Get Your Ex Back When You Dumped Them

[@VictoriaGisele]

i dumped the love of my life because i couldn’t handle certain aspects of our relationship. i’m so heartbroken to have caused so much undeserved pain to him. hopefully the universe brings us back together when it’s time

[@Geektaard]

I'm in the exact same position....

[@rugbyleague3228]

Same how much does it suck guys

[@AS-on1fz]

Same, I had to because distance was fucking with my mental health and he started to not care and getting fed up. I don't know what to do. He didn't give any solutions niether.

[@viktormolleborn3146]

i did the same.. btw, how is it going?

[@qcryptoq9994]

same

[@isaacsmith3529]

I love how the dumpers think they’re in control... it usually backfires if you don’t reach out to your ex soon.. only so much neglect and sadness they can take by you leaving them.

[@El-AYE-Ra1s3d]

How much time is too much time of not reaching out?

[@JelenaVecic024]

@@El-AYE-Ra1s3d as soon as it is possible, if you have courage to break up relationship broke someones heart, why in the hell you want that person to struggle "30 days" until you decide to have courage to ask ex to return back? after 30 days you didnt deserve your ex to return back to you at all.

[@anju921]

@@aswizzlefoshizzle yes, no contact will make him miss you, because when he will experience your absence it will make him re think his decision of not wanting to reunite and he would reach out.

[@rutherhood5961]

I think it's best to ask to meet soon after the breakup to let them know you regret but give them as much time as they need before they can meet, unless it's like a year and then it's safe to say they probs don't wanna go back

[@bloop211]

You dont understand i didn't want to hurt him i just wanted to not get hurt her was going to break up with me and i never said i wanted to just that we should get back together in the future. Im still crying about ut year + after. i didn't want to force him into a relationship bc i felt like that i did.

[@gabrielavega9538]

I GOT BACK TOGETHER WITH HIM. YOURE THE BEST

[@BradBrowning]

I'm glad my advice has affected you positively. Please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these video to help you further: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oJvVgKOulpKqnKs and kzbin.info/www/bejne/rGrQh62eZ7OJd8U All the best! :-)

[@lily-sw3dv]

Hi there. I hope it's okay to ask. Are you still together?

[@gabrielavega9538]

Shenna Lynn Mahinay yes! haha we live together but we broke up for a while after that comment. i grew up and i put myself first. he came back and i gave him another chance but i love myself more. don’t watch this videos waiting for him to call you. do you booo! watch how amazing life is by yourself ✨🥰

[@mohymenmaytham971]

@@gabrielavega9538 like how did you guys get back together. Who texted who, what was said, were you blocked, how long did it take for you guys to get back together. Me and my ex were together for 6 years and now about 2.9 months broken up and this isn't the first time. But my bestfriend asked her to be his gf, he asked her 3 times then she said yeah I'm cool with that, but I feel like she want's to make me jealous, but in her story sometimes she's sad and has old videos 9n her highlights on Instagram and put the same profile pic as me now but idk what this all means. I've grew up and improved so much during this time, any tips/advice plz because I really love her.

[@NoHatJack]

Congratulations 🥳

[@laurierussel6073]

Thanks so much for the video! It's hard to be hurting and feeling so much anxiety. I'm losing sleep over it, it's been torture. Thanks for explaining this so calmly and making me feel like it's possible for us to start over.

[@savenification237]

Sometimes they act a certain way for you to break up with them and them going with another person right after and not feel guilty about it .

[@BradBrowning]

That's actually true. Thankfully, I assume you know your ex (then partner) better to know if something like that is going on.

[@patriciamaluta]

This is exactly my ex 🙄🙄🙄

[@naepanganiban852]

Same case with me, i told him "u have your own life,i will not take that from you,i hope u find whatever will make u happy. Then he didn't reply. I was supposed to just give him space. Three weeks after i never heard from him, then i saw his social media he has new gf. I'm the one suffering right now.😢 what should i do?

[@kinesonc]

Wow.. dude u made this video just when i emailed u that im the dumper.. wow thanks brad

[@BradBrowning]

Great timing, then!:-)

[@poepanfitness5543]

This video helps a lot Brad. I was in a long distance relationship and pretty much believed I would live out the rest of my life with my partner. These initial advices to work things out seem really critical . I will try my best, despite love being hindered by many miles.

[@BradBrowning]

Good luck!

[@xiaochen1]

How did it work out? I’m in a Long Distance as well.

[@MrVeryfrost]

@@xiaochen1 Me too. How did it work out? I’m in a Long Distance as well. Going through a rough period.

[@angeljacksonpresents]

Same

[@Comindance]

I wish my gf is watching this who dumped me :(

[@BradBrowning]

:/

[@JelenaVecic024]

your ex is piece of shit if put you on NC for 30 days and have courage to break up with you. 30 days of struggling, depression and broken heart .. well that person does not deserve you back. move on. if they break up with you, you should go to NC or radio silence , the hell and be in control not wait "30 days" (i think thats BS to give estimate number of days) to receive text/call to return back together. hell no, have no dignity and self respect please!

[@lelabehr]

Brad Browning lol you are funny Brad.

[@auxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx]

Shubham Mish same

[@officialpridencia8985]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kybanainsuvan85]

Your video really helped me in my situation. That's exactly what I needed to hear. THANK YOU SO MUCH! Have a great day :)

[@ultra-chad4951]

I dumped her and I felt fine. She begged for me back, and I wasn’t having it. But then 2 months later she reached out to me, just wanting friendship + telling me about the men she’s been with. I started missing her and she wants nothing romantic or sexual to do with me again, and now I really want her back. I spent time alone, slept around myself, dated, and none of it is helping. I’m a wreck and I miss her so much now, I hate myself

[@harshgaming4064]

Update? How are you feeling?

[@ic6303]

Yesssss thank you for this video! You are obviously very educated and credible in this topic! I get a kick when you curse in your videos. I initiated the breakup but regretted it the next day. He told me he wanted space so I've been doing the 30 no contact rule. Thanks again for your advice. Staying positive and hopeful enjoying my life

[@BradBrowning]

You're welcome! :-) If you ever need further help on this, you'd know what to do.

[@youridolofficial6490]

Hi if I may ask, what happened? Did you get back together?

[@DerpyChipmunk]

We had a mutual break up, she suggested to do something because it wasn’t working and I initiated the breakup. I broke no contact multiple times afterwards and we ended up arguing a month after the breakup and blew it. I’m devastated and depressed because she was the love of my life, but I will start employing the no contact strategy in full effect this time so she forgets the argument. I apologized maturely and left it at that. Day 1 of No Contact is today, wish me luck and I’ll make updates on the journey. Thank you Brad.

[@BradBrowning]

Make sure you're in a detached mood when you contact her. Otherwise yes it will cause trouble. Good luck!

[@marisolvaniabonampak359]

​​@@BradBrowning that detached feeling is good .

[@ariesariesfearless4810]

I broke up with him bec he doesnt respect me but i love him but i cant take on how he treated me he just blocked me in wats app withouth a word

[@BradBrowning]

In this case, watch this first before you go back to a toxic relationship: kzbin.info/www/bejne/o2OahX-brrqgrck

[@aquariusmix]

I definitely feel this. I broke up with him because I was unappreciated, taken for granted, not respected and more. He would flirt with other women etc

[@tiuanamitchell8269]

@@aquariusmix exactly what i was going through so i ended it... yea i feel lonely but when your single you got more options :)

[@jin6152]

I disagree. The no contact rule should only apply to the Dumpee, not the Dumper. I was the Dumpee and the no contact rule worked. My ex ended it, so she needed to be the one to win me back if she wanted to be with me. The power will then shift. Always strive to have equal power. Unless you want to be completely in control or have none at all-finding the middle ground is key to a happy relationship.

[@BradBrowning]

Well, yeah, if you're the dumper, you should apply the tips here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j2bNqIOXrdJ9i68

[@verarobinson6759]

Yes agree

[@cannedbanana4689]

I’ve watched a few of your videos and I’m talking to her tomorrow when we hang out, hope it works out good

[@BradBrowning]

Awesome! My other videos should help out a bit, too but if you still need my help further on this, however, then you and I both ought to take a look at a lot of various factors at play, so sign up for my coaching program so I can help take a look at all the various factors at play including your overall relationship history, issue/s, among many other elements, and to find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis. Please check on availability first because I only have a limited number of clients I can realistically manage before I go into spontaneous combustion. :-) Here’s the link: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@rutherhood5961]

I want to get back together with him, I broke up with him yesterday, I was in a relationship where I was loved so much and I loved him so much, but I worried that I was becoming all consumed in it and neglecting my life, I miss him so much and we both said we loved each other but I thought it was for the best, I now feel after sleeping on it that I want him there with me, we were in a relationship for a year and a half, I feel like it's just throwing away one of the best things that's ever happened to me when in reality we could learn to approach these next year's of life as a pair, I feel my mind is clearer on that now

[@rutherhood5961]

@@sarki8163 just following the no contact, we have plans to meet for coffee after lockdown so just taking it easy, prepared for either outcome

[@BradBrowning]

Follow the steps on the vid. My other videos should help out a bit, too but if you still need my help further on this, however, then you and I both ought to take a look at a lot of various factors at play, so sign up for my coaching program so I can help take a look at all the various factors at play including your overall relationship history, issue/s, among many other elements, and to find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis. Please check on availability first because I only have a limited number of clients I can realistically manage before I go into spontaneous combustion. :-) Here’s the link: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@hernandezefrain6969]

I broke up with my ex about 2 weeks ago now. I ended it out of frustration and anger. Now after i cooled off all i want is for her to realize that she played a part in out break up and not place all blame on me. Truthfully i want her back. Ive been doin NC for about 7 days now. Can we speak about specifics please???

[@BradBrowning]

Always give it enough time and space and her realizing stuff may come naturally. What's important is you don't create more drama with her. All right? And yes, If you still need my help further on this, however, then you and I both ought to take a look at a lot of various factors at play, so sign up for my coaching program so I can help take a look at all the various factors at play including your overall relationship history, issue/s, among many other elements, and to find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis. Please check on availability first because I only have a limited number of clients I can realistically manage before I go into spontaneous combustion. :-) Here’s the link: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@aashisharma4182]

@@BradBrowning Hii

[@rezur3kt698]

Brad, i broke up with my girlfriend and then came back after a month. I told her when we broke up that we needed to be alone and become better people before we could work again. I we tried talking for a month but she all of a sudden didn't contact me, i found out she went on a date with a guy. I followed her in my car and poured out my heart one last time and then cut off contact. Its been 1 week since we talked. its been hard since its out of my control now. We were togther for 4 years, from 17 to 21 years old. She said she still had feelings but was scared to try again. Im confident its not gonna work out between her and this guy but is there hope?

[@BradBrowning]

Give her time to miss you since she's likely rebounding anyway. For now it's time to find a more positive outlet for your emotions. It's totally okay to cry your eyes out (just NOT in front of your ex), this is healthy, but try to balance it with other stuff. So keep your mind occupied, get busy with a lot of stuff like hobbies, work, etc. focus on what makes you feel good and take time to heal as well. Also read my Ex Factor Guide, which covers commonly possible ‘what if’ scenario and will give you pretty much everything you need to know, so read it many times over until you master it. The aim of the guide is basically to put you in the best position to get your ex back...and to avoid the pitfalls to increase your chances altogether. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!

[@djaay_5055]

Man! 🥺 I’m going through the same thing bro!! How are you guys doing?! Are you guys back together I would like to know a update please 😔✊🏽

[@the_blackpulse1501]

@@djaay_5055 aye bro how’s urs going

[@SAMEntalhealth]

I watch these to see where her mind might be sometimes

[@iluvmusicqwe]

I broke up with my long distance girlfriend 2 days ago. I ended things because our communication become sparse and I gave up trying to reach out to her because I was the one doing the work. She sometimes has hard times but she never tells me about it. If I’m not feeling well I’ll tell her. We already had an argument about this same thing. I’m not sure what to do.

[@BradBrowning]

Let her understand how communication is a vital key in relationships, especially a long distance one. If she's not doing her part despite you telling her about it, then she may not be fitted for a long distance relationship. It is tough work! And the distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYK8ZYFmadqpqqM AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/a5_JiIWAh9ehd9U However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@vivianmirrow2955]

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[@jaharitucker3953]

Hi Brad, my situation is a bit different from what you talk about. Me and my ex dated for 9 months and it was great. We barely fought and if we did they were small. Near the end she started to text very little until she broke up with me. She said she needed space to find herself again. And I contacted her once saying okay, explore the world and enjoy life. I'll always love you! It's been about 4 days since no contact. I miss her like anyone would but I'm really not sure when or if I should ever contact her. If you could make a video about what it means when she says she needs space to find herself and what to do then that would be extremely helpful. Thank you for your time

[@BradBrowning]

There's a time to contact her but not anytime soon. Almost all my videos talk about space. This should help you understand things more: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKariHaNmqxkrtU

[@AXRXHXM]

wow ur case is like mine except im the girl, how many times has it been?

[@businesslady7840]

When a person says give them space than give them space.

[@elliejohns8895]

Business lady I gave her ALOT of space and trust me when i say that cause i really cared about her and it only mades things easier for her to break up w me

[@elliejohns8895]

Business lady I gave her ALOT of space and trust me when i say that cause i really cared about her and it only mades things easier for her to break up w me

[@iwonderwhatmydognamedme4000]

I broke up with him and the messages I sent were very blunt but not too harsh. He needed to read them and he did but never responded. At the end of one message I even said I hope you message back so we can try to fix things but I doubt u will…. So idk what to do I’m lost. I love him so much but I had to leave because he wasn’t taking me seriously he took me for granted. He’s the type that he doesn’t know what he has until it’s gone and he needed to lose me in order for him to finally open up and commit. It’s been 3 days and I’m having doubts that he ever will realize

[@theTVremote2697]

Doing "no contact" in hopes to get your ex back as the dumper is the wrong way to go. If you feel regret, you need to tell your ex straight up. Don't wait until day 30 because your ex may move on and not want you back. Don't make the same mistake that I did.

[@BradBrowning]

If you dumped her by mistake,you actually need to have a conversation with yourself first instead of pestering your ex. This is what no contact does, it lets you get in touch with yourself on why you did what you did in the first place.

[@Ankhakaru]

I broke up with her because she was doing cocaine behind my back. I came down hard but realized that I was in love with her still afterwards. We spoke today...we'll speak tomorrow...

[@hazimfuat5140]

@@Ankhakaru hows your relationship going now?

[@finniepin259]

I broke up with her 2 years ago..

[@cfxxmaxxy1876]

@@BradBrowning no contact is appropriate for the dumped not the dumper.. the dumped was already in the favour of the relationship... if u use no contact here... you will blow your chances of getting them back.. let them know first what you are feeling... this may take some time..

[@Nowayhomek]

Hello Brad. My boyfriend broke up with me on October 1st. He suffered a lot through it as he kept crying. He said “I just hope I didn’t make the biggest mistake of my life”. It was honestly a very clean breakup and I got my things out of his place with grace. I have done no contact since then. It is now Oct 9th. I have healed and have focused on improving myself. I focused on my self confidence and that I do not need him to be happy. Today I texted him “Hey Tyson. Do you remember my long black dress with the very high leg slit? I want to wear it next weak. Can you bring it with you tomorrow on your way to class? I’ll be at Valencia working on some HW.” And he said “Sure Can” Any word of advice before I see him tomorrow? I am not planning on bringing up the breakup at all and I am planning on keeping it short. I truly love him and want him back in my life.

[@BradBrowning]

That's basically how it should go, especially since you're in the "no contact" phase. As for how to deal with him when you meet, it's already in this channel so hopefully you've done your research. :-) Anyway here's the link: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gJOooK1uZs6hY7M

[@sosiamya9718]

Sorry, I think it's strong to text you ex, be fun and vague when you messed it up. You need to step up like a mature person and expose yourself.. Mentioning that you had your chance to see what you did and grow up. If you behaved poorly that's the only way. The last thing your ex wants.. Is receiving random texts full of nothing...they are irritating and distracting for someone who is trying to go through a breakup and move on. She might ask you to leave her alone for good. So no games or the game might be over. I'm the one who's seeing this strategy applied and doesn't work. There are women/men who have a certain level of self-love and expect mutual understanding.

[@nimeshamax9452]

After 30 days i called him he answered and after i cut the line he didn't call or text me.after a week also i called him to ask one of my stuff back.he sent it and again no respond. He do answer my calls but doesn't reply to my texts. He is ignoring me.what should i do.i am the one who broke up when he doesn't wanted to break up. He is so stubborn now. I broke up as he showed his pride side to me which i didn't like to see.

[@BradBrowning]

This vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hnPSpYSvnN5qpdU

[@trinibarbie4170]

Thank you for making this video! I love you!

[@BradBrowning]

You're very much welcome! I love you, too! :-)

[@calisurfgirl4701]

I ended my marriage back in Oct 2021 due to problems within the marriage and its what I thought I wanted, but 9 months later and it still hurts and all I can think of is the pain I've caused him. I want to make it work so bad, we were talking every day but I started NC yesterday. He said his love etc is gone (we were together 14 years) I'm worried it's too late to try and fix this

[@swativirdi3020]

This comment section feels sooooo good to read. I'm glad that i'm not the one who dumped for loosing feelings temprarily and being uncertain about the decision yet taking it, after 6 years of amazing and beautiful relationship. Its been 3 weeks and i'm in my worst condition. I cry my eyes out i canr see my future, i've lost epitite and feels like its the end, but i'm gonna get better i know. This is not the end, its just a BIG CHANGE. ❤❤ *but i really hope he comes back until its too late bcz even after 2 months i can give him a chance, but if its too long, then its gone*

[@BradBrowning]

Stay strong!

[@Tholin-tm7ps]

Mine is also same after 5 years then i regret so i found out that she starts chating with other men. How can she do that? 🥺🥺 I think i know that she truly loves me though

[@Xxxxxrrr6464]

Hope all is well

[@ivyloly5254]

Great video! I needed some space from this guy a really loved. He was so heartbroken with the break up that it took several months and no contact to get him back. It's a very slow process but worth the effort. Thank you for the tips, he invited me for coffee! 😊

[@JelenaVecic024]

So you dump him broke his heart and after severa months he break NC and invite you for coffee? Thats bs. You should have courage to do that when you have courage to broke up with him and left him with broken heart... that guy have no dignity since he broke nc to contact you/dumper...

[@annietomlinson270]

This is my situation. Lockdown with covid made it so hard to maintain a relationship at a distance and now we are in no contact, this affirmed my belief that we can make it work again

[@ivyloly5254]

@@annietomlinson270 If it's meant to be it will be. Otherwise, something better will show up, why? 1. God has a better plan. 2.You know better.😉

[@michaelkoeman3412]

@@ivyloly5254 True. No-one will ever take what is meant for you..

[@lilyfarfann]

I broke up with my boyfriend a couple months ago and during this time we have seen other people. Now that I am done with seeing other people i miss him and want him back, but I don't think he wants me back since I broke his heart when I broke up with him. Ive been trying to start conversations and he said he has moved on, but I don't believe that he has... Please help me.

[@BradBrowning]

It would be a tough job in trying to convince him you want a monogamous relationship now, considering your actions in the past, which is a stark contradiction. So don't attempt to convince him, okay? If you still need my help further on this, however, then you and I both ought to take a look at a lot of various factors at play, so sign up for my coaching program so I can help take a look at all the various factors at play including your overall relationship history, issue/s, among many other elements, and to find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis. Please check on availability first because I only have a limited number of clients I can realistically manage before I go into spontaneous combustion. :-) Here’s the link: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@staceya.775]

I’m pretty sure mine dumped me because his ex wife guilted him in to it. I TOLD him she’d do this as soon as she found out about me 😥

[@BradBrowning]

Yeah, married man or men with ex wives still around... not a good idea.

[@neketaaa]

Hey brad ! Quick question. Let’s say your ex contacts you during the no contact period and says that they want to meet up and talk things over, or they’re straight forward and say they want you back. How do you go about this ? Should you finish the total no contact period before meeting up with them ? I wouldn’t want to seem like I’m available to jump right back into the relationship, but I also wouldn’t want to play sooo hard to get that they give up. Any advice ? Thanks !

[@BradBrowning]

If they want you back, then that's basically mission accomplished, right? :-) You know your ex best, so if you can see he's sincere, then give him a chance perhaps? If he doesn't and he's all over the place, then give it a few days and see if he feels the same. Don't be too available especially if you're supposed to be on the "no contact" phase. Good luck!

[@SAl-mi1wz]

neketaaa say you need him back or you will Lose him for ever

[@nopoys]

He REALLY reached out after 17 days and said indirectly that he miss me and told me about his new job. .. but then he stopped texting... Should I wait until 30 days are over or should I text him now..

[@jaygouzecky4634]

Hi I broke it off with my ex soon to be married now I regret breaking it off with her 2 and week of the brake off she went on to a dating site called MATCH and now he's living with her she is the type of girl that cant live alone she needs to feel love a and affection. Her and I where together your 5 years we had a line of credit and i got her a dog now she is asking to help pay back the line of credit and help pay half of the dogs meds. How would the no contact work if she's texting me for this money to pay back the line of credit cause I helped her spend it.

[@BradBrowning]

You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYXNdnR9f7yHq6M AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck

[@natalievanniekerk9696]

So I have not seen him in 2weeks and his coming here on Friday to bring me my things. How do I deal with this, I broke up with him, as he was taking me for granted. I am so nervous to see him as I never wanted to break up.

[@junglejessie7894]

Natalie van Niekerk how did it work out? That’s my exact situation atm

[@BradBrowning]

This: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck

[@hankj3219]

Hey brad, I dated my girlfriend for 4 1/2 years. Been broken up for 2 months. Broke up right before college because I wasn't supporting her and I was being selfish and asking to much. It's been 2 weeks sense I told her I couldn't be friends and hasn't texted me. She said has to force her feelings to the back of her mind cause she can't let me hurt her again. But also said I can't say we are done forever. I do not think she will reach out to me because how much college is occupying her time.

[@BradBrowning]

Why? Are you waiting for her to reach out? Since you've completed the 30-day "no contact" rule, then take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas Good luck!

[@Krixpps]

I dumped my ex and want to get her back, we did sleep together a few times after the break up and there was a lot of emotion between us. I’ve begun no contact for a week but am scared I will lose her forever she’s an amazing person and she told my friend she would want to get back with me but that she is still hurt and confused and can’t come back to me...I don’t know what to do

[@davidarcher3079]

Brad I had a big argument with my wife’s 16 year old son I made a big mistake and left I said it was over, it was 6 weeks ago i broke her heart, she said she has nothing to say to me she hasn’t contacted me in six weeks, we have been together for three years, we got married on 9 December 2017. I made a big mistake and want her back, I love her so much what can I do I’ve all ready told her I love her and pleaded with her as most blokes do

[@APsGTG]

Brad

[@bjstrife]

Hi Brad, I actually registered and bought your e-book already and Im reading it now, but need to clarify a few things after I saw this video. Basically, everything was fine, then suddenly in one or two days, she completely changed her mind. Said she is not sure what she wants and started ignoring me. This made me quite desperate. Then, after a couple days, I took her out to dinner, we talked and she said she doesn't want to throw the relationship away. It seemed like everything was okay again, she even said she wants to see me the next day. But when I did go to spend time with her, she was acting cold and distant again, like she was just pretending to want me. That was her behavior over the last week or so, until I decided I won't be the try hard anymore and let her show whatever she really wants (since she told me she wants to try). When I stopped trying, she hardly messsaged me for days. I got fed up, went to her and said it's over. She said she doesn't even know if it's the right thing to do, but she just isn't sure and maybe it is the only way. Said she couldn't ask for a better person to be with and that even a month ago she would marry me. I think she feels that I've been too controling and jealous (I probably was a little, even if subconsciously) and that she goes from relationship to relationship without figuring out what her life is all about (She did break up with her ex of 7 yrs partly because of me and started dating me immediately, that was a year ago). Now thing is, I did actually tell her that if we break up, I don't want any contact with her. She said she doesn't want this to be the last time she sees me and hugged me, then I walked away. That was 2 days ago. We were planning to spend the christmas together, but I'm not sure how to go about it now, since 30 days of no contact may be a bit too long in this case (I think?) and we would obviously miss it. But if that has to be done, then so be it. Also, she is an ENFP in MBTI typology, not sure if you are aware of what it is or if you think it changes the situation in any way. I honestly think we are a perfect match, she just got confused, because I've been under a lot of stress lately and it got to her, too. Don't want to throw this away and I think she really doesn't want to, either. Just need to be careful here, as I feel I may have overreacted and don't want to do it again. Thank you very much.

[@BradBrowning]

This is a pretty common theme as well, unfortunately. However, don’t destroy the progress you’ve made up to this point. Watch this to use in reference to the guide: kzbin.info/www/bejne/g3yaf3ecf7mVesU re the personality test, are you referring to the Myers Briggs test? Certain personalities like ENFP blend well with other types. What's yours? If you still need my help further on this, then you and I both ought to take a look at a lot of various factors at play, so sign up for my coaching program so I can help take a look at all the various factors at play including your overall relationship history, issue/s, among many other elements, and to find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis. Please check on availability first because I only have a limited number of clients I can realistically manage before I go into spontaneous combustion. :-) Here’s the link: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@AbdelkaderSoudani]

Finally! All other videos talk about when you were dumped. But this time I am the one who left her and I doing no contact and this is the start of the 4th week She contacted me apprared a bit desperate and all of the broken heart stuff and I got a text from her saying that her father had s heart attack. To which I replied with a text asking if he's okay snd whether he's staying in the clinique and I think I'll keep it short and on point otherwise no contact at all and definitely not to discuss feelings and relationships I want to actually finish the no contact then I will contact her myself and see where it goes Thanks for considering the other side of the couple when the breakup happen and making a video about it Because I loved this girl more than anything else but I backed off when it was becoming needy and dysfunctional relationship and when we felt we NEEDED the other party. She felt I'm not there for her and don't unserstand her especially she wants to have my focus and full attention and I found that it is annoying and draining because I can't always do that I could be out running erands or at the GYM or mostly at work Which was infectious and I felt needy as well and I was thinking she didn't seem to care about my work. She knows I'm running my business that has came to a low stand and was falling apart I was slowly getting it back to run more successfully. Started making good money again and it touched me deeply when she didn't ask how's my work. I'm the one who told her hey it's going great with my work to which she replied very casually oh great She appeared to dislike my work because it kept me from her and I felt I needed her approval and we fought a lot so I ended it with the hope inside my to give it an honest shot to start a new relationship with her on better terms... who knows

[@ladyventura7302]

Abdelkader Soudani i hope it works out for you.

[@BradBrowning]

You're welcome, man! Yes, follow the tips here and let me know how it goes! If you hit a roadblock or for any reason, still need my help further on this, then you and I both ought to take a look at a lot of various factors at play, so sign up for my coaching program so I can help take a look at all the various factors at play including your overall relationship history, issue/s, among many other elements, and to find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis. Please check on availability first because I only have a limited number of clients I can realistically manage before I go into spontaneous combustion. :-) Here’s the link: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@rhulanimoyo7245]

Brad Browning ...FLIP YOUR GOOD! I'm on day 6 of no contact and Guy texted me this morning. which is something that he usually did before church Sundays. I asked him to cut contact, he sent a text saying his checking if I'm okay... do I respond?

[@TruthHappens]

I kindly broke up with my ex thenstarted no contact, but after a week I liked a Facebook pic they posted of their kiddo. I still haven’t spoken to them or contacted them. Is a Facebook like considered contact? Do I need to start no contact over again?

[@becauseimhappy8378]

Hi sir.. I'm just follow your rules that never contact and no msg just 2week...now she msg me that she said she is very depresse...i don't know what i need to do and how to make this situation getting smooth.

[@rdsieben]

If she dumped you, and gives you this message, get a meet-up!

[@AnilDahal93]

Vikneswaran Vicky that means she loves you

[@becauseimhappy8378]

Thank you guy's..

[@BradBrowning]

That means the "no contact" rule is starting to work! Wait two more weeks. Here, watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/apjUoGeIn9aIptE

[@dilipyadav7504]

Brad Browning , i would be happy if you reply to my questions, as u have mentioned in video to drop our questions ?

[@KianaForDummies]

Hi Brad, My ex and I had a bad break up 5 months ago. Though everything that I've tried isn't working (yes I followed all your videos), and I would be interested in buying the program/coaching if I just saw a little result... 'Cause I know that I've got a long way to go. So the things that I've done: - yes, I evaluated the break up and showed him what changed. Didn't work. - The first no contact didn't work. - I made a mistake to get in a rebound relationship, he knew about it and never cared for it. I broke up with the guy. - I spoke with him 3 times when I run into him. When I speak to him he stays polite. But he looks for an excuse to stop the conversation. His friend then told me that he actually doesn't wanna talk to me. That was the last time we spoke. I drunk cried that day in public and I'm sure he knows about that. I started no contact again after that, it has been almost 60 days now. - I've changed my looks. Lost 9 kg, cut and dyed my hair, … I’m feeling and looking good. I've graduated, got my dream job, traveled a bit, did some new hobbies, … All of this is of course on social media, but during this second no contact he deleted me on all social media. - When he's alone and he sees me, he tries to get away fast or even hides a bit... He's really done with me and I just want to be on friendly term again, but he doesn't want that. I really don't know what to do. Like I said, what do I do when he's really (and I mean REALLY) done with me? I'm pretty sure if I text him he will ignore it. I've pushed him to far and he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore, how can I get back on friendly terms?

[@BradBrowning]

Changes, especially permanent ones, take time, so try to display these naturally rather than in a manner where you're acting like he's supposed to take you back because you've now "changed." Know what I mean? Have you tried out the texting tips in my videos? Remember what I've said here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gqiWhWttm8eepZI If your situation is unique, you can work with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@MathieuVuylsteke]

Hey Brad! I've been a client of yours before and about half a year ago your book helped me get the girl of my dreams back! Well, now she's been having doubts for quite a while and although we've have really good times it doesn't add up. We've separated and after 3 weeks of ANC we met up and slept together and acted as a couple for one week. Now yesterday she hooked up with another guy saying things will never work out between us and her doubts won't go away. She's quite indecisive about everything in her life and is easily influenced by friends. Cheating was involved by both sides. Please help! Could you give a short answer? I'm thinking of purchasing your e-mail service but still saving up...

[@BradBrowning]

What made her have doubts, though? I feel like I only get the tip of the iceberg of what's really going on between you two. Did the cheating on both your sides happened prior to getting back together? Who started the cheating first? One person could be acting in revenge. I suggest to still use the same techniques you've used to get her back, though. Follow the book!

[@jamerchannel]

Hello brad. I broke up with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago because i felt like he 's changing, I broke up with him so he could see my worth. After a long back and forth messages. He didnt reply to my last message. And now its been two weeks that we dont Talk. I never tried to contact him because I want him to realize that sometimes he takes me for granted. I want him back and start fresh.

[@BradBrowning]

Have you relayed your feelings to him about how you feel he's taking you for granted? Because chances are he has no clue. Employ the tips on the vid and give each other time anyway. Since your situation may be unique, you can work with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@OnlyVibzs]

Thank you I dumped them and I'm having a hard time

[@BradBrowning]

You're welcome. Follow the tips here!

[@KotoriOnWheels]

What if I asked for a "time apart" for him to decide whether or not he is willing or able to start giving what I need to feel valued and HE went no contact, didn't even respond to the email explaining this? Is he just saying by his silence, "I am not going to change my treatment of you so let's just stay broken up"? or is he doing a no contact to get me to try to reach out to him? I am not inclined.

[@BradBrowning]

A lot of things can be going on through his mind right now, but only he would know, so just give him time to think clearly. Don't overanalyze. :-)

[@khoaminhnguyen89]

My girlfriend and I broke up a few days ago, she is very kind and belove but also very unpredictable, before our relationship, she even said that she didn’t like the love things. I broke up with her because I saw our relationship was off and we had a lot of fights between each. I had a compliment with her through text and both agreed to broke up but I feel like I’m more of a “Dumper” She told me she’s not gonna love anyone else and not going to love again. After a couple of days of no talking, I’m starting to realise my mistake and miss her. But I’m not confident with the chance of winning her back. What should I do?

[@BradBrowning]

It’s time to nip the problem in the bud. What were you two fighting about? It's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship. This may help: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eHOomZSPaMx_f9k Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship, as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral.

[@verarobinson6759]

@@BradBrowningterrible advice you are giving just contact your ex before it is too late u will regret what 30 days no contact rule stiupid rule

[@cindiheaton6469]

We’ve been broke up for 7 years. I don’t think he is with anyone else and I can casually text him not often though and he will answer but doesn’t initiate texts. Any advice!?

[@JC-ck4wk]

I’m afraid I broke the love of my life’s heart.... I feel terrible. I thought breaking up with her would make me happier but I feel terrible. I’m not sure what to do I’m not sure if I did the right thing I feel horrible. I just don’t know what to do.

[@gamegirl8945]

Hey man I would say try to get in contact with her as soon as you can to let her know you made a mistake

[@JC-ck4wk]

We ended up getting back together and we’ve never been better 💪🏻

[@gamegirl8945]

@@JC-ck4wk ah nice one man! I’m pleased it worked out for you, what happened? Did you contact her and how long did it take for you to regret?

[@eimearquigley1020]

How did you do it. I ended it out of my pain and miss him a lot

[@eimearquigley1020]

Was only into 5 weeks too. Everything was going well until text mishaps in final days

[@Lucy-ez8uk]

I did all three phases and everything went great. We wrote after no contact, even he wrote me first a few times. We were at lunch and after few days we slept together. A week ago he wrote to me that he did not want to be in touch and talk to me. That he wants new life on college and he does not want me in it. (his college is in another city 45 minutes from me). He moved out this weekend, blocked me on a messenger and does not respond to any of my texts. Completely ignores me. how much time should I give him? and what do I have to write first when he does not replies to me? do you think I have to start from the beginning? It´s it's 5 months since our break up. I do not understand what happened to suddenly that he does not want to be in touch with me. Thanks

[@BradBrowning]

I think you rushed things too much. The inevitable happened and one of you isn't ready, which is your ex. It doesn't look like he's ready for a serious relationship, to be honest. Guys take a little more time to mature than their female counterpart. So whatever the case may be, act responsibly yet try not to take things too seriously for now since you may be in a period of growth and lots of changes, including preferences in attitude, personality, etc. Focus on your studies instead, all right? At the very least, follow the stuff here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nYalf5dspal8hK8 Take care!

[@bretcihalski612]

It worked she's back with me !

[@miriamsreality]

Congrats

[@atzuatzin]

We never lost contact after the break up. I broke up with her. After two year after the break up she starts seing somebody new. It hurt me bad. We meet up and I told her it hurt me bad and that I didn't like it. She smiled and smirked. We kept it cool she said she wants to be friends. Don't know what to do. I'm confused.

[@BradBrowning]

Hey man! I think you need to watch this, first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nYalf5dspal8hK8 It's still important to put the "no contact" rule into priority because if you've been in touch after the breakup too soon, then you BOTH aren't taking the time to process the breakup and been acting like it hadn't happened. Burying the problems which had caused the breakup in the first place is the surefire way towards a doomed relationship. Make sense now? Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@bystandersarah]

Some of this advice seems like it’s really for the person who got dumped, not the dumper🤔

[@tinaschultz1976]

It basically is the same you want to give time away so the negative goes by by and the positive comes through like now I only think of the silly fun times not the bad but o honestly think if I don’t contact him he will contact me not sounding self centered been my experience before if I leave him alone not bother with his social media he will reach out to me he hasn’t even picked up his things yet including the 900$ ring so I don’t know 🤷‍♀️ if I will respond back or wait it out I don’t want to go back to the same problems he needs to grow during this time and I am working on me

[@kittykat_dash7332]

Dear Brad, I dumped my boyfriend, and it's 3 months later. I asked him out again a few weeks after he broke up with his rebound, but he said he was " done with that stuff for a long time ". What do I do? We talk all the time, we're best friends. And yup, you guessed it, I told him that I regretted everything I said (before I found this channel and found out what a bad idea that was). Is all hope lost for me? Please get back to me. -Madelyn

[@BradBrowning]

Give yourselves time first because you're all probably still harboring some anger towards each other. Why'd you dump him in the first place, though? Since your situation may be unique, you can work with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@Heliosphan33]

Hi Brad it’s been about 6 weeks since we broke up. I dumped her much to her dismay but now I regret it and she wants nothing to do with me. I ended up getting caught stalking her on social media and she’s blocked me on all social media. I called her last night but she didn’t answer. Should I still employ no contact? We were together for 4 years.

[@BradBrowning]

Yes. Review the vid.

I am in the same situation as you. We had been together for 6 years, and living together for 2 years. 3 months ago, I broke up with her and I was the dumper. Now I feel regret and miss her so much, but she is very happy with her life right now. She seems to move on, and already hang out with another guy. I feel sad and hopeless right now :(

[@niksiesworld]

he was being distant and unresponsive so i left the relationship. 20 days into NC and he messaged me out of nowhere "im really sad. and bored without you" with a black and white image. out of nowhere... he's an avoidant. so this must have been hard for him to do. first time this has happened. how do i respond??

[@BradBrowning]

Good communication and compromise are what's needed to make your relationship thrive. Have you tried communicating with him and the reason for his unresponsiveness prior to dumping him? This vid is for you if you want to get back together but you two have to learn to communicate better as well as see if your goals for the relationship align: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j2bNqIOXrdJ9i68

[@niksiesworld]

@@BradBrowning yeah to him it was the fact that I'd call and text too much. He sent me memes about it. I didn't respond to them

[@אור-ת9צ]

Hi. Please help me! I want my ex back, i did break 30 days no contact, i try to send him massage if he remember (good memories that we share together)...but he asked me "what's the point of all this?" What should i say to him??? If i cant say directly that i want him back?

[@BradBrowning]

You're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to know that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com

[@kates1512]

Hi I broke up with my ex about 4 weeks ago now after 3 and a half years together. I broke up with him but out of anger and regreted it he didn't want it to end at first and we didn't talk for about 3 days and when I contacted him saying I wanted to try again I didbt mean it I did it out of anger he said I did the right thing and said he didn't want to get back together after a few days we spoke again and we met up after 2 weeks and he brought up that he had struggled with the break up be he was dping okay now and just said he didn't want try again because he didnt want to be in a relationship at this time in life and that I can do better and it was for the best, he asked to stay friends but I would him we couldn't, I've started the no contact a week ago now.

[@BradBrowning]

It happens. Try to follow the tips on the video and be patient, okay? :-) If you still need my help further on this, however, then you and I both ought to take a look at a lot of various factors at play, so sign up for my coaching program so I can help take a look at all the various factors at play including your overall relationship history, issue/s, among many other elements, and to find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis. Please check on availability first because I only have a limited number of clients I can realistically manage before I go into spontaneous combustion. :-) Here’s the link: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@wtj83tw]

I'm srry abt that love. But one question... we're u drunk when u typed this? bc i barely understood anything u were saying. Thank God I could make out most of the words

[@ozan2901]

Hey Brad ty for the enlightening video. I had a question. I already told my ex, with whom I broke up with because of a depression, that I got feelings for her and they are much more stable than before and kinda asked too much for a second chance. She told me that she still has feelings for me and she is not fully over me but she doesn’t want this relationship now and also she is not sure if she wants a relationship with me. What should I do now. We talked a lot about us and future, how I miss and want her last 2 days and don’t know what to do now, can you give me some advice

[@HunterVaughanMusic]

Any update on that? Going through that right now.

[@BigJonas7]

Pretty much same here. I think a mature of positive messages , along with short no contacts will do the trick. Good luck to all of us guys!

[@alainlabreche1189]

I broke up with her and went 30 days no contact. Her reply was a termination text. She did end the text as she was apologizing for not being ready to talk yet. What to do?

[@pandapuddinlegacy5260]

Ok what do you do if your ex got with someone else they dated for awhile and then they got cheated on and they broke up with them and it’s like the wrong time to ask

[@BradBrowning]

How long is "a while"? Give it time until you're more confident in reaching out to her.

[@hitpointalpha8691]

Hey Brad, I broke up with my ex of 7 months 9 months ago, she started dating someone and about a month ago she called me out of the blue and asked me for an iCloud password, she never signed in or out and next couple days she ended it with that guy. I still love her more than anyone I’ve ever met, I can’t get over her and not sure what to do. I want to win her back.

[@BradBrowning]

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Do you think you're ready to give it a try? However, since it's been months, I suggest you give her time to process the breakup with the other dude first. Watch this first to help set your expectations: y2u.be/82uUJ7kPXhE and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b32mYpitnKeef7M If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working ONCE things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and the golden rules here: y2u.be/1kJ1ybuFIHE

[@catm4502]

Hey Brad. My ex and I were together for 2 yrs. he told me he was too young and we fight over the same things. I initiated the breakup first than he did. We're both in college btw. I gave him space and he came back. He then left then came back so forth. He told me we could be something in the future. I don't know what to do? I did beg and plead. I wouldn't say we were friends but we did keep in touch and hung a few times. He told me he will always be there for me but he can't be in a relationship rn . I don't know what to do.. help

[@BradBrowning]

Are you sure you want him back? Make that decision first. One thing that most people don't realize is that they hold the key. Have you been actively trying to get your ex back? Don’t wait for this person to have an epiphany. If you want your ex back, then keep track of what you've been doing to see if it's productive or not. Have you checked out my guide yet? It may be time to revamp your techniques. Before anything else though, take the free quiz on my website to gauge your chances of getting your ex back. Answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!

[@tragicscott356]

me and my ex where dating for 7 months and everything was good untill the last few weeks of our relationship and now within a week or two after she broke up with me she's with a new guy...i never saw this coming... how can I get her back?

[@BradBrowning]

Consider moving on from her, man... or at the very least, give each other space first, okay? This vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nYalf5dspal8hK8

[@Zaorexx]

Hello brad , As you said that you should hangout with your friends , make new friends to get yourself busy. The thing is its getting reverse my ex is doing all the same hanging out with friends making new friends , enjoying her life. And this makes me want her deadly back .I haven't contacted her since 2 days. We were together for 2 and the half years. We were madly in live with each other. What should i do now ? Please do reply Thanks

[@twinklekaur9495]

Samkit shah Hey see I am not an expert but you should be patient and try covering the full 30 day. Hope you get her back. 😊

[@Zaorexx]

Twinkle Kaur thanks for the advice , But everything happens for a reason.

[@twinklekaur9495]

Samkit shah And u guys where together for a reason. I know it's difficult. I have been through this myself but u need to keep calm. She might of mightn't come back but I personally feel u should try the 30 day no contacts period. I am in my 3rd week. And I already feel better Idk if i gotta get my ex back but I feel better about life about myself. 😀 Don't mind me tho I speak to much 😂

[@Zaorexx]

Twinkle Kaur twinkle try watching motivational videos on YT , It'll help you move on , talk to your friend's spend some time with 'em. Make yourself busy , make your mind busy. It'll help you build up self-confidence. sometimes hardest times could led you to your greatest success.

[@BradBrowning]

Yes, do all those... and then try not to think about what your ex is doing because quite frankly, that's none of your business, okay? :-) Besides, if you want her back, you should be fully focusing on yourself first and foremost... and that's exactly what you're not doing if you're monitoring her actions. This vid is for you and should hopefully get you back on track: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pZOleqeqhriUoZY

[@jazzev3294]

Hey! Me and my ex boyfriend broke up about 5months ago. We were togheter for about 1year and 4months,it was really serious But We fighted a lot in the end of the relationship. I was the one Who broke up But i dont know What to do now..i would do anything to get him back,he wanted me to change and now i have changed,he looks a lot on me and has even smiled sometimes But then he ignores me..i dont know If he still likes me and i dont know What to do..Please Help me

[@BradBrowning]

Okay.... but change what? If you do have to make some changes, then do it for yourself and never for anyone else, okay? See, making changes for the sake of someone is considered seeking validation, and that's an unattractive trait in and of itself… so it naturally won't do anything to rebuild the attraction necessary to get your ex back. Also, changes take time so be sure you aren’t rushing it because your ex can actually see through it. Does that make sense? With that in mind, watch this vid to subtly show these changes to your ex: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mIuUfJiqdrGNqMU

[@originalshadow93]

Hay brad! So i made it to the phase of re establishing communication, and my question is, should i always be the one to reach out and message her first? So i have reached out only twice and both times it seems like she had np interest in keeping the conversation going. Should i reach out a third time with a different approach mabye something funny? Or should i wait for her to contact me?

[@BradBrowning]

Give her time to reach out, too, but certainly do not drop off the map nor bombard her with text messages. A happy medium is best. Don't seem too eager, so go by the golden rules here to help you out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z5ytYqyYqqt8fqc

[@kassiehall2304]

I broke up with my ex. We lived together for a year and my kids called him dad. We loved each other very much but he was hiding an addiction and I just couldn't be lied to anymore. He says he wants a clean break and move on. I started no contact for about 3 weeks but had to break it twice due to finances but kept it to that only. I feel like hes slipping furthur away during these weeks. But the other day he posted that he felt emotionally down..Because I dumped him, how do I move forward

[@jakobriley9341]

why do her friends keep getting in the way like when she is alone she is texting me then when shes with her friends i feel like they tell her don’t talk to him or this and that making it hard for me

[@BradBrowning]

The thing with exes, especially the one whose idea is to break the relationship, is they also struggle with the breakup and finding all means to cope...including talking to someone they're used to talking to, a.k.a you. What that leaves you, however, is unknowingly becoming their emotional sponge. So if you want this ex back, you ought to let him/her feel what it's like not to have you in his/her life first, so employ the 30-day "no contact" rule, okay? An exception is if your ex is trying to contact you about something really important. You risk too much by staying in touch and you best not respond unless it’s about something important. Watch this, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mITWZqSCbZqWicU Good luck!

[@jakobriley9341]

Brad Browning i did the no contact but she reaches out to me and asks my friends how i am or asks them what im doing

[@vinzchannel01]

You are the best BreakupBrad. No offense to the other KZbinr coaches, they are not as vibrant or clear as you are. Lol not even as good looking as you are. 😉 Good job man. Keep It up bro

[@BradBrowning]

LOL Wow hey thanks, man! I appreciate the support (and the praise). If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it, too! :-)

[@chrome637]

Hey Brad, My girlfriend broke up with me around 2 - 3 weeks ago. We go to school together and we share mutual friends. I've been talking to one of my friends and she says that my ex still has very strong feelings for me and misses me around. I told her that I still have feelings for my ex as well. We both know that we still have feelings for each other and everything in our group knows about it. I haven't contacted her at all since the break up, and I don't really know how to approach her... Any help would be appreciated :) Thanks

[@BradBrowning]

Whatever happens, don't go out of your way to reach out to her. Do limited contact with your ex. Your case is actually one of the few cases where the “no contact” rule is an exception...but DON'T initiate random contact in any way and don’t make any unnecessary chitchats, all right?I've discussed it in these videos, as well as how to handle it: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sHzLf3ueetKMg8k and kzbin.info/www/bejne/r5XIdoZpjLpki8U but read my Ex Factor Guide so you'll have an in-depth view on how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, etc. since good timing is essential at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy Okay? Take care!

[@malikcorrea8831]

Hey brad my ex cheated on me almost ah month ago but i took her back but she was entertaining other guys so i broke up with her the other day. What should i do? I still have feelings for her but i don’t want to talk to her rn we did argue alot and stuff.

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry, man, but chances are your girl has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/o2OahX-brrqgrck There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place. Take care!

[@vivianmirrow2955]

I know o f a man how help me gat my ex back.....W.h.z.t s.a.p.p.him..for..h.e.l.p....+2340873317460

[@soph-en2rs]

All I want to do is text my ex explaining that I would like to get back together, it was a clean break up, all my decision and he didn't agree. But I just don't know exactly what to say

[@BradBrowning]

If you watch the vid again, you'd know that it's probably a bad idea to do that, right? Give it time first.

[@soph-en2rs]

@@BradBrowning nah it's ok we're completely over now 👍

[@jadenbeauchamp8836]

Brad I want her back I hope you see some some of my comments on your other videos because I explain what I did after the breakup but it’s about to be a full week of no contact

[@melmatulin7462]

Look I broke up with my boyfriend like 3 weeks ago and we’re still friends but haven’t talked much lately but I honestly don’t know why I did it, I guess I wasn’t 100% happy with the relationship and it wasn’t working out Like he was happy and all that and I felt so bad beacuse I knew that I would regret it, and now I’m having that phase where I miss him and regret it and cry. Like him and his family came over my house yesterday and It made me realise how much I missed him but at the same time we were gonna get back together but i just had this feeling in me that was telling me not to but at the same time i do miss being with him, like he cared about me and asked me if I’m ok and would give me signs that he really misses me and wants me back even tho I dumped him and we both know that we do still have feelings for eachother but I always get this feeling that you know I did it for a reason but at the same time I miss what we had sksk and I’m like listening to sad songs baha 😭💗 Loving life

[@BradBrowning]

Being friends is a big no-no in my book. It's one of the biggest mistakes you could do as far as sabotaging your chances go. It's still important to put the full 30-day straight "no contact" rule into priority because if you've been in touch after the breakup too soon, then you BOTH aren't taking the time to process the breakup and been acting like it hadn't happened. Burying the problems which had caused the breakup in the first place is a surefire way towards a doomed relationship, if you get your ex back. Make sense now? Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have myou accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coachingissed, then guide

[@wd8817]

It's been 3 1/2 months since my ex and I broke up. Is that too long? We have had no contact for about 2 and a half months, and only talked once since. We are supposed to meet up and exchange our stuff. (We dated for 5 years). Our break up was a little messy and spontaneous, we got in a bad fight over the phone and it ended there.

[@BradBrowning]

I supposed things aren't as heated as they used to be, so whenever you're ready, then take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas Good luck!

[@lexbandz4]

Left him then he texted me 3 days later... long story short I got him back😼

[@kooleenpadilla7207]

What's your story please share im on my 3rd day he was entertaining other women ...smh

[@6o671]

I left him 3 months ago, I knew he's great but he wasn't suitable for me. He was my first, and I was rly in love with him. However, He didnt come back and never contacted me again. Now, I think this is really for the best, no matter how weak my heart is.. he's not a good choise.. hope the best for him ~ I forgot to mention his trying to get me back by spreading a rumor he's with someone new, he was that kind of man.

[@jamesd235]

Brad Browning I was the dumper, I made the mistake of thinking I wasnt good enough for her. So I pushed her away and broke up with her. For about 3 months she wanted to get back together. But I was so set that she's better off without me. So for the 3 months I've been working on myself and getting over those feelings,i have. But I didn't tell her what I was doing. Then when I finally felt ready, I contacted her and told her that I made a mistake and I wanna fix things. But she's angry at me for waiting so long. She said hers feelings are buried under anger and pain and she doesnt know if this is what she wants. But shes consecutively talked,to me more and more. But Then if I suggest seeing one,another she gets mad and says she is not ready she's still,angry. So do I keep talking to her and wait and hope she's going to change her mind? I need help,please

[@BradBrowning]

Remember the golden phase of your relationship with your ex, about how you made your ex crazy for you at first? That's how it should be done. :-) More tips here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oXioY2lsndBsb9U But this time, be subtle. Here are the golden rules and the first step is to always apply the full 30-day "no contact" rule first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z5ytYqyYqqt8fqc If you've done that once, then you can do it again... this is why exes are a sensitive topic. These tips are a must to be kept in mind as well: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKKkdpxvhcd4d6M

[@MichelleTorez]

You are beautiful 😍

[@BradBrowning]

Gee, thanks!

[@faizaadib5237]

What if he slapped me with he is dating 😳 what should i do ?? Just go on or go back 🤔

[@chandrikadas2700]

Hi I'm the one who's angry at him for being reluctant in our relationship and I've blocked him past few days back and its reay hard for me but i don't think he cares that I've blocked him...what should i do? I miss him a lot i can't sleep. Haven't met him for 5months because of lockdown and he seems to not care about that at all.

[@ktc1898]

Does the dumper just casually contact with the dumped? Does the dumper not have to apologize or say anything about the break-up when first reaching out after no-contact period? I am the dumper and I know the break-up was a surprise to him, so I feel I am not supposed to pretend like nothing happened, when I wanted to contact him again.

[@BradBrowning]

It happens sometimes, but it's best not to rely on that because majority don't. Here's a quick overview to help guide you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rpi1YWaImLpro9k Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eHLLfqWjrJiGo9U Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5aqf4N4mdWhqas

[@AshishSharma-nm1vt]

Hey Brad. Thanks so much for the Advice. My ex was seeing/meeting some other guy behind my back. Just casual meeting and i suddenly came in and read her texts that day when she met him. I asked her before but she lied. Then at night over call i said i have given u the freedom but lying to me is disrespect and i consider it cheating. Then she said sorry she wont do it again but i still cant trust her...then i send her a text a day after that i cant trust u and trust is the base of love. I think we should keep it simple and lets just be friends. She wrote no problem, if u loved me u would have stayed and then she deleted those texts but i already read those. She didn't know. Now its been 3-4 days since i got no call from her no msg whatsoever earlier she used to call me everynight 2-3 times and we used to talk. But i think she is seeing that other guy now. I really miss the memories that ive shared with her and i feel that i should calmly talk to her that why she did it..why she lied...i m thinking she is using the no contact on me. I dont know should i text her and meet her and discuss or use the no contact. I really want her back i dont know why. I m scared that she'll find another guy and move on. But i still am not able to trust her. Please guide me..thankyou so much. Will be really looking forward for your response.

[@BradBrowning]

It would've been logical to ask her why she lied about meeting up with that guy. Because yes, if she loves you she would've been honest to you over simple matters, assuming there's nothing goin' on with her and that other guy. Give yourselves time to think things over first.

[@longrothmonyta65]

My ex broke up with me for 2 months now . I haven’t tried to do no contact strategy yet , I normally text him how is he doing in a couple days . But his replied is so mean , he said leave him alone, what do I want from him, he had done all his job. What should I do in this situation?

[@Astrology_Witch_DJ_Lifestyle]

Phew , did anyone else relax - right at the end of this ❤️ ❤️My ex is responding positively, Just think we needed to breath, And needed to build respect back up for me. We're like best friends aswel❤️ Always important to be playful in your relationships 💕💕 Play is the most ATTRACTIVE of all traits ... And thankfully thats our asset ... ❤️ I hope whoever is reading this remembers to cultivate play back into their relationships ❤️ You're still kids in love, ya know❤️

[@BradBrowning]

Hey thanks for dropping by!

[@juniorlugo2814]

Dumpers don’t deserve a second chance

[@BradBrowning]

Everybody makes mistakes and some relationships do deserve a second chance, granted the dumper learned some lessons as well. But as what I always say, the decision to get an ex back is totally up to you. Over time, you know your ex's true worth to you as well as the value of your relationship. So only you can decide whether this is someone you want to go back to or not. All the best!

[@hawtain4399]

Hi I broke up with my ex because he was emotionally unavailable and I felt he didn’t make enough effort, when I tried to talk to him about how I felt he just shut me down and said he didn’t understand what the problem was. I broke up with him yesterday but miss him so much. I hope he reaches out. What do I do?

[@BradBrowning]

Apply the tips on the vid. Here's the latest one: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j2bNqIOXrdJ9i68

[@oliverandrewg4411]

I broke up with my fiancé twice in a short period of time. I was overwhelmed and over analyzing things. I’ve been in counseling since the breakup and I’m good now. I want her back but she is not returning my calls or messages. How do I get her back?

[@BradBrowning]

Is she said yes to your proposal before, then that's a good thing, but how bad was the breakup? I suggest to send one text first and wait for a response. Definitely DO NOT call. If you two broke up because you were being insecure/overanalyzing/overly jealous, then that could've really pissed your ex off, especially without proof. And although I'd like to give more tips, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@6o671]

OK if I asked for breaking up, he didn't ask me why, didn't try to know the reasons, he went in No Contact for two months. After that he broke up with me. I know he loves me, I know i love him, I know us together would be a heartache, I know us apart would be a heartache. What should I do?

[@Flip_side_games]

So...I broke up with her because she would say things like "i always felt like we're meant to be friends". What can I do to make her see me as a boyfriend and want me back? I treated her right, but too much beta and nice guy stuff.

[@mustang13990]

I broke up with my ex yesterday over some silly reason and want her back. Do you recommend reaching out to them or doing the 30 day no contact? Hoping you see this. Thanks

[@tinaschultz1976]

We been in no contact for 4 weeks august 9 he blocked me than unblocked me post everything publicaly and posting pics of his self I blocked him now I don’t want to freak out in them crazy waiting on his dms till he was single what now ? I want to de block him now cause it was a misunderstanding I saw and was a joke with the person kinda don’t know what to do now

[@betiboo7294]

I followed 30 day no contact rule. Then tried to contact him but he wasn't willing to even exchange messages. I broke up with him in anger. It's been 2 months now since we're apart. Yesterday, I reached him again and he replied. But he told me his with another girl atm. I hardly believe it's true but I'm in pieces. He knows I never wanted to end this and that I miss him a lot. What do I do now? I can't go no contact for another month. I already feel like I waited to long and I lost him forever.

[@BradBrowning]

Wait for a better time before contacting your ex. This should help guide you on what to do for the time being: kzbin.info/www/bejne/np3MnIt_m7KMhJo However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nYalf5dspal8hK8 AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z5ytYqyYqqt8fqc now when the time comes where your ex is free or is constantly contacting you, check out my other videos here in KZbin to help you with a lot of texting tips as well as when to give up trying. Good luck!

[@krisliv5539]

I would like your advice. When covid started, I decided to go on an apt for dating. Started to talk in march of 2020, we talked for several months and then met. We found out that we both enjoyed each other's company. He told me his wife passed in 2015. I found out he has kidney disease and on dialysis. He told me was welcome any time i wanted and gave me a key to his place.He bowls, plays pool and golf. He added another activity corn hole. In the summer he does lawns, fixes fences. At first we would met a couple times a week. Then when summer hit I asked for us to meet at a beach close for both of us. We did this until winter hit. After that he would only call. Rarely would come to see me. I would go down to the town where he lives and spend the weekend. After awhile I stopped going to his place. Hoping he would miss me and ask me down there, or we would met and spend time together he just seemed on the same speed. Neutral. And time went in 3 yrs. He spent less time with me. Would call me for five minutes or once he got to the activity sport he does then let me go. I have asked him to send me cards in the mail he said he would, explain how having that made me feel good and connected with him. I wait a yr, he didn't send me any card. The last few weeks he set up a time for us to be together at four winds for a night but unfortunately I had a dental appointment that week. I also got sick. He never came back to me and said if he did or going to get a place at four winds. After that, I was completely upset with him, and been feeling neglected by him, so I went to his place got my stuff and gave his key with a card saying, we are going in different directions. I wish you the best. I feel he is still hurting maybe even more, he lost his wife nov of 2015, I feel he is greeving, and that is why he keeps adding more sports to be involved in. He is a good guy. I don't have any thing to say bad of him or about him. I broke up with him. I am lost in so many ways.

[@emyhope830]

Hi, for over two months ago I broke up with my ex (who I had been together with for two years). He “agreed” to brake up but not willingly because he thought his love for me weren’t enough. WRONG. I realised my mistake and told him. We where so close to get back together but I got eager and texted “wrong messages”, then he stopped looking me in the eyes and say hi. We talked about other things and it got a little bit better. Then he said he couldn’t be bothered to answer me. I started no contact. Now on my last week. But everything fells worst. I don’t know what to do. And even if he still love me how can I show him that he is enough??

[@BradBrowning]

Give it time. It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. This may help: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bHyWqaicetx4fMk The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com

[@doggycat9430]

Hi. Brad My ex girlfriend and me breakup 1year ago but we still kept text but she suddenly change won’t text or want date and we are long distance.. She don’t reply and answer why she changed suddenly and I even can’t get her answer or reply. How can I make her text with me again?

[@blaze6709]

how can you get your ex back if he got a new girlfriend? Its been 8 months since our break up and i still want him into my life, i don't know what i'm going to do because he already found someone. They are together for like 6 weeks and i always think negative things because he appreciates more his new girlfriend please help me what to do thank you

[@BradBrowning]

One thing that most people don't realize is that they hold the key. Have you been actively trying to get your ex back? Don’t wait for this person to have an epiphany. If you want your ex back, then keep track of what you've been doing to see if it's productive or not. Have you checked out my guide yet? It may be time to revamp your techniques. Before anything else though, take the free quiz on my website to gauge your chances of getting your ex back. Answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!

[@maxyip5421]

Hi Brad, I don’t have enough money to enroll in your 1 on 1 sessions as I’m a student and I don’t have any friends with good advice. It’s been five weeks since I broke up with my girlfriend I regretted it three days after and told her we should get back and she didn’t want to. For the last two months of our relationship we were on and off arguing a lot about petty things. She has made it very clear she isn’t getting back together with me. I’ve tried to do your 30 day no contact but I see her everyday at school and it’s so hard. She also pops up to me on snapchat, replying to my stories. I feel like I’m driving her away further and further and I’m scared she will move on from me. She says she still loves me and cares about me but I don’t know what she’s honest about and what’s she lying to me about to no hurt my feelings. We were together for a year and a half. I’ve watched most of your videos but she won’t even talk to me normally because she still thinks we will argue in the future if we got back together. It would be very appreciated if you replied I’m just lost right now and I don’t know what to do.

[@BradBrowning]

You need to be giving her space, so in your case, do limited contact. Actually I get this question a lot so I wouldn't be surprised if you've found your answer before I even get to it -- if you've checked my other videos, that is. In this type of situation, try to limit your contact with your ex. And by that I mean only interact with him/her "only" when absolutely necessary. Watch one of the latest videos I've posted here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck Your case is actually one of the few cases where the “no contact” rule is an exception...but DON'T initiate random contact in any way and don’t make any unnecessary chitchats, all right? I've discussed it in these videos, as well as how to handle it: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sHzLf3ueetKMg8k but read my Ex Factor Guide because you still ought to go through the basics as well. I've posted an overview on how to get your ex back on an earlier vid,check it out as it's all there, but with the guide, you'll have an in-depth view on how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, etc. since good timing is essential at www.breakupbrad.com Okay? Take care!