Get TURNED OFF By Poor Behavior & LEVEL UP Your Standards

[@alejandragalvan2086]

When you said “your presence alone is enough” is so true. The other day, my fiancé and I were building a drawer. He built it while I just sat there keeping him company and playing the instruction video. He said he felt so productive and good just by me being there. He always says “it’s so boring without you being here” when I am away from our home. I finally get it now.

[@awwlexis]

Yesss! How amazing. Thank you for sharing this ♥️

[@lanamurray3835]

Yes! My husband was fixing our coffee machine for hours and said do you want anything? Food/drink, he said you to sit with me ☺️

[@natural3362]

You're right, once i have healed, I'm repulsed by their behaviors

[@whitneymorgan957]

This !!! It’s internal , do the work within first .

[@kiyanamackie1217]

Yes! I’m still in my healing journey (one month post break up) and I’ve already learnt so much about myself and what I want in my next partner.

[@natural3362]

​@@whitneymorgan957yess there are so much that i needed to do to myself. I must heal and know myself And yess I'm now perfectly capable of being repulsed by disgusting behaviors. My body just disdain such behaviors It gives me the ick

[@candacecarter5864]

I went on a date with a guy and he started talking about doing things to me sexually. I was so DISGUSTED thanks to my inner work! I feel like a Queen, don’t ASSUME you will have access to my treasure lol I told him I was not interested and I don’t accept men speaking to me that way or disrespecting me. It’s like calm down we haven’t even kissed yet….🙄

[@ncamara670]

Eww, that is repulsive indeed. Why men think they can be so forward before they actually manage to build any kind of closeness? SMH

[@monikaleszko5343]

Such a turn off & then you’re like maybe I should give him another chance 🤯🤯 gaslight yourself ! I did anyway. Never again !!!!!

[@natural3362]

It gives me the ick that I'll block him without hesitation

[@tania0070]

Omg. A man crushing on celebrities and ogling other women is not only a turn-off but horribly disrespectful. RUN!!!

[@AnanyaLikhi-qp5ej]

Alexis, can you please give us a story time as to how you met your man?How to remain patient in your single era?

[@memyselfandi3421]

Yes please!!!

[@Hxoxoxoxo]

I think she mentioned this in one of her videos but it was briefly but Yh that would definitely be a good video!

[@sinskisin]

Pretty sure they aren’t together anymore

[@xtrea3]

yes pls!!!

[@whitneymorgan957]

Also there are plenty of men who do want to provide , if the man who is pursuing you doesn’t , simply move on. God didn’t create a limited amount of men who want to provide , it’s your belief/mindset.

[@lexiromero4062]

The more I watch your videos, the more excited I am to explore life with joy and positivity in my countenance, actions and words and wait patiently for my ideal man. Thanks-a-ton!

[@LizDavinciLand]

Hey Alexis, It really is shocking to me how disrespectful behaviour has become a "norm" for many people - men should be embarassed to behave that way. Thanks for making this video to reinfoce that. All the best, Liz

[@yamiletsoler3464]

The thing is, many women allow it and even do the same to other men. It is very disappointing but we can only work on ourselves with the needed support.

[@yamiletsoler3464]

And put our boundaries. Reject, block and move on.

[@whitneymorgan957]

I agree with everything you said, when you do not accept low quality behaviors/men and realize your worth - it literally transforms your life.

[@saltandlight93]

Totally agree! I've never met a guy with this behavior that brought peace to my life. They were all emotionally erratic and demanding.

[@giana6886]

Literally !

[@aprilelmajrabakabarker5139]

I truly agree with you 💯 %!!! You want a man who is authentic, LoVing, and cares about your mental, spiritual, physical, and emotional state. Trust is essential in a relationship, you want to be vulnerable, protected, and honored. Quit lying to yourself that porn is just a movie. No real man, should be watching, making you feel unworthy for them, and NOT ENOUGH!!!

[@aurielle.g]

Alexis something happened to me a couple days ago. I went to the gas station to get some gas and a guy was walking pretty closely ahead of me and got to the door first. I thought he was going to open the door for me (letting me walk in first) but instead he held the door open for me. (He was in the door first but just held it open for me behind him.)We come out and he’s on the opposite side of the pump as me. We’re conversing and he asks for my number and if he could take me out. I decline and he asks me if I have a boyfriend I say no and he asks “am I not your type?” I respond “it’s not that you’re very handsome” and he says “so just not today”… when I got in the car I thought about what happened. He was attractive and had a very nice vehicle so why did I say no? Then it popped in my head that he didn’t open the door for me. So I guess my body knew to say no even if my mind didn’t catch up until later. It was something about it that just didn’t make me feel good. Thank you for your videos! ❤

[@milicagosic]

Yess girl!! I love that🥰🥰🥰

[@awwlexis]

Aurielle! This is spot on, I JUST discussed this in the “Divine & Aligned” course. Your body knows 1ST, then your logic/head knows 2nd. You are very in tune with your body ♥️🙌🏽

[@aurielle.g]

@@awwlexis thank you. You have helped so much ❤️

[@aurielle.g]

@@milicagosic thank you 😊

[@CookingwithMely]

Everything that’s an ick my ex did omg lesson learned 😩😭

[@a.b.2405]

Same!!

[@ynnijotsoga9338]

There's no amount of money that can create life. Love it.

[@awwlexis]

♥️🙏🏽

[@urbbylin]

Here is a really good question to ask yourself if you think that your man is not ‘that type of man’ to give you princess treatment: How would he behave if he had a chance to date his celebrity crush? Would he still be ‘not that type of person’ or give her his 1000%. She doesn’t even have to do anything, she doesn’t need to bring ANYTHING to the table JUST her presence. So the problem is not that he can’t but don’t. If anyone is experiencing this it’s high time to walk away because you’re no different than a celebrity 💋💋

[@awwlexis]

Love this ♥️

[@TheAmandalebeau]

Alexis, you are such a queen. Thank you so much for the fire you brought to this video, I'm so disgusted with poor behaviour 😅😅 needed this 🙏❤️✊🏼

[@awwlexis]

Thank you beautiful ♥️💯🙌🏽

[@carinadnebula]

@@awwlexissubmitted to your contact form - looking forward to hearing back from you ☺️

[@genteelcowgirl0119]

YES!

[@laDulaSh]

I haven't even finished watching the video and I'm already being tested 😅 A man who i was talking to and seeing for a few months, and who ghosted me 5 months ago, just checked on me and asked me how I'm doing. I replied respectfully that I'm well, but i don't have time to text with him back and forth. I'm not available for this man anymore. Although I really miss our conversations and he has some really good characteristics, but it felt like he needed some entertainment, and i deserve better than that. I'm so proud of myself for having set that boundary! It wasn't easy at all for me as a recovering people pleaser, but i still did it. Thank you Alexis for your advice and all the wisdom you share ❤

[@laDulaSh]

Omg i wrote this comment before you mentioned the part of being tested! That's so crazy!

[@awwlexis]

That’s my girl! I am so proud of you for that decision. Your younger self would be so proud of you too 😘🙏🏽

[@laDulaSh]

@@awwlexis Thank you 🙏🏼🥺 I can't believe how fast the testing came though 😂

[@LuckyFairy19]

I so need this video for myself. Like sometimes, my behavior with myself is so effing sick. I have done a turn off on my own behavior and negative self talk. Thanks for sharing this

[@milicagosic]

Ahh yes ❤️Absolutely loved hearing “Why are you as a woman having a crush? And, men should be embarrassed to not pay and provide” It has become the easiest thing for me to be in my dark feminine energy, because keeping my inner child safe is my priority. Thank you for making this clear. You are doing your purpose and inspiring us🪷🦢🌟

[@awwlexis]

Thank you so much love ♥️🙏🏽

[@milicagosic]

@@awwlexis 🥰🥰🥰

[@deepamehta1110]

- Makes you feel safe, provides; treats you like the dream - Inappropriate, disrespectful behavior > I am so disgusted. - would I tell my fam about this? - decision > will I settle for this low vibe behavior or do I want high vibe? - would my husband do this?

[@evonneokoye713]

This one won't do another one will- abundance mindset!! I just got healing from that, thank you!!

[@awwlexis]

♥️🙌🏽🙏🏽

[@saravieira8337]

Hi gorgeous, I totally agree with you! Usually if you see a man doing that they automatically think that your insecure and just like you said it’s the opposite for me, I’m very secure in myself and I don’t think if a man is with me he should be checking other woman’s lol. Thanks for your precious time filming all these videos love ya❤

[@awwlexis]

♥️🙏🏽✨😘

[@saravieira8337]

❤ 💫

[@jenthagem]

Something is off with the DNA in the men these days because they don’t want to provide. And Yesss!! Would love to see a video on the relationship culture in Dubai!! 🙌🏽

[@sarahmaxwell9236]

I agree. Men don't even open the door

[@711PARNAERUE]

Every man I’ve come across in the last few years wanted to provide, they’re out there.

[@saltandlight93]

Providing is the minimum they should also be emotionally stable and have integrity

[@ZaniahSlayed]

That’s a limiting belief don’t manifest that energy anymore ❤

[@jenthagem]

@@ZaniahSlayed u are totally right

[@monikaleszko5343]

Omg when they take 6-8 or more hours to text back or even text and you see them on social media postings or online ! 🤮

[@Ffiisscchhssoonngg]

The feminine guiding light I needed my whole life💓 thank you from the bottom of my heart

[@awwlexis]

My sweet girl 🥰

[@diamondx6346]

Alexis, I had the chance to go to Dubai in March 2023! What you experienced with the feminine and masculine energy is spot on! I noticed that too and came back home with a fresh perspective! I used to settle for relationships that were unfulfilling, where I felt uncomfortable and my feminine energy attacked. Since my trip to Dubai, I have allowed myself to ease back into my feminine energy, getting comfortable in my body and skin, speaking up when something bothers me and raising my standards, in love, relationships and life! I’m opening myself to receive and allow a man to provide without fear and anxiety x

[@awwlexis]

That’s my girl. Isn’t it so amazing! Love that you got to experience this ♥️

[@carinadnebula]

4am wake up is spirit calling you, beloved.

[@awwlexis]

Absolutely love ♥️

[@carinadnebula]

@@awwlexis looking forward to you seeing the email I sent to your contact form

[@dominique928]

Alexis, you helped me tremendously with writing down what I want in my man and what I am manifesting for myself upcoming. Your wisdom is a true gift for me in this moment of my life. Thank you for being the prophet from god to me❤😊

[@ncamara670]

Great points made in this video 👏🏽 I think many of us younger women grew up in times where healthy relationship standards were being actively eroded. Now it has kind of peaked. Low standards and self sabotage are pushed through the popular culture and don't get me started on so-called celebrities. Those are mostly the worst examples of how men and women should approach relationships. You can give people a fair chance and still keep your standards as a woman.

[@darkfemmeacademy]

Alexis, omg I am listening to this after a breakup and it feels like a whole new video, so many gems, so many things standing out to me, thank you

[@LuzEterna6937]

Breathe of fresh air thank you

[@gabrielle5138]

Alexis this was (as always) such a gift. I experienced this type of disrespect yesterday and today this video was suggested to me, you're amazing. Thank you for sharing such empowering, abundant, powerful information!

[@awwlexis]

My girl you are SO worthy of being treated with absolute respect and love. So glad you are here ♥️

[@anyiawilson]

I was talking to someone about the way my dad behaves and I kept saying the words I’m disgusted” they kept telling me not to say that but it’s the only way for me to communicate how his behavior makes me feel sometimes

[@YourGuideToSelfLove]

I absolutely love your content Alexis I don’t have any siblings so I truly view you as my older sister. You’re such a radiant bright light and you’re so precious! 💗💗

[@awwlexis]

I am happy to be your sister! 🥹 Sending you so much love girl, so happy to have you here ♥️

[@chaniawillow]

Alexis, I needed this video. THANK YOU!! From Nairobi, Kenya.

[@awwlexis]

You are more than welcome sweet girl ♥️

[@moniquenicole834]

What a beautiful thing, that a trip to Dubai has inspired you in such an amazing way. This video is fire! Thank you so much. You are going to change the world.

[@awwlexis]

My sweet girl, thank you Monique ♥️

[@Heartovermindd]

Ladies! I need friends like Alexis! I currently have 0 friends like her 😢 I’m in Ventura county California if anyone lives around here I’d love to meet you queens!❤

[@kb_2404]

Your videos are gold! This came at such a right time ♥️

[@siobhan5191]

I needed this video SO much. Thank you thank you thank you for teaching me how to embody my inner queen!!!!

[@asmaaalghobashy5408]

انتي موهوبة جداً ،شكراَ لأنك جزء من عالمي ❤🌹

[@awwlexis]

Thank you love. I am happy to be here ♥️

[@Anushka-zp2ug]

I love you Alexis 💗 You are big sister to me Your wise words are just nourishment for my soul I'm very grateful for you

[@awwlexis]

Thank you love 🥰🥺

[@loladivinitysugarladyacademy]

So sorry i missed you at the retreat in Dubai. I never miss them😢. I just discovered you today. Thank you for your content 🙏

[@manifeststation4740]

I love the sincerity. To be honest I could see you were holding back and I feel this level of upfrontness was what was missing as it left out these valuable nuggets

[@awwlexis]

Thank you for saying this. Absolutely ♥️🙏🏽

[@ophixl]

My standards are already un-existent and incredibly high, that's why I've been single my entire life

[@FlashBookSummaries]

Hey Alexis, I already watched the videos about frens however I still feel like I need more on those videos

[@Impoweredbyfire]

My love Alexis omg giiiirl❤ this video omgggg pleaseeee don’t fear to be this savage, the only way to Chanel god’s message through you is to be bold, we love you being like this, thank you for this wonderful message my love 🎉

[@awwlexis]

Thank you for saying this sweet girl. I love you ♥️

[@ashjcupcaketv]

Alexis!!! This video came at a perfect time!! I love you so much I have been watching your channel for a little over a year now and it has helped me a lot and motivated me to be a stronger women. I for years was in toxic relationships and always treated as a doormat. But watching and following you has helped me stand up for myself, I know this video was different but it is needed for women who are too scared to stand up for themselves and for them to know to put that crown back on and that they are queens! Watching this made me want to ask that you do a video about what not to tolerate from a man on a first date! I recently experienced a guy plan to take me on a date and then was looking for me to confirm the date the day of. My response to it was that I left him alone but this happens to so many women as well as guys trying to ghost us and then try to come back. I thought this would be a good topic as it seems that women are excepting this! Love you souch keep this content coming ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@artsycrafts7958]

As i was watching the video you brought up things my future ex does currently but also he does some of the inner work stuff but is very conderaditive for example you said focousing on one woman and starting a family, he does that but isnt taking our relationship or me seriously

[@mindfulpaths101]

Alexis the advice you just gave to the girl whose best friend and ex got together gave me chills! Your energy is so special

[@awwlexis]

Thank you so much beautiful 🥺🙏🏽

[@Pinkchopstix]

I been there and you got this. Keep working on being better versions of your self

[@char-su9vu]

😭you're so right. I'm in a miserable marriage. And I remember accepting bad behaviour from him (eg. him undressing other women with his eyes in front of my eyes over 20 years ago 😭😭😭, not complementing me on our wedding day, in fact the opposite 😭 and now I feel stuck because we have kids and I think he'd be a much more neglectful and worse father to them if I wasn't around. I'm so sad.) But I love your content so much. 🧡. I hope one day I can be out of this relationship and happy, successful, peaceful free 💛

[@lin3378]

is he fixable? I'm trying to help my parents fix their marriage T_T

[@anyiawilson]

Hey Alexis!! Can you do an affirmation video of some kind words you speak to yourself to upgrade feminine energy, wealth and mindset?

[@kristinal.1495]

No revenge is best revenge ❤

[@thatgirlyinspo]

I’m currently having a crush on someone and I’m here to do a checkup 😂

[@carmenalmodovar151]

Love your videos...thank you.

[@reallifeinreels3250]

Me and my husband were walking in the park last day and a lady with great body was jogging and my husband made a comment to me that ‘see she got a great body’ , usually I must have been joining him saying ‘yeah true’ but this time since this video was in my head I immediately made my disappointment to his comment and not talking to him since a day now, he said sorry not because he made that comment just because if that hurt me , am I making big deal of it with my child’s father 😢

[@The_illuminatress]

Yesssss, hello savage Alexis 😏 great video babe ❤❤❤

[@awwlexis]

Hello love. Thank you so much 🥰

[@genteelcowgirl0119]

Thank you so much alexis! I NEED to hear this lol!!! My favortie thing to do on my rest days are to just binge all your videos on feminine guidance & knit or crochet while doing so! it helps me get my projects done & its like a really great self-help/ improvment podcast, also helps because theyre so long! I love them so much haha I just need to gobble up all this information. This is a big one for me & I am so grateful that I have found your account & have access to so many feminine energy videos! If you could or find any it would be so awsome if you could link any videos or podcasts of what healthy masculine energy men look like, sound like, or what they talk about haha I need good examples in my life.

[@sinskisin]

Loving this savage alexis come out!!!! 👏🏼

[@LizzieCOL]

Hi dear, yes please a video to overcome a heart break 🙏🏼

[@sheaNERD]

Wow I really love this ❤thank you so much for this video

[@sofiacornejo1056]

Thank you for this video! So timely!

[@justineong2835]

Hi Alexis! Is this a new pajama set from solista wear? It’s so cute!

[@awwlexis]

Aww you’re so sweet girl! This top is actually from Free People. Totally does remind me of Solistawear too! 😘

[@MeetMeOnTheMoon]

Thank you.

[@riturao6565]

He is Out there , yesss

[@Miliena31]

Thanks for those advices, it's helpful. ! BTW i never met a man providing. it's time to level up my standards

[@Lavendermama]

Hi,ladies. Nice to meet you. ✨ There are many videos related to femininity but your channel feels so soft and elegant. I find it relaxing and comfortable. Thank you for sharing.

[@awwlexis]

Thank you lovely 🥰

[@riturao6565]

Yes I was ashamed to Tell my Family that my ex Has 2 Kids from 2 different women+ Police Case on him. I woke Up one day & broke Up with him. Energy shifted

[@veronikaljungberg7149]

Love this! 💯 ❤❤❤

[@sumayyahyusuf7142]

Hi Alexis I just wanna say that I really love you and I appreciate all the offers you put into your videos to educate women round world thanks lot😊

[@awwlexis]

Thank you so much sweet girl 🥰

[@Rosewtr_]

Thank you so much for this, it means a lot. I’m in the phase where I’m trying to find good examples of real life single men that have done the inner work and are dedicated to growth. but it’s difficult, lol. I know they are out there tho, they have to be, somewhere, lol In the meantime I’m trying to find my tribe and cultivate good friendships with women. It’s always a pleasure to watch your videos! It feels like a nice girl friend chat 🩷

[@yasmeenadel911]

Hi 👋 im from the Middle East born and raised in Dubai and still living in Dubai. Im the one who asked you to open your subtitles for better understanding you specifically Arabic language. This video has translated to Arabic language so I got what r you saying ❤💓 That other one wasn’t available. I really don’t know how to open subtitles since I never created one single video other wise I would tell you 😻😄thank you dear I would love to meet you in Dubai ❤

[@smilesoulhealing]

Alexis, thank you for sharing these concepts! Your beliefs are very similar to mine, however at some point in my life I was surrounded by people that believes in fairness and full of masculine energy woman. That's when I start to question my beliefs on relationships. I am so happy to know that what I believe is supported by you and many now (teary eyes). Alexis, please share your view on healthy relationships with son and mother vs son and other half🙏🙏 I love youu!!🧡🧡🧡

[@ewawisz4671]

I needed that, thank u Alexis

[@Cocoiland]

love your content

[@Dr.Lojien]

love you Alexis and thank you 🙏❤

[@saunablueroom]

Sheeeshhhh u sound so smart, I think I need me one of you 😘✨️😉

[@beatricetei]

Thanks Alexis :) if you see this could you please share where your shirt/dress is from? The color and fabric are so lovely!

[@awwlexis]

Thank you love 🥰 My dress is from “Free People”

[@thujiwangmo5046]

Awhhh the love I have for you♥️

[@constanzaventimilla9187]

thank you Alexis for this ❤ you are great ❤

[@JenaeAlexandrea]

444th like 🎉 this video was DIVINE! Thank you ❤✨

[@awwlexis]

Thank you love 🥰

[@jennyrobo]

Loooove this video thank you❤❤❤

[@vondapiper6623]

Thank you lex

[@KrischtelMeff]

one big Problem is, If you ask female Friends for advice in an relationship Problem... or Google that Problem and See comments of Others to the Initial question... there's often shaming Like "its Not a big Deal" , "would never Care about it, Just enjoy time with him" "dont be Jealous"... Sometimes i was so shocked, i even could Imagine a more understanding reaction from my Boyfriend himself of "what is appropriate" instead of them

[@JaquelineChavira-z5t]

Can anyone recommend a healthy masculine KZbinr ?

[@comic_life_86]

Hello, I was wondering if you can touch on balancing light/dark feminine energies and masculine energy, difference between, where is the line when I am too much in my masculine it just in my dark feminine, thank you soooo much!!!! ❤🎉 all of this content helps me a lot and already had improved relationships in my life and just my life in general

[@sugarspunsubs]

I love this new you ❤❤❤

[@AnanyaLikhi-qp5ej]

I love you Alexis❤

[@awritersvoice_]

I watch this video every few months 🫠 someday I won’t need to anymore but until then… this is how I redirect myself from learning hard lessons

[@awwlexis]

I am here with you love. It will get easier, and you are doing wonderful inner work by reminding yourself of your standards 🩷

[@AnanyaLikhi-qp5ej]

You are my big sister on KZbin💕

[@KimberlyAttwood]

I've been thinking of going to Dubai 🥺

[@melaninandaura9713]

Are there any changes we can make in our relationship before we leave if we aren’t ready to leave right now but we want to give it a bit more time. Like 90 days till quitting time… lol (I just made that up) but I was thinking I’m going to give this 90 more days and if he’s not able to commit then I’ll go.

[@lizzsalazar9]

I don’t identify myself as an avoidant attachment style anymore. I am open to getting to know men and people in general. I see it as a slow process of getting to know guys then deciding if i want to be in a relationship with them. However, no one has approached me at all and im confused as to why since I have already decided that im available to only high conscious masculine men. Is there something im missing??

[@ANU-pz5bx]

Alexis can you make content on how to do inner work?

[@niaajanaku5464]

Do you have any recommendations for masculine men to watch

[@anyiawilson]

Also i know you said you’d love for us to see Dubai it got me thinking, have you ever considered a women’s retreat?! I would love something like that with a group of women coming together!!

[@awwlexis]

Yesss!!! It has been on my heart so much to do one with you girls. So amazing you say this ♥️🙏🏽

[@emilyrios6620]

What are good high quality dating apps or match makers to find these men

[@comic_life_86]

Yes! People in Europe, specially Eastern Europe and Middle East are brutally honest!!! It was such a culture shock for me when I got to America and experienced all the fakenes, you see it from American tourists but in full as I experienced when i got here, specially white people

[@daisy7606]

Hey girllll!!!!can you please make video on why am i attracted to many boys....I don't know why but I had so many crush that I start feeling that something is wrong in me....

[@ak-47intelligence75]

Previously in 2017/18, I dated this one man who was extremely threatened by my femininity , he slowly talked me into letting go of it. I did. Not a wise decision. The minute I did that, he got comfortable and took me for granted. He also began admiring other women exuding their femininity in front of me 😂 I laugh because he was a fool. Just because I paused being feminine for awhile didnt mean it was lost. Anyway, I dumped his ass.

[@monikaleszko5343]

Hi Alexis. Can you make a video on why men complain about $$ and talk about their debts ? I don’t get it unless they are trying to make you feel like you can’t expect dates etc or expecting you to offer $. Ewwww Why would they do this ? So low vibrational