Get It on Record

[@theupdownlife2179]

Lol. He said, "she accused me of having our son on the block". Then he said, "she came to the block and picked up our son". Lol. I'm done 🤣

[@sights3255kamobrin]

🤣😂

[@imhereforitall9218]

He trying. He is a block boy. That is why she liked him. Then he put a baby in her too. She stupid.

[@MoneysWorld1989]

Facts

[@imhereforitall9218]

He definitely rode the short bus to school. 🚐🚐🚐🚐🚐🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@5iveb1]

😂😂😭

[@chuckallstar1281]

He said “I have to pick up where she left off” that’s exactly what you are suppose to do brother

[@xxxtantenciannaonfroydo1440]

Um no..?🤨

[@tristancarson910]

And he proves in this statement he doesn't really take care of his kids. If you are around your 5 year old long enough, you know you can put 5 brand new shoes on them in the same day and they are going to be dirty.

[@melaninamethyst316]

@@xxxtantenciannaonfroydo1440 ummm yes😒

[@xxxtantenciannaonfroydo1440]

@@melaninamethyst316 um no its supposed to be 100% on each end half of yall dads was half assing yall and it shows

[@wecountingmoneyoverhere2517]

50/50

[@positive___soul]

Once things get physical, the relationship will never be the same 🥺

[@kimf442]

Right!!!

[@jenniferodessa5998]

cause it like why u even want to kill me like that 🤣🤦🏾‍♀️

[@jsmith2609]

Exaaaaaaactly! No matter, that person who has been abused will definitely be walking on eggshells. 😪 Sad but true

[@gripshownuff]

I agree there’s no going back then

[@AndyinMTL]

so true

[@protectedmusiclover850]

"Her mom did keep calling me" then later in testimony...."They didn't even call me when he was born".

[@nookieham2798]

What I got out of that was they constantly called when she had Braxton Hicks, to the point that he felt it was like boy crying wolf. Their stories were all over the place in some parts.

[@alexisrene5854]

@@nookieham2798 yeah but it also sounds like they were updating him and the reasons didn’t seem good enough to him. He said multiple times that they told her she was in the hospital. Being pregnant and giving birth is unpredictable at times

[@nookieham2798]

@@alexisrene5854 I don't think any reason was good enough. Honestly...That's why I believe she was having Braxton Hicks(thinking she was in labor) and they would call him to let him know. Since she never had the baby at those times he was called. He assumed it was lies. when in fact, he was just not informed about pregnancies or BHs.I

[@xaye24]

Then he gone say I don't have a phone. Then he had a phone. He don't know how to use social media. Mann stop he rehearsed what he was gone say.

[@iatdtv4996]

Judge took time to be a social services parental mediator. He doesn't normally show that much patience.

[@samaurriagrant6821]

Cause they both calm and acting mature 🤞🏽

[@maestralive3493]

@@samaurriagrant6821 Right, I was going to say because they both seem like good people overall

[@jannettsnow2856]

I see him show patients alot

[@maestralive3493]

@@PropertyandCasualtyAgent Why you single me out? I said what I said: THEY BOTH SEEM LIKE GOOD PEOPLE. GOOD people have BAD moments too. Good people come from trauma and dysfunction too. They both have good spirits in MY OPINION. Go out and meet some people then come talk to me.

[@louisedatrice3927]

I think he does a great job; everyday.

[@tyjones6626]

Idk why some men think that “seeing” there child is good enough. They missed the fact that kids cost and need to be financially supported.

[@SummyrDoll]

Exactly!

[@dadunbar20]

Technically it is because alot of kids don't get that.... the judge just said it basically doesn't matter if he has been giving you support for his child it's going to be considered gifts unless he puts himself on child support which is bs that father has the same bills the baby mother has how is he supposed to live

[@Grande-Dame]

@@dadunbar20 her bill involves her child’s bills too. When you can’t even quantify how much you “gift” in pricing then yes child support is important.

[@dadunbar20]

@@Grande-Dame and his bills includes his child's bills also yall godda stop thinking yall the only parent that's what's wrong

[@kenyahulsey5172]

We aren’t talking about active fathers. But inconsistent fathers and fathers that aren’t there.. the least you could do is pay cs .. that’s not even the bare minimum. If the primary is making all the sacrifice why wouldn’t they feel like the only parent ? That doesn’t make sense

[@adonysha]

It drives me bonkers when the absent parent complains about the child's dirty tennis shoes. Excuse me, this is a child! Lol children don't take it easy cause they don't wanna mess up their clothes or tennis shoes. They're out here living their best lives playing hard lol

[@rondaduse-anthony6755]

Exactly. It's because they don't spent enough time with kids to realize how they actually behave.

[@vapaperboi]

Funny cuz my baby mom is like that..she ain't in their lives but wanna complain bout lil shit whenever she do she em

[@payableondeath9091]

@@vapaperboi there's some ppl all they do is complain SMH🤦

[@fwb1012]

That’s why they are supposed to have shoes to play in. Absent parents think little children are supposed to have “fresh” sneakers on at all times🙄 Not until they get into the teens will most children give two sh*%# about shoes! Boy bye!

[@payableondeath9091]

@@fwb1012 finally some1 with common sense, children supposed to have like 5 diff pairs of shoes for life mmmmkay👍

[@TalkswithMellow]

Why he text her saying “You wanna make some money?” Sounds like he was about to proposition her for sexual favors.

[@kenishaallison]

It sounded like drugs or boosting or a cash app scheme or something related to that

[@pitaachipp]

Or some type of scamming situation

[@TB-vj8ie]

Whatever it was it was no good

[@The-Mediator]

Sounded like he wanted her to mule for him.

[@dionerhodes1308]

Yup!! Somethen was up with that text! 👀🕵

[@jamesthe3rd259]

Getting your child when you want to, here and there, just to take them on the block to impress your homes is not parenting. Putting your child in dangerous situations, hoping he models after your lifestyle is insane. And what is up with parents thinking they get to be bothered with THEIR children only when they feel like it? If you're seeing him only 2 days out of the week, the least you can do is pay the costs of half of his food, living expenses, health and dental care, academics, clothing, etc.

[@Tattedmoni]

She mased him imagine a child seeing that,… and posting with another man with her child stop always blaming the man thanks

[@jamesthe3rd259]

@@Tattedmoni im sure the child sees much more than that on the block. I didn't blame him. I did call him out on not taking care of his child regularly. He says the same thing a lot of half arse fathers say. It's old. There are no excuses for him not taking care of his children. Period!

[@tristancarson910]

@@jamesthe3rd259 Period!

[@melissamanigo4548]

💯💯💯

[@Handlemenice]

@@tristancarson910 knew your opinion didn’t matter when you said period lbs.

[@matty7757]

“Thought I had him on the block, that assumption is ridiculous” then how she show up “on the block” and get him from you then???? 🤦🏿‍♀️😂

[@ChanelNJ]

🤣🤣🤣

[@hairbygermaine1323]

Same thing I’m saying

[@kimberlynatasha7]

Right! Sir please get it together!

[@shandyshrain439]

Why does he expect this woman to pay all the bills. While he comes around like it's a luxury. Smh

[@SuperBRIANWILSON]

I don’t think that’s what he said at all

[@JayMonaeee]

@@SuperBRIANWILSON 🤣🤣🤣

[@AngelAfrica2007]

@@SuperBRIANWILSON that was his last statement after the case ended

[@The-Mediator]

He did say it. But that’s what he’s doing.

[@toyalasha5421]

That’s how deadbeats operate

[@webster2086]

She said he did a "whole 360". Welp she got that right lol

[@phillyphilly3148]

😂😂

[@yaniboo2002]

🤣🤣🤣

[@carolynroyal2302]

A whole 2 months at that...lmbo

[@wadilotus]

"Literey," a 360!

[@racquelmenard6278]

So you keep a child after finding out the father is physically abusive, why keep the toxic people around now look where they are.

[@zoet1025]

Her saying “littery” instead of “literally” is killing me😂

[@cici7844]

And she kept saying it WRONG 😂

[@shord140]

Her saying "a full 360", like girl, then he didnt change... lol

[@mrsir4315]

Some people pronounce words differently. It's called a accent

[@reesecupp3150]

Right!! And kept repeating it🙄 People need to pronounce and use words correctly.

[@TeeWidDaJuice]

I kept getting mad every single time she said it like that 🤦🏾‍♀️😭

[@Natas_Nico08518]

I wanted believe him but the more she spoke I realize he was trying to pull the crazy baby momma card. He’s inconsistent, unorganized, and unreliable. Children need consistency. If you’re picking up a child who is used to structure and have nothing for them to do, the child is going to ask for the parent that gives the, security and structure. The mother obviously has structure. This man wants her to drop what she has to do when he’s ready to be around and then drop everything when he’s done. The son wouldn’t ask for his mom if they did something that interested him. It’s not about taking them places, it’s about talking to your child, making a positive connection, using what they tell you to engage in their interests that makes them want to be around you more!

[@jessicahonorat5970]

I was just about to say he keep lying and couldn’t even keep his story first in the beginning he saying. He don’t buy stuff for his and that’s it’s not about materialistic things. And that’s it’s about the TIME he gives his son and he feels like time is all kids care about not materialistic things. But then in the end says he always buying shoes and clothes which is why he feels like he shouldn’t feel child support. And that when his son with her she upkeep herself more then her son. But like I said I believe her. I believe he only bought one pair of shoes for his kids. He was constantly contradicting hisself. Went from saying he ain’t don’t have a phone to communicate with her to saying seconds later who she be having blocked. 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@juantubey]

All your assumptions seem valid mine is based on the last statement that came out of her mouth about he being a dad to the older child. The child is still very young and it's natural if he desires to go to his mom because he's more familiar with her. It's got nothing to do with doing anything interesting to him. Even if they did, after a while a child will most likely ask to see the "main" parent once they are tired. All the assumption about being inconsistent, unorganized and unreliable are all based on what the judge projected nothing in the evidence shows she's more consistent, organized and reliable than him. In this case I believe they are equally responsible to make things work out for the best in terms of parenting. The judge should have suggested a mediator.

[@wallflower7441]

Not to mention he felt he had a right to just walk in her house without notice

[@t.c.5456]

Not to mention he said he doesn't have has kids with gangsters and bad people then he said she found us ON the BLOCK.

[@theblackbolt5514]

She's lying too she kept putting her head down

[@NikkiRen]

I hate when I hear men say “she has my kid, I shouldn’t HAVE to knock.” Sir, if you don’t live here nor pay any bills here, then you have no rights to enter the home without permission. Nor is anyone obligated to give you access to their social media pages. 😑

[@adamsimmons3078]

Females act the same exact way too. I feel the same way you do but it’s not all men and not all women but both do that

[@marcellusellis3982]

Why is he taking his child on "the block"... unbelievable..stray bullets have no name!!

[@amilllion1]

Cause he don’t wanna have to spend money taking him places and buying him things

[@marcellusellis3982]

@@amilllion1 hopefully the mother have him on child support but keeping the child out of harms way is way more important than money.

[@PrincessZaire100]

@@amilllion1 the park is FREE

[@jaredlhulum]

wait, she said he did a 360. That means he didn't change!

[@RacieRain]

Right. That's what she meant. She took him back only for him to do a full 360 and return to the same behavior. At least that's what I thought she meant

[@cinnamonrollonapancake]

😂😂😂

[@KeelyB2318]

I said the same

[@paige1pg2]

So he turned completely around and continued where he left off

[@shelocsher2396]

🤷🏽‍♀️ well he didn’t lol

[@iamnotyoursis8250]

I wouldn't let a man take my child out anywhere in Chicago . Children aren't safe there especially with a dad thats in "The Life".

[@Kokopuff21]

I dont think they understand that, my child cant even ride in the car with their dad to McDonalds especially if he “one of those” type. You live a dangerous life but my child will be protected by me

[@jenniferselmon1511]

No fr though she has a good reason to not want her son around him. I bet she's torn.

[@melissalsmith883]

a man? you mean the man you picked to father your child

[@The-Mediator]

@@melissalsmith883 You are stuck on that word to bypass the main point. If a mother sees that the father of her child is taking their child to dangerous environments (aka criminal environments), she needs to protect that child.

[@morehyeshiahtorahlessons5545]

@@The-Mediator did she find out about his ways?

[@xwannabeetinkerbellx]

“Your shoes clean but my son dirty” lol he’s a child.

[@GetIntoTheBLACK]

Right I’m like kids can have on a brand New pair of shoes and two minutes later then look dusty lol and it’s a boy

[@queenkeii970]

Regardless, a child should have play shoes and out shoes. If she's clean af, hair/nails done, there's no reason her son shoes or clothes should be nasty

[@kisha4040]

@@queenkeii970 Once again kids are dirty. Their job is to get themselves dirty.

[@MhiaLee19]

@@queenkeii970 you can always clean your shoes and as soon as you step outside they’re gonna get dirty again it’s obviously you don’t have children😂😂😂😂stfu this is why people need to have kids and then reply 😂😂😂 your inside shoes arent gonna get dirty obviously but if you go outside that’s how he met the kid, outside, so they’re supposed to be dirty according to you…

[@LucasLoveChild]

I like how his proof that he's not a dead beat is just "this not even my first child"

[@iamnotyoursis8250]

"The Block" is no place for a child.

[@antbankzbruh]

Litter-E... Litter-E ....Litter-E Judge please correct her 🤣

[@SaWilliam]

He’s trifling but she should’ve known what she was dealing with before having his baby.

[@_MoneyMike_]

Exactly

[@ab-kb8uk]

So she get to sit at her mama house while she take care of the baby doing nothing but he gotta take him to Chucky cheese every time he see his child ...everyday ain't an event

[@airjay_01]

Sabrina_Bella Beautiful Smile Absolutely Amazingly Beauty….Simply Gorgeous ♥️🔥

[@sights3255kamobrin]

Sometimes you just don't. It's called a facade U see things but then it's too late.. As a Mother my self I will say after a while u learn the hard way..

[@nylabellinger7779]

Look dudes gives us dreams that's fake in we fall for it to believe it's TRUE then he change become narcissists

[@latoyaboston3845]

When he said he shouldn’t have to knock on the door….. I knew he was unreasonable

[@shanicole2715]

In the beginning I thought Judge Mathis was going to eat him up. I love the way Judge delivered his message to the young parents

[@dashagrey3114]

It really drives me bonkers when men say “you look nice but my child doesn’t.” Sir, if you were with your child on a daily basis you would know that children run their clothes and shoes into the dirt. Unless he is a teen, MOST children play outdoors and run and play during recess. Materiel things is also not all that is needed to raise a child. Lights, gas, hot water, food, electricity, gas to get back and forth to school etc. If your child has all of that, your child is being taken care of and your child support is not going to waste. Stop focusing on your baby mothers hair then calling her bitter. 🥴

[@GetIntoTheBLACK]

Real bitter! It’s like they mad she doesn’t look bad

[@bajangenetics400]

While i agree with what you said... bare in mind there are some mothers that would be out in public dressed to kill and their children would be in raggy clothes. In the yard its acceptable but some women take the kids out like that. Then there are some good mothers whose kids are well dressed while momma got on raggy clothes. Ive seen both scenarios

[@dashagrey3114]

@@bajangenetics400 well of course! There are definitely situations where the mother is terrible however, this is not one of those situations.

[@rhondaharris93]

This should be pinned....definitely the # 1 comment...shoes etc when the absent wants to flex for the block...okay that child still needs lights,water,a roof,food,clean laundry...that child needs a REAL FATHER...WHO SHOULD BE THERE WITHOUT THE MOM TRYING TO SMOOTH SHIT OVER....MY BABY IS 8,ONLY CHILD ON HER DAD SIDE...THAT FBOI IS TOXIC...MY BABY DOES NOT WANT TO HANG ON NO CORNERS....SHE LOVES THAT IGNORANT MF...BUT SHE KNOWS HER WORTH....AS HER MOM I KNOWS SHE HURTS😔😔 I TRY AN COMPENSATE...on another note thank God I have 4 high school graduates,living on their own🙏🏾🙏🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾💜💜

[@bajangenetics400]

@@dashagrey3114 No hun im not referring to this case. Just speaking in general

[@SaWilliam]

He constantly contradicts himself 1. I’m not on the block that assumption is ridiculous THEN SHE COMES ON THE BLOCK TO GET OUR SON (btw he’s driving his first baby mamas car) 2. He said he doesn’t have a phone THEN SHES CALLING HIM AFTER PICKING THEIR SON UP TO GO TO THE PARK AT NIGHT

[@franciscom4378]

Yeah I picked up on that as well. Dude is making up lies on the go. I'm surprised that JM didn't catch that.🤷🏽‍♂️

[@SaWilliam]

@@franciscom4378 I’m sure there were more. Yea JM knew who he was dealing with and didn’t take him seriously

[@itsjaeeladay]

right the 2nd one!

[@_MoneyMike_]

These are the type of dude women like to get pregnant by…

[@ernestjackson6639]

You failed to mention she said he never text her about picking up her son. And she said he never did nothing for the kid now she saying he bought his son clothes and shoes

[@misterbee66]

She was trying to call him but he said that he does not have a phone.

[@hadiyah1127]

he never corrected her either so ... who knows

[@GetIntoTheBLACK]

He obviously has a phone or some form communication because how was he texting her

[@hadiyah1127]

@@GetIntoTheBLACK true

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

Somebody lying cause he had text messages from her

[@The-Mediator]

He said he didn’t have a phone, but he said she has his number blocked. Then he said her mother keeps texting him harassing messages. Obviously he’s lying. He’s all over the place.

[@gpxoooo]

Yall weird af in the comments. Yall act like her mama wrong. She watched her daughter basically get done dirty by a deadbeat And she was mad like stop playing with me. . His story is ridiculous and he’s childish as hell.

[@2lsvisuals175]

Sound personal to you… You must be speaking from experience 😅

[@gpxoooo]

@@2lsvisuals175 for you to reply, it obviously is to you.

[@King-crimson-glory]

Someone has stepped on your toes ha

[@bettyh.3900]

Mama also watched her daughter choose a "Deadbeat." He was done dirty as well and both seem childish. Mama needs to stay out of it unless her daughter and grandson are in imminent danger.

[@gpxoooo]

@@bettyh.3900 so it has to be abusive or something for her mom to step in? Yeah.. okay?

[@voski-woskipeeskiweeski3377]

She claiming he always on the block..I betcha that’s where she met him 😂

[@Fannyyyyy_]

😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 hollering

[@locafly]

LOL

[@siahyoung6335]

She said they went to high school together... That's the first thing that she said!

[@missantonia14goldsby]

I guess it flew over your head that she said the very first thing we went to school together ????

[@suleykauribe8483]

I hate when ppl say they did a whole 360 Bby u mean 180 🙄😂🤦‍♀️

[@fayeraye]

Yes, so annoying lol

[@AlwaysAlicia2991]

Im surprised judge didn't correct her

[@jennevamadison3803]

No she said it right. He didn't change.

[@shord140]

@@jennevamadison3803 lol

[@thrillerkas]

@@AlwaysAlicia2991 I’m not, she kept saying litter-E instead literally the entire time without him correcting her 😂

[@foreverunbothered1951]

He’s goofy. Lmbo. Men love to mention that they got other kids like that mean something. Like okay??! What does that have to do with you taking care of MY baby?!

[@Nevaeh1]

The "she won't let me see my son" allows him to escape accountability because if he really wanted to have his son on a regular basis instead of when it's just convenient for him, he would've taken her to court to fight for visitation or joint custody. However, he hasn't because he doesn't want to be ordered to pay child support or be consistent with getting his son. They both seem like they're using their son as a pawn to annoy each other. They're too focused on trying to be petty without putting their child first. Also, who knows what the co-parenting relationship is like with his other baby mama or how active he is in that child's life.

[@kay22100]

He thinks the little he’s doing is something. It’s not. I guarantee you he didn’t have a good father growing up. My husband was raised by his father and it reflects in how he takes care of our son. He’s not only hands on but also provides financially. I hope he gets himself together and step up! Also need to stop having his son “on the block”. That’s how kids end up getting killed in cross fires

[@morehyeshiahtorahlessons5545]

That may or may not be true

[@kendraphic]

Just because there are so many absentee fathers and deadbeats..a lot of fathers settle settle for bare minimum parenting. Kids need more than just time smh lol..

[@its.dayday__]

my husband's dad was/is a dead beat. but he's the best dad ever to our baby boy. he's a very hands on parent and provides.

[@CharliePowell92]

Not all men with fathers in their life come out taking care of their children ! my little girl , her dad parents are married for over 30 years and he has 4 bm and is sorrryyyyyyy !

[@the5-starreview871]

Breaking News: The Judge is correct. If the man goes down to child support voluntarily (that's where it ends up anyway), and quickly, child support is fair in turns of the percentage of his gross income they will take. What typically happens is the man ducks and dodges child support for so long, that by the time they catch up with him, the monthly amount is a King's ransom. Its his fault

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

To many people have a problem with the courts, saying they don't want a judge in their business but end up there anyway

[@tonyb.1905]

Touch'e

[@soulcityoriginal4270]

In the words of Michael jackson if you can't feed your baby then don't have a baby.....

[@soulcityoriginal4270]

why let a broke ninja nut in ya and you still live with your moms? ijs

[@startinajackson606]

@@soulcityoriginal4270 they don't think at all

[@worldhealthrn]

Very impressed with judge Mathis... Fair balanced patient education of his young folks.

[@milk1135]

For once

[@keithak8877]

He sounds like he’s straight outta Chicago

[@sewblue187]

They are

[@Americassweetheart3]

That turtleneck and blouse is mind blowing in 2021🥴that’s how I know he’s nutty

[@fjerome5958]

Ike turner 😂😂😂

[@brendapellicci632]

I am litery cracking up 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@rhondacommander5233]

It’s still ridiculous in 2024.😂😂😂

[@RNMeek24]

😂😂😂

[@veronicaramirez1975]

Girl, if you say "littery" one more time 🤦‍♀️...get it right "LITERALLY"

[@ChanelNJ]

🤣

[@2015humblebeginningzb]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ClassicallyMish]

“I don’t have to bring gifts or money to see my son because kids just want time.” Dude! Kids can’t eat or wear time and the mortgage company is not looking for time they’re looking for payment.

[@nettejones8276]

I think his point is valid. If the mother is trying to withhold the son unless the dad has💲then she's wrong, unless the child is in danger. Child support and visitation are separate issues.

[@Mama.973]

@@nettejones8276 i disagree. I think he just don't want to come out of pocket. Yes, materialistic things aren't everything but they are important. Buying clothes and shoes may be seen as materialistic but it's what the child needs. Honestly, I think he just trying to make up an excuse as to why he is half assing when it comes to his son.

[@nettejones8276]

@@Mama.973 oh I definitely think he probably was trying to use that as an excuse. I was just giving him the benefit of the doubt. My point was only that people get child support and visitation twisted. Legally, they are two separate issues and that's the point the judge was making. Yes he should financially be responsible for his child and at the same time, you should be able to see his child without issue. Based on his actions in court I do agree that he was just using that as an excuse. Sad because only the child loses out

[@Mama.973]

@@nettejones8276 Oh I get what you're trying to say and I agree.

[@ViveLaIsrael]

Seriously. Kids don't like growling stomachs!! And he said every time he goes over there he has to knock on the door. 🤨🤨🤨 Unless he can teleport, yes, he has to do just like everyone else who doesn't live in a home.....KNOCK!! smh

[@lynnettedixon009]

Yeah she.grown, her mother needs to stay outta her baby father issues fr fr 🤷🏽‍♀️🙄🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Natas_Nico08518]

I think her mom is being a momma bear but it’s causing more issues

[@SayWHAT314]

9 times out of 10 the momma picking up HIS slack of course she has something to say if she doing his job

[@jannettsnow2856]

Some parents just get involved

[@SheAQueen-2]

Thats a deadbeat’s favorite speech “Its about materialistic things when it comes to the mother.” Not all fathers, cause sometimes its true. But when a deadbeat says that knowing they don’t provide ANYTHING for their child is the lowest of low. I’ve witnessed some say this but they love materialistic things for themselves. They will grow hair and have to spend money for styles, buy expensive clothing, etc. Yet complain about the mother.

[@t_aintbut1me416]

Never beg a man to be a father.

[@TheKendallBABY]

She forced him since she went from he pushed me into a dresser when I caught him cheating again to I found out I was pregnant to the baby was born. Nowhere did she say she had a conversation with him or they worked things out. Nothing. I believe she forced him into it to keep him attached and that’s so wrong. As a woman it’s still wrong to me. Omg I could never. At 28 I know better and I’ve seen others mistakes.

[@bellamonroe7322]

@@TheKendallBABYgood for you this situation never works out she shouldn’t have had a baby by a man who beat her that she was leaving 😢😢😢

[@monicadavis9475]

I'm happy for her because he was giving me a headache with the mediocre daddy routine. He's definitely physical with her too and should be happy she didn't call the police.

[@bigfolksant474]

Do you know him or witnessed him put hands on her

[@trixflyordie]

I hate when ppl say stupid stuff. We wasn't there. There's 3 stories. His and her and the truth.

[@mmsmart1014]

@@trixflyordie That's so true..

[@shaunawilkerson5119]

@big folks ant my thoughts exactly ....smh

[@monicadavis9475]

@BeatDaBlockBass and yall love worrying about other people's perspectives. I bet you're salty because you have charges you refuse to own up to.

[@Nia_Mack16]

plaintiff: "we graduated high school" Also plaintiff: "Literry" 😂😂

[@2015humblebeginningzb]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nettyspeaks]

Girl you let someone w no phone, no car, no complete front tooth impregnate u. Ugh

[@Essence2785]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jolenerodriguez6574]

@@Essence2785 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@yomajesty2703]

They both are using that baby as a pawn! Let that man get his child and Sir, do not have your child hanging on a damn block!

[@giannathedford74]

I mean if he’s inconsistent in his child’s life, that can really mess up a child’s mental. He takes his child on the block as well and in Chicago kids get killed everyday. He’s too all over the place so I can definitely understand why she’s not letting him see their son. Children need a stable environment and the mother gives the child that much, he doesn’t.

[@jhordynsmith8339]

Why the fck would you leave your child with someone that has him on the block

[@elvickRULES]

idk she has legitimate reasons to not let him take their son.

[@itsonlyfair]

She needs to keep her mom out the relationship? How about he just takes care of his kid, then the mom wouldn't have anything to say. Duhhh 🙄😒

[@morehyeshiahtorahlessons5545]

Yes she needs to be an adult...your mom did her parenting...now do yours

[@jannettsnow2856]

Sometimes mom's just get involved.. if he don't do right that's what he gets

[@milk1135]

@🖤Arrogant Goddess🖤 Boom here it is

[@ericablige9449]

Buying clothes and shoes is not child support. A child needs food, supplements, toiletries, heat, etc. Get out of here with shoes and hair cut!!! You don't have to go to court. Open a bank acct for your child, come to an agreement and make sure its there in the acct. You have bank records and a written agreement. The Government doesn't need to be in your business.

[@Jmallj]

It balances out

[@sparklesp9304]

@@Jmallj No it doesn't..that's the point unless you're buying clothing and shoes on a monthly basis.

[@alexiabing]

If she say litery one more time!

[@suleykauribe8483]

😂

[@LCoast98456]

🤣😂

[@wadilotus]

He favorite non-word.

[@melmel3703]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@yolandac9334]

Right making me mad lmao

[@avishudson2743]

Ummmm I don’t think I owe her for child support. Dude take care of your child.

[@sylviabranch4201]

I agree he still have to pay child support.

[@abdulwaheed5367]

A lot of these guys to be part-time dads but have the nerve to show their kids off in the hood

[@COOKIEDOUGHTHEGREAT]

He not it and nor is she

[@favorjanae6464]

Pretty much

[@ronaldturner5733]

He not it? Wow the way u talk u should probably be quiet😳.

[@SpiffyPenguin]

1. You are SUPPOSED to pick up where the other parent leaves off. 2. Children's shoes are always dirty lol. My parents refused to buy me white shoes after a certain point because it was so ugly haha 3. The defendant is a pitiful joke. He really did sound like he was the victim at first but then the evidence showed otherwise. Smh

[@jacquettediggs4633]

Lol that’s my husband and I with our 8 year old daughter, she gets black shoes only she literally destroys white shoes

[@MhiaLee19]

I’m 24 and I can’t keep my white shoes clean.. the ground is dirty af, it’s windy too..and I live in the desert lol …I seriously hate when people bring up children having dirty shoes like that means they are being neglected.. they’re having fun, living their life and running around!!!

[@Jsarmy87124]

You can wash sneaker so stop it

[@ZumbaZINJPanda]

There is a reason there is family court. Get a custody agreement 🤝.

[@felipevelez156]

I bet they have a cute little boy.... They need to love him like crazy and respect eachother 💯 percent

[@beverlyhall4578]

Women please stop procreating with thesr bum.dudes.

[@MMc-b7n]

Agreement about the childs discipline is all that is needed.They both worried about the wrong stuff.Get an agreement with visitation don't treat the kid like a package!Co parenting the kid has 2 homes ,clothes at both houses!

[@juliethomas-begay1742]

"Lit-err-E.." Lol She literally couldn't say literally to save her life... Lol I love this show..

[@candacebishop2476]

Yea that was funny.....literally😝

[@K_Cole0128]

I caught it

[@thomasthomas9963]

He grabbed the sterning wheel.

[@PHILDR85]

Yes, I was thinking that's what he was saying but she was talking so fast ...lol

[@thomasthomas9963]

@@PHILDR85 yes that’s Deep South thing Texas Louisiana miss

[@prettyblkgyrl74]

Ma’am… if he did a 360, then he made NO PROGRESS 😒🙄😩😂😂😂

[@RellieMoBB]

Crazy thing is he didn’t even want that child with her. We have to stop getting ourselves in these types of situations, fellas.

[@Fatima-zs3mo]

Stop having kids by them

[@jngfree]

Goodness all these stories tell me he a deadbeat. No phone, no car, incarceration, hanging out on the block.

[@k.b.3857]

That doesn't mean deadbeat. Smh

[@AlwaysAlicia2991]

Girl them three locs he gat tell me he is a deadbeat

[@AlwaysAlicia2991]

@@k.b.3857 Super deadbeat

[@DB-vt1kk]

@@k.b.3857 if that isn’t a deadbeat, I would hate to see your definition of one 😑

[@k.b.3857]

@@AlwaysAlicia2991 clearly you know the definition of a deadbeat. Tell us about your 3 babydaddies

[@NubianNarrator]

Did he say "I shoudn't have to knock?"

[@PerryGyalTyngz]

I'm sorry I can't do this any longer. This" Litter-E" mess is getting on my last nerve. I'm gonna head on out.

[@yomajesty2703]

😂😂😂

[@MacZilla590]

She said literally 37 times

[@JayMonaeee]

Protect your seed! Protect your womb!

[@asiam1528]

No sir kids need more than your time. They need money, food ,clothes ,shelter. And they called you to say she’s in the hospital and you say you didn’t know she was having a baby what exactly you thought she was doing there.Ladies be careful who you lay with

[@Jaysennx3]

“They told me she was in the hospital not that she had my son” well sir wtf did you think she was at the hospital for ? Like hello

[@justjared2009]

360 leads you back to the same spot. 😆 🤣 😂

[@jennevamadison3803]

Yup and that's why she said they broke up. He didn't change.

[@sevenmoore9208]

Never trust a guy who wears a turtle neck

[@janay2729]

If you didn’t keep up on your own and put the responsibility on someone else to update you on the birth of your child…its your fault you weren’t there. No matter the problems they had, he should’ve been checking on her because she’s carrying his son.

[@theguyshepassedupfortyrone]

Just LOOK at the guy! This is the type of guy she chose. Own it.

[@amo3244]

OMG, I hope she NEVER attempts to say the word literally again ... listening to that umpteen times is like nails scratching a chalkboard 😬

[@audraseales7403]

😅

[@bhornannawindeedeigh5007]

I was a teacher when we actually used chalk, and making chalk screech accidentally used to make me sick to my stomach 🤢... I had to be very careful if I was writing fast on the chalkboard. Oh, my high schoolers just loved it if I had to take a moment to collect myself, the little brats. 🤢... 😫... 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@queenb4561]

He talking in circles...so he's definitely lying

[@jnicolebell9937]

I work for family law and I see this all the time. Innocent ones are the children. Someone has to be the bigger person and voice for the child.

[@Jsarmy87124]

The parents who paid for the children are the bigger person

[@phope]

If she say Littery one more time, I'm going to pull my hair OUT...the correct word is literally ma'am 🤦

[@MsTylena1]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 he thought he was talking that sweet ishh nah PAY THAT CHILD SUPPORT

[@gino007able]

+25% for water, electric, gas and rent. 50% for food. he claims he buys him shoes and clothing. kids need more than that pal.

[@dspenderella9671]

Wtf he mean he shouldn't have to knock on the door; he shouldn't have a key when he doesn't live there just b/c they have a child. They have each other's numbers, so I guess it doesn't matter that he's blocked on social media, but you have to have a way to communicate with the other parent whether you like each other anymore or not. He doesn't want to financially provide for his son, yet he complains that his son doesn't look nice enough with fly clothes and shoes... Help her provide for him so she has enough to buy him nicer things. Feeding and housing him takes precedence over shallow things like name brand shoes that the ghetto dads are always concerned with and never care about more important things. He said, "Getting me to love him for a second, then snatching him away "...Um, you should love him at ALL times; not just for a "second" whenever she gets you to get the child to bond with him.

[@K_Cole0128]

You took the words out of my mouth. He had no business picking a child up at 8pm to go to the park in Chicago and to be hanging on anybody’s block .. I’d be in family court fast as hell if I were her.. he’s outta control.. sorry doesn’t fix his child’s life being snatched away

[@dspenderella9671]

@@K_Cole0128 Facts! I was side eyeing her for continuing to allow her child to go with him when he keeps putting him in the wrong environments! She definitely needs to get it set up with supervised visits in a safe location, b/c it sounds like she grew up and grew past him, but this hood booger man isn't growing up any time soon to make safer wiser choices as a father, and it's not a game out here... Children are getting hit with stray bullets too. I don't play about mine, and she don't need to play about her son neither.

[@armanievans346]

How he taking his son to the park at 8pm in the rain 🤨 her story didn’t make sense

[@KeMoneeH]

It really blows my mind how similar this whole situation is to what’s happened in my life. Only I had twins and they were born December 29th, 2020. Thankfully me and their dad are working it out ❤️

[@alexkeaton9032]

She needs to put him on child support now

[@cierra.]

The way she says literally 😭it’s like my mind is correcting her

[@cebronettethomas3674]

True definition of a deadbeat.

[@MicheleMarieClay]

I wish my baby daddy would had picked my son up! Lord my son was terrible at a young age!! 😂😂😂One day I was like where is your daddy and my son said “I WISH YOU KNEW SO I COULD GET ON HIS NEEVES SOMETIMES BECAUSE I THINK I USED ALL YOURS”😂😂😂If looks could kill my baby would have been stretched out on that floor! Now he 18 and in college playing football 🏈 and is the sweetest.

[@kenyettaabrams7424]

Baby when I tell u I hollered reading this!!!! Kids be knowing and have no filters!!!

[@tatianadaniel3569]

Both of them need to grow up. He's Unlearned and she's petty.

[@twill1007]

Thank GOD I was very intentional with who I have kids with ! I could never go through this mess 🤨

[@Eclectic999]

She’s violent. She said she axed him!

[@kaidupre7699]

I just wish a lot of these young men would understand that they have as much right to the child as the woman does. They should go to the court and invoke their parental rights by filling for joint custody. I never wanted someone to ever tell me when I could see my son. So I filed for joint custody and got it. In the custody order I made sure I had all the rights that she had as a mother and the judge gave it to me. He can do the same thing.

[@wecountingmoneyoverhere2517]

Why we need dem folks to be a referee in our lives?🤔

[@thetotalpackage2005]

His testimony shows he's immature as a father...he puts his child in harms way...he don't need to be with his child being this immature

[@melyndasmith4888]

Pay for your child to see your child

[@godizself1]

And even after the custody order, many still won't comply.

[@Vestedgirl]

We've all dealt with men like this. He's a deadbeat.

[@tenny1024]

This chick seems bitter. I believe the defendant when he says she gives him a hard time about seeing his son. I also believe they are both violent towards each other. It’s sad because the child looses in the end.

[@tranquilrabies]

Kids always pay the price. Unfortunately, this is not enough to make selfish parents do better.

[@Babyboy-bz8dg]

I believe him to. Hegobba keep given him problems when comes to him getting that child the child is losing

[@startinajackson606]

That's what I believe to, she bitter and used they child as a pawn. It's terrible..I really felt for him. She is not letting him see his son

[@Bellalovelola]

He didn't counter claim because he couldn't he didn't have a reason to. Lmfao

[@determination207]

The turtle neck and 5x shirt is very confusing

[@sumaiyahsmith7813]

Lol. He's probably hiding tattoos and wanted to look presentable 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@deepricee]

I just want her to say LITERALLY the right way

[@joseymore5588]

Dad Pay Up. Mom and Dad Grow Up. Stop using this Precious Child as a weapon towards each other.

[@kgrimes842]

This is what child support and family court is for! I hope she takes his advice and goes to file right away. That way of he doesn't pay or follow the custody agreement he goes to jail (or she does if she breaks agreement)

[@PillzBerry27]

They both rachet from the hood. She should not bring her mother involved of thier problems. He doing like the other young men doing hanging on the Corner and doing nothing. I blamed their mothers and fathers not raising them right.

[@ronaldturner5733]

I blamed their mothers and fathers sound like they have multiple parents😅. WOW u r the ratchet one. Their mother and father are to blame is the way to explain. Do u know how to write a sentence? Sheesh!😳

[@ronaldturner5733]

She should not bring her mother involved?. WOW where did u go to school?

[@PillzBerry27]

@@ronaldturner5733 You must be a beta male or you are not listening what the judge said.

[@sharonmax6968]

It’s funny how these women pick these bad boys then complain about their behaviors

[@kingman1330]

Both of them are disgraceful parents!!!!this is so unnecessary drama!!!

[@deborahlewis3413]

She’s very pretty

[@omarscott2373]

Yes she is!♥️

[@ronaldturner5733]

Where?

[@deborahlewis3413]

@@ronaldturner5733 everywhere

[@ronaldturner5733]

@@deborahlewis3413 u need 👓

[@K_Cole0128]

I’m confused why he thinks he shouldn’t have to knock.. what does he think?? He should have a 🔑??

[@mekielabush]

Me too I’m like duh sir you don’t pay no bills there