Getting a Fresh Start in Life | Reset Your Life When You Feel Stuck | Picky Girl Travels Podcast #33

[@nudaylady6025]

This was right on time for me today.. I'm going through a depression. I have been feeling very stuck. Got a birthday next week and getting older 69. I have decided to make an escape plan. Paying off my bills and saving money. Even though I only get a $1000 a month Social security. I'm going to see about Going to Mexico or Ecuador. So thank you thank you thank you

[@its_cinnamoni]

you can do it. don't focus on age. live your next journey with the joy you choose, not what was chosen for you. I'm on a similar journey.

[@junquette3000]

You can do this. Be open to the various possibilities that are out here that will help you along the way. I hope you make it to the country of your choice soon.

[@wanda9688]

Amen, Sister. Thank you for sharing. Both of you are on point.

[@fdoctor79]

Rooting for you! You may want to look into therapy and/or counseling.

[@reece_ease]

I wish you well, your mindset now will be taking you to higher heights..💕💕

[@twsmaltz]

And its never too late to start again no matter what our ages are! I'm 61 and I'm in a major transition for the better. And my daily affirmation is: The rest of my life will be the BEST of my life!! Onward, upward and beyond I go!

[@theculturalear7134]

When my mom passed, I felt like the ground vanished. My reason for staying in the US was gone, and that scared me as well because, while I love my siblings, they have their own families where I am just me. And I knew taking this moment of life for myself wouldn't just be about grieving, but about resetting the way I move forward. It's dually exciting and terrifying. I sold my car, and quit my job. I bought a plane ticket. But when she said it's okay to not know what that new life looks like, that is me right now. My only goal right now is to find online work before my trip so that I can support myself wherever G-d steers me.🙌🏽💌🙋🏽‍♀️

[@missrip7069]

You ARE a teacher. PERIOD. I'm an outlier: older, 63 and have hit 'reset'. WILL be exploring MX in '22. And, your guidance [will be booking 1-1 session] will help facilitate my move. I have a video request that's likely politically incorrect: Mothers that leave their children [adult], though they've always been there, no matter what. How to let go, emotionally, financially. Take steps? Slam the door? If the topic's too deep, I won't be mad. I know discussing mothers that leave can be heavy. Your videos are very good and inspiring. Thank you.

[@MsSassyMT]

This is just what I needed to hear this morning. Thank you for your insight. This was everything! I'm definitely comfortable but not living the life that I want so I need to change that.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Glad it was helpful!

[@monique9003]

I needed to hear this. I will be 40 years old in a few months. Please keep up the good work putting this out in the atmosphere. It's time for a shift and realignment.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Welcome to the 40 club. You're in for a treat because life only gets better after 40.

[@monique9003]

@@AdaliaAborisade I'm looking forward to the 40 club. I took notes on this episode and will take a hard look at where I need to adjust my mindset. Thank you!

[@favored4life]

Loved this! I'm 41 years old this year and definitely felt a shift last year. We're visiting Portugal this coming January with my 3 kids and hubby to explore if it's somewhere where we would like to live. Hubby and kiddies aren't 100% on board yet but I'm following my intuition. Reset is in the air; decluttering has already started in my home.

[@bev4848]

Loved it. You spoke from your heart. So many of us are in survival mode and do not realized it. Especially when we worked in hassle mode you mist likely in survival mode. That mode does not allow you to comprehend the damage you are doing to self. It's good to know how to let go and reassess your life when you can. It's a healthy way to stay grounded and true to self.

[@Refreshing_Words]

This is such a great video. I am making some hard choices now because I realize I am tethered to a certain geographic area so my daughter can attend a specific high school, but this is very expensive here and I know I need to make a change for a better quality of life.

[@lirogers8700]

preach. you, shida, stephanie...you are changing my life. thank you.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

You are most welcome

[@godwinsibanda4255]

Don't how many men you and Stephanie have subscribed, but I am one of them. I love just how you ladies have taken the bull by the horns and ain't shy to preach!! This episode was bang on - concise, clear and motivating, regardless of which direction one wants to go. I will be sharing this with a lot of women friends and colleagues, if for anything, to challenge them to step back and reflect on the 6 areas of their lives. Love it.

[@sharonraquel2669]

Your message came to me like a confirmation of what has been on my mind. I'm a classroom teacher, and I'm about to burn out....again. I'm ready to reset big time. Your advice is helping me to plan out what I can do from here. You are such a blessing!!

[@venuskirby8243]

This really poked me hard!!!!! Thank you 🙏🏽

[@twsmaltz]

Thank you Adalia for dropping your gems (as usual)!! The topic is right on time for me and your so on point (as usual)! And its

[@AdaliaAborisade]

you're welcome!

[@fdoctor79]

This episode was soo timely. Sometimes we have to look at the mirror and acknowledge we are the common denominator when it comes to certain issues in our lives. Additionally, I agree that we have to learn to be multiverse. I am an educator, researcher, classical singer, future world traveler...no one-track pony here. lol And it's important to stop entertaining or carrying those things (e.g. mindsets, habits, and people) that no longer serve you. Tfs and Happy Thanksgiving!

[@chosenjewel6588]

Thank you so much for the inspiration Coach Picky Girl Travels the World!! One day I'll be sitting down with you to have a great conversation about life and the pursuit of happiness while I travel the world, living my best life 💃💃God bless you!!⚘️🙏💛

[@AdaliaAborisade]

You're most welcome

[@darlenekeene755]

First time listening to you outside of on Stephanie Perry's KZbin channel. I'm am definitely feeling what you are saying. I have work some kind of job, any many times more than one job, since before I was 11 years old. I have taken care of family and friends in big ways. I love what I do, but I realize I work my butt off and others are making the money. I am starting to feel like Forrest Gump, I've been running so long (working long hours), and about to stop running and going "home". I am wanting to dream again and get out of the quicksand that is pulling me down. I know this is possible. Now is the time for me to reset even if it means eating a bunch of beans.

[@daisy_naples]

Great video and very good advice. I love your KZbin channel. I know you are changing many lives.

[@allsmiles3281]

I’m 29 and just viewing everything as a tool right now to get to where I want to be. That’s made it easier for me and releasing limiting beliefs. Daily process for sure but grateful for the revelation.

[@123abc4u]

It is April 2023 and I am using this to create a binder for my quarterly reset. This remains helpful. Thank you!

[@AdaliaAborisade]

You are so welcome!

[@ffini_michberry4874]

Needed. Woke up with things to do plan and was wrestling that blah feeling mixed with solid dose of anxi : self talk “ya still have to get this stuff done”. So hearing what you share(d) totally helpful. Content that reminds me to be gentle to myself and allow space to breathe in the baby steps of what can I accomplish today, so fight off the overwhelming aspects at bay. Many thank you’s!!

[@Inunity2020]

Right on tiiiiiiime! I just had a similar epiphany this morning and shared it with a friend. If we step out of the matrix, we would realize a lot of what we do don’t derive from our own personal vision or desire. E.g. I enjoyed doing project mgt/ product ownership, but the reality is I chose a job presented to me by Corporate America that I felt best aligned with me in that moment. However, for what I truly envision for myself, that skill set is not the main one in which I need to make money. So, it is a HUUUUGEEE risk to walk away from what you know and ‘enjoy’ but it’s also a great opportunity to finally step out the matrix and move into the direction you were always mean to do.

[@BigSisDoula]

You ALWAYS bring the good word!

[@pamelawright4739]

Thank you so much for this Adalia! Evaluating & paying attention to what you don’t want, can help you figure out what you do want & then you can figure things out from there. Working the process backwards I like this so much! I always appreciate you & your videos, for sharing what you learned & what helped you on your journey.💗💗💗

[@reece_ease]

Great talk once again. I've forwarded this video to a near and dear person who needs to hear about resetting.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Thanks for sharing!

[@tracyardelia]

You are speaking to me, Sis. I definitely need a reset, and I'm in the process of doing it. 🤗

[@layla8647]

This Episode is on 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥!

[@denacollins352]

I'm up early having a coffee with my favorite utuber. Thanks

[@msbriscoe2003]

Hey lady, I enjoyed this podcast today because it gave me some questions that I really need to ask myself

[@venuskirby8243]

I loved this coffee chat! 🤗. Real talk 🙌🏽

[@tamloves2598]

Thank you thank you so much, this was confirmation in so many ways for me. RESET!!!!! This was another great post Adalia😊

[@wendycooper1255]

Love this episode I quit my job and in need a reset. .

[@theevolvingmindset333]

I loved your insight and perspective. Very thought-provoking. Thank you!

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@ejcrittenden7956]

Exactly what I needed. Thank you.

[@living42dayonly92]

Great insight...thanks for sharing.

[@dwalker6868]

On the re-set

[@layla8647]

Me asking my co-worker: Hey if u win the jackpot/lotto u coming tomorrow? Co-worker: Of course, 5 Million will go fast 😳 Me: Get ur head checked 🙄

[@wendycooper1255]

I enjoyed this episode.

[@BeckyInCa]

Thank you 👍

[@dwalker6868]

Good morning thank you

[@TracyCreator]

This was really good. Thank you!

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Glad you liked it!

[@kathyhampton_wellandaware]

Such a great video. Clear, practical and right on time!

[@lynnmcmillian5137]

Love The Eye Opening 🥀🥀🥀🎆🎆🎆

[@yannip2083]

TOTALLY AGREED on all points! Great inspiration!

[@AsiaticBW]

thank you, oooxxx, sister

[@dorrissmith1427]

Good information...all of it. The relationships or #5 hit the nail on the head. Very motivating examples. I appreciate you!

[@pamulatransou847]

You preached this thang!!!🗣🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 needed this 💕

[@LifeWithVetta]

Awesome video! Hits on so many levels. Thanks, girlie

[@dollieunsudimi6889]

Thank you. I’m so lost. I have more clarity now.

[@laskajonesyard6546]

This was an excellent podcast as usual. Thank you!

[@FreeToBe_Me]

I feel seen…and attacked, lol! 😁😅😭

[@AdaliaAborisade]

🤣

[@pilarhelene9233]

YES!! Thank you Adalia!!

[@lovelyday6]

Perfect podcast episode! Thank you 😊

[@linguisticcolors]

Great advice!

[@MoniqueJoinerSiedlak_Author]

Had to share this out. 💯

[@AdaliaAborisade]

I appreciate it!

[@kchamberlain941]

Hi there I’ve been following your content. I would like to know a round figure that’s need for “ F U money”? I’m that ripe age, turn 39 on Monday 11/29. Really would like to just walk away from everything. I’ve been saving, but not sure how much is enough. I also was apart of exodus summit this year. Thanks for being so real in your content. TIA. Be blessed

[@AdaliaAborisade]

I can't give you a number but I can give you the things you should consider when calculating your own number. This video covers all of it. kzbin.info/www/bejne/q6TcqZWwmNiBq80

[@marthathesavoylook2548]

Hello Thanks for the Great information. I have a question, can you collect SSN while living abroad?

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Yes you can!

[@LesandaMooreAuthor]

Another great video.