than likely tried to save the relationship much sooner than the moment you’re hung up on. I know you want to hear you have a 100% chance of getting her back, but the only 100% thing you can be sure of is that we’re not all long for this mortal plane. I wouldn’t discount the time you were together as “only a year” as that’s a long time out of someone’s life that they gave to you. The moments, the memories, the laughter, the happiness doesn’t just vanish. But I can guarantee that what vanished is emotional safety. I’d be willing to be anything that if you asked her, she would tell you that is the case. None of this is to say these moments, this period of time in your longing and remorse is going to come easy. However, when you shift your focus and your narrative away from the time it’s going to take to possibly get her back (I’m all for the law of attraction, so keep putting the thought into the universe), and you’re able to align yourself more with the idea “would I want to come back to me as I am?” you may begin to see where the cracks are in your own personality that may continue to cause that lack of safety. When your partner was with you, you respected her decision to be there. Remember, it never mattered how much YOU wanted her there, it was a matter of how much SHE wanted to. And right now, with emotional security removed, she doesn’t have that WANT. If you can take this time, shift those paradigms, and recognize that your partner is looking for comfort and emotional safety (not to fool around with another guy or to be fast or whatever you may be attributing to her character), you’ll be able to develop a much larger sense of understanding as to what happened to destroy it. It’s not that you hurt her (we hurt those we love because we have time with those we love), it’s that she’s unable to look past the pain because she’s looking at the SAME MAN that caused it. I bet that if you did your homework and asked around, you might get more insight as to how you make others feel emotionally. There’s usually a common link in the chain. For me, my sisters felt it well before my partner did. I had to recognize that there is a fundamental change that I had to make. Not simply for my partner, but for myself. I’m solely focused now on cultivating emotional safety for people. Our partners will never want to come back if we are the same men they left. Your body needs stressors to grow as does your mind. Tear muscle to create muscle. Lungs burn to develop stronger lungs. Right now, this is the stressor you need to make the changes in yourself before you should ever want your partner to go through what she went through.
@Randomvideos-fx1dk
@Randomvideos-fx1dk Жыл бұрын
She told me that she needs space so we started the no contact rule but keeps texting me She told me that she's scared of letting me go I'm lost here any advice
@Smk0991
@Smk0991 Жыл бұрын
Look up personal development school on KZbin it’s a lady that will show you about attachment styles and why she is acting how she is and why you react how you are that pushes her away
@rickrollrizal2747
@rickrollrizal2747 Жыл бұрын
This guy is handsome. If he got blindsided, wow
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