How to Communicate In a Relationship: ONE Crucial Principle to Artfully Save Your Marriage

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

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[@135421LF]

Brother, you are amazing. I´ve learnt more psychology from you in the last few weeks than in my entire human psychology carreer. You have helped me becoming an even greater person by understanding human communication and minset way deeper than I did. Higher vibes for you brother. Cheers!

[@christianlamb]

Solid video Geoffrey! I work with couples regularly to help them acknowledge their limiting paradigms and mindsets so they can reprogram themselves to rebuild a thriving relationship. The way you laid everything out here in a 20 minute video is masterful. Well done and thank you!!🔥🙏❤

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hey Christian, Thank you! Really Appreciate It...

[@onemoment2020]

Very logical and clear explanations. You are very open minded and smart. Your partner is lucky. Unfortunately, the people who need this knowledge desperately are the ones who do not think they have any problem...

[@DadBodtoBadDad]

I love this guy, you’ve inspired and healed me so much during my weight loss journey. Weight has effected my relationship and you’ve definitely helped shift my mindset in my marriage. Thank you 💪🏻

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hey DadBod, Thank you! Am really happy that my content have been inspirational & healing for you. Having the right mindset is crucial in any relationship.

[@alecmcd8536]

This is probably the best video of yours I have watched so far. The reason is that in all of your videos you mentioned these "mindset changes" being one of the most important changes, and for the past month now I have been banging my head trying to figure out what you ment by this, or how to go about doing this. This video really breaks down why this is important and even how to do this. I plan on practicing this and using this on a daily basis now with my spouse. If I would have understood this sooner, it would have prevented me from looking like an idiot all of the time, however, it is better now then never. Thank you for sharing this Geoffrey, you are a real life saver.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hi Alec, You are welcome! Really appreciate your comment & am happy that this video has been helpful in your situation. If you would like to learn more, you can join our free masterclass & consider enrolling in our program. In our Relationship Revival program all our clients have learnt the RIGHT processes (frameworks, mindsets & identity shifting) to create MASSIVE safety & trust. Have a look at how the program has been life-changing for so many of my clients… kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU

[@CeeT-wg3hz]

So how exactly would you go about this? And what would you say when trying to understand your spouse?

[@peuple3993]

Thank you Geoffrey. Im am changing. I feel it. It s great. My ex checked on me. Of course it is too early and this is the negative phase she rejected the changes. Nevertheless, I am changing and my interpretations are changing. Unfortunately she is not changing. She stays in the same loop over and over for years now and I am starting to think that maybe I should forget about her. That's the risk when one changes and not the other one. I feel confident and if she does not want me it is ok for me. Those changes and the ones coming will serve another relation another women that I can love give and share my life with. This personnal development is amazing to do and very fulfilling.

[@RobbiJamesVogt]

Hello Geoffrey. I would like to thank you. Along with your tips, tricks and my own knowledge for psychology, I was able to correct the wrongs I had made. I guess you could say I’m a success story and you played a large part of this. Everyone - take a look at Geoffrey’s masterclass - it’s well worth it!

[@Sadzsh]

He just won't talk to me. Sits on phone all day when he's home or back from work. No effort from him at all. I'm doing all the tools you have said. But he won't give in.

[@OscarJ-01]

You a real teacher brother. The words and images on the side is such a great touch tbh never seen anything like it in this domain. I used to be red pill alpha male and even before that I was naturally really masculine but toxic. I went through something that changed me and broke me down... (I don’t know how much you believe in God) but God told me it was to break down my masculinity because I was very masculine but in a toxic way and I was too toxic so the only way to change me was breakdown my masculinity and lead me to outlets and people and books that’ll help me build it back up in a positive and pure way and I can say by far you are the best counsellor I ever seen on here‼️💯💯🔥🔥

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hey Jonathan, I appreciate the love brother! Sounds like you have done an awesome job to transform yourself to become the best! Keep growing and embrace the continuous improvement mindset.

[@megadragonzilla5807]

Wow just looking at it as an opportunity made me feel relaxed right away

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hey MegaDragonZill, This is something that many of my clients have mastered and is crucial to being able to thrive in your relationships. kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5XWYoesZ96lZ9E

[@cmuhammad]

Bro thank you, this helped me look at my situation with a more positive perspective and to work on approaching it differently.

[@fish-on1679]

I'm saving for your course at the moment you hVe helped me with the answers I always searched for but never knew existed within me

[@savvyguy1353]

The concepts and framework are pretty good. That said it’s remarkable that folks do pay for the content when you are not licensed or credentialed any where. It leads to a very mental delivery of your context vs. natural delivery

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Most people's credentials consist of degrees and licenses, and theoretical client results you usually have to belive in faith. My credentials are based on actual client results that I share endlessly every 2 weeks through my in-depth interviews. If paper licenses or degrees are more important to you, then you should probably avoid watching my videos or purchasing anything from me. But if you are looking for actual content that drives results, feel free to keep checking it out. P.S. Do let me know of another coach/professional who is able to keep sharing the amount and quality of an endless supply of DEEP interviews with their successful clients in this niche.

[@savvyguy1353]

@@GeoffreySetiawan a combination of both is probably pretty good. You are fairly defensive for preaching not being defensive. I didn’t diminish your work. Just pointing out the obvious.

[@savvyguy1353]

Your one on one client vids are very good. The overview stuff comes across canned. Work on public speaking and you will continue to blow up.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

I was doing the same - Simply pointing out the obvious as well :)

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

@@savvyguy1353 Thanks for the feedback!

[@pedrorodriguez5020]

Geoffrey I have watch many of your videos recently because I am in my own dire situation I can say that a lot of your videos has opened my eyes and even though I going through a divorce I am watching All your videos and learning. I’m slowly climbing this mountain. I have one question dancing around a tough situation let’s say if resentment or anger shows itself on my spouse what is an example on how to dance around that conversation. An example of I was told your not consistent and you do a or b what would an example of dancing around that look like? I also been to master class 2 times it’s amazing but I still have these questions.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hi Pedro, Here is a video that will entail the complexity on my program. Building safety is not about watching some YT videos and rehearsing some scripts. It is about a level of mastery that takes many of my clients 6-12 months to fully master but are so pleased once they have achieved their massive success. kzbin.info/www/bejne/gnSXfYZ3eruBjdE

[@Frank1life2live]

Great stuff Geoffrey. Man oh man, what a paradigm shift; I'm supposed to see her stonewalling as an opportunity and want more of it. Whew, I really do need that bullet proof vest. When I slip and get emotional and think I cant handle this stonewalling anymore, I realize that I'm putting more emphasis on her and her choices than what's good for me. It's tough, to the point I feel like I'm going insane, which probably I have, but I keep trying. Needing more self efficacy for sure. Sometimes a brother can't catch a break...

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hi Frank Solis, Yes, when you can make this shift and begin to see resistance as just opportunities you will also see that this is a huge opportunity to show your growth in planting small seeds of change and eventually allowing your partner to want to see and feel your changes and begin to open up to the relationship once again.

[@whoiseth4698]

Hey bro, thanks for sharing. Very helpful, but somewhat technical. Anyway you could simplify your message to the masses.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hi Whoiseth, Thank you! Happy this was insightful for you. If you’d like to learn more about get a more simplified explanation, you can begin by joining our free masterclass here. relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass At the end of this masterclass, you will also get some information on how you can submit your application for the program. And in case you’re curious as to how life-changing this program is, or how it is MILES beyond what other programs can offer, check out the links below! Client Review Videos: kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU Client Review Screenshots: drive.google.com/drive/folders/1Gp8UpRV9uMlFx763BfuQnEqN930FQb7b?usp=sharing

[@OmnivoreMacrophage]

I think one of my biggest issues is that I really want my wife to talk about her issues with me, and she seems is open to talking about it, but she wants me to leave her alone, and we can "talk about it at a later time". But when should I have these important talks? When is SHE ready to talk about our problems? I want to learn, so I know what exactly to change as soon as possible, but also wanna respect her need for space.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hi Omnivore, you can learn the processes/methods to slowly break through your wife's resistance... This requires a change in the way you interact and communicate... If you’d like to learn more about it, you can begin by joining our free masterclass here. relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass At the end of this masterclass, you will also get some information on how you can submit your application for the program. And in case you’re curious as to how life-changing this program is, or how it is MILES beyond what other programs can offer, check out the links below! Client Review Videos: kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU

[@Prettytony0627]

Another excellent video!

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hey Tony, thank you brother! Really appreciate it!

[@Prettytony0627]

@@GeoffreySetiawan no man I appreciate you! You helped to save my marriage. Your advice has been a blessing to me as a man, a husband, a father, and a friend. I can’t thank you enough.

[@purrpl8331]

Thanks for these. Really helping me a lot right now.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Love it!

[@lauramouse115]

I've seen this work! I'm just trying to be patient.

[@keiththam1015]

Hi Geoffrey, new subscriber here..I appreciate your content alot, though complex and I had to watch it in segments...I like how you are able to use different analogies and examples like athletes cracking under pressure...myself I'm dealing with a partner who doesn't like to communicate her emotions

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hey Keith, happy that you joined the channel!... Thank you!... The process of appealing to your partners emotions takes time with the right processes... The root is always lack of trust, safety or ability, you can learn how to communicate in a different way to create safety. If you’d like to learn more about it, you can begin by joining our free masterclass here. relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass At the end of this masterclass, you will also get some information on how you can submit your application for the program. And in case you’re curious as to how life-changing this program is, or how it is MILES beyond what other programs can offer, check out the links below! Client Review Videos: kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU

[@sarahstevenson8155]

If your partner has been stonewalling for a month - no contact - and asked for a break - should you reach out and say something to help them know you understand?

[@adrainjohnson8193]

Great video very understandable.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hi Adrian, Thank you brother! Really appreciate the positive feedback.

[@stevengonzales6288]

This video was very helpful I always want brutal truth but I didn’t see it that way when you described it to negative to positive it made me see how to approach it in a different way deep down I still have hope and the reason is I text her the other day and she responded pretty fast and she knows when she doesn’t respond fast that I get to get upset as far as yelling or cursing because why she took so long but just by her responding makes me feel a little bit better I don’t know I don’t know where this is going to end up but you’ve been a big helpIt’s not over yet but I don’t wanna hang on to something that’s been gone for a while I can let go

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hey Steven, Thank you brother! Happy this video was insightful for you. Once you understand the principles in this video you can definitely restore hope and save your relationship. If you’d like to learn more about it, you can begin by joining our free masterclass here. relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass At the end of this masterclass, you will also get some information on how you can submit your application for the program. And in case you’re curious as to how life-changing this program is, or how it is MILES beyond what other programs can offer, check out the links below! Client Review Videos: kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU Client Review Screenshots: drive.google.com/drive/folders/1Gp8UpRV9uMlFx763BfuQnEqN930FQb7b?usp=sharing

[@adrianrhoda5283]

Hi Geoffrey, great video. I’m wondering what the success rate is of your program.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

The highest in the industry, by miles. - I know that's hard to believe, so I'll leave you with proof below. This first video is a walkthrough of our program. kzbin.info/www/bejne/gnSXfYZ3eruBjdE This second video is a response that we made to a fake review thread people have made about us. You will be able to see what this program has done for hundreds of our members in a 6 minute span! www.loom.com/share/5a9021a157624705819960fc966e3ef2 This third and forth videos are two recent client stories with Liam Rose and Andrew Wade, kzbin.info/www/bejne/goTWaKxmqJWaj8k kzbin.info/www/bejne/roLUg3WQgdRme9U This fifth video is another recent client story of one of my clients, Jason Newman. He quit his high paying job to come work for me, because this program changed his life in ways un-imaginable. kzbin.info/www/bejne/fKDbm4SVg6iojNE This final link is to our current collection of client stories: kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU

[@peymanestalkhi]

❤

[@JohnDoe-et4oq]

Hey Geoffrey, I have a question. Me and my girlfriend have been fighting quite a bit today she told me that she sometimes feels trapped and wants to get out more she’s been hanging out with her friends more than ever and she’s really snappy with me sometimes, what do you think I should do and what does this mean please let me know thanks.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hi John, It sounds like your partner has a ton of pent up emotions that she doesn't feel safe expressing to you. You can learn the processes that all my clients have successfully used to empower themselves to save their relationship. If you’d like to learn more about it, you can begin by joining our free masterclass here. relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass At the end of this masterclass, you will also get some information on how you can submit your application for the program. And in case you’re curious as to how life-changing this program is, or how it is MILES beyond what other programs can offer, check out the links below! Client Review Videos: kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU

[@funpong3053]

🙏🏻

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hey Fun Pong, 🙂

[@blacklearner27]

Great videos. You should train some athletes.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hey Maurice, Thank you brother! Really appreciate it, will consider training athletes in the future.🙂

[@laurainrevison1162]

These videos only explain a theory, but not how to practice this. Not helpful.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

I am assuming you're saying here that you want more help. You're welcome to join our intensive program with 65+ hours of material that has changed the lives of many people. If you have no intention of joining, then I can say the same...this comment is not helpful. :) kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU